It's the hips. They're way, way out of proportion.

Just got home and wrote this….one of the strangest encounters I’ve had.

Every morning, I write down three things that would make the day great. Today, I wrote, “Bring a girl back to my house”.

I meet this girl and her aunt at a bar. The girl is attractive. Mostly Italian, with some Eritrean mixed in. A 6 or a 7. They are standing around, I open with “Look like you two are having the most fun…”

We chat about all sorts of things, where I’m from, where’s she from, our different ethnicities, we talk about music she likes and I like.

I give her a little twirl and say, “That what you get for being good” (Youtube Lovedrop's kino escalation) I tell her if she was bad, she would get a spank. She responds, “I would like that”. She is being sexual after I was sexual. Good. We dance a little salsa in the bar.

The aunt keeps saying, “You two should exchange numbers so you can go dancing together.”

I don’t ask for the number then. I don’t care about a number, I want her in my bedroom.

I suggest we go outside because the bar is very hot. On the staircase as we leave the bar, I isolate the aunt to tell her that I’d like to hang out with her niece one-on-one. The aunt is supportive of the idea. Cool aunt.

The aunt makes up an excuse to go home when we get outside the bar. So there appears to be no more obstacles.

I take the girl's hand and bring her to another bar. I figure we ought to at least kiss before I get to my place. We talk, I ask her about her future. She says she’d love to be a homemaker as she enjoys to cook and clean and take care of a farm ...(Roosh, are you reading this?)

She gets sexual pretty quickly while talking, she reveals she watches porn every day. She tells me she’s into BDSM porn. Then later, she flashes out her phone to show me pictures of tits she’s collected (she’s bisexual). I get sexual with her too, not sure in the right way, but I tell her something about my cock. Anyway, the whole vibe feels sexual, although at a few points she mocks me. For example, I do the line “hey I just fixed your hair” and she says sarcastically, “woah, you’re so smooth.” I punish by moving away.

A little while later, I go in for the kiss. She gives me her cheek. I punish by not touching her, moving away, and just continuing mundane conversation while making occasional eye contact.

A few minutes later, I move back closer to her, our faces are next to each other, and we start kissing. I am aggressive and so is she. I pull her hair hard and bite her lip and she likes it.

I make sure I am the first to move away. She comes back to me to kiss me more. I return her kiss, then again, I make sure to be the first to pull back.

Maybe ten minutes go by we’re just talking more. (She also despises feminists.) I tell her, let’s get out of here. I take her hand and walk her out of the bar. I call an Uber once we’re outside and we go into it.

Even as she gets into the Uber, she tells me she’s not coming back with me. I just ignore it, chalking it up to plausible deniability.

We’re in the the car we make a bit more small talk about Alaska (where she’s from). I’ve visited it. Halfway in the Uber, while she’s in the middle of talking about Alaska, I go in to kiss her aggressively and she returns the kiss with the same intensity.

We get to my house, I open the passenger side door, I take her hand to follow me and she shakes her head and says,

“No. I’m going home.”

I laugh and say, “That’s not how Uber works.”

She tries to talk to the driver, but the driver does not respond to her plea. She has no choice but to get out of the car.

I tell her we’ll talk on my porch. We speak for a little, but she remains firm that she’s not coming inside the house with me. She doesn’t have Uber, and she says she’ll call a taxi if she has to. But she doesn’t call a taxi, we’re just talking on the porch.

She says, “I’m sleeping at home tonight.” I said, “That’s right, you won’t spend the night here.” She says, “No, what I mean is I’m not going to go inside your house.”

I am frustrated and say something like, “I don’t know what you’re trying to prove, maybe some feminist thing where you save yourself by not sleeping with the guy.”

She says she’s definitely not a feminist. But she’s being stubborn. I open my front door and go inside. After a few seconds, I open it back up, and see she’s halfway to the sidewalk.

She comes back to the porch. We talk some more, I say whatever comes to mind. Something like, “The best time is now. I have too much experience ‘calling’ or ‘texting’ a girl to know exactly how this situation will turn out. You might respond once. Then I’ll ask you to hang out, and you’ll disappear.”

It feels like nothing was going to convince her. I ask her bluntly, “what are you hoping to prove?”

She responds, “I’ll be really honest with you. I think you’re interesting, and fun to talk to.

but I’m not sexually attracted to you.”

While there probably wasn’t one specific moment, I try to replay the whole encounter in my head, and partially out loud, for when I failed to build sexual attraction. I say, it was probably at the outset, but to be honest I don’t know. And although she rejected my first kiss, she went in aggressively in response to the second. I fail to believe there was no sexual attraction, but perhaps not enough that she was interested to go upstairs to my bedroom.

My sense about attraction is that it gets built up in the first few minutes of conversation, and then lost mid-set. Or, you keep it conversational and once you isolate, you can build attraction then. I felt like I did the latter. My MO is to find out a little about them, where they live, who’s with them, before getting sexual so I can assess logistics and most importantly, gauge if they are open to sex.

At this point, I sort of nod, staring away from her.

We talk a little more. She’s totally clueless on how to get a taxi from where I live.

It turns out she lives not far by bus. I give vague directions: “walk that way, and catch the bus.” Then, I give a blunt and emotionless “goodbye”. I shut the door and go upstairs.

Being more sexually attractive is elusive for me. I don’t know what it looks like. I need to see it in person to understand and replicate, I feel it’s not something I can put into practice from yet another book or blog post.

Afterword: This morning, I wrote “bring a girl back to my house.” Amazingly, my mini goal from this morning was fulfilled. It was amazing because this was the first time ever I have brought a girl I met at a bar back to my house on the same night. (On two occasions, I’ve gone to the girl’s house.) However, what I failed to write was, “BANG a girl that you’ve brought back to your house.” Next time, I'll be more precise.

(07-19-2015 05:47 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  Just got home and wrote this….one of the strangest encounters I’ve had.

Every morning, I write down three things that would make the day great. Today, I wrote, “Bring a girl back to my house”.

I meet this girl and her aunt at a bar. The girl is attractive. Mostly Italian, with some Eritrean mixed in. A 6 or a 7. They are standing around, I open with “Look like you two are having the most fun…”

We chat about all sorts of things, where I’m from, where’s she from, our different ethnicities, we talk about music she likes and I like.

I give her a little twirl and say, “That what you get for being good” (Youtube Lovedrop's kino escalation) I tell her if she was bad, she would get a spank. She responds, “I would like that”. She is being sexual after I was sexual. Good. We dance a little salsa in the bar.

The aunt keeps saying, “You two should exchange numbers so you can go dancing together.”

I don’t ask for the number then. I don’t care about a number, I want her in my bedroom.

I suggest we go outside because the bar is very hot. On the staircase as we leave the bar, I isolate the aunt to tell her that I’d like to hang out with her niece one-on-one. The aunt is supportive of the idea. Cool aunt.

The aunt makes up an excuse to go home when we get outside the bar. So there appears to be no more obstacles.

I take the girl's hand and bring her to another bar. I figure we ought to at least kiss before I get to my place. We talk, I ask her about her future. She says she’d love to be a homemaker as she enjoys to cook and clean and take care of a farm ...(Roosh, are you reading this?)

She gets sexual pretty quickly while talking, she reveals she watches porn every day. She tells me she’s into BDSM porn. Then later, she flashes out her phone to show me pictures of tits she’s collected (she’s bisexual). I get sexual with her too, not sure in the right way, but I tell her something about my cock. Anyway, the whole vibe feels sexual, although at a few points she mocks me. For example, I do the line “hey I just fixed your hair” and she says sarcastically, “woah, you’re so smooth.” I punish by moving away.

A little while later, I go in for the kiss. She gives me her cheek. I punish by not touching her, moving away, and just continuing mundane conversation while making occasional eye contact.

A few minutes later, I move back closer to her, our faces are next to each other, and we start kissing. I am aggressive and so is she. I pull her hair hard and bite her lip and she likes it.

I make sure I am the first to move away. She comes back to me to kiss me more. I return her kiss, then again, I make sure to be the first to pull back.

Maybe ten minutes go by we’re just talking more. (She also despises feminists.) I tell her, let’s get out of here. I take her hand and walk her out of the bar. I call an Uber once we’re outside and we go into it.

Even as she gets into the Uber, she tells me she’s not coming back with me. I just ignore it, chalking it up to plausible deniability.

We’re in the the car we make a bit more small talk about Alaska (where she’s from). I’ve visited it. Halfway in the Uber, while she’s in the middle of talking about Alaska, I go in to kiss her aggressively and she returns the kiss with the same intensity.

We get to my house, I open the passenger side door, I take her hand to follow me and she shakes her head and says,

“No. I’m going home.”

I laugh and say, “That’s not how Uber works.”

She tries to talk to the driver, but the driver does not respond to her plea. She has no choice but to get out of the car.

I tell her we’ll talk on my porch. We speak for a little, but she remains firm that she’s not coming inside the house with me. She doesn’t have Uber, and she says she’ll call a taxi if she has to. But she doesn’t call a taxi, we’re just talking on the porch.

She says, “I’m sleeping at home tonight.” I said, “That’s right, you won’t spend the night here.” She says, “No, what I mean is I’m not going to go inside your house.”

I am frustrated and say something like, “I don’t know what you’re trying to prove, maybe some feminist thing where you save yourself by not sleeping with the guy.”

She says she’s definitely not a feminist. But she’s being stubborn. I open my front door and go inside. After a few seconds, I open it back up, and see she’s halfway to the sidewalk.

She comes back to the porch. We talk some more, I say whatever comes to mind. Something like, “The best time is now. I have too much experience ‘calling’ or ‘texting’ a girl to know exactly how this situation will turn out. You might respond once. Then I’ll ask you to hang out, and you’ll disappear.”

It feels like nothing was going to convince her. I ask her bluntly, “what are you hoping to prove?”

She responds, “I’ll be really honest with you. I think you’re interesting, and fun to talk to.

but I’m not sexually attracted to you.”

While there probably wasn’t one specific moment, I try to replay the whole encounter in my head, and partially out loud, for when I failed to build sexual attraction. I say, it was probably at the outset, but to be honest I don’t know. And although she rejected my first kiss, she went in aggressively in response to the second. I fail to believe there was no sexual attraction, but perhaps not enough that she was interested to go upstairs to my bedroom.

My sense about attraction is that it gets built up in the first few minutes of conversation, and then lost mid-set. Or, you keep it conversational and once you isolate, you can build attraction then. I felt like I did the latter. My MO is to find out a little about them, where they live, who’s with them, before getting sexual so I can assess logistics and most importantly, gauge if they are open to sex.

At this point, I sort of nod, staring away from her.

We talk a little more. She’s totally clueless on how to get a taxi from where I live.

It turns out she lives not far by bus. I give vague directions: “walk that way, and catch the bus.” Then, I give a blunt and emotionless “goodbye”. I shut the door and go upstairs.

Being more sexually attractive is elusive for me. I don’t know what it looks like. I need to see it in person to understand and replicate, I feel it’s not something I can put into practice from yet another book or blog post.

Afterword: This morning, I wrote “bring a girl back to my house.” Amazingly, my mini goal from this morning was fulfilled. It was amazing because this was the first time ever I have brought a girl I met at a bar back to my house on the same night. (On two occasions, I’ve gone to the girl’s house.) However, what I failed to write was, “BANG a girl that you’ve brought back to your house.” Next time, I'll be more precise.

Good to hear mate practice makes perfect. Only thing is don't be too logical about it I hope that in your head the same mentality you logically believe like push-pull or punishing is clicking as a result to punish bad behavior because you are the prize. Gotta puff up your chest and make game a natural part of yourself.

It will naturally happen as something like this will get ingrained into you but making the conscious choice to make it a part of you instead of a method to get girls would be highly beneficial.

(07-19-2015 05:47 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  Just got home and wrote this….one of the strangest encounters I’ve had.

Every morning, I write down three things that would make the day great. Today, I wrote, “Bring a girl back to my house”.

I meet this girl and her aunt at a bar. The girl is attractive. Mostly Italian, with some Eritrean mixed in. A 6 or a 7. They are standing around, I open with “Look like you two are having the most fun…”

We chat about all sorts of things, where I’m from, where’s she from, our different ethnicities, we talk about music she likes and I like.

I give her a little twirl and say, “That what you get for being good” (Youtube Lovedrop's kino escalation) I tell her if she was bad, she would get a spank. She responds, “I would like that”. She is being sexual after I was sexual. Good. We dance a little salsa in the bar.

The aunt keeps saying, “You two should exchange numbers so you can go dancing together.”

I don’t ask for the number then. I don’t care about a number, I want her in my bedroom.

I suggest we go outside because the bar is very hot. On the staircase as we leave the bar, I isolate the aunt to tell her that I’d like to hang out with her niece one-on-one. The aunt is supportive of the idea. Cool aunt.

The aunt makes up an excuse to go home when we get outside the bar. So there appears to be no more obstacles.

I take the girl's hand and bring her to another bar. I figure we ought to at least kiss before I get to my place. We talk, I ask her about her future. She says she’d love to be a homemaker as she enjoys to cook and clean and take care of a farm ...(Roosh, are you reading this?)

She gets sexual pretty quickly while talking, she reveals she watches porn every day. She tells me she’s into BDSM porn. Then later, she flashes out her phone to show me pictures of tits she’s collected (she’s bisexual). I get sexual with her too, not sure in the right way, but I tell her something about my cock. Anyway, the whole vibe feels sexual, although at a few points she mocks me. For example, I do the line “hey I just fixed your hair” and she says sarcastically, “woah, you’re so smooth.” I punish by moving away.

A little while later, I go in for the kiss. She gives me her cheek. I punish by not touching her, moving away, and just continuing mundane conversation while making occasional eye contact.

A few minutes later, I move back closer to her, our faces are next to each other, and we start kissing. I am aggressive and so is she. I pull her hair hard and bite her lip and she likes it.

I make sure I am the first to move away. She comes back to me to kiss me more. I return her kiss, then again, I make sure to be the first to pull back.

Maybe ten minutes go by we’re just talking more. (She also despises feminists.) I tell her, let’s get out of here. I take her hand and walk her out of the bar. I call an Uber once we’re outside and we go into it.

Even as she gets into the Uber, she tells me she’s not coming back with me. I just ignore it, chalking it up to plausible deniability.

We’re in the the car we make a bit more small talk about Alaska (where she’s from). I’ve visited it. Halfway in the Uber, while she’s in the middle of talking about Alaska, I go in to kiss her aggressively and she returns the kiss with the same intensity.

We get to my house, I open the passenger side door, I take her hand to follow me and she shakes her head and says,

“No. I’m going home.”

I laugh and say, “That’s not how Uber works.”

She tries to talk to the driver, but the driver does not respond to her plea. She has no choice but to get out of the car.

I tell her we’ll talk on my porch. We speak for a little, but she remains firm that she’s not coming inside the house with me. She doesn’t have Uber, and she says she’ll call a taxi if she has to. But she doesn’t call a taxi, we’re just talking on the porch.

She says, “I’m sleeping at home tonight.” I said, “That’s right, you won’t spend the night here.” She says, “No, what I mean is I’m not going to go inside your house.”

I am frustrated and say something like, “I don’t know what you’re trying to prove, maybe some feminist thing where you save yourself by not sleeping with the guy.”

She says she’s definitely not a feminist. But she’s being stubborn. I open my front door and go inside. After a few seconds, I open it back up, and see she’s halfway to the sidewalk.

She comes back to the porch. We talk some more, I say whatever comes to mind. Something like, “The best time is now. I have too much experience ‘calling’ or ‘texting’ a girl to know exactly how this situation will turn out. You might respond once. Then I’ll ask you to hang out, and you’ll disappear.”

It feels like nothing was going to convince her. I ask her bluntly, “what are you hoping to prove?”

She responds, “I’ll be really honest with you. I think you’re interesting, and fun to talk to.

but I’m not sexually attracted to you.”

While there probably wasn’t one specific moment, I try to replay the whole encounter in my head, and partially out loud, for when I failed to build sexual attraction. I say, it was probably at the outset, but to be honest I don’t know. And although she rejected my first kiss, she went in aggressively in response to the second. I fail to believe there was no sexual attraction, but perhaps not enough that she was interested to go upstairs to my bedroom.

My sense about attraction is that it gets built up in the first few minutes of conversation, and then lost mid-set. Or, you keep it conversational and once you isolate, you can build attraction then. I felt like I did the latter. My MO is to find out a little about them, where they live, who’s with them, before getting sexual so I can assess logistics and most importantly, gauge if they are open to sex.

At this point, I sort of nod, staring away from her.

We talk a little more. She’s totally clueless on how to get a taxi from where I live.

It turns out she lives not far by bus. I give vague directions: “walk that way, and catch the bus.” Then, I give a blunt and emotionless “goodbye”. I shut the door and go upstairs.

Being more sexually attractive is elusive for me. I don’t know what it looks like. I need to see it in person to understand and replicate, I feel it’s not something I can put into practice from yet another book or blog post.

Afterword: This morning, I wrote “bring a girl back to my house.” Amazingly, my mini goal from this morning was fulfilled. It was amazing because this was the first time ever I have brought a girl I met at a bar back to my house on the same night. (On two occasions, I’ve gone to the girl’s house.) However, what I failed to write was, “BANG a girl that you’ve brought back to your house.” Next time, I'll be more precise.

Maybe she does but she panicked about having sex and saying that was her last resort. A nuke. Or maybe she's just toying with you. The thing is that considering she watches fucking BDSM porn everyday then she's prolly not the sanest person so the reasoning behind that could be all kinds of crazy stuff.

(07-19-2015 05:47 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  but I’m not sexually attracted to you.”

Like anything else a woman says don't take this statement at face value. A more accurate translation would be "but I'm no longer horny". By making out with her, touching her, being all over her you effectively satisfied her hunger for sex and need for validation. She gets all the benefits with none of the slut regret.

In my opinion your biggest mistake was escalating WAY too much before you got back to your place. You should never even be kissing her before you get her to a place where you can have sex. If you're dying to kiss her beforehand it should be brief and you are the one who pulls away first. Heavy dirty talk should also be avoided before you get her home. This is similar to what happens when a guy starts sexting with a woman before they meet. 9 times out of 10 she will never agree to meet him in person (it's happened to me many times). Her ASD kicks in and she feels trapped that if she agrees to be alone with you sex is inevitable. Remember sex must be YOUR fault and it must "just happen".

Hindsight is always 20/20 but a better approach with her would have been doing everything you did up to the point of getting her separated from her aunt (you handled the first part text book so feel good about that). Once it was just the two of you I would have continued with the playful touching and kept the conversation light and gone heavy on the teasing and banter. Keep her talking and let her ramble about whatever. You should only be talking about 20% of the time. During the conversation be thinking about some kind of bait that you have back at your place which she would be interested in. It could be a photo, a video, a song, a puppy but something innocent and non sexual. Casually mention your bait to her in conversation and then quickly move on to another subject. You've planted the seed and now it will do its work in her mind. Keep the conversation going, touch her arm, touch her shoulder, playfully slap her leg when she says something goofy. Then, when you feel the time is right bring up your bait again and tell her you're going to take her there to show it to her.

Once you're back at your place then you can start talking about your porn viewing habits, let her tell you about how she likes BDSM. It's a perfect opportunity to grab her by the neck, pull her hair and and say "oh you mean like this?"

Don't let this one get you down. I believe it's our biggest misses that are also our biggest lessons.

Just got back to hunting & game, after a few girls dropped out of the harem. I've had a steady rotation for a while, but some girls got tired of me not comitting, especially since they all thought (or at least, made me believe so) that they were exclusive.

Friday night went out. Opened a set of 3 girls (fatty, skinny attractive, brunette sister) 1 dude (actually didn't see him at first). I was playing darts with my boys, and they were sitting at a high top near us.

Me and Skinny start hitting it off right away. She's from here but actually lives in LA right now. I'm realizing just how skinny she is and that she's probably anorexic. Trouble...?...or...let's have some fun.

I go for the latter. I tell fatty she's sassy ("oh wow she's sassy" exaggeratedly to Skinny). I pull Skinny over and let her do a celebrity shot (dart throw).

After hitting it off with her, buddies go to the next bar. I get her number, tell her to come boating with us tomorrow, stay a couple minutes, then walk out only to find friends went home. I sorta expected that. No biggie.

As I'm walking away I re-think the situation. She is definitely not coming boating with us, and I probably won't ever see her again. I have more work to do. Right now she's chatting with Fatty and Sister about me, whether I'm cool, whether she should go boating with me. No way. I haven't put in the groundwork.

I double-back. I'm going in there, and I'm gonna woo the crowd, her sister and friend will love me (sorta, the friend will sorta hate me too because she's fat...though married so probably won't cock-block too hard ), I'm going to take this girl home tonight, and I'm going to bring her boating tomorrow.

So I do. I mean, sure, hindsight I thought it all through and made it happen, but I did it. I did all of that. In under 10 minutes she leaned over and said "they all really like you, they think you're cool", I was shooting the shit with the guy, Fatty conceded she's married so she was cool even though she was mad she doesn't get attention, I took her home, we went boating the next day, hung out some more.

Yeah, she's anorexic. She came about 4 times. Left a puddle on the floor. Definitely crazy. But really fun to have sex with because I can toss her around pretty easily. You get in the 90 pound range and she's light as a feather.

After spending much of the weekend with her, giving her great sex, a boat day ($$ valuable), late-night food, etc...I didn't say goodbye when I left (because she was taking too long and I had to get going)...

And she got all pissed off about that. After all that she got pissed off I didn't say goodbye. Such a chic thing.

(07-19-2015 01:27 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(07-19-2015 05:47 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  but I’m not sexually attracted to you.”

Like anything else a woman says don't take this statement at face value. A more accurate translation would be "but I'm no longer horny". By making out with her, touching her, being all over her you effectively satisfied her hunger for sex and need for validation. She gets all the benefits with none of the slut regret.

In my opinion your biggest mistake was escalating WAY too much before you got back to your place. You should never even be kissing her before you get her to a place where you can have sex. If you're dying to kiss her beforehand it should be brief and you are the one who pulls away first. Heavy dirty talk should also be avoided before you get her home. This is similar to what happens when a guy starts sexting with a woman before they meet. 9 times out of 10 she will never agree to meet him in person (it's happened to me many times). Her ASD kicks in and she feels trapped that if she agrees to be alone with you sex is inevitable. Remember sex must be YOUR fault and it must "just happen".

Hindsight is always 20/20 but a better approach with her would have been doing everything you did up to the point of getting her separated from her aunt (you handled the first part text book so feel good about that). Once it was just the two of you I would have continued with the playful touching and kept the conversation light and gone heavy on the teasing and banter. Keep her talking and let her ramble about whatever. You should only be talking about 20% of the time. During the conversation be thinking about some kind of bait that you have back at your place which she would be interested in. It could be a photo, a video, a song, a puppy but something innocent and non sexual. Casually mention your bait to her in conversation and then quickly move on to another subject. You've planted the seed and now it will do its work in her mind. Keep the conversation going, touch her arm, touch her shoulder, playfully slap her leg when she says something goofy. Then, when you feel the time is right bring up your bait again and tell her you're going to take her there to show it to her.

Once you're back at your place then you can start talking about your porn viewing habits, let her tell you about how she likes BDSM. It's a perfect opportunity to grab her by the neck, pull her hair and and say "oh you mean like this?"

Don't let this one get you down. I believe it's our biggest misses that are also our biggest lessons.

You bring up a point I forgot to mention as that's what happened to me recently. In a chick's car going on a burrito run when we were watching a movie at her place with my crowd. Made out at literally every red light. Then we fooled around as our burritos got ready.

Granted she bought me free food and gave me free booze so
I wouldn't call it a loss, but when we got back to her place she didn't want to go back to her room at all.
Hardcore LMR and it was awkward because we were with friends and everyone was giving me the "get a room" eyes. Feeling up on each other with a kiss here and there but got nothing more.

Getting it all out of the way early as we did everything in her car besides have sex lets you lose out on the bang.

I have a date in 45 minutes. It's going to be the second one with a cute 19 year old online meet. We had a bit of sexual talk and make out in our first date.

We set the date up earlier in the day with positive vibes. 45 minutes before the date she texts:

"Wait, so I have poison ivy in between my thighs.... "





You can't make this shit up.

After laughing out loud at this, I responded:

"I had that once...it's not fun. Have you tried aloe?"

"Won't be a problem though....we're just going to hangout a bit and have a drink. Is 8 still good?"

Still waiting on a reply. It appears her hamster is in full spin. Either that or she's looking for some plausible deniability.

^ That's awesome! When I first read that this was going to be a second date with a 19 year old I was thinking 'Really?' Then I read about her starting to flake and was like 'that's more like it...' These women and their ADD attention spans...

Just number closed a girl from IG. Going to be a busy week but its nice to have a new lead. Might grab ice cream or something when our schedules are good. 21 year old is elusive...I really want to bang her, her legs are just awesome. She doesn't have big breast or much of a booty, so the legs kind of do it for me.

After four years post red pill I'm still fucking blown away by how much game and pussy is feast or famine. I've had epic dry spells and now Sunday night as I'm typing this I've banged a different woman from Thursday through tonight and banged two on Saturday. Of the 5, 3 were repeats and 2 were new. Will be posting field reports on the 2 new ones in the I just had sex thread. Spoiler alert: I fell off the wagon and got back on Tinder. At least for the moment Tinder is back to being somewhat good. Will see how long that lasts for...

Showing a Russian couchsurfer around tmr. From her fb pics she seems pretty slutty.

I can't bring her back to mine because I stay with my parents, so I'll have to invite myself over to her hotel.

I can't use the bathroom line because there will be a toilet at the lobby.

Thoughts?

'Let's check out the view from your room'

Just found out she's gonna stay at a hostel gonna bring her to a deserted beach instead

That is a good line though. Will use it in future if the need arises

(07-20-2015 01:56 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  After four years post red pill I'm still fucking blown away by how much game and pussy is feast or famine. I've had epic dry spells and now Sunday night as I'm typing this I've banged a different woman from Thursday through tonight and banged two on Saturday. Of the 5, 3 were repeats and 2 were new. Will be posting field reports on the 2 new ones in the I just had sex thread. Spoiler alert: I fell off the wagon and got back on Tinder. At least for the moment Tinder is back to being somewhat good. Will see how long that lasts for...

Don't remind me man, I'm on a dry spell right now, then again I've had lots of shit going on the last few weeks.

Don't really have the energy in going on dates lately, I've been focusing on work and the gym. My LTR has been pretty damn good lately, can't complain.

I don't think I'm subconsciously not sleeping with other girls because of my LTR (I did bang an old plate 2 weeks ago).

I think losing those 2 other harem girls has bogged me down a bit, but it needed to be done, like ripping a bandge off fast instead of slow.

Sooner or later I'll get that fire under my ass again.

Yeah, I got a whole bunch of nothing outta new prospects last weekend. Sigh.

OTOH, I already have a 22-yr old hot redhead asking me to meet her out this weekend, so I got that going for me.

It really is feast or famine most times I think.

And just like that a very hot 20-yr old is dying to meet for drinks tomorrow. So maybe famine over.

I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask, but does anyone have a template for a players log excel spreadsheet? Something to record dates/bangs with categories and tabs or whatever laid out for looks, ratings, money spent, logistics, flags obtained, sex acts performed etc etc.

(07-23-2015 02:32 PM)DamienCasanova Wrote:  I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask, but does anyone have a template for a players log excel spreadsheet? Something to record dates/bangs with categories and tabs or whatever laid out for looks, ratings, money spent, logistics, flags obtained, sex acts performed etc etc.

I've got a spreadsheet that's pretty basic.

Start out with

Name:
1-10 Rate:
First Date Bang:
ONS:
Second Date Bang:
2+ Bangs:
Harem Girl:

You can add things like:

Time from meet to bang:
Money spent:
Etc:

I keep it simple, I want to know what my average ONS, first date bang ration is.

I honesty don't keep track of the girls I never banged, but I do remember if I fucked up or not.

I went out for drinks last night with a girl I daygamed at a street market the last weekend. 8.5 body, 6 face. Told her me to meet me at my first date spot, turned out she lived down the block from it. We site at the bar and I run my standard elusive cool guy game. She asks "so what do you do?" and I tell her the mythified truth and return the question. Turns out she's been fired from her recently and suing her from former boss for "sexual harassment". Total vibe and boner killer. She suggests we go outside to smoke a cig so I took the opportunity to eject.

(07-23-2015 02:32 PM)DamienCasanova Wrote:  I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask, but does anyone have a template for a players log excel spreadsheet? Something to record dates/bangs with categories and tabs or whatever laid out for looks, ratings, money spent, logistics, flags obtained, sex acts performed etc etc.

Ever since joining the forum I've kept a note on my phone with all my bangs, and some small notes so I can remember how what where when.

If you're at the beginner stages (following The Roosh Program) you should log approaches so you know where you're at.

Ever since I started dating back at the end of 2011 post divorce I've kept a note in my phone where I list every bang, the date it happened, her ethnicity (white, asian, black etc) what date it happened on (1st, 2nd, 3rd or ZDB) whether it was bareback or condom and her age. Having this kind of information is very valuable to identifying trends in your game and works the best so you can make adjustments going forward.

Maybe I should start keeping track of my bangs. But it seems all I want to do after each bang is A) sleep, or B) pop open a beer and watch a violent movie.