(04-06-2017 05:03 PM)tr1cky Wrote: One of my favorite cold reads lately is "You look like the type of girl who has never been to a strip club"
I haven't tried it on any club rats yet but it has worked great on shy girls who look like they actually haven't.
Its a good topic to riff off and add sexuality.
(04-06-2017 05:29 PM)DimeBait Wrote: From what I'm reading, it would be better to throw a negative in that statement like, "You don't happen to go to strip clubs do you?" Followed by, I knew it (no matter what she says), lol. I love this shit!
(04-06-2017 07:04 PM)tr1cky Wrote: How do you handle it?
Side question: If that happened to you and your boy acted like that and thought it was "hilarious" and tweeted about it would you still be boys?
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(04-06-2017 07:04 PM)tr1cky Wrote: Scenario time:
You, your boy and his girl, and your girlfriend (for arguments sake lets say you've been seeing each other for 6 months, so it's not just a chick you met last weekend).
Your squad rolls up to the hottest club in town, settle in and grab a table and drinks. Out of nowhere a dude steps up, ignores you and starts spitting game at your girl.
Fuck, I recognize this guy. He's a NBA player/Famous Rapper/Internet Celeb/whatever. Your girl recognizes him too.
How do you handle it?
A wise man once said "The best defense is a good offense". Was the battle already lost before you even stepped foot in the club?
Source: http://thechive.com/2017/04/04/guy-tweet...32-photos/
Funny (but unsurprising) that the chick tried to get back with the dude after
Side question: If that happened to you and your boy acted like that and thought it was "hilarious" and tweeted about it would you still be boys?
(04-07-2017 03:21 PM)tr1cky Wrote: It seems WIA has been reading too much Iceburg slim. I kid. Not sure if you're joking or not but I think that could be a good play. Your girl practically HAS to react to that. I'm just not sure how that would play out.
Anyone ever try something like that before?
(04-07-2017 03:21 PM)tr1cky Wrote: It seems Mufasa thinks the war was already lost before the battle began, I agree with that - still though, I wonder if there is anything you could actively do to stop the play besides forgetting about the girl and turning it up. Which isn't a bad strategy per say.
It seems WIA has been reading too much Iceburg slim. I kid. Not sure if you're joking or not but I think that could be a good play. Your girl practically HAS to react to that. I'm just not sure how that would play out.
Anyone ever try something like that before?
(04-08-2017 03:07 PM)Moma Wrote: For you guys who used to be successful with black lizards and made the crossover to other races almost exclusively..what prompted the switch?Upbringing.
(04-05-2017 05:10 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: After reading your responses I think I bombed both dates.
-Lack of sexual tension on the blonde led to that stupid kiss and no invite to come upstairs. I am probably getting a second crack at this and gotta see if I want to take it.
-Lack of sexual tension on the model killed things completely and she hasnt returned my message at all.
I was going to be in both of these locations anyway so no sweat off my back. I was in Antwerp for work (I'm there once a month regardless) and Hamburg to visit my best friend in Germany so at the end of the day it was a good time and a RE-learning experience.
I am pretty aggressive during nightgame and not nearly as aggressive during "day game" for some reason unless I have previous compliance. I haven't had to start ground up during the day (since I dont normally online date) for a long time so having strategies for sexual tension in that situation wasn't in the front of my mind. Plus I wasn't the one planning the dates and I was just reacting to what was being thrown at me.
I would have fared better if the dates were in my cities because I would have had a complete strategy thought out before the date. i.e. where to escalate, how I would do it.. etc etc etc.... This whole situation threw me off and I was on the defensive instead of the offensive. I don't think its hard fix anyway for the future and if I go into this situation again I will be ready.
(04-08-2017 09:07 PM)godzilla Wrote:(04-05-2017 05:10 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: After reading your responses I think I bombed both dates.
-Lack of sexual tension on the blonde led to that stupid kiss and no invite to come upstairs. I am probably getting a second crack at this and gotta see if I want to take it.
-Lack of sexual tension on the model killed things completely and she hasnt returned my message at all.
I was going to be in both of these locations anyway so no sweat off my back. I was in Antwerp for work (I'm there once a month regardless) and Hamburg to visit my best friend in Germany so at the end of the day it was a good time and a RE-learning experience.
I am pretty aggressive during nightgame and not nearly as aggressive during "day game" for some reason unless I have previous compliance. I haven't had to start ground up during the day (since I dont normally online date) for a long time so having strategies for sexual tension in that situation wasn't in the front of my mind. Plus I wasn't the one planning the dates and I was just reacting to what was being thrown at me.
I would have fared better if the dates were in my cities because I would have had a complete strategy thought out before the date. i.e. where to escalate, how I would do it.. etc etc etc.... This whole situation threw me off and I was on the defensive instead of the offensive. I don't think its hard fix anyway for the future and if I go into this situation again I will be ready.
Kir
Man thats a rough shit test....I have heard "i have been with an american" or "german" or "spanish" but to say "it was bad" i havent heard that one.....
here is what i would have done...
ive heard this in europe
last time some girl came up to me and was like ..."i had a spanish boyfiend" (im not spanish)
this is an excuse to escalate .....i touched her thigh and looked her in the eye with a smerk and went .."we are all the same"
(04-09-2017 01:39 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: I mean she is still texting and seems heavily interested but I am going to put her on ice till the end of month until I am back in the area for business and give it another crack.
So i survived to fight again another day. I didnt get the smash the same day but I am still in the game.
The other girl is a complete goner. She is still watching my snaps on Snapchat but whatever.
(04-09-2017 01:39 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: The other girl is a complete goner. She is still watching my snaps on Snapchat but whatever.
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