(01-13-2016 08:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  So far my asshole profile has gotten 11 likes and 4 matches. No messages yet though.

Is this above or below the averages?

Well, you guys were right, like clockwork OKC is firing up again, I have a date with a 25 year old girl for the weekend - it'll be my first OKC date in a month.

She looks pretty good and I think there's little chance of her being a SIF unless her pics are years old. Has the standard issue Instagram account of attention whorey pics.

She's running a bit of her own game and not texting me back too quickly, but compared to some of my other experiences, she definitely seems a little too...overeager to meet. I'm worried we may have a Priority One clinger on our hands.

Any tips on running "clinger" game?

(please don't be borderline. or tranny.)

(01-14-2016 05:07 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  

(01-13-2016 08:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  So far my asshole profile has gotten 11 likes and 4 matches. No messages yet though.

Is this above or below the averages?

I wouldn't say any "above" average. Half 4/5's and half 6/7's. The 6/7's were girls that matched me because I liked them. I also have gotten 1 cold message so far from some tattooed 6. I responded playfully but no volley back yet.

EDIT: For the sake of experimentation I did cheat on the first couple of matches I got and I messaged them after we matched. Shirtless pic wearing little clothing and posing like a cocky bastard seems to get the attention - that is what girls have commented on primarily.

Been seeing a lot of this lately:

(01-14-2016 08:05 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Been seeing a lot of this lately:

(01-14-2016 08:05 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Been seeing a lot of this lately:

The fringe coming out of the woodwork, or fake profiles created and promoted to help normalize deviant behavior? Seems poly and open cuckoldry is the next big push.

^ They're probably legit. Mainstream cucking has become a thing thanks to shit like reddit.

(01-14-2016 08:20 PM)thoughtgypsy Wrote:  The fringe coming out of the woodwork, or fake profiles created and promoted to help normalize deviant behavior? Seems poly and open cuckoldry is the next big push.

"poly" girls in "open relationships" looking to get down with new guys while their main dude is out of town are some of the easiest lays on the site, just sayin'.

Agreed

Just a new angle chicks have dreamed up to get new dick,and have it digitally co-signed by their closet homo hubby

(01-14-2016 08:58 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Agreed

Just a new angle chicks have dreamed up to get new dick,and have it digitally co-signed by their closet homo hubby

You could probably make a full-time career running online game on that type of "ethically non-monogamous" girl in this area if you really wanted to. Problem is it will be all "5"s and "6"s, at best, all the time.

Question for the guys who have gamed Brazilian girls online...

A very attractive Brasiliera has a profile posted that she is going to be coming to my area in a few months to nanny. She states she is looking for friends and wants to practice her English over Skype before she gets here.

I read on another thread here on the Forum something about guys getting blackmailed somehow from girls they Skyped with. Was this the set up?

If not and it is legit how to proceed. I am sure she has already had many betas volunteer. I'm older than her stated age range but I figure since she is South American it won't be as big a deal. Game her online as I would any other girl or do Brazilians respond to something different? Thanks.

CP

I have a nice little bpd running a mix now... hah hah hah... she's a nice modern goth girl.... very astute....

(01-14-2016 07:42 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(01-14-2016 05:07 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  

(01-13-2016 08:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  So far my asshole profile has gotten 11 likes and 4 matches. No messages yet though.

Is this above or below the averages?

I wouldn't say any "above" average. Half 4/5's and half 6/7's. The 6/7's were girls that matched me because I liked them. I also have gotten 1 cold message so far from some tattooed 6. I responded playfully but no volley back yet.

EDIT: For the sake of experimentation I did cheat on the first couple of matches I got and I messaged them after we matched. Shirtless pic wearing little clothing and posing like a cocky bastard seems to get the attention - that is what girls have commented on primarily.

As expected. Girls are so full of shit when it comes to shirtless pics.

Did you ever run a suited up profile? Thought you mentioned you might do that as well. Be interesting to know the results of shirtless vs suited up and what kind of girls it attracts.

(01-15-2016 03:05 AM)Black_Eagle_Six Wrote:  I have a nice little bpd running a mix now... hah hah hah... she's a nice modern goth girl.... very astute....

Fuck yeah, what could go wrong

Question for you guys.

Chatting to a chick on OKC, and got her kik. BUT we can't meetup for 2-3 weeks for logistical reasons.

So, how do I keep her interested for that long, without having a face to face meet? I can see myself becoming friendzoned here.

Ping her once a week. Or you can try calling her, work on your phone game(call her once or twice over the 3 weeks until you can actually meet up). Be cocky/funny and not take anything too seriously.

And for fucks sake, keep gaming other women.

(01-15-2016 06:57 AM)Aussie_Thinker Wrote:  Question for you guys.

Chatting to a chick on OKC, and got her kik. BUT we can't meetup for 2-3 weeks for logistical reasons.

So, how do I keep her interested for that long, without having a face to face meet? I can see myself becoming friendzoned here.

As eradicator basically said, I'd just ghost on her until two weeks rolls around and then hit her up. That's the only way I've ever pulled (one) date out of a situation like that. Texting back and forth with her daily will get you nowhere. I don't mind texting back and forth a little bit with an online chick to "build comfort", but ONLY if she's agreed to the meet and we have the day and time finalized (as much as one possibly can with these flakey girls.) Doing that when she hasn't specifically agreed to anything on her end will just get you executed (you have firmly planted yourself in the Land of Thirst.)

Not sure exactly what the "logistical" reasons are - are they on her side or yours? If it's some excuse she's given you as to why she can't meet until then ( I'm going on vacation, my mom's in town, I'm getting banged on alternate Saturdays) I almost always consider it a lost cause and move on. She ain't really doing anything, you're just a low priority option, or she can't figure out how she feels about you, and she's trying to schedule you as a backup/waiting until she figures her shit out.

2 weeks is an eternity in online dating land. She won't even remember your name in 2 weeks.

God damn if I haven't heard the "I'm going to be on vacation/out of town" line enough times. The travel industry must really be booming. Maybe you should be packing your bags instead of texting on OKC all night, lady.

BTW: the "friendzone" is a prison of one's own construction. Nobody can do it to you except yourself.

(01-15-2016 06:57 AM)Aussie_Thinker Wrote:  So, how do I keep her interested for that long, without having a face to face meet?

Bold for emphasis. The answer is - you don't. It's a wrongheaded approach that is contrary to the philosophy of this forum. There is no way that you're going to keep some online chick interested in you for several weeks without having a face to face meet, unless you're something absolutely off the chain remarkable (and not many of us are on that level), or she's just validating and emotionally fucking with you. Or wants a sugar daddy.

It's a trap I've fallen into as well with some really good looking girls. "Oh God, if I can only keep chatting with her on Kik until she's back from 'vacation', we'll go out and I'll get the lay." Nope, it almost never works that way. It's a truism that the harder you chase, the more they'll fall all over themselves to keep themselves out of your reach.

The same thing happens in reverse to me sometimes with less desirable girls - I'll be interested for a while but then a better option will present itself and I'll ghost/bail on them. And then they get anxious and come visit my profile repeatedly or send me text messages, almost coming right out and saying "Hellllooo? Where are youuu? I'm DTF, talk to meeeeee..."

It's sort of sad, but it seems to be the way it is.

Met a girl on this last night. Definitely an 8/10 girl really good looks. So I did what I did best, negative expressions for about an hour at the bar. She absolutely loved it and couldn't stop smiling and giggling. I told her let's go somewhere else. Took a taxi, went to a bar which had live music playing "it's too loud here let's go somewhere else". Walked to my place 2 minutes away. Played music, resisted escalating at all aside from flirtation. Eventually got close to her and started kissing I pulled back with her left with her tongue sticking out. I went back in and rubbed her pussy as she was rubbing my cock over the jeans. I took it out and sucked on her tits. But that's pretty much as far as I got with her a handjob which I smudged over her face. She was wet as fuck and told me I turn her on yet she gave me the I don't have sex on first meet line and said she's "not a prostitute". Which is fair enough if there was a chance of seeing her again, which with modern woman is probably 0. In the old days I would have respected those words. I told her that I'm off on a "business trip" for a few days so I'll hit her up when I'm back.

At the same time I'm a bit of out of commision at the moment my doctor said I have a few genital warp spots (above the genitals). Apparently it takes 6 months on average for them to appear so who knows where that's from probably a girl I was with in New York last summer. I got them frozen off and they'll be gone but it's a bit of a pain. Possibly the first STD I've ever gotten.

(01-15-2016 02:44 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  At the same time I'm a bit of out of commision at the moment my doctor said I have a few genital warp spots (above the genitals). Apparently it takes 6 months on average for them to appear so who knows where that's from probably a girl I was with in New York last summer. I got them frozen off and they'll be gone but it's a bit of a pain. Possibly the first STD I've ever gotten.

"Doctor, I have been laying strange attractive women with impunity via online dating sites. Is there a way to keep this from happening again? Is science making progress in this area? I believe this is one of the more pressing medical questions of our age."

One other thing for the newbie above - it's not totally impossible to pull a date (and hopefully a lay) out of some of these flakey attention hoes, so long as you push hard early and don't self-qualify yourself into being her attention ho (like accepting a Kik thing as a consolation prize and not a phone number and commitment.) Some of them are definitely using that tactic as a kind of "shit test" to get you to either qualify yourself, or knock your own ass out of the running.

Same goes for real life. If a woman at a bar offers you her FB account after you run game on her for a while, you look at her like she's out of her mind.

If anyone wants to PM me I could send you a full exchange of the game I used to drag a date out of a chick of this type a while back.

(01-14-2016 11:36 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  Question for the guys who have gamed Brazilian girls online...
I read on another thread here on the Forum something about guys getting blackmailed somehow from girls they Skyped with. Was this the set up?

Assuming you're not married or in a LTR, how's some girl from South America you've never met going to blackmail you? Send screencaps of your wiener to all your Facebook friends?

I wouldn't worry about it. Most people (particularly women) lock down their social media accounts; some bitch from Brazil couldn't text them a dick pic no matter how hard she tried.

I don't like OKC at all, I find the quality to be pretty low overall. I've had much better results with Badoo, though. The location-based 'encounters' and people nearby seem to show a higher quality on Badoo. Maybe it's just my personal preference, who knows.

Met another new girl for coffee in the afternoon, managed to turn it around by getting her back to my place. Followed the first date recipe to the T but she wouldn't even kiss, 3 hours of my life wasted. I could tell she was into me even in the first 5 seconds but some girls are just there for the attention or just want an adventure/new experience. She tried to shame me into getting her a taxi, I accompanied her to the nearest train station.

I've recently kicked off two of my three plates as they just weren't up to scratch looks wise, and still with the 8 girl from SA who is truly a diamond in the rough. OKCupid is going down the shitter.

(01-17-2016 07:12 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  Met another new girl for coffee in the afternoon, managed to turn it around by getting her back to my place. Followed the first date recipe to the T but she wouldn't even kiss, 3 hours of my life wasted. I could tell she was into me even in the first 5 seconds but some girls are just there for the attention or just want an adventure/new experience. She tried to shame me into getting her a taxi, I accompanied her to the nearest train station.

I've recently kicked off two of my three plates as they just weren't up to scratch looks wise, and still with the 8 girl from SA who is truly a diamond in the rough. OKCupid is going down the shitter.

As OKC continues its slow decline into an attention whoring/Facebook Lite/poorly coded instant messaging platform, one can only hope that something will arise to take its place. Though I haven't used it, from what I've heard, I'm not sure that Tinder is that place anymore, either.

There will always be young women looking to actually hook up instead of seek validation, and men willing to oblige them. Where there's a market, there's a product.

Maybe Roosh's next project should be to launch a dating app.