Post: #1276

Been using the cold ass winter in Boston as an excuse to halt my day-gaming. That coupled with the fact that my best friend and awesome wing-man is studying abroad this semester has made me ultra lazy and less confident during the day…

My night-game has been awesome, pulling a lot of ONS, but my Harem from last semester is falling apart. I know this is because I stopped day-gaming. A solid group of girls that you keep around and hook up with comes from sober day approaching, not 1 night stands.

I began last week, here are a few of my approaches getting me back in the swing of things:

1. See a tall very pretty foreign looking girl texting while standing in the corner of the lobby of one of the science buildings.

I walk right up to her and approach directly.

Me: Hi, I just saw you standing over here, and I think you're really cute so I wanted to meet you. I'm Spider
Her: (flattered) I'm Dafne
Me: Wow, that's a cool name. And you sound like you have an accent.
Her: Yes, I'm from Turkey, just here studying.
Me: Cool, I actually have some friends who studied abroad in Turkey, told me they loved it. Thinking about visiting there when I study abroad.
Her: Yes it's a very pretty country.
Blah Blah Blah
Me: Anyway, I'm glad I came over here and said hi, you seem cool. Lets hangout sometime later this week, put your number in my phone.

2. See a cute brunette speaking spanish on the phone. I stalk her outside (it's snowing very heavily) and walk behind her until she puts down the phone. We stop at a red light, and she glances over at me.

Me: Damnit, really wish I didn't wear sneakers today…looks like you brought out the proper gear today (pointing at her boots).
Her: Haha yeah, you should have checked the weather today!
Me: Shit, this winters been brutal. I should just assume everyday it's gonna be snowing.
Me: Anyway the real reason I came over and said hi is because I think you're really cute. I'm Spider.
Her: (blushing) I'm Rose, thanks a lot.
Me: I think I overheard you speaking spanish on the phone, am I right?
Her: Yeah I'm actually American, but my dad has a special job and he speaks fluent spanish, so he speaks Spanish to me as well to help me practice.
Me: Yo hablo español también. (then I whip out my dope Spanish skills and explain to her why I speak spanish so well)
Her: Wow you're good
Me: Yeah, if my parents spoke to me strictly in Spanish, I'd be even better. May have to try that.
Her: Yeah definitely. (she's just smiling at me very happy to have been approached by me).
Me: It's snowing really hard right now, I'm gonna go back to my place and put on some boots. Let me get your number and we can hangout sometime.
Her: Sure, sounds good.

Hand her my phone, and jokingly tell her to hurry because my phone is getting soaked.

3. Going on a stroll with my boy, and I see a cute asian sitting down talking on the phone. She's on the phone, but I decide I'm going to interrupt her because I'm ballsy. Plus if it works, I"m going to look appear very confident in her eyes.

Me: Hey, can you put down the phone for a sec?
Her: (Lowering the phone) Uh yeah, what's up
Me: I saw you sitting over here and I think you're really cute, needed to come say hi. I'm Spider.
Her: Oh thank you, I'm ConnieLynn.
Me: You can hang up now (smiling)
Her: (She obliges and hangs up her active call. lol) haha ok.
Me: So you have two 1st names? That's pretty cool, my names a little simpler.
Her: Yeah I don't know any ConnieLynns either, I like to feel a little special.
Me: Definitely, so what are you doing sitting outsider here alone?
Her: I'm waiting for my friend inside. She's applying to grad school.
Me: Damn you're a pretty good friend. She might be here for god knows how long, and you're just gonna wait. That's loyalty.
Her: Yeah haha, I think she would do the same for me. At least I hope..is that your friend over there?
Me: Yeah, I told him to hold on a sec, saw a pretty girl I needed to flirt with. I want to hangout with you sometime soon, put your number in my phone and I'll text you.
Her: Sure…I kinda got lost coming here on the train so you'll need to help me with directions.
Me: Course. If you come to see me I'll make sure you don't get lost.


…I think day-game is good for your health.

After I approach for the 1st time in a day, I just feel great for the rest of the day.

A little surge of adrenaline, and then I stay in a positive mood because I just did something out of my comfort zone, something most dudes don't have the guts to do.

It's stress-relieving, in its own unique way.

Post: #1277

(02-24-2014 06:13 PM)dog24 Wrote:  So, it took 5 hours to do two approaches. Worst ROI ever.
I sit down at a bench for nearly two hours not a single girl was seen that day.
I decided to walk around my campus and couldnt find any girls alone.
This is a big poblem i missed ton of opportunities cause i cant approach if there is an audience.

Then i went to a mall 2 miles away, did no approaches. At one point i became almost paranoid and i thought the guards were gonna kick me out.

Then i went to another college thats just as close as my own, there was an endless stream of girls walking the three blocks from the main road to college. It took me almost an hour of waiting for a girl to be alone.

I need a more efficient way to do this.

Dog, it sounds like you're spending too much time in your head. Get out of your head quickly. Open a few people just to open, guys, old women, ugly girls, just so you're talking to someone. Practice all your body language / subcommunication - make eye contact, be aware of your vocal tone/intonation. I think you're creating the idea that you're out to hit on chicks, and that's making you way too self conscious. Don't sit in one spot for 2 hours. Give it 5-15 minutes, then move on. If you're not opening girls you're interested in, stay warm by talking to people. Ask stupid directions, go into a store and ask a question or whatever. It's important to keep from slipping back inside your own mental space. Keep interacting with people. Never let more than 10 minutes go by without at least talking to someone. You mention mall security, so talk to those guys. Ask them where a store is. If you're not opening, don't hang around without a purpose, or you'll feel self-conscious because in your mind, you know that you're loitering.

Post: #1278

(02-25-2014 12:03 AM)Spider Wrote:  Been using the cold ass winter in Boston as an excuse to halt my day-gaming. That coupled with the fact that my best friend and awesome wing-man is studying abroad this semester has made me ultra lazy and less confident during the day…

My night-game has been awesome, pulling a lot of ONS, but my Harem from last semester is falling apart. I know this is because I stopped day-gaming. A solid group of girls that you keep around and hook up with comes from sober day approaching, not 1 night stands.

I began last week, here are a few of my approaches getting me back in the swing of things:

1. See a tall very pretty foreign looking girl texting while standing in the corner of the lobby of one of the science buildings.

I walk right up to her and approach directly.

Me: Hi, I just saw you standing over here, and I think you're really cute so I wanted to meet you. I'm Spider
Her: (flattered) I'm Dafne
Me: Wow, that's a cool name. And you sound like you have an accent.
Her: Yes, I'm from Turkey, just here studying.
Me: Cool, I actually have some friends who studied abroad in Turkey, told me they loved it. Thinking about visiting there when I study abroad.
Her: Yes it's a very pretty country.
Blah Blah Blah
Me: Anyway, I'm glad I came over here and said hi, you seem cool. Lets hangout sometime later this week, put your number in my phone.

2. See a cute brunette speaking spanish on the phone. I stalk her outside (it's snowing very heavily) and walk behind her until she puts down the phone. We stop at a red light, and she glances over at me.

Me: Damnit, really wish I didn't wear sneakers today…looks like you brought out the proper gear today (pointing at her boots).
Her: Haha yeah, you should have checked the weather today!
Me: Shit, this winters been brutal. I should just assume everyday it's gonna be snowing.
Me: Anyway the real reason I came over and said hi is because I think you're really cute. I'm Spider.
Her: (blushing) I'm Rose, thanks a lot.
Me: I think I overheard you speaking spanish on the phone, am I right?
Her: Yeah I'm actually American, but my dad has a special job and he speaks fluent spanish, so he speaks Spanish to me as well to help me practice.
Me: Yo hablo español también. (then I whip out my dope Spanish skills and explain to her why I speak spanish so well)
Her: Wow you're good
Me: Yeah, if my parents spoke to me strictly in Spanish, I'd be even better. May have to try that.
Her: Yeah definitely. (she's just smiling at me very happy to have been approached by me).
Me: It's snowing really hard right now, I'm gonna go back to my place and put on some boots. Let me get your number and we can hangout sometime.
Her: Sure, sounds good.

Hand her my phone, and jokingly tell her to hurry because my phone is getting soaked.

3. Going on a stroll with my boy, and I see a cute asian sitting down talking on the phone. She's on the phone, but I decide I'm going to interrupt her because I'm ballsy. Plus if it works, I"m going to look appear very confident in her eyes.

Me: Hey, can you put down the phone for a sec?
Her: (Lowering the phone) Uh yeah, what's up
Me: I saw you sitting over here and I think you're really cute, needed to come say hi. I'm Spider.
Her: Oh thank you, I'm ConnieLynn.
Me: You can hang up now (smiling)
Her: (She obliges and hangs up her active call. lol) haha ok.
Me: So you have two 1st names? That's pretty cool, my names a little simpler.
Her: Yeah I don't know any ConnieLynns either, I like to feel a little special.
Me: Definitely, so what are you doing sitting outsider here alone?
Her: I'm waiting for my friend inside. She's applying to grad school.
Me: Damn you're a pretty good friend. She might be here for god knows how long, and you're just gonna wait. That's loyalty.
Her: Yeah haha, I think she would do the same for me. At least I hope..is that your friend over there?
Me: Yeah, I told him to hold on a sec, saw a pretty girl I needed to flirt with. I want to hangout with you sometime soon, put your number in my phone and I'll text you.
Her: Sure…I kinda got lost coming here on the train so you'll need to help me with directions.
Me: Course. If you come to see me I'll make sure you don't get lost.


…I think day-game is good for your health.

After I approach for the 1st time in a day, I just feel great for the rest of the day.

A little surge of adrenaline, and then I stay in a positive mood because I just did something out of my comfort zone, something most dudes don't have the guts to do.

It's stress-relieving, in its own unique way.

^^^Yet another example where being observant pays off - Good Stuff!

Post: #1279

Just got back into the game For Real this time.
Did my first cold Approach of the month today!

Approach 1: I swiped my metro card entering the Subway, saw a cutie headed my way leaving the station. I said a firm "HELLO", she smiled and I continued " How are you!?" She kept walking through the turnstyle so I couldn't have chased her down and get back through with an unlimited card due to the time limit on it.
I jokingly say " noooo waaaaiiit come back" in a high pitched voice. I laughed and she started cracking up as she was walking away.

This took me a week to fucking do man, my anxiety got the best of me!
After that it was smooth sailing.

Approach 2: While in GrandCentral waiting for my train, I saw a gorgeous dark skinned black chick, like top of the line for dark skin chicks, she's with a friend , she makes eye contact as she walks by , I smile and she smiles back. I lightly jog to catch up and say "HEY"...pause waiting for her to respond.. Then her friend laughs as they walk faster, I say "How are you"
Still no response!
Fuck that I'm still on it I say " I'm PB! And you are?" As if to shake her hand. She doesn't shake my hand and says in a bland voice "Nice to meet you PB"
I ejected and loved every moment of that rejection! She was Putting on a show for her friend because she gave me the greenlight ! That's how I feel about it, and I came on weak . I'll learn from this one.
*sigh of relief*

Approach 3: I go to post up right at the same spot as approach #2. I see a blonde chick about a 7 headed my way. I say a Firm "HELLO", she stops walking and says hi
I'll save you guys the convo thread since you'll probably cringe!!
Basic questions, no direction with the convo, it wasn't smooth so I just went do or die and asked for her number, cool she said no because she doesn't give her number out to strangers, I've beat that excuse before plenty of times, I wasn't ready yet still getting warmed up. However the rejection was smooth, we said our goodbyes...honestly she wasn't feeling my anxious energy, which will go away with more approaches I'm sure.

Approach 4: I get on the train finally and sit right across from a light skinned could be Spanish could be black chick , never asked. She was about an 8. She starts furiously playin with/ twirling her hair. In my head I'm like "OH MAN it's on" , I time it because I felt as if I would run out of shit to say too fast. This one I was not direct. What I did was open up a lady parallel to where we sat! I said to the lady " these seats are so uncomfortable" and shit I wasn't lying.
I spoke to her for a brief moment then opened the chick in front of me by bringing her into the conversation by saying
"You don't look so comfortable either "
We had a smooth convo, jokes thrown in here and there, a few natural silences, I re initiated once and so did she.
At the end of it I number closed right before her stop.
I said to her
" hey you should take my number"
She says
"And do what"
With out thought and I guess instinct that may have been in remission , with authority I say
"SAVE IT"
She smiles and asks for it. Cool, number closed it. I'm not going to follow up on it. If she writes/calls then cool.
But it was a rush after I got rejected 3 times! And finally got a positive result !
5 more tomorrow!

Post: #1280

(02-24-2014 06:08 PM)Cyr Wrote:  What are you moving onto now?

$$$$$

My financial future.

I have been in between careers for about 2 years now. I'm finally an starting to see the direction that I want to go in!

I'm writing my first book about game development and I have started my first sports camp for young athletes.

(02-24-2014 08:50 PM)Lothario Wrote:  I'm guessing you are trying to optomize the finances which is pretty big part of Game. Preach a little on that would ya ......

Money makes things easier.

Money is logistics.

Money is game.

Money is much more important pussy.

It is an area that I need to improve.

(02-24-2014 06:13 PM)dog24 Wrote:  So, it took 5 hours to do two approaches.

At one point i became almost paranoid and i thought the guards were gonna kick me out.

It took me almost an hour of waiting for a girl to be alone.

I need a more efficient way to do this.

Yes, you do need a more efficient way to do this..

Here is what I recommend:

Stop being a pussy!

Just kidding..!

Here are some examples for you to look over:

Sample Openers - College

Also, review all the pages in THIS thread. There are hundreds of examples for how to approach on campus.

Honestly, my best advice to you is this..

FIND SOMEONE TO HELP YOU!!!

Find an experienced day gamer in your area! You need to physically observe this concept in action. You need a solid and supportive wing man!

I wish there was a way I could come and help you myself.

Find someone. Get help!

You probably get help for homework, taxes, exercise, etc. Why not get it for your sex life also???

(02-25-2014 12:03 AM)Spider Wrote:  …I think day-game is good for your health.

After I approach for the 1st time in a day, I just feel great for the rest of the day.

A little surge of adrenaline, and then I stay in a positive mood because I just did something out of my comfort zone

Exactly.

Day game is a sort of mental exercise.

You get out of your comfort zone, you challenge yourself on a deep level, you are forced to be positive, you face your fear, you are forced to be creative,etc.

Day Game is part of my health and wellness routine!

Post: #1281

I am trolling the Campus and couldn't find a suitable Target , finally see a Tall Black girl sitting anxiously in a business suit with papers in her hands that look like Resume etc.

I pass by her, she looks at me , I smile and she returns my smile, I open with

me: Don't worry it will be alright
her: what
me: Looks like you have a Job Interview
her: Kind of , I want to start observing in the Pharmacy
me: Well you are at the right place if you want to observe different things you can do as a Pharmacist. Like being a Pharm D or working with such and such .... Yada Yada...

I give her a good paternal Lecture on being a Pharmacist and her pupils kept dilating .....

me: I just came from NY but this seems like a good Institution
her: What brought you here ?
me: Usual story ......... Listen I have to run in a bit but lets get together some time
her: Oh i leave for my hometown on the weekends which is 80 miles away.
me: that's fine I'm too busy on the weekends any way.
her: I don't have classes in the morning , I can meet for coffee
me: Perfect , I don't have to work this tuesday, let's get together for breakfast
her: sure
me: I don't have my phone on me, send me a text and I will text you the time and place later
her: sends me texts.

We Banter some more and part away, When I got back to work , I had a text on my phone and a little later I receive another text from her . I hope you got my text , Nice that's a good sign . I respond back with the time and place for a breakfast meeting.

Follow-Up: 15 min before the scheduled time , I get a text that she has a family emergency and is heading back to her town 80 miles away, she is so sorry and wants to reschedule.

We reschedule for a day later for a Lunch meeting and next day she texts me that her car is stuck in snow (We really had a bad snow storm the night before and local schools were closed). Anyways i didn't respond to her text ......

If she contacts me again I will reschedule otherwise ..... NEXT.

Post: #1282

Post: #1283

(02-25-2014 12:58 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

(02-25-2014 12:03 AM)Spider Wrote:  Been using the cold ass winter in Boston as an excuse to halt my day-gaming. That coupled with the fact that my best friend and awesome wing-man is studying abroad this semester has made me ultra lazy and less confident during the day…

My night-game has been awesome, pulling a lot of ONS, but my Harem from last semester is falling apart. I know this is because I stopped day-gaming. A solid group of girls that you keep around and hook up with comes from sober day approaching, not 1 night stands.

I began last week, here are a few of my approaches getting me back in the swing of things:

1. See a tall very pretty foreign looking girl texting while standing in the corner of the lobby of one of the science buildings.

I walk right up to her and approach directly.

Me: Hi, I just saw you standing over here, and I think you're really cute so I wanted to meet you. I'm Spider
Her: (flattered) I'm Dafne
Me: Wow, that's a cool name. And you sound like you have an accent.
Her: Yes, I'm from Turkey, just here studying.
Me: Cool, I actually have some friends who studied abroad in Turkey, told me they loved it. Thinking about visiting there when I study abroad.
Her: Yes it's a very pretty country.
Blah Blah Blah
Me: Anyway, I'm glad I came over here and said hi, you seem cool. Lets hangout sometime later this week, put your number in my phone.

2. See a cute brunette speaking spanish on the phone. I stalk her outside (it's snowing very heavily) and walk behind her until she puts down the phone. We stop at a red light, and she glances over at me.

Me: Damnit, really wish I didn't wear sneakers today…looks like you brought out the proper gear today (pointing at her boots).
Her: Haha yeah, you should have checked the weather today!
Me: Shit, this winters been brutal. I should just assume everyday it's gonna be snowing.
Me: Anyway the real reason I came over and said hi is because I think you're really cute. I'm Spider.
Her: (blushing) I'm Rose, thanks a lot.
Me: I think I overheard you speaking spanish on the phone, am I right?
Her: Yeah I'm actually American, but my dad has a special job and he speaks fluent spanish, so he speaks Spanish to me as well to help me practice.
Me: Yo hablo español también. (then I whip out my dope Spanish skills and explain to her why I speak spanish so well)
Her: Wow you're good
Me: Yeah, if my parents spoke to me strictly in Spanish, I'd be even better. May have to try that.
Her: Yeah definitely. (she's just smiling at me very happy to have been approached by me).
Me: It's snowing really hard right now, I'm gonna go back to my place and put on some boots. Let me get your number and we can hangout sometime.
Her: Sure, sounds good.

Hand her my phone, and jokingly tell her to hurry because my phone is getting soaked.

3. Going on a stroll with my boy, and I see a cute asian sitting down talking on the phone. She's on the phone, but I decide I'm going to interrupt her because I'm ballsy. Plus if it works, I"m going to look appear very confident in her eyes.

Me: Hey, can you put down the phone for a sec?
Her: (Lowering the phone) Uh yeah, what's up
Me: I saw you sitting over here and I think you're really cute, needed to come say hi. I'm Spider.
Her: Oh thank you, I'm ConnieLynn.
Me: You can hang up now (smiling)
Her: (She obliges and hangs up her active call. lol) haha ok.
Me: So you have two 1st names? That's pretty cool, my names a little simpler.
Her: Yeah I don't know any ConnieLynns either, I like to feel a little special.
Me: Definitely, so what are you doing sitting outsider here alone?
Her: I'm waiting for my friend inside. She's applying to grad school.
Me: Damn you're a pretty good friend. She might be here for god knows how long, and you're just gonna wait. That's loyalty.
Her: Yeah haha, I think she would do the same for me. At least I hope..is that your friend over there?
Me: Yeah, I told him to hold on a sec, saw a pretty girl I needed to flirt with. I want to hangout with you sometime soon, put your number in my phone and I'll text you.
Her: Sure…I kinda got lost coming here on the train so you'll need to help me with directions.
Me: Course. If you come to see me I'll make sure you don't get lost.


…I think day-game is good for your health.

After I approach for the 1st time in a day, I just feel great for the rest of the day.

A little surge of adrenaline, and then I stay in a positive mood because I just did something out of my comfort zone, something most dudes don't have the guts to do.

It's stress-relieving, in its own unique way.

^^^Yet another example where being observant pays off - Good Stuff!

Fantastic. Any updates with these prospects?

Post: #1284

Just approached my first set of two girls while rolling solo, girls were Polish from Krakow , and to my surprise were very friendly and chatty, but conversation didn't last so long.
Approaching while solo makes me feel like a king, need to keep doing this.

Post: #1285

THIS WAS A FUNNY ONE:

So I'm regretfully visiting my hometown--the St. Louis area. After living in Southern California, the sights, sounds, and general "vibe" of the place is gut-wrenching. Physically speaking, the women were already bad enough before I left, but now with Southern California women as my reference, THEY ARE GHASTLIER THAN A THOUSAND GHOULS!!! It's like being in a city-sized Walmart.

Anyway, I figured there had to be some anomalous, fuck-worthy broads somewhere, so I kept the eagle-eyes out for such paranormal activity.
THEN IT HAPPENED!!!

I was in the mall earlier today (technically yesterday, since I'm writing this in the AM). As I was walking near the food court I saw one of those chicks that makes you feel all pissed off because you haven't fucked her yet. She walked to a table and sat down. She looked Arabic to me. She looked in the 19 - 24 year old range.
It was about 60 degrees today. Given how INSANELY cold it's been here, that temperature means, to the locals, "wear your skimpy shit."
She had on short shorts showing the legs of someone who takes fitness seriously. Her titties were poppin out the top of her shirt like they were trying to escape.

I went in with something I've done on several occasions. I walked over and just sat down at her table across from her and said:
ME: "Sorry I'm late."
HER: "Huh," with a very puzzled look on her face.
ME: "Sorry I kept you waiting. You are BubbleButt69 from Craigslist right?"
HER: (with an in-disbelief laugh & look on her face) "WHAT?!?!?! BubbleButt69?!?!?! NO!!!"
ME: "So you're not BubbleButt69... from the Craigslist ad? You look just like the picture she sent."
HER: (eyes still wide and laughing) No... I promise you, I'm not BubbleButt69. Oh my god... really?" Then she did the classic, girl-covers-her-face-with-both-hands-and-laughs.

I laughed hard, touched her forearm and said:
ME: "I'm just fuckin around."
HER: (laughing) "Thank god. You're so crazy. Who goes around doing that to people?"
ME: "So I was over there (pointing) and saw you over here and I knew it would bother me all night if I didn't come over here, introduce myself, and find out if there's more to you than meets the eye... figure out if I wanna get to know you better. My name is Mon." I stuck my hand out.
HER: (staring with the bashful school girl smile) "Wow. Ok... my name is ________.
ME: "Glad to meet you."
HER: "Glad to meet you too. Look, I'm very interested in seeing where this is going but I have to say, (face begins to look disappointed) my boyfriend is coming," as we still held hands from the hand-shake.
ME: "Where is he? Do you mean he's walking up behind me right now?" as I released her hand and turned around.
HER: "He's somewhere around, we were supposed to meet up here at the food court in 15 minutes, so he could be here any minute."
ME: "Well we need to exchange numbers in a hurry before shit gets real awkward."
HER: (laughing) "What? No. Are you serious? You're a maniac. You gotta get outta here."
ME: (in a half-urgent, half laughing/smiling kinda way) "We don't have much time. He's on his way. Come on, come on, come on. Where's your phone? Pull out your phone."
HER: (laughing and pulling her phone out) "Are you the craziest person in the world? Are you serious?"
ME: "Ok my number is _______. Call it. Call it now. We gotta get this done."
HER: (as she called my phone) "I can't believe this."

I got the call, got up, and told her:
ME: "Alright, save my number as 'Carmen'." I'm gonna text at 12:17 PM, tomorrow afternoon. Tomorrow at 12:17... you got that?"
HER: (really laughing) Oh my god, yes... tomorrow at 12:17. Go, go, go.
ME: "What time am I texting you tomorrow?"
HER: "12:17 tomorrow afternoon. Oh my god you're crazy. Who picks 12:17 to text someone? You gotta get outta here."
ME: (walking away) "Until tomorrow."
HER: (HUGE smile on her face) "Yes, tomorrow, 12:17. Bye.

So, we'll see how this turns out

Post: #1286

I haven't been approaching much because my "harem" is full. Two is my max. Shit, one good one is enough for me.

I had just dropped off my new 19 year old girlfriend. (she is the 2nd approach in this post)

A few blocks from her house, I see a hottie at the train station, she looked about 19 or 20, Italian or Spanish, maybe Portuguese, beautiful face, skin, and hair..

I immediately parked my car and ran up onto the train platform. I found her sitting by herself..

I walked up to her..

me: nice boots
her: oh thanks
me: are you a real cowgirl
her: oh well not really i grew up in colorado
me: oh ya i hear its beautiful
her: it is but i moved to socal when i was a kid

Blah, blah, blah.. We talk for a minute.. Her train arrives..

me: hey let me call you later and take you out for a drink
her: oh i dont give out my number
me: how do you meet people?
he: haha
me: take mine and text me
her: ok

I doubt she will text me but I'm proud of myself for approaching an 8.5 like that.

Post: #1287

I started my 100 approach challenge on early February just thought id put into words my first 25 approaches. Im currently on 27.
0-25 approaches
24 night game approaches
1 day game approach
1 phone number (that went no where)
1 bang

Comments
Im getting better at actually just starting a conversation I used to find looking around and waiting for a prefect opportunity to strike would just leave me standing there waiting and then the situation changing. I still do it sometimes but I am slowly seeing improvement. I find once I get over the first bit of the interaction I settle down and am able to start joking etc. I also find it hard to go direct/ramp up escalation when talking as its very strange to me (I also physically escalate mainly on the dancefloor). I also count dancefloor approaches and am finding that the less you think about it the better you become especially with dancefloor "game".
I only did one day game approach which went ok just general chat chat, I would like to do more but find it hard to engineer situations to actually go over to talk i.e. there are 2 of them.
I will post again when I reach 50.

Post: #1288

I've been getting back into day game, and quickly realizing how much I've missed it. Opened a 6-7 (light brunette, cute glasses, skinny, alternative chick) at a bookstore last week. My opener consisted of me making a quip about one of the ridiculous graphic novels on the shelf in front of us. She laughed and responded with solid enthusiasm. We quickly began chatting about comics/graphic novels, but I was left with the majority of the rambling duties. She explained that she was shopping for comics due to her penchant for various forms of mythology.

This half of the conversation went on for about 10 minutes. In an effort to the change the subject and branch off into other topics, I interjected that I was on my lunch break (asking if she was as well) and needed to get back to work shortly. She threw out the fact that she's a local bartender and needed to call her sister in a little while. Although the conversation flowed organically, I had to get back to my office and there wasn't enough time to build rapport beyond anything superficial (she never asked me any personal questions, etc.). I grabbed her number, but the limited text exchange has been bland (long response times on her end, with terse replies). Due to the circumstances- a weak lead as expected.

Meh. I'll be back to running day game tomorrow.

Post: #1289

(03-10-2014 02:09 AM)Mon Wrote:  THIS WAS A FUNNY ONE:

So I'm regretfully visiting my hometown--the St. Louis area. After living in Southern California, the sights, sounds, and general "vibe" of the place is gut-wrenching. Physically speaking, the women were already bad enough before I left, but now with Southern California women as my reference, THEY ARE GHASTLIER THAN A THOUSAND GHOULS!!! It's like being in a city-sized Walmart.

Anyway, I figured there had to be some anomalous, fuck-worthy broads somewhere, so I kept the eagle-eyes out for such paranormal activity.
THEN IT HAPPENED!!!

I was in the mall earlier today (technically yesterday, since I'm writing this in the AM). As I was walking near the food court I saw one of those chicks that makes you feel all pissed off because you haven't fucked her yet. She walked to a table and sat down. She looked Arabic to me. She looked in the 19 - 24 year old range.
It was about 60 degrees today. Given how INSANELY cold it's been here, that temperature means, to the locals, "wear your skimpy shit."
She had on short shorts showing the legs of someone who takes fitness seriously. Her titties were poppin out the top of her shirt like they were trying to escape.

I went in with something I've done on several occasions. I walked over and just sat down at her table across from her and said:
ME: "Sorry I'm late."
HER: "Huh," with a very puzzled look on her face.
ME: "Sorry I kept you waiting. You are BubbleButt69 from Craigslist right?"
HER: (with an in-disbelief laugh & look on her face) "WHAT?!?!?! BubbleButt69?!?!?! NO!!!"
ME: "So you're not BubbleButt69... from the Craigslist ad? You look just like the picture she sent."
HER: (eyes still wide and laughing) No... I promise you, I'm not BubbleButt69. Oh my god... really?" Then she did the classic, girl-covers-her-face-with-both-hands-and-laughs.

I laughed hard, touched her forearm and said:
ME: "I'm just fuckin around."
HER: (laughing) "Thank god. You're so crazy. Who goes around doing that to people?"
ME: "So I was over there (pointing) and saw you over here and I knew it would bother me all night if I didn't come over here, introduce myself, and find out if there's more to you than meets the eye... figure out if I wanna get to know you better. My name is Mon." I stuck my hand out.
HER: (staring with the bashful school girl smile) "Wow. Ok... my name is ________.
ME: "Glad to meet you."
HER: "Glad to meet you too. Look, I'm very interested in seeing where this is going but I have to say, (face begins to look disappointed) my boyfriend is coming," as we still held hands from the hand-shake.
ME: "Where is he? Do you mean he's walking up behind me right now?" as I released her hand and turned around.
HER: "He's somewhere around, we were supposed to meet up here at the food court in 15 minutes, so he could be here any minute."
ME: "Well we need to exchange numbers in a hurry before shit gets real awkward."
HER: (laughing) "What? No. Are you serious? You're a maniac. You gotta get outta here."
ME: (in a half-urgent, half laughing/smiling kinda way) "We don't have much time. He's on his way. Come on, come on, come on. Where's your phone? Pull out your phone."
HER: (laughing and pulling her phone out) "Are you the craziest person in the world? Are you serious?"
ME: "Ok my number is _______. Call it. Call it now. We gotta get this done."
HER: (as she called my phone) "I can't believe this."

I got the call, got up, and told her:
ME: "Alright, save my number as 'Carmen'." I'm gonna text at 12:17 PM, tomorrow afternoon. Tomorrow at 12:17... you got that?"
HER: (really laughing) Oh my god, yes... tomorrow at 12:17. Go, go, go.
ME: "What time am I texting you tomorrow?"
HER: "12:17 tomorrow afternoon. Oh my god you're crazy. Who picks 12:17 to text someone? You gotta get outta here."
ME: (walking away) "Until tomorrow."
HER: (HUGE smile on her face) "Yes, tomorrow, 12:17. Bye.

So, we'll see how this turns out

I love this... no way I could pull this off right now, but I'm working hard to get there at some point!

Post: #1290

(03-09-2014 11:01 AM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Fantastic. Any updates with these prospects?

1st girl did not respond to me.

2nd chick we spoke for awhile and she actually asked me to get coffee with her the sunday following my approaching her. We made plans to meet at 4, but I was tired from the night before and told her lets meet later in the week, hoping she would come over for a drink rather than meeting somewhere for coffee…maybe she didn't like that I flaked on her the hour before we were supposed to meet up - she did not respond when I texted her again

3rd chick lives 45 mins from where I go to school and told me she wants to hangout, we spoke for awhile, but have not met up yet.

Right now I'm in Fort Lauderdale on Spring Break with my boy. I had 2 day-game approaches yesterday that led to bangs. Fucked a girl at 3 PM and another chick at 6 PM…pretty fucking crazy.

^ I will do a write-up on this trip in the travel section when I get home…funny that the most I've got from night-game here is a bathroom blow job, but I've managed to pulled twice during the day. (my trip is 4 nights long, tonight is my final night here)

Post: #1291

#1
After getting some papers in Downtown , I needed changes to catch the bus . Enter to tge dollar store where I had to buy something . As this is going on , I see a lady putting on a belt . Looks about 5"10 and carry her weight well in the lower regions .After watching her , I came up to her side and said " Good morning , my name is Jukes . " Shehas hawk nose , high cheekbones , and thin lips . Skin color the crust of white bread . A 5 . She said go on with a smile .
I said " I seen you at the dollar store and I had to talk with you . "
" I ' m old enough to be your mother . "
" Stop lying ." I ' m smirked . " I ' m 21 . "
" Well I am 50 . " As I stood shocked , she continue with " ... have a good day Jukes . "
" You too . " and I walk up .
#2
Got on the bus and exit at the bus stop by my house and even with my bad eyes , I clearly saw a fat ass across the street . She went in the liquor store . Normally , I walk on . So I went on my phone and wait till she got out to see her smoking . Cross the street to and said " Good afternoon , my name is Jukes . "
" What up ? " She is about 5"5 1/2 , thin face , small head , blob triangular nose , nice bottom lip and soft cheeks . Skin color of a toothpick . Slim at the top , narrow hip , and the butt is big . A 6 .
" Fine . What is your name . "
" Naeyma . "
" How is your day so far ? "
" Good . "
I almost got struck for a few seconds , but I recover with saying " Are you sure ? "
She had a slight defensive face and said
" Yeah . "
" I was just asking because if you are having a nice day , why are you smoking a cigaree ? " with a smirk . This is where she start smiling for a few , inhale her cigarette and said " It is a habit . "
" No problem , everyone have a habit . Good or bad . " Went on a mini speech about bad habit , what mine , and why I don ' t smoke . " Do you have a good habit ?
" Nah , but I do some stuff . "
" So I know today is an okay day for you , but what is one of the best day you ever had ? "
She start smiling for a while and said " Everything came my way . Money , bus tickets and cards , and fortune etc .,. You ? "
" Kind of bad since my brothers and I need to get our names change and stuff . Other than that , my best days are when I run and workout ( saw her look up and down at my body ) . That when I asked do you sing , dance , or write , etc.,. She said no , but she watch shows like American Horror Story . Turns out we like both Shameless . After a few minutes of dicussing the show , she said " Nice talking to you Jukes , but I have to warm up . " When she walk back out ( after I brought some food ) , she was with this Muslim dude . It okay because one thing is I will eventually see her again .

What I need to improve on is commenting on something sexual . I could of ask does she workout because of her nice figure . The second time was about her hobbies I could of mentition there is no way she can not dance since you're black and have a butt . Anything else ?

Post: #1292

Trying to get back into approaching regularly. Did three yesterday.

Subject # 1: A***
Age: 32
Ethnicity: Black
Rating: 6

Walking down the street from my home. She is walking beside me.

Me: Have you ever been to that coffee shop? (Points to it).
Her: Huh? Oh yeah I been there before.
Me: Is it a good one.
Her: It’s just like every other coffee shop I guess.
Me: Are you a student?
Her: No, I actually graduated 10 years ago.
Me: Wow, you look younger.
Her: Thanks!
Me: Do you live around here?
Her: Yes, on bah blah. How about you?
Me: Yes I just moved in to xyz.

Blah, blah. We talk about the neighborhood and gentrification. She thinks there are too many “rich people” moving in and driving up costs for people like her. She should be able to live anywhere she wants.

Overall, too much of a social warrior and entitled. I didn’t go for the digits. Good warm up though.

Subject # 2: M*****
Age: 20
Ethnicity: Asian
Rating: 8

Saw her eating lunch alone in the park. Waited her out until she finished. As she was walking away, I sped up to her until I got near her then slowed down. Walked a normal pace next to her all nonchalant.

Me: Excuse me, do you know if the St Patrick’s Day parade is today or tomorrow?
Her: (takes ear buds out). Oh the parade is today. I was there earlier.
Me: Oh yeah, worth going?
Her: Yeah, it’s winding down though. It’s this way.

Blah blah. We talked about the gorgeous weather, where we are from, other places we’ve lived. I got the sense she has very wealthy parents. It was a good give and take. She asked questions too.

Me: Are you a tourist?
Her: No, I live here. I’m going into work later today.
Me: Where do you work?
Her: I’m a hostess at xyz [She’s a hired gun. This is a top end club where she works]. I also go to xyz college and graduate this year.
Her: What do you do? Are you from here? etc

Blah, blah..continue to have a nice conversation. She’s going to get on the subway.

Me: It was nice chatting with you. Do you want to go out sometime? (whip out phone)
Her: Uh, I shouldn’t. Well, I guess we can exchange numbers if we agree to be friends only. Friends only, right?
Me: Yeah yeah.

She stood square to me and smiled and patted me on the shoulder a couple times.
Her: Nice meeting you, have a good day!

Instantly friend-zoned. Not sure how much follow effort to put into it. I did text her and hour or so later so she had my number. She replied back “It was nice meeting you Dusty!”

Subject # 3: Jen
Age: Early 30’s.
Ethnicity: Asian.
Rating: 7

Walking along the street and I see I girl ahead waiting for the light. I saw her earlier in the park but she was yakking on her phone. So here she is right next to me. She seems nice and would be amenable to an approach.

Me: Did you go to the Parade?
Her: I walked through it but didn’t stick around.
Me: So are you Irish? (being a wise ass, she’s obviously Asian).
Her: Yes, 100%. Can’t you tell?
Me: I thought so, you look very Irish.

Blah blah. We walk and talk for several blocks. A very comfortable conversation, with questions back and forth.

She has to turn and I’m going straight.

Me: It was nice meeting you. I’m Dusty.
Her: I’m Jen.

We shake hands and I wouldn’t let go and I stared into her eyes.

Me: Do you want to go out for a drink some time?
Her: Uh, I’m not sure. Oh what the heck I’m new here, sure.

Puts number in phone.

Post: #1293

Post: #1294

Almost copped the same-day lay on Thursday.

My favorite daytime approaches are not when I 'insta-date' the girl to coffee, but rather when I make a strong enough connection with the girl, that she agrees to come over that evening, and of course, doesn't flake.

Here's how it went down:

I skip my boring afternoon class, and decide I want to go relax in the Jacuzzi. Well, in my school's gym (which is pretty damn nice), they actually have a big hot tub that fits around 15 people. I go like twice a week to soak…apparently it helps removes toxins from the body and is quite healthy….Anyway, I soak for 20 minutes, shower, change, and begin to exit the gym when I see this sexy girl walk through the door in running clothes, carrying a backpack. Nice skinny body, perky ass. I can't tell where she's from, but to me it looks like a crazy mix. I'm usually good with this stuff, but I can't tell if this girl is part hispanic, part asian, or perhaps Lebanese.

I pull out my phone as she walks by, to appear like I'm doing something, and then quickly turn around and follow her, waiting for her to stop so that I can approach. She stops by the cubbies where people drop their bags and belongings. There are like 3 other guys standing next to her, so I decide not to approach directly:

Me: Excuse me, do you think this is a safe spot for me to put my bag? It's got some valuables in it.
Her: Umm, yeah, I mean I always put my stuff here.
Me: Shit, I don't mean to freak you out, I just always feel weird about leaving my stuff out without putting it in a locker or something.
Her: Yeah, I know, you're starting to make me worried! haha
Me: Well it's been months since our school sent us an email about people's stuff getting stolen. That must be a good sign.
Her: Yeah, I feel like things rarely get stolen here…and if anything happens, maybe there's a security camera around her.

...we both start looking around and pointing out the different cameras, laughing about it.

Me: Yeah, I think we're good…I'm Spider btw
Her: I'm Becca (she's had a little grin on her face the whole time…I'm feeling a strong sexual attraction from her)
Me: What are you about to do..pump some iron? I'm bout go to shoot hoops upstairs
Her: I'm actually going to run around the track upstairs, maybe I'll watch you playing basketball.
Me: Don't start cheering for me or anything, that would be embarassing.
Her: haha I'll probably be too into my workout.
Me: Alright let's walk upstairs together then…feel like we're on a first date or something (give her a confident smirk)

...we get upstairs and I whip out my phone

Me: Put your number in, we should grab drinks later tonight.
Her: Yeah, I have something at 8, but I'm down to hangout when I'm free.

I text her about an hour later, asking her how her marathon training went. We joke back and forth for a bit. I tell her we should grab drinks, she asks if I can meet now for happy hour. Damnit, I have some assignments due my midnight, I know I won't do it later so I tell her to text me later that night.

Surprisingly, I get a text from her at 10:30 PM. She just finished her thing, wants to know what I'm up to. I invite her over for a drink and she comes 15 minutes later with another cute friend (who my roommate gladly entertains).

I run some normal comfort game, learn a bit about her background….she's Russian, damn I was wrong. I joke that she looks asian and tease her about random shit. I tell her I didn't give her a proper tour of the apartment, grab her hand and walk her to my room.

3 hours of heavy LMR…got her naked, got her to suck me for a bit and ultimately finish all over her, however she was really opposed to having sex since we had just met that day. I didn't care to push it any further, as I had already spent hours of my energy just getting her naked. And I can tell she's really into me, cuddling next to me, giggling at every dumb comment I make…so I'm pretty confident I'll see her tomorrow night for the follow-up bang sesh.

That's how I like to run my day-game. Meeting a girl, charming her, and having her come straight over later. Yeah, I didn't get the same-day lay, but that to me, is success.

Post: #1295

(03-23-2014 03:06 PM)Spider Wrote:  3 hours of heavy LMR…got her naked, got her to suck me for a bit and ultimately finish all over her

Not sure how you can't call that a success? Sure, bang would be fun but what's wrong with her sucking you and you finish all over her?

Sounds like solid success to me!

Post: #1296

Fuck this thread is reminding me what a waste of time OKC is.

I gotta get back to real life approaching.

Post: #1297

About an year ago I told RVF ......... Spider is going to be a monster....



Much respect young Jedi master .......

Post: #1298

(03-24-2014 07:46 AM)Lothario Wrote:  About an year ago I told RVF ......... Spider is going to be a monster....

Much respect young Jedi master .......

I put in the work (approached hundreds of girls these past several months), and now I am reaping the benefits.

Thanks for showing me the ropes last

Post: #1299

(03-24-2014 02:23 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  Fuck this thread is reminding me what a waste of time OKC is.

I gotta get back to real life approaching.

Nothing is a stronger motivation for me to approach IRL than checking out POF and OKC, nothing but fatties and sub-4 uglies.

Post: #1300

I haven't been approaching very much because I have been sexually satisfied and more focused on career stuff.

Of course, if a nice looking girl is standing near me all by herself, I usually have the instinct to say something.

Here are a few..

I was at the mall shopping for clothes. The girl helping me was cute white 7, long brown hair, thin but with a round ass. As she was helping me find my sizes of pants and shirts, I was talking to her about fashion, music, etc. She talked alot and seemed receptive to my flirting. She walked me up to the cash register and then she walked back into the changing room area.

I paid for my stuff and headed straight to her. I just said "fuck it", I walked into the changing area and she was standing at the little table folding clothes. I immediately called out her name to get her attention right away..

me: miranda
her: yes
me: thanks for your help
her: your welcome
me: u wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: ha your funny
me: so are you
her: i usually dont give out my number
me: "usually"
her: i'll take yours
me: only if ur gonna use it

She never called or texted.

Next!

*****

Different store, 30 minutes later, I am paying at the cash register and the girl helping me is a cute black chick, nice body, good skin, sexy style.

I remember being very calm but still firm in my frame. I come across as very chill but I know what I want. She is joking with the co-worker next to her.

me: u girls know how to have fun
her: oh yes we have to have fun
me: especially at work right?
her: yes of course, and her new boyfriend is coming by later.
me: oh shit, romance is a beautiful thing
her: haha
me: what about you?
her: me
me: is your man treating you good
her; haha i dont have a man
me: i dont believe that but im glad your single
her: haha what
me: im gonna right down my number right here on this paper. text me later. im gio
her: haha ok i will


She never did.

Next!

*****
I met up with Dusty in downtown San Francisco. Great guy, I really enjoyed gaming with him and talking strategy.

We were headed down an escalator. I see a gorgeous creamy, 8.5 white girl behind us, I speed up just a step or 2 so I can turn and pivot slightly, this allows me to say something to Dusty and at the same time, pretend like I noticed the girl for the first time and make eye contact/smile at her.

I step off the escalator, I turn, Dusty steps off, I say something to Dusty, she steps off, I smile and say..


me: excuse
her: yes
me: let me ask u something
her: ok
me: I know this crazy but u look great, whats your name?
her: im lauren
me: gio, your not from around here are you?
her: no i live in the city
me: oh u do
her: ya
me: lets go out for a drink sometime
her: oh i have a bf


Next!

*****

I stepped off an escalator and immediately saw a hot, young filapina, in tight jeans, long dark hair, banging body..

As I was stepping off the escalator, she was walking towards me about 10 feet away. I slowed to let her get closer, she was crossing right in front of my path..

me: look at that pink sweater, i used to have a pink polo just like that

She just smiled. I adjusted my walking direction and put myself basically parallel with her.

me: do you work at macys?
her: what no i dont work at macys, ha
me: oh you kind of have a macys vibe ha
her: haha
me: whats your name?
her: lillian
me: hey im gio
her: hey
me: are u in college around here?
her: im in high school

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see sexy white woman with a toned body and long dirty blond hair. She is looking at a map..

me: are you lost?
her: yes

Long story short. Dusty stole her from me. Which is okay because I really didn't have the time to hang out with her. I hope Dusty bangs her.

*****

10 minutes later I see a sexy eastern eurpean looking girl ahead of us.

I speed up and get along side of her..

me: hello
her: hi
me: are you model?

I don't remember what she said???

It wasn't "yes" or "no"..

Blah, blah, blah..

me: im gio
her: olga

We talked for a few minutes as we walked down the street past high end shops.

me: well lets have a drink or something some time
her: do you own real estate in SF
me: hahaha great question, Yes a condo
her: a condo
me: ya is that how to decide if you want to date me or not?
her: i do loans and refinancing
me: oh lets mix business and romance
her: haha when did you buy?
me: 5 years ago after the crash
her: hmmm
me: my interest rate is 48 but its 42 now, can you do it

We discussed the numbers.

She gave me her card. I gave her a kiss on the cheek.

She was from Romania, dressed very sharp, very business minded. She was trying to make money. I respect her. She was all business and beautiful. I bet she will make good money.

I'll email her.

*****

THIS WAS THE BEST ONE OF THE DAY!

We walk past a hot mediterranean/latina girl.

I turn and go back and catch her waiting at a red light..

We make eye contact.. I'm already pointing at her and then myself and saying..

me: do we know each other?
her: i dont think so
me: do you go to sf state?
her: no
me: oh i thought you were in my yoga class
her: no

I don't remember exactly we we talked about but the chick was into me.

She said things like..

We are you from, you dont seem like you are from around here"
"guys dont really come up to me like that"
"you seem different"

She was looking all at me and asking me stuff. Walked for a few blocks and when I asked for her number, she just said "yes".

I texted her 45 minutes later. We have been texting everyday since.

Except, last night I called her the wrong name (over text) . Her name is angela and I have a cousin named amanda who I had been texting with. I called her my cousins name and she said "my name is angela". I said "opps i have a cousin named amanda who i was just texting with"

She hasn't responded. If she doesn't respond tomorrow, I'm going to send her proof that I have a cousin named amanda.

This girl is hot and liked me.

Dusty observed the whole thing.

*****

I got rejected at least 3-4 more times but I don't remember them.

I think my opening lines were:

"you look nice today"
"cool sweater"
"i like your skirt"

and

"that dress is hot"

Then, the usual chic chat.

I used to be more of an "interviewer" but now I am better at "dropping bait", appearing "non-needy", making jokes, teasing, and just creating a climate where the girl is comfortable.

I told Dusty that sometimes you gotta approach 10+ girls just to find one who likes you and will give you a real chance.