Post: #451

Forget Mexico. The place isn't much different from the US when it comes to average sexual morale. Might even be worse.

Post: #452

^ I don't buy this girls spend so much time with family in Mexico and social circles talk from what I saw and felt. I think it is much tougher to be a slut in Mexico than the U.S.. Not that they won't.

I have ton of beef with Mexico, more chaste and family oriented chicks is a big virtue of theirs though compared to the U.S..

Girls are constantly with their families for religious holidays, vacations, national holidays whatever. They live at home forever too it seemed.

I like the comment though because it isn't some wishy-washy grey area bullshit.

Post: #453

(07-26-2016 12:06 PM)Travesty Wrote:  ^ I don't buy this girls spend so much time with family in Mexico and social circles talk from what I saw and felt. I think it is much tougher to be a slut in Mexico than the U.S.. Not that they won't.

I have ton of beef with Mexico, more chaste and family oriented chicks is a big virtue of theirs though compared to the U.S..

Girls are constantly with their families for religious holidays, vacations, national holidays whatever. They live at home forever too it seemed.

I like the comment though because it isn't some wishy-washy grey area bullshit.

Probably some of the biggest sluts I've ever met were from that country. Like puke-in-your-mouth-from-the-disgust sort of slut. And they are lovely too, very affectionate, great sex, spend lots of times with family... then look at what they do on the weekends. It's a nasty place for finding a girlfriend, because the girls are deceptive. They come across as the best possible girlfriends you could imagine, only with a history of abject disgusting degeneracy that forces you to reconsider.

Post: #454

Women are women everywhere. There are sluts everywhere. Mexico in general keeps hand with their women compared to any Anglo country by far from my experience. The world is full of crazy sluts which is great and bad on your view. Mexico is a "lesser evil".

One thing I really hated about Mexico, I was expecting to see hot girls 18-25 at the Churches I visited during masses. Nope none. None none none. I thought Mexican chicks would be all over that.

Also when I was there you see the process food and sugar eating bodies a lot of chicks have that even aren't outright fat.

Colombia on the other hand lots of lower class chicks that were in good shape and looked like they could dance well.

I need to get my MEXICO HATER t-shirt made.

Post: #455

(07-26-2016 12:15 PM)Travesty Wrote:  Women are women everywhere. There are sluts everywhere. Mexico in general keeps hand with their women compared to any Anglo country by far from my experience. The world is full of crazy sluts which is great and bad on your view. Mexico is a "lesser evil".

One thing I really hated about Mexico, I was expecting to see hot girls 18-25 at the Churches I visited during masses. Nope none. None none none. I thought Mexican chicks would be all over that.

Also when I was there you see the process food and sugar eating bodies a lot of chicks have that even aren't outright fat.

Colombia on the other hand lots of lower class chicks that were in good shape and looked like they could dance well.

I need to get my MEXICO HATER t-shirt made.

You need to consider that Mexico is right next to US, with all US companies operating and marketing heavily there. The culture has spilled in greatly. Not to mention that the indigenous culture had no restraint on sexuality (much like African tribes), and the race itself is one of high sex-drive. Poland and Philippines are Catholic, nobody would argue that the girls in those countries are not easy. With Mexico, the situation is worse, because US culture has gone deep, the race tends towards promiscuity, and the culture has a history of poor sexual restraint. One thing that struck me in Mexico, which I did not see in Philippines or Poland, is that many girls seek degeneracy and deviance, much like gay men do. They actively seek public sex, threesomes, group sex (I believe DF is one of the cities with most swinger's clubs in the world), most girls smoke marihuana regularly, many have at least tried cocaine (it's big there), and overall deviant sexual situations. They are very much unlike sluts in say Southeast Asia, that have just banged a few foreigners off Tinder in equal circumstances with no variants or deviant situations.

Post: #456

Booze and cocaine loving freaky sluts? I gotta get down to the DF.

Post: #457

Haha everyone knows DF is the Mexico equivalent of NYC sluts.

Loving this deep dark analysis of unrestrained Mexican chick sex release.

Post: #458

Place is great for a bang trip, but don't make the mistake of going to Mexico looking for a wife. Many were already burned on this very forum from a similar misrepresentation of Poland some years ago.

Post: #459

For those that are wife hunting abroad...do you live there OR travel often?

Unfortunately the latter would be the only option for me. While I have a lot of flexibility, i still think it's hard to do it as a traveller.

Post: #460

I've traveled to over 40 countries and if I wanted a wife, I would come to the Philippines.

Of course you would need to be picky and establish limits early on. For those who say there are a lot of scammers, YES, but they are very obvious if you keep your head out of your ass. There are also a lot of genuinely sweet women here who will work hard for your happiness as long as you work hard for theirs. YES, there every Filipina will probably eventually ask for money for her family. So, just don't give it to her. Besides, wanting to help your family is a positive trait in my opinion. I would encourage a Filipina wife to earn some money to help her family and help her get started on this... problem solved.

Post: #461

A good trick, if using dating sites but especially for Asia as it seems to be more crucial given the genetic pool, is to filter for height.

Taller Asian women are generally better looking when young, but also especially as they age. That button-cute Asian midget that you fell in love with because you can throw her around so easily and because her massages are so good is likely going to turn into an unrecognizable ewok by 45.

For the Philippines, I'd personally set the height filter for at least 5'5". However, you may find something worthwhile at 5'3". As a rule of thumb, though, the taller the better. You'll likely eventually get a feel for what is available as you filter for greater height.

Full disclosure: I've been to and have lived in Asia, and can speak first hand to some nations. But not the Philippines. But I have browsed Philippine dating sites to check out the talent level and this "trick" might have better value for that location than even most other Asian destinations.

Post: #462

(07-26-2016 08:33 PM)Kaizen Wrote:  For those that are wife hunting abroad...do you live there OR travel often?

Unfortunately the latter would be the only option for me. While I have a lot of flexibility, i still think it's hard to do it as a traveller.

It depends on the country. If you were trying to 'wife hunt' in the Mediterranean/Balkans; Spain, Italy, Serbia Greece, you would have a hard time if you didn't live there and even then unless you have extremely high value probably be at a disadvantage to the local guys when it comes to trying to 'wife up'. Vietnam, a place that Travesty has on his radar, would be a lot easier for short visits.

The principle of 'high foreign value' applies and that's why some of the best countries to 'wife hunt' are in LA, SEA and EE, you just need to be aware of the red flags. 262 is living proof that it's best to target countries where your look is opposite to the average local guy and Travesty is on point on that as well.

Be careful which countries you target as a traveller. If I didn't live in Thailand, I probably would have never met my wife or a girl similar to her and even then it took a couple of years before I started to understand how things work, which in turn gave me the opportunity to have a social circle and meet quality people.

To be honest, I think I got lucky with my wife and would not really recommend Thailand as a prime country to 'wife hunt'.


Edit: In the context of this thread 'high quality marriage material girls', I would rate the Phils much lower than other countries in Asia, even SEA.

Post: #463

I'm not sure if there are Filiipinas over 5'5? If so they might be more freakish than desirable.

Post: #464

(07-26-2016 10:38 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  I'm not sure if there are Filiipinas over 5'5? If so they might be more freakish than desirable.

They're out there, and they're good. It's not like a pinay girl becomes deformed when she is taller. They're human girls . In the West, height is also correlated with greater facial attractiveness and that probably holds true in Asia, as well, to a degree. 5'5" isn't actually that tall. It's just a minimum. They're like any other normal girl with a little more height than average for the country. Try that and taller still. See what the filter kicks out. It's just a tip. No need to try, though, if you think it might reveal some freaks. I'm happy for you to leave them for Asia-sidelined guys like me to occassionally window shop Granted, there are less of them. But that's to be expected when deviating from the median on any Bell Curve.

Post: #465

It's a good idea and I think you are right that you will find some hotties but maybe also some freaks. I'm tall and like small myself

Post: #466

(07-26-2016 10:38 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  I'm not sure if there are Filiipinas over 5'5? If so they might be more freakish than desirable.

There are Filipinas over 5'5" and not freakish looking. Most beauty pageant participants are in this range of height. From my observation it seems the girls on Luzon, particularly around Metro Manila are generally taller than other places in the country.

Post: #467

In my opinion, girls in Cebu are way hotter than on Luzon.

Post: #468

(07-23-2016 05:38 PM)Saga Wrote:  If you've stayed long enough in the Caucasus to know, what is the level of social integration (building a circle of local friends and acquaintances, being accepted) that a foreigner can expect to achieve (especially after becoming intermediate in the local language and establishing LTR with a local woman)? Are Georgia and Armenia more or less accepting in this regard than most of eastern Europe?

I ask because even in western Europe, especially Germanic and Scandinavian countries, I've noticed that it seems quite difficult for foreign men to find their way fully into a local social circle. Of course, knowing the language helps a lot, as does marrying a local woman, but even then, the status of being Auslander can still linger and have its effects. At least from a distance, it doesn't appear that eastern European societies are all that different. I'd be very interested from anyone who's spent time in eastern Europe, the Balkans and/or the Caucasus, as to how this dynamic plays out in those regions. Of course expatriation to a new culture is never easy or simple, and no one should expect to be greeted with a parade, but it's important to think about the long-term prospects of assimilating into a culture and society.

It's funny you mention that. I cannot answer questions above regarding those areas...but I will say..

In Brazil, it was much better for me to say that I'm from Asia opposed to the US.

There will be many nice receptive people wanting to practice their English with you & you might be included in many circles...but it was still safer to say "from (insert Asian country)."

If people called me out on my mannerisms and way I spoke English, I just mentioned having relatives in US/Canada and doing some schooling there as well.

Again why do you ask? It's rare..but there were times when people would try to cockblock if saying "from US" even though I spoke fluent Portuguese. There is also the situation of "why is this guy here if he's from the US..he won't be able to relate to us" etc etc. There would also be a bit of snarky attitude from local women due to their insecurity of people from perceived "richer western cultures."

My Portuguese teacher was born in the US, but her family moved to Riofrom age 7-18 so she completed quite a bit of schooling there until college where she finished that back state side. When trying to move back to Brazil, she was treated very well in Rio as a tall blonde speaking Portuguese with rich local men wanting to court her. However, she was perceived as just being a "rich American" so didn't get included into many social circles despite completing high school in Brazil aware of the social language, culture, etc etc.

I lost quite a few women telling chicks I was from the US in Curitiba. However, there's quite a bit of respect for Asian people there despite the reputation of being cold to strangers so I always got invited out to events, etc etc. If I ran into girls upon 2nd/3rd meetings, I'd tell them "oh yeah from Asia originally but just did some schooling in the US. Now I live here in Brazil & am accustomed to seeing many things & changes" Upon hearing that, gals became a lot more comfortable with me.

I've heard great things about Western & American men living in São Paulo while banging hot chicks & entering great circles. Same can be said for Belo Horizonte/Porto Alegre which are much friendlier places than Sampa. In Curitiba however, it was best to say "from Asia" for me at least because I didn't want to be perceived as another westerner looking for just quick thrills. Many people wanted to know which type of Asian I was too so I just flat out gave them the answer they wanted being my ethnicity opposed to true nationality.

One of my Black American friends did quite well in Curitiba however. His angle was doing corporate English-Portuguese translations, but also played the whole "lived in different parts of the world" strategy as well...(which wasn't a lie).

I'd say its about building a different type of comfort with women in Brazil because they do not want to be perceived "as easy" to foreign men. In my situation, it was much more favorable being viewed as a non-threatening guy from Asia regarding the infiltration of social circles.

Post: #469

So I grazed Vietnam Cupid 6 months back or so, and grazed it quickly over a year ago.

There aren't many chicks on there that have been active within the last week even in HCMC. Barely any 7+, no 8s. However I just logged in tonight for the first time and had one of the hottest chicks (mid 7) respond to my message and asked me to hang out with her when I visited.

Now that would never happen in the U.S. for me and not in Colombia either. Colombia some girls would be very warm, not ask me to hang out right away in the second message and ask me a follow up question.

Tinder has some hot chicks. Not nearly the proportion as Colombia or Mexico. Enough though especially with what I have going for me there.

The weird thing about cruising Tinder for Asia and SEA especially is you are browsing and some white chick traveling or doing a stint there and immediately boner alert. Then I fast forward to what all that travel, drinking, and sun does to them by a mere 26 years old. I see a picture of her with her mom. Dead boner. Fools me though.

Then I see a beautiful, not slutty hot, Vietnamese girl being shy with no guy friends behind them shirtless wasted making some retard face at a music festival.

Everything is better.

Post: #470

An anecdote in line with what Brosemite said:

Yesterday at a gym here in Gdansk, a friendly Polish guy tried to guess my ethnicity (it's hard, many have failed). When I finally told him, he was happy to hear that I wasn't American, even though I technically am. It seems he didn't like the meddling and war-mongering that the US does well outside its borders.

So another point for being Asian instead of American when outside the US, it seems.

Post: #471

Vietnam Cupid unsolicited message:

Quote:Omg! U've got such an amazing profile even I dont know it's true or not !
Are you a famous writer???

LOL

Never gotten a message like that either. I am convinced white Anglo chicks and Latinas can barely read in comparison.

If it is a true compliment thank to for upping my writing, haven't written a dating profile in a long time:

Gmanifesto
LOZ
Trump
Gio
AnonymousBosch

Post: #472

Sad part is I am swiping no on about 95% of girls any Vietnamese city I looked at. Vietnam Cupid is just as bad if not worse.

I hope things are little better on the ground.

I made a bad decision and switched to Bogota for old memories. Shouldn't have done that, now I want to be a salsa king and playboy for life.

Post: #473

(07-28-2016 03:20 AM)262 Wrote:  So another point for being Asian instead of American when outside the US, it seems.

Even if they are receptive towards an Asian guy being "American" abroad, you'll still get to move a lot faster into the personal spaces of others saying "from Asia." They will assume you're there for an objective reason long-term. It all depends on how well spoken & confident you are however.

By also saying you're from a native English speaking country, you might get put into that pen pal English practice partner zone via Whatsapp/Facebook...

Post: #474

Hanoi Day 1 first impressions:

Vietnamese people are intelligent and classy. Downtown has zero traffic lights and X intersections yet everything flows smoothly.

They seem much smarter and more charming than Thais.

No fatties. Large range of girls in the 7 range handfuls of 8s.

Hanoi beats the ever living shit out of Hong Kong and Thailand for girls looks. So many girls here have delicate porcelain doll faces with proportionally pleasing curves on slight frames.

Food is awesome and cheap. People don't haggle even a small fraction as I was in Thailand 2008.

Would have thought more strong eye fucking like in Colombia. More girls are just a little curious or not at all. A few warmer than normal interactions at a rate higher than U.S..

Beautiful green trees and lushness helps make the urban area so much more pleasing.

Like it so far better than expected.

Larger than expected amount of Western tourists including full families with adolescent daughters in tow out at night in sun dresses and short shorts place is completely safe I would sleep on the sidewalk.

I would say of the 20-40 yo tourists 75% male. Lots of couples also telling how safe.

Of the guys over half are 7s or 8s which I would surprising upper level looking guys are visiting Vietnam that seem like they could easily score well back home. Maybe they are just smart.

Post: #475

(07-31-2016 12:50 PM)Travesty Wrote:  Hanoi Day 1 first impressions:

Vietnamese people are intelligent and classy. Downtown has zero traffic lights and X intersections yet everything flows smoothly.

They seem much smarter and more charming than Thais.

No fatties. Large range of girls in the 7 range handfuls of 8s.

Hanoi beats the ever living shit out of Hong Kong and Thailand for girls looks. So many girls here have delicate porcelain doll faces with proportionally pleasing curves on slight frames.

Food is awesome and cheap. People don't haggle even a small fraction as I was in Thailand 2008.

Would have thought more strong eye fucking like in Colombia. More girls are just a little curious or not at all. A few warmer than normal interactions at a rate higher than U.S..

Beautiful green trees and lushness helps make the urban area so much more pleasing.

Like it so far better than expected.

Larger than expected amount of Western tourists including full families with adolescent daughters in tow out at night in sun dresses and short shorts place is completely safe I would sleep on the sidewalk.

I would say of the 20-40 yo tourists 75% male. Lots of couples also telling how safe.

Of the guys over half are 7s or 8s which I would surprising upper level looking guys are visiting Vietnam that seem like they could easily score well back home. Maybe they are just smart.

Keep the good reports as I returned from Saigon in June. Basically Vietnam is where Thailand was 20 years. It's cheap and girls are awesome. I noticed 90% of foreigners in HCMC were only a there for a few days and rarely went outside D1.

Vietnam has great potential.