Post: #5351

(04-12-2017 11:10 AM)Mufasa Wrote:  Yes. I have three dashikis that I rock for night game. You'll get a lot of love and they pull a lot of attention. Guys will come up randomly and complement my dashiki, when I open a set of girls they will complement me on my colors. Its great when you're in a conversation with cutie pies and people won't stop coming up to you and complementing you. #FirstWorldProblems

Be careful about the sizes you buy though. American XXLs can fit a tall slinder dude without the T-shirt looking ill fitting. Two of the dashikis I bought first in the wrong size (XXL) and they didn't fit at all like a XXL nike Tee and were very unflattering.

Thx for the input Fam! About the sizes, are you saying an xxl is tight? kinda like an Asian xxl or the reverse? I'm a bigger dude and definitely don't wanna look like i'm wearing a muscle dashiki lol

Post: #5352

the reverse. Like scare crow loose.
I have a hardcore upside down triangle body though. on me my hips didn't fill up the bottom of the shirt despite my shoulders and chest filling it up. it was these ones:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06VVG...th=1&psc=1

This one fit fine though and I bought it at XXXL:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01K4I...th=1&psc=1

Post: #5353

Mufasa how big are you?

Post: #5354

(04-12-2017 01:39 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  the reverse. Like scare crow loose.
I have a hardcore upside down triangle body though. on me my hips didn't fill up the bottom of the shirt despite my shoulders and chest filling it up. it was these ones:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06VVG...th=1&psc=1

This one fit fine though and I bought it at XXXL:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01K4I...th=1&psc=1

The second link is dope.

I am feeling the pink one, pair that with some white jeans and some sick driving shoes. I could play the Nigerian oil tycoon game, just need a few lessons from Moma.

Post: #5355

(04-12-2017 01:39 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  the reverse. Like scare crow loose.
I have a hardcore upside down triangle body though. on me my hips didn't fill up the bottom of the shirt despite my shoulders and chest filling it up. it was these ones:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06VVG...th=1&psc=1

This one fit fine though and I bought it at XXXL:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01K4I...th=1&psc=1

Yea man I see what you're saying: Think of the Chest size in comparison to a suit size. Looks like I would fit a large/xlarge which is completely in-congruent with my normal sizing.
Size Large - Chest 53" Length 32"
Size X-Large - Chest 56" Length 33",
Size XX-Large - Chest 58" Length 33"
Size 3X-Large - Chest 60" Length 33"

Post: #5356

(04-12-2017 02:04 PM)ballsyamog Wrote:  Mufasa how big are you?

6'8"

but my body is all the way fucked up

chest: Xxl,
length: XL,
waist: M
neck: L.
arm length: 55

makes life hella hard

Post: #5357

6'8 is nice.

Post: #5358

(04-12-2017 06:01 PM)Moma Wrote:  6'8 is nice.

Sucks ass in life:

Air planes
Cars
Clothes shopping
Shoe Shoping
Bed Shoping

4 thumbs way down

Post: #5359

(04-12-2017 09:11 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  

(04-12-2017 06:01 PM)Moma Wrote:  6'8 is nice.

Sucks ass in life:

Air planes
Cars
Clothes shopping
Shoe Shoping
Bed Shoping

4 thumbs way down

You gotta make more money I guess..incentives..what's your shoe size?

Post: #5360

Mufasa,

I'm curious how height has affected your gaming experience. From what I heard, there is definitely a height threshold where it is seen as detrimental to gaming women if one is excessively tall, which runs counter to the height obsession women usually display.

What has been your experience at 6'8? While traveling I met a German guy who was above 2m and after mentioning I was jealous of his height, he replied that he hated it sometimes. Along with the factors you mentioned, he feels he sticks out like a sore thumb, and can never have true anonymity.

I'm also curious if being a tall brotha alters the experience as opposed to a tall white man. For obvious reasons such as stereotypes of being a professional athlete, among others. When I was in Phuket, I had a few people ask me if I was a football player; I'm not tall but I have a muscular/athletic build. What was interesting was the fascination people showed when they thought I was a professional athlete. For example, when I was getting a cut in Phuket, my barber stated emphatically, "oh, you're a football player!?". At which point, I noticed other people in the salon turn and look in interest. Of course when I said no, they went back to minding their own business, most likely disappointed that I was just a common mortal.

I've always wondered what gaming would be like if you are at least perceived as a professional athlete...

Post: #5361

I missed the height train hard, but my family doesn't really have anyone over 6'2 so it makes sense.

Post: #5362

(04-12-2017 10:21 PM)Moma Wrote:  You gotta make more money I guess..incentives..what's your shoe size?

damn bruh 15. bet you want my social security and banking accounts too lol

(04-13-2017 12:05 AM)Fury Wrote:  From what I heard, there is definitely a height threshold where it is seen as detrimental to gaming women if one is excessively tall, which runs counter to the height obsession women usually display.

I think there is but I also don't how how to validate or quantify this mainly because I have to find it irrelevant. To accept it as a limiting factor would be to give up control on my life and my game and I refuse to do that so I'm not of any use on that question.

Quote:What has been your experience at 6'8? While traveling I met a German guy who was above 2m and after mentioning I was jealous of his height, he replied that he hated it sometimes. Along with the factors you mentioned, he feels he sticks out like a sore thumb, and can never have true anonymity.

With girls:
I think it makes it easier to display IDGAF-ness and DHV because I stick out. If Im doing my thing having a great time by myself I do have a better chance of having girls pick up on my vibe. I don't know if its exclusive to me--and Ive asked about this before in the thread--but I get a lot of girls that eyeball me but will dodge eye contact like goddamn ebola. Countless have told me after walking into a bar behind me how many girls eye ball me and when I walk in I will be making an effort to lock eyes and NONE of them will return my gaze.
It gives me an excuse to invade their space since I usually can't hear what they are saying due to height differences. My contact may be perceived as more masculine and safe because of my height--similar effect of a jacked dude who's muscle mass creates a masculine presence. I think my height also allows girls to notice my body language easier from afar since I stick out.

On the other side of things I have to always be "on." My frame control never gets to take a rest because its much easier for me to be caught slippin since I don't blend in. This one doesnt bother me as much as I'm a extrovert x9000 when I get some jesus juice in me.

A few pages back in this thread about how non-black girls look at black guys in game for the "black experience.": Combine that with height and I think women expect not only a sexually aggressive black guy but a sexually aggressive black guy that has the assholeness AWALT attitude. Another reason why I find frame control so crucial and why I feel like I have to be "on" at all times.
Ive noticed moments when I'll open my mouth and the girl seems to realize that I'm not some douchebag athlete and they get turned off--they'll do that take my number out of niceness bull shit.

But one thing that is SUPER nice about being tall as that there seems to be a limitlessness to the types of approaches I can use. The more bazaar/odd the better.
I'll walk right up from behind some girls slide in-between two of them put my arms around them and ask of their names.
I'll wave girls over or point at them over the top of crouds.
I'll yell out "hey blondie" or whatever.
I walk straight up and ask them their names
I've put my face inches from another girls face on multiple occasion without saying a word
I'll grab a girls hand thats dancing and pull her over to me

Quote:What was interesting was the fascination people showed when they thought I was a professional athlete. For example, when I was getting a cut in Phuket, my barber stated emphatically, "oh, you're a football player!?".

I've always wondered what gaming would be like if you are at least perceived as a professional athlete...

I find it interesting how ill informed women are. Several times I've gone out with friends and they would tell girls that I was kevin durant to fuck with me. The girls interest would peak and actually believe it and even if I denied most would still be open to conversation. With that said I did compete professionally in my sport so girls do find it interesting when you are competing at that level.

Post: #5363

Damn that is tall.

How many times in your life have people asked you if your a basketball player? lol

I met up with an old friend the other day, in the local mall.
He is 6"4 and around 270llbs, bald head and has big arms. I got a chuckle how men stared at him nervously and the women took little peeks at him but seemed afraid to stare.
Some visiting Indian dudes gawked like he was The Rock, they stopped him and asked to take some pictures of him.
After they left, he says he gets that ALL the time.

Those are problems I wouldn't mind having for awhile.

Post: #5364

(04-13-2017 08:50 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Damn that is tall.

How many times in your life have people asked you if your a basketball player? lol

I met up with an old friend the other day, in the local mall.
He is 6"4 and around 270llbs, bald head and has big arms. I got a chuckle how men stared at him nervously and the women took little peeks at him but seemed afraid to stare.
Some visiting Indian dudes gawked like he was The Rock, they stopped him and asked to take some pictures of him.
After they left, he says he gets that ALL the time.

Those are problems I wouldn't mind having for awhile.

Yea and then their disappointment when they find out what sport I really play is hilarious.

Forgot to put this but it helps getting a spot on lock as well and build a rapport with the staff. Places know I'm the tall black friendly guy that rocks loud ass blazers

Post: #5365

There's nothing more annoying than when genetically blessed men complain about their gifts and advantages.

It's like when rich kids inherit money and act like it's such a burden.

Physical size for a man is a huge life advantage and game advantage. There's probably diminishing returns after 6'3" or taller but that's just like 175 million in the bank doesn't make you much sexier than 150 million in the bank. It's not in anyway a "problem" in my opinion.

Post: #5366

^^ Just cuz you can't relate to someone else problems doesn't make them any more or less problematic for them.
Shit, i'm 6'4" 280lbs that come with it's own set of challenges the average mofo couldn't relate to.

Post: #5367

(04-14-2017 02:35 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  ^^ Just cuz you can't relate to someone else problems doesn't make them any more or less problematic for them.
Shit, i'm 6'4" 280lbs that come with it's own set of challenges the average mofo couldn't relate to.

Yeah being 6'4" sounds just awful... It's one of those things where it's a "good problem". Like having too much money to know how to deal with and you gotta hire accountants and lawyers to manage your assets.

Is it challenging? Yes. Is it annoying when people complain about it? Absolutely.

Sorry if that sounds fucked up but as a 5'7" dude who went bald at age 16 who has literally been shittested to hell for his height and baldness, rejected, and even had girls laugh in my face it's a bit hard for me to relate to some 6 foot something guy complain about how hard it is to be tall.

I've spent years rebuilding my confidence and inner self, chiseling my now impressive physique in the gym, developing my style, and trying to build a career just to even the playing field and then there's behemoths complaining about tall guy problems. You're right I just can't relate to that.

Call me insensitive, call me a dick, but I simply can't relate. I can't even fathom.

Post: #5368

Bro, I get it. No I cannot relate, nor would I want to. However having an open mind ultimately gives you a widened prospective and inner peace. It's like white doods who complain that they are victims of today's "social justice war." Can I relate, hell no. Do I necessarily GAF, hell no, but that doesn't make what they feel isn't any less real to them. When you brush away someones seemingly irrational gripes, you end up with the likes of #45. I think we can all learn from that, lol.

Post: #5369

(04-14-2017 02:09 PM)Darkwing Buck Wrote:  There's nothing more annoying than when genetically blessed men complain about their gifts and advantages.

It's like when rich kids inherit money and act like it's such a burden.

Physical size for a man is a huge life advantage and game advantage. There's probably diminishing returns after 6'3" or taller but that's just like 175 million in the bank doesn't make you much sexier than 150 million in the bank. It's not in anyway a "problem" in my opinion.

D'AWWWWWWW sour sally I promise the tall kids club will let you to play on the monkey bars next time

Post: #5370

Cmon fellas let's keep it sane in here. If you are short you are short and you are tall you are tall. You just gotta learn how to live with it and make the best of it.

Back to game:

Anyone have any field reports? I won't be gaming hard again till the last week of the month so I'll be quiet for a little while.

A forum member has asked to meet up in Antwerp and if I have time I'll meet up with him. Maybe get some new perspectives. The last guy I met up with from here was good but didn't go out gaming much.

Post: #5371

Got a lil tinder story for y'all later. it surprises me every fucking time when you get to see how fucking insane women are.

She's coming over now but I had to do some damage control from a previous match we had on the app. this is what she said I did:

"you asked me if I was on heroine and never spoke to me again. And your rhetoric in general is hella cold."
"its rare that a man doesnt hit me back up"



I can do some reports too.
one was: ran a former girl that liked me when I had no game. She saw me in action with three girls at a table, walked over and joined the conversation, and then gave me propers on my game later.

Post: #5372

^Yeah I got a story.

A friend invited me over to her place yesterday. She's Lebanese, we went to college together.

Initially we were supposed to meet at a library but she changed and said lets meet at her house -- her mother and sister would be there.

Home girl works at university where I am tryoin to get a job, so I went in with the intent to network...but when I got to her spot, I noticed the house was awfully quiet, so i asked what was up. Mom and sister were out doing busy stuff, so it was just me and her in the house.

Okay, so in my mind, I'm thinking escalate and we'll see what happens.

So I ask for a "tour" around the house and basically just escalating physically, giving her high fives, asking her the fabric of her dress. This girl has the cake so I slapped it a couple of times playfully.

The tour continues, we get to her room. "Sorry for the mess," she says. yeah, it's kind of messy, she has tons of stuff from when she was younger.

Anyways, we're in her room and I got a bit more intimate with the touches, asking her about this fake tattoo on her clavicle and basically just feeling her body. But she isn't reciprocating in such a way that seemed like a clear green light.

Not one to immediately quit, I tried going a different route, tried getting at her emotions. I noticed she had a journal so I started talking about writing and how it can be a window to the soul (I dabble in my free time). My intent was to go from a flirty vibe to a serious, pensive vibe, then re-escalate physically.

After talking about souls and emotions, I said lets finish the tour, and she took me around the rest of her room. I asked her to change into something more comfortable (mistake?). and she did, one of those cotton dresses you see african women wearing a lot. She asked me to leave the room, I did (mistake?), she changed while I was gone, and when she came out, she asked me what I thought. And so I figured this would be a good time, to make something happen, I was going to have her turn around, and I was basically going to comment on how it fit her before I went in for a kiss, BUT I heard a door open downstairs and I knew it was a wrap

So no play from the Lebanese girl. it was fun playing with the cakes, but I feel like I missed out...

Going forward, I know that I'll need better logistics, not just for this one girl, but any girl that lives with her parents. I also could have gone for the quickie, but I really felt like there wasn't enough tension between us, which is what I was trying to build but then mom and sister showed up. Another thing that never happened is that the conversation never went sexual, nor did I feel any sort of...desire from her. Like I didn't really get the feeling that she was really turned on by me. She was responding to me as if I just slap girls butts all the time, which on one hand is good, but on the other hand I would have liked more of a green light to push forward.

to me though, no green light means I messed up somewhere.

Anyways, it's learning experience, so feel free to drop knowledge. I need more girls in the pipeline though, I'm feeling stagnant.

Keep on, brothas. i'm liking the daishiki look.

Edit: Also, home girl has an eating disorder and sees a psychiatrist for it, but she's got the cakes, and she's not crazy skinny. you could 't tell if you looked at her!!

Some cats say don't mess with crazy, but I seem to be going down that path. the most recent girl i messed was on anti-depressants. I figure if she's getting help it ain't that bad, but if y'all have thoughts on that, I'm open.

ALSO, my friend and I went to a "wine festival" this weekend. This is in a suburban area, clientele is very white and very middle aged (50s, early 60s). this MILF ends up flirting HEAVY with me and my boy. she was with her crew (her husband, and two friends, one guy, one girl), they're all super friendly, but too friendly. They start getting on about their liberal, prejudice-free juice, meanwhile MILF that initially came over is literally squeezing me and my friend's shoulders whenever she talks.

We got bored and left, ended up going to this restaurant they recommended us. My homie tells the waittress at this restaurant what just went down, andshe laughs and tells us that the couples we ran into are swingers, and they're known at the restaurant for being outrageous. MILf that approached us was a former NBA cheerleader.

Now my question is

Would you ride that swing?

Post: #5373

Basket, to me, MILF says it all. Of course, I would ride that swing. A MILF in her 90s is still a MILF and the LF appendage is what determines whether I would ride or not.

Tallyho!

Post: #5374

Basket good sheet! Love to see more of these here.

I had a similar situation where no matter what you do you can't seem to get that "green light" out of her. Shes showing interest but that "green light" just doesn't come out and then you start hesitating on what to do next. SAME SITUATION I had with the girl in Antwerp a few posts back.

This is a sticky situation and I have yet to find the solution to. I'm gonna think on it and post my thoughts again.



This is one reason I LOVE nightgame because its VERY easy for me to seduce and escalate in nightclubs. Its light on the talk and heavy on the physical.

9/10 dating white girls you can outdance them and if they CAN dance they want to qualify themselves and show they can keep up with you. So they will follow your lead.. leading to as easy touchy feeling situation. Couple that motherfucker with alcohol and shots and BOOM.

Post: #5375

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