The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
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That's it?
AneroidOcean 路 2017-02-23 17:58:00 路 #2834
(02-23-2017 04:49 PM)Rekkd Wrote: That's it?
You gave zero context. What was the last conversation you had with her? Have you not talked to her for weeks and you saw on her Facebook that she's moving out of town? Have you been talking on the phone? Have you been texting exclusively? When was the last time you fucked her?
How about ANY context, much less relevant context.
augen sehen 路 2017-02-26 14:10:00 路 #2835
The Classic IHAB:
Setup: Met a girl at a group thing we both attended, there were a few people there and hers was the only number I got. I made pretty much no excuse or gave a reason for wanting it.
[Day +1] Me: [callback humor]
[Day +3] Her: Hey myname. [callback humor reference]
I let the text sit, because she was going to be at the group thing next week anyway. We met up and chatted some more, and she referenced that we should talk more about [callback humor reference]. I took that to mean that she wanted me to ask her out. So...
[Day +8] Me: Hey, my partner in crime. Here's the promised text
are you up for something, wed evening?
[Day +8, 2 hours later] Her: Hey myname, nice to hear from you! My boyfriend and I are having guests on Wednesday evening and already on Thursday morning I am flying out of town. But are you up for a dinner at our place (or a drink out) the week after?
My options:
1. Reply with
2. "That depends..."
(Hopefully her) "On what?"
"Do you have any cute friends you'll introduce me to?"
3. Silence
I don't want to look butthurt since I'll see her again at the group thing and there are other cuties I'm talking to + it's a potential source for good social circle. But I had no idea she had a BF.
Setup: Met a girl at a group thing we both attended, there were a few people there and hers was the only number I got. I made pretty much no excuse or gave a reason for wanting it.
[Day +1] Me: [callback humor]
[Day +3] Her: Hey myname. [callback humor reference]
I let the text sit, because she was going to be at the group thing next week anyway. We met up and chatted some more, and she referenced that we should talk more about [callback humor reference]. I took that to mean that she wanted me to ask her out. So...
[Day +8] Me: Hey, my partner in crime. Here's the promised text
are you up for something, wed evening? [Day +8, 2 hours later] Her: Hey myname, nice to hear from you! My boyfriend and I are having guests on Wednesday evening and already on Thursday morning I am flying out of town. But are you up for a dinner at our place (or a drink out) the week after?
My options:
1. Reply with
2. "That depends..."
(Hopefully her) "On what?"
"Do you have any cute friends you'll introduce me to?"
3. Silence
I don't want to look butthurt since I'll see her again at the group thing and there are other cuties I'm talking to + it's a potential source for good social circle. But I had no idea she had a BF.
duedue 路 2017-02-26 21:09:00 路 #2836
This is a girl whose # I got on SA but contacted her after some 3 months. The first pic was a scary pic of a shaman (I don't know why I blurred it) and the second one of me but looking a little weird (special lighting). Who is Dwight? 
MaceTyrell 路 2017-02-27 01:34:00 路 #2837
Not stuck, but I thought it would make an amusing addition. Below is from a 27 year old chick I am running "asshole" game on, I suppose -
"You're making me feel like I'm in college again which is confusing cause technically I'm in college again."
Stop confirming these ageist types Roosh. STOP IT.
"You're making me feel like I'm in college again which is confusing cause technically I'm in college again."
Stop confirming these ageist types Roosh. STOP IT.
duedue 路 2017-02-27 20:09:00 路 #2838
Guys my relation with game now is like I see the light at the end of the tunnel but am not quite there yet.
This one from SA again. From what I understand she is not being bitchy but I still don't know how to finish what I started (ask her out). LOL What about "Please hold your horses with me"?
BTW the girl in my last post was thinking her roommate was fucking with her.
This one from SA again. From what I understand she is not being bitchy but I still don't know how to finish what I started (ask her out). LOL What about "Please hold your horses with me"?
BTW the girl in my last post was thinking her roommate was fucking with her.
duedue 路 2017-02-28 21:08:00 路 #2839
Does anyone look at this thread? Told that girl to meet me on Thursday but says has exams and can't drive about an hour. Options: let her get back to me (if at all) or text her with "gay" or "nerd".
AneroidOcean 路 2017-03-01 02:24:00 路 #2840
(02-26-2017 02:10 PM)augen sehen Wrote: The Classic IHAB:
Setup: Met a girl at a group thing we both attended, there were a few people there and hers was the only number I got. I made pretty much no excuse or gave a reason for wanting it.
[Day +1] Me: [callback humor]
[Day +3] Her: Hey myname. [callback humor reference]
I let the text sit, because she was going to be at the group thing next week anyway. We met up and chatted some more, and she referenced that we should talk more about [callback humor reference]. I took that to mean that she wanted me to ask her out. So...
[Day +8] Me: Hey, my partner in crime. Here's the promised text
[Day +8, 2 hours later] Her: Hey myname, nice to hear from you! My boyfriend and I are having guests on Wednesday evening and already on Thursday morning I am flying out of town. But are you up for a dinner at our place (or a drink out) the week after?
My options:
1. Reply with
2. "That depends..."
(Hopefully her) "On what?"
"Do you have any cute friends you'll introduce me to?"
3. Silence
I don't want to look butthurt since I'll see her again at the group thing and there are other cuties I'm talking to + it's a potential source for good social circle. But I had no idea she had a BF.
1. No
2. That could work, but poor frame because you'll go to dinner with her and her boyfriend IF she introduces you to a cute friend. She should want to introduce you to her cute girlfriends, and you'd fall into her friend-zone frame. Do you really want to go to dinner with her and her boyfriend? My guess is no, so why would you bargain for maybe a chance at an introduction in the future? The only way I'd go is if she has 1 or 2 cute girlfriends she's bringing that she'll put in a good word for you with. Otherwise that's a total losing proposition.
3. Almost always a good option.
Personally I'd go with, "Ah, that's too bad you're not single" or something flirty that doesn't put you in the friendzone but acknowledges her "problem" or something to that effect.
Really it's a dead lead sounds like.
(02-28-2017 09:08 PM)duedue Wrote: Does anyone look at this thread? Told that girl to meet me on Thursday but says has exams and can't drive about an hour. Options: let her get back to me (if at all) or text her with "gay" or "nerd".
You'd need to have some incredible social proof or the girl incredibly into you already in order for ANY girl to drive a half hour to see you, much less an hour. Your last post shows some progress, but you don't show how you asked her to meet you so it's hard to give advice. With the vein you're going with:
"you may pass your exams, but you're failing with daddy, you deserve a spanking"
or something shorter. I think you're going to have a big problem getting a girl to go an hour to you unless you've got something incredible to offer.
duedue 路 2017-03-01 07:43:00 路 #2841
Thanks. I told her "Please hold your horses if we meet, ok?" She said sure and then I said "meet daddy at [bar/grill]"
What you say sounds good, maybe "you should pass your exams but may fail with daddy" with a spanking gif.
What you say sounds good, maybe "you should pass your exams but may fail with daddy" with a spanking gif.
duedue 路 2017-03-02 06:34:00 路 #2842
Another girl I found online stopped responding after I told her she had naughty eyes, even though she sounded enthusiastic at first.
Options: "They make me feel afraid to meet you" or changing the subject to something platonic?
Options: "They make me feel afraid to meet you" or changing the subject to something platonic?
YoungArt 路 2017-03-04 03:40:00 路 #2843
"They make me feel afraid to meet you"
Don't text this! Why would a man be afraid of females eyes.
Don't text this! Why would a man be afraid of females eyes.
jackflag 路 2017-03-07 05:02:00 路 #2844
Need advice on what to text a girl I probably WON'T be seeing again.
She's Russian, but been in the States a long time. We go to the same grad school, and had sporadic drinks last year. We've spoken twice over the past 6 months, and once was last week. We made plans to hang out over the weekend, and she asked if we could reschedule for this Wednesday. I agreed but said it would have to be late since I work that day, and asked if that worked for her. That was last Friday. She hasn't replied yet, and Wednesday is tomorrow.
She's done this before, so I was kind of expecting it, and am not really sweating it, despite how it may seem from this. Both this time (and the last time) it was her suggestion to hang out. I know her program and have other friends in it, and she genuinely does have shit popping up at random times, so the rescheduling is fine. But then, I wasn't born yesterday, and if a chick wants to text you, she will. End of story.
I decided if I didn't hear from her by today, I was losing her number and chalking it up. My question is, if she does end up hitting me back with a confirm,
1. Should I go, or follow through with not going, and
2. If I do decide not to go, do I just ignore her texts, or do I tell her how rude she was?
Trust me that this is making it seem like I care a lot more than I do. At one time, I did REALLY wanna fuck this chick, but this was just going to be something to do. I'm perfectly fine erasing her number and never giving her another thought. Just wondering if the game masters here think there's a play I haven't considered. And if telling a serial flaker she's a serial flaker is worth the calories burned on it.
Thanks for any insight.
She's Russian, but been in the States a long time. We go to the same grad school, and had sporadic drinks last year. We've spoken twice over the past 6 months, and once was last week. We made plans to hang out over the weekend, and she asked if we could reschedule for this Wednesday. I agreed but said it would have to be late since I work that day, and asked if that worked for her. That was last Friday. She hasn't replied yet, and Wednesday is tomorrow.
She's done this before, so I was kind of expecting it, and am not really sweating it, despite how it may seem from this. Both this time (and the last time) it was her suggestion to hang out. I know her program and have other friends in it, and she genuinely does have shit popping up at random times, so the rescheduling is fine. But then, I wasn't born yesterday, and if a chick wants to text you, she will. End of story.
I decided if I didn't hear from her by today, I was losing her number and chalking it up. My question is, if she does end up hitting me back with a confirm,
1. Should I go, or follow through with not going, and
2. If I do decide not to go, do I just ignore her texts, or do I tell her how rude she was?
Trust me that this is making it seem like I care a lot more than I do. At one time, I did REALLY wanna fuck this chick, but this was just going to be something to do. I'm perfectly fine erasing her number and never giving her another thought. Just wondering if the game masters here think there's a play I haven't considered. And if telling a serial flaker she's a serial flaker is worth the calories burned on it.
Thanks for any insight.
duedue 路 2017-03-07 07:15:00 路 #2845
(03-04-2017 03:40 AM)YoungArt Wrote: "They make me feel afraid to meet you"
Don't text this! Why would a man be afraid of females eyes.
This is a modification of a line I learned from Troy Francis "They make me afraid you may be the type of girl who's take advantage of me" although I guess I changed it for the worse.
I told the girl who lived an hour drive about deserving a spanking. She replied "Is it really so? Would you please tell me your name so that I can hold you to it? This is definitely something I'm interested in." I replied "Trying to hold me up to it will result i extra spanks!" But gave her my name given that I had dodged the same question once before. No response after a few days. It may be the distance or the spring break but more likely that I "fell into her frame" and told her my name? Sick.
Sketness 路 2017-03-08 13:50:00 路 #2846
Plausible deniability will fix all of your problems.
Stop texting what your going to do in person, over the phone. Get the meet up and actually do what you said over text in person.
By getting explicit over text ya'll are killing the suspense, shut your mouth, get her out on a date THEN talk your shit to her face to face
Stop texting what your going to do in person, over the phone. Get the meet up and actually do what you said over text in person.
By getting explicit over text ya'll are killing the suspense, shut your mouth, get her out on a date THEN talk your shit to her face to face
LearningProcess 路 2017-03-09 13:29:00 路 #2847
Hi, i m a new member of the forum....forgive me if my english will not be perfect 
I m doing daygame and i d like to have an opinion about the timing of sending the first message after taking the phone number.
For example, this afternoon (Thursday) i took a phone number.
Can i send the first message tomorrow to try to organize a meeting in the weekend or must i wait always at least 2 days before sending the first message?
A small information (i don't know if it s relevant): the girl seemed enough glad to give me her number.
I m doing daygame and i d like to have an opinion about the timing of sending the first message after taking the phone number.
For example, this afternoon (Thursday) i took a phone number.
Can i send the first message tomorrow to try to organize a meeting in the weekend or must i wait always at least 2 days before sending the first message?
A small information (i don't know if it s relevant): the girl seemed enough glad to give me her number.
duedue 路 2017-03-10 08:57:00 路 #2848
^ This's been discussed in other threads. You don't need to wait long as in older days; can text the same day.
As a matter of fact looking glad while giving you her number may not mean much. Also it may be better to set the meeting in the middle of the week when the girl is not getting as much attention as at weekend.
As a matter of fact looking glad while giving you her number may not mean much. Also it may be better to set the meeting in the middle of the week when the girl is not getting as much attention as at weekend.
duedue 路 2017-03-10 09:36:00 路 #2849
(03-08-2017 01:50 PM)Sketness Wrote: Plausible deniability will fix all of your problems.
Stop texting what your going to do in person, over the phone. Get the meet up and actually do what you said over text in person.
By getting explicit over text ya'll are killing the suspense, shut your mouth, get her out on a date THEN talk your shit to her face to face
Sketness 路 2017-03-10 11:39:00 路 #2850
I personally would've dropped the "google it" part , because that makes you sound like a asshole. Though that is the overall idea of what the first couple of text should look like
LearningProcess 路 2017-03-10 12:28:00 路 #2851
on average on 10 phone numbers taken, how many will bring to a date?
1) For a beginner
2) Fon an intermediate
3) For an advanced
I m doing a big work on myself but i m little bit discouraged today.
1) For a beginner
2) Fon an intermediate
3) For an advanced
I m doing a big work on myself but i m little bit discouraged today.
ksbms 路 2017-03-10 14:37:00 路 #2852
(03-10-2017 12:28 PM)LearningProcess Wrote: on average on 10 phone numbers taken, how many will bring to a date?
1) For a beginner
2) Fon an intermediate
3) For an advanced
I m doing a big work on myself but i m little bit discouraged today.
Out of 10 numbers, I expect to get a reply to my feeler from 3-5 girls, get on a date 1-3. This would be roughly about intermediate I think?
crispytaco 路 2017-03-12 18:53:00 路 #2853
(03-10-2017 12:28 PM)LearningProcess Wrote: on average on 10 phone numbers taken, how many will bring to a date?
1) For a beginner
2) Fon an intermediate
3) For an advanced
I m doing a big work on myself but i m little bit discouraged today.
Is not the number, is the impression she got from you, and most of the time if the found you attractive enough. It also depends of the woman cycles, and even location and age. One day we get a number, maybe you are at the point she send you nudes, and suddenly she flakes!
Don't try to compare numbers with other perople here. That won't let you enjoy what you are doing. Just keep aproaching!
So it seems you are getting the numbers but the problem is to translate them to dates? maybe you need to improve your text game?
YoungArt 路 2017-03-14 20:09:00 路 #2854
What would be a good after sex message? Need to make sure I'll see her again plus I don't trust bitches and their made up rape claims.
Balkan 路 2017-03-14 21:48:00 路 #2855
(03-14-2017 08:09 PM)YoungArt Wrote: What would be a good after sex message? Need to make sure I'll see her again plus I don't trust bitches and their made up rape claims.
I always do a variant of this. Come back to us slubu
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-8576-...#pid307093
seabridge 路 2017-03-19 17:20:00 路 #2856
MathGuy 路 2017-03-19 22:38:00 路 #2857
When a girl takes a lengthy amount of time to respond (let's say 2 hours to almost 2 days), how quickly should one send a reply? I mean, it feels a bit off to force myself to take over 3.5 hours to respond if she took 3 hours, or 3 days if she took 2 days.
I'm thinking of something that isn't immediate, but more reasonable, like waiting 10 min or 30 min or 1 hr at a minimum.
Thoughts?
I'm thinking of something that isn't immediate, but more reasonable, like waiting 10 min or 30 min or 1 hr at a minimum.
Thoughts?