Post: #1001

(10-30-2015 06:09 PM)ColSpanker Wrote:  According to my doctor today, I can no longer do the martial art I've pursued for the past twenty years. It was a full-contact weapon form with body armor and my days of being a contender are over. Sucks because I haven't had much time to do it the last five years. Which means I'll have to find some soft form or go crazy from lack of a physical challenge.
What the hell. I'm only 57 and I thought there were Akido masters in their 90's.

I am still boxing, (working out not fighting but I do get smacked pretty good sometimes). It is a real boxing gym with real competitive fighters. But I am 53 and I am in good shape but I do wonder how much longer I will be able to do it. So far so good.

Spanker What is the cause of your condition and what are they recommending for your treatment?

Post: #1002

Thanks for the explanation brother. I've just heard so much absurdity from the medical establishment that I'm always skeptical. The best of luck treating your clots. Would you consider changing your sport? Would you consider plyo and lifting to maintain your conditioning? Hate to see an athlete stop altogether. I hope to die bench pressing a hottie or deadlifting

Post: #1003

One of the few joys in life I had was taking down an dude half my age with one precise move. Guess I won't be doing much of that anymore if at all. Right now I'm looking at all my options.

Post: #1004

(10-31-2015 06:01 PM)ColSpanker Wrote:  One of the few joys in life I had was taking down an dude half my age with one precise move. Guess I won't be doing much of that anymore if at all. Right now I'm looking at all my options.

You'll be able to do that to millennials till your 90s no worries.

Post: #1005

(10-22-2015 02:17 AM)Odin Wrote:  Looks like im preaching to the unconverted here..dont knock it till you have tryed it with gf, if you want a clear head because you have a high profile position and dont like drinking because of the hangovers ( they hit you when your older).. its worth a try ..the euphoria is great , and it makes you as smooth as hell with the ladies, i guess i will get some strange responses to this ..but a lot of my mates over 45 use it and hold down high profile positions, plus the women love it too,but hey you know best ..alcohol is the worst drug imho.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/56266075e4b08589ef4902ca

Smooth with the ladies? On MDMA?



Sorry, but I've never seen this. Good MDMA will not make you smooth with the ladies, it will turn you in to a soppy pervert, which is OK if you already have a lady to be perverted with, useless if you're trying to acquire one.

Are you 40+? Because the way you talk about MDMA it sounds like you are young, or not young but new to MDMA.

MDMA will fry your serotonin receptors. That means that as a user, you have a finite amount of times you can take it. Eventually that level of euphoria will decrease because your brain is not able to process the same levels of nuerochemicals. There is no quick fix to the depression 3-4 days later, other than to stop taking it, or severely limit your use.

Also, buy testing kits. Google 'ez test'. Buy 2 of their kits so that you can eliminate other substances.

Post: #1006

"Smooth with the ladies? On MDMA?



Sorry, but I've never seen this. Good MDMA will not make you smooth with the ladies, it will turn you in to a soppy pervert, which is OK if you already have a lady to be perverted with, useless if you're trying to acquire one.

Are you 40+? Because the way you talk about MDMA it sounds like you are young, or not young but new to MDMA.

MDMA will fry your serotonin receptors. That means that as a user, you have a finite amount of times you can take it. Eventually that level of euphoria will decrease because your brain is not able to process the same levels of nuerochemicals. There is no quick fix to the depression 3-4 days later, other than to stop taking it, or severely limit your use.

Also, buy testing kits. Google 'ez test'. Buy 2 of their kits so that you can eliminate other substances."



Smooth for me Jo, drops any hint of anxiety to the point that your just a smooth.. maybe im in better shape than you and your feeling your age? Ive been sampling for over 20 years , if your concerned about Serotonin grab some 5htp and use after use, it boosts levels back to normal quickly..i enjoy, thats my vice, its not for everyone, so stick with your moonshine and beer if thats more your thing ..ok.

PS: The guy who created it just died at age 80 something ..he took it everyday.

Post: #1007

It's a bad idea to take any drugs on a regular basis and become dependent on them. If you need to change an area of your personality of behaviour do it without using drugs.

Post: #1008

Death rate for men 45-55 has risen substantially in the US since 1999,while declining in other countries, and declining for US "hispanics."
Drug abuse, alcohol, liver disease (alcohol-caused in some cases) and suicide are the leading factors. Rising unemployment rate cited as a factor. Article in Wall Street Journal Nov.3,2015:
http://www.wsj.com/video/the-death-rate-...61887.html

Post: #1009

(11-03-2015 12:38 PM)mammal Wrote:  Death rate for men 45-55 has risen substantially in the US since 1999,while declining in other countries, and declining for US "hispanics."
Drug abuse, alcohol, liver disease (alcohol-caused in some cases) and suicide are the leading factors. Rising unemployment rate cited as a factor. Article in Wall Street Journal Nov.3,2015:
http://www.wsj.com/video/the-death-rate-...61887.html

Bit depressive that post, but get your hormones correct, exercise, eat the rite food and you will find a lot of positive energy. It's a state of mind, and with the current agenda, men in this age group have usually gone through or are going through divorce, are sitting at home alone, drinking, and are feeling like human doormats. Stop the drinking first.. then boost your T naturally, its helps in a lot of different ways, especially in your mood and energy.

Get a back pack and a few $$, and take off on a three month trip, get out of your usual environment. Even if you have to walk the hell out of there, ditch the bottle.

Life is what you make of it and you can be in great shape and happy as a pig in shit at 90.

Post: #1010

(11-03-2015 02:34 AM)Odin Wrote:  "Smooth with the ladies? On MDMA?



Sorry, but I've never seen this. Good MDMA will not make you smooth with the ladies, it will turn you in to a soppy pervert, which is OK if you already have a lady to be perverted with, useless if you're trying to acquire one.

Are you 40+? Because the way you talk about MDMA it sounds like you are young, or not young but new to MDMA.

MDMA will fry your serotonin receptors. That means that as a user, you have a finite amount of times you can take it. Eventually that level of euphoria will decrease because your brain is not able to process the same levels of nuerochemicals. There is no quick fix to the depression 3-4 days later, other than to stop taking it, or severely limit your use.

Also, buy testing kits. Google 'ez test'. Buy 2 of their kits so that you can eliminate other substances."



Smooth for me Jo, drops any hint of anxiety to the point that your just a smooth.. maybe im in better shape than you and your feeling your age? Ive been sampling for over 20 years , if your concerned about Serotonin grab some 5htp and use after use, it boosts levels back to normal quickly..i enjoy, thats my vice, its not for everyone, so stick with your moonshine and beer if thats more your thing ..ok.

PS: The guy who created it just died at age 80 something ..he took it everyday.

OK, I was being a bit judgmental.

With small doses you could achieve what your describing.

Post: #1011

(11-04-2015 04:23 AM)Odin Wrote:  

(11-03-2015 12:38 PM)mammal Wrote:  Death rate for men 45-55 has risen substantially in the US since 1999,while declining in other countries, and declining for US "hispanics."
Drug abuse, alcohol, liver disease (alcohol-caused in some cases) and suicide are the leading factors. Rising unemployment rate cited as a factor. Article in Wall Street Journal Nov.3,2015:
http://www.wsj.com/video/the-death-rate-...61887.html

There is a thread on that - I will look at it, but my first reaction will be suicides (war & divorce) and deadly meds.

/thread-51427.html


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On a good side - 40% rise in 50yo fathers and even 60yo men getting more kids:

http://www.high50.com/dating/why-do-wome...nger-women

Quote:Why do women over 50 endure online dating? Men lie about their age and all want younger women

Hehe - in the battle of postponing childbirth, men will always come out on top.

The usual aging hamster article who bemoans how all the attractive 50+ men want younger women.

Quote:“I’ve got a confession,” he said. “I lied on my profile. I’m not really 65.” He leant forward conspiratorially: “I’m 71.”

‘Well, you look terrific on it,” said my friend, Ella.

He beamed, gratified.

“And I have to confessed that I also lied,” she said.

His face darkened. “You mean you’re over 50?”

“53.”

“But you were 48 in your online profile.”

“Well, we both lied,” said Ella as she laughed and raised her glass.

He frowned and called for the bill. “I’m afraid this isn’t going to work. To be honest, I don’t feel there’s really any chemistry between us.”

I doubt that story is real. A guy who goes out with a 48 year old is probably not going to balk at 53. Maybe she said 43, but doesn't admit it now.

Quote:Male fantasies of younger women

Since that date, Ella, who organises singles’ drinks parties for a living, has worried about confessing to the apparently insurmountable mental peak of being over 50. One friend of mine won’t go out to a party with me if she thinks I might tell someone how old we are.

For men, whatever their age, 50 is often a step beyond which they are unprepared to venture. Once they are free from their marriages or long-term relationships, the majority of male fantasies revolve around younger women.

Even if they’ve never settled down, when they finally decide to do it, it’s usually with someone young enough to produce a family.

One life-long bachelor, approaching 60, who’s never lived with anyone, told me he was ready to commit to someone who could give him children.

Another, who’s even older, asked me to introduce him to my 36-year-old friend when he heard she wanted to become pregnant.

My friend Anna recently set up her 52-year-old girlfriend with a man of 56. “They would have suited each other perfectly,” she said. ‘It wasn’t until half way through dinner that I realised he was actually hitting on my daughter.”

A friend gave a dinner party recently for 30 single people and the only woman who received any follow-up whatsoever was still in her forties.

They are not any "male fantasies". They are bloody reality. Recently an acquaintance of mine who is slim, good-looking, well-off, 60, highly charismatic (he is one of those guys that mesmerize a room) got divorced from his wife - no hard feelings, just happened. Then I found out that he got a new girlfriend. I asked the woman who told me the story: "How old is she? 30s?" She said no, it's an "exciting" woman in her 50s. I booed with a laugh while the girls in my company complained. But the thing is that 2 of the younger ones knew that I was right, as they both found the guy attractive enough.

Quote:Statistics on new dads over 50

Before you dismiss all this as anecdotal, in 2013 the National Office of Statistics found there had been a 40 per cent increase in men over 50 becoming new dads since the beginning of the millennium: 21 men over 50 were becoming new dads every day and two over 60.

It’s no wonder that so many blind dates or online encounters end with humiliation for older women.



Of course I think my friends are beautiful, accomplished, intelligent, amusing and fun. But the reality is that men, however old, prefer their women a little juicier, as if conjunction with a menopausal or post-menopausal woman might condemn them to instant decrepitude.

One 60-something man I sat next to at dinner recently asked me, “Are you still the right side of wet?” I am rarely at a loss for words but I gaped.

That's pretty direct, but hey - no fucks given for women past 50.

You cannot have only advantages women - being superstars of the dating world just by being young and slim in your teens and 20s and then having all the advantages past 30 too? Of course you will bring out the few celebs and Alpha men who swim in pussy, but those are rare at the age of 20 - the ones with Game have to work hard, while for the most of you this is about as much effort as you have to put into:



It's that easy to get laid as slim young 6+ woman. Your accomplishments and "fun-value" means nothing. Men meet other men if they want to have brotherly fun.

And what's this hamster's end advice? Women should go their own way - WGTOW - heh. Too bad it doesn't work for you as good as for men.

Post: #1012

(09-21-2015 09:43 AM)Dino Wrote:  

(09-19-2015 08:08 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Do you guys find you have to spend more time grooming?

Yes no doubt about it. The older you get the more meticulous you must become about the small things. Little things like ear hair or crazy eyebrows can really add to your age. I stay on a regimen and try to keep my appearance always the same. Keep your haircuts on schedule. Don't let your neck hair get long--keep it touched up. Don't be a slob like most 40+ and you are already in a different league.

Yes, some attention to what I guess are literally mutant hairs from nose and eyebrows (thicker, curlier hairs than when young) reduces obvious aging. Just got two cosmetic crowns on yellowing front teeth and it really helps though it's hard to pin down why I look better when I look in mirror when I pretend I don't know it's the improved teeth.

I do try to show good sportsmanship with the 35+ years younger girls I game- I tell them it's 20-25 years tops before I am fucking ancient. It's no use trying to convince myself I'm as into thirty year olds as I am into 23 years olds.

Post: #1013

I posted in the "I just got laid thread" here: /thread-11951-page-124.html

I am 44. The girl is 19! I lied in my online profile and said I was 34. She confessed as we were laying together that the oldest guy she had ever been with was 40. I don't know if I am going to tell her the truth or not.

I think that there is a sizeable minority of young women out there who are actively looking for an older man.

I am going to repeat so many of the things said before:

If you are going to online date don't have a good, but rather, a great profile shot! Many women contacted me saying how handsome i was including the 19 year old. She brought it up again in bed last night. Saying she got wet just looking at it. She said I looked like a "boss."

Be in shape. I am in pretty good shape. I want to end the year in great shape. I have noticed, and she confirmed, that many young guys (especially students) are not. She called the guys in her class blobs. lol The majority of this country is overweight. If you are in shape you are immediately in the top 20% of men. If you are jacked and you are over 40 then we are moving into top 2%-3% area I would contend.

Find a good barber/stylist. I listened to a crazy ex about my hair. The girl last night loved it. She kept grabbing it and running her fingers through it. I realize if you are balding this doesn't apply but for everyone else quit getting the boring dad haircut. Let it grow a little longer and get it styled.

I didn't spend a dime on her and she drove an hour to see me. I went cave man on her while we were fucking and made an conscious effort to make my voice lower and sound more gravely. She loved it. Prior to meeting she had told me how sexy my voice was.

We stayed in bed for five hours! She kept saying "i'm going to be so sore tomorrow." lol

I plead guilty to bragging but...damn! A girl 25 years younger than me?? A few years ago I would have thought it impossible unless I was going to pay for it. Keep reading and following the advice here gents. It works.

Now I have to decide if I am going to get together this weekend with a girl I met on Halloween. She is beautiful and has a great body but she's 28. That may be too old.

Post: #1014

^ I'll second all of the above. My latest notch earlier this week was 21 yrs old fit n sexy brunette college girl. I'm in my mid 40s. SNL, it took me an hour and half to go from drinks to her screaming to fuck her harder. I'd just add that a projection of cool confidence, aloof attitude, and playful teasing gets young pussy wet. More so the educated, inquisitive kind, which is my favorite bc I actually can have interesting conversation and do fun things with her.

Post: #1015

(11-04-2015 10:04 AM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  I posted in the "I just got laid thread" here: /thread-11951-page-124.html

I am 44. The girl is 19! I lied in my online profile and said I was 34. She confessed as we were laying together that the oldest guy she had ever been with was 40. I don't know if I am going to tell her the truth or not.

I think that there is a sizeable minority of young women out there who are actively looking for an older man.

I am going to repeat so many of the things said before:

If you are going to online date don't have a good, but rather, a great profile shot! Many women contacted me saying how handsome i was including the 19 year old. She brought it up again in bed last night. Saying she got wet just looking at it. She said I looked like a "boss."

Be in shape. I am in pretty good shape. I want to end the year in great shape. I have noticed, and she confirmed, that many young guys (especially students) are not. She called the guys in her class blobs. lol The majority of this country is overweight. If you are in shape you are immediately in the top 20% of men. If you are jacked and you are over 40 then we are moving into top 2%-3% area I would contend.

Find a good barber/stylist. I listened to a crazy ex about my hair. The girl last night loved it. She kept grabbing it and running her fingers through it. I realize if you are balding this doesn't apply but for everyone else quit getting the boring dad haircut. Let it grow a little longer and get it styled.

I didn't spend a dime on her and she drove an hour to see me. I went cave man on her while we were fucking and made an conscious effort to make my voice lower and sound more gravely. She loved it. Prior to meeting she had told me how sexy my voice was.

We stayed in bed for five hours! She kept saying "i'm going to be so sore tomorrow." lol

I plead guilty to bragging but...damn! A girl 25 years younger than me?? A few years ago I would have thought it impossible unless I was going to pay for it. Keep reading and following the advice here gents. It works.

Now I have to decide if I am going to get together this weekend with a girl I met on Halloween. She is beautiful and has a great body but she's 28. That may be too old.

This report warms the corners of my heart I'm turning 44 soon and am close to coming off of a three month self induced game hiatus. I'm in my second month of lifting twice a week and have lost about 6lbs of fat and am starting to see slight muscle definition. Going to get some new photos taken and I'm excited to get back out there and slay the 20 something crowd.

Post: #1016

I look forward to reading your report.

Post: #1017

(11-04-2015 01:47 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  This report warms the corners of my heart I'm turning 44 soon and am close to coming off of a three month self induced game hiatus. I'm in my second month of lifting twice a week and have lost about 6lbs of fat and am starting to see slight muscle definition. Going to get some new photos taken and I'm excited to get back out there and slay the 20 something crowd.

Good stuff. Don't shoot for 20-something shoot for 19-20!

I'm your age and the last college girl I fucked, and lost track of a few months ago texted me to go out this weekend.
She's still only 20, with fantastic curves....so many of these college girls have older guy fantasies, after a few drinks you go somewhere more private and they can't wait to get naked.

The 20-yr old sorority girl I banged before that, first time we had dinner she wanted to give me head in the men's room. I passed on that offer, but got us a hotel room across the street, didn't waste any time. Amazing deepthroat skills, the best I've had.

Guys, have confidence. Girls 20-25 years younger than you will chase you as long as you dress reasonably well, stay in shape, and use the lessons from this board.

Post: #1018

I remember when I was in my teens I had some friends that were older than me. They told me "we're 27" and me thinking. "Damn. They're old folks."

That was some for real naive gen-x/gen-y thinkage.

Millennials are probably even stupider at this age.

I saw a episode of The Office where James Spader was lamenting missing out on his 40s. I think this is a pretty valid measure of getting too old. I think once you're on past 50, you're sufficiently old. But then I recall a stand up comedian doing a bit on how as a kid he thought a 50-year-old was some cogity old dude with a stick. And now that he's turned 50, he's just like. "Hi. I'm a 50 year old man."

But then look at Clint Eastwood. If he's given up on sex, it's probably because of a choice and not because he can't. At least recently at least.

I think most importantly, you're only as old as you feel.

Act how you feel. Not how you think.

I think that a problem with alot of people's thought process is that once you reach a particular age, in your mind, you're now "just old". Think more like this: how old are you really feeling? If you feel old. You probably are. But shit. If you're horny and want to fuck women, you're probably not old.

Conversely, you know, females, once they hit the 41 to 45 range, you can see it on their face and there's almost no question they've hit menopause and likewise you don't see any, if at all any women, past about 45 out hitting the rounds looking for a quick lay.

Every once in a while I'll look in the mirror and think. Damn maybe I really am old. And then I won't even give it another thought.

Post: #1019

(11-04-2015 09:59 PM)DD2015 Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 01:47 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  This report warms the corners of my heart I'm turning 44 soon and am close to coming off of a three month self induced game hiatus. I'm in my second month of lifting twice a week and have lost about 6lbs of fat and am starting to see slight muscle definition. Going to get some new photos taken and I'm excited to get back out there and slay the 20 something crowd.

Good stuff. Don't shoot for 20-something shoot for 19-20!

I'm your age and the last college girl I fucked, and lost track of a few months ago texted me to go out this weekend.
She's still only 20, with fantastic curves....so many of these college girls have older guy fantasies, after a few drinks you go somewhere more private and they can't wait to get naked.

The 20-yr old sorority girl I banged before that, first time we had dinner she wanted to give me head in the men's room. I passed on that offer, but got us a hotel room across the street, didn't waste any time. Amazing deepthroat skills, the best I've had.

Guys, have confidence. Girls 20-25 years younger than you will chase you as long as you dress reasonably well, stay in shape, and use the lessons from this board.

Give us the breakdown. How do you approach and game 19yo girls? What is your game, how successful are you? Where are you finding them? What works and doesn't work?

Post: #1020

(11-05-2015 09:05 AM)reco2100 Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 09:59 PM)DD2015 Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 01:47 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  This report warms the corners of my heart I'm turning 44 soon and am close to coming off of a three month self induced game hiatus. I'm in my second month of lifting twice a week and have lost about 6lbs of fat and am starting to see slight muscle definition. Going to get some new photos taken and I'm excited to get back out there and slay the 20 something crowd.

Good stuff. Don't shoot for 20-something shoot for 19-20!

I'm your age and the last college girl I fucked, and lost track of a few months ago texted me to go out this weekend.
She's still only 20, with fantastic curves....so many of these college girls have older guy fantasies, after a few drinks you go somewhere more private and they can't wait to get naked.

The 20-yr old sorority girl I banged before that, first time we had dinner she wanted to give me head in the men's room. I passed on that offer, but got us a hotel room across the street, didn't waste any time. Amazing deepthroat skills, the best I've had.

Guys, have confidence. Girls 20-25 years younger than you will chase you as long as you dress reasonably well, stay in shape, and use the lessons from this board.

Give us the breakdown. How do you approach and game 1e9yo girls? What is your game, how successful are you? Where are you finding them? What works and doesn't work?

I found her on OK Cupid. I think I read here that the website has parameters to keep older men from contacting young women. I know that on POF I don't think I have had any matches below 21.

You have to read the profiles. She stated in her profile she was looking for older men. I have another one I am trying to meet up with who stated she specifically wants guys who are older and taller.

I am 44 but I put 34 in my profile. It helps with girls who have the 30 year old cutoff. One put in her bio "if you are over 30 don't contact me." She must have looked at my pics and decided she liked what she saw because we chatted online for almost a half an hour. She didn't give me her number so she may have been attention whoring. In any case watch what they do not what they say.

You can't be judgmental or condescending. Many of them are "420 friendly", i.e, they smoke weed. Also, they all say how mature and older acting than other girls their age. They aren't. Keep the banter playful and sexual.

The most important point I want to stress is the need for a GREAT profile pic. My girl said she got wet looking at it! She said I look like a boss. lol

I've been chatting with a few others. I told one we should grab a drink. She said she can't because she's not 21. I told her we'd get ice cream this weekend. She responded "yeahhh" I have not gotten her phone number yet. She didn't give it when I asked while chatting. So we'll see.

Good luck.

Post: #1021

I just had an attractive girl from an EE country I had visited recently tell me on OKC she wouldnt go out w/me because I was too old. I'm 38 and she's 26. I was shocked since 1) I dont look anywhere near 38, 2) we had been chatting about her country, and 3) 12 years isnt that much, especially in EE. May have to lie about my age on any profile going forward...

Post: #1022

(11-06-2015 11:46 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  ... 12 years isnt that much, especially in EE. May have to lie about my age on any profile going forward...

It isn't as big a disqualifier here as in the West if you're meeting face to face in a bar/street/social circle/where ever, but I find that many or most women here are definitely very quick to use age differences bigger than 6-8 years as a filter in online dating (though the ones who do reply to messages from men older than that obviously tend to be the ones who might actually have an interest in meeting them).

Personally I'd much prefer to present myself as 40 year old man in better shape than 90-95% of the other men in my age range, but I've also started shaving a few years off my age in online dating just to make it a bit easier to get responses from women under 30 in the first place.

Post: #1023

While you're still younger, lay your plans for the older man you want to be, if you intend to stay single. Fitness and good style goes without saying, but you need a niche, whether it's owning a pussy-friendly business or being a minor celebrity. I've got my 10 and 20 year plan all lined up.

Post: #1024

(11-06-2015 11:46 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  I just had an attractive girl from an EE country I had visited recently tell me on OKC she wouldnt go out w/me because I was too old. I'm 38 and she's 26. I was shocked since 1) I dont look anywhere near 38, 2) we had been chatting about her country, and 3) 12 years isnt that much, especially in EE. May have to lie about my age on any profile going forward...

This could be just lightweight LMR. I have girls tell me that all the time, Im 40, and it doesn't affect me at all. Sure you can lie, try whatever works for you. I noticed a huge drop off in Tinder matches once I crossed 40. But who cares, if I have to meet these girls in person than I am better for it. I had a girl last week tell me she would never date me, because her parents were 2 years older than me. She is 22 and lives in Paris but visits my city a lot. I met her here on the streets. She still sends me Snapchats almost everyday, and chats me up all the time and talks about when she is coming back here. And I made out with her shortly after just meeting her, this past summer. So I think the "I would never" thing is just cutesy LMR stuff these girls put up, so in their mind they can complete the fantasy of being with an older guy.

Post: #1025

(11-07-2015 09:03 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

(11-06-2015 11:46 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  I just had an attractive girl from an EE country I had visited recently tell me on OKC she wouldnt go out w/me because I was too old. I'm 38 and she's 26. I was shocked since 1) I dont look anywhere near 38, 2) we had been chatting about her country, and 3) 12 years isnt that much, especially in EE. May have to lie about my age on any profile going forward...

This could be just lightweight LMR. I have girls tell me that all the time, Im 40, and it doesn't affect me at all. Sure you can lie, try whatever works for you. I noticed a huge drop off in Tinder matches once I crossed 40. But who cares, if I have to meet these girls in person than I am better for it. I had a girl last week tell me she would never date me, because her parents were 2 years older than me. She is 22 and lives in Paris but visits my city a lot. I met her here on the streets. She still sends me Snapchats almost everyday, and chats me up all the time and talks about when she is coming back here. And I made out with her shortly after just meeting her, this past summer. So I think the "I would never" thing is just cutesy LMR stuff these girls put up, so in their mind they can complete the fantasy of being with an older guy.

I agree if it is online they are actually looking at your age and think about it. In person they really don't know how old you are and they go by the feeling that you are putting out to her. Much different and women always go with feelings first.

By the way Vaun how do you respond when she sends you lots of snapchats? I had a chick last year doing that. Do you make a distinction when the pics or snapchats are sexy or not?