Does it count as fapping if a girl puts her teddies in your face and you finish yourself off?

Messed up again, hopping on the bandwagon again. I'm not gonna stop trying until I quit this forever.

I'm also on board with no porn. I'm trying to follow the Paleo lifestyle as much as possible: diet, exercise, etc.

Tuesday makes it 9 weeks for me.. Forward is the battlecry!

(08-18-2018 03:42 AM)EvilStoic Wrote:  Does it count as fapping if a girl puts her teddies in your face and you finish yourself off?

If by teddies you mean titties, I'd say no. Actually if she's putting some kind of lingerie in your face for some reason, still no. Basically if there's a girl there, doesn't count.

4 full days , my record so far.

45 Days. Aiming for 90.

I'm making the pledge now

15 days now

Reset. I was procrastinating, 47 day stretch to an end.

(05-13-2012 02:54 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  i just jerked off to porn. it was great.

I tried the whole porn abstinence deal, its over rated. If you jerking off every single day to porn, and get to the point where you cant sleep unless you do it, then it becomes a problem.

Once every few days or once a week is perfectly fine and isn't going to harm you.

No porn crusade is just as bad as the no carb diet.

A commenter on ROK once said that porn is like ice cream. It's OK to indulge once in a while, but if you do it every day you have a problem. I thought that was a good analogy.

I masturbated a shit ton over the past year. Like multiple times a day. It's gotten to a point where I am a complete addict.

Here are some of the feelings I've had over the past year because of over-masturbation:

1) Dramatically reduced sexual interest. I've barely approached
2) Extremely tired and somewhat depressed.
3) Impulsive need for sugary/fatty food that will give me dopamine highs

Today, I say fuck it. I'm done with masturbation. Goal is to completely stop.

Glad this thread has been started.

Tuesday makes it 11 weeks for me.

(08-18-2018 03:42 AM)EvilStoic Wrote:  Does it count as fapping if a girl puts her teddies in your face and you finish yourself off?

No. if there are pheromones involved and real titts then it's no different than her jacking you off. In fact, her technique would be worse anyway.

Back to square one. Again. For the nth time.

G

Relapsed today. Situations where I notice the urge to do so:
- after an intense workout
- whenever I'm alone and have my hand down my pants
- boredom

The best things in life are worth fighting for. Will stand up and dust it off.

Babyface

Making the pledge now.

It's been two months since my 50 day streak, I still can't get past day 9 since then even though I know I can do it. It's not really an excuse but whenever I am in my home environment watching porn and fapping is associated with it in my brain, if I go elsewhere I am able to surpass it. The man I was during that streak and the man I am now are different and I don't wanna continue wasting my life on this BS. I'm literally going to get my friend to install porn blocks on my home PC (phone and laptop is blocked so I use PC) and pledge to give this up.

Day one for me again. Anyone that wants to chat or be accountable to each other lmk...

Like you said Mikestar fapping has been engrained for me when I'm home and once the idea is in my head I can't get it out of my head. I'm gonna try and replace it with every possible hobby and way to retrain the dopamine release. What are some apps or ways to prevent you from accessing it? For me I had blockers on my laptop at one point but I either had to leave it open to add new sites I found or lock myself out so I cant change settings then I can't add anything new.

Wow, I literally made a post on here less than 24 hours ago that I would stop fapping.

I've already failed.

I used to fap several times a day, so I'm probably in a far worse boat than many other posters here. It seems as though the majority of people here did just 1x/day or even less than that.

This is going to be harder than I thought.

How do you stop porn on phone?

Use a free app called Qustodio - get your friend to set the password and voila

13 days without porn. Probably my longest streak ever.

(09-03-2018 02:18 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  Use a free app called Qustodio - get your friend to set the password and voila

I'll check it out.

(09-03-2018 11:54 AM)louiebeans Wrote:  Day one for me again. Anyone that wants to chat or be accountable to each other lmk...

Like you said Mikestar fapping has been engrained for me when I'm home and once the idea is in my head I can't get it out of my head. I'm gonna try and replace it with every possible hobby and way to retrain the dopamine release. What are some apps or ways to prevent you from accessing it? For me I had blockers on my laptop at one point but I either had to leave it open to add new sites I found or lock myself out so I cant change settings then I can't add anything new.

Day one for me as well. I'll be accountable with you. Let's do it.