(04-10-2015 12:06 AM)Sketness Wrote:  

(04-09-2015 09:41 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  I've never been shit tested so hard before a date by an online girl, thinking of calling off the whole thing. bish is trying to be wishy washy about me

http://imgur.com/WFWI6BN

id roll with it and try to get her out as soon as possible. Don't engage her dumb mind, just make it logistical get her out and proceed from there

Agreed.

A simple "yep, see you at 9"

Then text her that you're running a little behind before 9 PM, enjoy the "non-date."

http://i.imgur.com/NGRlQkv.jpg

A Bulgarian 9 that I daygame at the park then proceeded to have a one hour instadate with.

(04-07-2015 08:16 PM)Stun Wrote:  No idea where to go from here:



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http://imgur.com/tZcdIQ0

http://imgur.com/0SDQvMq

You shoulda pulled the trigger right before you brought up music. The conversation was at an emotional high. The transition was awkward and slowed your momentum, and as a general rule I never bring up music, I feel like it tends to be too polarizing and not in an interesting way.

I disagree with another poster about your shit trying to seem to witty/clever/long-winded. She was responding positively and I think you were reading her sense of humor/intelligence level well. You just failed to strike when the iron was hot. After the one word text I would stop talking for a few days and re-initiate with something interesting high emotional value....

I also disagree that you should shoot for the meetup right now before she totally loses interest. You would be hitting her at an emotional low in the conversation, and she's obviously not dumb. She's going to interpret this in the exact way that she should... you feel like you're losing her so you throw up a hail mary as she is receding. You would be coming from a place of desperation.

Got the following text late last night from a girl I've been on 4 dates with, the last of which ended with getting hot and heavy in my car and her giving me a blow job. She then went away for 3 weeks and we exchanged some messages when she got back organizing to meet up again. I thought this was in the bag and then I get this. I'm very surprised and I have no idea how to respond.

"Hey, I wanted to mention, I am not feeling anything here, I've sat down and thought about it & I don't feel chemistry. So I don't think we should take this any further. I'm sorry."

(04-11-2015 09:32 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Got the following text late last night from a girl I've been on 4 dates with, the last of which ended with getting hot and heavy in my car and her giving me a blow job. She then went away for 3 weeks and we exchanged some messages when she got back organizing to meet up again. I thought this was in the bag and then I get this. I'm very surprised and I have no idea how to respond.

"Hey, I wanted to mention, I am not feeling anything here, I've sat down and thought about it & I don't feel chemistry. So I don't think we should take this any further. I'm sorry."

I think you should just let her go. The fact that she was away for three weeks and now that she's back and she doesn't feel any chemistry suggests that she's either found a new dude who she's already fucking or is about to fuck.

This is just a conjecture of course, but it's highly likely that that's the reason why. A simple "It's cool. Take care" should suffice.

(04-11-2015 09:32 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Got the following text late last night from a girl I've been on 4 dates with, the last of which ended with getting hot and heavy in my car and her giving me a blow job. She then went away for 3 weeks and we exchanged some messages when she got back organizing to meet up again. I thought this was in the bag and then I get this. I'm very surprised and I have no idea how to respond.

"Hey, I wanted to mention, I am not feeling anything here, I've sat down and thought about it & I don't feel chemistry. So I don't think we should take this any further. I'm sorry."

(04-11-2015 11:33 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

(04-11-2015 09:32 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Got the following text late last night from a girl I've been on 4 dates with, the last of which ended with getting hot and heavy in my car and her giving me a blow job. She then went away for 3 weeks and we exchanged some messages when she got back organizing to meet up again. I thought this was in the bag and then I get this. I'm very surprised and I have no idea how to respond.

"Hey, I wanted to mention, I am not feeling anything here, I've sat down and thought about it & I don't feel chemistry. So I don't think we should take this any further. I'm sorry."

I think you should just let her go. The fact that she was away for three weeks and now that she's back and she doesn't feel any chemistry suggests that she's either found a new dude who she's already fucking or is about to fuck.

This is just a conjecture of course, but it's highly likely that that's the reason why. A simple "It's cool. Take care" should suffice.

I text her back "who stole your phone last night?" to test whether she'd commit to it and got the below. I don't think it's even worth replying to but I think it shows that it's her issue not mine. She's just unhappy with her life right now and so pushing everyone away.
It just confirms to me that you always need to go for the bang as soon as possible and women are fickle.

"No one did. That was me Roardog, my life isn't going the way I want it to be, in terms of stability and that's killed my emotional factor. I just don't feel the chemistry."

A shame because she's hot.

(04-11-2015 09:32 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Got the following text late last night from a girl I've been on 4 dates with, the last of which ended with getting hot and heavy in my car and her giving me a blow job. She then went away for 3 weeks and we exchanged some messages when she got back organizing to meet up again. I thought this was in the bag and then I get this. I'm very surprised and I have no idea how to respond.

"Hey, I wanted to mention, I am not feeling anything here, I've sat down and thought about it & I don't feel chemistry. So I don't think we should take this any further. I'm sorry."

You went on 4 dates with her without having sex. Don't expect another date from any girl if you hadn't had sex with her yet. I think you missed your window. Don't worry about it though if you can get her you can get similar girls and hotter. What she sent you is not a shit test but a straight out rejection. I wouldn't bother responding, or at most an "Ok" and preserve your dignity.

Talking to an old jump off. Hit her up 3 days ago and she was quick responding but today she wasnt.

Me: it was perfect this weekend... Do anything exciting
Her: (waited 2 hours this time) Not much, normal weekend stuff. It was really nice weekend weather. (didnt do shit, bored)
Me: (pic at the beach) beach was perfect. Let me guess.. Dinner with fam Friday and panera w/mom?

No responce. Thinking freeze for a couple days?

(04-12-2015 04:39 AM)Roardog Wrote:  It just confirms to me that you always need to go for the bang as soon as possible and women are fickle.

This. Had a similar situation recently.

Something I've been wondering about, but am too pussy/not enough of an asshole to try.

What if you tried to re-spike her emotions. Saying Cool / Ok / Sounds good is a near 100% chance that nothing will ever happen, and I get it youre just resigning while saving face.

But what if you said something like, Too bad you're not getting a second chance at that horrible blow job. Or: Youre a terrible women, just blow dudes in cars and bounce, I can't even imagine how many strange dicks you've had in your mouth.

Not to hurt her, and not to vent, just as a practical way of raising your odds... saying no chemistry means she sees you as neutral... responding with ok/cool etc... keeps you right in neutral town. Pissing her off or causing her to question herself doesn't and we all know anger is a potent aphrodisiac.

Anyway I've never tried it and it may be totally stupid, but just a thought.

Girl met on tinder

At first I was friendly and she was into it friendly back. Got her number and switched to text and said let's meet up this weekend for drinks. She said great plan. Weekend came and I didn't text her at all but has tested me and asked what I was doing. Told her grabbed a beer with my buddy and now watching the sox game what about you.

Radio silence. I let her cool off and restarted just now

Me. Drinks Thursday night you around?
Her. I work till 10
Me. Soo see you at 11?
Her. No it's so late. I work in the morning.
Me. Ok.
Her after 20 minutes. Where are you planning going anyway?
Me. Nowhere special just wanted to grab a drink with blonde I met last week.
Her. Well as long as it's not a late night.


At this point I can definitely tall she's giving me the Bitch game. I'm thinking of saying Lets just wait till the weekend but then again I did just convince her. I want to try to Fuck her the same night so do I go with it and rely on my game to get her back or do I say wait till the weekend. Will that give me better chances of the lay without pissing her off ? Thoughts?

Thanks

Also just re read and she said as long as WE don't MAKE IT a long night. Which something is telling me there is a subliminal message there and she wants to bang or likes the idea but has work? Which we know if I pull it off she will bang regardless of what time she has to get up. Either way....Thinking of sending the following: I live for late nights. I know how work can get. Lets wait till the weekend.

Thoughts?

(04-13-2015 11:17 AM)HenrySprinkler Wrote:  

(04-12-2015 04:39 AM)Roardog Wrote:  It just confirms to me that you always need to go for the bang as soon as possible and women are fickle.

This. Had a similar situation recently.

Something I've been wondering about, but am too pussy/not enough of an asshole to try.

What if you tried to re-spike her emotions. Saying Cool / Ok / Sounds good is a near 100% chance that nothing will ever happen, and I get it youre just resigning while saving face.

But what if you said something like, Too bad you're not getting a second chance at that horrible blow job. Or: Youre a terrible women, just blow dudes in cars and bounce, I can't even imagine how many strange dicks you've had in your mouth.

Not to hurt her, and not to vent, just as a practical way of raising your odds... saying no chemistry means she sees you as neutral... responding with ok/cool etc... keeps you right in neutral town. Pissing her off or causing her to question herself doesn't and we all know anger is a potent aphrodisiac.

Anyway I've never tried it and it may be totally stupid, but just a thought.

I've got nothing to lose so I might as well give this a try. It's a hail mary but my only play.

(04-13-2015 08:03 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  Girl met on tinder

At first I was friendly and she was into it friendly back. Got her number and switched to text and said let's meet up this weekend for drinks. She said great plan. Weekend came and I didn't text her at all but has tested me and asked what I was doing. Told her grabbed a beer with my buddy and now watching the sox game what about you.

Radio silence. I let her cool off and restarted just now

Me. Drinks Thursday night you around?
Her. I work till 10
Me. Soo see you at 11?
Her. No it's so late. I work in the morning.
Me. Ok.
Her after 20 minutes. Where are you planning going anyway?
Me. Nowhere special just wanted to grab a drink with blonde I met last week.
Her. Well as long as it's not a late night.


At this point I can definitely tall she's giving me the Bitch game. I'm thinking of saying Lets just wait till the weekend but then again I did just convince her. I want to try to Fuck her the same night so do I go with it and rely on my game to get her back or do I say wait till the weekend. Will that give me better chances of the lay without pissing her off ? Thoughts?

Thanks

Why wait to the weekend? If you have the logistics to bang her Thursday night then do so and bang someone else on the weekend. The longer you wait the more chance you give her hamster to spin or something else to take her attention.
As has been said, don't listen to what she says but her actions. It doesn't matter that she has said "as long as it's not a late one", all that matters is she agreed to meet. That action speaks louder than any words.

Either get her to come straight to your place or meet at a bar close to your place. Have one drink at the bar and then tell her to come back to your place using whatever pussy bait you have.
Your biggest danger with such a late night meeting is her pulling the "it's late, I need to get home" card but even if she does you can then line her up for the weekend.

Alright cool I think I just needed to see someone say it.

One Q tho, do you guys do anything overt when you see/meet her for the first time? (stand up, hug, kiss on the cheek) Ive never done anything more than a hug but am curious of other moves to get the kino going early. This girl is kind of a snooty Bitch she ended with:

Me. Of course
Her. Great Then! We can plan for Thursday as long as I don't have a bad day at work (like really bitch)
Me. Great. Make sure you have a good day then.

Tried to keep it nueteral but solid

(04-13-2015 10:06 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  Alright cool I think I just needed to see someone say it.

One Q tho, do you guys do anything overt when you see/meet her for the first time? (stand up, hug, kiss on the cheek) Ive never done anything more than a hug but am curious of other moves to get the kino going early. This girl is kind of a snooty Bitch she ended with:

Me. Of course
Her. Great Then! We can plan for Thursday as long as I don't have a bad day at work (like really bitch)
Me. Great. Make sure you have a good day then.

Tried to keep it nueteral but solid

I think you handled that well. It's a shit test and get out of jail free card so she doesn't feel bad if she bails on you last minute. You should be meeting her near your place anyway so if she does flake on you it won't be put you out much.

I always greet them confidently with a hug and a cheek to cheek kiss like I would a friend. This shows confidence, immediately starts kino and breaks down the personal space barrier.

(04-13-2015 08:03 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  Me. Drinks Thursday night you around?
Her. I work till 10
Me. Soo see you at 11?
Her. No it's so late. I work in the morning.
Me. Ok.
Her after 20 minutes. Where are you planning going anyway?
Me. Nowhere special just wanted to grab a drink with blonde I met last week.
Her. Well as long as it's not a late night.

Thanks

How does she work till 10 but also have to work early in the morning? I guess if she has two jobs or works as a waitress or something. But that whole thing wreaks of bullshit.

She's testing/giving a way out. I'd find out early on what her job is and gauge. Obviously you want to get the bang in as little time as possible, but you don't want to rush it unnecessarily and potentially scare her away, when you could have spent an extra hour laying down game and getting the bang.

Trying to think of something funny to say to girl who dyed her hair orange?

(04-14-2015 04:13 PM)The_Wonder Wrote:  Trying to think of something funny to say to girl who dyed her hair orange?

   

You mean like this.

Ha yeah. Don't even understand why people do it. I remember when I was at school one girl had her hair like that and another bright red. I was like "all you need is another mate to dye her hair green and I can call youz the traffic light".

Girl #1

Later that night:

Me: yo whats up
Her: Hey, in BK staying at a friends wbu?
Me: working on my MASTER PLAN. you in the hipster part of bk?
Her: Your master plan.
Me: of course, everyone has to have one!

- About a day passes, was going to reinitiate at about the same time she texted back -

Her: Hahah I was asking what your master plan was!
Me: you really want to know?!
Her: Sure!
Me: we can discuss it over drinks you free thurs or fri?
Her: I'll be working

I suspect she's either shit testing me or getting cold feet. What do you suggest I do?

The positive thing I'm taking away about this is my attitude to text game. Whereas before I was nervous, timid, and thinking about PUA bullshit, I'm now doing what I do best as in my approaches themselves - dominating space, being a dick, and taking the lead (though at the outset I like my world domination routine better, we'll see how this works in comparison).

I'd have asked for tomorrow but I legit have to be somewhere.

(04-14-2015 06:05 PM)Libertas Wrote:  Girl #1

Later that night:

Me: yo whats up
Her: Hey, in BK staying at a friends wbu?
Me: working on my MASTER PLAN. you in the hipster part of bk?
Her: Your master plan.
Me: of course, everyone has to have one!

- About a day passes, was going to reinitiate at about the same time she texted back -

Her: Hahah I was asking what your master plan was!
Me: you really want to know?!
Her: Sure!
Me: we can discuss it over drinks you free thurs or fri?
Her: I'll be working

I suspect she's either shit testing me or getting cold feet. What do you suggest I do?

The positive thing I'm taking away about this is my attitude to text game. Whereas before I was nervous, timid, and thinking about PUA bullshit, I'm now doing what I do best as in my approaches themselves - dominating space, being a dick, and taking the lead (though at the outset I like my world domination routine better, we'll see how this works in comparison).

I'd have asked for tomorrow but I legit have to be somewhere.

This is the most annoying type of exchange. You suggest time. She says no/maybe and doesn't offer an alternative. And in order to seem not needy you have to suggest only 1 or 2 days increasing the chances you hit on a day she's legitimately busy.

Something I haven't tried yet but been curious about

Her: I'll be working
You: This is the part where you suggest a time

or

You: This is the part where you suggest a time and I hesitantly accept

It may make you seem a little needy or imposing but it also says your serious and not accepting her bullshit half-answers.

That seems like a decent response. I'm starting to think I should send it at some point tomorrow though or might seem needier, IMO.

Put it in your words:

Her: "I'll be working."
You: "Call in sick. You'll want to lock me down before The Masterplan hits Stage 2."

If she evades: "Didn't you ever skip class? Evading responsibility always makes drinks taste better."

You'd better either have one hell of a masterplan or invent one. Of course, there's always the fallback in person:

"I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you." Deliver it as an ironic parody of a pickup line, not the real thing.

Substitute 'fuck' if she's got a sense of humour. She'll be expecting a predictable line, and it should disarm her.

(04-14-2015 10:42 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  Put it in your words:

Her: "I'll be working."
You: "Call in sick. You'll want to lock me down before The Masterplan hits Stage 2."

If she evades: "Didn't you ever skip class? Evading responsibility always makes drinks taste better."

You'd better either have one hell of a masterplan or invent one. Of course, there's always the fallback in person:

"I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you." Deliver it as an ironic parody of a pickup line, not the real thing.

Substitute 'fuck' if she's got a sense of humour. She'll be expecting a predictable line, and it should disarm her.

Damn that's all genius... I need to up my text game

Man, having a few blow outs with chicks I thought things were going well with recently.

This girl is 23 and opened me on Tinder, we chatted for a bit and I number closed. Moved to whatsapp, convo flowed easily for a couple of days and she seemed really interested. We arrange to meet for a drink next Monday night and then last night I get this.
It's over with this chick I'm sure but could I have played this better?

Her: I don't think I can follow through with this on Monday. I'm sorry

Me: Don't tell me you're getting cold feet?

Her: I just don't think it's a good idea

Me: What are you worried about? I'm not a serial killer.

Her: Lol! That's not what I'm worried about. It's not like I'm looking for a husband but I don't want a fling either. I really want someone, I've been alone for too long. I just don't think we're on the same page and that's fine. If we really did want to get to know each other, we'd be having coffee, not in a bar at 8.30.


I've never had a girl make that whole coffee vs drink leap before. Weird.

(04-15-2015 06:14 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Man, having a few blow outs with chicks I thought things were going well with recently.

This girl is 23 and opened me on Tinder, we chatted for a bit and I number closed. Moved to whatsapp, convo flowed easily for a couple of days and she seemed really interested. We arrange to meet for a drink next Monday night and then last night I get this.
It's over with this chick I'm sure but could I have played this better?

Her: I don't think I can follow through with this on Monday. I'm sorry

Me: Don't tell me you're getting cold feet?

Her: I just don't think it's a good idea

Me: What are you worried about? I'm not a serial killer.

Her: Lol! That's not what I'm worried about. It's not like I'm looking for a husband but I don't want a fling either. I really want someone, I've been alone for too long. I just don't think we're on the same page and that's fine. If we really did want to get to know each other, we'd be having coffee, not in a bar at 8.30.


I've never had a girl make that whole coffee vs drink leap before. Weird.

Well at least she gave us all an idea of what they expect. Coffee is considered less risky (No one pulls in the day often). With the bar, there is a good chance of getting laid because she's going with an idea that you want to take her home and fuck her. The only thing is playing it right, leading, good(witty) banter, and escalate. It's odd...with this being a tinder chick, someone probably giving her that idea of a relationship...or just playing a better hand.