So I spoofed my Tinder to Copenhagen since I'll be there this Easter weekend and it has been interesting. Not only have I been getting tons of matches with actually decent looking girls, a few of them have initiated the conversation (I'm Black American guy so I may have the novelty factor). But what caught my eye is what this girl wrote on her profile:

"I don't browse pornhub for Disney movies, I ain't on here to make friends either".

I will let you know how this goes...

A sample of a SIF face (normal) / body (huge) (although you can usually tell if theres a slight fatness in their face, although some girls have really thin faces and just fat everywhere else)

(03-22-2016 07:50 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  Is Tinder dead in Montreal?? Seems like all my matches are being retained.

It's dying. All the hot girls have migrated to Bumble where only they can message first so your pictures better be A+.

After two years on and off of tinder, the unimaginable finally happened.

A zero-date SNL.

7 in her pics, had a bathing suit shot. Entire convo:
Her: hello (3:30am)
Me: what's up (6pm)
Her: chicken. You (1:32am)
Me: roasted, fried, or soup
This was a couple days ago. Then last night around midnight.
Her: want to come over
Me: sure where
Her: (gives cross street location, not address)
Me: phone #
Her: (gives phone)
Where do you live

I then called her and went over and banged her after an hour or two of stupid LMR and bullshit.

(03-23-2016 04:49 AM)Fury Wrote:  So I spoofed my Tinder to Copenhagen since I'll be there this Easter weekend and it has been interesting. Not only have I been getting tons of matches with actually decent looking girls, a few of them have initiated the conversation (I'm Black American guy so I may have the novelty factor). But what caught my eye is what this girl wrote on her profile:

"I don't browse pornhub for Disney movies, I ain't on here to make friends either".

I will let you know how this goes...

The entirety of NE Europe will be a great place for as well

(03-22-2016 11:46 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  I still have NOT had any success off of Tinder..

Maybe it's because I am a 40 year old guy who uses shirtless pics and pretends to be 29???



My pics could be better. I need some pics of me dressed well and in some interesting places with interesting people.

My text openers could also be better. I'm pretty generic with my texting.

I've gotten a bunch of matches but most girls don't respond to my messages.

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At this point, I prefer day game to Tinder.

With day game, I can make a strong impression -- in real life. With day game, they can see me, touch me, feel my vibe and energy.

With day game, they can get a taste of personality, wit, and charm; So, when I text them, they already know who I am.

Day game is more personal and intimate.

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But, I really love the concept of Tinder and all these dating apps. I am a fan of them. I just have to practice more and find my online niche.

Gio, no offence but those boxing gloves make you look 'smaller' because they of their size. Perhaps it would be worth trying to use that picture but with those gloves cropped off (I assume you use the picture with your face on Tinder).

Apart from that your body is great for a guy 40 year 'old' guy, chapeau!


A line that's working for me (found it at somewhere here but can't find it now, so credits go to John Doe captain_shane) at the moment is picking 2 things most girls love and make them choose between those things. Example: "Christina, Netlix or Frozen yoghurt?" (Yes, I even use the questionmark)

Ok guys need a little help here, I followed the convo advice in this thread and was able to get a good amount of numbers, I still am finding myself sucked into convos about stupid shit.

I have to catch myself at times and realize that I am talking to much shit with this chick, more importantly whats the best way to test a chick if shes dtf?

A bunch of these chicks are looking for relationships and arent here for "hook ups"

Any recommendations for the profile description? I want to make it clear from the get go what I am here for.

(03-24-2016 12:25 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Ok guys need a little help here, I followed the convo advice in this thread and was able to get a good amount of numbers, I still am finding myself sucked into convos about stupid shit.

I have to catch myself at times and realize that I am talking to much shit with this chick, more importantly whats the best way to test a chick if shes dtf?

A bunch of these chicks are looking for relationships and arent here for "hook ups"

Any recommendations for the profile description? I want to make it clear from the get go what I am here for.

Just by being on the app shows what you are there for. And why are they on tinder if they're not looking for a hook up? They know the deal. You just need to learn how to play the game. It's your desire to be too obvious that's messing you up.

Yea I have been able to pull a good amount of numbers but the ones I really want never seen to get anywhere in the app.

Eh I'll keep trying different things, its really location and picture dependent.

(03-24-2016 09:10 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Yea I have been able to pull a good amount of numbers but the ones I really want never seen to get anywhere in the app.

Eh I'll keep trying different things, its really location and picture dependent.

Once you get the number go straight for the hang out. Set a date and time. Otherwise its just another lost contact. Within an hour of getting her number and set the meet up within first couple of texts.

Wow Tinder has been failing hard for me, literally no matches in NY or PA, where as in POF I am getting crazy hits, matches and numbers.

I deleted tinder and make a new one, still nothing, tough crowd lol

Speaking of POF, It got me thinking, there is a location search and you can see girls nearby, I wonder if you could hit up a girl on a sat at 12-1am and get a quick lay, hardly any travel needed.

I have a bunch of girls that are 0.3 miles away here in NY, unfortunately in PA everyone is at least 20 miles away.

You guys still seem to have this misconstrued ideology that all women on tinder are still for the hook up. Maybe that was the case a few years ago when it was the best kept secret. Now you will find an array of bitches looking for anything from threesomes to a guy to text her while she is bored. Think i'm kidding? Scroll back through the 200+ pages and see how in the beginning it was more about bangs and later it was about how she flaked or this date went this way.

I'm a firm believer that if she flaked, she was always going to flake, wether you send her one text to meet at a certain time or have been talking to her day and night for weeks. Smooth liners don't make a bitch say well i was never planning on meeting with him, but now i'm coming. The bitch was either coming or she wasn't. I've even sent rude ass comments to chicks and they still showed up vs sending well thought out messages only to get no response.

Text who you want, when you want at a reasonable frequency. If she goes silent or flakes, it probably wasn't your game that fucked it up, she was never in your hands to begin with.

-CD

I gave up on Tinder a few months back. Admittedly I got to it pretty late. I had to wade through attention-seekers, validation-whores, and girls on it just to kill time. The mainstream media perpetuates this myth that Tinder is like something out of Soddom and Gomorrah. I have way much more success on OkC and POF. I deleted the app for good about 6 months back.

50% of girls who match with me don't even respond to my message. Those stats alone told me I wasn't dealing with women who actually wanted to date - let alone wanted a no-strings hook-up. The girls I did meet were by and large damp squibs. Couple this with the fact your profile can be hidden if it is flagged because of an arbitrary algorithm, and it becomes officially a colossal waste of time.

I'm in the UK.

Tay would obliterate Tinder in under a few hours.

The source code is on GitHub so I'm sure dudes on 4chan have already uploaded her on Twitter again or on OkCupid and Tinder to troll.

Got a girls number, young hot, got the number, text here and there, asked her what she is doing next weekend, says she works.

What is a good response? I automaticlly think "next" but maybe she really does work lol

Never do first dates on weekends. What that tells her is you have nothing else going on on the weekend and will jump up and free up a Saturday for a girl you just met and that starts making her think bad things.

Propose an alternate Tuesday or Wednesday and if she can't do that put her number in the restart pile.

(03-28-2016 01:44 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Got a girls number, young hot, got the number, text here and there, asked her what she is doing next weekend, says she works.

What is a good response? I automaticlly think "next" but maybe she really does work lol

This should be in the text thread. It would also be helpful if you posted your whole conversation. First off, why are you asking her what she's doing next weekend? Most girls don't have any weekend plans and they clam up when asked that because they know they have no plans, but they want to be cool so they can't say that. Instead of that, just ask her out. Tell her there's a cool new mini-golf spot, ice cream shop, bar, art gallery, etc. near your place that you want to check out. Then ask what days work best for her or you can ask does x or y day work better. I wouldn't try to hang out with her on the weekend. When in doubt with online girls, send pictures and call them, you gotta differentiate yourself from all the other dudes spamming her with low quality boring banter.

Thanks guys, I mean you would think, she likes my picture enough to swipe a match and give me her number through the app so there is some kind of attraction.

(03-28-2016 01:44 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:  Got a girls number, young hot, got the number, text here and there, asked her what she is doing next weekend, says she works.

What is a good response? I automaticlly think "next" but maybe she really does work lol

Dude you need to be a hell of a lot more aggressive and decisive in setting up plans with these online girls. Once you get the number and have a couple of back and forth exchanges go with something like "I want to meet you for coffee/ice cream/drinks/etc. when are you free?" By doing this you'll strike when the pussy is hot and eliminate the 20 questions game of finding what day works.

I can't tell you how many times I've been on first dates and been complimented on the fact that I didn't fuck around, I asked them out and set a specific day and time. Women love a man who takes charge and (respectfully) tells them what's going to happen.

Unfortunatly I had already replied saying "ok", is there anyway I can re initiate, seems like I screwed up already on this one.

Got my first number off Tinder, a 6 perhaps. I'm so 'proud' of myself, will quote verbatim:

Matched in the evening, fired of first msg soon after, got a number this morning.

Me: I guess that can be
Her: can be what
Me: be a good girl to meet. or do you see yourself as a bad girl?
Her: I can be both when I need to be.. which would you prefer?
Me: I like a bit of both
Her: are you always as stern as your picture?
Me: meet me and you'll find out
Her: sounds ominous. who are you ksbms
Me: someone you'll like. your #?
Her. #... use it wisely

What would respected and experienced members conclude from this conversation?

Ksbms she sounds intrigued. Push for a meet up.

For members that have used tinder for months at a time, what do you guys do when you're matches dry out after a while.

@ksbms: Looks like a seasoned tinderella, thread carefully and aim for the first date bang.