Sluts are just gonna slut.

Another classic story of a cuck.

This girl I fucked on and off for a bit wanted to hangout more and wanted me to come over to her house. We had one last drunken romp then she flat out said it wasn't happening again. I never bothered responding to her and haven't ran into her.

Turns out she got a BF, whose a decent looking dude, no homo.

A bro of mine revealed that he saw her at a party with his wife, hooking up and blowing some dude in the jacuzzi....and her boyfriend shows up a little while later, not having a clue what had happened.



She still craves guys she can't lock down. It's hilariously sad my friends wife is good friends with this slut and she was shocked saying "I didn't know that X was just such a little slut !" I respond with "You should've known that as soon as I fucked her"

On the home front, life's good with my main, I've got almost 10 new leads in a week, strong signs from about half of them. One literally sent me her number (I didn't text her immediately) then sent me a message "I want to fuck you" I sidestep and tell her first things first, to send me a confirmation pic (I still didn't text her).

She got all mad when I asked her to do X in a selfie, I ended up saving it, but of course she sends me a pic of her....and her kid.

We'll see what comes of these numbers.

I realized today I've gotten SNLs from girls I've cold approached on every night of the week except Monday. Never on a Monday..But now is a good time to remedy that since many summer tourists arrive on Sunday and Monday is a party night for them.

I purchased a VIP ticket for Montreal and have become unable to attend. Assuming Roosh's approval I am going to gift the ticket slash seat to whomever would like it. I reserve the Forum benefits such as Gold Membership upgrade for myself. PM if you are interested, First come, first serve but I reserve the right to award it to the person of my choice. I will put this post the the thread for the tour and some of the forum lounges.

How many days to restart your game when you fucked it up with women?

Is it a month?

Four dates, zero bangs in past one week. I haven't had four consecutive no bang dates in whole of 2014. 2014 was a bumper crop year (25 notches, 5 BJ/HJ and several makeouts). 2015 is shit - only 8 notches.

Date 1: met her at a semi-professional event. She was hooked on as I was with another chic, and a guy came over who knew me and praised me a lot. We exchanged #s, but this girl is tough to get out. Always some Church stuff. Every. Single. Day. Then on Fri, I get her out, we go for an exhibition, from there to drinks, and then to ice-cream. The bitch had karaoke plans with her college friends at 11PM. She invited me to join, but I declined (don't know if that was a mistake, but I don't meet a girl's friends until I've banged her). Dropped her a text for another meetup, but she is busy with Church for like next four weeks (sent me her complete schedule). I give up and next her.

Date 2: okc girl. 5.5 or 6. I didn't feel any attraction, and should have booted out as soon as I saw her. Contrary to my gut feeling, I stayed in for a drink, and then we bounced to another location. Of course there was no attraction, and it was just a waste of my time.

Date 3: Funniest of all. Chic that I met while I was speaking as a guest speaker at a university. We met and I game her before the meet when she says "is it ok if I am 15 mins late. Wearing heals and don't know this place, so have to find it". I reply "ok. But a minute more and I'll have to spank you". She was a minute late, and apologized, but being in public, I didn't spank her. Should have! We started well, comfort, then attraction, and talking everything... I tell her hair looks better when left without a band, and she says ok, I don't like it, but I'll honor you. But then 10 mins after, she drops a bomb that she has a boyfriend. Then it gets funny. She says she was expecting to find better looking guys at her uni to fuck, but nothing has happened. That she's narcissistic, and would cheat on her bf, would like to have a threesome. I told her about a threesome I had (in hindsight, a mistake - I played into her frame.) Then we bounce off, and I ask her to put her arm in my arm. She not only puts it, comments "that's very classy. I like it. Seems you know your audience well." Anyway, after a drink at the 2nd venue, even though our conversation is totally sexual, she doesn't want to come to my place. Grabs a taxi and leaves. Only solace is that she paid her share of the evening. I felt she was too much of a player for my beginner/intermediate game...

Date 4: tonight. Had met her at another semi-professional event, and she emailed, and then texted me the next day. We met for a drink, she came dressed in LBD. We were talking about her job that she just resigned, her business school that she's starting in a month in London. So I thought she's DTF, and bounced her to my home to have some ice-cream. We're talking well for 20 mins, she praises my pics and paintings etc, we're having drinks. Then the convo moves towards LGBT, and she says she'll like to try a girl. And that I should try a guy. I said no. (Wondering if it was a shit test). I ask her why has she not tried then? I asked her about her fantasy, she says she doesn't have any. It was 20 mins at my place by this point. So I move close, smell her hair, and try to kiss her. She doesn't, and then within a min says it's too late. I indicate that the door is there if she wants to leave and she leaves.

Damn it. I haven't felt this bad in ages. My hit rate was much better in 2014 when I was less fitter, didn't wear as nice clothes and didn't run any routines... I feel as if I am trying to force things, which moves them away, which makes me want to do more, which makes it worse... And I'm getting really horny (the regular FB has been traveling past 10 days.)

I really need variety and sometimes feel I'm just dating for the challenge...

(07-28-2015 01:13 AM)dassad5a5 Wrote:  How many days to restart your game when you fucked it up with women?

Is it a month?

You have to give us some background information.

Who is this girl
Who are you
How old are both you
How did you meet (if you've met)
How long have you been banging/dating her
The story of how you think "you fucked up"

Then we can give you a better suggestion at restarting or nexting her.

The other day I had a former plate who I let go get back in touch with me saying she "missed me". I had originally let her slip because she was starting to catch feelings and gently prod me for more. We parted on good terms and I left the door open for this very day. She's 28, Asian, 5' and about 102, spinner body and the sex with her was in the top 10%, she doesn't drink and the drama level with her is consistently low. It's been about 3 months since we last hooked up. I told her through text that nothing has changed with me and I don't want monogamy in any shape or form. She says she's completely cool with that so I agreed to see her tonight. Going to grab some froyo and bang. Will see how it plays out after that...

I had another date lined up for tonight with the 36 yo blonde that I banged a little over a week ago. She was fun but I got the impression her personality would grate on me in a short amount of time so I flaked on her and made a date with the 28 yo knowing it's a sure thing.

What I've noticed this year especially is how the abundance mentality has truly become an internalized belief. Less and less women impress me and I'm fine with letting ones who don't fit into my lifestyle or personality requirements go. My attachment to anything has gone way down and given way to a more calm, easy come easy go mindset.

Sometimes you gotta nuke a bitch:

http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11111-...pid1074970

I'm having a really hard time figuring out Icelandic girls. They are beautiful but they are duller than a block of concrete.

I just had a cute Icelandic girl over to my rental apartment to drink wine, and I almost fell asleep. My interactions with other girls here have been similar.

I am feeling like my game has gone to shit, because nothing seems to be working on these girls.

I know I know, I'm supposed to just bang them, but these girls are so boring that I can't get turned on. I don't want to fuck just to fuck, that doesn't excite me so much. I need the feeling of attraction and intensity to be mutual for it to be good sex. I already got my flag last week, so I guess that's cool, but damn if I'm not disappointed by the girls here.

Or maybe it's me.

Anyone ever feel like that just straight up don't click with a certain population of girls?

@Blurred did I miss the post where you said you're now in Iceland? I'm curious what the back story is.

(07-28-2015 07:58 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  @Blurred did I miss the post where you said you're now in Iceland? I'm curious what the back story is.

Just visiting for a few weeks. I'll do a proper write up when I get home.

I'm mostly here to explore the backcountry and doing outdoorsy stuff, but have also been chasing tail here and there.

I'm definitely having a hard time digging my feet into the ground and getting to a point where I can bang the girls that I like. I've now had 5 different girls in my place in the last few days, but only banged 1. Back home those numbers would be the other way around. It's messing with my head a little bit.

90%chance of SIF
100% chance of bang and free booze
1 hr drive

Boner is on the fence. Advice?

^ What's your percentage of horniness?

^and what's your average looking like? You trying to bust out of a slump or is this just an additional opportunity?

(07-28-2015 09:11 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  90%chance of SIF
100% chance of bang and free booze
1 hr drive

Boner is on the fence. Advice?

Max drive time for a probable SIF is 20 minutes. OK, 30 if you're in a serious slump. No way you should drive an hour. It's flaking time.

It's been said before, but I'll say it again: there's nothing like spinning a plate before she's hopped on the carousel, especially when she's eager to learn how to please you and open to anything because she's curious.

You may not have shit to talk about with her outside the bedroom, but goddamn it there's nothing like it inside.

(07-28-2015 01:07 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  ..What I've noticed this year especially is how the abundance mentality has truly become an internalized belief. Less and less women impress me and I'm fine with letting ones who don't fit into my lifestyle or personality requirements go. My attachment to anything has gone way down and given way to a more calm, easy come easy go mindset.

I reach a point with any girl I fuck, relationship, date, whatever, after I put in "X" amount of work, if they aren't on-board and matching or exceeding my level of energy put in after I've done all the ground work and solidified (in my mind anyways) repeat easy lays, I let them drift.

Sure game is a constant effort and the man will likely always put in more effort - lifting, lifestyle, dress, looks, personality, wit, charm, intellect, etc. - than a woman. But there comes a point where you have to decide whether you've paid your dues or not... on individual basis with each girl, as well as overall.

OTSC - seems you've come to the point of passive pussy stream.

Argh!!! I met this little cutie at a bar a month ago, couldn't get her out and cut bait. Then she randomly replies to a snap I posted and we hang out late Friday and again Sunday (a week+ ago). No bang, her number is super low, so it's cool.

After Sunday I pull back, she gives short replies to my texts Tuesday. WTF!? I'm trying to figure out where the fuck I slipped up. The only thing I could think of, was she said she was on a couple dating sites and in my experience those girls are super flakey. Still this made no sense with how into me she was Friday and Sunday (and not to toot my own horn too much, but my reads are pretty damn good at this point).

Yesterday a girl I met at another bar around the same time adds me on snap... never replied to a text, so this seemed kind of odd, but I accepted her request anyway.

Today girl 2 posts a snap with girl 1's name in it... Oh those clever little clams! I do a tiny bit of Facebook research, and sure as fuck they work together. What are the odds!

At least I know what happened now... fml.

When you say you didn't get the bang can you elaborate in terms of how far you escalated? If I were a betting man I would say the problem lies there but it's impossible without details.

I highly doubt it was an escalation issue. With how inexperienced this clam is (not to mention the logistics) restraint was an absolute must. Otherwise you scare the cat because they assume sex is imminent and they're wired against that. No sense in pushing that until she was comfortable enough to come to my apartment, which would've been the next date.

I just didn't count on her happening to work with another girl I was making out at the bar with around the same time I met her. Was bound to happen sooner or later. The timing of the snap chat stuff would be far too coincidental to have happened at random.

(07-26-2015 11:16 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Some advice from experience- avoid bachelorette parties like they have Ebola. I know they look like a tempting target; it's a group of cute girls, dressed up, drinking and acting like they are having fun, but this is deceptive

It's actually a hen party on steroids with attention whoring dialed up to 11. It's all about them competing for status and showing off for each other and their social media audience. They will aggressively try to rope in guys around them, but that's only to use them as props in their display. Your chance of pulling one of these girls when so many other girls are watching and cockblocking is very low. Your odds are much better with girls in sets of two or three- focus on approaching them. I won't even speak to a bachelorette party girl anymore; if one opens me I'll ignore her and turn my back on her.

There are a lot of tips and tricks specific to nightgame scattered around the forum that will speed up your learning curve.

There is one exception to this good rule. If you're in Vegas, way more bachelorette parties will be open to you, especially if you're part of a bachelor party.

I was out in Vegaswith a buddy who was getting married and the number of bachelorette parties that had cabanas and tables that pulled us in to do body shots from their alcohol was a lot higher than I expected. Now I want a body shot.

I brought a new girl home for a SNL, all logistics perfect. When entering the bedroom, she screams "what the fuck is this?" as she points the used condom that I forgot to clean with yesterday's lay. Needless to say, the evening ended there as she got out. Damn I am still pinching myself for this mistake

(07-29-2015 03:16 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  I brought a new girl home for a SNL, all logistics perfect. When entering the bedroom, she screams "what the fuck is this?" as she points the used condom that I forgot to clean with yesterday's lay. Needless to say, the evening ended there as she got out. Damn I am still pinching myself for this mistake

Probably wouldn't have salvaged it but who knows, with this line: 'I got to try out those new ones I got before meeting you so we'd be safe it wouldn't break'.

Ended up smashing after she said she had free beer and pizza.

Not as bad as I was expecting but I doubt I'll see her again. Typical small town canadian girl. Definitely not driving an hour to pussy again but I've been working 60-80 hr weeks for the past 2 months needed to fuck something

I don't really keep up with who gets banned, but a who's the 50 year old player who sparked that hilarious post?

Message me, if need be