Bump. C'mon RVF brothers I need some help

(07-25-2018 05:30 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  Met a FINE "christian" white girl in a coffee shop yesterday. Was real chatty and we were from the same area but she has a weird Ned Flanders overly nice vibe to her. We chatted for about 29 minutes.When she was leaving and I asked for her she looked like she did just to be nice. I went with rooshs text routine and when I hit her with would you like to hang out some e she said (paraphrasing)Next time our crew is in XYZ (city where we reside)does something fun I'll let you know!"

Social circle plays a good presence in my area but I'm focused on making money and don't have much time to socialize. What's the best way to flip this text to let her now I'm all about the date/bang but not come off as a creep.

"No I'd rather take you out, I have enough friends."

Optional, add "Nice meeting you though"

She'll either drop it or show interest. If she's really truly trying to be a Christian girl. If she's not, then why even respond? She's probably just being nice either way frankly.

Met a hb8 at the park this afternoon. Some homeless dude was harassing her and I told him to take a walk. We chatted for a bit before it started raining. She wanted me to go to a coffee shop with her, but I declined and took her number instead.

Me: Nice meeting you
Her: You too! You know it stopped raining about 2 minutes after you left
Me: Lucky you, it followed me half way home
Her: Oh no! That’s no good
A few hours later...
Her: Do you have IG? Or any social media?

Unsure how to respond.

(07-28-2018 11:45 PM)bantersmyth Wrote:  Met a hb8 at the park this afternoon. Some homeless dude was harassing her and I told him to take a walk. We chatted for a bit before it started raining. She wanted me to go to a coffee shop with her, but I declined and took her number instead.

Me: Nice meeting you
Her: You too! You know it stopped raining about 2 minutes after you left
Me: Lucky you, it followed me half way home
Her: Oh no! That’s no good
A few hours later...
Her: Do you have IG? Or any social media?

Unsure how to respond.

I don't have social media. So, whenever I get that question, which is rarely, I usually go with:

"nah, the selfies and pictures of food arent really my thing"

Social media genuinely pisses me off. Bunch of political bullshit mixed with narcissism.

If you do have social media, get rid of it. It's a waste of time.


Edit: Unless you're a baller who has pictures with models on your arms or travel constantly, I'd stay away.

(07-28-2018 11:45 PM)bantersmyth Wrote:  Met a hb8 at the park this afternoon. Some homeless dude was harassing her and I told him to take a walk. We chatted for a bit before it started raining. She wanted me to go to a coffee shop with her, but I declined and took her number instead.

Me: Nice meeting you
Her: You too! You know it stopped raining about 2 minutes after you left
Me: Lucky you, it followed me half way home
Her: Oh no! That’s no good
A few hours later...
Her: Do you have IG? Or any social media?

Unsure how to respond.

The girl's question about Instagram is girls' vetting system if you fit her narrative. Skank Hunt has been pressing this view for quite a bit and I think I'm in agreement with him. However, it hasn't been properly understood, I think what purpose Instagram serves ( in female to male relation). It's a proxy for an evolutionary mating sorting algorithm. If your pictures suggest you are famous, rich and powerful, you're in. If your pictures are full of you eating pizza and playing video games, you're out. In other words, it's a female's lazy way of evaluating, from a distance, your reproductive value to her ovums.

In the past, a woman would have to doll up, take the means of transport and spend in a location(s) hours, vetting you as her sex/mating prospect. This would require time and a little bit of stress on her part. As a man, you had a shot to show to a female your knowledge, charisma, cultivated passions and cultured persona. Now, they go so lazy they want to evaluate you on the cheap like a slab of meat by scanning trivial pictures within a few minutes time from afar because hordes of other men are knocking on their online doors. To put it shortly, females in the modern, westernised society, are getting an ever increasing, upper hand in the mating dance. Soon, us, men, will get locked up in a proverbial cage hoping a female will gratuitously let herself be impressed with our monkey dance. I can dance, but as a couple and I am going to choose the tune to which we'd dance. Not so much with furtively producing over the top, larger than life social media pictures tweaking things up hours on end to have thousands of followers and all the time doing crazy things in various locations all over the world. Just to a secure a date with some tart.

However, the problem the way I see is if a girl asks for Instagram, she's, using Krauser's nomenclature, a weak-ish maybe. Your approach hasn't been strong enough to persuade her to see you again for who you are. The upside is it wasn't too bad, for in this case she wouldn't have replied and probed further down the line.

It's up to you how to respond. Personally, I have no Instagram and refuse to be evaluated and judged as a man as if I was a product to be bid for in an auction. Man's value is more than his looks. If a girl cares more about my social presence than taking the 'risk' of meeting me in person, and refuses to meet up without purveying my Instagram (or any other social media crap), so be it. I saved my time to do something more productive than entertaining a vacuous female.

(07-29-2018 03:12 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(07-28-2018 11:45 PM)bantersmyth Wrote:  Met a hb8 at the park this afternoon. Some homeless dude was harassing her and I told him to take a walk. We chatted for a bit before it started raining. She wanted me to go to a coffee shop with her, but I declined and took her number instead.

Me: Nice meeting you
Her: You too! You know it stopped raining about 2 minutes after you left
Me: Lucky you, it followed me half way home
Her: Oh no! That’s no good
A few hours later...
Her: Do you have IG? Or any social media?

Unsure how to respond.

I don't have social media. So, whenever I get that question, which is rarely, I usually go with:

"nah, the selfies and pictures of food arent really my thing"

Social media genuinely pisses me off. Bunch of political bullshit mixed with narcissism.

If you do have social media, get rid of it. It's a waste of time.


Edit: Unless you're a baller who has pictures with models on your arms or travel constantly, I'd stay away.

I don't have facebook, but i do have IG and twitter. My main issue with social media is how it commodifies people. Twitter I use to keep with sports (I have a burner twitter that I use for the manosphere). My IG is mainly pictures I've taken while traveling. As a general rule, I don't post pictures of myself or other people. Could I benefit from posting shirtless pics on the beach? Probably, but I just think that shit is corny.

Anyway.. here's how I handled the convo:

(Next morning)
Me: Doing some research?
Her: lmao I'm just nosy, I can't help it (shrug emoji) at least i'm honest!
Me: +1 point for honesty
Me: Let's grab a drink Thursday, you can bring a notepad - get all your questions answered.
Her: haha, yeah that works

Set up drinks from there...

This is a bumble thread. We matched two days ago, I responded about 4-6 hours later

Her: Hey! Drink Saturday with a Canadian? X
Me: Yeah let's do it
Me: What is your Whatsapp number?

(08-03-2018 07:51 AM)ndsamkw Wrote:  This is a bumble thread. We matched two days ago, I responded about 4-6 hours later

Her: Hey! Drink Saturday with a Canadian? X
Me: Yeah let's do it
Me: What is your Whatsapp number?

There is nothing more to say here. Move on to the next.

"Yeah, let's do it", was a poor response.

Something like:

"International relations are my specialty! First summit will be Wine Bar X at 8:00.." would have made for stronger positioning.

It plays directly on her "Canadian" comment and gives a definite plan of action.

I went on 2 weeks holiday and left two leads in town, so some advice on how to nurture would be appreciated.

1. Italian, introverted, STEM profession, no FB and no IG (green flags). Met on 'language exchange'
31/07
Me: Ragazza, so Wednesday or Friday?
Her: I will return back from X (her hometown, a village in Italy) on Sunday
Me: Such a bad timing, I'm leaving for holidays on Saturday.
Her: ah!
Me: Send me some pics from x though.. I have to see if it is so beautiful as you said
Her: >>sends me 4 videos of her village and landscapes nearby<<
Me: >thump up<

2/08
Me: Waiting for an "update" (inside joke)
Her: >>sends me 4 videos of beaches, forests, some mountains, each video described)<<
3/08
Me: So detailed depiction. You must be awesome at your job (:
Me: >>Ping picture of a house in the mountains<<
Me: I imagined it something like this though.

No response so far, I realized my answer was overeager.

2. Northern African, Muslim but wears shorts and tops, foreign language teacher, quite cute. Met on expat meetup.

31/07
Me: Anyways, wanna meet up tomorrow or Friday? I'll show you Y and Z.
Her: I would love to,
Her: However, I'm working till noon then writing thesis till the evening.
Her: (
01/07
Me: First things first, see you after my holidays then (:
Her: Great!
Her: Enjoy ur holidays


I thought of sending them pics from my holidays on Thursday, capitalize on response and text them that I'm back in town after my holidays.
Feedback appreciated.

(08-06-2018 06:43 AM)Merengues Wrote:  I went on 2 weeks holiday and left two leads in town, so some advice on how to nurture would be appreciated.

1. Italian, introverted, STEM profession, no FB and no IG (green flags). Met on 'language exchange'
31/07
Me: Ragazza, so Wednesday or Friday?
Her: I will return back from X (her hometown, a village in Italy) on Sunday
Me: Such a bad timing, I'm leaving for holidays on Saturday.
Her: ah!
Me: Send me some pics from x though.. I have to see if it is so beautiful as you said
Her: >>sends me 4 videos of her village and landscapes nearby<<
Me: >thump up<

2/08
Me: Waiting for an "update" (inside joke)
Her: >>sends me 4 videos of beaches, forests, some mountains, each video described)<<
3/08
Me: So detailed depiction. You must be awesome at your job (:
Me: >>Ping picture of a house in the mountains<<
Me: I imagined it something like this though.

No response so far, I realized my answer was overeager.

2. Northern African, Muslim but wears shorts and tops, foreign language teacher, quite cute. Met on expat meetup.

31/07
Me: Anyways, wanna meet up tomorrow or Friday? I'll show you Y and Z.
Her: I would love to,
Her: However, I'm working till noon then writing thesis till the evening.
Her: (
01/07
Me: First things first, see you after my holidays then (:
Her: Great!
Her: Enjoy ur holidays


I thought of sending them pics from my holidays on Thursday, capitalize on response and text them that I'm back in town after my holidays.
Feedback appreciated.

Read Krauser's text game clinic. Always keep leads warm - the purpose is to keep you in her mind, be in a dream-like state and anticipate meeting you again. It is heavily underestimated what can be done over messaging - teasing, qualification, rapport. As they are away, there's no time pressure. Build the connection between you two. Lead her.

2/08
Me: Waiting for an "update" (inside joke)
Her: >>sends me 4 videos of beaches, forests, some mountains, each video described)<<
3/08
Me: So detailed depiction. You must be awesome at your job (:
Me: >>Ping picture of a house in the mountains<<
Me: I imagined it something like this though.

Nothing really bad in here, but not very personal. Maybe she's busy, maybe new guys (and exes) appeared, maybe she lost her phone, maybe...

Re-engage in a positive manner, I'd do something along the lines:

ÜberSuperAlphaMale: Ahoy! (waving hand on whatsapp). How's my third favourite Italian girl? (simple smiley) (credit: Krauser).

This message is cheerful and upbeat, it shows you're unaffected by her lack of response, it doesn't get nosey in the way of 'What were you doing last few days'. It also very subtly indicates you aren't fully sold on her, most girls thing they are the guy's best option, here you show that if she wants to be number one, there'll be work to do. It's very subtle, playful but there's this implicit qualification from superior quality male going on there.

31/07
Me: Anyways, wanna meet up tomorrow or Friday? I'll show you Y and Z.
Her: I would love to,
Her: However, I'm working till noon then writing thesis till the evening.
Her: (
01/07
Me: First things first, see you after my holidays then (:
Her: Great!
Her: Enjoy ur holidays

Send her a cool picture but not something obvious a la "A guy with a goofy smile in front of the Eiffel Tower". Something alluding to having fun with other girls but not easy to interpret or something very manly. You don't need to be in that picture. Something she can comment on and begin to thing "Hmm, this guy is more interesting than I thought."

Polish chick I banged for two months this year. She's 12 years younger, about an 8, and no tats. The last time I returned back to my home country she asked when I'd visit next. When I told her a month she was upset and said she could no longer have a long distance relationship as it was causing her too much pain.

I tried to maintain text banter regardless but she went cold, so around 8 weeks ago I deleted her from everything and went NC. She was upset about that, but I remained silent.

We stopped talking, but she creeps my IG every single day.

She texts on FB tonight after all this time saying the has a question. She tells me she wants to know the name of some fucking quiz show from my home country from ten years ago.

Not even so much as a "how are you".

My response?

Answer her question. Ramble about loosely related things until you can feel rapport is starting to feel back to normal.

Then you could just ask her out over text message or ask if she has time to talk on the phone now. Talking on the phone will help the positive feeling of communication between you two, then ask her out.

No way to know for sure. She could just be curious to see if your rich and famous now or if you crashed and burned in life.

"Why are you not texting me, daddy? "

Any good responses to that, anyone?
I haven't texted her because I'm busy with other girls now and won't be able to see this girl anyway in 2 weeks because of the distance between us and don't like to be her friend.

^"busy"

(08-16-2018 05:41 PM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote:  "Why are you not texting me, daddy? "

Any good responses to that, anyone?
I haven't texted her because I'm busy with other girls now and won't be able to see this girl anyway in 2 weeks because of the distance between us and don't like to be her friend.

Couldn't be any simpler.

Girl: Why are you not texting me, daddy?
Superman: Well, have you been well behaved lately?"

(08-18-2018 03:36 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(08-16-2018 05:41 PM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote:  "Why are you not texting me, daddy? "

Any good responses to that, anyone?
I haven't texted her because I'm busy with other girls now and won't be able to see this girl anyway in 2 weeks because of the distance between us and don't like to be her friend.

Couldn't be any simpler.

Girl: Why are you not texting me, daddy?
Superman: Well, have you been well behaved lately?"

Excellent play.

When girls call you daddy it literally opens to you a whole new world of text and game.

So many ways you could play this, pent up sexual tension, nudes, them driving far distances for a quick fuck, etc.

Due to the reccomendation of Kaotic I am moving this post here

Should I Text Back or Forget Girl
"A few days ago, I was at a club with some friends of mine and ended up meeting a really cool girl and we spent the night together and I even kissed her a few different times throughout the night. Before I left she even begged for me to hang out with her before she leaves for Uni. I was excited because I was also hoping to see her again, but, when I texted back the next day she didn't respond. At this point, it has now been two days since we met and I was thinking about texting her back again to see what happens. Also, I'm pretty sure she wasn't drunk when we were hanging out because she just had one drink."

What do you think I should do guys?

Thanks


Original thread is here
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-70067.html

It's most likely dead but you can send one more message before you declare it.

Wait at least a couple more days. Then send her a message with either a random funny/provocative comment or a meme of some sort. Try to make it relatable to you and her. If you're getting silence do not try to make plans and avoid asking questions.

To give you an idea, once I sent a gif of a girl dancing a silly hoola hoop dance to a girl I had met and danced with at a bar with a caption "I saw that and it reminded me of you". Another timeless classic for re-initiating is the "I saw a cat that looked just like you". I'm pretty sure you can find it online if you search.

Met this girl recently at a college party. I texted her the day after,getting a response. So I decided to text her this : let’s chill at the mall Tuesday 6:30pm
Her: wym chill ? Sit and talk ?
Me:sign languages sound better to me
Her: if I’m available, I’ll let you know.
Me: sure thing.
Tuesday came around and i hit her before 4 pm. No response at all. What would be the next move ?

(08-22-2018 01:06 PM)Roswell87 Wrote:  Met this girl recently at a college party. I texted her the day after,getting a response. So I decided to text her this : let’s chill at the mall Tuesday 6:30pm
Her: wym chill ? Sit and talk ?
Me:sign languages sound better to me
Her: if I’m available, I’ll let you know.
Me: sure thing.
Tuesday came around and i hit her before 4 pm. No response at all. What would be the next move ?

She basically said, "the mall? that's lame, that's your idea to hangout? Next!"

A woman who says "IF i'm available, I'll let you know" means she's soft nexting you. She isn't countering your offer or entertaining it at all.

Don't surprised if she ghosted you and doesn't respond to any restart text you send.

You gotta be more creative than chilling at the mall, that shit sounds boring and lame, you gotta make her gina tingle.

You:Hey it's that handsome devil named Roswell.
Her: Oh hey blah blah whats up !?
You: Just getting X done after the gym (keep it interesting, what trouble are you getting into?
Her: Oh just doing blah blah and work.
You: So what's your evening schedule like this week?
Her: Oh I'm doing this blah blah but nothing on x, y, and z day.
You (option 1):How about me up on X day, at Y venue, at Z time, it's a cool little place you'll like.
Her: Okay great sounds good!
You: Cool, I gotta busy few days ahead of me, I'll shoot you a text the day before and catch up!

You (option 2):Let's meet up on X day at Z time, you in?
Her: Yeah that sounds great, what are we doing?
You: Oh I figured we go rob a bank then have a nice romantic makeout behind a dumpster in a dark alley, I know I'm a romantic right?
Her: HAHAh you're funny, so what are we really going to do?
You: We'll meet at Y venue, it's a cool little place you'll like.
Her: Okay cool sounds good!


You see what I'm getting at - you have to mix a little finesse and sarcasm with guiding the convo and having a solid plan and direction.

I have a next girl texting. I told to her to let chills Wednesday. Wednesday came and she text me saying she couldn’t make because she didn’t have her parents car to leave the house, I try to reschedule for Friday but she did not reply. This past Wednesday I text her asking her how was the party she attended, she reply this morning. I want to ask her out for a last time, what’s the move from here ?

^She's blowing you off. She is only responding when it's convenient or when she's bored.

You hit her up multiple times to no avail. If I was you, I wouldn't waste any more time.

For her, you are only a small blip on her radar. Time for you to move on to better things.

So two nights ago this girl asked to be my girlfriend and I said yes. We spent Friday and all of Saturday together. I realized that I actually did not want to settle down, but then out of nowhere, she sent me this:

"It's always fun when we both hang out but I don't think we're a good match. We're not going to be good influences on each other. I should have been more thoughtful. Thank you and I hope you find someone"

Not quite sure how to respond. I do not want the relationship, but I would like to keep her in my harem or have her in network for potential future bangs. Any thoughts?

"yeah I think you're right, good luck"

And move on, no more texts.

If she does respond after that don't get involved in a serious or boring conversation. Conversations with girls should be fun, not serious. Lighten it up. You don't need to be a comic genius sometimes just fucking around with emojis and gifs is funny enough.

So setup, met this girl on tinder. Yoga instructor, great body. First date went well, ended with a kiss. She texted me the next day etc Second date went better, ended up at mine.

Texting is my weakness. Our last exchange was her texting me Friday night at 10.30pm:

Her(Fri 10.30pm): Any fun tinder dates tonight?
Me (Fri 10.35pm): oh you know, quiet night so just three or four. How’s your night going?
Her(Sat 6.30am): Sorry, I was in bed and asleep by the time you replied! I had been on friend duty, mending one of my friends broken hearts.
Me(Sun 10am) How’s your morning going? Still mending broken hearts?
Her(Sun 6pm): I sure am

Her last text was two days ago, I’m probably overthinking and should just tee up drinks this week but does anyone have any suggestions?

Cheers