I reset up my okcupid profile because I was bored the other day and start chatting with this single mother, I get her number and proceed to try and arrange a meet up (she's not bad looking and i'm on a dry spell)

Well anyway we arrange to meet up on Friday and then she texts me to say she's bringing her kid with her on Friday. I didn't text her back but my reaction was this.


I'm going to text her either Tomorrow or Thursday saying that i'm not meeting up with her if she's bringing the kid. If she refuses then NEXT...

(07-15-2014 03:37 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  I reset up my okcupid profile because I was bored the other day and start chatting with this single mother, I get her number and proceed to try and arrange a meet up (she's not bad looking and i'm on a dry spell)

Well anyway we arrange to meet up on Friday and then she texts me to say she's bringing her kid with her on Friday. I didn't text her back but my reaction was this.


I'm going to text her either Tomorrow or Thursday saying that i'm not meeting up with her if she's bringing the kid. If she refuses then NEXT...

You can use the kid to your advantage.....

Moms like her have no fucks about their kids, one was visiting and stayed at a hotel...I was fucking her in the shower at night.

hahaha i once fucked a single mom in a hotel room with her two kids sleeping on the second bed. It was scandalous to say the least. At one point her baby started crying, she jumped off my dick, gave the kid a pacifier, kiss him on the forehead, and then jumped right back on my dick.

Seeing shit like that go down is an eye opener to the female psyche, even though this kid was a little fucked in the head.

(07-15-2014 03:46 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(07-15-2014 03:37 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  I reset up my okcupid profile because I was bored the other day and start chatting with this single mother, I get her number and proceed to try and arrange a meet up (she's not bad looking and i'm on a dry spell)

Well anyway we arrange to meet up on Friday and then she texts me to say she's bringing her kid with her on Friday. I didn't text her back but my reaction was this.


I'm going to text her either Tomorrow or Thursday saying that i'm not meeting up with her if she's bringing the kid. If she refuses then NEXT...

You can use the kid to your advantage.....

Moms like her have no fucks about their kids, one was visiting and stayed at a hotel...I was fucking her in the shower at night.

Good idea I might try and see if we can rearrange the meetup for her place (if she has her own place)

But if that doesn't work I don't fancy looking like a dork playing happy families with a kid that ain't mine for the whole world to see

yeah I wouldn't go out on a date or in public with the kid, but her place or yours can work.

You gotta understand it from her end, babysitters are expensive and the ones the mom actually trusts aren't always available.

Would you younger guys go out of your way to bang older women?

I'm 21, and have yet to fuck a girl older than 23. Maybe I'm just doing it right, but guys like cattle rustler make banging an older bitch seem enticing. Might do it just for shits and gigs.

^Do it for the experience. My first MILF I was 19yo.

She'd take me to fancy dinners, buy me shit etc. The irony was she was 35 and a solid 8.

Just because they're a MILF doesn't make them old and nasty.

What do you guys think about traveling to a girl's house? I've been texting a cutie on Tinder and she's DTF. She doesn't even live in NYC, though, somewhere in New Jersey. It's about an hour drive to get to her. I told her if I come by cab, she's paying for the fare for me to go back and she agreed, so it's a win-win anyway.

(07-15-2014 05:14 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  hahaha i once fucked a single mom in a hotel room with her two kids sleeping on the second bed. It was scandalous to say the least. At one point her baby started crying, she jumped off my dick, gave the kid a pacifier, kiss him on the forehead, and then jumped right back on my dick.

Seeing shit like that go down is an eye opener to the female psyche, even though this kid was a little fucked in the head.

I'm sure I'm fucking one in a sofabed on a hotel tonight. It's weird as fuck but oh well, such is the game. After a while you just don't believe anything bitches say.

(07-15-2014 05:27 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  Good idea I might try and see if we can rearrange the meetup for her place (if she has her own place)

But if that doesn't work I don't fancy looking like a dork playing happy families with a kid that ain't mine for the whole world to see

Try to arrange it during the day or at night, when the kid is probably taking a nap. You don't have to interact with the kid, just ignore it. Some kids are cool, some are fucking annoying and jealous so yeah.

(07-15-2014 05:43 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  yeah I wouldn't go out on a date or in public with the kid, but her place or yours can work.

You gotta understand it from her end, babysitters are expensive and the ones the mom actually trusts aren't always available.

Yup, sitters are expensive and not there 24/7. Not to mention sitters also tend to call out. I always tell them to dump them with their fathers or friends home......am I a bad guy for suggesting that?

(07-15-2014 05:47 PM)Hans Dix Wrote:  Would you younger guys go out of your way to bang older women?

I'm 21, and have yet to fuck a girl older than 23. Maybe I'm just doing it right, but guys like cattle rustler make banging an older bitch seem enticing. Might do it just for shits and gigs.

Get a good looking fit older bitch who has money, fuck her....and tell me how it went.

For a fratty dude like you, getting a MILF with the above requisites is not that hard.

I do it because: they're fun, are dtf, are energetic, and have money. No "oh, my roomate is here"....they have their own home and a nice lexus/benz. They fuck like there's no tomorrow.

(07-15-2014 06:15 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^Do it for the experience. My first MILF I was 19yo.

She'd take me to fancy dinners, buy me shit etc. The irony was she was 35 and a solid 8.

Just because they're a MILF doesn't make them old and nasty.

Hell yeah man, it's all about the experience. It's fun and they know it's all about fucking, nothing serious. Plus, after not getting fucked right....they're quite energetic.

It fucking a 18 year old that's a 4 is no different than fucking a 39 year old that's a 4. They're both 4s.

(07-15-2014 08:56 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  What do you guys think about traveling to a girl's house? I've been texting a cutie on Tinder and she's DTF. She doesn't even live in NYC, though, somewhere in New Jersey. It's about an hour drive to get to her. I told her if I come by cab, she's paying for the fare for me to go back and she agreed, so it's a win-win anyway.

If she agreed to pay, go for it. Make her pay dinner too.

(07-15-2014 09:08 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  If she agreed to pay, go for it. Make her pay dinner too.

I just called a cab service and it's $75 to get there, not including bridge tolls. Do I really want to spend $75+ just to see a girl who might turn out to be a fat slob? I've already been catfished once. Not happening again. Perhaps if she was living in NYC I might have been more willing, but it's an hour drive to get there.

Player problems>

Sometimes I get freaked out at how easy some girls are.

I'm not saying I'm all that- I get my dry, thirsty spells, but it's crazy how effective game can be.

Girl tonight came to meet me at work, took her home. She's saying all this stuff about not going down on me the first night but then fucks me raw.

I don't know what to make of the situation.. she seemed a little crazy. When girls are this easy, I get worried that they might have an STD, a mental disorder, or would actually carry to term with any lose sperm.

Crap.. I know I had some pre-cum when I was banging her raw. Anyone know what the odds on pre-cum pregnancy might be?

I'm pretty sure she isn't on the pill because she says she's all natural and is into environmental factors on health stuff.

This is part of these reason why I don't like DHV too much.. if a crazy girl starts to see you as "the one", then she's more likely to get attached or try to have a baby.

It's not high compared to actually ejaculating in a girl, but the odds are still there. There's no way to know for sure.

(07-16-2014 12:53 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  It's not high compared to actually ejaculating in a girl, but the odds are still there. There's no way to know for sure.

Crap!

The girl left her Iphone at my place.

Something must be wrong with her.. what girl leaves her iphone??

(07-16-2014 12:56 AM)soup Wrote:  Crap!

The girl left her Iphone at my place.

Something must be wrong with her.. what girl leaves her iphone??

One that wants to fuck again

(07-16-2014 01:06 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 12:56 AM)soup Wrote:  Crap!

The girl left her Iphone at my place.

Something must be wrong with her.. what girl leaves her iphone??

One that wants to fuck again

It's not something that I want to keep going.. I just wish she had it so she could respond to my safety text.

She did have a nice pussy even though her body wasn't totally my type (but I think a lot of guys here would have liked it). Said she had been celibate for a while.. that's what her pussy felt like, but I never give much trust to what girls say.

(07-16-2014 12:53 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  It's not high compared to actually ejaculating in a girl, but the odds are still there. There's no way to know for sure.

Scientific consensus varies. It's possibly as high as 5%, but also possibly a non-factor. It apparently depends on if you urinated frequently.

I had an issue with pre-cum in February.

(07-16-2014 01:30 AM)Truth Teller Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 12:53 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  It's not high compared to actually ejaculating in a girl, but the odds are still there. There's no way to know for sure.

Scientific consensus varies. It's possibly as high as 5%, but also possibly a non-factor. It apparently depends on if you urinated frequently.

I had an issue with pre-cum in February.

What kind of issue?

(07-15-2014 08:56 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  What do you guys think about traveling to a girl's house? I've been texting a cutie on Tinder and she's DTF. She doesn't even live in NYC, though, somewhere in New Jersey. It's about an hour drive to get to her. I told her if I come by cab, she's paying for the fare for me to go back and she agreed, so it's a win-win anyway.

I'm usually against traveling far. I did venture out to NJ to get pussy on a few occasions.

I think that it's a mental game that you play on yourself if you are living in NY.

The reason is that in the back of your mind, you might be thinking it's this great thing because you have to do all this work to travel out and get it, but it's no different from the pussy that surrounds you everywhere in NYC.

Also, it would suck if you travelled that far and she flaked or didn't put out.

(07-16-2014 01:30 AM)Truth Teller Wrote:  Scientific consensus varies. It's possibly as high as 5%, but also possibly a non-factor. It apparently depends on if you urinated frequently.

I never said it was impossible, just the odds of impregnating a girl through pre-cum is very low. The more pre-cum you emit, the higher the chance of there being motile sperm in it. Not to sound gay, but if at the time Soup had a lot of pre-cum then perhaps it'd be a cause for worry. Sperm can last up to five days in a woman's vagina, so if he can get in contact with her before then, he has nothing to worry about.

(07-16-2014 02:14 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 01:30 AM)Truth Teller Wrote:  Scientific consensus varies. It's possibly as high as 5%, but also possibly a non-factor. It apparently depends on if you urinated frequently.

I never said it was impossible, just the odds of impregnating a girl through pre-cum is very low. The more pre-cum you emit, the higher the chance of there being motile sperm in it. Not to sound gay, but if at the time Soup had a lot of pre-cum then perhaps it'd be a cause for worry. Sperm can last up to five days in a woman's vagina, so if he can get in contact with her before then, he has nothing to worry about.

Not a lot but there was definitely some. Girl was telling me how she hated condoms.

She's coming to get her phone tomorrow.

She's also about to have her period. Does that mean chances are higher or lower?

I can find out if she got her period.. hope I didn't get any STDs from this girl.

(07-16-2014 02:19 AM)soup Wrote:  Not a lot but there was definitely some. Girl was telling me how she hated condoms.

She's coming to get her phone tomorrow.

She's also about to have her period. Does that mean chances are higher or lower?

I can find out if she got her period.. hope I didn't get any STDs from this girl.

Higher, unfortunately. I'd definitely consider telling her get Plan B or something.

Virgin game tips, guys?

Date 3 yesterday, had her on my bed, watching a movie, she was closed off to escalation besides regular make outs. I did push decently far on date 2 at a park at night, played with her tits a bit, but she was holding me back from anything further.

Taking any piece of clothing off was hard even though besides that I was able to escalate well yesterday. We talked a bit and I asked her what her experience was, when she told me she hasn't had much and been this far. I told her it's cool she is a virgin and said some things like 'to me its not that special for a guy to take a girls virginity. a lot of guys get excited about a virgin girl but i feel it's a hard task for a man her first time is going to hurt, theres going to be a bit of blood etc.'

I told her how I had some virgin experience and at first we had the exact same conversation we were having and I told her it's cool if we ended up having sex or not, that it was important for her to feel comfortable with it first. I told her we ended up having sex and had a fun relationship afterwards.

And also how if I found out she was a virgin and didn't like spending time with her I wouldn't consider seeing her again. But I don't really have any expectations either and if I'm still spending time with you it's because I enjoy your company.

Of course, these are my words but action wise she knows I'm escalating regardless. Even after finding out I still kept trying to push her buttons escalating and she would laugh about it and it was fun.

She also gave me the typical 'I need to know someone really well first'. She said at the start of the date before I found out about all this how she still doesn't know me that well and at the end when I dropped her off she slipped how she knows me well now. She's gotten more touchy and reciprocates much more than in the first two dates as well.

She's very cute, 20 year old with EE descent, long hair down to her ass which is fantastic. If she was just bangable for one time I wouldn't bother anymore. But I like to learn about how to handle these situations better and if I bang her or not it's cool either way. Of course I will try and looking to hear your guys opinions on this. At the same time I am working on a few other girls and will make sure to get approaches in on a night out this weekend, spinning plates.

We tentatively set a day date for later this week. I don't mind because I'll have more time than at night because she has a curfew by her parents and I can still bring her back to my place for a movie and try again.

Any thoughts on how I can learn and do well in this situation?

Girl from last night got her phone. She told me that her cycle started.. so there was some blood coming. I hope that means that I didn't precum-prenate her.

I also used some anti-game on her to maybe make it clear that we aren't a good match in the long term. She came over and I was pushing for sex a lot and she was saying stuff like "I was wondering if you were like this with a lot of girls". I also told her that I'm going to be really busy- this is true. I have a lot of work to do and more girls to hang out with.

Hoepefully that's a wrap with this chick.. maybe I'll hit her up as a reserve some time.

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On that note, a girl I've been texting with for months who was constantly flaking or not agreeing to meet, texted me out of the blue this morning and we're going to meet up this afternoon.

I should probably be doing some work right now, but hey, I can make some time for this chick.

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Also, my hippie girl texted me it's her last night in the city and she wants to hang. She's be my girlfriend for this month, so I'm going to hang with her late tonight.



Got to live it up while things are good I say, otherwise your squander opportunities.. I don't want to be in a future dry spell thinking "damn, I could've when it was going well but I didn't"

^A buddy of mine in a decent band used to tell girls he was going on tour, even if he wasn't so they wouldn't get attached or try to chill w/him past the ONS.

Maybe that would work with you.