Post: #5376

With the Lebanese chick
1) went physical
2) went emotional to engage

What I don't understand is why she wanted you over in the first place?

WIA

Post: #5377

I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

Post: #5378

I draw the line at relative child bearing age. Even if I don't want anymore kids, I still want the option to if I choose otherwise. IME, bishes approaching, and past menopause, have hormonal issues.

Post: #5379

(04-17-2017 02:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

not sure if a general question or to a particular person.

im 31,

generally 18-33, if above 33 then the woman gives strikes against her, so she needs to be chasing me, and be a gym-goer, cos at that age a lot of them have long lost there body in London. 18-33 is pretty much for the beat, if for taking serious then i would say 26-29

under 23 can sometimes be too much of a generation gap, they are the instagram/snapchat low attention span age, where as me at 31, we grew up with basic technology. sometimes i observe a disconnect/shift in culture around that age, felt like a lot of things changed between the 18-24 year old generation and the 29-36 y/o generation. social media and internet played a big part.

Post: #5380

(04-17-2017 02:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

I'm 25. My range is 18-35.

The kicker is, same standards apply to all. Beauty, personality, behavior. I'd go higher if the chick checked my boxes.

The closer she is to my bookend, the harder it is for her to qualify.

Post: #5381

(04-17-2017 02:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

I generally don't care as long as I find her attractive. However, these days I am picking up girls age 24 and under (im mid 30s) It is better than the 30s plus stretch I was on before because those girls start stressing for kids if they dont have any.

Post: #5382

I dont usually mess with women in their 30s with a few exceptions. If i meet an amazing, gorgeous, feminine woman and she says she's 33 I would still be interested. However, the older the women the more she has to bring to the table.Older woman are more likely to have had a previous marriage, kids and other baggage.

I think the common belief that women in their 30s are more mature than woman in their 20s is bs. Especially with this generation, they arent more mature they jusy know they have less options. They do a lot of the same dumb shit younger women do and they are old enough to know better.

At the same time younger women aren't perfect as they have an endless line of suitors and ADD but I will pursue them as long as I have access to them(im in my 30s). 30 year women ain't going anywhere.

I think the sweet spot for anything beyond a pump and dump is 22-27. These girls usually are done the University slut stage but not yet in the "babies rabies I need to be married by 30 where is this relationship going?" mode.

Post: #5383

Been with women from range 18 - 39 I'm 25.... as long as I find them attractive and they meet certain criteria I don't really mind.... if it starts to become a pain to be with them especially if they are older I drop them... I'm willing to put up with more the younger the girl is....

@RudeBwoy what about you?

Post: #5384

(04-17-2017 06:06 PM)ballsyamog Wrote:  Been with women from range 18 - 39 I'm 25.... as long as I find them attractive and they meet certain criteria I don't really mind.... if it starts to become a pain to be with them especially if they are older I drop them... I'm willing to put up with more the younger the girl is....

@RudeBwoy what about you?

I am late late 40s.

Most of the chicks I meet are 30ish, I am sure they have babies "rabies" of some degree.

I have a date lined up with this fitness chick that just joined my gym, I think she might be around age 35.

Another girl I know is 33, my dick is saying smash but my bigger head is saying don't do it.

A young black chick that works at a "my" local Starbucks, is coming on hard but I am sensing a religious good girl vibe. She is around 23 years of age and since she is black, I tend to have more respect for her.

I find talking to girls in their 20s a lot more refreshing than the women that are in their 30s.

My limit is age 35, I did deal with a 49 year old a long time ago. I was 31 and it was a transactional relationship.

Post: #5385

Man, I just turned 40 a year ago. I just don't see how anyone over 40 could sustain an LTR with a bish in her early 20's. Admittedly, having banged enough bishes for a couple lifetimes, my end game is finding solid LTR candidates. All I find in 20-30 demographic chicks are those who think I'm a possible provider. Having adult kids, there is no way I'm looking for another grownup to take care of. I like woman who already have their shit together looking to add to their lives, not supplement it.
Do I like banging fresh young poon, hell yeah, but honestly, sadly, after being sober for nearly 4 years, I can no longer bang bishes I'm not mentally attracted to and the young chicks I'm running across haven't meshed well mentally.

Post: #5386

^^ Relevant

Post: #5387

Scenario from the weekend:

Cold approach 3 set. Vibing pretty well for 10 minutes. You semi isolate one from the other two and she tells you how she's pissed right now because her fuckbuddy she wanted to fuck tonight (who was at the bar) just left to go fuck another chick (game recognized lol) she's upset.

How do you proceed?

Post: #5388

(04-18-2017 07:28 PM)tr1cky Wrote:  Scenario from the weekend:

Cold approach 3 set. Vibing pretty well for 10 minutes. You semi isolate one from the other two and she tells you how she's pissed right now because her fuckbuddy she wanted to fuck tonight (who was at the bar) just left to go fuck another chick (game recognized lol) she's upset.

How do you proceed?

Tell her she must suck.
Chick is trying to bait me into her shitty frame and the fact that she finds it appropriate to mention this (true or not) makes me angry. I not playing this hand, I throw the cards in the dealers face



Ironically this probably raises her interest in me...ya know because wymn

Post: #5389

(04-18-2017 07:28 PM)tr1cky Wrote:  Scenario from the weekend:

Cold approach 3 set. Vibing pretty well for 10 minutes. You semi isolate one from the other two and she tells you how she's pissed right now because her fuckbuddy she wanted to fuck tonight (who was at the bar) just left to go fuck another chick (game recognized lol) she's upset.

How do you proceed?

Play it cool in that situation. Girls in that situation want revenge. You can get an easy lay out of it.

Post: #5390

(04-17-2017 02:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

I'm 23 and I just recently started to go after older women. While living
In Mexico City I would always meet these fun 35-40 year old looking chicks out while partying. The oldest I ended up going was 41. In my experience older women also fuck a whole lot better too.

Post: #5391

(04-17-2017 02:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have a question.

What is your age limits, when it comes to women?

I see some guys are into older chicks and some are into younger chicks.

26. I don't have an age limit, if I find her attractive I'ma shoot my shot.
........


Heres my weekend.

Friday Nite @ the Domain

Girl 1
Starting at the first bar I meet girl 1 on my way out of the bar with my friend(its his birthday and hes rollin on some molly.)

Girl is walking by with her friends and I stop her and ask her for her name, she complies and grabs my hand to take me to the bar with her so she doesnt get separated from her girlfriends. We start chatting and I learn that she's from Austin as well and in typical fashion I make fun of the HS she went to. I tell her where I went and true to script she starts to tease me (my hometown is lame as hell) so a solid banter is on.

I have my hand around her waist and I’m caressing her back. Time to launch an amended soft version of the apocalypse line.
“Youre my girlfriend tonite.”
She gives a smile and says OK. While all this is going on her chubby little friend is plotting her cock block but my girl is staving her off. We flirting some more and she says some shit about me buying her a drink. I scoff at the idea and accuse her of using me for drinks. She says something about how I’m rubbing her back, I fire back “you like the way I pet you”. I order two tequila shots and we drink them and go over to her friends and exchange numbers. I’ve got to find my buddy who is blowing my shit up so I exit the bar and go find him.


Girl 2
I see her by the back of the bar. I walk up and ask her for her name and she tells me. I introduce myself to her and her friend and shift my attention back to my girl. Shes from dubai but raised her in Austin. The touching is pretty light but she is all smiles. I make fun of her for showing so many teeth.
We dancing and I’m twirling her and shit and then she lauches the first missile: “whats my name”.
I don’t remember and this process repeats itself about 3 times over lol. Luckilly she doesn’t remember my name either so I’m able to roll those punches off and secure her number after teasing her for forgetting my name.


Girl 3
At this point in the night I’ve ran into my old roommate and his friends, and my homie (the bday boy) has some IG girls hanging out with us. This thick ass snow bunny has a cute Asian friend so I’m hitting on her but everyone is tryin to holla. I fall back, too many girls here for that shit. We go to the next bar where thick as white girl wants some snow. I hold back at first because I don’t know this chick but after some token resistance--I think this is a solid move where I don’t look like some supplecating bitch but who knows.
“Hey you dropped your pen!” I go down to grab a fake the pen for her, she comes down and takes a bump. Asian girl is just watching. I slide out and start looking for girls.

Strike strike strike. No luck so far until I run into a group of girls and open one of them. We start talking and I learn it’s a bachelorette party



Shes receptive to my advances but shes not complying but not rejecting me despite my best efforts to get sign her to Team Mufasa. I leave and on my down the street I see three girls. I go up to one and ask her for her name. She ignores me like I’m not even there. I shake my own hand (cant leave yourself hanging) and move onto the next girl, she smiles and tells me her name. Shes a cutie from Brazil and as we talk the other two girls walk a few feet away and things are going well. Shes got to go tho so we exchange numbers and part.

Walking down the street again I run into the bday boy, the IG model, and her Asian friend. Asian friend wraps her arms around me and says how she thinks I’m so cool. I suggest an afterparty (I’ve got wine in my car, a good move when you go out to nite game) but the girls aren’t down. We walk them to an uber and all head our separate ways.

………

Saturday day drinking (2pm-7:30)

An ex-teammate (girl played on the womens team) is having a going away party at a bar and all of her homegirls are going to be there. My best friends sister shows up with her graduating class
(one girl that has been rude in the past but I don’t take her shit. Theres sexual tension…maybe just tension lol call her Tits McGee)
and another girl whom I’ve had a little history with in my blue pill days (call her tallie)—we liked each other but nothing happened because I was a blue bill bitch.

We are all talking having a great time Ive got everybody laughing in my area, I’m throwing banter and teasing them heavy; also I’m scouting for girls. One of my homies shows up and as far as guys go its me and him as far as men go in this crew. I’m checking out the local girls looking around like I’ve got ADHD and dropping one liners (damn girl—shit like that) under my breath (sexual energy).
On several instances the girls are following my line of sight—perfect just according to plan. In conversation Tallie says shes cheap as fuck when it comes to paying for drinks so I put her on my mini-bar moves and shes impressed (added value to her life). Later she drops a joke that I take seriously she holds face before bursting into laughter; I take this opportunity to call her an asshole and a dick—its all laughs between us and the girls around us.

On our move to another bar I lay claim over one of the girls dogs saying I’m going to use him to talk to girls. Tits McGee and I engage in banter over who will take the dog. I tell her she doesn’t need the dog she has puppies already (Tits); she and a few other girls laugh.
I concede the dog and tell the dog to take Tits McGee for a walk. The dog proceeds to drag Tits out the bar and across the street. Im teasing her the whole way. We arrive at the next bar and me and another girl in the crew (has a BF but I’ve known her since I was 14) are choppin it up, she decides to sit on my lap and I call her out on trying to use me as a cock block we laugh. She eventually moves to another seat.
Tits McGee is striking out while using the dog to attract guys. Simultaneously dudes all over the place are checking out the girls in our crew but not making any approaches. I make comment of this to the girls and how the dudes are pussies for just looking. They agree and start to joke how I probably look like their pimp—also of note they are all wyt wymn. We go into a conversation about how men today are afraid to talk to women.

Me and the homie start checking out ladies and talking about them when my best friend’s sister overhears us and joins in. Then this group of three girls walks in and I decide its time to get in the game. Tits now has a hoard of guys around her and the dog. Once one guy used petting the dog to talk to the girls every guy joined in. Eventually this handsome dude starts talking to Tits—he had tried to use me as an opening earlier while at the bar to get an "in" with our group. Good for him for not having as big of a pussy as I had thought.

I tell Tallie, the sister, and my homie that I’m going to go talk to the girls and they watch me walk over to the group of 3 girls who are now sitting by the bar. They don't believe me. I’m probably over there for 30 minutes and then tell them I’m going to head back to my group. They ask where they are at, I point, they catch the group of girls and my homie just watching us and wave to them in a friendly way. At this moment Tallie and homie walk over and join the conversation. I get my targets number and walk back to my group.

Eventually Tallie and my homie come back and complement me on my game. Tallie says its about time I got some game with a smile on her face. I tell her it took a while to realize I had the juice, had it the whole time and just didn’t know it. She laughs smiles and concurs.

Unfortunately I have to bounce to another party and the girls are going to go to dinner. We all hug it out and Tits comes up to me flustered that she thinks she gave the handsome dude the wrong number. I joke with her that’s its probably for the best if he couldn’t find the balls to talk to you until others did first. She nods, smiles, and says “Mufasa I’m glad you hung out with us, you are fun” or positive shit like that. I take a hug and leave.


Edit: I use one opener 90% of the time: A direct B-line to the girl/girls and ask them for their name(s) without offering my name.

Post: #5392

I'm not hating but seems as if you collect a lot of numbers without being on solid ground yet.

I generally don't get numbers unless I know there's a high probability of her answering and somewhat high probability of converting it to a date.

Ive found that collecting numbers in quick short interactions is a waste of time and generally leads to nothing.

So in a nutshell if I know it's a warm lead I'll get the number but cold leads and quick interaction phone numbers just seem to go nowhere.

I use social media for those kinds of interactions.

Post: #5393

what do you mean "solid ground"?

Post: #5394

Met a girl on the dance floor. Danced and made out with her for about 15 minutes. Her friends were leaving so I had to take in her number. Met her a week later for a date. Date was "ok" but I lost the sexual chemistry. She left after 1 hour to "pick up her friend from the airport". Haven't chatted with her since. I think I let her talk too much about her school and work. Not too much sexual vibe.

Question: I'm a tall black guy in decent shape but I don't come off with a sexual vibe. What should I do to get it?

Post: #5395

(04-19-2017 12:00 PM)Iso Wrote:  Met a girl on the dance floor. Danced and made out with her for about 15 minutes. Her friends were leaving so I had to take in her number. Met her a week later for a date. Date was "ok" but I lost the sexual chemistry. She left after 1 hour to "pick up her friend from the airport". Haven't chatted with her since. I think I let her talk too much about her school and work. Not too much sexual vibe.

Question: I'm a tall black guy in decent shape but I don't come off with a sexual vibe. What should I do to get it?

Remember, ABF (Always Be Flirting), change the convo to a sexual tone. I often have to remind myself to do this. It gets easy to just let a bish ramble about shit so you don't have to do a lot of work.

Post: #5396

(04-19-2017 11:34 AM)Mufasa Wrote:  what do you mean "solid ground"?

"Solid ground" for me means theres a reasonably high chance that the number will turn into something instead of a dud.

For example this interaction:

"I leave and on my down the street I see three girls. I go up to one and ask her for her name. She ignores me like I’m not even there. I shake my own hand (cant leave yourself hanging) and move onto the next girl, she smiles and tells me her name. Shes a cutie from Brazil and as we talk the other two girls walk a few feet away and things are going well. Shes got to go tho so we exchange numbers and part"

From your writing it seems like you hadn't been there in long at all.. grabbed the number fairly quick and ejected. Its hard to tell just from writing but it seems that the interactions are fast, not really sure if its a thing or not.. you grab the number.. eject and move on the next situation.

If i go out during nightgame I only get ONE or MAX two numbers.. not because I dont want more numbers.. I just prefer a SOLID lead over a quick number from a girl i talked to a couple minutes or so. Those kind of "quick numbers" just lead nowhere and get me annoyed.

Maybe I am doing it wrong.

Post: #5397

You're doing it right Kirdiesel, for both efficiency and depth.

Grab and run is great for chicks in less than optimal situations, but I've been burned too many times that way thinking it was going to be more than it is.

WIA

Post: #5398

(04-19-2017 12:41 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  

(04-19-2017 12:00 PM)Iso Wrote:  Met a girl on the dance floor. Danced and made out with her for about 15 minutes. Her friends were leaving so I had to take in her number. Met her a week later for a date. Date was "ok" but I lost the sexual chemistry. She left after 1 hour to "pick up her friend from the airport". Haven't chatted with her since. I think I let her talk too much about her school and work. Not too much sexual vibe.

Question: I'm a tall black guy in decent shape but I don't come off with a sexual vibe. What should I do to get it?

Remember, ABF (Always Be Flirting), change the convo to a sexual tone. I often have to remind myself to do this. It gets easy to just let a bish ramble about shit so you don't have to do a lot of work.

Thanks. The advice I always get it is to sit back, listen, and let her talk about herself. But, you opened my eyes on how that can go wrong if I don't steer the conversation the right way.

Post: #5399

RE: Age limits

I prefer girls aged 22-26, that is prime time for me. Anything pre 22 and they are goofy and can't leave the phone alone for a second, anything past 26 and they start getting cranky, sour, and annoying.

I really try to keep it in this range.

Girls who are about at 30 don't do much for me. All just sour and old looking. Plus I ain't in the life setting to go after these girls really but I see it is not a bad thing. Why work harder for something that isn't as good?

My goal is to keep that 22-26 window open as long as I can.

Post: #5400

I don't care about age limits, as long as she is bangable, I will go for it. I am not looking for a relationship, I'm just trying to nut and not lose my mind in the process.
I nearly always go for black so they don't age externally as quickly as other groups.

That being said regarding age, I have found that the young lizards (early 20s) are brain dead zombies obsessed with smartphones. They tweet, snapchat and IG every event, you feel like you are on a double date. I met one a while back, we went to a restaurant and she was on her phone so much, I decided to turn the meal into a Dutch event (meaning that she pays for what she ate). I had a glass of tap water and some croutons (which was about 3 bucks). When I told her this, her face dropped in dismay.

Back to the black don't crack. I met a lizard not too long ago at a house party and she was liking my African swagger..I was the only guy there from continental West Africa (the house party was by Cape Verdeans and Angolans) so I brought a different vibe. We exchanged digits, I met her up and was surprised to learn through discourse that she was about to turn 50. I was still going to drill her though, she looked like late 30s to me and my dick.