(01-13-2017 09:17 AM)Turnus Wrote:  Been texting with this girl for about a week. I actually "met" her through a friend of a friend. We were basically introduced to each other over Facebook but haven't met in person yet. We have a date set up for this evening, and she's coming straight to my place for drinks.

First, can the axe murderer responses. No good.

In return for her lowering her commitment level, one approach would be to lower yours. You could find something else to do and invite her to tag along with, something that you can continue doing once she leaves. Or just find something to do alone and reschedule the date for another day. I wouldn't do this though.

It is possible that going straight to your place is triggering her ASD. Even meeting at a bar near your place would give her more plausible deniability, and with Tuth's first date bang recipe, could still lead to a bang.

So I got this beautiful 9 on tinder, I've been talking to her for a while and making her laugh and keeping the convo insteresting with some sexual things. Anyways, She's 64km away now .. most probably in her city doing some shit, I dont know. So I asked her out and she said ok when shes back in Montreal (that's where I am). Now she didn't specify a date or gave me any details, so I don't really know how to reply to that.

(01-16-2017 05:43 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  So I got this beautiful 9 on tinder, I've been talking to her for a while and making her laugh and keeping the convo insteresting with some sexual things. Anyways, She's 64km away now .. most probably in her city doing some shit, I dont know. So I asked her out and she said ok when shes back in Montreal (that's where I am). Now she didn't specify a date or gave me any details, so I don't really know how to reply to that.

Did you progress from messaging on Tinder to Whatsapp/phone?

(01-16-2017 05:46 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:43 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  So I got this beautiful 9 on tinder, I've been talking to her for a while and making her laugh and keeping the convo insteresting with some sexual things. Anyways, She's 64km away now .. most probably in her city doing some shit, I dont know. So I asked her out and she said ok when shes back in Montreal (that's where I am). Now she didn't specify a date or gave me any details, so I don't really know how to reply to that.

Did you progress from messaging on Tinder to Whatsapp/phone?

Not yet but I have her on snapchat

(01-16-2017 05:53 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:46 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:43 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  So I got this beautiful 9 on tinder, I've been talking to her for a while and making her laugh and keeping the convo insteresting with some sexual things. Anyways, She's 64km away now .. most probably in her city doing some shit, I dont know. So I asked her out and she said ok when shes back in Montreal (that's where I am). Now she didn't specify a date or gave me any details, so I don't really know how to reply to that.

Did you progress from messaging on Tinder to Whatsapp/phone?

Not yet but I have her on snapchat

That's almost like a regression.

(01-16-2017 06:06 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:53 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:46 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 05:43 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  So I got this beautiful 9 on tinder, I've been talking to her for a while and making her laugh and keeping the convo insteresting with some sexual things. Anyways, She's 64km away now .. most probably in her city doing some shit, I dont know. So I asked her out and she said ok when shes back in Montreal (that's where I am). Now she didn't specify a date or gave me any details, so I don't really know how to reply to that.

Did you progress from messaging on Tinder to Whatsapp/phone?

Not yet but I have her on snapchat

That's almost like a regression.

ok that was useful

Wanted to give an update regarding the situation I had a few posts up over the weekend.

I did end up texting the Axe Murdere response and she gave it a little giggle.

She came over on Friday night. Actually looked pretty decent. We had a few drinks, made some appetizers and shot the shit for a couple of hours. She bounced at 9pm, but texted me that she had a great time.

I hit her up early Saturday evening. She ended up coming straight over. We watched the football game and proceeded to get drunk. I played with her boobs a bit. She gave me a great blow job.

Probably going to hang out again in a week or two.

Any suggestions for a generic text to send to old leads from the past few months that didn't go farther than maybe a date or two? I've got a bunch of these numbers, might as well troll to see if any are interested before I delete the numbers. Haven't texted most of these in 2+ months.

(01-17-2017 03:17 PM)JackStraw Wrote:  Any suggestions for a generic text to send to old leads from the past few months that didn't go farther than maybe a date or two? I've got a bunch of these numbers, might as well troll to see if any are interested before I delete the numbers. Haven't texted most of these in 2+ months.

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-6198.html
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11743.html
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-49366.html

This is a girl who I met in class, brought her home to smoke, fingered her in my bed, but she freaked out and wasn't down after (she had a boyfriend, just met me, etc.) We cuddled, I felt her up and made out with her some more but it wasn't happening.

Been texting her since she's a cutie Latina. Recent texts:

Me: wyd friday evening

Her: Going home, volunteering.
Her (2 hours later) : you?

Me: Drinking, what's good for the weekend

Her: mmkay

Me: ?

Her: you said you were probably going to be drinking so i meant to say "k" like sounds good

Me: yea but wyd over the weekend

her: not sure
her: you got any illustrious plans (8 hours later)

What should I text her next? I'm encouraged by the fact that she's sending me secondary texts continuing the convo if I take several hours to respond. She's kind of a scumbag for openly cheating on her boyfriend but she has a tight little body and I want to fuck her this weekend.

(01-25-2017 06:41 PM)Agastya Wrote:  This is a girl who I met in class, brought her home to smoke, fingered her in my bed, but she freaked out and wasn't down after (she had a boyfriend, just met me, etc.) We cuddled, I felt her up and made out with her some more but it wasn't happening.

Been texting her since she's a cutie Latina. Recent texts:

Me: wyd friday evening

Her: Going home, volunteering.
Her (2 hours later) : you?

Me: Drinking, what's good for the weekend

Her: mmkay

Me: ?

Her: you said you were probably going to be drinking so i meant to say "k" like sounds good

Me: yea but wyd over the weekend

her: not sure
her: you got any illustrious plans (8 hours later)

What should I text her next? I'm encouraged by the fact that she's sending me secondary texts continuing the convo if I take several hours to respond. She's kind of a scumbag for openly cheating on her boyfriend but she has a tight little body and I want to fuck her this weekend.

Find another girl. Move on.

She let you finger her but didn't let you fuck? (Assuming you didn't because you never explicitly said it)

She could be shit testing you and assessing whether you're cheating-worthy or not. You gave little information so it's hard to deduce.

^^^^

I'm not digging the wyd this weekend texts. If you want to hang out with her, be a man and say something like

"Let's go on an adventure. 8pm. Friday night. Look hot"

(01-26-2017 11:20 AM)Turnus Wrote:  ^^^^

I'm not digging the wyd this weekend texts. If you want to hang out with her, be a man and say something like

"Let's go on an adventure. 8pm. Friday night. Look hot"

Seconded, however I'd go on a little different route. She smokes, so she pokes. Did she enjoy the smoking part? Tell her you two should smoke then go out to this spot you like. This way she has plausible deniability. Enjoy smoking with her, keep it real chill, go out to the spot, then back for a drink/smoke. Seal the deal. Or never leave your place.

(01-26-2017 11:17 AM)tapthatass Wrote:  

(01-25-2017 06:41 PM)Agastya Wrote:  This is a girl who I met in class, brought her home to smoke, fingered her in my bed, but she freaked out and wasn't down after (she had a boyfriend, just met me, etc.) We cuddled, I felt her up and made out with her some more but it wasn't happening.

Been texting her since she's a cutie Latina. Recent texts:

Me: wyd friday evening

Her: Going home, volunteering.
Her (2 hours later) : you?

Me: Drinking, what's good for the weekend

Her: mmkay

Me: ?

Her: you said you were probably going to be drinking so i meant to say "k" like sounds good

Me: yea but wyd over the weekend

her: not sure
her: you got any illustrious plans (8 hours later)

What should I text her next? I'm encouraged by the fact that she's sending me secondary texts continuing the convo if I take several hours to respond. She's kind of a scumbag for openly cheating on her boyfriend but she has a tight little body and I want to fuck her this weekend.

Find another girl. Move on.

She let you finger her but didn't let you fuck? (Assuming you didn't because you never explicitly said it)

She could be shit testing you and assessing whether you're cheating-worthy or not. You gave little information so it's hard to deduce.

Yeah, I made the mistake of not eating her out when her pants were off. This is an 18 year old freshman who was dating this guy for several years, apparently has cheated on him before but only lost her virginity recently. After she freaked out we basically just lay around, I played with her titties and made out with her a bit but she wasn't down for anything more.

To be honest, I am too lazy and too busy to go out spam approaching looking for more women. I'm only 21 but I've been daygaming since high school and my general energy level for game has sharply decreased.

Either way, she said she was down to "watch Pineapple Express and smoke a bowl", so we'll see what happens. I think "wyd" texts are fine, to be honest with some younger girls coming off too "alpha" can be offputting. That style of game -- ordering women around -- has never really worked for me (unless the girl in question is a particularly vile skank), I have a lot more success when I take a more neutral approach.

So I informed one of my Peruvian (she was actually half Brazilian) girlfriends I was returning to Lima an she told me she had a boyfriend now... the following was how I responded to her accusations of me leaving her... Did I handle this situation correctly?

Cr33pin, I'd say you handled it like a champ.

   

(01-27-2017 04:13 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  So I informed one of my Peruvian (she was actually half Brazilian) girlfriends I was returning to Lima an she told me she had a boyfriend now... the following was how I responded to her accusations of me leaving her... Did I handle this situation correctly?

You got me.

What happened next? Did it work? I'm curious

Seems I'm not a good jerk yet. (This is from yesterday.)
   
   

^ I don't see a problem, I'm fucking blind.

(01-30-2017 08:23 PM)duedue Wrote:  Seems I'm not a good jerk yet. (This is from yesterday.)

You played into her frame. You didn't control the conversation.

When she demanded a picture, you did exactly as she said. That doesn't sound like a "jerk" thing to do.

You could have responded with something vague to leave her thinking about what you're doing.

"Not now, I'm out with someone."

Make her think about what that means.

What was in the picture?

Same girl who I fingered but didn't bang. She's sassy as fuck, I still want to bang her. She agreed to smoke weed and watch pineapple express with me but then flaked because of work. Methinks she was just cheating on her boyfriend with yet another nigga, foul skank that she is, but I'm still trying to tear her pussy asunder. I'm banging one other girl at the moment and have another old FB down to fuck on Saturday. I will get that weekend hat trick or die trying.

Me: it's cool, i was lit as fuck anyway, come down on thursday. are you free after 7?

Her: nah, I decided I don't want to get high in the middle of the week anymore.

Me: shit pussies say

Her: pussies you have less and less of a chance with

Wut do? Normally I'm good at coming up with witty replies but this girl's personality is super incompatible with mine. NO clue how to respond.

(01-31-2017 07:41 PM)ksbms Wrote:  What was in the picture?

Me sitting on the edge of a cliff, with a decently alpha pose.

(01-31-2017 06:03 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(01-30-2017 08:23 PM)duedue Wrote:  Seems I'm not a good jerk yet. (This is from yesterday.)

You played into her frame. You didn't control the conversation.

When she demanded a picture, you did exactly as she said. That doesn't sound like a "jerk" thing to do.

You could have responded with something vague to leave her thinking about what you're doing.

"Not now, I'm out with someone."

Make her think about what that means.

Right I was afraid if I do something like that she would think I had something to hide.
Man, gaming American women is like playing poker with the devil!

(02-01-2017 06:49 AM)duedue Wrote:  

(01-31-2017 07:41 PM)ksbms Wrote:  What was in the picture?

Me sitting on the edge of a cliff, with a decently alpha pose.

Too much try-hard. You should've protected the frame, instead played to hers. Ideally, you'd reframe and send her a non-sequitur picture of something funny and challenging.