(07-24-2015 09:27 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  Maybe I should start keeping track of my bangs. But it seems all I want to do after each bang is A) sleep, or B) pop open a beer and watch a violent movie.

It's become a ritual for me. After the girl has gone home I usually take a shower, have a snack, sip some whiskey and log the bang in my phone. It's strangely relaxing...

(07-24-2015 09:27 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  Maybe I should start keeping track of my bangs. But it seems all I want to do after each bang is A) sleep, or B) pop open a beer and watch a violent movie.

Honestly it becomes a waste of time. An extra 20 minutes of sleep tends to be preferable to logging it. Even if you do do it. Better to log regulars.

(07-24-2015 08:34 AM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  I went out for drinks last night with a girl I daygamed at a street market the last weekend. 8.5 body, 6 face. Told her me to meet me at my first date spot, turned out she lived down the block from it. We site at the bar and I run my standard elusive cool guy game. She asks "so what do you do?" and I tell her the mythified truth and return the question. Turns out she's been fired from her recently and suing her from former boss for "sexual harassment". Total vibe and boner killer. She suggests we go outside to smoke a cig so I took the opportunity to eject.

Isn't it funny that she was so brazen as to NOT hide the facts of what happened at her job? As if a guy would be comfortable with knowing that. A plate from 3 months ago became a "union steward" at her job, after her endless pissing and moaning about scheduling at her job being unfair to the masses. No sooner was she "empowered" at work than she became more "empowered" towards me, and soon after she caught me fucking another girl which ended it. Good riddance.

@Oregon

Lol, good ritual.

WIA

Yeah its funny I get all excited logging it, hell I usually will write my I Just Had Sex Thread post right after she leaves or in the morning.

OTS is right, it's relaxing and you also realize what you could've done better.

We've talked about how right after you nut you have some of your greatest reflections, ideas, and thoughts. I believe this 100% to be true.

In other new, finally had a second date with girl, she was distant, went silent on her.

She reached out to me, I came to her pad, she's alone, we eat, watch a movie, I end up getting her topless, her tits were huge, unfortunately hardly an ass and some fat, very dissapointed.

I fingerblasted her a bit, she jacked me off a bit, then her roomate came home, game over.

She texted about 4 times from when I left till when I responded to her the next morning.

I'm 100% positive this girl is looking for BF, she kept thanking me for coming over, guaranteed she's catching feelings fast. She even complimented me on some of my more manly qualities also.

She's 30....it's not worth chasing, in all honesthy it's not worth banging.

I'm forcing myself to go off better quality now. If she literally throws herself at me then yeah maybe I will. I'm not impressed by here at all.

The best part was I had just finished being soaked at the gym on leg day, I came straight from the gym over to her house.

This is hilarious, from a game pov at least

http://www.vice.com/read/my-abortion-story

Invited to a house party tonight from some 18 yo who I met off POF and blew me in my car.

My main concern is going to be trying to dodge her at the party so people don't think we're together, and explaining what I'm doing there in the first place. Lol, should be fun.

(07-25-2015 07:45 PM)TheBlackNarwhal Wrote:  Invited to a house party tonight from some 18 yo who I met off POF and blew me in my car.

My main concern is going to be trying to dodge her at the party so people don't think we're together, and explaining what I'm doing there in the first place. Lol, should be fun.

I would come in with her holding on to your arm and meeting people inside. Better to make friends inside then to go around with new prospects so you get invited to more of these especially since you can claim you're 21 to get them booze.

You also essentially have a guaranteed bang with that girl. That's where you have the value mate.

On the process of completing another hat trick. 5 chicks in 4 days so far, just 3 days left to bang 2 more.

(07-26-2015 12:39 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  On the process of completing another hat trick. 5 chicks in 4 days so far, just 3 days left to bang 2 more.

What kind of paradise is that? In my town, I see less attractive girls per week than you have scored with within 4 days

Bangkok, Thailand. Way easier if you have some basic game, and less "I will let you know when I have time" shit, which makes the whole process easier

First ever real night game experience last night, since I turned 21 just a few weeks ago. A friend of mine won a free happy hour and was looking to cash in, so he brought me along. Opened a big group out on a bachelorette party, about 6 girls in total. Dodged the question of how old I was, tried to preserve the mystery, and because they were all clearly several years older than me at least.

Opener was that I was dying to know why one of the girls was wearing a giant inflatable dick on her back, and what horrible bet she must have lost to her friends. Good rapport, but unfortunately the logistics were awful. They came in from the suburbs, about 45 minutes away, while I still live in a rented college townhouse which I split with 5 other guys.

Action items for night game:
Thankfully, my dress style and physique are now solid, courtesy of this forum. I still have about 15 lbs I'd like to cut and convert to muscle, but overall not bad considering where I was just half a year ago.

I need contacts ASAP. I bring my glasses with me, but I'm constantly putting them on to read menus, sign receipts, and scope out good targets, then taking them off to approach. I look MUCH better without them, but I'm nearly blind without them.

I need to get rid of these giant fucking dark half moons below my eyes. They make me look like I haven't slept in 2 weeks when I'm getting 8 hours solid a day. Gonna look at cutting more salt and drinking more water. Hopefully the cucumber thing actually works.

Logistics, logistics, logistics. The same deal. I now value an airtight location infinitely more than I ever realized in the past. I'm now willing to pay a few hundred more per month for my first lease in order to have that prized less than 15 minutes walking distance from a major night game area. Unless I can pull to the girl's place, all of this is more or less practice for the real game.

Some advice from experience- avoid bachelorette parties like they have Ebola. I know they look like a tempting target; it's a group of cute girls, dressed up, drinking and acting like they are having fun, but this is deceptive

It's actually a hen party on steroids with attention whoring dialed up to 11. It's all about them competing for status and showing off for each other and their social media audience. They will aggressively try to rope in guys around them, but that's only to use them as props in their display. Your chance of pulling one of these girls when so many other girls are watching and cockblocking is very low. Your odds are much better with girls in sets of two or three- focus on approaching them. I won't even speak to a bachelorette party girl anymore; if one opens me I'll ignore her and turn my back on her.

There are a lot of tips and tricks specific to nightgame scattered around the forum that will speed up your learning curve.

One of the things I'm starting to do now with Tinder matches who I'm messaging before we meet is I'm starting to set my bait even before get to the first date venue. I'm mentioning my photography and sending a couple of pics over text. They almost always reply with something like 'wow I can't wait to see more!' It makes for a built in conversation topic while we're drinking and I think it will be more natural and seamless getting them to come back to my place. Will report how it works...

What kind of photography do you do?

Mostly landscapes and scenery kind of stuff

Had a great night Saturday, wrote a journal entry but its a bit TLR; A few approaches involved and a lot of dancing.

(07-26-2015 11:16 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Some advice from experience- avoid bachelorette parties like they have Ebola. I know they look like a tempting target; it's a group of cute girls, dressed up, drinking and acting like they are having fun, but this is deceptive

This is 110% true. Avoid all b-parties and most 21st b-day parties like the plague. It's nearly impossible to separate from the group and often obnoxiously drunk.

Let the other thirsty guys chase after them. Go for the class girl at the bar. As XY noted, backturn them and your value shoots up anyway.

Also, many girls love guys in glasses, as long as you have the right pair. Last few girls I banged all said I should wear them more not less, which did surprise me a bit. [I can see mostly fine without them.]

I'm not up for renewal on glasses for another year, but I'll PM you for advice when I am.

Had a first date the other night - had chatted her up at a bar with her two friends, all cute, but I think she's the hottest one, 8 face, 9 tight, athletic body, nice rack as well not too skinny. Spotted her right away as she has slight accent, long legs and also wearing 4" stilettos -- green light to me and IOI she wants tall guys only. I bought them a drink when I got myself one and then extricated her for a private convo. Got lots of smiles and good body language from her, find out they're all 20 from same college. Wasn't going to be able to separate her for long so we exchanged #s and I said goodbyes and left.

Texted her to go out on short notice and she quickly replied yes - a nice change from the usual college airheads. Tell her where and when to meet me, she knows the location. Texts me from outside the door when she arrives [afraid to arrive first] I go out, kiss her on the cheeks and lead her inside, which would become a theme. We have a drink inside at the bar and she is very chatty for the most part, smiling the whole time, wearing a nice LBD which is short but not slutty short. I've DHV'd by being better dressed. Still has 4-5" heels on, score. Ask about her background she is part EE part Cuban which explains the cute face and great body. Quite a sexy mix. I keep my strong frame and abundance mentality.

After one drink she is comfortable so I tell her let's grab some food and she follows me to the next venue which I have on lock. We have another drink, she loves the food, and still having normal 1st date chitchat. I pay and lead her to the next bar which has a nice 2nd floor bar and chill vibe. Multiple venue changes are key, esp on a first date. If there's ever a no-fail strategy it's this. We order more drinks and now I start sexualizing the conversation, asking her about dating older guys, and now standing in her personal space which she doesn't mind at all. She has some good stories and I share my own. Also she tells me she turned 20 recently. I'm getting the IOIs and the sparkly eyes.

Move to a less crowded part of the bar, now she orders her own drink before I do. Now I'm trailing my hand on her thighs and still standing while she is in bar chair, touching her arm and shoulder. Just keep trailing my fingers along her legs very lightly like you'd do to a cat. She starts talking about how she loves heels and wears them constantly, mmmm nice, they are fantastic looking and I imagine them kneeling on my floor and over my shoulders. Still very talkative, even apologizes a few times for it. But she's funny and not at all overbearing or bitchy.

Tell her we're bouncing to a quieter location and she's slightly tipsy, grabs my arm on the street and holds on to me the few blocks there. I find a dark corner in the lounge where we have to sit very close. I tell her she looks good and grab her neck and kiss her. She's dying for it. This continues into a long makeout sesh with lots of fondling on both parts. I start grabbing her throat lightly and biting her neck area, she begins to audibly moan. My hands are on her tits and amazing ass, maybe 1-2 people can see us if they squint, and the LBD allows solid access. However, past the upper thighs are a no-fly zone, I double-check that later and she's loving the attention but stops me there, not surprised she won't bang on the first date because she thinks a 'good girl' of course.

Eventually she says she has to head out soon [Fear of giving in too fast] I gotta wake up early too. And it's been almost 5 hours by now. I walk her to the taxi and she whispers she 'will have a lot of fun' with me before closing the door. I like my odds.

So here's the other half of my journal entry, posted day game approaches in the appropriate thread.

Fear, Dance Game, Acceptance of The Challenge

After a bit we left and decided to meet his friend at a bar for Salsa dancing. My attire was lacking as for the requirements for entry into the first venue so he lent me some threads that improved my look tremendously. White close-fit jeans, light-blue(think pale blue) v-neck, and matching sperries. His fit was just as fashionable. This was a night that would be one of those most unexpected.

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We go a to new bar in an upscale neighborhood to meet up with his friend. We scope it out and it seems wack. The friend arrives *We'll call him B* and it's like I've known him for a while. He agrees to bounce with us to another bar near the park that we had been at earlier in the day. We get there and can hear the music seeping into the atmosphere outside. Spanish music fills my ears...and I feel like dancing. I know I look good, shit my whole crew looks good.

We get there a bit late and meet the friend on the dance floor already dancing with a few girls at the bar. None of us were drinking for the night, so we'd be going of confidence, looks, charm, and dance game. I found an European girl that I approached for a dance.

First Dance: Euro 6

Going into a Spanish scene, I finally got to make use of those Spanish classes I took in high school. I open her with "Te quiero bailar?" She was down, we danced and talked about her being from Europe and being in the states for about 7 years. I wasn't interested in her but I needed to get the rust off and loosen up. After finishing one song she broke off back into her circle of friends.

2nd Dance: Asian 7
The later it got, the hotter and more crowded the bar became. I scoped the floor like a curious squirrel looking for the best nut in the room. Rab and B have found dancing partners, I migrate through the crowd towards a group of women from out of state. I ask the Asian girl to dance .

Me: Te quiero Bailar?
her: Si!

She's about 5'1-5'2. Her teddies were level with my upper abdomen. She smiles, hand her belongings to her friend and I improvise my own semi-awkward semi-passable verson of salsa. She's enjoying it and I get a good vibe as were talking as were dancing. After dancing a few songs and finding out she's leaving Sunday I don't go for the # close.

Fuck that m8. She goes to the bathroom with her girls and I dance alone for a bit, scoping the dance floor for my next girl.


3rd Dance: Drunk Blonde girl 6

As I'm scoping a throng of dancing bodies, I'm grinded from behind by a fun blonde with medium length hair. She invited me to dance with her friend. I asked who was her friend and went after it when she pointed her out to me. This was kind of funny but entertaining and fun. I pretty much went over, grabbed her, and away we went into dance.

Me: You know salsa?
her: No, I dance with my heart!

Good answer, I'm thinking. I could hear her motor skills began to slip, a bit too much liquid courage maybe? I dance with her occasionally bumping into other dancers (inevitable) and we part after dancing a few songs. Didn't want the number, she went back to her friends after we parted.

4th Dance:Awkward Terking Girl 5

After a few misses with asking a few Spanish 8s to dance, I surfed the crowd and surfaced near the bar where I found some cool guys enjoying their beers and the company that they were with. Not sure of the relationships these guys had with the women, but I was twerked upon by a blonde 5 that added a bit of fun to my night. Its always good to have a laugh and talk to cool guys that know how crazy women are.

She had a friend that later joined Rab, B, and myself in a dance circle. This is where dance game is a big display of good sexual market value. A guy with rhythm, confidence, and charisma gets girls wet. My crew and I as well as another guy with insane dance game took turns displaying our skills in this circle. I watched the reactions on the girls faces when Rab and B took to the floor. These girls were taken, but had they not been, I could see some things happening.


5th Dance:Sexy Asian 7.5

After more girl rejected my invitation to dance I find myself dancing with the crew, opening sets/breaking sets, and enjoying the environment. One of the best things about having two friends/wings is that you can destroy a set with ease and isolate easily. Before my 5th last dance (honestly there might have been more...but can't currently remember) We took apart a set of three girls who looked like they were taking a day off from the office to have some fun.

I opened a cute asian girl with glasses to dance but she had been dancing with her 5 bbw friend. I went over to the crew, made the plan to break the set, and we all went in. Rab took the tall white 6.5, B took the bbw for me (mad props), and as I was going for the Asian chick she to me she couldn't because she her friends things in her possession.

I was cool, but then I saw a cool spanish looking player come in, convince her to dance while I stood there and grooved to myself. It wasn't until we were about to leave that I saw a sexy thick Asian with awesome tan skin, lovely long legs, short shorts, and a nice ass. I was reluctant to approach as her friend had been in a set of 3. My boys just told me to go for it and I went in with no fear.

If at any moment I made love on the dance floor, it was with this girl. We didn't speak, we only danced. My hands explored her body, settling on her ass. My improvised salsa had gotten stiff from a night full of dancing and little hydration. I honestly couldn't help my arousal with this one. She welcomed it as I grinded against her and as she did in return.

After dancing for a while, her friends decided to go to another spot on the dance floor and I don't feel the desire to get her phone number. I feel that if logistics were in my favor I could have pulled the last girl. Just my type...she made me very horny boy.

Conclusion: The Wrap Up

Rab, B, and I left the bar and banter in the parking lot for a bit while the club began to close. Its pretty much one of these field reports but not as detailed and specific. I left with no numbers but I really do feel good as fuck. I know that I'm desirable by women of higher quality and have a decent enough SMV to do better than what I'm familiar with. My friends are awesome, I can see us being a dangerous combo if I continue to delve into night game.

I'm not too disappointed about how the night ended, I expected the last girl's friends to pull her away at some point as they were watching us pretty much dry hump standing up, occasionally looking over and pointing. Honestly I'm just glad to be apart of something bigger than being average. We are the elite, what we do and what we stand for is on another level.

TLR Went to bar after doing day game, approached girls in a crowded bar to dance salsa, had a great time and exhibited good dance game. Must learn salsa.

Picked up the girl I had sex with last weekend. She's only in town for a few more nights. We went and grabbed a couple drinks and some light food on a nice summer evening downtown.

Waitress: "Will this be on one tab or two?"
(pause, wait, 2 seconds)
Me: "Just one I can get it"
(dammit, I'm not here to be your boyfriend)

Afterward, we leave and I start driving to my place right downtown, I'm only a couple blocks away. She speaks up in the way women do, so good at being indirect, and says she is going to the beach tomorrow morning with her nieces and doesn't want to be out late (neither do I tho) and would rather go back to her sister's.

Me: "Well I wanted to have sex with you."

Very direct, but at this point I'm caring less. She's boarding a plane in two days. She lives in L.A. and has seen more cocks than a chicken farmer.

I drive her to her sister's and sit and chat with them a while.

If she wants to hang out one more evening, we sure as shit aren't going out. We're gonna just hang out at my place. I'm not gonna text her, but if she texts me I'll just say she can come over.

An observation.

I've been using Tinder almost exclusively for the past month after breaking up with my ex. In my hometown in Texas I would double book Tinder girls and they would both flake. I'd have dates booked every day of a week and every last one would flake.

Last week I traveled to another state for work for a couple months, I pipelined using tinder plus, set up dates for the weekend, assuming most of then would flake but I have not had one flake yet. 1 SNL out of 3 dates, I'll probably have a second night lay with the other two. I love Oklahoma.

I've been using the same game, same profile, same everything. This shows how easily your location can influence your pussy slaying ability.

(07-27-2015 10:10 AM)obrero Wrote:  An observation.

I've been using Tinder almost exclusively for the past month after breaking up with my ex. In my hometown in Texas I would double book Tinder girls and they would both flake. I'd have dates booked every day of a week and every last one would flake.

Last week I traveled to another state for work for a couple months, I pipelined using tinder plus, set up dates for the weekend, assuming most of then would flake but I have not had one flake yet. 1 SNL out of 3 dates, I'll probably have a second night lay with the other two. I love Oklahoma.

I've been using the same game, same profile, same everything. This shows how easily your location can influence your pussy slaying ability.

Is it possible your game changed?
"I'm in town on business"
...would come off higher value than...
"I live here but don't get laid enough by meeting girls in person so I use Tinder"

Just curious.