(11-22-2015 11:08 PM)studmuffin52 Wrote:  Pretty sure the interaction is dead. Mistake putting ball in her court to make a time. Certain she’ll forget and nothing will happen. This just teaches me that roosh is right, always go for the lay, no matter what, instead of the girl’s number. Night was completely wasted. Actually turned down an SNL for this 9.5.

She was interested enough to screen you via Facebook. You should have teased her more about being an obsessed stalker.

The work hours thing: you need to stick to your guns when you set a time. Don't be accommodating to her schedule: "Blow off work, it'll be worth it." Make her feel like she's being deceptive and naughty and getting away with something. Work the idea that she's sticking to it to her company. "C'mon, you deserve some time off."

Girls love being encouraged to misbehave by a man. "C'mon, put that wicked smile of yours to use."

Wow, that's really good. I like that playful vibe. Ill do that after i send her a restart text.

(11-11-2015 11:04 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(11-10-2015 10:20 PM)etuvus_spaxus Wrote:  Ok. I've got a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader texting me. I went straight for plans. Tells me she's only available for lunch tomorrow. I'm going for silence.

Because you would ignore a girl who is a cheerleader for the Cowboys .

Actually, Brooklyn Decker just called me for an emergency titty fuck.

You know what?

I'll just ignore it, lay in bed, and beat my dick like it owes me money.

2012 Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader. Married. She has a non-cheerleader job where our paths cross. Texts me randomly at all hours. Playing it cool seems to keep her in play. She can only do lunch because it's only when she can get a date in under her man's radar. Interest never seems to wane. So yeah. I can afford to leave her on hold

Texting a girl I've banged once. Not a huge issue, more one of enthusiasm on her part. Were going to meet up on Tuesday and she said she'll text to confirm on the day (I didn't reply to that text, and she never text). I text a few hours ago

Me: Another night this week?
Her: I guess so. I'm only free tomorrow and Friday tho.

My problem is "I guess so". What can I reply back to try and regain some desire on her part? Is it worth worrying about? Everything seemed to flow nicely when we were together last.

(11-25-2015 02:53 AM)Wince Wrote:  Texting a girl I've banged once. Not a huge issue, more one of enthusiasm on her part. Were going to meet up on Tuesday and she said she'll text to confirm on the day (I didn't reply to that text, and she never text). I text a few hours ago

Me: Another night this week?
Her: I guess so. I'm only free tomorrow and Friday tho.

My problem is "I guess so". What can I reply back to try and regain some desire on her part? Is it worth worrying about? Everything seemed to flow nicely when we were together last.

Should've replied to that initial text with some teasing, saying "or else"

She's offering you Weds and Friday, confirm tomorrow if you're free and strike while the iron is hot.

It's nothing to worry about, you already fucked her anyways. Don't get stuck on her.

(11-25-2015 03:05 AM)kaotic Wrote:  Should've replied to that initial text with some teasing, saying "or else"

She's offering you Weds and Friday, confirm tomorrow if you're free and strike while the iron is hot.

It's nothing to worry about, you already fucked her anyways. Don't get stuck on her.

Thank you very much. Took your advice to strike while the iron is hot. She left my foundation on my white shirt last time we met so i replied with:

Me: Tomorrow. I'll wear black so you can't stain it, unless you dress as a clown...
Her: I just won't bother with make up then haha
Me: One less thing to take off

No response from her (shouldn't have sent that last one I think). No problem, I'll text tomorrow with a time and place if she doesn't reply.

^That last line was probably over doing it, haha. She knows the deal but maybe her asd hit. Then again the date is set so... hopefully she keeps her word.

Wrighter is right, ASD can kick in, don't oversexualize it, especially if she isn't, makes you look thirsty.

Remember, it's don't scare the cat and don't fuck up game.

Dates are never set in stone unless she's face to face with you.

Do you guys have a set routine for after first date texts? I didnt F close her but could tell she was just putting on a firm ASD when we were getting cabs..she definitely wanted to.

She hasnt texted me today and I havent either - what do you guys normally do? we talked about getting together again, etc. Assume it went about as well as it could have minus bang.

If I don't bang her, I sure as hell makeout with her passionately, say goodbye with one last kiss, then tell her to text me when she gets home. It hasn't really failed me yet.

They said "blah blah thanks for tonight" and you don't respond.

Gives you an excuse to text her back later that afternoon and carry one the conversation.

I wouldn't text her back today, send her some funny ass thanksgiving meme/picture/joke tommorow and see how her holiday is going or talk about black friday shopping.

(11-25-2015 01:08 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If I don't bang her, I sure as hell makeout with her passionately, say goodbye with one last kiss, then tell her to text me when she gets home. It hasn't really failed me yet.

They said "blah blah thanks for tonight" and you don't respond.

Gives you an excuse to text her back later that afternoon and carry one the conversation.

I wouldn't text her back today, send her some funny ass thanksgiving meme/picture/joke tommorow and see how her holiday is going or talk about black friday shopping.

Thanks. Yeah - we made out pretty intensely in the bar where we got drinks and outside before getting cabs. She said something like "you're really trying to get me to come home with you arent you" (even though she was def the one all over me). Played that off though on her.

Personally I'm not for one for making out with a girl before getting her home. You revealed your cards early and before the cab.

She knew your immediate intentions from the get go, and the ASD went up.

Even if she's trying to makeout with you and touch you, don't reciprocate back, keep her guessing. She'll want to figure out why you aren't doing what most guys do.

I wouldn't reveal my intentions until the cab had arrived and madeout with her then, then abruptly cut it off, letting her want more, and leave.

That's a good call - always learning on here. I just went with it since she was pressing hard (and i wanted to).

(11-25-2015 04:26 AM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  ^That last line was probably over doing it, haha. She knows the deal but maybe her asd hit. Then again the date is set so... hopefully she keeps her word.

Whats ASD?

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(11-27-2015 02:53 PM)YoungArt Wrote:  

(11-25-2015 04:26 AM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  ^That last line was probably over doing it, haha. She knows the deal but maybe her asd hit. Then again the date is set so... hopefully she keeps her word.

Whats ASD?

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Anti Slut Defense

God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

(11-30-2015 02:19 PM)keegs Wrote:  God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

Chill out for a second, take a breath. Reset the frame.

Hit her up tomorrow and lock in Thursday. Be specific of the time and place as well. Follow up with her on weds to confirm plans, then a few hours before the date. Always plan a back up date with another girl or 2 just in case.

(11-30-2015 03:00 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 02:19 PM)keegs Wrote:  God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

Chill out for a second, take a breath. Reset the frame.

Hit her up tomorrow and lock in Thursday. Be specific of the time and place as well. Follow up with her on weds to confirm plans, then a few hours before the date. Always plan a back up date with another girl or 2 just in case.

Thanks. I have a backup girl but would rather see this one. On Tuesday she said she's probably free for tonight; yesterday afternoon I said "alright lets do 8 at X", still havent gotten reply.

Is silence golden here or should i ask if she's still good?

(12-03-2015 04:23 PM)keegs Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 03:00 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 02:19 PM)keegs Wrote:  God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

Chill out for a second, take a breath. Reset the frame.

Hit her up tomorrow and lock in Thursday. Be specific of the time and place as well. Follow up with her on weds to confirm plans, then a few hours before the date. Always plan a back up date with another girl or 2 just in case.

Thanks. I have a backup girl but would rather see this one. On Tuesday she said she's probably free for tonight; yesterday afternoon I said "alright lets do 8 at X", still havent gotten reply.

Is silence golden here or should i ask if she's still good?

My gut tells me that if she was interested, she'd of responded already.

Part of me thinks a bitch needs to be reminded of things - so maybe a few hours before hit her up.

Either way you'll know her intentions by the time of the date.

(12-03-2015 04:29 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(12-03-2015 04:23 PM)keegs Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 03:00 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 02:19 PM)keegs Wrote:  God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

Chill out for a second, take a breath. Reset the frame.

Hit her up tomorrow and lock in Thursday. Be specific of the time and place as well. Follow up with her on weds to confirm plans, then a few hours before the date. Always plan a back up date with another girl or 2 just in case.

Thanks. I have a backup girl but would rather see this one. On Tuesday she said she's probably free for tonight; yesterday afternoon I said "alright lets do 8 at X", still havent gotten reply.

Is silence golden here or should i ask if she's still good?

My gut tells me that if she was interested, she'd of responded already.

Part of me thinks a bitch needs to be reminded of things - so maybe a few hours before hit her up.

Either way you'll know her intentions by the time of the date.

My thoughts too, although she is a lawyer and works a shit-ton, so a small part of me is giving her some slack but will be cutting soon.

(12-03-2015 04:23 PM)keegs Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 03:00 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-30-2015 02:19 PM)keegs Wrote:  God I hate the logistics of setting up a meet.

Been going back and forth with girl to set day this week. We tentatively both said tonight works but she texts me late last night saying something came up at work and won't be able to tonight, and that itll have to be later in the week. I basically say ok no worries, and say that that works because a deadline just came up for me at work (true), but that as of now Thurs works.

She just now replied "Ok let me know!" -- would you guys reply now and lock down thursday, or wait it out a little? Is she playing games? Ball seems to be in my court right now.

Chill out for a second, take a breath. Reset the frame.

Hit her up tomorrow and lock in Thursday. Be specific of the time and place as well. Follow up with her on weds to confirm plans, then a few hours before the date. Always plan a back up date with another girl or 2 just in case.

Thanks. I have a backup girl but would rather see this one. On Tuesday she said she's probably free for tonight; yesterday afternoon I said "alright lets do 8 at X", still havent gotten reply.

Is silence golden here or should i ask if she's still good?

Silence is usually golden, you can however send her a "?" to follow up but no more. This girl has already flaked on you and and she'll most likely do so again. I'm not sure where you found her but for online I have a one flake and she's out rule.

You need to double or triple book. The more experience you have in this the more it will come naturally. The great thing about game is that the more you invest in it the better you will become. I used to a shy skinny guy who wouldn't get laid for a whole year, I've got to the point that I've fucked three girls in one day, banged half my project team in postgraduate class, but I still have much to learn as everyone else which is why we're all here.

(12-03-2015 04:39 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  You need to double or triple book. The more experience you have in this the more it will come naturally. The great thing about game is that the more you invest in it the better you will become. I used to a shy skinny guy who wouldn't get laid for a whole year, I've got to the point that I've fucked three girls in one day, banged half my project team in postgraduate class, but I still have much to learn as everyone else which is why we're all here.

That's the key, always overbook. Always keep farming numbers.

(12-03-2015 04:45 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(12-03-2015 04:39 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  You need to double or triple book. The more experience you have in this the more it will come naturally. The great thing about game is that the more you invest in it the better you will become. I used to a shy skinny guy who wouldn't get laid for a whole year, I've got to the point that I've fucked three girls in one day, banged half my project team in postgraduate class, but I still have much to learn as everyone else which is why we're all here.

That's the key, always overbook. Always keep farming numbers.

Yep. I sent her a ? last night and she replies this morning "Would you believe I worked until 2am last night and midnight the night before?"

Tbh, I do believe her, I know she works a lot. Doesn't give her an excuse to not shoot me a text saying she can't make it, but whatever. Haven't decided if I'm going to next her yet. As of now just silence. Might text an "oh" and leave it at that.

Nah don't bother, her working 2am meant going on a date leaving at before closing time to get banged out.

(12-04-2015 01:07 PM)keegs Wrote:  

(12-03-2015 04:45 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(12-03-2015 04:39 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  You need to double or triple book. The more experience you have in this the more it will come naturally. The great thing about game is that the more you invest in it the better you will become. I used to a shy skinny guy who wouldn't get laid for a whole year, I've got to the point that I've fucked three girls in one day, banged half my project team in postgraduate class, but I still have much to learn as everyone else which is why we're all here.

That's the key, always overbook. Always keep farming numbers.

Yep. I sent her a ? last night and she replies this morning "Would you believe I worked until 2am last night and midnight the night before?"

Tbh, I do believe her, I know she works a lot. Doesn't give her an excuse to not shoot me a text saying she can't make it, but whatever. Haven't decided if I'm going to next her yet. As of now just silence. Might text an "oh" and leave it at that.

Next. She's full of shit.

maybe hit her up in a few weeks or just wait for her to get in touch with you. If she doesn't, there's your answer.