(02-01-2017 01:50 AM)Agastya Wrote:  Same girl who I fingered but didn't bang. She's sassy as fuck, I still want to bang her. She agreed to smoke weed and watch pineapple express with me but then flaked because of work. Methinks she was just cheating on her boyfriend with yet another nigga, foul skank that she is, but I'm still trying to tear her pussy asunder. I'm banging one other girl at the moment and have another old FB down to fuck on Saturday. I will get that weekend hat trick or die trying.

Me: it's cool, i was lit as fuck anyway, come down on thursday. are you free after 7?

Her: nah, I decided I don't want to get high in the middle of the week anymore.

Me: shit pussies say

Her: pussies you have less and less of a chance with

Wut do? Normally I'm good at coming up with witty replies but this girl's personality is super incompatible with mine. NO clue how to respond.

Don't give her any pull after her giving you such a strong push. It's a fragile situation. She's testing you now big time - will you be like other guys trying to pull her after being slapped in the face like a little puppy?

Protect the frame.

Be indifferent.

What I'd do, at most, I'd send her a picture of a man surrounded by a ton of cats no sooner than 24 hours later. No caption, no funny comment, no emoticons - just a pic.

Or give her a poor man's push - no reply whatsoever and wait to see if she re-engages (credit: Krauser). If she does, you'll probably score. If she doesn't, you're sitting low on her agenda.

If the latter, put on the backburner for a few weeks, then perhaps re-enagage, focusing on other leads in the meantime.

Bang from this weekend. Trying to pull her to the crib this weekend, but says she's out of town. I suggested a particular day she is in town (this first message has been on "read" since yesterday, man do I love the stupid girls who haven't figured out how to turn that off yet) and double texted half an hour later suggesting I am flexible as I "especially would like to see you at some point this weekend" - this one has been on "delivered."

95% sure I won't triple text & just let this weekend go by, but I think that that is going to make what is slowly feeling like a notch I can't re-bang drift away further.

Thoughts?

Girl I've been banging.,

Me: Meet me at X spot at 2 and look good

her: are you saying i usually look like shit

Wut do

Don't even acknowledge her horse shit

Send: sweet see u then

If she pushes the subject
Send: ........sure -_-........

Getting back into the game and it's like starting from scratch. Had an approach yesterday here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130...pid1500178

Long story short, approached at the metro at around 700pm. Interaction was not bad. She's in law school. Got her number. Didn't text her until 930pm after I was done meeting with friends:

Me: "hey it's betanomore" nice meeting you at the metro today. Hope you didn't get too wild drinking solo

She responded this am at 830:

Her: "sorry for the late response"

Her: "It was nice meeting you as well. I have to say it didn't get too wild at all. A bit of Netflix and then I passed out. Hope you had a nice night out."


Now I have some beginner noob questions:

- is it better to just respond this evening rather than try to converse during the day while we both have stuff/work to do
- am I wrong to think that I should move this away from text asap and set up a meet? I've read from most guys on here that you can only screw things up by trying to over-game on the phone. I'm thinking a reply, maybe 1-2 more exchanges then ask to meet.

How this for later this evening;

"Night was great. Caught up with people I have seen in a long time. passing out from alcohol after day 1 on the job eh? Gotta pace yourself - you have a long career ahead"

If she responds, maybe in a message or two I'll say we both need to unwind a little. How about you meet me for a drink Sunday evening?

Thoughts?


Edit:

My buddy said to not screwed around and just ask her out:

Likely will go with this: "ya it was great. Seems like we both can get away from work stuff though. You free Sunday evening for a drink?"

Keep it simple.

My first post....

I am busy with work, I will let you know when I am free.

Answer - radio silence?

Mid 30s EE, sent me a text the day of meeting. It was very nice meeting you today Rudebwoy.

I assume it is wanting to be chased.

I hate it when chicks (people period) don't respond to text messages.

I have a nice lightbright, later thirties, doctor chick I've been talking to for a couple weeks. We have great convo when we do speak, but she never answers when I call and rarely immediately replies to my texts.
At this point, I don't even bother calling her anymore, but she will call me on a randomly consistent basis.
Yesterday, she text some bullshit multi-level (pyrimid) marketing shit about a travel club under the pretense of our conversations about my desire to travel. I ignored her message and will bust her chops later today when I do respond about sending me some cheesy ass pyramid scheme shit.
IMO, aside from her aloofness, I really want to bang her out. She's probably used to being chased, but I know as soon as I make that poossy rain, she'll be hard to shake, lol

Me on tinder. I'm using this line that I took from the misc but I have no clue how to follow up with it.

Me: I was hesitant to message you because of how pointy your elbows are. I caved in and messaged you
because I'm trying to better myself and become less discriminating. So I'm willing to give you a shot,
pointy elbows and all

Her: Ugh I'm so glad someone finally called me out on my pointy elbows, so tired of people beating around the bush (laughing emoji)

I think these lines are funny as fuck but this is my first time trying em out. Tips on how to respond?

Her: what are you looking for on tinder.

She's older than me, very sexual and I just wanna bang a few times. How can i send the message without being too direct?

(02-03-2017 12:51 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Her: what are you looking for on tinder.

She's older than me, very sexual and I just wanna bang a few times. How can i send the message without being too direct?

"The same thing you're looking for on Tinder, except I"m more subtle about it, lol"

So I had to work during the night and I am not feeling like 100% in track today.

Having this conversation, yesterday I was very straight forward but today:
Her: Do you have another picture of yourself?
Me [pic shirtless, not bad]
Her: Well, I've seen better bodies....

Any idea? I can't think asshole today..

^^^^

Send: And by "better body" do you mean yours because that's debatable

Had a girl shit test me, usually i agree and amplify sarcastically, but i'm questioning what reply I should give her to maintain frame.

she paints so i asked her if she was related to bob ross
replies with " I assume this is some kind of setup for a joke...so whats the punchline?"

is her dodging my question show something larger?

^^^^^^

I'd go: the punchline is …never tell (insert her name) a joke , she'll smother it with a bunch of nothing

(02-01-2017 06:57 AM)duedue Wrote:  

(01-31-2017 06:03 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(01-30-2017 08:23 PM)duedue Wrote:  Seems I'm not a good jerk yet. (This is from yesterday.)

You played into her frame. You didn't control the conversation.

When she demanded a picture, you did exactly as she said. That doesn't sound like a "jerk" thing to do.

You could have responded with something vague to leave her thinking about what you're doing.

"Not now, I'm out with someone."

Make her think about what that means.

Right I was afraid if I do something like that she would think I had something to hide.
Man, gaming American women is like playing poker with the devil!

American women will eat that kind of stuff up. You just need to maintain frame of you being a "jerk." She will go right along with it. Just have fun man. Who cares if she doesn't talk to you again, you have plenty others that you can text.

Thx DimeBait

Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

(02-10-2017 02:28 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

"Pay for my drinks while I spill my shitty problems to you and hope that you will become my Knight in shiny armor and save me. But I still won't fuck you."

Ok should I just next her? Or is there a way to fuck her?

^I don't care if a woman is unemployed or just sold her tech start up for millions, if she says that you're paying, I'd ghost her and not look back. She can look as hot as she wants, but I won't ever willingly date a leech.

You are paying for HER to have a good time. You are all give, and she is all take.

Might as well date a hooker because at least you know how your night would end.

delete

Texted back and forth with a girl from this post. Quick chat in a café followed by a promising text exchange beginning Thursday, then since Saturday messaged left as unseen, though she used whatsapp Monday morning. What next?

Update. The girl worked on an assignment day and night. Meeting her at 8pm.

Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

What are some good Valentines Day zingers? I just had a girl text me this on Tinder:

Me: "where is the get to know you better button?"
Her: Happy Valentines Day