The Approach Thread
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RockHard · 2014-07-15 17:20:00 · #1576
(07-15-2014 11:59 AM)dancingjohn Wrote: First off the street approach of my life post learning about game. NZ Girl was asking me directions to shake shack. I started small talk with her, recalling the first few chapters of Day Bang. Talked about the summer being so nice in the city, what was she upto here etc.
But couldn't close, she was rushing to see her friends and I couldn't figure out what to say I slow her down.
That's a hard one. Takes some strong vibes to shake a girl from a mission. You'll get there, keep at it.
Since it's MILF week on RVF, I decided to go find one. I've been doing approaches daily this week, usually getting blown out quickly but a couple positive responses that I either ejected on too quickly or ran out of ramble.
Today I went for a swim, chatted up a life guard and a nanny there with some kids. Nothing worth repeating here, more warmup than anything. Then I went for a run in a nearby park. I was doing sprints on a hill and was about to head home when I saw a blonde 6 out jogging. The avoidance weasel started chattering, "but she's running"... "but she's got headphones on"... "but she's not that hot"... "but you need to get back to work". STFU, weasel. I take one last sprint up the hill thinking that I can position myself to intercept her, but that doesn't work out. So I have to dig in a little and catch her. It takes a couple blocks but I pass her and jog ahead of her a few paces and glance over - this way I know she's aware of me so I'm not sneaking up from behind. I know she sees me. Now the weasel starts up again, but I tell myself that at this point I've made my presence known and if i weasel out, I'm going to be the creep that ogled her and didn't even say hi. So I open with that time tested classic "This is great, we finally get a day that's not blazing hot". She opens right up. I ask where she's turning and she's going around the park back towards my car, so I run with her and elderly chat. She finally starts asking me questions. I play it pretty straight up with my answers which is a mistake I make a lot. Either way, we get to where she's turning off towards her house so I stop and ask for her email so we can get together sometime. Email achievement unlocked. Now to work on setting up a bible study.
simondice · 2014-07-16 11:50:00 · #1577
I just approached a girl In a building that everyone was quiet, my instinct was warning me not to approach this particular girl who looked good. Turns out she had a boyfriend. It was a little awkward, I survived.
For newbies, if you've never approached a cute girl, you need to do Roosh's program of approaching 100 girls along with working out, reading and read a good game book like bang, day bang or the alpha playboy from Christian Mcqueen.
For guys who are more seasoned, I recommend following your instinct instead of mass approach, since your instinct will always be correct, it'll tell you which girl is sexually available.
80% of the game is game (lifestyle, mindset, fitness, status, energy) the other 20% is recognizing the opportunity (following your instinct, sexual availability, interest)
For newbies, if you've never approached a cute girl, you need to do Roosh's program of approaching 100 girls along with working out, reading and read a good game book like bang, day bang or the alpha playboy from Christian Mcqueen.
For guys who are more seasoned, I recommend following your instinct instead of mass approach, since your instinct will always be correct, it'll tell you which girl is sexually available.
80% of the game is game (lifestyle, mindset, fitness, status, energy) the other 20% is recognizing the opportunity (following your instinct, sexual availability, interest)
Sketness · 2014-07-16 14:35:00 · #1578
(07-16-2014 11:50 AM)simondice Wrote: I just approached a girl In a building that everyone was quiet, my instinct was warning me not to approach this particular girl who looked good. Turns out she had a boyfriend. It was a little awkward, I survived.
For newbies, if you've never approached a cute girl, you need to do Roosh's program of approaching 100 girls along with working out, reading and read a good game book like bang, day bang or the alpha playboy from Christian Mcqueen.
For guys who are more seasoned, I recommend following your instinct instead of mass approach, since your instinct will always be correct, it'll tell you which girl is sexually available.
80% of the game is game (lifestyle, mindset, fitness, status, energy) the other 20% is recognizing the opportunity (following your instinct, sexual availability, interest)
I've noticed for my self that it's not the number of approaches its the quality of approaches that I make. I have no problem approaching its that sometimes my mind will try to talk myself out of the approach. Its defiantly something I have to battle with everyday. Ive had to really learn to trust my instinct, it has never failed me yet.
simondice · 2014-07-16 15:20:00 · #1579
I mean, after you've been doing this for a while, you kinda get a feel for which girls are DTF, even when it doesn't seem like it. When I'm wrong it's like a sense in my neck and when I'm right it's my gut saying go approach.
Cobra · 2014-07-16 19:23:00 · #1580
So after my last set of day approaches, I met up with Snowplow in Chicago. We pre-gamed a bit at his place and shared some red pill wisdom before hitting up Bar 63. FYI these approaches are from a little while back.
Let’s just say he has that place on lock. I was also the best dressed dude there, blazer included. I knew this but my anxiety still got the best of me. (I am still new to game and was probably at about only 50 something approaches at that time). As far as the crowd, we’re talking about young mostly white girls and a few black and Indian girls.
Typical private college demographic I guess. Snowplow was getting some straight up IOIs from some girls. I think he’s got that bald “I’m gonna fuck you up look” which I believe works really well for him. He indicated there were some girls sitting at the bar looking bored as a fuck. I was anxious but didn’t take me long to walk up between 2 cuties and there starts the first night approach:
First one .. Brunette 6.5.. maybe 7 if she would have had more makeup on
Me: You guys look like you’re having the most fun out of everyone here
Her(girl on the right): Actually we don’t know each other (girl on left turns away now)
Me: Blah blah
Her: Blah blah
Me: What..couldn’t hear you
Me: (as she started talking) I was just paying attention to your eyes.
Her: (giggle)
Me: Blah blah [some BS about how my grandfather taught me to read hands] Give me your hand
Her: blah blah (gives me her hand)
Me: So, I’m thinking you’re a rebel that went off to do what you wanted in life (not sure how effective this is but been using it a lot)
Her: That’s just a good guess (smiling)
Snowplow came in and we all chat..apparently she’s been there before and must have been a regular. I talked with her some more and Snowplow told me to “go in for the kill.” I had no idea if that meant makeout or number but maybe I fucked up by not going for either and just chatted for a bit. I realized I was spending too much time around her and went around to approach a few more girls.
Second one 6.5 brunette
Me: I was gonna wear the same thing tonight
Her: Haha
Me: I’m Cobra
Her: I’m Hollie
Me: As in h-o-l-l-y… (trying to spell her name, wtf)
Her: I have to go (as her friend takes her hand)
Next!
I went up to some slot machines or some shit by the dance floor in the back. It was in a secluded area and there were 2 girls talking to each other. I approached one and:
Third one possibly a 6.5
Me: Is that the Dancefloor
Her: (Looking at me and pointing to the dancefloor) Go…Dance!!!!!! (I realized her tone was condescending)
Me: (Kind of surprised and taken aback) Uh…Just wondering if that was a dancefloor…
Her: (Walking up to me putting both hands on my chest and pushing me three paces maybe) We don’t want you here!!!
Me: (Uhhhhhhh….what…the…fuck..) I don’t want you here…(walking away smiling, weak I know but I was shocked)
^^^ Worst blow out I've had I think.
By now it was getting a bit later and Snowplow asked me and the first girl to go out in the back to smoke. I was chatting with her a bit more but got a little more aggressive this time (like pulled her close a couple times). It was likely over the top and Snowplow gestured to me to stop. I think I was just pushing my limits at that point. He said he’ll meet me inside. He later told let me know that the girl thought I was coming on “too strong.” I think I should have asked for her number earlier and called it "next." Oh well, next anyways. I dropped off Snowplow to another spot and called it a night.
I feel like I’m getting better but need to continue. My progress is slow because of other obligations that cause me to lose momentum (a lack of which is known to reduce results). On top of this, I have only been hitting the "young white girl" demographic for a while with lackluster results. I think I need to switch it up. I'm not surprised at this given I need to break through that initial barrier of anxiety combined with just looking different.
I appreciate Snowplow willing to hang with me and get me in there with some DHV. And I acknowledge that any time I’m anxious, others don’t have a good time. So, I also appreciate his patience. He’s another player willing to help out. I really don’t see myself this way in the future. So one of these days, I’ll be paying it forward; I know it.
Criticisms welcome..especially on the third one..
Let’s just say he has that place on lock. I was also the best dressed dude there, blazer included. I knew this but my anxiety still got the best of me. (I am still new to game and was probably at about only 50 something approaches at that time). As far as the crowd, we’re talking about young mostly white girls and a few black and Indian girls.
Typical private college demographic I guess. Snowplow was getting some straight up IOIs from some girls. I think he’s got that bald “I’m gonna fuck you up look” which I believe works really well for him. He indicated there were some girls sitting at the bar looking bored as a fuck. I was anxious but didn’t take me long to walk up between 2 cuties and there starts the first night approach:
First one .. Brunette 6.5.. maybe 7 if she would have had more makeup on
Me: You guys look like you’re having the most fun out of everyone here
Her(girl on the right): Actually we don’t know each other (girl on left turns away now)
Me: Blah blah
Her: Blah blah
Me: What..couldn’t hear you
Me: (as she started talking) I was just paying attention to your eyes.
Her: (giggle)
Me: Blah blah [some BS about how my grandfather taught me to read hands] Give me your hand
Her: blah blah (gives me her hand)
Me: So, I’m thinking you’re a rebel that went off to do what you wanted in life (not sure how effective this is but been using it a lot)
Her: That’s just a good guess (smiling)
Snowplow came in and we all chat..apparently she’s been there before and must have been a regular. I talked with her some more and Snowplow told me to “go in for the kill.” I had no idea if that meant makeout or number but maybe I fucked up by not going for either and just chatted for a bit. I realized I was spending too much time around her and went around to approach a few more girls.
Second one 6.5 brunette
Me: I was gonna wear the same thing tonight
Her: Haha
Me: I’m Cobra
Her: I’m Hollie
Me: As in h-o-l-l-y… (trying to spell her name, wtf)
Her: I have to go (as her friend takes her hand)
Next!
I went up to some slot machines or some shit by the dance floor in the back. It was in a secluded area and there were 2 girls talking to each other. I approached one and:
Third one possibly a 6.5
Me: Is that the Dancefloor
Her: (Looking at me and pointing to the dancefloor) Go…Dance!!!!!! (I realized her tone was condescending)
Me: (Kind of surprised and taken aback) Uh…Just wondering if that was a dancefloor…
Her: (Walking up to me putting both hands on my chest and pushing me three paces maybe) We don’t want you here!!!
Me: (Uhhhhhhh….what…the…fuck..) I don’t want you here…(walking away smiling, weak I know but I was shocked)
^^^ Worst blow out I've had I think.
By now it was getting a bit later and Snowplow asked me and the first girl to go out in the back to smoke. I was chatting with her a bit more but got a little more aggressive this time (like pulled her close a couple times). It was likely over the top and Snowplow gestured to me to stop. I think I was just pushing my limits at that point. He said he’ll meet me inside. He later told let me know that the girl thought I was coming on “too strong.” I think I should have asked for her number earlier and called it "next." Oh well, next anyways. I dropped off Snowplow to another spot and called it a night.
I feel like I’m getting better but need to continue. My progress is slow because of other obligations that cause me to lose momentum (a lack of which is known to reduce results). On top of this, I have only been hitting the "young white girl" demographic for a while with lackluster results. I think I need to switch it up. I'm not surprised at this given I need to break through that initial barrier of anxiety combined with just looking different.
I appreciate Snowplow willing to hang with me and get me in there with some DHV. And I acknowledge that any time I’m anxious, others don’t have a good time. So, I also appreciate his patience. He’s another player willing to help out. I really don’t see myself this way in the future. So one of these days, I’ll be paying it forward; I know it.
Criticisms welcome..especially on the third one..
(07-16-2014 07:23 PM)Cobra Wrote: I approached one and:
Third one possibly a 6.5
Me: Is that the Dancefloor
Her: (Looking at me and pointing to the dancefloor) Go…Dance!!!!!! (I realized her tone was condescending)
Me: (Kind of surprised and taken aback) Uh…Just wondering if that was a dancefloor…
Her: (Walking up to me putting both hands on my chest and pushing me three paces maybe) We don’t want you here!!!
Me: (Uhhhhhhh….what…the…fuck..) I don’t want you here…(walking away smiling, weak I know but I was shocked)
Did I understand you right? :
The third girl actually laid hand on you, pushed you back, hard, so hard that you stumbled three steps back (!) ?
Is the situation so bad in the USA? Girls can violently push away men in clubs, in the US? How dare they? They don't get slapped? What's going on, has feminism won already?
No way it could happen in EE, Asia, AmLat, not even in Western Europe!
Cobra · 2014-07-16 20:10:00 · #1582
^^^ I was looking at her straight as she pushed me and moved forward. And took the steps back myself unfortunately, shocked. She didn't push me hard enough to make me stumble.
The foremost reason going through my head at that time was that I was there through Snowplow's good graces and wasn't going to cause a huge scene possibly hurting his rep. Anything I did based on how pissed off I was at that time would have caused a scene to be honest. So I shut myself down manually in a sense.
-Do I wish I would have taught her a lesson? Yeah.
-Was my ego damaged at that time? Yeah
-Am I over it? Oh yeah.
I appreciated this situation MAINLY for the fact that it carved away a huge piece of my ego and left me a better man at least in a small way. Totally worth it to admit it and share it as well.
The foremost reason going through my head at that time was that I was there through Snowplow's good graces and wasn't going to cause a huge scene possibly hurting his rep. Anything I did based on how pissed off I was at that time would have caused a scene to be honest. So I shut myself down manually in a sense.
-Do I wish I would have taught her a lesson? Yeah.
-Was my ego damaged at that time? Yeah
-Am I over it? Oh yeah.
I appreciated this situation MAINLY for the fact that it carved away a huge piece of my ego and left me a better man at least in a small way. Totally worth it to admit it and share it as well.
Snowplow · 2014-07-16 20:11:00 · #1583
(07-16-2014 07:50 PM)Tough lucky Luke Wrote:(07-16-2014 07:23 PM)Cobra Wrote: I approached one and:
Third one possibly a 6.5
Me: Is that the Dancefloor
Her: (Looking at me and pointing to the dancefloor) Go…Dance!!!!!! (I realized her tone was condescending)
Me: (Kind of surprised and taken aback) Uh…Just wondering if that was a dancefloor…
Her: (Walking up to me putting both hands on my chest and pushing me three paces maybe) We don’t want you here!!!
Me: (Uhhhhhhh….what…the…fuck..) I don’t want you here…(walking away smiling, weak I know but I was shocked)
Did I understand you right? :
The third girl actually laid hand on you, pushed you back, hard, so hard that you stumbled three steps back (!) ?
Is the situation so bad in the USA? Girls can violently push away men in clubs, in the US? How dare they? They don't get slapped? What's going on, has feminism won already?
No way it could happen in EE, Asia, AmLat, not even in Western Europe!
Ha now to be fair I did not see that happen! I would have pushed her hands away and said "Whoa, lady! Hand off the merch. Let's not get to the rough stuff just yet, I just met you" *wink.
Cobra made some good improvements and had to learn some tough lessons. It all comes with the territory. Don't get set back or flustered, its part of the process. I'm at the point of not giving a fuck and laughing it off in their faces. Everyone has their style and he's getting into gear on his.
And yes, he was the best dressed fucker there.
Maybe this dancefloor girl just likes to "play rough", to provoke, to tease men, in her rather childish way, by touching them like that? Maybe you should have stayed and gamed her, the same way, no gentleman-like but very direct/rough?...
AneroidOcean · 2014-07-16 20:51:00 · #1585
(07-16-2014 08:24 PM)Tough lucky Luke Wrote: Maybe this dancefloor girl just likes to "play rough", to provoke, to tease men, in her rather childish way, by touching them like that? Maybe you should have stayed and gamed her, the same way, no gentleman-like but very direct/rough?...
Doubtful. He opened weak, he reacted weak, he got shoved like a person showing themselves as weak.
While lame, I'm not at all surprised. Trying to game them at that point would've been an exercise in futility. Stepping away and learning what you can do to not be in that situation again would be the best course of action.
To the OP: Way to not blow up. The person who loses their cool is seen as the loser in an altercation with very little exception. That was a rough blow out but it wasn't as big a deal as it seemed at the moment.
Libertas · 2014-07-17 08:45:00 · #1586
3 approaches yesterday, 1 of them led to an instant date. These were all in Central Park.
1st:
Saw this girl walking right by me and just said hey to her. Tried to stop her, but my frame was weak and she was unresponsive. Next. Lesson is that I don't seem that great at stopping moving girls as we're just passing each other. I just do better following them for a bit and talking to them while we head in the same direction.
2nd:
Saw this girl doing her ab workout. I teased her about it since I did my abs earlier that day with a lot of weight behind my head as I did the crunches. We talked for a while. Got her # even while her boyfriend was in the vicinity, though I didn't frame it in a romantic, sexual way, but more about just trading fitness tips.
3rd:
A really beautiful girl was passing by on a bridge overhead. I headed up to there and followed her for a bit, then stopped her and went direct. I knew immediately by the way she stopped and turned to face me that it was on. Turns out this girl is a model from Denmark of all places, yes, infamous Denmark.
However this girl turned out to be really feminine and modest. It was a breath of fresh air compared to all these girls I normally approach. I implemented some of the tips Gio gave me and led her around everywhere. Showed her a few things about the park, escalated physically with a few things like hand holding, flirtatious eye contact, etc. Then we went out and did a few things. We were together probably from 4:30 or so literally to 10:30. She lightly shit tested me three times during the day (probably without thinking it) but I just didn't give a fuck and laughed them all off.
But here is a question for you all: unfortunately this girl is leaving New York today. She did say she wants to come back and see me again, and she may want to go to school here, but how should I maintain my momentum if she could potentially be away for a while? I have all her contact information.
1st:
Saw this girl walking right by me and just said hey to her. Tried to stop her, but my frame was weak and she was unresponsive. Next. Lesson is that I don't seem that great at stopping moving girls as we're just passing each other. I just do better following them for a bit and talking to them while we head in the same direction.
2nd:
Saw this girl doing her ab workout. I teased her about it since I did my abs earlier that day with a lot of weight behind my head as I did the crunches. We talked for a while. Got her # even while her boyfriend was in the vicinity, though I didn't frame it in a romantic, sexual way, but more about just trading fitness tips.
3rd:
A really beautiful girl was passing by on a bridge overhead. I headed up to there and followed her for a bit, then stopped her and went direct. I knew immediately by the way she stopped and turned to face me that it was on. Turns out this girl is a model from Denmark of all places, yes, infamous Denmark.
However this girl turned out to be really feminine and modest. It was a breath of fresh air compared to all these girls I normally approach. I implemented some of the tips Gio gave me and led her around everywhere. Showed her a few things about the park, escalated physically with a few things like hand holding, flirtatious eye contact, etc. Then we went out and did a few things. We were together probably from 4:30 or so literally to 10:30. She lightly shit tested me three times during the day (probably without thinking it) but I just didn't give a fuck and laughed them all off.
But here is a question for you all: unfortunately this girl is leaving New York today. She did say she wants to come back and see me again, and she may want to go to school here, but how should I maintain my momentum if she could potentially be away for a while? I have all her contact information.
Giovonny · 2014-07-17 12:43:00 · #1587
(07-17-2014 08:45 AM)Libertas Wrote: here is a question for you all:
how should I maintain my momentum if she could potentially be away for a while?
She is considering college in NYC..
Send her emotionally engaging pics of NYC. Pics of fun stuff and cool places. You want to stimulate her imagination and excite her. Try to identify the things that she is into so that you can take pics of those things.
Include pics of you doing fun stuff with other people.
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Also, identify the method that she prefers to communicate on..
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc.
Whichever one she is most active on is the one you should target.
Start accumulating a collection of "cool photos" that you can send her.
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Also, occasionally text her just to say hello.
If all of this goes well, you might call her as well sometime.
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Start this soon after she leaves town.
Stay on her radar!
game_ethic · 2014-07-17 15:30:00 · #1588
I did a few approaches today but I only got one number. I think I’m at my 150th approach now, which I think is pretty decent since I don’t really go to clubs or do night game.
I’m at a stop light waiting to cross the street and I see a cute black girl across the street. We made eye contact for a few seconds and then I waited for her to cross. I signaled her and she came towards me.
her: yeah..? (confused look, she didn’t know me so it’s understandable)
me: wow
her: what?
me: you’re pretty, i just couldn’t let you walk away
her: (blushing) thanks
me: where are you headed?
her: the apple store, I dropped my phone and I have to get the screen replaced
me: that sucks.. I’ll walk you there I’m headed that way anyways
her: ok cool
me: i’m game_ethic btw, what’s your name?
her: *name*
me: really? I have a friend with a similar name. you wouldn’t happen to be haitian right?
her: omg how did you know?
me: my friend is haitian too haha, was just a guess
We get to the Apple store and she asks me if I’m coming in with her and I say I have somewhere to be. We exchange numbers and I continue my search.
I see two cute Hispanic girls standing outside a store. It looked like they were waiting for someone. I smiled at the cutest one and stopped directly in front of her, ignoring her friend.
me: hey do you know where H&M is? I’m supposed to meet a friend there but I have no idea where it is
her: yeah it’s just a few blocks from here. do you have a phone?
me: yeah (taking it out)
her: just enter it into google maps and it should pop up
me: i don’t have google maps
her: what do you have (looking at my phone)
me: here (giving it to her)
her: oh an iphone, well just enter it into maps
me: idk.. is this thing accurate?
her: haha are you worried you’re gonna get lost? you can always ask a stranger if you do
me: no it’s not that, it’d be really disappointing to get wrong directions from a cute girl though
her: (blushing) fine I’ll walk you a few blocks down
me: are you ok with that? (to her friend)
her: sure as long as you’re not a rapist (laughing)
So we’re walking towards H&M and I’m getting along really well with this girl. She’s interesting and knows how to have a conversation and isn’t vapid like most girls you encounter on the street.
her: I can’t go any farther, my friend is in the store returning something.. but it’s only like another block down, you should see it soon
me: ok thanks
her: you’re welcome.. I hope you find you friend
me: wait hold up, what’s your number? I’d like to take you out some time
her: I actually have a bf sorry
me: it’s cool thanks anyway
her: bye
I see a tall, cute brunette with a straw hat getting out of her car. Looks like she’s 40 but still attractive nonetheless.
me: hey I really like your hat, where’d you get it?
her: thanks. I got it as a gift actually.
me: oh ok, well you look really nice.. what’s your name?
her: *name* do you hit on every woman that looks nice?
me: not all
her: ok well I’m married and I have kids that’s almost your age so
me: that’s fine, I was just complimenting you. have a good day granny.
her: fuck you
In retrospect I shouldn’t have done that but I couldn’t resist it. She was rude and definitely asked for her. Hopefully she doesn’t go on HuffPost and write about how a college student called her granny.
I’m at a stop light waiting to cross the street and I see a cute black girl across the street. We made eye contact for a few seconds and then I waited for her to cross. I signaled her and she came towards me.
her: yeah..? (confused look, she didn’t know me so it’s understandable)
me: wow
her: what?
me: you’re pretty, i just couldn’t let you walk away
her: (blushing) thanks
me: where are you headed?
her: the apple store, I dropped my phone and I have to get the screen replaced
me: that sucks.. I’ll walk you there I’m headed that way anyways
her: ok cool
me: i’m game_ethic btw, what’s your name?
her: *name*
me: really? I have a friend with a similar name. you wouldn’t happen to be haitian right?
her: omg how did you know?
me: my friend is haitian too haha, was just a guess
We get to the Apple store and she asks me if I’m coming in with her and I say I have somewhere to be. We exchange numbers and I continue my search.
I see two cute Hispanic girls standing outside a store. It looked like they were waiting for someone. I smiled at the cutest one and stopped directly in front of her, ignoring her friend.
me: hey do you know where H&M is? I’m supposed to meet a friend there but I have no idea where it is
her: yeah it’s just a few blocks from here. do you have a phone?
me: yeah (taking it out)
her: just enter it into google maps and it should pop up
me: i don’t have google maps
her: what do you have (looking at my phone)
me: here (giving it to her)
her: oh an iphone, well just enter it into maps
me: idk.. is this thing accurate?
her: haha are you worried you’re gonna get lost? you can always ask a stranger if you do
me: no it’s not that, it’d be really disappointing to get wrong directions from a cute girl though
her: (blushing) fine I’ll walk you a few blocks down
me: are you ok with that? (to her friend)
her: sure as long as you’re not a rapist (laughing)
So we’re walking towards H&M and I’m getting along really well with this girl. She’s interesting and knows how to have a conversation and isn’t vapid like most girls you encounter on the street.
her: I can’t go any farther, my friend is in the store returning something.. but it’s only like another block down, you should see it soon
me: ok thanks
her: you’re welcome.. I hope you find you friend
me: wait hold up, what’s your number? I’d like to take you out some time
her: I actually have a bf sorry
me: it’s cool thanks anyway
her: bye
I see a tall, cute brunette with a straw hat getting out of her car. Looks like she’s 40 but still attractive nonetheless.
me: hey I really like your hat, where’d you get it?
her: thanks. I got it as a gift actually.
me: oh ok, well you look really nice.. what’s your name?
her: *name* do you hit on every woman that looks nice?
me: not all
her: ok well I’m married and I have kids that’s almost your age so
me: that’s fine, I was just complimenting you. have a good day granny.
her: fuck you
In retrospect I shouldn’t have done that but I couldn’t resist it. She was rude and definitely asked for her. Hopefully she doesn’t go on HuffPost and write about how a college student called her granny.
RexImperator · 2014-07-17 15:41:00 · #1589
^^^ 
about the MILF game...that was funny.
about the MILF game...that was funny.Libertas · 2014-07-17 15:48:00 · #1590
(07-17-2014 12:43 PM)Giovonny Wrote: She is considering college in NYC..
Send her emotionally engaging pics of NYC. Pics of fun stuff and cool places. You want to stimulate her imagination and excite her. Try to identify the things that she is into so that you can take pics of those things.
Include pics of you doing fun stuff with other people.
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Also, identify the method that she prefers to communicate on..
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc.
Whichever one she is most active on is the one you should target.
Start accumulating a collection of "cool photos" that you can send her.
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Also, occasionally text her just to say hello.
If all of this goes well, you might call her as well sometime.
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Start this soon after she leaves town.
Stay on her radar!
Not bad ideas. I tried to text her this morning but these damn international calling codes are giving me trouble. Now I found her on Facebook but I can't friend request her, so if I send a message it goes to her "Other" folder.
*Sigh*
The world is such a cockblocker. But as always, half the game is the grind.
HankRearden · 2014-07-17 15:53:00 · #1591
Cobra, that line "I was going to wear the same thing tonight" is absolute gold. I might preface that with "I like what you're wearing..."
Adding that to the arsenal.
Being well dressed matters, and you'll start to reap the benefits from that alone. It will probably help with one night stands as well as getting girls more long term.
Adding that to the arsenal.
Being well dressed matters, and you'll start to reap the benefits from that alone. It will probably help with one night stands as well as getting girls more long term.
MY DETROIT PLAYAS · 2014-07-17 16:21:00 · #1592
@Cobra
Its like we were talking about, you have a smooth vibe and being G'ed up only helps that persona
Sounds like we need to ascend on a couple outdoor spots while the weather is still cooperating
Found another spot in Naperviile too sir
Its like we were talking about, you have a smooth vibe and being G'ed up only helps that persona
Sounds like we need to ascend on a couple outdoor spots while the weather is still cooperating
Found another spot in Naperviile too sir
simondice · 2014-07-17 16:30:00 · #1593
@game_ethic
Save asshole game for college bars .
Save asshole game for college bars .
RockHard · 2014-07-17 19:35:00 · #1594
Slow start today. I went running because that worked for me a couple days ago, but nobody out. I changed to a big park a couple miles away, but still struck out. So I had the brilliant idea to swing by near a yoga studio I go to sometimes, because class was just getting out. I opened a couple girls with "how was yoga?". The first girl was slightly startled but I got her to tell me a little about the class. The 2nd I don't think heard me, she said "thank you". Hmm. Need to work on vocal projection.
I had a meeting to get to, but after a couple more hours of work, I decided to go to the local starbucks. Driving up, I saw a woman on the patio, looked to be in her 40s but thin and blonde which is usually enough to do it for me. After I got my drink I sat at a table next to her but she was involved in a conversation with an employee so I decided to focus on work for a few minutes. After about 10 minutes I look up and she's grabbed her things and walks by me, and she looks at me and says "how are you?". My brain explodes... she opened me! Now what? I realized that I should be stopping her but can't get my brain in gear. I look at her walking away, and decide to close my laptop and catch her... and by the time I do she's about to dial her phone so I back off... and then realise that she hadn't actually dialed yet and I still had time to stop her with a simple "hey, one sec...". I feel like kicking something.
So I jump in the car and go to a different Starbucks. Change of venue, right? I get there and I'm standing in line considering the options - one 30 something, a teenager with a skateboard... then a girl walks in the door. The second she does I decide to open her, she's a bit heavy and not that great looking, just a 5, but she looks to be under 30, close to a 20 year age difference and I need to get out of my head, so I stumble through an opener about the snacks in the case, then it goes something like this
Me: so you off work now?
Her: well, I decided to come here and do some work
Me: Me too, I had to get out of the office. What do you do
She describes the company she works for. It's in the same industry as mine so I'm asking questions about the company, not understanding it at all, but it fills time while I get my cup of joe. I take a seat in the middle of the store with an empty table next to it, thinking she might take the empty table, but she takes one near the door. I work for about 45 minutes then decide it's time to go, but I've resolved to reopen
Me: so did you get any work done?
Her: I caught up on email, that's work right?
Me: yeah, you gotta do that. That counts. What's your name?
Her: <name>
Me: I'm RockHard. Well it was good to meet you
At this point I'm starting to pull away but she turns toward me, so suddenly I decide to go for a number. She gives it up. I asked if she lived in the area, but it turns out she lives & works on the other side of town and had something to go to that evening on this side. Logistically it's not great and she's not awesome looking, so I don't know if I'll text her, but at least I felt redeemed for fucking up earlier.
I finish the day by going by the yoga studio and opening a milf leaving the studio. We walk to her car and talk about the class but she seemed in a hurry and honestly, her face wasn't that great, so I didn't push the interaction.
I'm going for the Giovonny style low-investment openers, just trying stuff to see if she hooks. I'm seeing where I eject too early or run out of ramble, but the early eject when I think for a minute later, I realize what I could've done differently, and the ramble I think is just practice. Tomorrow's another day!
I had a meeting to get to, but after a couple more hours of work, I decided to go to the local starbucks. Driving up, I saw a woman on the patio, looked to be in her 40s but thin and blonde which is usually enough to do it for me. After I got my drink I sat at a table next to her but she was involved in a conversation with an employee so I decided to focus on work for a few minutes. After about 10 minutes I look up and she's grabbed her things and walks by me, and she looks at me and says "how are you?". My brain explodes... she opened me! Now what? I realized that I should be stopping her but can't get my brain in gear. I look at her walking away, and decide to close my laptop and catch her... and by the time I do she's about to dial her phone so I back off... and then realise that she hadn't actually dialed yet and I still had time to stop her with a simple "hey, one sec...". I feel like kicking something.
So I jump in the car and go to a different Starbucks. Change of venue, right? I get there and I'm standing in line considering the options - one 30 something, a teenager with a skateboard... then a girl walks in the door. The second she does I decide to open her, she's a bit heavy and not that great looking, just a 5, but she looks to be under 30, close to a 20 year age difference and I need to get out of my head, so I stumble through an opener about the snacks in the case, then it goes something like this
Me: so you off work now?
Her: well, I decided to come here and do some work
Me: Me too, I had to get out of the office. What do you do
She describes the company she works for. It's in the same industry as mine so I'm asking questions about the company, not understanding it at all, but it fills time while I get my cup of joe. I take a seat in the middle of the store with an empty table next to it, thinking she might take the empty table, but she takes one near the door. I work for about 45 minutes then decide it's time to go, but I've resolved to reopen
Me: so did you get any work done?
Her: I caught up on email, that's work right?
Me: yeah, you gotta do that. That counts. What's your name?
Her: <name>
Me: I'm RockHard. Well it was good to meet you
At this point I'm starting to pull away but she turns toward me, so suddenly I decide to go for a number. She gives it up. I asked if she lived in the area, but it turns out she lives & works on the other side of town and had something to go to that evening on this side. Logistically it's not great and she's not awesome looking, so I don't know if I'll text her, but at least I felt redeemed for fucking up earlier.
I finish the day by going by the yoga studio and opening a milf leaving the studio. We walk to her car and talk about the class but she seemed in a hurry and honestly, her face wasn't that great, so I didn't push the interaction.
I'm going for the Giovonny style low-investment openers, just trying stuff to see if she hooks. I'm seeing where I eject too early or run out of ramble, but the early eject when I think for a minute later, I realize what I could've done differently, and the ramble I think is just practice. Tomorrow's another day!
Libertas · 2014-07-19 08:26:00 · #1595
Went out yesterday saw this hot as hell girl with a fantastic body. She was walking along with a dog and had headphones on but I just stopped her and said I wanted to meet her. When I shook her hand I held it for a bit longer than normal as I played a guessing game as to where she was from (Russia). We had a conversation for a while wherein I did some light touching. I sort of started to lose momentum toward the end and I asked for her a drink, she responds she had a boyfriend. I used my typical counter to that but no dice.
I think I could have just assumption stacked or something when my frame began to weaken slightly, or just ask her a qualifying question and see where that led me.
Overall though I really like how much more aggressive I'm getting. Not bad at all for someone that used to have a ton of fear when it came to doing this (and that was only a very short time ago).
I think I could have just assumption stacked or something when my frame began to weaken slightly, or just ask her a qualifying question and see where that led me.
Overall though I really like how much more aggressive I'm getting. Not bad at all for someone that used to have a ton of fear when it came to doing this (and that was only a very short time ago).
Broda · 2014-07-19 13:03:00 · #1596
Repost from my thread here. (I suggest you read the first post there before the one below).
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Went out to grab some food after hanging out with a couple friends. My phone (gonna need to get a new one, battery doesn't hold much of a charge anymore)~ was about to die so I left it plugged in while we went out.
There was a McDonald's just down the road so we just decided to go there. As we walk in I see this girl working as a cashier, (fiery red hair, pretty pale, quite short and really petite - solid 7) realize i don't have my phone on me so I nudge one of my friends to give me his. He hands it over and we approach the cash, two lines open so we split - (I'll give you one guess what line I'm in).
I remembered reading a post by El Mech about fast food game but the only part I could remember was ".. and your McDigits." In light of my earlier post about needing an "idgaf mentality" and being able to get away with more, I harnessed the essence of El Mech.
Her: "Hii - standard McDonald's opener - "
Me: "Hey, how are you? I'll have a McChicken meal with a root beer and a side of your finest McDigits."~
*hand her the phone, she looks around a bit and then she takes it*
Her: "*giggles as typing her number* Is that for here or to go? "
Me: "Depends what "that" were talking about here"
Her: "*laughs* Well that's all up to you isn't it"
Me: "Food for here, you to go"
Her: "Good choice, I'll come over to your table and we can talk on my break."
*take the tray and head over to the table*
Notes so far:
~ Although it worked out this time, logistics logistics logistics - with out my friend's phone this wouldn't have gone the same way.
~ In reflection of the approach I'm doubtful that this would have worked without my "situation", not to say it was a pity thing (which I'm sure will happen along the way) but I think it's the "idgaf why should you" thing.
She came over when we were done eating and we talked a bit. Got a little more info on her, 5'2", turns 18 in early august, just moved here. It's looking good, set up for next week but no firm details yet. I have a bonfire camp out to go to in a week, no way I'm letting the iron get any less "red hot" by waiting but that could be a good day 2.
+1 for El Mech
Broda
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Went out to grab some food after hanging out with a couple friends. My phone (gonna need to get a new one, battery doesn't hold much of a charge anymore)~ was about to die so I left it plugged in while we went out.
There was a McDonald's just down the road so we just decided to go there. As we walk in I see this girl working as a cashier, (fiery red hair, pretty pale, quite short and really petite - solid 7) realize i don't have my phone on me so I nudge one of my friends to give me his. He hands it over and we approach the cash, two lines open so we split - (I'll give you one guess what line I'm in).
I remembered reading a post by El Mech about fast food game but the only part I could remember was ".. and your McDigits." In light of my earlier post about needing an "idgaf mentality" and being able to get away with more, I harnessed the essence of El Mech.
Her: "Hii - standard McDonald's opener - "
Me: "Hey, how are you? I'll have a McChicken meal with a root beer and a side of your finest McDigits."~
*hand her the phone, she looks around a bit and then she takes it*
Her: "*giggles as typing her number* Is that for here or to go? "
Me: "Depends what "that" were talking about here"
Her: "*laughs* Well that's all up to you isn't it"
Me: "Food for here, you to go"
Her: "Good choice, I'll come over to your table and we can talk on my break."
*take the tray and head over to the table*
Notes so far:
~ Although it worked out this time, logistics logistics logistics - with out my friend's phone this wouldn't have gone the same way.
~ In reflection of the approach I'm doubtful that this would have worked without my "situation", not to say it was a pity thing (which I'm sure will happen along the way) but I think it's the "idgaf why should you" thing.
She came over when we were done eating and we talked a bit. Got a little more info on her, 5'2", turns 18 in early august, just moved here. It's looking good, set up for next week but no firm details yet. I have a bonfire camp out to go to in a week, no way I'm letting the iron get any less "red hot" by waiting but that could be a good day 2.
+1 for El Mech
Broda
2Birds_1Stone · 2014-07-19 14:52:00 · #1597
-went to the fitness club under the guest pass and I see a cute young latina
Initially I asked where I could park as I saw her lazily strolling in.
Me: hey, do you know where I can park so I don't get a ticket?
Her: I don't know , I walked here ( logistics and I know she's young but I have to tread carefully as she may be illegal)
She explains that I go behind the building and it's free
I lightly banter with everyone in gym including the girls at the service desk so I can work in my guest pass they give me a tour(I always take a tour to show check out the chicks in the gym)
I see a promiscuous girl I went to high school with and she's very tall, white, in shape. I acknowledge but don't make any gestures as I'm busy with the tour(I will eventually work her in another time)
I'm doing pull ups in my chinos and stick out like a sore thumb. My latina is doing car dio and comes closer to me to do some reps.
I go over eventually and ask her for tips and her workout routine.
Me: my nutritionist is a total health nazi and she say my bad cholesterol is very high. I need some motivation, we should work out together. What's your number?
Her: idk about working out you look like you don't need it. But I'll give you my number.
Me: OK, my phone is in the locker let me grab it.
Guys, critique as you like and I left out some details. I have a tendency to ramble and take too much. I need to be more concise as talking too much makes me seem pushy and needy. Chicks smell a desperado
Also, I'd like to know if others have experience with gym game. I'm not a meath eat but I'm naturally fit so I could game for a couple months and leave after I've gone to the well too many times. Thoughts?
Initially I asked where I could park as I saw her lazily strolling in.
Me: hey, do you know where I can park so I don't get a ticket?
Her: I don't know , I walked here ( logistics and I know she's young but I have to tread carefully as she may be illegal)
She explains that I go behind the building and it's free
I lightly banter with everyone in gym including the girls at the service desk so I can work in my guest pass they give me a tour(I always take a tour to show check out the chicks in the gym)
I see a promiscuous girl I went to high school with and she's very tall, white, in shape. I acknowledge but don't make any gestures as I'm busy with the tour(I will eventually work her in another time)
I'm doing pull ups in my chinos and stick out like a sore thumb. My latina is doing car dio and comes closer to me to do some reps.
I go over eventually and ask her for tips and her workout routine.
Me: my nutritionist is a total health nazi and she say my bad cholesterol is very high. I need some motivation, we should work out together. What's your number?
Her: idk about working out you look like you don't need it. But I'll give you my number.
Me: OK, my phone is in the locker let me grab it.
Guys, critique as you like and I left out some details. I have a tendency to ramble and take too much. I need to be more concise as talking too much makes me seem pushy and needy. Chicks smell a desperado
Also, I'd like to know if others have experience with gym game. I'm not a meath eat but I'm naturally fit so I could game for a couple months and leave after I've gone to the well too many times. Thoughts?
2Birds_1Stone · 2014-07-19 14:55:00 · #1598
@broda
I had the same problems with my android. I have a big smartphone. If you have a good plan with Verizon or at&t not go wireless or metro pcs plans you can bug the customer care team for free chargers and batteries they will reimburse you. I like your approach as well. Not much to critique from me but what do I know.
I had the same problems with my android. I have a big smartphone. If you have a good plan with Verizon or at&t not go wireless or metro pcs plans you can bug the customer care team for free chargers and batteries they will reimburse you. I like your approach as well. Not much to critique from me but what do I know.
Broda · 2014-07-19 15:39:00 · #1599
@2Birds_1Stone
I'll look into that for now but I think that I'm due for an upgrade all together. The new iPhone is to be release some time in September so that could be an option. In thinking about it, that could be a great opportunity - the added value of new tech and the possibility of them actually opening you to ask about it.
In terms of your approach, I don't have any Gym Game experience but I would definitely agree that you're too wordy. I would have cut out the cholesterol part all together and possibly the needing motivation as she ended up basically calling you out on it. Also, (I don't know for sure because I don't go to the gym) in terms of logistics and overall practicality I would have my phone with me as I worked out instead of having to leave to get it to come back, re-open for number and then leave again. (assuming you didn't stay around after you got number, you moved on to another area.) Having your phone with you would eliminate all that "clutter" and clean up your overall approach.
Broda
I'll look into that for now but I think that I'm due for an upgrade all together. The new iPhone is to be release some time in September so that could be an option. In thinking about it, that could be a great opportunity - the added value of new tech and the possibility of them actually opening you to ask about it.
In terms of your approach, I don't have any Gym Game experience but I would definitely agree that you're too wordy. I would have cut out the cholesterol part all together and possibly the needing motivation as she ended up basically calling you out on it. Also, (I don't know for sure because I don't go to the gym) in terms of logistics and overall practicality I would have my phone with me as I worked out instead of having to leave to get it to come back, re-open for number and then leave again. (assuming you didn't stay around after you got number, you moved on to another area.) Having your phone with you would eliminate all that "clutter" and clean up your overall approach.
Broda
I think the low-key Starbux approach is criminally underrated. You can find hot girls btw 18-39. Some of the MILFs are super fit, SoulCycling, yoga for flexibility, dick-hungry and bored to tears [and/or divorced]. Plus they like it casual, and even better you can rail her in her house while her kids are at school/camp/with daddy.