Post: #1101

(01-05-2016 12:16 AM)DD2015 Wrote:  I don't agree about lying about your age. It shows you have a lack of confidence. It can also lead to non-congruence which they will spot a mile off even if they can't put their finger on it.

Younger girls who like older guys don't care at ALL, and you can always list your age as 39. As others [incl me] have found 30 is the same as ~40 to them. They just want you to be over 25-27 and have a job where you can buy them something non-pizza non-Mickey Ds.

Frankly, from talking to college girls the guys who do the worst online are the younger guys. I've flat out told girls they were exactly half my age and it didn't stop them from stripping down and kneeling down in front of me.

Plus online you can see if they're getting fat or not and screen them out. You should be the one screening them for age and looks, not the reverse. If you're 41 and want to say you're 39, I understand that. But shaving 10 years off is a bit silly if you have self-confidence in your value.

I brought up this topic a few weeks ago when I turned 40. I am glad to see some dialogue on it. I see both sides of the coin. I have recently stopped lying about my age and I haven't noticed a difference thus far. For what it is worth, I understand Krauser goes by his real age.

Post: #1102

I've tried different methods with the age thing myself. You definitely can be screened out by your age with younger women on dating sights. Currently I have my age 8 years younger than reality. I tell women my real age on the second date after making out but before the bang. I have a pretty solid formula for second date lays from online dating. About 15% of younger women are really into older guys, for these women your age won't matter at all once she meets you although they might still screen you out before hand. Another 25% of younger women find guys over 30 gross and won't get with you no matter what. The other 60% of women will consider an older guy if he checks the right boxes. It will be very hard to get access to this last group if you use your real age on online dating sights. But, I would definitely recommend coming clean before the bang as this will avoid drama or even worse.

Post: #1103

About the age thing.

I'm too gutless to do Tinder or any form of online game.I believe that my advantage lies in bar/lounge and 24/7 game.I'm too ugly or not photogenic for online game.Its a weak spot for me and I will put some work in

So I grind it out on the street.If you want younger then go out ,get fit.
My age does not come into it most of the time.There is no use explaining it if you don't go out.
I truely look my age in the morning after I get up so I got to be gone like Cinderalla..

I work with these 3 guys one is 44 but looks 54 one is 47 but looks 57.They don't train they are both blue pill fat and grey.The other dude is my age but gets away with late 30s like me.He trains ,watches what he eats and is on point with style..Combined with a young attitude.He is on Tinder..he kills it.

He can't solo like I can though and I still get younger than he does because I'm out in the venues and I love it.I believe that is the key too..I love it.

18 -19 does my head they are from another planet.I prefer 23ish up and make no mistake it comes with a high failure rate at times..I'm not into Asian chicks as I find them boring.
Yes I will lie and say 37 or 38...not looking for a LTR..big deal.
I get hit up by young dudes asking me how I do it as I'm their dad's age..I will discuss redpill with these young dudes..Also if you want younger then have younger mates or interact with younger dudes more.Some of the younger guys have been into game way longer than me and have insights.
Its taken me 2 years and 3 overseas (Europe and USA) trips to get to this stage..The number of times I now see I was in the gun for a threesome makes me sick.I didn't see it because of my limiting beliefs my lack of entitlement.

My ex wife said women only go to the gym to pick up..She is kinda right.Thats another place and bullshit you don't have to be jacked there..fit but not jacked.Just show work ethic and look for IOIs..I've just woken up to the gym.The problem there was I was thinking like a man.

Google Yareally ,that guy is right on point about going out it's not funny.. and the bar scene I saw in the US is second to none.

I get blown off by women my own age so much it just is not funny...they are looking for a younger guy to fuck and validate them lol.When I say I'm 37 they want to fuck me when the truth about my age comes it's "I'm not like that"..The women my age on my FB always comment on my age when I see them."Oh you've aged"
That's to bring me down as their husbands all live through me..."I bring news of freedom".

It was fucken hard yards though mentally and financially but the growth was worth it..
And that is the thing do you want growth?At our age it must be about growth as the underlining factor.

Younger, hotter ,tighter as Krauser says.

Post: #1104

(01-04-2016 08:50 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(01-03-2016 07:34 PM)goonies Wrote:  Do you guys always lie about your age? That's one of my sticking points. I'm insecure about it and afraid it will scare them off.

I wrote about this in another thread: Here's my 2 cents

/thread-52341...pid1172031

Quote:Bottom line OP: I understand your reservations about being dishonest or manipulative. But I also know that any girl that gets to be in my life for a significant period of time will enjoy it. The only time I've ever had a complaint about my age after the fact was when they were on the way out. That says it all to me

Here are a few ways to handle the question

1A. Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough not to get involved with superficial women" (I call this my 180 deg pivot...get her to start qualifying to you)

1.B Girl: "I think you're too old for me" (Statement slightly different than 1 A question)

PT: "The question isn't whether I'm too old for you. The question is whether you're mature enough for me" (Classic but still effective)

2.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough to bend you over my knee and give you a good spanking if I need to"
(I use that one if I suspect underlying daddy issues/older guy fantasy)

3.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old / mature enough not to let what my friends or family think keep me from doing what I want"

(I refer to that one as a "cock block inoculation" if girl is around others. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to banging younger women that might otherwise want to)


There are many others. Pivot/ deflect or ignore. Keeps the mystery/potential/tingles alive

Let me clarify. I don't do online so the age question only comes up IRL for me. Not always but when it does I treat the age question as purely what it is...another shit test...as far as I'm concerned. I don't lie about it but then again if you're responding to random chicks' questions with direct answers...you're doing it wrong

Post: #1105

(12-21-2015 01:43 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  North America is uber competitive for dating young "desirable" women, I am in my late 40s and luckily don't look it.

I think SEA is my very last resort, I can still do damage in most of Europe.

There is always Latin America, Caribbean, Central America and other parts of Asia.

Eating right should be a way of life by now, not an option.
Gym or some sort of vigourous exercise is a must, get the heart rate up and increase testosterone.

I find many men in their 40s aren't ready to do battle, heck even my friends in their late 30s have given up.

Damn homie, I thought you were in your mid to late 20s given the energy in your posts.

Post: #1106

(01-06-2016 04:40 AM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  Nice to see this site with some input from those of us who are a longer in the tooth. I am over 50 myself and I date only those who are 29 and younger (well 98% of the time). The 23-26 range really keeps my engines roaring especially since they have minimum drag. I have found that having status (reputation, power, money) is primary as well as a more youthful look, particularly a more flattened stomach. Ripped abs are possible gentlemen with a good diet and solid exercise, body fat is the issue. As always genetics help, and what they now call solid game is icing on the cake.

Having women seems so much easier to me now than it has been in the last 30 years, I hope that is encouraging. Of course it is different. Women seem to be much weaker now on an internal level, probably due to social decay and a general lack of character. This begs the question of the worthiness of these women to be with any man; much less a man of accomplishment, but you can be the judge of that.

I have touched all seven continents; to include over 150 countries, and have planted my flag is a fair percentage of those counties. My suggestion for the younger guys reading this is to look toward South America, Central America, and South East Asia. Actually, that would still be my suggestion for others as well. If anyone is interested just ask. I have homes on 3 continents and I sail and fly between them.

It is personally very difficult for me to run anything other than ´ I do not give a crap´ game for the females in the US and Canada because they are not worthy of my time unless they are involved in an activity that I am already doing. Some Southern European game can be fun (particularly in Spain and Italy), as well as Eastern European game (particularly in Romania and Ukraine). I find that the beauties of various islands around the world (whether it be the Caribbean, North Pacific, South Pacific or Indian Ocean, the Mediterranean is interesting) to be good fishing prospects as they do not carry as much modern baggage and they seem to handle their baggage in a way that encourages me to allow them to spent more time in my company. My two cents, for what it is worth.

audentis fortuna iuvat.

Even though it's a recurring theme here. I don't think it can be said enough the difference between American/Canadian women and girls from these places you've mentioned. While my foreign travel experience isn't that extensive, I find that foreign born women living in the US are far more feminine and sweet. Unfortunately with time many but certainly not all, do get corrupted by American culture( my Irish born soon to be ex wife is exhibit A for this). When you meet these women in their native habitats so to speak (i.e. their own countries), the feminine energy these girls have is unreal. American women have gotten so entitled and have such terrible attitudes that I won't even hire them in my business if I can avoid it. Just makes me lament the current state of affairs here.

Post: #1107

Yes, I am new to this man-o-sphere stuff, but I find it very cool that this is available to men and I am glad to share experiences. I am sure that many people have travelled and have more detailed experiences and there is nothing new under the sun. If you study tribal cultures, you will notice that men normally share stories. It is modern western culture that is more abnormal. Storytelling is a basic human action that promotes the existence of the tribe. Hollywood is an attempt to fill (or replace) that basic part of humanity.

I had to look up DHV. Yes, I believe that is so, but I say basic things to women if they ask about what I did, as they need to prove their worth to me in order to hear more details about my life. It is like combat stories, you do not go spouting off as it serves no purpose if there is no frame of reference. I view it as I am investing my life in talking to a women or sharing my time and I am not going to waste my life on of a cute piece of ass; and I like a cute ass. My attention and my time are my most precious commodities; considering that I am still here. How much of an investment of my attention and time is always the critical path. If a larger point or part can be made or the conversation can be enhanced through one of my experiences, then I go into storytelling mode and relieve the experience.

Where have I been hiding you ask jokingly? I guess that I have been living my life. Going off to war six times, or floating around on an aircraft carrier for 6-10 months at a time, or being sequestered at out of the way bases for 10-12 months because of my test pilot duties take good chunks out of two and a half decades. I do not use electronic media that often, so this is a relatively new thing for me (other than basic e-mail). I am a voracious reader who has been retired for a good number of years now. I was sailing on the ocean for a solid 3 years stopping for short periods of 3-10 days. After that I was at one residence for 4 months, sailed half way around the world for 2 months, stayed at a second residence for another 4 months, then a second 2 month sail the other way around the world to return to the first residence. I did this for a few years. Now I am staying put for 3-6 months at a time and maybe longer as I have visas for many countries. I have had women on the boat during a good percentage my sailing adventures (sometimes more than 1) and sometimes with only male friends and yet other times with a boat of mixed friends. Sometimes I just sailed alone. I can write more about this if others are interested.

Methods for me meeting women are really basic for me, but I will elaborate. I honestly have too many females with which contend. I am an active guy and my philosophy has always been that I am going to live my life, which is an extension of my dreams (sailing and flying are two examples). I am the main character in the story of my life and others are supporting characters of varying importance. I do not say this in an arrogant fashion, rather with strong self-esteem and a basic acknowledgement that my life is mine (and your life is yours). You have the same 24 hours per day that I do, live those days well my brothers. I am personally satisfied with my life and the only thing that I wish I had less of, is the death of some really close friends. So, I am simply living my life around my activities and I meet women during these activities.

In regard to physical activities, I am an athlete and I continue to be involved at a competitive level. I was an international level swimmer and often train twice per day with younger athletes (frequently with the countries national team or athletes). So I am with 20-25 good looking females (as well as another 20-25 males) between the ages of 19-27 for 2-5 hours per day, 5 days per week and on Saturday for 3 hours. This opens up numerous social opportunities (which I can expand upon). Sure I get my ass kicked regularly (in training), but who cares, I do it because I still can and I truly enjoy it. I am a surfer and I have surfed around the world. I was surfing today and I will be surfing tomorrow. There is a 20´s crowd, a 30´s and 40´s crowd and in some places there is a 50´s crowd. I would say that 80% of the time I am with the 20´s crowd and I meet hot women almost every single day. I am not shredding like I did in the past decades, but I hold my own.

I also look significantly younger (thank you genetics) than I am chronologically. I still have my high and tight military haircut that turns that surfer sandy blonde out in the sun, so those little greys do not show up. If I am the foreigner (which I often am) mixing it with the locals, I am often a novelty and they girls are on me like white on rice (I like brown rice as well). Surfers like to party and are tribal. If you are accepted in the tribe, you are in like Flint.

I am also a competitive two man sand volleyball player. After surfing today, I was practicing spiking drill with a few of the locals (guys in their mid to late 20´s) that I have gotten to know over time; when this stunning, nubile 18 year old came up and started to chat me up about some engineering stuff. I found out she had been checking up on me, so this was planned frontal assault. Normally, I do not like them that young as they tend to be immature and I do not want to put up with that, but hey, she had done some research, came at me directly and speaks as though she has another 10 years of experience. There is no way I am going to turn down a tight 18 year-old that makes the grade and will make for a great memory in 20 years. We are going out Friday to a local beach bar for drinks and a little dancing. Afterwards my patented late night swim (frolic) in the ocean will lead to nocturnal activities, after which I will show up late to surf like a tired dog, and the other surfers will laugh and me as I nap in a hammock because they can hammer 3 times a night while twice for me is a strong showing.

Now as for what I do when I am interacting with (gaming) them, that is more detailed, but I am willing to share with the tribe. Also there are other activities that are more mental and activities that are more social.

audentis fortuna iuvat.

Post: #1108

With regard to younger women and the age issue, my father gave me a nugget of gold on this one when I was a young man; If they do not like you, Fuck ém. I found this to be solid, so thanks dad. My experience has shown me that about 20% of Latin American women will have an issue with you simply because you are (or look) older. As if 80% of Latin American women are not enough to satisfy. With Asian women it varies from 20-30 percent depending on the development and westernization of the country with more development and westernization being a higher percentage. Vietnam and Thailand are different from South Korea and Japan. European women vary greatly between 20-40 percent (in general Eastern Europe is less than Western Europe. In North America (Canada and the US) it is closer to 30-40%. I generally assume that in Europe and North America, they want the financial goodies that you can provide as part of the package. I am of the opinion that it is a social construct in their head and most probably will not change due to status, looks or game. When I see these signs from a woman, I put another roll of numbers on my mental meat counter and silently say, next.

Post: #1109

(01-04-2016 08:50 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(01-03-2016 07:34 PM)goonies Wrote:  Do you guys always lie about your age? That's one of my sticking points. I'm insecure about it and afraid it will scare them off.

I wrote about this in another thread: Here's my 2 cents

/thread-52341...pid1172031

Quote:Bottom line OP: I understand your reservations about being dishonest or manipulative. But I also know that any girl that gets to be in my life for a significant period of time will enjoy it. The only time I've ever had a complaint about my age after the fact was when they were on the way out. That says it all to me

Here are a few ways to handle the question

1A. Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough not to get involved with superficial women" (I call this my 180 deg pivot...get her to start qualifying to you)

1.B Girl: "I think you're too old for me" (Statement slightly different than 1 A question)

PT: "The question isn't whether I'm too old for you. The question is whether you're mature enough for me" (Classic but still effective)

2.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough to bend you over my knee and give you a good spanking if I need to"
(I use that one if I suspect underlying daddy issues/older guy fantasy)

3.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old / mature enough not to let what my friends or family think keep me from doing what I want"

(I refer to that one as a "cock block inoculation" if girl is around others. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to banging younger women that might otherwise want to)


There are many others. Pivot/ deflect or ignore. Keeps the mystery/potential/tingles alive

This is gold. I'm stealing them! Can you elaborate a bit on the reactions you got with reply about spanking the girl's ass?

Post: #1110

Man crush on NASA Test Pilot confirmed. No homo

Thanks for contributing!

Post: #1111

(01-04-2016 08:50 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(01-03-2016 07:34 PM)goonies Wrote:  Do you guys always lie about your age? That's one of my sticking points. I'm insecure about it and afraid it will scare them off.

I wrote about this in another thread: Here's my 2 cents

/thread-52341...pid1172031

Quote:Bottom line OP: I understand your reservations about being dishonest or manipulative. But I also know that any girl that gets to be in my life for a significant period of time will enjoy it. The only time I've ever had a complaint about my age after the fact was when they were on the way out. That says it all to me

Here are a few ways to handle the question

1A. Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough not to get involved with superficial women" (I call this my 180 deg pivot...get her to start qualifying to you)

1.B Girl: "I think you're too old for me" (Statement slightly different than 1 A question)

PT: "The question isn't whether I'm too old for you. The question is whether you're mature enough for me" (Classic but still effective)

2.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old enough to bend you over my knee and give you a good spanking if I need to"
(I use that one if I suspect underlying daddy issues/older guy fantasy)

3.Girl: "So How old are you?"

PT: "Old / mature enough not to let what my friends or family think keep me from doing what I want"

(I refer to that one as a "cock block inoculation" if girl is around others. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to banging younger women that might otherwise want to)


There are many others. Pivot/ deflect or ignore. Keeps the mystery/potential/tingles alive

Nice post.

1B and 2 are the best ones. I will incorporate them.


1A is attacking

3 is defensive.



But if they work for you, go for it.

Post: #1112

(01-06-2016 05:38 PM)Dantes Wrote:  For what it is worth, I understand Krauser goes by his real age.

I was listening to one of his podcasts recently where he said he tells the younger girls (I'd imagine late teens/early 20s) that he's 30.

Post: #1113

A tagline I use on the dating sites, where the woman can only read the first sentence in the description:

"Just finalized my divorce, looking to meet some new friends"

The finalized divorce line is like throwing chum in the water. They show up (and initiate) in droves.

Post: #1114

You want to look younger?
No sugar.
No grains.
Drink plenty of water.
Get 7-8 hours of sleep a night.
Drink in moderation.
Don't smoke.
[/quote]

So true vinman. I would add living an active life (or excercise), breathing fresh air and getting regular sunlight (be outside).

audentis fortuna iuvat.

Post: #1115

(01-07-2016 07:06 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(01-06-2016 05:38 PM)Dantes Wrote:  For what it is worth, I understand Krauser goes by his real age.

I was listening to one of his podcasts recently where he said he tells the younger girls (I'd imagine late teens/early 20s) that he's 30.

This makes sense. Girls in this age range usually guess that I am 30. Stating my real age could mean I am the same age as her father,as I often found in Russia.

Post: #1116

(01-07-2016 12:38 AM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  Yes, I am new to this man-o-sphere stuff, but I find it very cool that this is available to men and I am glad to share experiences. I am sure that many people have travelled and have more detailed experiences and there is nothing new under the sun. If you study tribal cultures, you will notice that men normally share stories. It is modern western culture that is more abnormal. Storytelling is a basic human action that promotes the existence of the tribe. Hollywood is an attempt to fill (or replace) that basic part of humanity.

I had to look up DHV. Yes, I believe that is so, but I say basic things to women if they ask about what I did, as they need to prove their worth to me in order to hear more details about my life. It is like combat stories, you do not go spouting off as it serves no purpose if there is no frame of reference. I view it as I am investing my life in talking to a women or sharing my time and I am not going to waste my life on of a cute piece of ass; and I like a cute ass. My attention and my time are my most precious commodities; considering that I am still here. How much of an investment of my attention and time is always the critical path. If a larger point or part can be made or the conversation can be enhanced through one of my experiences, then I go into storytelling mode and relieve the experience.

Where have I been hiding you ask jokingly? I guess that I have been living my life. Going off to war six times, or floating around on an aircraft carrier for 6-10 months at a time, or being sequestered at out of the way bases for 10-12 months because of my test pilot duties take good chunks out of two and a half decades. I do not use electronic media that often, so this is a relatively new thing for me (other than basic e-mail). I am a voracious reader who has been retired for a good number of years now. I was sailing on the ocean for a solid 3 years stopping for short periods of 3-10 days. After that I was at one residence for 4 months, sailed half way around the world for 2 months, stayed at a second residence for another 4 months, then a second 2 month sail the other way around the world to return to the first residence. I did this for a few years. Now I am staying put for 3-6 months at a time and maybe longer as I have visas for many countries. I have had women on the boat during a good percentage my sailing adventures (sometimes more than 1) and sometimes with only male friends and yet other times with a boat of mixed friends. Sometimes I just sailed alone. I can write more about this if others are interested.

Methods for me meeting women are really basic for me, but I will elaborate. I honestly have too many females with which contend. I am an active guy and my philosophy has always been that I am going to live my life, which is an extension of my dreams (sailing and flying are two examples). I am the main character in the story of my life and others are supporting characters of varying importance. I do not say this in an arrogant fashion, rather with strong self-esteem and a basic acknowledgement that my life is mine (and your life is yours). You have the same 24 hours per day that I do, live those days well my brothers. I am personally satisfied with my life and the only thing that I wish I had less of, is the death of some really close friends. So, I am simply living my life around my activities and I meet women during these activities.

In regard to physical activities, I am an athlete and I continue to be involved at a competitive level. I was an international level swimmer and often train twice per day with younger athletes (frequently with the countries national team or athletes). So I am with 20-25 good looking females (as well as another 20-25 males) between the ages of 19-27 for 2-5 hours per day, 5 days per week and on Saturday for 3 hours. This opens up numerous social opportunities (which I can expand upon). Sure I get my ass kicked regularly (in training), but who cares, I do it because I still can and I truly enjoy it. I am a surfer and I have surfed around the world. I was surfing today and I will be surfing tomorrow. There is a 20´s crowd, a 30´s and 40´s crowd and in some places there is a 50´s crowd. I would say that 80% of the time I am with the 20´s crowd and I meet hot women almost every single day. I am not shredding like I did in the past decades, but I hold my own.

I also look 15, if not 20 years younger (thank you genetics) than I am chronologically. I still have my high and tight military haircut that turns that surfer sandy blonde out in the sun, so those little greys do not show up. If I am the foreigner (which I often am) mixing it with the locals, I am often a novelty and they girls are on me like white on rice (I like brown rice as well). Surfers like to party and are tribal. If you are accepted in the tribe, you are in like Flint.

I am also a competitive two man sand volleyball player. After surfing today, I was practicing spiking drill with a few of the locals (guys in their mid to late 20´s) that I have gotten to know over time; when this stunning, nubile 18 year old came up and started to chat me up about some engineering stuff. I found out she had been checking up on me, so this was planned frontal assault. Normally, I do not like them that young as they tend to be immature and I do not want to put up with that, but hey, she had done some research, came at me directly and speaks as though she has another 10 years of experience. There is no way I am going to turn down a tight 18 year-old that makes the grade and will make for a great memory in 20 years. We are going out Friday to a local beach bar for drinks and a little dancing. Afterwards my patented late night swim (frolic) in the ocean will lead to nocturnal activities, after which I will show up late to surf like a tired dog, and the other surfers will laugh and me as I nap in a hammock because they can hammer 3 times a night while twice for me is a strong showing.

Now as for what I do when I am interacting with (gaming) them, that is more detailed, but I am willing to share with the tribe. Also there are other activities that are more mental and activities that are more social.

audentis fortuna iuvat.

P.S. This seems like a lot of writing. I do not mind as it flows right out. If some can comment on length of things I would be appreciative.

Nice introduction. I am glad you found the Forum and I look forward to your future posts.

Post: #1117

"I am also a competitive two man sand volleyball player"

Wow who knew Navy Pilots (Naval Aviators) actually did play volley ball in their spare time. Great Post!

Post: #1118

@NASATESTPILOT

I was wondering if you can expand on the social opportunities you referenced with swimming?
I imagine this is a close knit environment where everyone knows what everyone else is doing?

What events do you compete in - pool? Triathlon?

Post: #1119

All is fair in love and war:

Sun Tzu

https://suntzublog.wordpress.com/2009/12...deception/

All Warfare Is Based Upon Deception

Adapted for the Neomasculine man:

"When engaged in love or war, every large deception you make is built on every smaller deception you have already made. Having seduced the woman into deceiving herself as to your strength, disposition, intention, activity, and location, you lead her around calmly and effortlessly as if leading a donkey via a dangling carrot. You show your seductee what she wishes to see, and she decides, purely by herself, that it is so; in this way, you deceive without ever having spoken a word to her, without ever having “lied” in the conventional sense. You have assisted her in lying to herself. Thus, believing her own overconfident conclusions, she is completely at your mercy."

Post: #1120

Alot of these younger women I date like to meet late. I can still go kind of late, but get sleepy earlier than I used to. I sometimes drink a coffee before I go out.

I have a date tonight at 10 with a young woman. I'm thinking of taking a nap late afternoon to be rested up. Any of you guys do things like this (naps before dates/ coffee or caffeine?)

Post: #1121

You just described my pre date routine. Most of my first dates are on weeknights and I'm lucky to work from home. I usually finish up around 4pm and will take a 1-2 hour nap, eat dinner, shower and then usually have a cup of coffee or 5 hour energy. I turned 44 late last year and I just can't do late nights like I used to without pre planning.

Post: #1122

Robreke

For late night dates I always take a two hour nap before . I try to minimize the late nights during the week.

Post: #1123

Where are you guys meeting women besides online? Anyone still going out to clubs? I'm tired of the club scene and my hangovers are getting worse and worse. Meetup events?

Post: #1124

Mostly Daygame, some online, very little night game. Learning Daygame a few years ago changed my life

Post: #1125

(01-09-2016 03:35 PM)The_CEO Wrote:  @NASATESTPILOT

I was wondering if you can expand on the social opportunities you referenced with swimming?
I imagine this is a close knit environment where everyone knows what everyone else is doing?

What events do you compete in - pool? Triathlon?

Sure CEO. Give me a few days and I will post something on the social opportunities. Funny one of those opportunities just opened up for me on my outing with that hot little 18 year old that I went out with last night. Maybe I will give the tribe a SitRep (Situational Report) on that one as well.

In the pool it was the mainly the 1500m, 800m (although normally this was not a competitive event for men), 400m, and 200m Freestyle. I was also competitive in the 200m butterfly and ventured in to the 100m fly (but lacked the fast twitch genetics to be competitive internationally). I started swimming at age 4 and competing at age 6. I like (d) to train the 400 IM also as it helps my distance free and reduces injuries when my yardage is up. The main issue competing in that event was eating wake on the breaststroke leg. I do some open water swimming (ocean) but not as much competing as I only have so much time. Retirement is a full time job Gents.

I did do some triathlons but that was in the 80´s and I did mostly the Tinman (half Ironman) distances. Biking is really the key when you consider how much time you spend in each event. Making up 5 minutes on the bike is easy when compared to trying to make up 5 minutes in the swim. I think that it is a great activity with lots of physical and social benefits, but be mindful of lowering testosterone levels as most adults tend to over-train as they begin to pick up the sport in their 30´s and it is an over endurance activity.