Need some help here guys. Hungout with this girl twice(seems pretty innocent)...last time she came back to my place and we lightly hooked up. We had plans to hangout the day before she left town for a week to visit some friends and go to some sort of fruit festival, but canceled on me the day before saying she was leaving town early.

Me: How many blueberries were consumed last night?
(2 days later)

Her: (Picture of whole table of blueberries at festival)

Her: Now I’m just trying to figure out how to use them all

Her: (picture of blueberry and some other crap in her kitchen)

Her: (picture Blueberry/other crap juice she is making)

Me: impressive when are you making me some

Her: I’m paying the price for being off all that time from work :/ Working late for the next week

What's my move here?

(03-11-2015 01:35 PM)BTman Wrote:  Need some help here guys. Hungout with this girl twice(seems pretty innocent)...last time she came back to my place and we lightly hooked up. We had plans to hangout the day before she left town for a week to visit some friends and go to some sort of fruit festival, but canceled on me the day before saying she was leaving town early.

Me: How many blueberries were consumed last night?
(2 days later)

Her: (Picture of whole table of blueberries at festival)

Her: Now I’m just trying to figure out how to use them all

Her: (picture of blueberry and some other crap in her kitchen)

Her: (picture Blueberry/other crap juice she is making)

Me: impressive when are you making me some

Her: I’m paying the price for being off all that time from work :/ Working late for the next week

What's my move here?

send her "boo whoo... time off from work?" with a funny gif

   

Hoping someone can help me with this one. Obviously that's me at the top using the insert number line.
I'm not sure if this is a comfort issue or maybe just a validation thing?
I was thinking my reply would be just "Number."
Any suggestions?

Number can work if you are really good looking and the conversation prior went well...

"lets talk and find out"

"don't know yet lets talk"

If you think she will fall for something more soft because she looks like a LTR girl:

"not sure just something about you lets talk"

If she gives you shit after this she is trolling to laugh with her girlfriends cut her off.

Yeah if I were you I would agree with her and say something like, "you're right I can have any girl's number on here I want, maybe I should start talking to prettier girls ;-)". It's DHV, makes you sound confident, and you are fucking with her head.

Here's mine....

I said during the day something like, "I'm busy tonight, but send me a pic sometime." I should have said something about a nude pic but whatever. She responded with a pic last night and said, "it's not Friday anymore, so no more fun fun fun ;-)". The fun fun fun thing is a joke on that dumb fucking song Friday.

She's not smiling in the pic but trying very hard to make her face look sexy. I don't know if I should comment on the pic. If I respond to the text, I wanna say something like "everyday is Friday in my life". You know to DHV that my life is the shit. Opinions welcome

How should I respond if a girl texts me saying that she had a nightmare where I was 'the main character'?

On the one hand, I'm at a loss for what to write as it's so bizarre and random, but on the other hand I think it could be a great opportunity for a creative response.

(03-15-2015 08:59 AM)Bey Wrote:  How should I respond if a girl texts me saying that she had a nightmare where I was 'the main character'?

On the one hand, I'm at a loss for what to write as it's so bizarre and random, but on the other hand I think it could be a great opportunity for a creative response.

At least it means she's thinking about you, even subconsciously. And as they say "any publicity is good publicity".

Depending upon what she's like I'd respond with something like the below
"Do rape fantasies count as nightmares?"
"If I had a dream about 50 shades of grey I'd call it a nightmare too"
"Cool, how'd I look in a ski mask?"

(03-15-2015 08:59 AM)Bey Wrote:  How should I respond if a girl texts me saying that she had a nightmare where I was 'the main character'?

On the one hand, I'm at a loss for what to write as it's so bizarre and random, but on the other hand I think it could be a great opportunity for a creative response.

"Already dreaming about me?"

I met that girl in a bar last weekend. We had a good conversation. She seems to be a very correct, calm and well-behaved, so I had to make sure to make it light and funny to break the ice. We were dancing, there was a lot of kino. However, no kiss close (I could have) since I didn't want to break that sexual tension between us yet. She gave me compliments about my style and appearance. In the end I got her number and went home.

Now we're texting about our studies at university mainly and I made fun of her being in class while I'm taking a nap and going to gym. She was amused by that.

Her last text:

"The class was okay, I went home earlier though lol I can understand that you chose another course. I'd do the same if it was possible at my college "

I wanna text some kind of restart, more fun and sexual content. How do I do that?

(03-11-2015 01:35 PM)BTman Wrote:  Need some help here guys. Hungout with this girl twice(seems pretty innocent)...last time she came back to my place and we lightly hooked up. We had plans to hangout the day before she left town for a week to visit some friends and go to some sort of fruit festival, but canceled on me the day before saying she was leaving town early.

Me: How many blueberries were consumed last night?
(2 days later)

Her: (Picture of whole table of blueberries at festival)

Her: Now I’m just trying to figure out how to use them all

Her: (picture of blueberry and some other crap in her kitchen)

Her: (picture Blueberry/other crap juice she is making)

Me: impressive when are you making me some

Her: I’m paying the price for being off all that time from work :/ Working late for the next week

What's my move here?

Ask the question again that she didn't answer.

I recently got the "are u a nice guy?" shit test from a tinder girl.
Any suggestions? Agree & amplify?

(01-28-2015 06:50 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(01-27-2015 05:11 PM)robreke Wrote:  Went nuclear on a tinder match this weekend.

After several no responses from her ....after we'd bantered a bit earlier , I texted:

"Am I wasting my time texting you or what?"
Her - no response
Me: "Yep: Unsubscribe /Delete"
Those above texts were on Saturday.
Then today, Tuesday, 5 minutes ago: Her: Sorry I've been crazy busy the past two weeks today is day 3 without sleep

I know she does work two jobs. I guess I'm just going to go straight to asking when she's free after I wait a while. Suggestions welcome.

I continue to use this girl as a bit of an experiment for calling girls out on their non response flighty behavior. I really don't care because she's a tinder match I haven't met yet. After the banter above...the rest of the convo has gone like this:

Me - bummer...well get some sleep tonight.
Her - hopefully it's much needed for sure
Me- hope you get some...still interested in making plans sometime?
Then...I only gave her three hours to respond and after no response I hit her with:
Me: So....every time I ask about setting a time to meet...you stop returning texts...if you decide you want to ever do anything...lemme know...I'm done

Her at midnight three hours later as I'm sleeping ( I got the next morning)
Her: I got home and passed out sorry it's not intentional I'm literally drained. But I will message you tomorrow to set up a day most likely next week after I'm done with this store business it's been driving me crazy

Me about 2 this afternoon: Well ok....just lemme know
Her within 30: Will do

..let's see what happens. This chick is a semi glutton for text abuse/ calling out on shit. Hopefully she's not a SIF. Her pics look good though.

I bet she never got back to you. She's just an attention seeker.

I avoid using "let me know" to women. Those are words women tend to use for flaking. When you put it to her you make yourself sound available whenever she wants you. Best to just go no contact.

(03-19-2015 04:24 AM)TimRiggins85 Wrote:  I recently got the "are u a nice guy?" shit test from a tinder girl.
Any suggestions? Agree & amplify?

"Nah that's boring. Are you a crazy cat lady/stalker?"

"Only on Tuesdays"

"huh"

"?"

"Define nice"

"Santa might not say so"

"20% of the time every time"

"Are you a nice girl or naughty?

"Satisfyingly, nice"

Otherwise agree & amplify.

If you really feel like answering somewhat directly (can work but more low percentage):
"Depends"

"Sometimes"

(03-05-2015 12:53 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  Mentioned I was a party to some okc girl I was texting, humorously described people doing coke as I'm doing something very boring in stark contrast like just watching tv and not joining them. Day later I send something slightly sexual/flirty and ask her out and she sends me.

Her "You're hilarious but I have to tell you we are on completely different planets. Hope you find what you're looking for"

Thinking it has to do with the sexual thing I sent, I say

Me "I wanted to go on a date with you what are they looking for on your planet"

Her: but you hang out with art kids who do crazy shit at parties

Me: althought i'm cooler I'm still dorky enough for you I promise
Me: are you just saying this because you're intimidated?

her: nah
her: i'm interested
her: but that just really turned me off

me: that I was a party? I don't partake in that stuff.

her: It's just...Not me.


I'm slightly pissed at this and considering tell her to fuck off with a simple, "Ok" but I want to get the bang. I can't believe how judgmental this girl is.

she has a completely incorrect idea of me of being this huge party guy maybe. Truth is I'm like a professional guy who cares about his life, doesn't do that sort of shit, and RARELY do I party.

she must not party much if she considers coke crazy lol.

(03-19-2015 04:24 AM)TimRiggins85 Wrote:  I recently got the "are u a nice guy?" shit test from a tinder girl.
Any suggestions? Agree & amplify?

Easy.

No.

(03-17-2015 04:14 AM)RedGuard Wrote:  I met that girl in a bar last weekend. We had a good conversation. She seems to be a very correct, calm and well-behaved, so I had to make sure to make it light and funny to break the ice. We were dancing, there was a lot of kino. However, no kiss close (I could have) since I didn't want to break that sexual tension between us yet. She gave me compliments about my style and appearance. In the end I got her number and went home.

Now we're texting about our studies at university mainly and I made fun of her being in class while I'm taking a nap and going to gym. She was amused by that.

Her last text:

"The class was okay, I went home earlier though lol I can understand that you chose another course. I'd do the same if it was possible at my college "

I wanna text some kind of restart, more fun and sexual content. How do I do that?

It seems as though you two have good rapport going so before it goes too cold (which it inevitably will in the long run with texting like that) try and set up a date to escalate and what not.

(03-16-2015 07:06 AM)Roardog Wrote:  

(03-15-2015 08:59 AM)Bey Wrote:  How should I respond if a girl texts me saying that she had a nightmare where I was 'the main character'?

On the one hand, I'm at a loss for what to write as it's so bizarre and random, but on the other hand I think it could be a great opportunity for a creative response.

At least it means she's thinking about you, even subconsciously. And as they say "any publicity is good publicity".

Depending upon what she's like I'd respond with something like the below
"Do rape fantasies count as nightmares?"
"If I had a dream about 50 shades of grey I'd call it a nightmare too"
"Cool, how'd I look in a ski mask?"

I went with 'you always said you were afraid of big cock, so I'm not surprised' (a reference to previous conversation) and she's hasn't gotten back to me in five days.

Started this convo on okc but not much to go off.

   
   

I'd change the subject ^^^

Girl: Haha. G, you have to know I'm the kinda girl that loves to wear polka dots...

I'm trying to think of something witty or sexual as a response. Ideas?

send a polka dot lingerie pic

like this http://www.eastclothes.com/photos/01/EC2...1928-1.jpg

"prove it..undie pix"

Been banging this chick for a few weeks. Banged her last night. Text her:

Going out for drinks with a few friends later. You can join if you want. Probably going to xxxx place.

No response.

2 options:

1) don't say anything back for a week or so, let her come to you
2) say "lol ok..."

Since you have banged her, I'd probably go with option 1.

Just got this chicks number from tinder. real nice 7.5-8. she was super friendly over tinder now that we're texting I'm asking her about herself and she isn't replying with any interest in hearing about me.

ME: "you grow up around here"

Her: yeah in xxx and then xxx

Me: a xxx girl cool so are you a student?

Her: "well i was born in xxx haha but no im not, used to be tho"

I wanna just be like well Im glad you're so interested in learning about me...wtf do i do??

(03-27-2015 01:08 AM)UberBicep Wrote:  Been banging this chick for a few weeks. Banged her last night. Text her:

Going out for drinks with a few friends later. You can join if you want. Probably going to xxxx place.

No response.

You just banged her last night..why are you going to hang out with her again? Just back off and let her chase the D