Post: #1026

(11-07-2015 09:17 AM)reco2100 Wrote:  By the way Vaun how do you respond when she sends you lots of snapchats? I had a chick last year doing that. Do you make a distinction when the pics or snapchats are sexy or not?

I smirk at them and mildly react to them, sexy or not. I rarely if ever engage in sexual texts unless I am regularly boning a chick, and having active sex together.

Post: #1027

Hi,

You guys who do the internet dating thing, do you post on CL? Photos?

Post: #1028

Hey BMW 633 I have a brand new gas tank for a BMW 633 pm me if you need it.

edit: Duh I should've pm'd that.

Post: #1029

I will PM you about gas tank.

Post: #1030

(11-05-2015 09:05 AM)reco2100 Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 09:59 PM)DD2015 Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 01:47 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  This report warms the corners of my heart I'm turning 44 soon and am close to coming off of a three month self induced game hiatus. I'm in my second month of lifting twice a week and have lost about 6lbs of fat and am starting to see slight muscle definition. Going to get some new photos taken and I'm excited to get back out there and slay the 20 something crowd.

Good stuff. Don't shoot for 20-something shoot for 19-20!

I'm your age and the last college girl I fucked, and lost track of a few months ago texted me to go out this weekend.
She's still only 20, with fantastic curves....so many of these college girls have older guy fantasies, after a few drinks you go somewhere more private and they can't wait to get naked.

The 20-yr old sorority girl I banged before that, first time we had dinner she wanted to give me head in the men's room. I passed on that offer, but got us a hotel room across the street, didn't waste any time. Amazing deepthroat skills, the best I've had.

Guys, have confidence. Girls 20-25 years younger than you will chase you as long as you dress reasonably well, stay in shape, and use the lessons from this board.

Give us the breakdown. How do you approach and game 19yo girls? What is your game, how successful are you? Where are you finding them? What works and doesn't work?

Online and offline - there are many colleges where I live, one main upscale area where the hotter girls congregate. I use suit game, I'm always suited up, I never go out without looking 100%. Mostly daygame offline, I find it much easier for me.

Online they know my approximate age so they know I'm ~20 years older than them, even if I don't look it. It's a great method of pre-selecting for those with older man fantasies and daddy issues or just plain curious.

Once you start talking to them I game them like anyone else. They know why I'm talking to them, they're trying to figure out if I'm worth their time - at some point you gotta DHV them. I buy them a drink and we take it from there. I find they are more willing to come home and sleep with me on the 2nd date, for a really hot younger girl I'll wait until the 3rd if it's the only way.

It can be a tricky calibration of kino and comfort game with the younger girls until they feel like they want to have sex and are confident you won't immediately next them or make them feel like a slut. Aim for relaxed fun. I don't do nightclubs anymore, too damn loud in there.

There's no secret formula. Some girls like older guys, some girls don't know what they like but are willing to try. After all, they can go home with a drunk, ripped frat boy if that's what they wanted, but then they wouldn't be out on the town talking to me.

I don't hang out in bars that are more than a short cab ride from my place. None of these girls are going to be able to have you come over so you gotta have all the logistics tied down. After sex I uber them home and get my 8 hours in.

Post: #1031

I think this deserves a separate thread, but where do you find women to date, when you are in your 40's? I think it's more of a challenge than many make it sound.

Post: #1032

(11-16-2015 10:29 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  I think this deserves a separate thread, but where do you find women to date, when you are in your 40's? I think it's more of a challenge than many make it sound.

In my area online dating is as easy as ordering takeout. I go at it in a pretty organized manner. I have scripts of copy and paste bullshit banter, pages of jokes, pictures, etc. all ready to go to limit my efforts and provide maximum pussy return for my time. If you find what works you can recycle it amongst all the women and take all of the drudgery out of the online interactions. Instead of a depressing task it will seem pretty damned fun. I even have some scripts that are designed to get me nude pics and videos of these broads for my enjoyment. Sometimes I'm too tired to go out but I'm never to tired to look at fresh tits, ass, and pussy.

Post: #1033

(11-16-2015 11:19 AM)Dino Wrote:  In my area online dating is as easy as ordering takeout. I go at it in a pretty organized manner. I have scripts of copy and paste bullshit banter, pages of jokes, pictures, etc. all ready to go to limit my efforts and provide maximum pussy return for my time. If you find what works you can recycle it amongst all the women and take all of the drudgery out of the online interactions. Instead of a depressing task it will seem pretty damned fun. I even have some scripts that are designed to get me nude pics and videos of these broads for my enjoyment. Sometimes I'm too tired to go out but I'm never to tired to look at fresh tits, ass, and pussy.

This sounds like the way to go! Care to share any more details?

Post: #1034

I refuse to do online dating.

Post: #1035

^ I agree but feel I might have to break this rule soon.

Post: #1036

(11-16-2015 09:02 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  I refuse to do online dating.

Ok.. A man has to have a code, and I assume that if you can pull it off without online dating, you've got to have terrific game. But, I don't see the point. It's pretty limiting.

You have women - who will often be open to dating 10-15 years above their age, who'll meet with you and (probably) will give you a chance to get into their pants. You immediately get an abundance mentality, because there's a ton of women to meet. I loved online dating - I met a ton of 6s, 7s and the occasional HB8 online.

If you want to go after women of higher value, then I think you aren't able to pull those kinds of girls from online dating - I think that's a committed lifestyle. But I also don't think it's a lifestyle that most guys in their 40s are able or willing to pull off. IMHO, for most post 40 guys, online dating is their last, best hope to meet women.

If your reason for avoiding online dating is the lack of talent, and you really only want to screw HB8s and 9s, then I'd seriously consider hiring a dating coach to look at what your strengths and weaknesses are, identify the most target rich environments and really assess how realistic your chances are. This includes thinking hard about whether you want your life to revolve around seducing beautiful young women. For a guy over 40, this is possible, but it's going to be work.

Post: #1037

Glad to read that others in the 40+ crowd are having good luck with the younger ladies.

It's seriously been FAR easier for me to pull girls in the 18-30 range now that I'm 42 than it ever ways in my 20's.

Here are the ages of my most recent hook ups in the last month

18
18
19
25
32

I think it's a combination of "old man game", having a good job, decent house, being assured of who I am, and projected a DGAF atttitude.. I'm enjoying the run!

Post: #1038

i would feel really bad for him but would introduce him to pick up
good luck to that dude thats an unfortunate position to be in

Post: #1039

For me its only younger ladies 22-33.The older women or ones my age get pissed off with me when they find out my true age.But the younger ones don't ...and I also refuse to do online .I have online approach issues plus I'm just not photogenic.
I turned 45 but still pull off the 36-38 thing..the joys of being mixed race.Frankly I find it depressing it turns me back to porn.I tried Tinder again a few days ago and went straight to porn after it.And on that subject...

I have been experimenting with Nofap.I did 45 days 14 of which was in the US.Not hardcore though I had sex.But thats ok I'm told..just no jerking off to porn.
I'm going back on it after today .I was a fucking beast on Nofap and really exhausted off it.
The signals I was getting/reading, the hot women I approached ,my training..... everything was so intense.I feel really shit after stopping Nofap.I was fucking Super fly TNT ,The Guns of the Navarone on Nofap I now realize.

Guys in the US are lucky,there is such an abundance there it blew my mind.I never met any fat or chicks with bitch attitude.Same with Canadian girls.
I thinking of not going to Europe next year and just concentrating my travels on Nth America..The Alpha v beta shit played out in front of my eyes..and I never wore a suit.

Post: #1040

Quote:I loved online dating - I met a ton of 6s, 7s and the occasional HB8 online.

What app/service did you use? When I've occasionally browsed OKCupid, all I saw were a lot of 3s, 4s, and 5s.

Post: #1041

(11-17-2015 03:07 AM)Green-On-GO Wrote:  ...

Guys in the US are lucky,there is such an abundance there it blew my mind.I never met any fat or chicks with bitch attitude.Same with Canadian girls...

That seems to be the exact opposite of what most people here are always saying. Supposedly the proportion of fat and/or bitchy girls doesn't get higher than in the US (though some Western European countries are probably closing in fairly rapidly).

Post: #1042

We have some new posters around here that may be trolling.

Post: #1043

@MikeS if you get a bunch of Aussie guys that have gone to the US or Canada they are most likely going to agree with me...I did use the forum and another forum to find the best places..
Like Women don't see Betas I try really hard not to see unattractive women.There are over 360 million people in the US.24 million in Australia.Believe me to us blokes the US can be Nirvana.Same for Brit dudes I met in the States.
I've also said I like American, Danish, Swedish and Euro women on other threads.I also have a thing for red heads and black women.
While I basically suck with Asian women and can't see the attraction most of the time.
We are not wired all the same.

Post: #1044

(11-17-2015 10:17 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:I loved online dating - I met a ton of 6s, 7s and the occasional HB8 online.

What app/service did you use? When I've occasionally browsed OKCupid, all I saw were a lot of 3s, 4s, and 5s.

Haha.... maybe I just have lower standards than you Rex. But, yeah, you're going to find a lot of dogs on there too. Mostly.

I'm talking about women who are pre-Wall or in the process of smashing against it. (Late 20s, early 30s in my book)

It's partially regional. If you're in an NYC, Miami, LA or SF, I think OkC can be good.Tinder's also good for (young) talent, but you've got to have visible abs or be very facially handsome to get action there. Match.com is another site that could work in a wide variety of places.

Most people have accounts open on multiple services. I recommend doing that as well. eHarmony is likely a waste of time unless you're interested in handing your balls to some woman who just flew off the cock carousel (aka "marriage.")

Post: #1045

This thread is tanking hard. Maybe time for some BS call outs from me?

Post: #1046

Yes.

Post: #1047

(11-17-2015 08:10 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Yes.

Who first?

Post: #1048

I dunno...It's your thread. I think you should decide.

Post: #1049

(11-17-2015 08:26 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(11-17-2015 08:10 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Yes.

Who first?

Anyone new who we aren't certain is 40+.

Thanks in advance!

Post: #1050

(11-17-2015 06:57 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  This thread is tanking hard. Maybe time for some BS call outs from me?