I was at chipoltle today and see a cute 6 slider brunette with a fat ass in front of me ordering. She gets her food and sits down at those little mini bar stools.

I get my food and sit a seat apart from her and start eating. I wasn't going to approach but i then reminded myself of my new years goal (of approaching anything that makes my dick hard) so i open

me : hey where is your gym at?

Her; huh?

Me; you look like a personal trainer

Her; oh no

at that moment the conversation died and i felt like shit. I thought to myself 'you know what im going to keep going fuck it'. I wait a few min or so then open again.

Me; chipotle is so good ive had it twice and im addicted

Her; oh yea

A few more min of silence, im thinking come on Sketness lets push through this. I start again.

Me; how far does x town go on from here

Her; its about two or three more blocks

Me; oh are you from around here

Her; yea

Me; did you just move back home

Her; no ive been here my hole life

Me; is there a lot to do here

Her; not really

Me; its nice that San Francisco is pretty close, like 20min or so away

Her; I love San Francisco

Me; yea its a cool city do you go there often

Her; yea every once and a while

From there the conversation ended. I continue eating and pull out my phone.

just then she finishes her food and gets up and says

Her; bye have a nice day

Me; yea have a good one

i was not expecting that, it was definitely a learning experience to push through interactions even when it feels like shit.

NEXT!

(12-30-2014 01:14 AM)Sketness Wrote:  I was at chipoltle today and see a cute 6 slider brunette with a fat ass in front of me ordering. She gets her food and sits down at those little mini bar stools.

I get my food and sit a seat apart from her and start eating. I wasn't going to approach but i then reminded myself of my new years goal (of approaching anything that makes my dick hard) so i open

me : hey where is your gym at?

Her; huh?

Me; you look like a personal trainer

Her; oh no

at that moment the conversation died and i felt like shit. I thought to myself 'you know what im going to keep going fuck it'. I wait a few min or so then open again.

Me; chipotle is so good ive had it twice and im addicted

Her; oh yea

A few more min of silence, im thinking come on Sketness lets push through this. I start again.

Me; how far does x town go on from here

Her; its about two or three more blocks

Me; oh are you from around here

Her; yea

Me; did you just move back home

Her; no ive been here my hole life

Me; is there a lot to do here

Her; not really

Me; its nice that San Francisco is pretty close, like 20min or so away

Her; I love San Francisco

Me; yea its a cool city do you go there often

Her; yea every once and a while

From there the conversation ended. I continue eating and pull out my phone.

just then she finishes her food and gets up and says

Her; bye have a nice day

Me; yea have a good one

i was not expecting that, it was definitely a learning experience to push through interactions even when it feels like shit.

NEXT!

Exactly. It's the effort that matters. You already have more balls than 80% of guys. And chin up: Nothing to lose, everything to gain.

@Sketness, definately a tough approach and yes it does take balls. Keep doing approaches like this and night game becomes a joke.

One thing to keep in mind though, even though this is super specific, when opening a girl and already talking,
try this: statement-statement-question.

I took it from a read on Heartiste. It creates a very good conversation flow where you sound very dominate and leading while not asking to many questions. It prevents you from sounding like you are qualifying yourself, while delivering a confident tone in the conversation.

(12-30-2014 01:14 AM)Sketness Wrote:  I was at chipoltle today

I get my food and sit a seat apart from her

at that moment the conversation died

I think this girl was hungry. When girls are hungry, food becomes more important than sex. I think you should have let her eat before you approached her. We all want a little bit of privacy when we first sit down for a meal.

After eating, we become more relaxed, more at ease, more "approachable".

I never approach girls while they are eating, I always wait until they look up from there food with that satisfied look on their face.

Coming home alone on NYE but not for lack of approaches, here's the log. Planned to meet a buddy up from out of state to hit the town. He texted saying he was headed out to a public space where there were fireworks and a bonfire so I got home from an extended work trip, finally chainsawed a path through a tree that fell on my long stairs/car two weeks ago, showered and headed out. Approaching the nearest group to me at the bonfire as I walked up there was a guy right off to the side literally rolling around on the ice at 900PM. Loudly "Somebody started way too fucking early tonight". Laughter and integrated the group, of whom I wound up knowing a couple. Not a single, single woman at the gathering so hung out for a bit and left to go to my buddy's, who had already left the fire.

Drove to a restaurant/bar where another friend was playing keyboard in a 3 piece, set up right next to the door as we walked in. Gave a fist pump as we entered, and he stopped talking to say hi side of the mic, nothing beats a little social proof. An older guy I knew who had helped me out years before was sitting right there so I talked with him for a minute and then moved on and opened the first set behind him - older couple and a borderline bangable (legal age) daughter. To dad who was wearing the shirt of the bar "Hey, he's been there and has the shirt to prove it". He laughed, brief exchange and moved on. Smiled and greeted several others who I didn't know on the way to the rear of the bar to keep the social proof going, scored a "Happy New Year" top hat, and settled into talking with a distant acquaintance's younger ex-wife and the group around. I would, and in all honesty likely will end up banging her but not tonight.

Moved onto the next bar and a couple decent cold approaches. Cute blonde in a "Happy New Year" tiara talking to a guy, no physical contact or vibe so I cut in between them wearing my hat - "Baby, we've got matching bling, it was meant to be!"
"What?"
"I love your tiara, totally a sign"
"Oh, haha, I forget I'm wearing this"
Talked for 30 seconds and ejected, planing to reopen later but didn't have the chance.

Big approach of the night was the hottest girl in the bar with a barely bangable, chubby friend. Saw them standing there while I was talking with my buddy maybe five minutes after walking in and saw hottie glance over from my peripheral vision and then move to a closer position. Had to pause for a moment to suck up some anxiety and then walked over to her friend "Hey, I'm Gorgiass, don't think we've met before", shook hand and then "Hey I'm Gorgiass" to hottie. Gave me a funny look but shook my hand. "You guy's locals?" (Terrible follow up, I know. She was distractingly hot.) they nod and say yes. I immediately followed with "What's up with these marks on everyone's hand and why didn't we get one? I feel like the doorman shafted us."
"Oh, it's a club you guys aren't in. We're like over here and you guys are like someplace totally different".
"Sorta like henna but just way cooler?"
"Yeah way cooler"
"So where do we sign up? Wait I don't have to like cut my hand and sign over my soul do I?"
"Totally, lots of blood involved"
"Oh damn. Wait I think I got a paper cut earlier, I know it's here somewhere (pretending to look at my hand)"
"No no, that' won't work"
"Ah, well we are from XXX, pretty much a different world over there.
"Where?"
"XXX" blank look "Wait, you don't know where XXX is? I thought you guys were locals, what rock have you been hiding under?"
Looking sheepish "I made that up, I'm from FL"
"Ah, I should've known. You're way too attractive to be from XYX. I'm planning on going to Miami later this winter. Got free airfare and a cruise to the Bahamas for sitting through some timeshare tour a few months ago"
"Really? You know where the cruise ships are in Miami?"
"No, never been before"
"Oh, I can literally see them from my place"
"No shit! Well you're the perfect person to talk to about where I should go when I'm there!"

With hindsight I think I should have gone for the number here but it seemed a little soon and we were vibing so I ran with it. Meantime, my buddy was talking to her friend but wasn't really into her and I could see she wanted her friend back. Tried to involve her occasionally but there's only so much one guy can do. Talked with hottie for 15-20 minutes, then swapped to talk to her friend for a moment to try to reel her back in while my buddy occupied hottie. Bad move and wound up losing them both.

Talk with my buddy and then opened chubby girl to keep my state going - two beers in her hands "Damn, two fisting it. Somebody's having a happy new year" and toasted both glasses and her paper horn. "Oh, thought that was like a fluted champagne glass". Brief chat, she wanted it and I didn't.

My buddy left early to catch the mountain the following day, I talked with a couple other guys I had met briefly before and one friend from years before. Talking with him noticed a cute girl dressed in all black glance over. Sitting with a group but not talking to them. This was almost closing time. She got up and said to her group more or less "I'm leaving, are you coming with me or not?" The group divied up as she headed for the door, I walked after her "Excuse me."
"Yeah?"
"I thought you were really attractive and couldn't let you just walk off without saying hi. I'm Gorgiass" - shake hands
"Thanks, I'm Kate... But I have a girlfriend"
"Oh." (Not a response I was prepared for)
"Yeah I wouldn't lie to you about that, I've been seeing a girl for a year and a half. You're a good looking guy and I hope you do well though"
"OK Kate. Well it was nice to meet you, have a happy new year."
"You too"

Oh well. The holiday week is still young, I'll add a notch or two this week or die trying. Been racking up a fair amount of approaches during the day in work gear (construction) with mixed results, but that's a different game and another post for another day.

Was at a rock bar for new years with my main, and the chick on stage performing was giving me the I want to fuck you eyes the whole time she was performing. My main even calls me out and says i am obviously flirting with her. After her performance I convince one of the guys in the group to go take a picture with her and when he does I swoop in and we talk for like 5-8 mins while my main is just starring out the corner of her eye. I tell her to add on FB as getting the number would be too balsy. Anyway she leaves but not before giving me a super long (20 second) tight hug. Interested to see where things go from here.

On the the way back from Frankfurt to Kingston, ON I managed to open three separate times.

First was in the security screening line at Pearson International - I opened by remarking how "no matter how many times you go through this, it never seems to get any easier." We chatted for a couple minutes but she mentioned she was coming back from seeing her boyfriend's family in London, so I let it slide.

Second was while I was waiting at my gate for my flight to Kingston. My flight had been delayed by two hours, and I saw a cute-looking girl sitting solo so I walked over and sat across from her. I noticed her glancing at me momentarily at least twice (IOI) so I opened by asking if she knew why the flight was delayed, and she opened fairly warmly - we had a free-flowing conversation for about a good 15 minutes about travel and school. I decided to test out a new piece of material that I had thought up, by asking their name and then expressing surprise/disappointment - when they ask why, I'd go with "I try and stay away from _______s - I dated a couple ______s before and they always had a princess attitude about them" with a smirk. She laughed and said that was a reasoning that she'd never heard before - I think it's a piece worth keeping. She was showing me the timings for the flight on her computer and I think I made a mistake here by asking to sit next to her - I had been running from my gate to get to Passport Control and my luggage, since I though I was pressed for time, as well as having been cooped up with a jacket on for an 8 hour flight - so (slightly embarrassed to admit this) I probably wasn't smelling the best. I think that might have been why, since she shut down soon after I moved to the seat beside her and stopped holding up the conversation. Or, maybe she decided that she just wasn't interested, I don't know.

Third approach was in the taxi from Kingston airport to my dormitory. She was in the last taxi there and offered to split it with me. Petite girl, about a 7, with shoulder-length black hair. We had a pretty good conversation, with her asking me lots of personal questions, so I decided to feel out her availability to go for the number. Unfortunately, she's a med student and was going to be really busy for the next few months, so I decided not to go for the number. Besides, who wants postgrads, anyways?

All in all, no numbers but a good start-up to the New Year back home in Canada.

HSLD

Saw two girls dressed exactly the same.

Opened with "why are you two dressed the same?"

Older sister "we're sisters"

Me " you must be the older sister "

Older sister "yeah haha"

Me " you're not from around here are you? "

Older sister "nope"

Me" whereabouts? "

Younger sister "Indonesia"

Me "cool, are you visiting or are do you live here? "

Older sister "I'm leaving next week, shes a student here"

Me" ah I see, what's your major?"

Younger sister "business"

Me" well why come here to study? It's such a boring place"

Younger sister "oh it's near to home"

Older sister "you're not from around here either are you? Judging from your accent"

Me" nope, guess where I'm from"

Ramble ramble ramble

Me "hey I have to go to the ATM, but your sister is very attractive. You're the elder sister and I would appreciate it if you could give me your blessing; I'd like to take your sister out to coffee"

Older sister "yes.. No"

Me" yes or no?"

Older sister "no haha, we just met"

Me" yeah that's why we should get coffee"

Older sister " if you see her again then you can ask her out, singapores so small after all"

Me" ok how about this. I'll give her my numbers, if she decides to be sneaky, then I'll have my coffee with her and you wouldn't know about it"

Older sister "sure"

Me" take out your phone"

Older sister "wait, read it out loud"

Me "98------"

Well I have Togo to the ATM, bye.

I'll probably not hear from her but what the hell. That was my Hail Mary attempt at asking her sister out. Thoughts on what I should do of the situation arises again ?

You guys need to start hitting on blondes. They are as easy as helping a 3rd grader cheat on his math test

(01-06-2015 07:16 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  You guys need to start hitting on blondes. They are as easy as helping a 3rd grader cheat on his math test

Do you mean blondes in general, even American ones?

(01-06-2015 07:20 PM)Katdogbirdduck Wrote:  

(01-06-2015 07:16 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  You guys need to start hitting on blondes. They are as easy as helping a 3rd grader cheat on his math test

Do you mean blondes in general, even American ones?

Yes. You're in Iceland so you're probably tired of blondes lol

Yeah, I fly every once in a while to Iceland, and the blondes get you to boredom sometimes.
But not to the extent of boredom and rage the toxic attitude of American blondes leads a guy to, I just can't stand their style.
But with game one can conquer any girl I'd say, it's just a matter of time, one chick takes a lot of time and effort to pull, the other one pretty easily.

As i enter the gym today i am greeted by this cute trainer that i am slowly gaming. We chat for a brief min ( she is telling me about her ear piercing that we talked about yesterday) I make a joke and she laughs and im go on my way.

Now, about 3/4 the way through my workout. I am on the squat rack when this hard 8 slim short brunette comes and sets up at the squat rack next to me.

Its funny because literary every 5min a guy she knows is coming up to her to "see how she is doing"

I ignore her during the early part of my sets, until my workout calls for a set of 10lbs that were located on her rack ( her squat rack, although her fake rack set pretty nice i must say) I digress.

I slowly take out one of my earphones, squint at her and open.

Me; are you using that 10lb over there?

Her; oh no you can take it

Me; cool... you wanna go get it for me ( I flash her one of my charming smiles)

Her; whaa... ( a look of confusion/ "i cant believe he just said that" crossed her face as she walks over and grabs the 10lb)

Her; do you want a back message or a water while im at it haha

Me; i prefer a gatorade though if you giving back messages ill take that to ha

Her; haha

I rack the weight, pause the re-open her again

Me; where did you get those tony the tiger pants from? ( she is wearing yoga pants with a blue tiger print on them)

Her; what! haha they dont look like that haha

Me; they look like the third world version of what you would normally get in a box of flakes

Her; what hahah

she starts to say somthing but i just put in my headphones and re-start my workout

about 2 mins later she comes near the weights near my rack and i open again

Me; are you trying to steal my weights

Her; no haha its just that your weights looked off

Me; hey when i want a gatorade or a message ill ask hah

Her; haha

after that one of her male "friends" came up and she was hurried of to another part of the gym.

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From the above interaction I think that I discovered two things.

When it comes to girls in general, especially cute girls:

1. You have to approach them with something different

I think about all of the guys who have hit on her in the gym, and i can bet you that none of them would have the balls to say what i said to
her.

And the crazy thing about it is... she ate it up. I believe because my approach was something different

2. Its been said many times on this forum that when you take on the mentality of a high valued individual that you begin to act like a high valued person.

I have started to view myself as a hot girl would.

Meaning that I've started to ask myself "what would a hot girl with options do" and do that.

This as greatly changed my mentality, so where before I would be intimidated by a cute girl. Now I just think "I have way more to offer than this chick, let me go see if she is even interesting enough for me"

Also I have started to have fun with approaches. I'll go into an approach with the mentality of "let me see if i can make this girl laugh". Lately its been working pretty good, i still have to work on a strong close.

anyways keep approaching boys

Saw a MILFy Latina-looking woman in coffee shop. Dressed very stylishly with a shirt that had the colors of the Colombian (and I guess many other) flag. It looked kind of like a Colombian ruana (shawl-type thing) so I was almost 100% sure she was from there. Stood up and walked around her as she waited for her coffee to check her out. Was going to refill my tea and talk to her but the barista took too damn long so I just set down my cup and walked up close to her so she wouldn't get away.

me: Hey are you Colombian?
her: No, I'm actually a mix of black and white.
me: Ahh good mix. Your shirt is the colors of the Colombian flag so I thought you were from there. I was so sure of it I almost started talking to you in Spanish.
her: Nope but it's funny because people always think I'm Mexican or from somewhere else wherever I am.
me: Yeah (I touch her shoulder and hold it as I step back and keep my hand there and kind of give her an up and down with my eyes) well you look good. You take care of yourself well.
her: So you're fluent in Spanish...(BLAH BLAH BLAH conversation continues)

I did not get her number because we kept talking and I realized I was going to be late for a meeting but I will see her again at this coffee house and hook it up. She was had a really sexy vibe for a ~40 year old woman and was light-skinned black with freckles on her face and a tight body. I could tell she was impressed that I went up and talked to her in the shop that was very crowded and probably liked the attention from a younger guy. I think I made her day and she pumped me up too having a sexy, feminine older woman respond like that.

Special thanks to Giovanny for constant inspiration and everyone else as well. It's funny because when I approach I sometimes think of Giovanny's posts, when I cook I sometimes think of TheDude/Veloce's posts, etc. I really appreciate everyone on the forum, even the Little Darks. Thanks y'all.

Hey guys, long time lurker, new member - first after my intro post

Inspired by Travesty444's approach diary I decided to transition to daygame after nightgaming (bar/lounge) for many years. Looking forward to contributing.

Focusing on daygame now, but approaches below are a combination of day/night

Night 1
1. approached 2set [4 blonde, 6.5 brunette] at a bar on the westside. I was 2 wines in, opened with asking her choice in wine & proceeded to order something else. Could tell right away she was into it with positive body language while the 4 immediately transitioned in future-cockblock, need-attention mode. Rapped to her about some mundane things (my skills have gotten rusty from lack of approaching) but since visual attraction was there she put up with it. Slowly, a I warmed up, the interaction got better and I did a good disqualification move by pointing out a dude scooping her hard letting her know he's 'dying to talk to her'. After getting my drink I stepped away to see what else was up

2. approached a 2 set (3.5 indian, 5.5 blonde) - was warmed up and liquored up by now so the flow was smoother. Pretty direct - hey whats up with you girls tonight opener - and got them talking about why they were there. Indian girl tried to cockblock/protect but I kep the mood light and engaged in a lot of eye contact/smiling. They were self proclaimed feminists so it was open season on teasing. Indian chicks friend shows up acting weird & thankfully she leaves for a bit to talk to this girl. I go direct on the blondie who is older, prob 34. I knew she was attracted so I attempted to build rapport - which is something I m looking to improve on - but it was interesting. She basically said shes over the cock carousel and is looking for LTRs so she refused to give the number but I enjoyed the interaction - it was pretty fresh and no bs. Indian chicks comes back & I bounce

Go back to the first set and lo & behold Mr Fixation is part of the crew - which worked out well. I ask the 6.5 brunette to save my seat as I go to the restroom. As I was coming back I noticed a 6.5blonde who had been eying me earlier who I couldnt resist talking to. So w/o thinking of bird in the hand I opened her and her 4set. I was pretty drunk but at this point I was coasting on good vibes so regardless of the bs I was spouting things were working favourlably. Interesting note - her friend said you must have huge balls to talk to 4 girls in a bar So note to guys who wonder about reactions they will receive - usually courage is applauded as long as your delivery is smooth and not awkward (as you'll see below). 65 Blonde gives me her number as she exits. As I was talking to her I notice the brunette bounce with a pissed off look because shed been saving my seat.

Later on I bike up to another bar and the brunette is there. I try to work it but she is shutdown and unforgiving - oh well - I strayed to the blonde colour for a reason. I did talk to a 5 asian for a second but not worth outlining

Day 2:
More biking on the strand looking for targets. Saw a decent one at a coffee shop but wearing headphones - havent worked up the daygame courage to open that yet. Ended up biking down to a popular coffee shop that usually have 8s/9s/10s rolling in and out nonstop. Old wing who is now married shows up - best wing I ever had - and I tell him I'm getting signals from a decent well-deressed HB7 brunette. I'm running off biking adrenaline and from reading the various approaches here so I open her up on the way to the restroom. Mentally slowed down as I got close (movement speed), smiled and talked about her kindle. We had a smooth conversation, turns out she is russian from SF and had a good job. We talk, shes leaving the next day and I number close with plans to meet later

Night 2
- I convince my married wing to roll with me to a popular spot in west hollywood. Russian said she had meetings but would maybe meet me but I knew it was a yes. We show up and I order a wine and immediately open up 2 late 20s brunettes from LBC. One is a 4, other is a 7.5 with a sexy latina type vibe with just enough plastic surgery to keep me+ wing interested. I warm up the 4 trying to get at the 7.5 and finally shift over and let the wing take the grenade. 7.5 is pretty f*** dumb but thats no prob for me. Pharmaceutical sales girl and that just increases my need to slay. I'm transitioning from attraction to rapport trying to get with their lets-go-dance program. They had driven up for the night & I could tell I was looking at somewhat of a great lead. And then, what you expect to happen happened. Russian shows up and she isnt a 7, actually a 5, doesnt drink and a boring personality. I'm stressing because I was the pharma chick so I try to pawn the russian to my wing who is laughing. Pharma isnt stoked with this turn of events - I realize I couldve played em off each other but pharma was GTG (good to go) so she wasnt interested in jealousy games. I tried to number close her but had to entertain the russian. At this point, my annoyance was evident and I let the russian go to her hotel and lost the pharma chick. The negative side effects of rusty game.

Day 3/4
- opened a blonde at a coffee shop with her headphones on - turns out she is swedish. My approach was weak, supplicating, apologetic, self deprecating and she had tattoes so I should've ramped up asshole to 11. I did get her number but I knew it was useless. Texted, no response, saw her again the next day lol - with a ok friend. It was interesting, she was trying to get me to pay attention, I bought in went by and she went cold. Shouldve just cut her out. Havent seen her since but my initial impression lost it
- opened a 8 walking with her grocery bag on my way to work. Saw her walking and I parked my car in front of her about 20 yds and acted like I was on my phone. Didnt make eye contact as she past my me and I walked up to her opened her with 'you are really cute, do you mind if I talk to you for a second'. 4 errors right there, no eye contact, stalking from behind, asking for her attention, telling her shes hot. She was young, for sure going to the resident community college, her body was banging and she had a nose ring. She responded with 'NO I DONT WANT TO OK'. Hard rejection. Being a older player (36) who is getting into daygame after a long time it was bit of jolt in addition to the adrenaline rush from the interaction. It was hard to calm down at work rest of the day - but I m sure that goes better.
- There have been a couple of more approaches not worth mentioning. There was 1 at whole foods at night where I shuldve asked for a digit but didnt

~ 7-8 approaches
~ 3 numbers
- 1 close [HB6.5 blonde from night 1]

Takeaways:
- frame needs to be solid
- dont be apologetic & be in a carefree mood
- when you start approaching+ day gaming, you feel like chasing every semi-fine to fine chick you see during the day. If you work yourself up and dont approach you feel frustrated
- its surprisingly hard to find solo hot chicks when your mind is in daygame mode
- you have to be aware of your surroundings so you dont come off as a stalker/creeper waiting for the right moment

Questions:
- anyone have experience/suggestions with switching context from being in work mode to game mode for the lunch break? I have a pretty stressful gig and that naturally is a game killer but I want to talk advantage of lunch break game
- any techniques to calm down after a hard rejection besides just letting time do its thing. If I m getting shutdown at lunch I dont want that to bleed into work

- as an aside, I've run a search but has anyone done a LA country (westside/weho/hwood) bar/lounge datasheet yet? I'm thinking of doing one but I wanted to dbl check

Thanks Travesty444, enjoying your SB approach thread, keep it up

^Nice first post, keep it up! Inhaling slowly, holding, and exhaling slowly a few times while thinking of recent good approaches/bangs helps put me in a good state. I don't have a social job so any conversation helps warm up, even a few back and forths with the clerk at the lunch counter. Been trying to take better advantage of my lunch breaks too.

Thanks Giorg - good call on the 'warm up'. Elderly convo with anyone to get you extroverted.

Approached a hb5 blonde at a coffee shop while with a co worker and she was a straight cunt not even acknowledging me. She ended up looking like a bitch in front of the barista and t co worker because I was indirect making conversation. For 5-10 min I was pretty pissed inside and wanted to call her on it but I let it slide becuse she was with her aunt and acting like she was way hotter than she was.

Accepting this bs from American chicks and disregarding it and charging it to the game is the best offense. Easier for sales guys since they have thick skin from getting doors shut all day but more difficult for tradesmen. Still stoked I made a move.

First approach of 2015. Two Brazilian tourists in Rockefeller Center, a blonde and a brunette. My target was the blonde, but the brunette looked good too.

Opened the pair of them by doing my usual approach to the blonde directly, then telling the brunette that she looked very lovely too to bring her in the conversation. Blonde was attracted immediately, but I noticed the brunette's body language was a bit shaky though it wasn't entirely negative.

I asked too many fucking questions though. I keep telling myself to stop this but it still ends up happening. I commanded their attention with dominant body language and the like though. Overall it was far from my best game but I did get the blonde's phone number out of it and texted her about an hour ago, let's see what happens. I am definitely rusty.

The most gratifying thing about the affair was that a friend who I hadn't seen in a year was there and he just couldn't believe what I was doing. As soon as I opened the girls he basically skedaddled, but I called him over later on and he's a good conversationalist so he ran some interference game on the brunette. That might be a pretty vain thing to say but it was gratifying to be able to get to this point where you're opening two hot girls and showing your buddy first hand how much you improved.

Was at a major club in Miami last night (Wednesday) with a free ticket, but the crowd sucked. Mostly dudes, including one 65-year old guy, and most of the girls were let up for free into the VIP area. Only approached one girl...I noticed all the others were dancing in self-protective groups or were rapidly shooting down other dudes (even saw some fat lizard cockblocking her two more attractive friends).

Anyway, my solo night was a bust. I sat outside a hotel lounge (this is in South Beach mind you, so it's still crowded at 3 AM). Out of nowhere, this decently attractive black chick has her cab van driver slow down and waves me to come over and talk to her, asking why I was sitting alone. I just lied and said that I was waiting for my friend from a nearby restaurant. She said she was "going to the club"...I got the strong vibe that she wanted me to come (and maybe was a little drunk).

Either way, I always heard that black girls were more aggressive than other girls and just witnessed it. Might've pounced on her if I weren't creeped out.

(01-14-2015 10:09 PM)Libertas Wrote:  First approach of 2015. Two Brazilian tourists in Rockefeller Center, a blonde and a brunette. My target was the blonde, but the brunette looked good too.

Opened the pair of them by doing my usual approach to the blonde directly, then telling the brunette that she looked very lovely too to bring her in the conversation. Blonde was attracted immediately, but I noticed the brunette's body language was a bit shaky though it wasn't entirely negative.

I asked too many fucking questions though. I keep telling myself to stop this but it still ends up happening. I commanded their attention with dominant body language and the like though. Overall it was far from my best game but I did get the blonde's phone number out of it and texted her about an hour ago, let's see what happens. I am definitely rusty.

The most gratifying thing about the affair was that a friend who I hadn't seen in a year was there and he just couldn't believe what I was doing. As soon as I opened the girls he basically skedaddled, but I called him over later on and he's a good conversationalist so he ran some interference game on the brunette. That might be a pretty vain thing to say but it was gratifying to be able to get to this point where you're opening two hot girls and showing your buddy first hand how much you improved.

Hey man liked the approach. What do you mean you commanded their attention by dominant body language? Could you elaborate?

(01-15-2015 01:25 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  Hey man liked the approach. What do you mean you commanded their attention by dominant body language? Could you elaborate?

I stopped them, talked in a dominant masculine voice, and set myself facing the blonde looking right into her eyes - though I should have looked at her in a more sexual way with that certain glow. It was funny because my friend who was hanging back said he could tell she was very attracted by her eye contact (her eyes had a certain glow that was apparent to him maybe even more than me!).

I basically imposed my frame on the situation by stopping their motion and immediately going direct, conveying my intent, and starting up a conversation. Open body language, feet and chest pointed at the girl, etc.

Anyway she answered my text a few hours ago thanking me for telling her she looked cute in her scarf. I went straight ahead and teased her that she'll be buying drinks, let's see if that works. I need a better text routine.

Writing about getting approached.

Was at one of my routine bars I normally go to and there was a table of some cute French girls.
About 20 minutes in I see one the girls get up and leave her table, comes up to me and says " my friend is in love with you".

Luckily her friend is hot. She brings me over to their table with pretty much organizes us so we sit together and talk.

It was a breath of fresh air on how obvious and straight up this girl made it. Of course I still had to run game on her.

Should have a date lined up in a couple days.

Gotta love when things like this happen.

Went out on a friday night to a meetup for expats, was socially warmed up there. Then I decided to go to a club at 2 am.

First approach:
Saw a girl, who was climbing on the bar counter to order a drink. I tell her this way she is not gonna get her drink quick, she gives me a very bad look. Fucking arrogant bitch! I just smile at her.Then, she gets her drink and goes to this jacked up dude and they start making out.

Second:
Saw this cute blonde. She was with 2 guy friends and a girl. Full of energy and continuously dancing. I walk to her and deliver this opener.

me: Did you pass your exams?
she:(hysterically laughing) how do you know that?
me:look at the way you are dancing.
she: (still laughing) It's just the way I am.

Then, I didn't let the conversation stop just kept on going and she asks me to dance with her. We danced and I walk back to the bar counter. She dances alone for a while and then comes to me and asks me that why am I not dancing. I just tell her that I am not good at it. We talk again and exchange numbers.She leaves with her friends.

Third:
Saw two girls dancing. First one had short blonde hair. She still looked hot. The other one was a brunette.The blonde was dancing way too much. I walk up to the brunette.

me:did your friend pass her exams?
she:(laughing) No, she has her exams in 2 weeks, but I am sure she will pass. She is a bright student.

Then we talk some BS about the blonde and kept on pointing towards her. The brunette tries to set me up with the blonde but I was more interested in her. And I can't match the energy level of blonde, so I know it won't work and she doesn't look interested anyway. The, a guy just walks by the blonde and in 5 seconds they kiss (wtf!), exchange numbers and the guy leaves her (I am sure that she isn't gonna reply to his texts). The brunette comes to give me solace. I tell her that I wasn't interested in the blonde. We start talking again, I do some kino on her. She asks me my name and what I am doing here, more personal questions and all BS. No matter whatever stupid things I say, It is making her laugh. The blonde comes back and is all over me. I get back to my target. Realising, I have built enough rapport, I go for a kiss. She puts her hand between our lips and smiles. I keep on trying at regular intervals to kiss her but she does the same thing and smiles. The DJ now plays some romantic beta song,the girl hugs me and is resting her head on my chest. I know this is the moment. I finally get a kiss. We make out for like an hour. She introduces me to her other friends. We exchange numbers and we make out some more. The club is closed. She is making her friends wait. Finally, it is time to leave.

I could have got her to my apartment but my LTR girl was there. Bad luck! None of the girls have flaked on me and are still texting. Probably, gonna set up dates this week. and this 'exam' opener is working quite well, will try it out more.

Im in the gym yesterday at a relatively slow hour. A drop-dead sexy blonde walks in. Hard 9. In never seen her before in the gym.

Iv always had trouble opening up girls at the gym, its an awkward approach, most people have headphones in, and to be honest its a relatively anti- social environment in regards to women.

As luck would have it, she comes over to my machine where I was doing incline press. I tell her she can work in with me.

Im saying to myself " you are the biggest pussy if you dont talk to her, you wont get a better chance than this"

We start talking. Shes new from the Ukraine. Even better. I thought she was American forsure. I tell her Im Canadian and I want to learn to Ukrainian, and Ill teach her Hebrew in return (this is in Tel Aviv).

We talk for about 5-10 minutes until she finishes her sets and moves on to the next machine. This is where it gets tricky.

I feel its too pre-mature to just ask for her number, but then again, I wont see again in this gym for who knows how long. I figure fuck it, Im a G, no one else in this gym is chatting her up, they all are starring with approach anxiety. Im going for the hail-marry, Im gonna try and get the insta-date.

About half an hour later, shes walks past me to leave and I say:

Me: " Hey come here a sec, Im getting a coffee after my workout, come join me"
Her: " You are done your workout?"
Me: " I have one set left"
Her: " o ok...umm
Me (cut her off while she contemplates): " Come I want to hear about the Ukraine and Ill tell you a little about Canada"
Her: " Ok sure. So ill meet you in the front?"
Me: " Yea Ill meet you out there in a about 10 mins"
Her: " Great see you out there"

Now its on. I pump out my last set, go to the change room, and get dressed in a couple minutes. I was out front in probably 5 minutes.

I told her 10 minutes. I looked at my watch, gave her lee-way of an extra 10-15 mins because I know shes a chick, and she might have showered and putting on make-up.

20+ minutes go by, and she hasnt come out yet. I start the think Im getting stood up, but theres no way she left the gym that quickly. Also why would she have accepted my insta-date. She could have said 1000 other things so she could decline.

I stick to my word, Im not sitting here like a little puppy waiting, I dip. Maybe this was a big shit test, maybe it wasnt.

If she stood me up then I know the answer. If I stood her up, then in my opinion I came out on top, and in fact this can only help me the next time I see her.

Whats your guys's opinion?

You're still sitting there?????