(03-04-2018 04:27 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:25 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:22 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:06 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 03:58 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  A chick from uni with whom I have 2 class per week, so we meet weekly but no any interesting convos during these. This week she landed in my bed, but since then there was not any message.

Should I text her occassionally to get her attention? Or just leave her alone and tease in person?

Did you have sex with her or does she think youre her gay friend?

Had sex 3 times, sorry for not elaborating clearly

So you texted her and no response or are you just expecting her to text you because you fucked her?

Have not text her so far, and she have not sent me anything either, just want to maximize my chances to keep her as a plate.

I see. Its hard to know what to advise without knowing the context of your interactions leading up to your hookup night.

She might be expecting you to reach out to her first (just like you are)

Or

She's regretting the hookup and thinking you think she's easy

Or

Youre in uni so she might just be in her "funIm gonna try a lotta dicks while" I can phase and that night was just your turn

Regardless once youve banged a girl you can count that encounter as a victory that cant be taken away so...

Since its been a few days just

1 Send a text:

"Hey how you doing dollface?" (my go to)...but again hard to know if that "fits" your context.

For example Ive sent "Hey I had fun pulling your hair and choking you. Lets do it again" ...but it fit the context (and we did)

2 See how long it takes her to respond...play accordingly


3. Try not to care if you dont get to bang her again. Caring is the best way to fail

4. Game other chicks. Youre in uni and you will likely never ever in your life be in such constant proximity to uni aged chicks as you are now

(03-04-2018 04:31 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:23 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:14 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  Ok I edited it.
1. I did try , i poured in more alcohol,I told her I like her and we watched a movie. I gifted her some hand-made bracelets and opened the bedroom to signal her. I put my hands on her legs and tried to escalate softly. But did not want to have a bad feedback on my CS account.

(03-04-2018 04:14 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  2. I am seeing her again later this month and exchanged some messages on whatsapp. We will probably meet for wine tasting and a boat trip.
I plan to tell her to book a place together but will it be too straight-forward? I usually prefer to know beforehand if she has an interest in hooking up.

I be better able to answer this once I know the answer to the above

1. I stopped the movie and tried to get close to her but she said she was tired. I forgot to tell her the couch is extendable and messaged her asking if she needed some help. She said if she cannot do it herself she would message me. After a few hours, I was playing online poker in my room and dropped my phone. She messaged me asking if everything is okay and asked me if I want to drink something. And I was like of course, but then she said just water and i replied i am going to sleep.
Next day I prepared tequila shots but we did not drink. Really weird because she said she wanted to try.

Why did you stop the movie? This was probably what killed the vibe. You were sending the "we go fuck now" vibe and just killed the plausible deniability. If she's not objecting to you touching her legs then you should have just kissed her.

I also get a sense that youre used to "shoring" semi pros for sex

You need to read Bang for starters

(03-04-2018 04:47 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:31 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:23 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:14 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  Ok I edited it.
1. I did try , i poured in more alcohol,I told her I like her and we watched a movie. I gifted her some hand-made bracelets and opened the bedroom to signal her. I put my hands on her legs and tried to escalate softly. But did not want to have a bad feedback on my CS account.

(03-04-2018 04:14 PM)Nibiru Wrote:  2. I am seeing her again later this month and exchanged some messages on whatsapp. We will probably meet for wine tasting and a boat trip.
I plan to tell her to book a place together but will it be too straight-forward? I usually prefer to know beforehand if she has an interest in hooking up.

I be better able to answer this once I know the answer to the above

1. I stopped the movie and tried to get close to her but she said she was tired. I forgot to tell her the couch is extendable and messaged her asking if she needed some help. She said if she cannot do it herself she would message me. After a few hours, I was playing online poker in my room and dropped my phone. She messaged me asking if everything is okay and asked me if I want to drink something. And I was like of course, but then she said just water and i replied i am going to sleep.
Next day I prepared tequila shots but we did not drink. Really weird because she said she wanted to try.

What happened when you put your hands on her legs? Did you try to kiss her? Did she say "stop" (or otherwise indicate resistance)? Youre leaving out the most important details

Nothing happened. She played it like it was an accident. I tried to play with her legs and massage them. No she did not say stop. Just pulled them back but not immediately. And her eyes were closing. She wanted to sleep. I did not try to kiss her she was staying too far for me to reach.

(03-04-2018 04:44 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:27 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:25 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:22 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:06 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Did you have sex with her or does she think youre her gay friend?

Had sex 3 times, sorry for not elaborating clearly

So you texted her and no response or are you just expecting her to text you because you fucked her?

Have not text her so far, and she have not sent me anything either, just want to maximize my chances to keep her as a plate.

I see. Its hard to know what to advise without knowing the context of your interactions leading up to your hookup night.

She might be expecting you to reach out to her first (just like you are)

Or

She's regretting the hookup and thinking you think she's easy

Or

Youre in uni so she might just be in her "funIm gonna try a lotta dicks while" I can phase and that night was just your turn

Regardless once youve banged a girl you can count that encounter as a victory that cant be taken away so...

Since its been a few days just

1 Send a text:

"Hey how you doing dollface?" (my go to)...but again hard to know if that "fits" your context.

For example Ive sent "Hey I had fun pulling your hair and choking you. Lets do it again" ...but it fit the context (and we did)

2 See how long it takes her to respond...play accordingly


3. Try not to care if you dont get to bang her again. Caring is the best way to fail

4. Game other chicks. Youre in uni and you will likely never ever in your life be in such constant proximity to uni aged chicks as you are now

So a short context for deeper understanding: I knew her for a year now, and spoke several times bc we are in the same double degree program, she is 25, I am 24 at the end of our master's programme. So maybe after the "lets fuck every week" period.

Before the hookup, at a short uni trip ("camp") one of her girlfriends insisted me that I should fuck her so I got her to the bed and kissed for hours but could not fucked bc she was afraid that someone could open to the room.

This trip was 2 weeks ago, since then we spoke 3-4 times, casually, nothing special, than this week I invited her to a bar, according to this datasheet.

Overall I am quite satisfied with the outcome, thanks for the tips, I will send her a msg tomorrow morning/afternoon! (You were quite punctual with the choking, hair pulling context )

(03-04-2018 05:27 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:44 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:27 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:25 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-04-2018 04:22 PM)replicaforit Wrote:  Had sex 3 times, sorry for not elaborating clearly

So you texted her and no response or are you just expecting her to text you because you fucked her?

Have not text her so far, and she have not sent me anything either, just want to maximize my chances to keep her as a plate.

I see. Its hard to know what to advise without knowing the context of your interactions leading up to your hookup night.

She might be expecting you to reach out to her first (just like you are)

Or

She's regretting the hookup and thinking you think she's easy

Or

Youre in uni so she might just be in her "funIm gonna try a lotta dicks while" I can phase and that night was just your turn

Regardless once youve banged a girl you can count that encounter as a victory that cant be taken away so...

Since its been a few days just

1 Send a text:

"Hey how you doing dollface?" (my go to)...but again hard to know if that "fits" your context.

For example Ive sent "Hey I had fun pulling your hair and choking you. Lets do it again" ...but it fit the context (and we did)

2 See how long it takes her to respond...play accordingly


3. Try not to care if you dont get to bang her again. Caring is the best way to fail

4. Game other chicks. Youre in uni and you will likely never ever in your life be in such constant proximity to uni aged chicks as you are now

So a short context for deeper understanding: I knew her for a year now, and spoke several times bc we are in the same double degree program, she is 25, I am 24 at the end of our master's programme. So maybe after the "lets fuck every week" period.

Before the hookup, at a short uni trip ("camp") one of her girlfriends insisted me that I should fuck her so I got her to the bed and kissed for hours but could not fucked bc she was afraid that someone could open to the room.

This trip was 2 weeks ago, since then we spoke 3-4 times, casually, nothing special, than this week I invited her to a bar, according to this datasheet.

Overall I am quite satisfied with the outcome, thanks for the tips, I will send her a msg tomorrow morning/afternoon! (You were quite punctual with the choking, hair pulling context )

Yeah once Ive fucked a girl I usually go overtly sexual with communication moving forward....but again...you know the context of the interaction / bang best.

If she's sort of reserved she might not react well. If she's the vocal type then dirty texts will stoke her

Good job following Tuths recipe and getting the bang



By the way since RVF got you laid then youve obviously been lurking a while. Dont you think you should give back?

This is not much about what to text next, but rather wondering what happened.

I didn´t interact with girls recently too much, but on saturdays night, when I was working in a disco club, this little cute blonde Russian student came to me with her friend and they told me they want get to know with me. We had a little chat, I surprised them with talking to them Russian and this little girl got my facebook.
On monday we exchanged just a few messages and I told her to go to coffee together - her last response "Sorry, I can´t".
Why? The only reason I can think of is having facebook profile full of nationalistic, pro-Putin, anti refugees and anti liberal stuff. Maybe it hurts her feelings? But I don´t think this would be enough to loose interest.

Girl from Bumble-"Hey handsome "
Me- "Hey ____ whats up"
Girl- "Just watching the bachelor! How about you?"
Me- "Nothin much, just got done ending world hunger and finding the cure for cancer"
Girl- "Haha now thats impressive. Why do you say that ;P"

I was going to reply "Why dont we continue this conversation in person"

Now I know she wants it, but I dont want to rush it because bumble girls flake more than a computer science major without a shower.

So more banter or does anyone have any ideas for a better response?

(03-08-2018 07:24 PM)Redbaron Wrote:  [...] bumble girls flake more than a computer science major without a shower.

?

Don't get stuck

(03-09-2018 06:49 AM)ksbms Wrote:  

(03-08-2018 07:24 PM)Redbaron Wrote:  [...] bumble girls flake more than a computer science major without a shower.

?

poor taste joke regarding dandruff and nerds, anyhow besides the point.

Any thoughts as to what a good response would be?

Update: Played it cocky and worked fine

Me: "Im an impressive person"

Bumble chic: "Hahah oh i can tell"

Me: "Why dont we continue this conversation in person"

Bumble chic: "Sure thing here I check snap more! ______" <-her snap

So at this point Im thinking she's trying to calm her hamster down by making sure im not a creep before we get to logistics.

She's a 19 yo 5'4" blonde w/ great body. Going to play it cool and see where it goes.

Papaya has been on fire lately dropping game knowledge, you kids better listen!

(03-13-2018 05:09 PM)Redbaron Wrote:  Bumble chic

Me: "Why dont we continue this conversation in person"

Bumble chic: "Sure thing here I check snap more! ______" <-her snap
goes.

Since when, even in girlspeak, "in person" means "send me some snapcrap videos"?! These broads, by spending all the time on IG and snapcrap, lose their IQ points by the day.

Update: These girls have no clue what they want

Added her snapchat, sent her a snap saying "hey whats up" with a pic of my laptop at my office. She opens it half hour later and doesnt respond. LOL. so i delete the bitch off snapchat immediately.

She then hits me up on bumble: "Redbaronnnnn"
Me: radio silence
Chic: "Sorry, I was at my neighbors!" <----- More like she had a dick in her mouth.
Me: "Ok"
Chic: "Well you gonna add me back? *laughing emoji*
Me: "If I do you better snap me first" <---- I now realize this was beta
Chic: "Okay I willll"

So from this we can clearly see the immaturity of these broads. Im considering adding her tonight, I guess I'll just play harder to get until she sends me her tits.

(03-15-2018 10:04 AM)Redbaron Wrote:  Update: These girls have no clue what they want

Added her snapchat, sent her a snap saying "hey whats up" with a pic of my laptop at my office. She opens it half hour later and doesnt respond. LOL. so i delete the bitch off snapchat immediately.

She then hits me up on bumble: "Redbaronnnnn"
Me: radio silence
Chic: "Sorry, I was at my neighbors!" <----- More like she had a dick in her mouth.
Me: "Ok"
Chic: "Well you gonna add me back? *laughing emoji*
Me: "If I do you better snap me first" <---- I now realize this was beta
Chic: "Okay I willll"

So from this we can clearly see the immaturity of these broads. Im considering adding her tonight, I guess I'll just play harder to get until she sends me her tits.

You're letting yourself being led by the nose like a toddler at the scantiest whiff of an unwashed pussy. You are one of many entertainers over there for this broad. Even if you score in the end, it will be a pyrrhic one on her terms. Ideally, shun all this online inanity. But if you can't, at least think differently, produce signal, not noise.

Chic: "Well you gonna add me back? *laughing emoji*
Me: "If I do you better snap me first"
Chic: "Okay I willll"
Redbaron: you chica have lisp or just talk with your toe in your mouth

This purposefully partially funny (addressing her characters repetition), partially insulting, partially showing you're not afraid to lose her. You must not fear of losing this online set, otherwise she'll play you like a three year old with her Barbie doll.

You're letting yourself being led by the nose like a toddler at the scantiest whiff of an unwashed pussy. You are one of many entertainers over there for this broad. Even if you score in the end, it will be a pyrrhic one on her terms. Ideally, shun all this online inanity. But if you can't, at least think differently, produce signal, not noise.

Chic: "Well you gonna add me back? *laughing emoji*
Me: "If I do you better snap me first"
Chic: "Okay I willll"
Redbaron: you chica have lisp or just talk with your toe in your mouth

This purposefully partially funny (addressing her characters repetition), partially insulting, partially showing you're not afraid to lose her. You must not fear of losing this online set, otherwise she'll play you like a three year old with her Barbie doll.
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Thanks for that. I'll put that line to work.

I have a girl lined up for tonight who is putting up LMR from tinder. Havent met her yet. How would you handle this?

Fast forward through the jargon and we get to logistics.

Her "So you live in a house. Im not too far depending on where on (street) you live
Me "good I have some patron thats not going to finish itself"
Her "Good thing tequila is all i drink"
Her "I have an 8am tomorrow though so maybe not tonight"
Me "school calls"
Her "Sweet talk me tomorrow night"
Me "bet"
Me "wear something cute"
Now apparently I fucked up with this response because LMR got thrown up hard
Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"

I at least know to not give her frame by entertaining this persuasion game but I am not quite sure what to say.

I was thinking of "Ill make tomorrow morning that much better" something that reinforces my image, but I feel like even that is giving her too much frame.

Thoughts?

(03-15-2018 02:20 PM)Redbaron Wrote:  Fast forward through the jargon and we get to logistics.

Her "So you live in a house. Im not too far depending on where on (street) you live
Me "good I have some patron thats not going to finish itself"
Her "Good thing tequila is all i drink"
Her "I have an 8am tomorrow though so maybe not tonight"
Me "school calls"
Her "Sweet talk me tomorrow night"
Me "bet"
Me "wear something cute"
Now apparently I fucked up with this response because LMR got thrown up hard
Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"

I at least know to not give her frame by entertaining this persuasion game but I am not quite sure what to say.

I was thinking of "Ill make tomorrow morning that much better" something that reinforces my image, but I feel like even that is giving her too much frame.

Thoughts?

My online experience is next to nothing, I guess the same rules apply with the only difference it's all so much harder (for an "average Joe"). She's somewhat keen but enjoys immensely ordering around all the beta-boys. Show her you're not one of them. Give her a rub. This fine line because little investment on her side and she can disappear at blink of an eye.

Perhaps this:

Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"
Redbaron no chance but if you act nice I'll feed you some dates and red grapes

That's an invitation to play, you draw a line in a sand nad show you won't dance to her tune. At the same placate her, with a little bit of a sexual subtext of her getting mouthful of grapes (balls, heh) fed on a date (medjool dates optional).

(03-15-2018 03:44 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(03-15-2018 02:20 PM)Redbaron Wrote:  Fast forward through the jargon and we get to logistics.

Her "So you live in a house. Im not too far depending on where on (street) you live
Me "good I have some patron thats not going to finish itself"
Her "Good thing tequila is all i drink"
Her "I have an 8am tomorrow though so maybe not tonight"
Me "school calls"
Her "Sweet talk me tomorrow night"
Me "bet"
Me "wear something cute"
Now apparently I fucked up with this response because LMR got thrown up hard
Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"

I at least know to not give her frame by entertaining this persuasion game but I am not quite sure what to say.

I was thinking of "Ill make tomorrow morning that much better" something that reinforces my image, but I feel like even that is giving her too much frame.

Thoughts?

My online experience is next to nothing, I guess the same rules apply with the only difference it's all so much harder (for an "average Joe"). She's somewhat keen but enjoys immensely ordering around all the beta-boys. Show her you're not one of them. Give her a rub. This fine line because little investment on her side and she can disappear at blink of an eye.

Perhaps this:

Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"
Redbaron no chance but if you act nice I'll feed you some dates and red grapes

That's an invitation to play, you draw a line in a sand nad show you won't dance to her tune. At the same placate her, with a little bit of a sexual subtext of her getting mouthful of grapes (balls, heh) fed on a date (medjool dates optional).

Good stuff. I like the premise of that statement.

Her tinder bio says "i dont like sleeping in my own bed". So I ended up going with:

Her "Can I get a please"
Me "por favor"
Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"
Me "no chance but if you act nice ill let you spend the night"

Plenty of sexual undertones and shows Im not going to play her game while acknowledging her bedtime insecurities.

Thanks for coming through with the analysis appreciate it. Ill update if this works.

"Gladly. Be here at 7pm."

Update: She just left

For the sake of this thread I'll show how the convo went.

Her "Gonna have to persuade me a little more than that"
Me "no chance but if you act nice I'll let you spend the night"
Her "Damn I hope your just as aggressive in bed"
Me "be careful what you wish for"
Her "I know what I like"
Her "snap?"

Give her the snap and rest is history.

PSA Reminder:

Getting sucked into prolonged texting is normally not a good thing. Made this mistake recently and I could feel the buying temperature sinking.

By the way, nicely done Redbaron.

Girl I banged almost two weeks ago has been out of town. First date bang. She was kind of kinky

She's finally back and texts me unsolicited this afternoon.

I suggest 7:30 tonight she texts back:

"Maybe 8. if I come over to see you we're just talking"

For all I know she was in another city banging some guy.

I'm thinking of saying something back along the lines of "no thanks" or trying to line something else up. she's hot though

I was talking with a coworker friend on a bus after work. A pretty girl nearby noticed I'm speaking in English and look well dressed from work so she rudely buts into our conversation and starts trying to find out what we do. She was so eager it forced me into acting extremely cool and aloof to counter it. She had to get off at the next stop about a minute later, and I didn't have a phone, so I gave her my facebook.

She was so interested I should have just got off the bus at her stop and taken it as far as possible. I laughed when I realised I cared more about getting off at my bus stop then getting laid. I knew that without a phone, it was extremely unlikely she would remember my name and add me to facebook and I would get another chance, but I didn't really care.

Anyway about 9 months later, she sends me a facebook message. I had completely forgotten about this interaction, but she reminded me of it in the message. I replied to her saying I think I remember seeing her on the bus with my friend, and she replied straight away and had completely forgotten my friend was there. Lol.

I hate texting and have shit to do so I didn't reply after that. That was yesterday. I don't know anything about her, so I'm just going to make fun of her for taking so long to message me when I text her later.

But I thought it would be interesting to see how you guys would reply to a message / situation like this.

tldr: A girl I flirted with for less than three minutes sends me a facebook message 9 months later. How do you respond?

^^^Just play it cool, get to know her for a bit (do some recon work since you got her on FB), tell her that since she took so long to write you that she owes you a night out with her over drinks.

Pretty straight forward and simple.

(03-27-2018 04:13 PM)robreke Wrote:  Girl I banged almost two weeks ago has been out of town. First date bang. She was kind of kinky

She's finally back and texts me unsolicited this afternoon.

I suggest 7:30 tonight she texts back:

"Maybe 8. if I come over to see you we're just talking"

For all I know she was in another city banging some guy.

I'm thinking of saying something back along the lines of "no thanks" or trying to line something else up. she's hot though

I'd just reply with "thumbs up" emoticon. She comes over, some easy chit-chat, pour her a drink or two, if she's not out of her clothes by 1 hour mark, tell her you need to be up early morning and wish her good night.