"Luxury Advisor & Fine Art Appraiser'" = Works for her Dad or close family friend.

Brags about her income with exact figure = Includes money she receives from family.

Compares herself to Sofia Vergara, an infinitely hotter woman who also happens to be much older = Pretty sad.

(09-26-2015 02:55 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  Online advice hamster:

http://www.thestar.com/life/2015/09/25/f...ellie.html

Hamster:

Quote:I’m turning 39, never been married, though I had hoped to find “the one” since age 14.
I’ve had a series of failed relationships where the man involved always ended up fooling around. I gave up on dating a year ago. Most men in my age bracket look at 20-somethings online. And every man has a constant source of hook-up temptation. Whether through a dating-site, Facebook, Tinder, etc. he has a pool of little pretties at his fingertips.
You eventually get dumped for one of these ladies.
You stick it out, hoping your suspicions are wrong, but as usual, you’re right.
Most men my age are divorced and use this as an excuse for commitment phobia. A “relationship” is viewed as seriously as marriage. And nobody wants to get married.
Most men I date say my intelligence intimidates them. Yet I don’t try to “one up” them, laugh at or talk down to them.
I’m an attractive woman and take care of my body. I’m also a “geek,” who’ll watch movies with them, play video games or engage in any nerdy behaviour.

But that quickly puts me in the friend zone.
Repeatedly, I’ve been dumped for unintelligent, manipulative, high-maintenance women. That sums up my entire dating life.
Most men seem to just want sex now and plenty of other women oblige.
I want to be happy alone. But I find myself crying every night. I’m starting to drink too much when I’m alone. I just cannot quench this desire to be with somebody.

Red Pill translation:

+ Lost virginity aged 14
+ n-count in the triple digits
+ by the looks of it she is living in the NYC and should be in her prime Sex and the City "age"
+ dated Alphas while she was at best a side-dish to them.
+ started looking for Mr. Right in earnest likely around age 33+
+ possibly good job and high IQ for a woman - does not impress men at all
+ you focus on high value man, while not being able to see that your prime was between 18-23
+ you still focus on the wrong men if you date guys aged 40 than can easily bed 20 year olds

Advice:

+ Lower your expectations - look for 50+ year olds who are in decent shape and don't mind having a woman past her expiry date
+ work more on your body, grow your hair out, dress sexy and feminine

Advice given:

Quote:Seeking Contentment Alone
Frankly, anyone looking for love since age 14 was bound to be disappointed.
Something was missing that far back and it couldn’t be found through just dating.
You needed to feel a lot better about yourself, to speak up long before you had proof of cheating and to learn to make better selections earlier when dating.
Now, after too many disappointments, you sound bitter and defeated. Contentment won’t come from just giving up. Nor from excess alcohol, which is a depressant.
Get proactive about your own happiness. You’re at a perfect turnaround age to get to the root of your “story” — who and what hurt you so long ago.
You need counselling that’s also aimed at boosting your sense of optimism.
Then you can become content when alone, or with good friends, but not despairing of love . . . not once you learn to recognize the decent men out there who are also looking for love.

Working on self-confidence and on trying to be content while being alone. Good luck with that - if she adheres to that she will be a full blown alcoholic by age 45 and a suicide candidate by age 50.

She won't recognize "decent" men as the guys she tries to beg are way beyond her level.

I’m glad Google yielded results. It’s nice to find people who don’t buy into that garbage. I knew her advice was terrible. It was worse than terrible. It was terrible advice for a question I didn’t ask. She heavily edited my letter. The honest intent when writing her was to please provide advice on how to be content alone. Rather than address my original question, she altered the content in such a way as to ask an entirely different question, and answered it poorly. “Love yourself first, and improve yourself, and you will find love.” Complete boilerplate bullshit.

I’ve consulted sources regarding celibacy, but it’s typically driven by some sort of pay off. “How to stay celibate until you are married” or “becoming celibate to become a priest.” I am unable to find sources on how to truly step away and be content as a single person with no love in her life, ever again – and to not feel horribly alone.

Anyway, thank you for your perspective, and thanks to the other folks here who wrote about it. I guess I’ll include a little here about me, in case you’re curious.

First off, no theory is perfect. Virginity lost at 19. “N” count is low due to years spent in college focusing on studies. (I completed an MA.) – I was also in a relationship for ten years, so that kept me off the market as well. Oh, and I live in Mississippi.

I consider myself a “5” at best. It’s fair to say I was a 7 when I was younger. I am told that I underestimate my beauty. I’m certain people are just being polite.

Now thanks to “feminism” all these dipshit excuses for women spread their legs on a first date, and they don’t EVEN need to be white girl drunk to do it. They’re ALL doing it – The Kim Kardashian wanna’ be’s who spam the Internet with bug-eye, duck-lip selfies, on down to the dumpy gamer girls with piercings and tats and bad dye jobs who whine about how society judges them for their size. You guys have shared plenty of stellar examples here. I guess there is one common denominator – DENIAL fueled by stupidity. But if you’re looking for a pump and dump, a brain is optional. All of that is to say, why SHOULD a guy commit? Why SHOULD a guy waste his time on a girl like me who wants to bond intellectually and emotionally? That’s boring and you open yourself up to being hurt. Just hit OKCupid or Tinder or whatever and find some dimwitted girl who will be your whore for buying her dinner. It’s a win/win for her, because after you dump her, she can go cry on the Internet about it and drink in the delicious attention all of her “friends” give her.

Dating is dead. It’s all “hang out and hook up” or “Netflix and chill.” I’ve tried dating men in their fifties, and you would think they would be a bit more old fashioned like I am, but nope – The demise of traditional dating and the heavy stigma attached to relationship status has worked its way up to the older men as well. I’m sure I am overlooking some potential candidates, but I choose to accept that I simply have poor judgment.

So, there you have it! I’m a tried and true beta who is fed up and done, because everything has become a game. No hard feelings and no real bitterness here. I just want to be content alone, if it’s even possible. Hopefully I’ll find out it is.

^^^^^^

Ognat - you may wish to review the house rules before proceeding further:

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-3383.html

Quote:8. No girls. Their opinions or comments are not welcome here unless they post a naked picture of their body with a sign that says 'Roosh'.

Assuming what you write is truthful, I'm scratching my head as to why you sought advice from a Toronto newspaper and perhaps not something closer to home, or from a trusting friend/psychologist.

I have some additional thoughts about your post but will defer to the forum moderators before engaging further.

Reposting the image.

^^^
Holy fuck that was her?!

(12-03-2015 10:55 AM)CRR Wrote:  "Luxury Advisor & Fine Art Appraiser'" = Works for her Dad or close family friend.

Brags about her income with exact figure = Includes money she receives from family.

Compares herself to Sofia Vergara, an infinitely hotter woman who also happens to be much older = Pretty sad.

I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive. At my high school reunion one girl told me at least a half dozen times how she was earning over $100k, like that's even hard to do in Western Australia. Sorry honey but that doesn't turn you from a 5 into a 7. It certainly didn't help you find a better man judging by the pudgy, balding bogan you're engaged too.

(12-04-2015 01:56 AM)Roardog Wrote:  

(12-03-2015 10:55 AM)CRR Wrote:  "Luxury Advisor & Fine Art Appraiser'" = Works for her Dad or close family friend.

Brags about her income with exact figure = Includes money she receives from family.

Compares herself to Sofia Vergara, an infinitely hotter woman who also happens to be much older = Pretty sad.

I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive. At my high school reunion one girl told me at least a half dozen times how she was earning over $100k, like that's even hard to do in Western Australia. Sorry honey but that doesn't turn you from a 5 into a 7. It certainly didn't help you find a better man judging by the pudgy, balding bogan you're engaged too.

Bro, you're a sandgroper too?! Score!

(12-04-2015 01:56 AM)Roardog Wrote:  I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive. At my high school reunion one girl told me at least a half dozen times how she was earning over $100k, like that's even hard to do in Western Australia. Sorry honey but that doesn't turn you from a 5 into a 7. It certainly didn't help you find a better man judging by the pudgy, balding bogan you're engaged too.

Ha!
Forest for the trees indeed.

(12-03-2015 07:19 PM)Aquiles_Baesta_Parada Wrote:  ^^^
Holy fuck that was her?!

For reals, was that her? Surreal man.
edit; I think the answer she is looking for is to join a convent. Do those exist anymore?

(12-04-2015 01:56 AM)Roardog Wrote:  I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive...

It's because women who do this kind of thing mistakenly believe that what they find attractive in men is what men will find attractive in them. "I have a high-powered career, pull down six figures, and drive a Porsche. Why wouldn't you want to date an alpha woman like me? If I could, I'd date myself!"

Had a date last night with a girl from OKCupid. She's half Greek/half Japanese. Very exotic looking but chubby. I will call her a 5 or maybe a 6 because of the exotic looks, her age (23yo), and attire.

She came back to my place after the bar and things were getting hot and heavy. She told me:

"Caractacus! No! I'm not fucking on first dates anymore." (while her hand is down my pants stroking me). In the next breath she tells me that her roommates will be gone next weekend and if I come over to her apartment we will have the place to ourselves.

I kept pushing. She got a little pissed that I ripped her skirt but I could tell she was liking the aggressiveness. She had complained earlier in the evening about how all of the guys she is around are really NICE and she is in love with Khal Drogo from Game of Thrones.

She sent me a text today saying she had to do some serious makeup magic to hide the hickeys I gave her. She said next time I had to be sure to do it somewhere not visible. When I asked her for suggestions she said she is sure I'd think of something.

Never underestimate the power of the hamster. Don't try to understand it. But if you can harness it...

(12-04-2015 10:52 PM)Alsos Wrote:  

(12-04-2015 01:56 AM)Roardog Wrote:  I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive...

It's because women who do this kind of thing mistakenly believe that what they find attractive in men is what men will find attractive in them. "I have a high-powered career, pull down six figures, and drive a Porsche. Why wouldn't you want to date an alpha woman like me? If I could, I'd date myself!"

Exactly.

I've explained (or "mansplained" if you will) this to women many times, but they just give me a confused look and are unable to understand what I'm saying.

It then occurred to me, that they can't understand because they often lie about what they want and/or are completely unrealistic about what they are looking for.

For example, I've said to women in my social circle the following:

I know in feminist logic, white women with job = a 9. White women with job that is not entry level = a 10. But that simply isn't the case, most men will take cute, feminine, fit admin girl over dumpy, aggressive (I mean, "strong") 35+ cubicle jockey any day.

Furthermore, men are generally pretty honest about this, in one way or another. Women on the other hand, as I've said to my social circle:

You say you want a good guy, but really you'd fuck and marry an ATM machine if it were humanly and legally possible

In terms of unrealistic, the only women I've encountered who will admit they want a tall/hot/rich guy are the ones who have absolutely no chance in obtaining a desirable male. These are the 35+ white women who, while not fat, can't compete with a younger, more pleasant and more attractive woman.

I guess my overall point is that men are taught to play with the cards they are dealt with. Improve yourself, become the man the women you are interested in want.

Women, through feminism, are taught that whatever they want is what men should want, or it's misogyny. Furthermore, they take "just be yourself" literally. But if being yourself is overweight, pushy and past your prime, you're not going to land that husband you want. Adapt or die out.

(12-04-2015 10:52 PM)Alsos Wrote:  

(12-04-2015 01:56 AM)Roardog Wrote:  I don't understand girls who brag about their income like they think it's attractive...

It's because women who do this kind of thing mistakenly believe that what they find attractive in men is what men will find attractive in them. "I have a high-powered career, pull down six figures, and drive a Porsche. Why wouldn't you want to date an alpha woman like me? If I could, I'd date myself!"

I completely agree.

The ironic thing about this girl though is that all she does is work for the local council, it just so happens that local councils in Australia pay ridiculous wages for the work done and she works for a council in resource rich WA which has had huge wage inflation over the past 10 years due to the mining boom.

"SIF"

Secret internet fatty or secret internet flatty? :

Women digitally enhances her breasts, enjoys more success on Tinder

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/beauty/...70b83e3ca6

' Cosmetic surgery experts Make Yourself Amazing carried out a trial to see how men responded to more busty women.



They digitally enhanced the images of ‘Carla’ from Manchester, boosting her bra size from an A cup to a DD.
Even though the rest of her profile stayed identical, Carla received 34 per cent more matches after digitally enhancing her cleavage. '

' Even though the experiment focuses on the male response to bigger boobs, John Ryan, chairman of MYA defends cosmetic
enhancement saying “For the majority of our patients the reason for a breast enlargement has nothing to do with appealing
to the opposite sex.
“It’s for themselves and how they feel about their own body.” '


Right... Hamster's ahoy!

Confucius says: women get breast enlargement to "feel more like woman" then proceed to behave and fuck like man.

Gives new meaning to the phrase - "stick 'em up." :

SA police officer accused of moonlighting as a sex worker in Adelaide

http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/south...7638421133

' A POLICE officer has been accused of moonlighting as a sex worker in Adelaide.
It is understood the conduct of the woman, believed to be aged in her 20s,
came to the attention of police after a complaint was made earlier this year.
The woman is no longer a SA Police employee and it is unclear if she has been
charged over the prostitution allegations or is facing court on other matters. '

' The woman’s online profile, including photos, was listed on iKandy Girls, where she
stated she was a slim size 8, had a C-cup bust, green eyes and mentioned her height.
She also described herself as “stunning” and “athletic”.
According to Findon-based iKandy Girls, adult services cost $100 for 20 minutes and $220 for an hour. '

(12-08-2015 07:44 AM)CynicalContrarian Wrote:  Gives new meaning to the phrase - "stick 'em up." :

SA police officer accused of moonlighting as a sex worker in Adelaide

http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/south...7638421133

' A POLICE officer has been accused of moonlighting as a sex worker in Adelaide.
It is understood the conduct of the woman, believed to be aged in her 20s,
came to the attention of police after a complaint was made earlier this year.
The woman is no longer a SA Police employee and it is unclear if she has been
charged over the prostitution allegations or is facing court on other matters. '

' The woman’s online profile, including photos, was listed on iKandy Girls, where she
stated she was a slim size 8, had a C-cup bust, green eyes and mentioned her height.
She also described herself as “stunning” and “athletic”.
According to Findon-based iKandy Girls, adult services cost $100 for 20 minutes and $220 for an hour. '

At least she'd have easy access to handcuffs and a sexy cop outfit

Thats a DD? no way.

Disqualified on OKC right off the bat cuz of my profile name. C'mon. Still dragged out a 30-message chat, which turned out to be a cavalcade of shit-tests, topped off with a slam on dudes for resorting to OKC. And to my, "So what led you to it?", she goes, "The 1% of the 1% of the 1% chance that I meet a decent dude whom I respect." And ta-da - a 39-year-old "curvy" Asian who made abundantly clear her love of food.

Serves me bloody right for rooting through the trash.

(12-20-2015 08:56 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  ...And ta-da - a 39-year-old "curvy" Asian who made abundantly clear her love of food.
Serves me bloody right for rooting through the trash.

Recently crossed paths to a low-key degree with a 1/2 decent chick.
In checking her online profile, turns out she's younger than she looks at age 37...
Yet when it came to the question of her wanting children? - undecided.



I've got news for you honey.
The decision is no longer yours.
Mother Nature & Father Time have essentially decided already.
& the odds are not in your favour.

Women digitally enhances her breasts, enjoys more success on Tinder


Guess that's the latest report from the "Duh Institute."


Too bad Carla didn't "enhance" that man-face while she was there....

From an OKCupid profile...

Being a college professor I don't get too much time to myself. I try to take each day at a time and fill it with some humor to help with this growing void I feel. Not exactly trying to sound depressing, I can just tell I'm missing something.


Maybe it's because you are 30 and never married??? Oh yeah, that growing void you feel inside is an actual void. It's your barren womb! Of course she answers "Not Sure" to the question regarding desiring children.

This stuff just writes itself. Sad. So very, very sad.

^
Seems to be, that if they acknowledge their innate / natural desire for children.
Then they'd have to acknowledge that their lives aren't structured correctly or meaningful.
& the last thing we'd want to do is make a chick 'feelz bad'...

Can't make this up...








She's fugly. Shocking, right?