Post: #1351

What would be a good way to start a text convo after this. Btw how can I disarm her slut shield?

Post: #1352

Anyone have any clever text openers pre-Valentine's weekend related?

Post: #1353

(02-11-2015 12:09 AM)Jestx Wrote:  Anyone have any clever text openers pre-Valentine's weekend related?

lost my v-day teddy... com cuddle

Post: #1354

@Spice...Her " I dont just hook up with strangers lol" is a such a common shit test. You should have responded by saying " great i always wait untl the 25th date anyway".

Shes definitely down. She wants to see what you can do, but shes putting up a little LMR to save her soul. Be the confident alpha that you are, and pass her weak shit tests and you got it in the bag. Booze and chocolate covered strawberries.

Post: #1355

(02-10-2015 10:52 PM)Spice Wrote:  What would be a good way to start a text convo after this. Btw how can I disarm her slut shield?

You definitely ended that way too fast and submissively man. Won't be surprised if the lead goes cold now.

Anyway, in response to my own text/phone issues I've decided to let loose and just do what I do best - be an overpowering dick.

Approach #1 from yesterday hasn't texted me back and I'm assuming she's a flake.

Approach #2, however, well here's the convo thus far:

Me: whats up metalhead
Her: Hey ___ (my job description)!!! Not much, how about you!!
Me: plotting global conquest. you in?
Her: Yeah!!! What's the plan?? Lmao
Me: I dont divulge my plans so easily. what kind of king does that?
Her: C'mon, and in exchange I'll save a seat in the front row for the "king" at my next concert!!
Me: but I can get that any time. Speaking of, here's sabaton: (link to the band we talked about to build some comfort)
Her: This band is one of the best!!! Keep listening to this great music!! Check out this band...They are HammerFall... I think they will like you!!

Her link didn't go through so I told her to send it again, which she did. It was getting late at that point so I decided to end it there.

Much, much better than what I've been doing. This is probably my best text convo thus far.

Some things to take away from this:

I didn't waste any energy worrying about the "right time to respond" and all that PUA bullshit and me not giving a damn about the outcome. I just let loose with a basic of what I do in my real approaches and a basic blueprint (coming from kaotic and others):

1. Break her state with some douchey attraction texts
2. Build some comfort

Now, this is all experimental so far but it was at a point when I probably should have called her. Again though, I'm just experimenting. Truth be told with Valentines' Day coming up so soon I don't really want to have a date that weekend since it's a game killer IMO (but maybe this is me overthinking things).

I pretty much have a solid plan to what to do going forward (I'll text her later about the band with a douchey remark to again break her state), but any input/feedback is welcome too.

Post: #1356

Alright, I commented about the band she sent me last night but no response yet. I'm assuming it fizzled out.

Some lessons from this:

1. I definitely should have called when things were hot (though her response times were a bit lagged - this is a big reason why I hate text).
2. I probably should have told her I was gonna be busy and would talk to her later in the next text instead of suddenly going silent. I was worried about that PUA bullshit mentality of "never be the last to text." Sure, you shouldn't be the last to respond but it shouldn't be a bible. She probably would have responded to the generic parting text anyway.
3. Girls flake very fast, even when the iron is hot (we all knew this already). You need to build up as much momentum as possible to bridge the gap before you see her and that usually means calling.

I also realized that I've been keeping an approach journal but not a texting one. I'm gonna start doing that so I can more readily learn from all these text interactions and get some feedback.

Post: #1357

Trying to salvage situation detailed here. Texted her today (day after), translated from Swedish...

ME 10:46 Hey hippie! Hope you avoided broken fingers during basketball practice. There time enough to challenge you to squash or badminton before you go home?

GIRL 17:19 It went great! I've never ever played either squash or badminton but it can't be that hard for a little sister right?

ME 22:23: My god woman, did you skip all PE lessons in school? Hah, we'll see.. you're a quick learner when are you off on tuesday?

GIRL 22:25: Haha ok I played badminton like once in school

GIRL 22:25: Around 16.15 I think

ME 22:34 Alright, squash around 16.45 then? Time to try rich kid sport numero uno!

GIRL 22:35 But I'm really gonna suck at squash!!!

ME 22:40 I'll go easy on you.. it's all about having fun. Or are you a really sore loser?

GIRL 22:45: Haha don't know if I dare

GIRL 22:55 So what are you doing tonight?

ME 23:49 Come on now *name*, worst that can happen is that you catch the ball with your head and get a nice little concussion

My gut is telling me I'm too persistent. I don't want to bring her straight over until I've relaxed about the whole performance anxiety thing, got me really freaked out since it's never happened to me before. Getting some Cialis this week as an insurance too. Want it available if she comes over again.

How would you proceed if she replies?

Post: #1358

I fucked up a re-bang opportunity with my tinder 8 brunnete. To set the context: met her on tinder->cocktails at lounge->hotel bang. For the entire 2 hrs during the bang she kept moaning, screaming, pleading me to keep on fucking her pussy, and on telling me how perfect my cock is and how great the sex was. Gotta love that. Afterwards, I got her a taxi home since it was very late night and out of safety concerns I didn't really want her out on the street by herself.
The following night I text her a "something made me think of you" line. She replies "yeah?" and I send a pic of hard cock. She responds with something like "omg haha" and goes radio silent to any of my further Hey's over the next week or so.

My dilemma here is whether my text was what tripped me up or whether she felt like a slut b/c of the SNL and the text was irrelevant...

How do you guys play a post-bang texting game to keep the plate warm for a re-bang?

Post: #1359

Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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How can I restart after this. I got the bang, but she was cool enough to see again

Post: #1360

Delete

Post: #1361

(02-15-2015 08:58 AM)Fortis Wrote:  Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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How can I restart after this. I got the bang, but she was cool enough to see again

Once you've already got the bang, you really shouldn't need to put forth much effort; assuming you fucked her well.

Usually a "What's up" or "Hey" is all that's needed to start up another quick convo, to see if she wants to hang out again.

The exception being if a bit of time has passed (a month plus), then a "Hey stranger" does the trick in most cases.

Post: #1362

(02-15-2015 08:58 AM)Fortis Wrote:  Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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How can I restart after this. I got the bang, but she was cool enough to see again

"i have a cure for that, cruise by, wear a scarf in the mean time"

Use neosporin or the generic equivalent.

Post: #1363

Post: #1364

^^^
"Meet you [day of week] at [place name] 8-ish"

Also, that should go into 'memorable exchanges' thread

Post: #1365

Can you guys give me some good convo openers for girls you've been on one date with already

I really have nothing to say to them except hey how are you

Post: #1366

I asked a girl out for date 2 thursday
She asked, "tmr?"
I said yes
And she replied with
"I will think about it"

That sounds like a shit test or a nice no. Should I bother replying?

Post: #1367

(02-18-2015 11:45 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  I asked a girl out for date 2 thursday
She asked, "tmr?"
I said yes
And she replied with
"I will think about it"

That sounds like a shit test or a nice no. Should I bother replying?

"Wear something cute."

Post: #1368

(02-18-2015 10:04 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Can you guys give me some good convo openers for girls you've been on one date with already

I really have nothing to say to them except hey how are you

dates where you got the girl out already!? Just go for logistics. Pick a good time after she is done with work on a weekday and late enough that she already had dinner.

"come over tomorrow 830pm addy is xxx, xxxx xxxxx"

Post: #1369

I refined my txt game with chat roulette ages ago when it was txt based only. It's a great way of testing openers etc. I pulled a few girls off there onto facebook but it's basically only good for txt game practice and coming up with usless shit to say based on what they've already said.

If you were rubbish they would just leave.

One of my best openers was "I shit with the door open". Guys would always leave but if the person said anything it was usually a girl.

Post: #1370

Line I get a lot on okc

"We would be married but your _____ is way nicer than mine and I'm not havin any of that. laugh face"

Post: #1371

^ I don't get it. explain

Post: #1372

Could someone drop a datasheet on so-called "nuclear texts". When a chick is being flakey I want a better option than radio-silence, because radio silence hasn't been helping me at all.

Post: #1373

Previous bang from last week. I'm mostly trolling here, but I was wonderng what you guys might say in reply to her last text. She seems butthurt. Lol

Today:

me: drinks movie tonight

her: I work tonight

me: at (restaurant)? Bring a steak with you

her: fuck that. what have you done for me? You never took me out on a proper date yet. Pass.

Post: #1374

Ok so already responded this is more for what to do next time
So got this chick's number on Tinder after we agreed to meet Thurs or Fri, she said she had exams. Went like this:

QD: Hey (girl's name), it's QD. When are your exams?
Her: I just have to study this weekend. So I can't really afford to get drunk
QD: Ah ok, Thursday then? I'll let you know where we're going day of
Her: That's a bit too last minute for me
I'd rather know the day before

She was seeming flakey so wanted to let her know day of to avoid this. Couldn't think of a way to brush off what she said. This was next:

QD: You near this (neighborhood)?
Her: Yea
QD: Alright I'll let ya know Wed

Was this a good way to go?

Post: #1375

Girl had some randon quip in her profile about just wanting to meet friends etc.

Me: Come on. You know guys and girls cannot be friends right?
Her: Come on! Their is!

I want to take this dialogue in a sexual direction, she's a legit 8-9 and I need to stand the fuck out from the thirsty mofos. This is Thai Friendly btw, so chances are she dissapears quickly.