I troll them and send something that just comes to my mind - just don't care. The moment I care, the more I become like every other guy. Does that work? 90% replies. Too bad a bit too often stalls and I have to carry the whole conversation. I never ask for a number. I move girls to facebook. It does an excellent job for me (transitioning from tinder - psychologically you are not any more a "tinder guy". I still yet to close. But excuse me for no results, I've been perusing tinder since last Friday evening...

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Answering your deleted question, yes you can.

(03-14-2016 02:02 PM)_Samo_ Wrote:  

(03-14-2016 01:52 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Yo fuck this "conversation" shit, I just wanna fuck so why not get straight to the point?

http://www.funnyjunk.com/Tinder+alpha/fu...s/5706191/

Im gonna try this, I mean whats to lose? A Tinder match? Lmao

If you're a male model/have amazing pics you can text whatever you want, so it could well work fine. If not then most girls will find it 'creepy'.

Ok, I'm just gonna try this now. Girls range between 6-7.

Has this been mentioned?

http://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behav...mash-a-lot

Quote:I am a student in sexology and we did a research in sexual behavior on Tinder.
...
girls who use tinder about their sexual experiences. They were easy to find since it seems to be extremely popular with people from ages 18 to 35! Here are some results that surprised me.
...
- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.

- When we asked for numbers to the people that did have sex: Girls did it on average less than the few guys that did. That means that a couple guys score with almost al the women.
...
- These men do however show a lot of similarities: Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!) a little beerbelly? The girls described the men's attractive personal traids as "they know what they want and don't hold back to take it."

- The opening lines that worked, were often extremely flat but to the point. One that seemed to work was just "wanna smash".

"Wanna smash"

Using that.

The way I see it is like this, lets say I have 50 matches, I could probably talk to 20 of those and have a boring convo and possibly get the lay, the rest will either not respond or I wont get the lay.

Why go through all this shit for some bitch I either will or wont smash? Why not cut the bullshit and get to the point, in fact my issue is having text convos, I can certainly have more to go on based on her response to something like "wanna smash" than having a drawn out convo about bullshit.

(03-14-2016 10:06 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  "Wanna smash"

Using that.

I wouldn't use that. I had a shit load of matches and decided to only say "DTF?" to 85% of them. From those, over half never responded, 30% said they're looking for bf's, 15% told me to fuck off basically, and less than 5% responded favorably.


Experimenting with openers and trying to escalate quickly I've layed out this plan, it's extremely easy. This opening message is golden, you'll get a very high response rate.

Opening message: Better invention? Netflix or Starbucks?
Them: Nexflix
Me: Last thing you watched?
Them: Blah blah blah... You?
Me: Blah blah, it was decent.. So, what do you do for fun in this town?
Them: Drink, hang with friends, blah blah blah
Me: So you're an outdoors kinda girl? You're a party girl aren't you? Etc...
Them: Haha sometimes...
Me: What are you looking for on here?
Them: Friends, and see where it goes.. You?
Me: Friends/Casual dating.. I'm not expecting to find true love on tinder lol
Them: Blah blah
Me: Lets grab a drink this week
Them: Ok
Me: What part of town do you live in?
Them: Compton, Red light district, No-go zone, Etc
Me: what's your number?
Them: 555-555-6969
Me: I'll shoot you a text now

3-5 min later

Me: Hola
Them: Hey
Me: Amanda/Jessica/Rachel right?
Them: yes. Captain?
-----------------------------------------------------

If they say Starbucks, just go with the same flow and formula. Tinder is incredibly easy if you have good pics, send a unique opener that girls instinctively have to answer, and run standard game like above.

Do that, only swipe right on girls that are 6+, un-match them if they try and give you shit about meeting up so soon or giving out their number, these girls are just attention seekers and you shouldn't waste your time. If you do these things, it's easy to get 5+ dates a week if you have the time. I can't even imagine what it's like in the Philippines.

Guy has no success with online dating and decides to try it out as a woman instead.
Surprise surprise he is way more popular. Kinda funny especially the openers he receives.

I think I'm officially in Tinder hell. i had a number of matches last week but since I've now only been targeting much younger women or those well into their 40's my matches have completely dried up. From what I've read Tinder uses an ELO type of score and I think I've pretty much torpedoed my score by shooting outside of my "age appropriate" range. And I'm even a premium member. Will not be renewing that feature when it expires in a week.

(03-14-2016 01:52 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Yo fuck this "conversation" shit, I just wanna fuck so why not get straight to the point?

http://www.funnyjunk.com/Tinder+alpha/fu...s/5706191/

Im gonna try this, I mean whats to lose? A Tinder match? Lmao

Testing, 1, 2, testing....

Stand by, I have about twenty matches I haven't messaged yet and either don't really find that attractive now I'm sober or that have mysteriously moved fifty miles away since we matched.

(03-15-2016 01:10 AM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(03-14-2016 10:06 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  "Wanna smash"

Using that.

I wouldn't use that. I had a shit load of matches and decided to only say "DTF?" to 85% of them. From those, over half never responded, 30% said they're looking for bf's, 15% told me to fuck off basically, and less than 5% responded favorably.


Experimenting with openers and trying to escalate quickly I've layed out this plan, it's extremely easy. This opening message is golden, you'll get a very high response rate.

Opening message: Better invention? Netflix or Starbucks?
Them: Nexflix
Me: Last thing you watched?
Them: Blah blah blah... You?
Me: Blah blah, it was decent.. So, what do you do for fun in this town?
Them: Drink, hang with friends, blah blah blah
Me: So you're an outdoors kinda girl? You're a party girl aren't you? Etc...
Them: Haha sometimes...
Me: What are you looking for on here?
Them: Friends, and see where it goes.. You?
Me: Friends/Casual dating.. I'm not expecting to find true love on tinder lol
Them: Blah blah
Me: Lets grab a drink this week
Them: Ok
Me: What part of town do you live in?
Them: Compton, Red light district, No-go zone, Etc
Me: what's your number?
Them: 555-555-6969
Me: I'll shoot you a text now

3-5 min later

Me: Hola
Them: Hey
Me: Amanda/Jessica/Rachel right?
Them: yes. Captain?
-----------------------------------------------------

If they say Starbucks, just go with the same flow and formula. Tinder is incredibly easy if you have good pics, send a unique opener that girls instinctively have to answer, and run standard game like above.

Do that, only swipe right on girls that are 6+, un-match them if they try and give you shit about meeting up so soon or giving out their number, these girls are just attention seekers and you shouldn't waste your time. If you do these things, it's easy to get 5+ dates a week if you have the time. I can't even imagine what it's like in the Philippines.

Damn dude! Thanks a bunch, I can seduce girls easily in person but in text you would think I have 0 social skills, that opening line works like a charm and I can take the rest from there, conversations are flowing nicely now. Its going exactly as you say too, as long as I can get the number and date im home free.

I was thinking too much about what to say as well.

(03-15-2016 11:23 AM)roberto Wrote:  

(03-14-2016 01:52 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Yo fuck this "conversation" shit, I just wanna fuck so why not get straight to the point?

http://www.funnyjunk.com/Tinder+alpha/fu...s/5706191/

Im gonna try this, I mean whats to lose? A Tinder match? Lmao

Testing, 1, 2, testing....

Stand by, I have about twenty matches I haven't messaged yet and either don't really find that attractive now I'm sober or that have mysteriously moved fifty miles away since we matched.

Whats up with that? I got a few matches that said 10 miles away now all of a sudden they are 90, fuck that.

Despite always feeling Tinder and the like are weak, and inefficient for quality, on the advice of a few seemingly clueless guys doing alright from it, i decided to finally give it a go. Got up to my first daily limit in about 30 mins of dedicated swiping. Two hours in only 3 matchs. Is that normal for a hit rate? Do matchs normal occur swiftly, or down the line?

My pics are ok, on looks i guess i'm around a 7, late 30s. I dunno, it's free so willing to give it a shot, but definitely feel this isn't my territory here.

A SIF just revealed itself to me by its own volition.

Me: 2 truths 1 lie about yourself
Her: 1. Blah 2. Blah 3. I'm a bit fatter than my pictures
Me: Define 'a bit'
Her:
Me: Well?
Her: *advanced evasion tactics initiated*
Her: Let's meet up?




Was tempted to reply "Bitch, what if I told you I'm missing an eye and a tooth and have chronic swamp ass. Still wanna meet?"

(03-15-2016 01:54 PM)serpico Wrote:  Despite always feeling Tinder and the like are weak, and inefficient for quality, on the advice of a few seemingly clueless guys doing alright from it, i decided to finally give it a go. Got up to my first daily limit in about 30 mins of dedicated swiping. Two hours in only 3 matchs. Is that normal for a hit rate? Do matchs normal occur swiftly, or down the line?

My pics are ok, on looks i guess i'm around a 7, late 30s. I dunno, it's free so willing to give it a shot, but definitely feel this isn't my territory here.

You should show higher on stacks since you're new. Have patience bro.

Check the age range of the girls you're swiping. I think the default is set between 18 - your own age (?). Try upping it to get more girls to swipe.

Spoof your own age. Can you go for a 27-31 year old?

I put 24 - 40 as my range. i'm 38, but can pass as around 33 pretty easily. Didn't know you could change that, assumed it was from the Facebook link. Just checked in and got another match, so 4 in one evening, i guess that's somewhat respectable. All of which are in their 30s mind you. Hmm. Well, it's free i guess. I'll persevere for a few weeks and see what comes my way. I

I've always felt my charm and presence were my best aspects in Game. Both of which are neutralised online, which is one reason it's never been my thing. I guess the best bet is just try to get them IRL as soon as humanly possible.

You'll have to change your age through Facebook. Just hide your age on Facebook, then spoof it. Shouldn't be too long before Tinder updates your age. Tinder - Fountain of youth!

Got a couple more now, so make that 5 for the evening. All look reasonable 7s, but i'm wary of going by pics. I always think shaving a point off how they appear in photos is probably an accurate estimation. Gonna give this at least month before judging...

Oh man, how a little modification can mean everything.

First it was the picture adjustment, now its the text adjustment, following the previous advice I have already gotten 5 numbers today for a meetup.

Goes to show we all need a few tips, Im terrible at texting but im sure I can help others when it comes to in person game.

(03-15-2016 03:25 PM)serpico Wrote:  I put 24 - 40 as my range. i'm 38, but can pass as around 33 pretty easily. Didn't know you could change that, assumed it was from the Facebook link. Just checked in and got another match, so 4 in one evening, i guess that's somewhat respectable. All of which are in their 30s mind you. Hmm. Well, it's free i guess. I'll persevere for a few weeks and see what comes my way. I

I've always felt my charm and presence were my best aspects in Game. Both of which are neutralised online, which is one reason it's never been my thing. I guess the best bet is just try to get them IRL as soon as humanly possible.

This is exactly the same problem I have on Tinder. No matter if I put a picture of me in a charming pose, my charisma is anulled

Whats with bitches asking for a picture for their "contact picture"?

How do I respond to this?

^ Use it to your advantage. Ask them for a full body selfie and say you'll send a pic after she does. This is a good SIF check.

Do you guys maintain any out of area girls? Like ones you might visit but you're far away from currently (residual matches from a prior trip)? Or just forget it. I don't know if they even see i'm hundreds of miles away or it's worth bringing up ...

How often do you guys text girls when you get the number?

Got two numbers last night and are down to hang out this week, got the number and text a little bit last night before telling them we'll talk tomorrow gotta be up early.

I havent texted them today and they have not either, I'll probably hit them up to set up a hook up but I just dont want to get into a drawn our text convo.

(03-16-2016 02:55 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  How often do you guys text girls when you get the number?

Got two numbers last night and are down to hang out this week, got the number and text a little bit last night before telling them we'll talk tomorrow gotta be up early.

I havent texted them today and they have not either, I'll probably hit them up to set up a hook up but I just dont want to get into a drawn our text convo.

I'll text them the next day, keep things a bit distant.

Build some rapport, set the time and logistics for the meet.

Give them a call a few hours before the date.

Meet, bang/or second date.

Then I keep things bit more distant aka she replies in 30 you reply in an hour etc.

Try to keep texts strictly for logistics, until the first date or bang.