(07-13-2014 09:25 AM)Lothario Wrote:Shout out to Cobra I talked to him for about an hr hashing game this and that and that gave me a new motivation to game actively. I did about 5 Day game approaches got one number etc etc and also started on SA again.
One of the craziest days yesterday where I lined up 3 dates from SA as I had some time to myself that day.
1. First date at Noon: Day didn't start right, this one Flaked, I talked to this Girl on the phone and everything was hunky dory and then she disappeared from the face of the earth. Day didn't start right but that's why I like to stack 2 or 3 dates in row on days I have some time.
2. Second date at 3:30 PM: She drove from 80 miles, we did talk on the phone, she asked me what I want her to wear, I told her a Sundress and she did, white 21 y/o College student with very nice Ass for a white girl. me gusta.
She showed up on time, I had Intentionallytold her to meet me at a Restaurant that is 2 blocks from my Apt and closes at 3 PM, It is open only for Breakfast and Lunch.
I met her outside and apologized as I am new to town and didn't knew this place closes at 3 and suggested to bounce to sandwich place at the corner of my street, got the sandwiches and told her lets go watch the Soccer Game (Holland Vs Brazil) it's about to start in 10 min.
We are at my place watching game, get to know each other, she is eating my brand of game, I saw the pupils in her green eyes get dilated. After the second goal I go for a Kiss and she was into it , I put my hand under her dress to squeeze her Ass and she brushes it away, watch the game again and re-escalate, denied again and then she says just to let you know, I don't have sex on first date (Yep we know about that one), We already agreed on a day for the second date, She told me she loves kissing and dirty talk which we did .......tried a couple more times after freeze outs but no go and I decided to go for when in doubt flip it out and guess what the agreed upon mantra of when in Doubt flip it out backfired
She got up and said I am going to leave, I told you we are not having sex today, I tried to calm her down but she said she has a family member in the hospital and wants to visit them, I told her since she drove 80 miles to see me I will at least fill her gas tank, we walked to her car, filled the gas tank and she dropped me back home, we kissed again in the car. I'm optimistic about a second date bang.
3. Third Date at 6 PM: third time was the charm, yes It was a bang, I posted it in the + 1 thread.
(07-14-2014 04:48 AM)Gorgiass Wrote: Maybe it's just because I'm reading here and thinking about things more, but I noticed a difference in wording on my last failed attempt at the bang. Got shut down repeatedly Friday and couldn't break through the LMR for the first time in the last couple months since I've been single again. Worked it for hours with two steps forward one back and a couple freeze outs, got on her bed, got my dick out, fingered her from behind but couldn't get beyond that. I noticed that unlike the others who've said "I don't want to have sex", "we're not having sex", "we can just cuddle" etc she repeatedly referenced the "first date" as well. Anyone else noticed a pattern with more difficult LMR and first date references?
so may be not a bad thing overall to encounter.(07-14-2014 02:44 PM)game_ethic Wrote: Delete it or step away from it for a while. I turned off notifications for matches, moment likes, and messages so that they wouldn't distract me. The only times I use Tinder is late at night(12-3am) when I'm bored. Do other activities to keep you occupied, like meditation, martial arts, yoga classes, or just go to a local park and day game for about an hour or so.
(07-13-2014 07:45 PM)Renberg Wrote:(07-13-2014 06:17 PM)soup Wrote: I have an idea for an after hour party game plan on a sat night.
A group of players split up hit up the outside of different crowded venues on a fri or sat. Each one suggest after party and round up a group of girls.
Then every buddy convenes at location and it's on.
The idea is to not have to go out until closing time, and to get a bunch of girls in the same place with a few players who are all in cahoots.
Would you meet up at an apartment that's relatively close to all of yours? The most difficult part seems to logistically all be on the same page.
(07-14-2014 03:31 PM)soup Wrote:(07-13-2014 07:45 PM)Renberg Wrote:(07-13-2014 06:17 PM)soup Wrote: I have an idea for an after hour party game plan on a sat night.
A group of players split up hit up the outside of different crowded venues on a fri or sat. Each one suggest after party and round up a group of girls.
Then every buddy convenes at location and it's on.
The idea is to not have to go out until closing time, and to get a bunch of girls in the same place with a few players who are all in cahoots.
Would you meet up at an apartment that's relatively close to all of yours? The most difficult part seems to logistically all be on the same page.
Yes- it would have to be at a set location that you all agree on.
The point is to make an actual after party but only with your boys who are in on the plan.
It's a "kill box" strategy. You are leading the lambs to the slaughter house. There isn't any competition.
If you guys are good/cool, then you are bringing these girls to a cool party with "hot" dudes and preselection is running rampant.
I came up with this idea because I sensed that there's loose game energy that can be harnessed if the players worked together more. Like a whole is greater than the sum of the parts kind of thing.
Working with one wingman is good usually because you can bounce of each other's energy and it's more social.
If you are working in cahoots with several guys who really do know what they are doing, I think the opportunities could be even more.
(07-14-2014 03:31 PM)soup Wrote:Awesome. It all makes sense, but definitely advanced game. If you do that one night soon, it would be awesome to hear how things went.(07-13-2014 07:45 PM)Renberg Wrote:(07-13-2014 06:17 PM)soup Wrote: I have an idea for an after hour party game plan on a sat night.
A group of players split up hit up the outside of different crowded venues on a fri or sat. Each one suggest after party and round up a group of girls.
Then every buddy convenes at location and it's on.
The idea is to not have to go out until closing time, and to get a bunch of girls in the same place with a few players who are all in cahoots.
Would you meet up at an apartment that's relatively close to all of yours? The most difficult part seems to logistically all be on the same page.
Yes- it would have to be at a set location that you all agree on.
The point is to make an actual after party but only with your boys who are in on the plan.
It's a "kill box" strategy. You are leading the lambs to the slaughter house. There isn't any competition.
If you guys are good/cool, then you are bringing these girls to a cool party with "hot" dudes and preselection is running rampant.
I came up with this idea because I sensed that there's loose game energy that can be harnessed if the players worked together more. Like a whole is greater than the sum of the parts kind of thing.
Working with one wingman is good usually because you can bounce of each other's energy and it's more social.
If you are working in cahoots with several guys who really do know what they are doing, I think the opportunities could be even more.
(07-14-2014 04:17 PM)Renberg Wrote:(07-14-2014 03:31 PM)soup Wrote:Awesome. It all makes sense, but definitely advanced game. If you do that one night soon, it would be awesome to hear how things went.(07-13-2014 07:45 PM)Renberg Wrote:(07-13-2014 06:17 PM)soup Wrote: I have an idea for an after hour party game plan on a sat night.
A group of players split up hit up the outside of different crowded venues on a fri or sat. Each one suggest after party and round up a group of girls.
Then every buddy convenes at location and it's on.
The idea is to not have to go out until closing time, and to get a bunch of girls in the same place with a few players who are all in cahoots.
Would you meet up at an apartment that's relatively close to all of yours? The most difficult part seems to logistically all be on the same page.
Yes- it would have to be at a set location that you all agree on.
The point is to make an actual after party but only with your boys who are in on the plan.
It's a "kill box" strategy. You are leading the lambs to the slaughter house. There isn't any competition.
If you guys are good/cool, then you are bringing these girls to a cool party with "hot" dudes and preselection is running rampant.
I came up with this idea because I sensed that there's loose game energy that can be harnessed if the players worked together more. Like a whole is greater than the sum of the parts kind of thing.
Working with one wingman is good usually because you can bounce of each other's energy and it's more social.
If you are working in cahoots with several guys who really do know what they are doing, I think the opportunities could be even more.
Seems like a decent amount of logistical planning (house, booze, etc.), but when it comes to the actual gaming and "herding" of chicks -- minimal effort for a great party.
(07-13-2014 08:36 PM)Valhalla Wrote:(07-13-2014 01:48 PM)CJ Wrote:(07-13-2014 02:47 AM)Valhalla Wrote: Many women recently have been telling me I seem like trouble, or I'm trouble.
What do you guys think this means?
They're turning my tactics against you!
it's not said in a teasing way. they believe it and often have this intrigued look on their face.
(07-13-2014 02:54 PM)Rage_on Wrote: I am 33 recently divorced and new to game. I would appreciate a few tips on a) getting called out on my age by younger girls and b) dealing emotionally with flaky girls or girls who were into me and then just shut off (in this case quite adversarialy). I would post in the newbie but those guys are a little TOO green to be helpful.


But thanks for inviting me
Cya tomorrow!
)(07-14-2014 01:00 PM)Lothario Wrote:(07-14-2014 04:48 AM)Gorgiass Wrote: Maybe it's just because I'm reading here and thinking about things more, but I noticed a difference in wording on my last failed attempt at the bang. Got shut down repeatedly Friday and couldn't break through the LMR for the first time in the last couple months since I've been single again. Worked it for hours with two steps forward one back and a couple freeze outs, got on her bed, got my dick out, fingered her from behind but couldn't get beyond that. I noticed that unlike the others who've said "I don't want to have sex", "we're not having sex", "we can just cuddle" etc she repeatedly referenced the "first date" as well. Anyone else noticed a pattern with more difficult LMR and first date references?
"It is ultimately the Players Responsibility to remove the feeling of guilt from girl's mind"
Call it Crazy Chic Logic but they are justifying in their head that they didn't put out on first date and are not sluts. On one of the Blogs may be CMQ's there was a great article on narrowing in on the reason behind LMR and breaking through it.
1. Girl is not comfortable enough yet (Go back to comfort building)
2. She doesn't want to appear slutty. (Give her the memorized dialect of how society has double standards for women and men and blah blah blah about this being a special moment that you want to share with her). I can not write for shit but memorize something from the thread I will mention later, particularly Subu's and rationalize-this posts.
Here is another Gem by Slubu
I have had girls that mentined no sex on first date and they meant it but guess what there was no resistance on 2nd dateso may be not a bad thing overall to encounter.
(07-14-2014 01:00 PM)Lothario Wrote:(07-14-2014 04:48 AM)Gorgiass Wrote: Maybe it's just because I'm reading here and thinking about things more, but I noticed a difference in wording on my last failed attempt at the bang. Got shut down repeatedly Friday and couldn't break through the LMR for the first time in the last couple months since I've been single again. Worked it for hours with two steps forward one back and a couple freeze outs, got on her bed, got my dick out, fingered her from behind but couldn't get beyond that. I noticed that unlike the others who've said "I don't want to have sex", "we're not having sex", "we can just cuddle" etc she repeatedly referenced the "first date" as well. Anyone else noticed a pattern with more difficult LMR and first date references?
"It is ultimately the Players Responsibility to remove the feeling of guilt from girl's mind"
Call it Crazy Chic Logic but they are justifying in their head that they didn't put out on first date and are not sluts. On one of the Blogs may be CMQ's there was a great article on narrowing in on the reason behind LMR and breaking through it.
1. Girl is not comfortable enough yet (Go back to comfort building)
2. She doesn't want to appear slutty. (Give her the memorized dialect of how society has double standards for women and men and blah blah blah about this being a special moment that you want to share with her). I can not write for shit but memorize something from the thread I will mention later, particularly Subu's and rationalize-this posts.
Here is another Gem by Slubu
I have had girls that mentined no sex on first date and they meant it but guess what there was no resistance on 2nd dateso may be not a bad thing overall to encounter.
(07-10-2014 04:31 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to a point where it's clear that I shouldn't be macking it to girls lower than 7.
(07-12-2014 12:59 AM)soup Wrote: I'm really starting to think that it's just not worth it to bother with mediocre girls.
(07-15-2014 11:33 AM)Giovonny Wrote:(07-10-2014 04:31 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to a point where it's clear that I shouldn't be macking it to girls lower than 7.
(07-12-2014 12:59 AM)soup Wrote: I'm really starting to think that it's just not worth it to bother with mediocre girls.
I recently came to the same conclusion.
Banging anything below a 7 is just not worth my time anymore.
I don't get any satisfaction or fulfillment from it.
It is a disservice to myself. It means that I don't know my own value.
I can get girls on my level or higher, I don't need to go lower.
I feel that going lower actually hurts my game.
I would honestly rather masturbate and save my precious time and energy for a higher quality girl.
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-36509-...#pid738002
If a girl's body is not slim and toned, I don't want to get naked with her.
My standards have gone up as my game has gone up.
(07-15-2014 11:33 AM)Giovonny Wrote:(07-10-2014 04:31 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to a point where it's clear that I shouldn't be macking it to girls lower than 7.
(07-12-2014 12:59 AM)soup Wrote: I'm really starting to think that it's just not worth it to bother with mediocre girls.
I recently came to the same conclusion.
Banging anything below a 7 is just not worth my time anymore.
I don't get any satisfaction or fulfillment from it.
It is a disservice to myself. It means that I don't know my own value.
I can get girls on my level or higher, I don't need to go lower.
I feel that going lower actually hurts my game.
I would honestly rather masturbate and save my precious time and energy for a higher quality girl.
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-36509-...#pid738002
If a girl's body is not slim and toned, I don't want to get naked with her.
My standards have gone up as my game has gone up.