Post: #2901

two tidbits:

i'm certain i get higher match rates when i selectively chose the hottest chicks and do not mass swipe.

a girl i'm dating now (did not meet on tinder) says that tinder is like a video game where she gets to be mean. her favorite part is seeing the big red NOPE on the guys faces.

remember, so many of the girls on tinder and okcupid aren't even serious. they are just using it for a time suck during the day.

Post: #2902

I've tested Tinder in three different Countries. My profile pictures have not change and "About me" is empty. Here is the outcome:


Brazil - Sao Paulo (3 Weeks)
This is my home town, language is not an issue here.
Lots of matches and conversations going on. Likely, they were all mass matching everyone, but it's hard to tell. My conversations were really straight and reckless at times.
I had a different thing going on in Brazil and I rarely focuses on Tinder (Online game). I was 100% down to the "real deal" where I would meet up with someone I knew before (Someone who would not bail on me).
Girls there are very friendly and I would say Portuguese is necessary unless the girl speaks English.


Colombia - Bogota-Zona Rosa (6 days)

I've had a really good match rate in Colombia. Instant matches all the time, girls were always approaching saying Hola and conversations were good (Considering I don't speak Spanish Fluently).
Result: 6 days I met 2 Girls = 2 solid notches




Canada Toronto
Toronto (GTA) is really tricky. I don't get a lot of matches. I guess girls are too picky or they might be too inactive on it. Some of the girl I talked to in the past are looking for that ego boost and they are not always willing to go out right away.

I've gone out with maybe 10 girls so far. Only 2 notches (one yesterday).

I've met boring girls where I could not get this from the text messages. So, she was very easy going "virtually" but she was something else in real life. My lesson is to maybe call the chick have a really small conversation with her prior to the date night.

I've talked to cool girls where they never meet up, always unavailable, in other words, they are just there to waste your time. I'm a super patient person but I just next them and say I don't have time for that!

Most of my matches told me good quality I have and one thing that I've been getting a lot lately is that I don't have any shirtless pictures on my profile... During the conversation I ask what makes them different from the other girls and then I ask what makes me different from the other guys and they said: "... also because you don't have any picture of yourself shirtless..." So, I know it's a 50/50 chance: 50% are not there for the looks (As they say ?!?) and there is another 50% that are precisely going after the looks only (DTF). Tinder is all about looks.



That being said, this is what I'm testing:

- Created a new facebook
- Running Tinder on my secondary phone and added the new facebook account on it.
- Added three pictures (2x shirtless and me and one girl together)

I'm running this in parallel because I'm curious to see which account will provide me more matches!


I will keep you guys posted.


Cheers

Post: #2903

I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

Post: #2904

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

It's a woman's market buddy, all dating apps are.

The minute dudes stop being thirsty, the tide will turn, but men + biology, that'll never happen.

Post: #2905

(11-21-2014 01:22 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

It's a woman's market buddy, all dating apps are.

The minute dudes stop being thirsty, the tide will turn, but men + biology, that'll never happen.

Guys are thirsty everywhere, yet I get decent matches in South America & Asia. I might have "exotic" factor in my favor in Asia, but in south america I look like your typical south american more or less.
Its something else.

Post: #2906

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

Post: #2907

(11-21-2014 01:53 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

I don't know a word of portuguese, BTW I haven't been to sao paolo ro colombia, I spoofed my location in Tinder.
I hit the girls up with this line in Brazil " Vamos fazer sexo", half of them didn't reply or unmatched me, the other half responded positively more or less lol.

Post: #2908

(11-21-2014 01:22 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

It's a woman's market buddy, all dating apps are.

The minute dudes stop being thirsty, the tide will turn, but men + biology, that'll never happen.

Good point there...

Born & raised in Brazil, and when I was younger and always had to approach the girls. However, when I was visiting Brazil back in March 2014, I was amazed by them. They were literary approaching me. Specially in Clubs...

Same happens in Colombia. Airport was a good example, the girl already flirting and everything.. Clubs, they would come to you and ask you to dance. Like, out of no where..


Here in Toronto, I simply think I don't exist. LOL

Post: #2909

(11-21-2014 01:55 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:53 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

I don't know a word of portuguese, BTW I haven't been to sao paolo ro colombia, I spoofed my location in Tinder.
I hit the girls up with this line in Brazil " Vamos fazer sexo", half of them didn't reply or unmatched me, the other half responded positively more or less lol.

Use this one:

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas eu olhei para a sua foto e eu senti um tesão enorme..."
"Hi, I don't know why but I looked at your photo and I'm so horny now..."

or

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas você tem uma cara de safada... verdade?"
"Hi, I don't know why but you look like a naughty girl... are you?"

Post: #2910

(11-21-2014 02:02 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:55 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:53 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

I don't know a word of portuguese, BTW I haven't been to sao paolo ro colombia, I spoofed my location in Tinder.
I hit the girls up with this line in Brazil " Vamos fazer sexo", half of them didn't reply or unmatched me, the other half responded positively more or less lol.

Use this one:

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas eu olhei para a sua foto e eu senti um tesão enorme..."
"Hi, I don't know why but I looked at your photo and I'm so horny now..."

I mass texted all the girls I matched from brazil with this line, will post the results soon

Post: #2911

(11-21-2014 01:22 PM)kaotic Wrote:  The minute dudes stop being thirsty, the tide will turn, but men + biology, that'll never happen.

It happens all the time. Women have the biological drive and the emotional needs.

When in doubt consult the ancient texts:

Genesis 3:16 Wrote:To the woman he said, "I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

This has always been the case and because of this, women have had to ensure that their husband would be the best possible for them in terms of status. This is the source of the euphemism 'to be picky'.

All you need to do is be in an arena where women outnumber men and you'll see women's real personalities. In tinder 46% of users are women. This is good for anything online however 46 % = 46/100 = 23/50 = 23 : 50.

Post: #2912

(11-21-2014 02:02 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:55 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:53 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

I don't know a word of portuguese, BTW I haven't been to sao paolo ro colombia, I spoofed my location in Tinder.
I hit the girls up with this line in Brazil " Vamos fazer sexo", half of them didn't reply or unmatched me, the other half responded positively more or less lol.

Use this one:

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas eu olhei para a sua foto e eu senti um tesão enorme..."
"Hi, I don't know why but I looked at your photo and I'm so horny now..."

or

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas você tem uma cara de safada... verdade?"
"Hi, I don't know why but you look like a naughty girl... are you?"

I used the first line

the 6's and below responded positively

One of the 7's said
"kkkkk"

"vc eh direto"

I think this is a moderate reply

the rest of the 7's unmatched me

I matched with an 9 today, I didn't dare to use this line on her

Post: #2913

(11-21-2014 05:31 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 02:02 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:55 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 01:53 PM)Runner2k Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 12:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  I had a very good match rate in sao paolo as well.
Also decent results in bogota.

Had a hard time in Canada.

Tinder is so fucking hard for guys, a girl within the normal bmi range and normal looks will probably get 20x more matches than the equivalent guy.
Heck land whales get more matches than a average guy

As far as Sao Paulo is concerned, did you speak in Portuguese with them? What was your approach line...

Colombia was fun.


Canada, again, it's a hit and miss.

Lines like "You have got that "Cute girl next door but would love a hard fuck" look to you" leads to:

"No"
or
Unmatch

In my experience it did not work well..

I will try that line with my second Tinder account...

I don't know a word of portuguese, BTW I haven't been to sao paolo ro colombia, I spoofed my location in Tinder.
I hit the girls up with this line in Brazil " Vamos fazer sexo", half of them didn't reply or unmatched me, the other half responded positively more or less lol.

Use this one:

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas eu olhei para a sua foto e eu senti um tesão enorme..."
"Hi, I don't know why but I looked at your photo and I'm so horny now..."

or

"Oi, eu não sei porque, mas você tem uma cara de safada... verdade?"
"Hi, I don't know why but you look like a naughty girl... are you?"

I used the first line

the 6's and below responded positively

One of the 7's said
"kkkkk"

"vc eh direto"

I think this is a moderate reply

the rest of the 7's unmatched me

I matched with an 9 today, I didn't dare to use this line on her

"kkkkkkk" = LOL

Second message "Vc eh direto" means = you are straight and forward.

Good stuff man! They like it that way.


I won't "spoof" because it will make me surrender and buy a ticket to Sao Paulo.

Post: #2914

(11-21-2014 03:45 PM)N°6 Wrote:  All you need to do is be in an arena where women outnumber men and you'll see women's real personalities. In tinder 46% of users are women. This is good for anything online however 46 % = 46/100 = 23/50 = 23 : 50.

Uhh, no. If it's 46% women, then the ratio is 46:54 women to men, or 1:1.17. One woman for every 1.17 men.

Post: #2915

I'm convinced that the more you like, the less matches you get.
That's the way it's been working for me.

The fact that I live in a area without any larger cities might be an explanation aswell.

Post: #2916

I thought I had good pictures that would get me decent matches until I deleted my account and made a new one with a whole different set of (better and cooler) pictures and the quality and quantity of matches skyrockeckted (230 in 3 days and I'd swipe right on the 7's and up)

Post: #2917

(11-23-2014 02:34 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  I thought I had good pictures that would get me decent matches until I deleted my account and made a new one with a whole different set of (better and cooler) pictures and the quality and quantity of matches skyrockeckted (230 in 3 days and I'd swipe right on the 7's and up)

What type of pictures? Elaborate

Professionaly taken?

Post: #2918

(11-23-2014 02:56 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  What type of pictures? Elaborate

Professionaly taken?

First one was taken at my friend's luxury loft, second one was taken in front of the windowns in the Amsterdam red district and the last one was at a fashion store opening with a cute Middle Eastern chick besides me, I'm smiling on all 3 and they were all taken with smartphones

My old pictures were typical travel pictures and a selfie wearing a nice suit

Post: #2919

(11-23-2014 04:00 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  

(11-23-2014 02:56 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:  What type of pictures? Elaborate

Professionaly taken?

First one was taken at my friend's luxury loft, second one was taken in front of the windowns in the Amsterdam red district and the last one was at a fashion store opening with a cute Middle Eastern chick besides me, I'm smiling on all 3 and they were all taken with smartphones

My old pictures were typical travel pictures and a selfie wearing a nice suit

And what did you change to? What do you use now?

Post: #2920

I'm now using it the three I first mentionned, sorry if it wasn't clear... I wasn't able to edit my post

Post: #2921

Never have a selfie in a dating profile. Only girls get away with the selfie "myspace" down the clevage shot.

Guys should always steer clear.

Post: #2922

(11-20-2014 06:42 PM)Downtown Wrote:  i'm certain i get higher match rates when i selectively chose the hottest chicks and do not mass swipe.

(11-22-2014 12:32 AM)Chaos Wrote:  I'm convinced that the more you like, the less matches you get.
That's the way it's been working for me.

YES. I can confirm this also. Clever programming by the nerds behind the scenes.

Post: #2923

(11-20-2014 06:42 PM)Downtown Wrote:  remember, so many of the girls on tinder and okcupid aren't even serious. they are just using it for a time suck during the day.

Quoting for truth. We men take these sites too seriously.

Post: #2924

I'm back on track. 2 tinder dates, 2 lays. 46 matches at the moment from about 300 likes.

When I applied the mass-like app, I barely got a like.

Post: #2925

(11-24-2014 01:57 PM)N°6 Wrote:  I'm back on track. 2 tinder dates, 2 lays. 46 matches at the moment from about 300 likes.

When I applied the mass-like app, I barely got a like.

Ok this is proof that the algorithm throttles you if you mass like.