On Tinder. Translated to English.

Silly GIF opener with dolphin saying hey.

Her: GIF with guy saying "who me?" then making flirting gesture back.

How was the caviar? (She says she eats caviar for breakfast)

no response

3 days later

Did you dance yourself to death in that strawberry costume ? Tell me where I should send the flowers.

Her: hehe a little bit unusual conversation

Very. Where do you live?

Her: x. you?

I live on X. How do you like it living there?

her: like it good, calm area. Did you have a nice holiday?

yes it was good. And you? What did you do?

her: What did you do? I had dinner with a friend, early evening.

Studied during day and went on a meetup during evening. What do you do for work?

no response, a couple of days go pass, today I write:

Did you eat yourself to death ? Tell me where I should send the flowers, again haha.

Her. What?
Her: Very strange conversation you have.

But it's good, then I am sticking out from the rest. What are you doing?

Her: No I mostly start thinking that I will remove you.
Her: Eating breakfast. You?

Waiting for the gym to open. What do you eat for breakfast?

hours later:

Her: Good job. I ate eggs and yoghurt kind off.

Eggs are good, they are a superfood according to my PT. Vi should have a drink. I am free on sunday and tuesday evening, tell me what suits you.

Her: Oh you think that..well you will have to impress me then.

Please give suggestions on what to respond. Now it's a couple of hours later.

^Thanks men - did get her out a 2nd time and got a +1. Nice crossfit ass.

(05-04-2019 02:52 PM)Phanes Wrote:  On Tinder. Translated to English.

Silly GIF opener with dolphin saying hey.

Her: GIF with guy saying "who me?" then making flirting gesture back.

How was the caviar? (She says she eats caviar for breakfast)

no response

3 days later

Did you dance yourself to death in that strawberry costume ? Tell me where I should send the flowers.

Her: hehe a little bit unusual conversation

Very. Where do you live?

Her: x. you?

I live on X. How do you like it living there?

her: like it good, calm area. Did you have a nice holiday?

yes it was good. And you? What did you do?

her: What did you do? I had dinner with a friend, early evening.

Studied during day and went on a meetup during evening. What do you do for work?

no response, a couple of days go pass, today I write:

Did you eat yourself to death ? Tell me where I should send the flowers, again haha.

Her. What?
Her: Very strange conversation you have.

But it's good, then I am sticking out from the rest. What are you doing?

Her: No I mostly start thinking that I will remove you.
Her: Eating breakfast. You?

Waiting for the gym to open. What do you eat for breakfast?

hours later:

Her: Good job. I ate eggs and yoghurt kind off.

Eggs are good, they are a superfood according to my PT. Vi should have a drink. I am free on sunday and tuesday evening, tell me what suits you.

Her: Oh you think that..well you will have to impress me then.

Please give suggestions on what to respond. Now it's a couple of hours later.

You didn't get a response from us, but there wasn't much to respond to.

When you read your own line of questioning, would you guess that it would make a girl dripping wet (or intrigued or ANYTHING remotely that direction) or do you think that it might make a girl bored, uninterested, dry her vagina right up?

If you think it's the former, you're dead wrong.

These types of questions are DEAD BORING and completely uninteresting TO MEN when they have a pretty girl asking them the questions.

Why in the world would you be asking them of a girl?

The good news is that your opener was good and well received. However, then you opened with a question that YOU think would play well because it references something in her profile.

However, the question is dull and unimaginative. What would compel her to tell you about how the caviar was that everyone knows she did NOT eat.

If you're going to pose a question based on fantasy, at least make it an intriguing question that gets her imagination going!

As you can see, when you threw out something that engaged her imagination she responded, even if she thought it a bit weird. Then you responded well by agreeing/amplifying then asking her very directly where she lives (at least shows confidence and was a short message to follow up the long one).

Keep doing things like that, not going to boring, stale, interview questions. It'd be better to ask her if she's been to a cool place where she lives than ask her if she likes the area. When she asked you how your holiday was if you're going to answer directly at least engage her imagination and gain her interest by mentioning something really cool or unique that you did (or at least make something up).

Be fun, be playful, be flirty. Don't answer her questions dryly and then follow up with asking her what she does for work.

WHO CARES what she does for work unless she's so passionate about it that it's going to get her to open up and invest in the conversation with you.

Seriously, who the fuck cares where a girl works. There are very few answers that are going to make her the least bit interested in meeting up with you.

Love the advice in the thread. Talking to an HB8 whom I met at night at a bar. She was flirting with the bartender but managed a venue change but did not k-close because she refused to go to mine.

Fast forward a few days and I try to set up a date on Wednesday and received no reply. When confirming details she said she forgot to reply and can’t do Wednesday. I ask her when she’s free and she replies that this Sunday works.

Her: “I’m free after 7 on Sunday. I’m so busy this week it’s wild”

Me: “Oh yeah this week has been crazy for me too.”
Me:“Cool we could go to () this Sunday around 8.”

Her: “Oh my gosh I’m so sorry but I just remembered that Sunday is the series finale of game of thrones so I already have plans that night!”

I hate this game of cat and mouse and feel flat footed (and have since my first double text.)

How to spice it up, challenge and bit, but not chase off?