Any of you have any opening suggestions for Facebook ?

There are a couple of girls I see around my college and I only have a few months left. I rarely seen them and I am new to this whole online opening thing. Would defiantly like to try before I leave but Facebook is the only way.

(01-22-2015 01:43 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  *edit: i meant next sunday when i asked her out.
Her friend is a 5. Thin but meh face, doesnt even look feminine. She is a solid 7

at this point, i would just say "see you in aikido" and put her on the back burner. You can still try to spit game at her, but she sounds too inconsistent to keep texting her. Game her in person, try for an instadate after aikido. If she says "oh but i am not dressed for it" you can say 'bring a towel and change of clothes next week".

is she in a convent or something? minister's schedule? wtf

(01-22-2015 02:31 PM)Constitution45 Wrote:  Any of you have any opening suggestions for Facebook ?

There are a couple of girls I see around my college and I only have a few months left. I rarely seen them and I am new to this whole online opening thing. Would defiantly like to try before I leave but Facebook is the only way.

facebook is useful for retro bangs. Game the girls in person if you are a foreign student. and yes you should be trying to bang them before you leave. definitely.

Girl I'm interested in has a sister, called S.

S knows who I am.

S and I matched on Tinder.

Lol! I just told S to say hi to her sister and wished her well. She seemed to laugh it off too. Hope I didn't sink my own battleship.

Girl #1 from here: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...#pid940276

Texts me back about a day after I did the ping.

"First question. Are you a sociopath?"

Laughing. This is one of the best texts I've ever gotten and tells me that I've done something right.

But how should I respond.

I'm thinking of the usual agree and amplify - saying something like "Yes, I'm a dark lord plotting world conquest" or even just a simple "yes."

At any rate, what do you guys think I should do?

(01-26-2015 08:39 PM)Libertas Wrote:  Girl #1 from here: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...#pid940276

Texts me back about a day after I did the ping.

"First question. Are you a sociopath?"

Laughing. This is one of the best texts I've ever gotten and tells me that I've done something right.

But how should I respond.

I'm thinking of the usual agree and amplify - saying something like "Yes, I'm a dark lord plotting world conquest" or even just a simple "yes."

At any rate, what do you guys think I should do?

Ha she sounds pretty funny!

Sociopath:

"a person with a psychopathic personality whose behavior is antisocial, often criminal, and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience."

Lack of moral responsibility and social conscience? Double check!

So I asked this girl from my social circle out twice and the first time she told me she made plans, the second time she said she had something planned for that day and that she would be free next week and apologized.

I thought she was politely blowing me off as we're in the same social circle so I moved on.

I run into her today and don't try to make convo with her. she realizes she fucked up and comes up to me and says "hey how come we never hung out" I looked at her "oh..because I'm always busy" she said lets hang out. So I said "ya we can hang out sometime" but I'm sure she got the vibe I was blowing her off.

This girl is legitimately busy I know the obligations she has. So I can't chose a random day to ask her out.

How do I say "let me know what's your schedule is like" or "let me know what day's good for you" without sending beta.

Basically what's the best way to know when she's free so I can set something up. I don't see her much irl.

Texted her back this a few hours ago:

"of course do you take me for some hipster"

This at the suggestion of a friend, and the callback humor was there since I teased her about being a hipster (which she really wasn't). No response yet.

Restart text since you saw her recently and she expressed interest:

You: Hey (name)...nice to talk to you yesterday. Hope your week is going well/ how's your week going/ don't work too hard, etc
Her: Responds
You maybe banter one or two more texts then go for the meetup:
You: We should grab a drink and hangout one night ( or a little spice with " I'd like to show you this great place I go to get drinks) ...when are you free?

Let her answer - then, set a definite date. ( time, day , location ) Try to avoid the "I'm not sure yet...text me next Monday" B.S.

Went nuclear on a tinder match this weekend.

After several no responses from her ....after we'd bantered a bit earlier , I texted:

"Am I wasting my time texting you or what?"
Her - no response
Me: "Yep: Unsubscribe /Delete"
Those above texts were on Saturday.
Then today, Tuesday, 5 minutes ago: Her: Sorry I've been crazy busy the past two weeks today is day 3 without sleep

I know she does work two jobs. I guess I'm just going to go straight to asking when she's free after I wait a while. Suggestions welcome.

I had a recent exchange with my Latina fuck buddy.

Her: Will be off of work in a bit.
Me: Alright. Don't keep me waiting long
Her: haha I won't. You know, I wouldn't mind having your babies.

I didn't reply back yet but I do find this concerning. I haven't used a condom on this girl and I have finished inside of her a few times. We've been doing this for months but I do wonder if I should be on the lookout for a "Trap".

me: Hey, are you still producing music?
her: I don't produce music but I'm still doing music
me: Do you have a soundcloud (or similar) with your work?
her: Is it for something specific?
me: I'm trying to steal your ideas? I am curious and want to hear your stuff.
her: oh haha
her: Well look at my facebook


I don't really have a follow up. Not that there's no potential. This is a bottom of the barrel, I guess, to use the vernacular.

(01-27-2015 05:38 PM)ChazKGB Wrote:  me: Hey, are you still producing music?
her: I don't produce music but I'm still doing music
me: Do you have a soundcloud (or similar) with your work?
her: Is it for something specific?
me: I'm trying to steal your ideas? I am curious and want to hear your stuff.
her: oh haha
her: Well look at my facebook


I don't really have a follow up. Not that there's no potential. This is a bottom of the barrel, I guess, to use the vernacular.

In my opinion...you're asking too many questions. Girls think it's needy.

Don't try to have a conversation over text. One or two banters...perhaps to build a little comfort...then go for meetup. Texts are for setting up logistics/dates. Face to face is for conversations/attraction building.

@roberk

Should I just skip the banter and go straight to the "how it was nice running into you yesterday...we should go out for drinks when are you free " or is that too thirsty

In the Creepy Text video that guy from Atlanta sounds like he must read RVF.

The last time I saw Sasha Grey she was taking four dicks at once.

I got this chicks number off the street by a hotdog stand at like 2 am Friday. I text her, but I have terrible text game... what do?

me>What's up *name*, how was your veggie dog (yesterday 1pm)
>Delicious
>As usual (at like 8)
me>fine street dining
me>I would go back, where do you usually hang out?
>Cap hill
>but it depends

fucking lame ass neighborhood filled with SJW and dikes... dikes as far as the eye can see

(01-27-2015 09:09 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  @roberk

Should I just skip the banter and go straight to the "how it was nice running into you yesterday...we should go out for drinks when are you free " or is that too thirsty

Valhalla,

A few things;

First - it sounds like she wants to see you. Girls won't say those kinds of things unless they're into you.

Why did you think she thinks you were blowing her off? Are you not that attracted or you were just thrown off by her seeming 180? I'm guessing it's the latter.

Second - when the iron is hot - strike. When you were there with her talking, you should have said "sounds good, when are you free this week?" She tells you and you set a definite date and time right there on the spot. Confirm before she leaves. You skip the whole step of using a cellphone.

Since you didn't do that - pretty much follow that template I sent you.
You: Hey Babs, nice seeing you Tuesday, (maybe mention something yall talked about in conversation....example, if she talked about school being tough now add" Hope school's treating you okay" ) - an initial hey nice to see you comfort text if you will.

Then...she responds.

You acknowledge her response and add: I thought it'd be fun to grab a drink one night this weekend or next week sometime?

She responds with either "ok" or actually gives you a time.

If she doesn't give time , ask her when she's free and then she hopefully confirms.

It takes two to tango. Good luck

Got a second date lined up with this girl and she wants to change the location to somewhere halfway between where we both live. I don't want to do this as it obviously hurts my logistics.

Me: Cool, I'm booked all weekend but lets do next Wednesday unless you've got another tropical jaunt
Her: Hah no wednesday is good
Her: I'll put you in the calendar
Her: Where we meeting?
Her: What time?
Her: Sorry I'm anal when planning my calendar
Me: Really, I couldn't tell
Me: 8.30pm, somewhere in X area (which is where I live which she knows as it's where we met for our first date)
Her: How about Y area? (this is one train stop from me, so not terrible but still not short walking distance from the bar)
Her: Lets do somewhere inbetween

I'm thinking about replying "there aren't any good bars there, lets stick with X"
or "Nah, there is this cool bar I want to show you in X area that is being knocked down soon"

Thoughts?

(01-27-2015 05:11 PM)robreke Wrote:  Went nuclear on a tinder match this weekend.

After several no responses from her ....after we'd bantered a bit earlier , I texted:

"Am I wasting my time texting you or what?"
Her - no response
Me: "Yep: Unsubscribe /Delete"
Those above texts were on Saturday.
Then today, Tuesday, 5 minutes ago: Her: Sorry I've been crazy busy the past two weeks today is day 3 without sleep

I know she does work two jobs. I guess I'm just going to go straight to asking when she's free after I wait a while. Suggestions welcome.

I continue to use this girl as a bit of an experiment for calling girls out on their non response flighty behavior. I really don't care because she's a tinder match I haven't met yet. After the banter above...the rest of the convo has gone like this:

Me - bummer...well get some sleep tonight.
Her - hopefully it's much needed for sure
Me- hope you get some...still interested in making plans sometime?
Then...I only gave her three hours to respond and after no response I hit her with:
Me: So....every time I ask about setting a time to meet...you stop returning texts...if you decide you want to ever do anything...lemme know...I'm done

Her at midnight three hours later as I'm sleeping ( I got the next morning)
Her: I got home and passed out sorry it's not intentional I'm literally drained. But I will message you tomorrow to set up a day most likely next week after I'm done with this store business it's been driving me crazy

Me about 2 this afternoon: Well ok....just lemme know
Her within 30: Will do

..let's see what happens. This chick is a semi glutton for text abuse/ calling out on shit. Hopefully she's not a SIF. Her pics look good though.

(01-28-2015 06:50 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(01-27-2015 05:11 PM)robreke Wrote:  Went nuclear on a tinder match this weekend.

After several no responses from her ....after we'd bantered a bit earlier , I texted:

"Am I wasting my time texting you or what?"
Her - no response
Me: "Yep: Unsubscribe /Delete"
Those above texts were on Saturday.
Then today, Tuesday, 5 minutes ago: Her: Sorry I've been crazy busy the past two weeks today is day 3 without sleep

I know she does work two jobs. I guess I'm just going to go straight to asking when she's free after I wait a while. Suggestions welcome.

I continue to use this girl as a bit of an experiment for calling girls out on their non response flighty behavior. I really don't care because she's a tinder match I haven't met yet. After the banter above...the rest of the convo has gone like this:

Me - bummer...well get some sleep tonight.
Her - hopefully it's much needed for sure
Me- hope you get some...still interested in making plans sometime?
Then...I only gave her three hours to respond and after no response I hit her with:
Me: So....every time I ask about setting a time to meet...you stop returning texts...if you decide you want to ever do anything...lemme know...I'm done

Her at midnight three hours later as I'm sleeping ( I got the next morning)
Her: I got home and passed out sorry it's not intentional I'm literally drained. But I will message you tomorrow to set up a day most likely next week after I'm done with this store business it's been driving me crazy

Me about 2 this afternoon: Well ok....just lemme know
Her within 30: Will do

..let's see what happens. This chick is a semi glutton for text abuse/ calling out on shit. Hopefully she's not a SIF. Her pics look good though.

Unless you like torturing yourself and feeding an over-inflated ego i would next this chic asap. You haven't invested any money, but you're investing too much energy. So many more options out there.

NEXT

(01-29-2015 08:19 AM)Goldfinger Wrote:  

(01-28-2015 06:50 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(01-27-2015 05:11 PM)robreke Wrote:  Went nuclear on a tinder match this weekend.

After several no responses from her ....after we'd bantered a bit earlier , I texted:

"Am I wasting my time texting you or what?"
Her - no response
Me: "Yep: Unsubscribe /Delete"
Those above texts were on Saturday.
Then today, Tuesday, 5 minutes ago: Her: Sorry I've been crazy busy the past two weeks today is day 3 without sleep

I know she does work two jobs. I guess I'm just going to go straight to asking when she's free after I wait a while. Suggestions welcome.

I continue to use this girl as a bit of an experiment for calling girls out on their non response flighty behavior. I really don't care because she's a tinder match I haven't met yet. After the banter above...the rest of the convo has gone like this:

Me - bummer...well get some sleep tonight.
Her - hopefully it's much needed for sure
Me- hope you get some...still interested in making plans sometime?
Then...I only gave her three hours to respond and after no response I hit her with:
Me: So....every time I ask about setting a time to meet...you stop returning texts...if you decide you want to ever do anything...lemme know...I'm done

Her at midnight three hours later as I'm sleeping ( I got the next morning)
Her: I got home and passed out sorry it's not intentional I'm literally drained. But I will message you tomorrow to set up a day most likely next week after I'm done with this store business it's been driving me crazy

Me about 2 this afternoon: Well ok....just lemme know
Her within 30: Will do

..let's see what happens. This chick is a semi glutton for text abuse/ calling out on shit. Hopefully she's not a SIF. Her pics look good though.

Unless you like torturing yourself and feeding an over-inflated ego i would next this chic asap. You haven't invested any money, but you're investing too much energy. So many more options out there.

NEXT

I'm not contacting her again. If she texts me so be it. I even deleted her on my matches and she re matched with me.

I'm working other leads.

I'd appreciate some advice with this situation:

Met up with a girl sunday off okc, had several drinks at the bar and hung out there for almost 2 hours (I usually keep this to ~1 hour, but we were actually having a fun conversation). We go back to my place/make some pasta/ watch a movie/make out on and off for about an hour. At this point its after 1 and we both had to be up around 7, so I decided to not escalate and call it a night (of course maybe this was where I screwed up, who knows).

As she's leaving she tells me if I'd like to hangout fri/sat to let her know. I text her on Wednesday:

Me- Hey I'm going to a happy hour friday with some friends from work, but should be free around 9. Let me know if you'd like to chill afterwards.

Her-Radio silence

?? Seems like I played my cards right, and she seemed into me, though she is 23.. Frustrating.

(01-29-2015 09:39 PM)ordinaryleastsquared Wrote:  I'd appreciate some advice with this situation:

Met up with a girl sunday off okc, had several drinks at the bar and hung out there for almost 2 hours (I usually keep this to ~1 hour, but we were actually having a fun conversation). We go back to my place/make some pasta/ watch a movie/make out on and off for about an hour. At this point its after 1 and we both had to be up around 7, so I decided to not escalate and call it a night (of course maybe this was where I screwed up, who knows).

As she's leaving she tells me if I'd like to hangout fri/sat to let her know. I text her on Wednesday:

Me- Hey I'm going to a happy hour friday with some friends from work, but should be free around 9. Let me know if you'd like to chill afterwards.

Her-Radio silence

?? Seems like I played my cards right, and she seemed into me, though she is 23.. Frustrating.

That's why you should always ALWAYS go for the bang. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush as they say.
It sounds like you could have easily gotten the bang, you had her at your place!

There is not much you can do now. See if she gets back to you and if not ping her again early next week. If she doesn't respond to that then #next.

Ok I meet this cutie who works at a yogurt shop coming home late one night.

Take her for a first date. Went well. Got her up to my place briefly but no lay but seems very into me. No biggie ill play date #2.

Setting up date 2:

Me: hey whats up, lets do drinks and nargila at X location..i can do mon or wed

Her: Hey...Im actually working on both days so I cant


Havent responded yet. Her response is dull to say the least. My gut says disinterest. Even if she is actually working, she didnt give any hint of trying to make it work or give some sort of counter offer.

Thinking of responding with a "gay" or radio silence. What you guys thinking?