Context: Had a date a couple of weeks ago before I went out of town, took her home to my apartment at the end, but she got a phone call and had to run. Slightly suspicious, but didn't she didn't text anyone to call her right before. We had good chemistry; no awkwardness. She texted she was sorry and she had a great time afterwards. Anyway, text again when I got back in town, she was responsive to my bullshit, ask to meet up and I get: "Appreciate the offer but I don't think we should hang out."

Most likely she has a pseudo-boyfriend or something like that and just isn't down to have sex with a a new guy (I think I made my intentions clear, I didn't have a chance to escalate hard on the date though since I do that at home only).

Ideas?

(11-06-2015 10:37 PM)Norset Wrote:  Context: Had a date a couple of weeks ago before I went out of town, took her home to my apartment at the end, but she got a phone call and had to run. Slightly suspicious, but didn't she didn't text anyone to call her right before. We had good chemistry; no awkwardness. She texted she was sorry and she had a great time afterwards. Anyway, text again when I got back in town, she was responsive to my bullshit, ask to meet up and I get: "Appreciate the offer but I don't think we should hang out."

Most likely she has a pseudo-boyfriend or something like that and just isn't down to have sex with a a new guy (I think I made my intentions clear, I didn't have a chance to escalate hard on the date though since I do that at home only).

Ideas?

Next!

I met a girl in the elevator in my new building - I could tell she was super in to me. We haven't texted much beyond 'hi - nice I meet you.' I woke up this morning to a missed call from her at 3am. There was no 4 minute static voicemail, so it was definitely not an accident. I would imagine she's very embarrassed about it.

How would you playfully acknowledge her drunk dial without making her feel so embarrassed/slutty that she goes cold?

(11-06-2015 10:37 PM)Norset Wrote:  Context: Had a date a couple of weeks ago before I went out of town, took her home to my apartment at the end, but she got a phone call and had to run. Slightly suspicious, but didn't she didn't text anyone to call her right before. We had good chemistry; no awkwardness. She texted she was sorry and she had a great time afterwards. Anyway, text again when I got back in town, she was responsive to my bullshit, ask to meet up and I get: "Appreciate the offer but I don't think we should hang out."

Most likely she has a pseudo-boyfriend or something like that and just isn't down to have sex with a a new guy (I think I made my intentions clear, I didn't have a chance to escalate hard on the date though since I do that at home only).

Ideas?

This one is pretty cut and dry to me man.

Eddie Winslow:

You need to make it a cheeky joke about her phone calling yours, don't make it serious, it should just allude to her calling you.

Occasionally I drop pearls on here of some of my best text messages. I do so humbly, since I have had some atrocious exchanges with chics, and I'm sure in the future, when I don't have one or two plates spinning, I'll do so again. Regardless...

This is a chic I've hung out quite a bit, we banged a couple times, and have hung out a few times since. Let's just say I'm glad I have a main girl or I'd be blue ballin.

A great example of what happens when a girl gives you a little drama, even a little, and you just simply don't respond. Also how you can sound beta on a text, but if you knew the context (my personality, how well I know her), it wouldn'

First text was a Sunday...I was out with friends watching football, so I wasn't even set on wanting to hang out. Don't let the wording of the first line fool ya...she knows a statement that pussified is me layered with sarcasm and pandering. I'd never say that to a chic I didn't know.

Sunday...then Wednesday. "My last text cut off...I'm busy this evening...lemme know when you wanna hang out."
       

No texts back and forth another week until the following Friday (9 days for those of you in Rio Linda) until I asked her to hang out. She had plans...so she bailed on her friend to hang out.

Ok. I've got a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader texting me. I went straight for plans. Tells me she's only available for lunch tomorrow. I'm going for silence.

(11-10-2015 10:20 PM)etuvus_spaxus Wrote:  Ok. I've got a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader texting me. I went straight for plans. Tells me she's only available for lunch tomorrow. I'm going for silence.

1/10

(11-10-2015 10:20 PM)etuvus_spaxus Wrote:  Ok. I've got a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader texting me. I went straight for plans. Tells me she's only available for lunch tomorrow. I'm going for silence.

Because you would ignore a girl who is a cheerleader for the Cowboys .

Actually, Brooklyn Decker just called me for an emergency titty fuck.

You know what?

I'll just ignore it, lay in bed, and beat my dick like it owes me money.

First date tonight with online girl. She just texts. ..

Hey so I had a late call tonight and have to reschedule everything.

I'm debating whether to ignore it or respond with something.

(11-13-2015 03:24 PM)robreke Wrote:  First date tonight with online girl. She just texts. ..

Hey so I had a late call tonight and have to reschedule everything.

I'm debating whether to ignore it or respond with something.

I know that feel bro.

I would either not reply at all, or just send 'k'

She just did you a favor by having you not waste your evening with a cuntish bitch. May be worth reconsidering only if she specifically countered with "tomorrow night" or such instead. Otherwise, whenever I rescheduled, the girl turned out to be a cunt. My advice - Next!

Up to this point I had said the friends she was with in her snapchat story were fine, I said something like filipinas are easy (she is filipina)

Her: You're asking if my friends are easy?

Her: No lol

Me: Sure

Her: I dont have ratchet friends

Me: So you're the only ratchet one in the group?

her: ratchet only when acceptable

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This is kind of an invite for things to get sexual but i need to think of a good tease to segue into it. Help me out bros!

(11-13-2015 03:24 PM)robreke Wrote:  First date tonight with online girl. She just texts. ..

Hey so I had a late call tonight and have to reschedule everything.

I'm debating whether to ignore it or respond with something.

I'd go with "i see" and then nothing. Or nothing.

"k", "ok", "cool", etc. sort of imply that her flakey behavior is okay. It's not. What you're really trying to say, without actually saying it, is "fuck you."

If you're looking for a response from her, "pfffft" almost always works.

In the end it doesn't matter. If she's interested she'll make the time, if she's not she won't.

I'm usually too lazy to bother and unlock my phone and type out a response. Not as a matter of game, but because I truly give zero fucks.

Met a 9 whilst clubbing last night. Definitely my type. She was giving off quite a few IOIs like asking me "do you have a gf?", "where do you live?", saying "you look good", pulled me to dance next to her when another guy was shoulder bumping her and clarified my full name 5 times through out the evening (probably so she wouldn't forget). Told her we should meet for coffee next week and she was pretty excited. We swapped numbers.

This morning she sends first text...

Her: ":)"
Me: "You still owe me missy" (she lost a bet and owed me a drink)
Her: "Haha I havent forgotten. That game sucks!!"
Me: "Only a loser would say that"
Her: ":( "
Her: "did you enjoy the rest of the night??"
Me: "Yer. It was pretty empty after 3:15, so we left too. Did you guys get home safe?"
Her: "yeah we did "

Last text was a few hours ago. Anyway I can continue the convo? I want to remain at the fore front of her mind.

Want to meet her for dinner or something but feels too early right now (just met last night). Thinking tomorrow I might go "I'll be in the city on Wednesday, let's catch up for dinner".

Wondering what i should do next ?

^^ studmuffin
that response seems alright

(11-15-2015 03:26 AM)studmuffin52 Wrote:  Met a 9 whilst clubbing last night. Definitely my type. She was giving off quite a few IOIs like asking me "do you have a gf?", "where do you live?", saying "you look good", pulled me to dance next to her when another guy was shoulder bumping her and clarified my full name 5 times through out the evening (probably so she wouldn't forget). Told her we should meet for coffee next week and she was pretty excited. We swapped numbers.

This morning she sends first text...

Her: ":)"
Me: "You still owe me missy" (she lost a bet and owed me a drink)
Her: "Haha I havent forgotten. That game sucks!!"
Me: "Only a loser would say that"
Her: ":( "
Her: "did you enjoy the rest of the night??"
Me: "Yer. It was pretty empty after 3:15, so we left too. Did you guys get home safe?"
Her: "yeah we did "

Last text was a few hours ago. Anyway I can continue the convo? I want to remain at the fore front of her mind.

Want to meet her for dinner or something but feels too early right now (just met last night). Thinking tomorrow I might go "I'll be in the city on Wednesday, let's catch up for dinner".

"chu doin tomorrow"

If she says "nothing" or "I'm pretty free" setup a date, like this:

"cool. lets grab a drink around 7:30. joe's bar is good"

Her willingness to get together is directly proportional to her interest in you, not your ability to send clever text messages. If she's into you, she doesn't want a pen pal.

Some guys on here say they can generate attraction through text. Maybe I'm not all that clever, but I have neither the time nor inclination. She either wants to hang out or she doesn't.

Challenge her to a rematch. Winner take all.

Continuation from texting my 9. Texted her today.

Me: "Hey. I'll be in the city on Wednesday. Let's catch up for dinner."
Her: "hey yes that sounds good!"
Her: "please forgive me... is it studmuffin or struckmuffin?? it was really noisy at the club"
Me: "Think you owe me two drinks now"
Me: "I'll let you decide which one to use on Wednesday. Let's meet at 7:45"
Her: "hahaha"
Her: "okies 7:45 is good "

[10 hours later]

Her: "heyy"
Her: "I can't see you this wednesday I have work and I forgot about it!!"
Her: "another day??"
Me: "I am free tmr"
Her: "aww im kinda busy tmr. need to go doctors and find shoes for work. sorry for the slow replies! I just got home frm work. What about sometime next week? I just started this job and theres so many things I need to do! zz"

Haven't replied yet, but just thinking of going with "k". Is this suitable?

EDIT: Went with "Sure."

Is there any point in sending a text next week to meet up? She's a solid 9-9.5, almost every guy was hitting on her at the club. Wouldn't surprise me if she forgets about me next week. Admittedly, hope has gone down a few notches tonight.

Just forgot about work? At a job she just started?

I've found that top shelf girls (in terms of looks) have the attention span of a gnat, in the beginning anyway. Until they're hooked on you and start to chase a little on their own, sometimes you have to bend the rules of the game. Since they have unlimited options, they'll often flake, forget to text you back (and let's be honest, if you had 50+ other girls chasing your dick, you'd forget to text back as well).

I used to think it was "alpha" to ignore these girls for a week and hit them up later. But a week to a dime piece is like an eternity, with hoards of other dudes offering dick to her. She's going to forget about you. If you follow the rules to the letter and go radio silent with a girl you haven't banged yet, chances are when you reinitiate with her you're going to get the dreaded "who is this" text, and you're fucked.

I don't wait more than 2 - 3 days to ping these types of girls with a playful, succinct text. Keep the exchanges playful and light, rarely ask questions, and tell them to meet for a drink on such and such day. Since she has no investment in you, this may go on for a while. Eventually you may catch her at the right moment and she'll agree to meet you. Or this could go on for long enough that you decide it's not worth the effort.

In the meantime you can mitigate thirsty blue balls by keeping fresh prospects in rotation. It's amazing what banging a 7 can do to keep your confidence high while gaming hotter women.

Quick help here !

Do me a favour and give me a hand here, boys. It's appreciated.
So this is a hot girl I just fooled around with in the weekend in the night club. Made out, fingered and played around with her. Just a girl I wanna pump and dump, but problem is...

*Boring convo about the night we met*

Bruno: Whats ur calender like this week? Yeah I live in city A but lets do drinks in city B (which is halfway for both of us)
Her: Working Mon-Fri unfortunately. Why do you want to meet?
Her: Do you have facebook?

*Me not answering*

Day after

Her: Night Club X on Saturday?
Bruno: Can't. I'm in Stockholm this weekend
Her: aha ok
Her: what a pity

Day after that

Her: Hi, where you at club X on Saturday too? [met this girl on the friday]
Thought I saw you btw
Bruno:
? Nah.

But listen, find a night you got time next week and ill hit you up (if youre lucky)
Her: What do you mean if i'm lucky? Either we talk or we dont..
Her: Feels like youre only after one thing

^You over gamed her on the text messaging. She is on to you about your intentions. Also, you won't get the bang if you both meet half way from each other's place.

Don't give her the option to choose a day. Suggest a day that works for you. Give her a place to meet you that is close to your house/apartment. Bounce her to another venue or two after spending time at venue one, then bring her back to your place. Make sure you continue where you left off when you were making out and diddling her puss.

(11-18-2015 01:34 PM)Remington Wrote:  ^You over gamed her on the text messaging. She is on to you about your intentions. Also, you won't get the bang if you both meet half way from each other's place.

Don't give her the option to choose a day. Suggest a day that works for you. Give her a place to meet you that is close to your house/apartment. Bounce her to another venue or two after spending time at venue one, then bring her back to your place. Make sure you continue where you left off when you were making out and diddling her puss.

Thanks for the input man! +1!
But how did I overgame do you think?
Well, I'm often going to city "B" and have done multiple dates there before that have went well because hotels are cheaper, so it's not a problem for me.


Anyway, this is what I did.
I answered "heh. says the broad that only wants to meetup in a night club" and then she had a super long fucking rant about how I was a player and had gone to another chick that night after making out with her and how she had friends that had seen me making out with girls on Saturday too (I met her on Fri night).

So I called her up and made up a lie that I wouldn't bother going all the way to city B to see her, if I didnt think she was a bit special, which she bought into. Then she asked for a picture of me again and I sent her one and she said I was "pretty damn nice".
And now we are all good (at least that's what I thought), but now she's texting me again saying "are you leaving me again now?".

LOL, the sexiest chicks always seems to be the most crazy.