Post: #526

i logged into my old (real) account just to check something and i can not believe the difference in the quality of chicks i'm seeing.

even though with my fake account the chicks have improved on the fake account it is nothing like what i'm seeing on this one.

a steady stream of 6's, 7's and the occasional 8. its amazing the difference. makes me want to get single.

Post: #527

what city is your fake account in?

Post: #528

(10-23-2011 01:57 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  i logged into my old (real) account just to check something and i can not believe the difference in the quality of chicks i'm seeing.

even though with my fake account the chicks have improved on the fake account it is nothing like what i'm seeing on this one.

a steady stream of 6's, 7's and the occasional 8. its amazing the difference. makes me want to get single.

Because your fake account hasn't been consistently rated as "good looking" by the ladies, right? Once you get rated enough, you get access to better quality ladies...the twats that they are.

Post: #529

where are you seeing the hotter girls? in the searches?

Post: #530

(10-23-2011 01:57 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  i logged into my old (real) account just to check something and i can not believe the difference in the quality of chicks i'm seeing.

even though with my fake account the chicks have improved on the fake account it is nothing like what i'm seeing on this one.

a steady stream of 6's, 7's and the occasional 8. its amazing the difference. makes me want to get single.

OKC success backfires. You get so used to the novelty of a new girl every few weeks that it's impossible to just settle for the boring routines of a really satisfying relationship that makes you happy.

Post: #531

(10-23-2011 02:30 PM)Brian Wrote:  where are you seeing the hotter girls? in the searches?

just on the main page even

Post: #532

(10-23-2011 02:20 PM)Brian Wrote:  what city is your fake account in?

nyc

Post: #533

I've been playing around with my OKC profile recently to see what yielded the best results and regardless of what I've done the results in my home city have been poor. Decided, as an experiment, to change my profile to one of my favourite cities in the world - Sao Paulo. I messaged 3 girls, they all messaged back, and I managed to set up 3 fake dates. I'm obviously in the wrong country.

Post: #534

(10-28-2011 04:56 PM)KingofScotland Wrote:  I've been playing around with my OKC profile recently to see what yielded the best results and regardless of what I've done the results in my home city have been poor. Decided, as an experiment, to change my profile to one of my favourite cities in the world - Sao Paulo. I messaged 3 girls, they all messaged back, and I managed to set up 3 fake dates. I'm obviously in the wrong country.

Shoot me a PM King.

Post: #535

Well its true - I just got this emailed to me....

We just detected that you're now among the most attractive people on OkCupid.

We learned this from clicks to your profile and reactions to you in Quickmatch and Quiver. Did you get a new haircut or something?
Well, it's working!

To celebrate, we've adjusted your OkCupid experience:

You'll see more attractive people in your match results.

This won't affect your match percentages, which are still based purely on your answers and desired match's answers. But we'll recommend more attractive people to you. You'll also appear more often to other attractive people.

Sign in to see your newly-shuffled matches. Have fun, and don't let this go to your head.

Post: #536

Hmm, I took a picture of a really great meal I cooked and it got flagged as inappropriate. Now I have to figure out the mechanics of taking a picture of myself holding the pasta and flipping the camera off so the replacement photo has my face in it. And before I finish the leftovers...

But seriously, what kind of aspie twat goes around flagging the pics people post?

Post: #537

What are your opening messages like? Because I've sent out plenty of messages to different girls and I've had no luck so far.

Post: #538

(11-05-2011 03:14 AM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  What are your opening messages like? Because I've sent out plenty of messages to different girls and I've had no luck so far.

What are you using currently? Is your profile interesting enough? Do you have good quality pics? What age-range are you hitting up?

There are definitely a few standard openers but through trial and error you gotta figure out what exactly is working for you. A lot depends on the kind of profile you have up, meaning the entire picture that one projects must be congruent.

Post: #539

I've tried some internet dating in my country. I was actually going to do a seperate thread based on my success, which given the very unfavorable environment, has been nothing short of excellent.

Besides the fact I think it's a very low-rate of returns for all the effort, I've CONSISTENTLY managed to get the most attractive in girls there to respond to me, give me their numbers, and meet me for a date. So, the environment is total shit, targets are few, but I'm way ahead of the competition.

1. If she has no profile text, I send her the following:

"So, I was just checking out your riveting and compelling profile text - I have to admit I was on the edge of my chair. I just felt like I HAD to write you because we had so much in common. Inspite of all that, in the end it was the picture that convinced me to shoot you a line. So, check out my profile, get an impression, and hit me up."

This is nice guy/beta game. It works because most girls are looking for a relationship in these places. Even if I'm just looking to fuck, it works because she's looking for a witty, intelligent and sweet guy (or so she thinks). Response rate from attractive girls? Close to 100%.

2. If she has more information, I read her profile and I always manage to find something useful to build my message on, but I'm always just tad sarcastic/ironic.

Critical to the above is my profile text and picture. I look quite good on my picture, but I have only 1 photo up. On top of that, I have a very good profile text that explains in no uncertain terms that I am unlike any guys she's know before - WIHTOUT being windy or too descriptive. It's an online version of Roosh's day-game, almost - but more personal.

The picture, the profile and the message combined tell her I'm quite exceptional. Versus all the other freaks on the net, I am basically top 1% for her.

This is setting up the attraction phase of the 3-step attraction-comfort-seduction.

You can do the 50% online, the last 50% (half-comfort and most of the seduction) you do on your date.

But, after all this crap... I still vote for day-game and night game. At least if you can be bothered to groom and dress-up.

Post: #540

Eljefe, I'm not feeling that approach at all. I don't agree that women on OK are looking for serious relationships I'd say that for the most part they don't know what the hell they are looking for.

Post: #541

(11-05-2011 06:55 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Eljefe, I'm not feeling that approach at all. I don't agree that women on OK are looking for serious relationships I'd say that for the most part they don't know what the hell they are looking for.

Yeah, I feel you.

It's hard to translate because it's in danish I write this. Maybe it wouldn't work in the US. For the website I'm checking out, I'm pretty sure they initially want the one-and-only, but after they get messages from all the weirdos, they give that up.

I've just pm'd you pictures of the girls with whom I have dates the coming days - just so you know I'm not full of shit.

Another one: if she loves traveling, I mention so do I - then I tell her in fact, she can come along next time. I need someone to carry the bags.

It's not aloof-asshole in any way, but I have to admit it works. The response rate is nothing short of excellent. Maybe I'm understating the value of my profile in this one.

This is the profile-text I use (my pic is of me at a turtle hatchery in central america holding a baby sea-turtle about 30 minutes old):


GOOGLE TRANSLATED
"I'm a bit of a hedonist"

Crap - so now that I've also signed up for this meat-market, I deserve the punishment that is coming this is a reference to all the losers in there

Well, before I tell about me, let me warn you:

If you like guys who agree with everything you say, lack backbone, use smilies in every other sentence and ridiculous words like "beautiful" and "sweetie" already after the first date, you've come to the wrong place. If you think it's cool with someone who has all the right opinions, it is probably not you and me either....

On the other hand, if you prefer a guy who saves the compliments for the moments and things that count - who has ambitions and both the ability and will-power to realize them, who goes for his dreams, because he doesn't wait for his dreams to come to him, you're on the right track.

If you want to experience the world together with someone who has broad tastes, many interests and a love for knowledge, and you want to enjoy that which can be enjoyed in a world at your feet, then you better grab the keyboard and shoot me a message...

PS. Btw ... turtle in the picture is about. 30 min. old. The soup was excellent...

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

Feminine, beautiful and graceful ...

Incidentally, I need a crowd of helpers to paint an apartment next week. If you look great in overalls (a snowsuit is also fine), hit me up.

Cheesy, but hey... it's wokring.

Post: #542

(11-05-2011 03:40 AM)haywire Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 03:14 AM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  What are your opening messages like? Because I've sent out plenty of messages to different girls and I've had no luck so far.

What are you using currently? Is your profile interesting enough? Do you have good quality pics? What age-range are you hitting up?

There are definitely a few standard openers but through trial and error you gotta figure out what exactly is working for you. A lot depends on the kind of profile you have up, meaning the entire picture that one projects must be congruent.

Well, I can show you guys if you want. I think I look good in my pictures and my profile's kind of short and sweet and to the point but I tried to add in a few things to it that make it look like I have an air of confidence.

Post: #543

(11-05-2011 07:12 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 06:55 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Eljefe, I'm not feeling that approach at all. I don't agree that women on OK are looking for serious relationships I'd say that for the most part they don't know what the hell they are looking for.

Yeah, I feel you.

It's hard to translate because it's in danish I write this. Maybe it wouldn't work in the US. For the website I'm checking out, I'm pretty sure they initially want the one-and-only, but after they get messages from all the weirdos, they give that up.

I've just pm'd you pictures of the girls with whom I have dates the coming days - just so you know I'm not full of shit.

Another one: if she loves traveling, I mention so do I - then I tell her in fact, she can come along next time. I need someone to carry the bags.

It's not aloof-asshole in any way, but I have to admit it works. The response rate is nothing short of excellent. Maybe I'm understating the value of my profile in this one.

This is the profile-text I use (my pic is of me at a turtle hatchery in central america holding a baby sea-turtle about 30 minutes old):


GOOGLE TRANSLATED
"I'm a bit of a hedonist"

Crap - so now that I've also signed up for this meat-market, I deserve the punishment that is coming this is a reference to all the losers in there

Well, before I tell about me, let me warn you:

If you like guys who agree with everything you say, lack backbone, use smilies in every other sentence and ridiculous words like "beautiful" and "sweetie" already after the first date, you've come to the wrong place. If you think it's cool with someone who has all the right opinions, it is probably not you and me either....

On the other hand, if you prefer a guy who saves the compliments for the moments and things that count - who has ambitions and both the ability and will-power to realize them, who goes for his dreams, because he doesn't wait for his dreams to come to him, you're on the right track.

If you want to experience the world together with someone who has broad tastes, many interests and a love for knowledge, and you want to enjoy that which can be enjoyed in a world at your feet, then you better grab the keyboard and shoot me a message...

PS. Btw ... turtle in the picture is about. 30 min. old. The soup was excellent...

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

Feminine, beautiful and graceful ...

Incidentally, I need a crowd of helpers to paint an apartment next week. If you look great in overalls (a snowsuit is also fine), hit me up.

Cheesy, but hey... it's wokring.

Lol, you mind if I try and use that for my profile?

Post: #544

So what do you guys think of this opener?

'Hey you're cute. Got anything going for you other than looks?'

Cheesy I know, but it gets more replies than just commenting on their profile, even though they're not always positive. It was recommended to me by someone who's very much into game and PUA so I was wondering what you guys thought about it. Here's one of the replies I got so far:

'did you not read my profile. I think I make it perfectly clear I have more than just looks. Hm do you have anything more to you than smart ass quips? I think not'

What should I say back to that?

Post: #545

(11-05-2011 12:29 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  So what do you guys think of this opener?

'Hey you're cute. Got anything going for you other than looks?'

Cheesy I know, but it gets more replies than just commenting on their profile, even though they're not always positive. It was recommended to me by someone who's very much into game and PUA so I was wondering what you guys thought about it. Here's one of the replies I got so far:

'did you not read my profile. I think I make it perfectly clear I have more than just looks. Hm do you have anything more to you than smart ass quips? I think not'

What should I say back to that?

Bad line. Don't bring up their looks, even in a roundabout way... unless you're commenting on their style.

Post: #546

(11-05-2011 01:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 12:29 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  So what do you guys think of this opener?

'Hey you're cute. Got anything going for you other than looks?'

Cheesy I know, but it gets more replies than just commenting on their profile, even though they're not always positive. It was recommended to me by someone who's very much into game and PUA so I was wondering what you guys thought about it. Here's one of the replies I got so far:

'did you not read my profile. I think I make it perfectly clear I have more than just looks. Hm do you have anything more to you than smart ass quips? I think not'

What should I say back to that?

Bad line. Don't bring up their looks, even in a roundabout way... unless you're commenting on their style.

I don't get chicks getting off on being mean. If she didn't like the line she could have just ignored it. She just wants to be a bitch.

Post: #547

(11-05-2011 01:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Bad line. Don't bring up their looks, even in a roundabout way... unless you're commenting on their style.

What should I say instead then?

(11-05-2011 01:22 PM)Riker Wrote:  I don't get chicks getting off on being mean. If she didn't like the line she could have just ignored it. She just wants to be a bitch.

Yeah, well I doubt it will work but I replied back saying 'My loooks - duh! '

Post: #548

(11-05-2011 01:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 12:29 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  So what do you guys think of this opener?

'Hey you're cute. Got anything going for you other than looks?'

Cheesy I know, but it gets more replies than just commenting on their profile, even though they're not always positive. It was recommended to me by someone who's very much into game and PUA so I was wondering what you guys thought about it. Here's one of the replies I got so far:

'did you not read my profile. I think I make it perfectly clear I have more than just looks. Hm do you have anything more to you than smart ass quips? I think not'

What should I say back to that?

Bad line. Don't bring up their looks, even in a roundabout way... unless you're commenting on their style.

playing devils advocate here, isn't any line that gets a response in the online world a good line? you gotta figure even an subpar girls getting messaged 40-50 times a week, average talent prolly that in a day, if you get her to respond even negatively you've gotten yourself out of that pile and gotten her attention. I tend to think like you gmac, most girls are fed something about their looks so they'll gloss right over it and if you're not doing it they think why isn't this guy falling all over himself to compliment me but there's different ways to skin a cat, challenging intelligence could be an angle worth at least an experiment.

Post: #549

(11-05-2011 01:44 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 01:11 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Bad line. Don't bring up their looks, even in a roundabout way... unless you're commenting on their style.

What should I say instead then?

(11-05-2011 01:22 PM)Riker Wrote:  I don't get chicks getting off on being mean. If she didn't like the line she could have just ignored it. She just wants to be a bitch.

Yeah, well I doubt it will work but I replied back saying 'My loooks - duh! '

If you can find something in her profile that you thought was cute or endearing, bring that up - any time you can set up the relationship so you're the one chuckling at her, or that she makes you laugh because she's endearing, it's good. It takes her off the pedestal after the million dicks messaging her, and it sets you in a good light after all the stalker types because you're not desperate to fuck her (even if you are), you're a down-to-Earth guy in a world of freaks.

I've discovered that in and of itself is worth a lot. I think what you wrote was the last straw for her. It had nothign to do with you, just the fact she gets a million emails from twerps all day long.

For instance, I just sent this to a VERY attractive looking girl who had a funny picture of herself wearing a strap-on dildo on her forehead:

Me "I just finished building the world's smallest snowman" (thanks, Roissy)

Her "hahahah... okay how did he turn out?"

Me "Like snowmen do when you're defrosting the freezer. he lasted about 3 minutes... better work on the design. I figured you'd bailed from this place. Guess the strap-on was a big hit, huh?"

Her "haha... i guess you better. Yeah, it's been getting ALL the attention... what to do hehe"

Me "Well... if you promise not to wear it, then maybe I'll buy you a coffee or something some time... Just so the other guests don't get frightened. Btw... can you paint?"

Her "hahaha... I promise coffee sounds wonderful!!!!! don't know about painting, it's been awhile"

Me "I need someone to paint my apartment. Bonus for you: the other one helping only speaks Spanish. If you a do good job, I'll make you a dinner..."

Her "Hahaha... is this some other girl you found in here? I think I could be persuaded..."

Me "Yeah, I have a harem of Spanish-speaking girls I found from here. But ok, we have a deal. Give me your number, maybe we'll figure something out"

whereafter number was received

I'd say this girl was a solid 8.5

Post: #550

(11-05-2011 01:52 PM)mikeymike Wrote:  playing devils advocate here, isn't any line that gets a response in the online world a good line? you gotta figure even an subpar girls getting messaged 40-50 times a week, average talent prolly that in a day, if you get her to respond even negatively you've gotten yourself out of that pile and gotten her attention. I tend to think like you gmac, most girls are fed something about their looks so they'll gloss right over it and if you're not doing it they think why isn't this guy falling all over himself to compliment me but there's different ways to skin a cat, challenging intelligence could be an angle worth at least an experiment.

Yes, I'm guessing that's why it was recommended I use that line, but now I guess I'll have to use a better one.