Post: #2951

(12-09-2014 10:55 AM)evilhei Wrote:  So I got this match in tinder, how would I open her. Just send the dick pic and ask if she likes it?

I would open with a funny line purposely misinterpreting what she means. "How crazy, I love Dallas too!"

Post: #2952

So guys I have been thinking of something recently. This is just a theory but hear me out. I think tinder purposely puts profiles of guys in the girls search to see if you are auto swiping or mass liking. I mean I run into them periodically and when I swipe no, i find myself getting put to the bottom less. Now it could also be just because i am not swiping every girl right. Just a thought.

Post: #2953

I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Post: #2954

(12-06-2014 11:48 AM)poledaddy Wrote:  I'm using BlueStacks + FakeGPS to try to pipeline before moving to a new city later this month. 70% of the time sometimes it works great but other 30% I get in and it just gets stuck on "finding people near you". Anybody else have a better solution or tips on how to keep the app from freezing when using a GPS spoofer?

I have noticed the same thing recently. In a new city, Tinder will give me a few profiles (maybe 10 at a time, a few dozens in total) and them get stuck at "finding new people near you". I don't autolike anymore because of this.

Post: #2955

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Are you seeing the same girls after you unmatch them? That is because unmatching is not the same as swiping left.

Post: #2956

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

yeah same here bro. I have swipped some fatties left and see them again a few minutes later or next time I log on.

Post: #2957

(12-09-2014 03:28 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Are you seeing the same girls after you unmatch them? That is because unmatching is not the same as swiping left.

The profiles I see over and over are ones which I either swiped left on or swiped right and they never matched with me.

Post: #2958

(12-09-2014 05:11 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 03:28 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Are you seeing the same girls after you unmatch them? That is because unmatching is not the same as swiping left.

The profiles I see over and over are ones which I either swiped left on or swiped right and they never matched with me.

Yeah I'm getting significantly less matches also. Either I've gotten much less attractive or something else is up.

Post: #2959

(12-09-2014 05:58 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 05:11 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 03:28 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Are you seeing the same girls after you unmatch them? That is because unmatching is not the same as swiping left.

The profiles I see over and over are ones which I either swiped left on or swiped right and they never matched with me.

Yeah I'm getting significantly less matches also. Either I've gotten much less attractive or something else is up.

I think a big part of this is that 1) there is more competition these days and you need to do more to distinguish yourself and 2) a lot of the late adopters are more risk averse than the early tinder adopters

Post: #2960

(12-09-2014 08:09 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 05:58 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 05:11 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 03:28 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 01:51 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I've cycled on and off of Tinder since March and I used to get great results. Lots of matches which translated to dates and bangs. Now, this latest go around I'm getting almost no matches and I'm seeing women's profiles multiple times. I definitely think it has something to do with the mass liker apps and Tinder trying to counter it. Just my two cents conspiracy theory...

Are you seeing the same girls after you unmatch them? That is because unmatching is not the same as swiping left.

The profiles I see over and over are ones which I either swiped left on or swiped right and they never matched with me.

Yeah I'm getting significantly less matches also. Either I've gotten much less attractive or something else is up.

I think a big part of this is that 1) there is more competition these days and you need to do more to distinguish yourself and 2) a lot of the late adopters are more risk averse than the early tinder adopters

Interesting ideas. Gone are the days that I just swipe right on the first 10 possibilities and they're all matches.

Post: #2961

(12-09-2014 02:41 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

(12-06-2014 11:48 AM)poledaddy Wrote:  I'm using BlueStacks + FakeGPS to try to pipeline before moving to a new city later this month. 70% of the time sometimes it works great but other 30% I get in and it just gets stuck on "finding people near you". Anybody else have a better solution or tips on how to keep the app from freezing when using a GPS spoofer?

I have noticed the same thing recently. In a new city, Tinder will give me a few profiles (maybe 10 at a time, a few dozens in total) and them get stuck at "finding new people near you". I don't autolike anymore because of this.

Try turning off wifi. Often it will get confused with the location that is being spoofed and the location that comes through your wifi connection. I know this is an issue on Android phones and you have to switch location services to GPS only for the location spoofer to work at all.

Post: #2962

Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Post: #2963

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Post: #2964

welcome back hotwheels

Post: #2965

(12-10-2014 12:00 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Some chicks answer "meet someone" or "have fun", but according to your post, I should understand "friends" as "I want the D but too shy to say it" ?

Post: #2966

(12-10-2014 12:37 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  

(12-10-2014 12:00 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Some chicks answer "meet someone" or "have fun", but according to your post, I should understand "friends" as "I want the D but too shy to say it" ?

I don't really like the answer "I have enough friends" because it is too confrontational and critical of her answer. I think that probably it is better to accept whatever answer the girl states and then just interpret how you like and reframe and continue to pursue whatever you want to pursue. In that regard, you can interpret her response "friends" as you said: "I want the D but too shy to say it" .

Certainly, I understand that at any point that you do NOT want to be friend zoned by the girl, but I do NOT really see a need to say it (NOT at that particular moment). I think that guys need to continue to keep the frame of the relationship on his terms, and if she is NOT going along with it and is constantly reframing then time to move to the NEXT girl....

Frequently, in the beginning, the girl will be reluctant to accept the guys frame and she has a lot of defense shields and she even has certain friend concepts in her head - but that does NOT mean that when push comes to shove that she may be more than willing to progress to the next level and to move conversation into whatever frame is your normal operation.. In other words, who cares about exactly what she said.. just keep working her until it really shows that she is a waste of time (if that is the ultimate determination that you reach).

Other guys may have a different take on this.

Post: #2967

(12-10-2014 12:37 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  

(12-10-2014 12:00 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Some chicks answer "meet someone" or "have fun", but according to your post, I should understand "friends" as "I want the D but too shy to say it" ?

Why are you even asking? How does that question move you closer to getting the number and getting her out on a date?

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #2968

College in the US is almost done for the semester so I expect an increase number of matches and bang potentials for the next few weeks

this is the best time to use Tinder

Post: #2969

I just got 2 ladyboys in a row. What's up Thailand?

Post: #2970

On the recommendations of some members, I hooked up Tinder. I only get matches from black lizards. Zero matches from white. I'm trying to push for meets immediately as I get tired with typing fraff on these messaging apps.

Post: #2971

(12-10-2014 12:00 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Hahaha!

A lot of guys ask this question because they think it helps them to screen for DTF girls. But asking this question isn't needed because a girl who is so DTF that she would say she just wants to get fucked is going to volunteer that information without being asked. (Has happened many times to me). It is better not to ask this question so that you "don't scare the cat."

That said I love that other guys ask counterproductive questions like this. It just makes tinder easier for the rest of us hahaha.

Post: #2972

(12-10-2014 12:37 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  

(12-10-2014 12:00 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(12-09-2014 11:52 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  Sometimes you ask a girl "What are you looking for on Tinder?" and she replies "Friends".
How do you guys respond to that?
I answer "I have enough friends", but haven't got much luck with that answer.

Were you expecting her to say "Dick"?

Some chicks answer "meet someone" or "have fun", but according to your post, I should understand "friends" as "I want the D but too shy to say it" ?

I wrote up an answer to this that is a bit harsh. I hope it's not too tough for tough love hahaha

The problem with the "i have enough friends" comeback is that it is tryhard because it is not true. Be honest with yourself. If Micheal Jordan asked you to be friends would you say "sorry, i'm all booked up with friends"?

When she says "friends" in response to your question it can mean a few things:
1) a slightly sarcastic response (ie. "WTF, i'm on tinder, what do you think i'm looking for")
2) you haven't demonstrated to her that you're worth dating/fucking yet (which makes sense since that is something that can only be demonstrated in person)
3) she isn't willing to expose her vulnerability that she is looking for someone for whatever purpose
4) so many guys ask her that question on tinder that it isn't worth writing out her full answer (girls get this question from most guys)
5) she is stating the common opinion that boys and girls should be friends before they take things to the next level
6) she knows that you're only asking this question to screen if she is DTF and she is A) screening you out by giving you telling you the opposite of what you want to hear or B) shit testing you to see if you plough through or if you're a pussy that gives up

Questions like this are useless to ask unless you're much much more good looking than her. You can get away with this shit if your photos are of your eight-pack abs, etc and you're taking a shot gun approach. But if that was your situation you wouldn't be posting this question.

Post: #2973

7) And also language barrier, because much girls I get there aren't fluent in English.

So I stopped asking this question and just going for meet. I have 2 schedules tomorrow. Thanks guys!

I realize that asking this question was probably very beta.

Post: #2974

Can you Tinder vets post up a start to date template for me to use? My problem is I'm too intellectual and I've killed the play with dumb American lizards. Throw up a template for me from start to date that works for most Anerican lizards. Thanks again.

Post: #2975

Moma:

Profile: 3-4 pics. Less is best. Play around with an app that lets you change your GPS location, and something like tools for tinder in iphone. To find out what pic gets the most matches, pick three cities of the same general size and set your GPS there. Use an auto-liker feature and wait 24 hours for all the matches to pop up. Then do the math to figure out which pictures gets the most percentage of matches.

Bio: I'll pm you my bio, it does very well.

Message template:

1st message - standard opener.
2nd message - banter about something in their profile or light teasing.
3rd message - ask them if they have what it takes to go on the adventure I use in my bio, youll see it in the pm.
4th - comment on the mileage, like "tinder creepily is telling me you're within 3 miles of me, you live in work in (whatever city im in)?"
5th - drop the date idea, but don't ask out. "oh nice, I live/work here too. I'd be down to grab some coffee or a drink sometime. Someplace public though. I don't know if your some creepy stalker or psycho axe murderer, or ISIS"
6th - "aight cool, leave me your phone ill shoot you a text. we'll figure out something that fits into our schedule"

that's more or less how all my tinder, and pretty much all my online encounters go