I fucked up a re-bang opportunity with my tinder 8 brunnete. To set the context: met her on tinder->cocktails at lounge->hotel bang. For the entire 2 hrs during the bang she kept moaning, screaming, pleading me to keep on fucking her pussy, and on telling me how perfect my cock is and how great the sex was. Gotta love that. Afterwards, I got her a taxi home since it was very late night and out of safety concerns I didn't really want her out on the street by herself.
The following night I text her a "something made me think of you" line. She replies "yeah?" and I send a pic of hard cock. She responds with something like "omg haha" and goes radio silent to any of my further Hey's over the next week or so.

My dilemma here is whether my text was what tripped me up or whether she felt like a slut b/c of the SNL and the text was irrelevant...

How do you guys play a post-bang texting game to keep the plate warm for a re-bang?

Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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How can I restart after this. I got the bang, but she was cool enough to see again

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(02-15-2015 08:58 AM)Fortis Wrote:  Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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Once you've already got the bang, you really shouldn't need to put forth much effort; assuming you fucked her well.

Usually a "What's up" or "Hey" is all that's needed to start up another quick convo, to see if she wants to hang out again.

The exception being if a bit of time has passed (a month plus), then a "Hey stranger" does the trick in most cases.

(02-15-2015 08:58 AM)Fortis Wrote:  Her: you fucking asshole you left a hickies.

Me: lolol. Where

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"i have a cure for that, cruise by, wear a scarf in the mean time"

Use neosporin or the generic equivalent.

^^^
"Meet you [day of week] at [place name] 8-ish"

Also, that should go into 'memorable exchanges' thread

Can you guys give me some good convo openers for girls you've been on one date with already

I really have nothing to say to them except hey how are you

I asked a girl out for date 2 thursday
She asked, "tmr?"
I said yes
And she replied with
"I will think about it"

That sounds like a shit test or a nice no. Should I bother replying?

(02-18-2015 11:45 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  I asked a girl out for date 2 thursday
She asked, "tmr?"
I said yes
And she replied with
"I will think about it"

That sounds like a shit test or a nice no. Should I bother replying?

"Wear something cute."

(02-18-2015 10:04 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Can you guys give me some good convo openers for girls you've been on one date with already

I really have nothing to say to them except hey how are you

dates where you got the girl out already!? Just go for logistics. Pick a good time after she is done with work on a weekday and late enough that she already had dinner.

"come over tomorrow 830pm addy is xxx, xxxx xxxxx"

I refined my txt game with chat roulette ages ago when it was txt based only. It's a great way of testing openers etc. I pulled a few girls off there onto facebook but it's basically only good for txt game practice and coming up with usless shit to say based on what they've already said.

If you were rubbish they would just leave.

One of my best openers was "I shit with the door open". Guys would always leave but if the person said anything it was usually a girl.

Line I get a lot on okc

"We would be married but your _____ is way nicer than mine and I'm not havin any of that. laugh face"

^ I don't get it. explain

Could someone drop a datasheet on so-called "nuclear texts". When a chick is being flakey I want a better option than radio-silence, because radio silence hasn't been helping me at all.

Previous bang from last week. I'm mostly trolling here, but I was wonderng what you guys might say in reply to her last text. She seems butthurt. Lol

Today:

me: drinks movie tonight

her: I work tonight

me: at (restaurant)? Bring a steak with you

her: fuck that. what have you done for me? You never took me out on a proper date yet. Pass.

Ok so already responded this is more for what to do next time
So got this chick's number on Tinder after we agreed to meet Thurs or Fri, she said she had exams. Went like this:

QD: Hey (girl's name), it's QD. When are your exams?
Her: I just have to study this weekend. So I can't really afford to get drunk
QD: Ah ok, Thursday then? I'll let you know where we're going day of
Her: That's a bit too last minute for me
I'd rather know the day before

She was seeming flakey so wanted to let her know day of to avoid this. Couldn't think of a way to brush off what she said. This was next:

QD: You near this (neighborhood)?
Her: Yea
QD: Alright I'll let ya know Wed

Was this a good way to go?

Girl had some randon quip in her profile about just wanting to meet friends etc.

Me: Come on. You know guys and girls cannot be friends right?
Her: Come on! Their is!

I want to take this dialogue in a sexual direction, she's a legit 8-9 and I need to stand the fuck out from the thirsty mofos. This is Thai Friendly btw, so chances are she dissapears quickly.

^what's the point of this debate with her ? Don't get sucked into non sexual discussions. Just assume the sale even if it says just friends.

I had come across a similar profile on thai friendly during my time there. Didn't mention it even once during our chat. Asked her to hang out with me for coffee, walked around markets etc and got SNL.

This line is more like a filter for her to keep unwanted crap away. Don't take it seriously.

I'm not something that I am trying to debate. Just direct the conversation, I honestly give 0 shits about that. Most Thai girls will say that, I just want to sexualise the convo early.

(03-01-2015 07:20 PM)QuietDog Wrote:  Ok so already responded this is more for what to do next time
So got this chick's number on Tinder after we agreed to meet Thurs or Fri, she said she had exams. Went like this:

QD: Hey (girl's name), it's QD. When are your exams?
Her: I just have to study this weekend. So I can't really afford to get drunk
QD: Ah ok, Thursday then? I'll let you know where we're going day of
Her: That's a bit too last minute for me
I'd rather know the day before

She was seeming flakey so wanted to let her know day of to avoid this. Couldn't think of a way to brush off what she said. This was next:

QD: You near this (neighborhood)?
Her: Yea
QD: Alright I'll let ya know Wed

Was this a good way to go?

Your first mistake was flagging to her that you weren't going to tell her the details until the day. You don't need to say that, if she really cares she'll ask.
You should have just got her to commit to Thursday and said something like "great, I'll see you then" or "cool, lock it in", etc.
Then on Thursday morning hit her up with the details which also doubles as your confirmation text.

If she pushes for details earlier then organise them i.e. X time at Y bar, and then on the day of the date text her and say something like "hey, I've got to work a bit later than I thought, can we push back half an hour?"
Needless to say the time you want to push to should be the time you actually wanted the date to be.
Also, half an hour is a good amount of time as it's not long enough for her to be so put out she cancels on you. This way you get to confirm without appearing Beta.

Her: You're very interesting, you know that?

Me: I do.

Her: You appear, press my buttons, accuse me of things, and then email me. I'm not sure whether to be angry or flattered.

Me: Why not both?

Her: *laughs* My my. You must be ever-so-pleased with yourself.

Me: I'm curious... would you describe me as playfully cocky or just a jerk?

Her: Objectively? Mostly jerk. You seem to be so focused on seeming impressive that you slip off the 'playful' side, and over-do it. Take it from someone who's extremely sarcastic: if you think it might be hurtful, it is.

Me: What about subjectively?

How do I guide this conversation onward? I'm not going for logistics (she lives in Washington), but we may meet in a few months.

(03-04-2015 06:07 PM)Krusyos Wrote:  Her: You're very interesting, you know that?

Me: I do.

Her: You appear, press my buttons, accuse me of things, and then email me. I'm not sure whether to be angry or flattered.

Me: Why not both?

Her: *laughs* My my. You must be ever-so-pleased with yourself.

Me: I'm curious... would you describe me as playfully cocky or just a jerk?

Her: Objectively? Mostly jerk. You seem to be so focused on seeming impressive that you slip off the 'playful' side, and over-do it. Take it from someone who's extremely sarcastic: if you think it might be hurtful, it is.

Me: What about subjectively?

How do I guide this conversation onward? I'm not going for logistics (she lives in Washington), but we may meet in a few months.

Forget it. I'm already a lot farther into the conversation. All she required was a few Negs and it's becoming a lot easier now.

Mentioned I was a party to some okc girl I was texting, humorously described people doing coke as I'm doing something very boring in stark contrast like just watching tv and not joining them. Day later I send something slightly sexual/flirty and ask her out and she sends me.

Her "You're hilarious but I have to tell you we are on completely different planets. Hope you find what you're looking for"

Thinking it has to do with the sexual thing I sent, I say

Me "I wanted to go on a date with you what are they looking for on your planet"

Her: but you hang out with art kids who do crazy shit at parties

Me: althought i'm cooler I'm still dorky enough for you I promise
Me: are you just saying this because you're intimidated?

her: nah
her: i'm interested
her: but that just really turned me off

me: that I was a party? I don't partake in that stuff.

her: It's just...Not me.


I'm slightly pissed at this and considering tell her to fuck off with a simple, "Ok" but I want to get the bang. I can't believe how judgmental this girl is.

she has a completely incorrect idea of me of being this huge party guy maybe. Truth is I'm like a professional guy who cares about his life, doesn't do that sort of shit, and RARELY do I party.

me: hey (name) how are you.

her: who is this?

me: kanye west

her: lol!!!


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How do I keep this going?