Post: #601

I really want to bang this broad, but i'm afraid she is just too strong and independent for me. What should I say?

Post: #602

@bigboypants

Sweet Christ, If this were posted anywhere but here I'd think that was a troll

The former caricature of modern feminists is becoming a reality

I bet money she's 28+

Post: #603

18 Actually.

Post: #604

>smart, strong, independent
>fuck you you chauvinistic asshole
>just looking to have some fun with a fit guy

She wants to get gorilla reamed by some tall jacked up dark triad stallion.

Personal opinion here, but I think those rants are just shit tests.

Might need more context, like what was said before she started going all cunty

Post: #605

Some chicks go very overboard. I got a similar response when I told a girl she's looking to be tamed. I revert to calling women who make these arguments judgmental and hypocritical. "For someone who considers herself so "open-minded," you're very judgmental" -- something simple and non-angry that makes her seem like an asshole

Post: #606

Here's a new situation:

I'm in Montreal and just got a brand new Bell mobile plan. I've pipelined a dozen girls, 4-5 that were ON earlier but not responding to text. Normally I would just chalk it up to general flaking.

BUT.. Turns out though that one had actually messaged me back but I haven't received it. So there might have been some connectivity issues for those first 30 minutes when I sent out texts.

Now, how would you frame a re-text with the above in mind? Usually I would never send two messages in a row if one has been actively ignored.

Post: #607

(06-08-2014 07:00 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Here's a new situation:

I'm in Montreal and just got a brand new Bell mobile plan. I've pipelined a dozen girls, 4-5 that were ON earlier but not responding to text. Normally I would just chalk it up to general flaking.

BUT.. Turns out though that one had actually messaged me back but I haven't received it. So there might have been some connectivity issues for those first 30 minutes when I sent out texts.

Now, how would you frame a re-text with the above in mind? Usually I would never send two messages in a row if one has been actively ignored.

Same text, same syntax, same everything. If you send a second text that's EXACTLY like the first one it can easily be written off as technical issues

Post: #608

(06-07-2014 02:48 PM)BigBoyPants Wrote:  18 Actually.

" that's what your mom said. "

Post: #609

Winged for my boy last night, drank till 5am she was cool, slapped her ass pulled her hair a few times playing pool, she nudged mr a few times, wasn't really touchy feely tho, she lost the bet was running down the street naked or twerk naked, obviously she pussed out.

I slapped her ass hard, i also missed and her back accidentally. She kept saying how I was going to giver her a back massage.(we couldnt do anything at the pad) IOI?

Turns out we vibed about clean eating, organic food blah blah.

Got her number, she followed me on instagram first, texted her tonight went like this:

Kaotic: Hey Brat don't think i forgot about that bet you lost this morning !
Girl: ?
Kaotic: Fine i wont do my part of it then. Hope your back hurts ?
Girl: Your so mean ? I have literally been in bed all day..I can't hang like I used to haha
Kaotic: I think a thankyou is on order for all the booze we got you all. You wouldn't guess where im at right now
Girl: Thank you!!!!! I owe you a drink or 2. (IOI?)
Girl: I'll guess x bar from last night again?
Kaotic: Perfect you can buy me those drinks later this week.
Kaotic: Actually I was at x organic grocery store (we talked about this)
Girl: Nice! My spot.
Kaotic: No no thats MY spot. You didnt answer me about owing me those drinks
Girl: Because I don't like to plan I go with the flow.

Rejection, excuse ?

How should i react and respond ? Ive got the night to sleep on this.

Post: #610

just my two cents but I think you gave her the opportunity to lead the conversation by saying "You didn't answer me about owing me those drinks." while I see the overall purpose of it, you should've lead the convo from the start.

Kaotic: I think a thankyou is on order for all the booze we got you all. You wouldn't guess where im at right now (I understand that you vibed with her well about organic foods but you should save that for when you meet up with her for drinks so that you have a story to tell.)
Girl: Thank you!!!!! I owe you a drink or 2.
Kaotic: Perfect you can buy me those drinks later this week. (this is ok, but the subsequent texts is where I think you fucked up. "cool, I'll let you known when I'm ready for them" would've been a good alternative)
Girl: (some form of agreement, e.g., ok, alright, cool, etc)
Kaotic: (a couple of days later) I'm ready for those drinks. let's meet at x bar later.

as for the actual question, just wait a few days and respond. her last text was obviously a shit test and you don't want to fall into her frame, so just say something along the lines of "my type of girl I could use that drink though, lets meet up x bar later."

Post: #611

(06-09-2014 09:36 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  just my two cents but I think you gave her the opportunity to lead the conversation by saying "You didn't answer me about owing me those drinks." while I see the overall purpose of it, you should've lead the convo from the start.

Kaotic: I think a thankyou is on order for all the booze we got you all. You wouldn't guess where im at right now (I understand that you vibed with her well about organic foods but you should save that for when you meet up with her for drinks so that you have a story to tell.)
Girl: Thank you!!!!! I owe you a drink or 2.
Kaotic: Perfect you can buy me those drinks later this week. (this is ok, but the subsequent texts is where I think you fucked up. "cool, I'll let you known when I'm ready for them" would've been a good alternative)
Girl: (some form of agreement, e.g., ok, alright, cool, etc)
Kaotic: (a couple of days later) I'm ready for those drinks. let's meet at x bar later.

as for the actual question, just wait a few days and respond. her last text was obviously a shit test and you don't want to fall into her frame, so just say something along the lines of "my type of girl I could use that drink though, lets meet up x bar later."

Very good points, i swear every little thing you say has to be strategically placed, i've been reviewing my text game alot lately and fine tuning it. Back to back texts was def a bad choice.

I'm not going to fall into her frame by replying this morning.

I've got dates lined up the next few days, I'll throw her a text weds and see whats up.

I wish I could've gotten a better feel for her, but my wing's ex completely cockblocked all 3 of us dudes, but I got some great lines I can use on this chick.

Thanks, much appreciated Ethic !

Post: #612

Banged new girl last Tuesday (first meet). Next day was her bday- sent text at night (Wednesday): 'happy bday miss X- we sure know how to celebrate'

She wrote back ~5 hrs later: 'Lol, thanks!'

Friday afternoon I sent a short callback humor message. No response. Waited until after the weekend, and hit her with a restart message Monday night: 'how was your weekend missy'

Got a text back ~8 hrs later: 'Great, I've been in DC. You?'

I usually don't have an issue with post-bang texting, but she doesn't seem very enthusiastic. Her texting pre-bang was similar syntactically and she would take anywhere from 1-3 hrs to respond, but I'm surprised by the same tone and even longer response times. Do I go for logistics now or ask when she'll be back in town/have her hit me up when she gets back?

Post: #613

(06-07-2014 02:48 PM)BigBoyPants Wrote:  18 Actually.

The more neutral version:

"Just curious: if you don't care what I think of you, then why write a five line paragraph telling me exactly how you want me to think of you? Especially when it's a pile of immature coping skill drivel that makes you sounds like a YA novel fucked a Pop Song."

What I'd Actually Think, But Never Say:

"Meh, that's just Therapy Girlspeak. Which means, best case scenario, every guy you've fucked in the past has pump-and-dumped you. Worst case scenario: your dad or uncle diddled you, in which case, I'll pass, because Freud would suggest you're seeking guys whose qualities remind you of them to recreate the abuse.

But If it's the former, well, that's all I was planning to do anyway, which, by your logic, should make you even more strong and empowered as you cope with the realisation that yet another man has failed to girlfriend you up after sex."

Post: #614

(06-07-2014 02:48 PM)BigBoyPants Wrote:  

Possibly better, because I guarantee you this is what she's doing:

"OK, here's what I Think Of You: You eventually copy+paste that block of text celebrating your 'strength' to every man who shows interest in you on here, because you have no sexual or emotional power over the men who constantly disappoint and frustrate you in the real world. So, to compensate: attract men on here, viciously reject them as being beneath you, get a dopamine reward from having power over them, which encourages you to repeat the process. Hey, if that's your thing, go for it. It just seems like a game of self-delusion for weak and bitter little girl to me, and a guaranteed self-fulfilling prophecy of never having a man 'you don't need'."

Obviously, if you go down this kind of route, put it in your own words, and break it up across multiple messages by asking leading questions. You can pretty much let girls dig their own hole.

Post: #615

What to say when a girls says she's DTF?

Post: #616

"Where you at?"

Post: #617

(06-07-2014 02:48 PM)BigBoyPants Wrote:  18 Actually.

Would LOVE to see how you responded to this bent bitch.

Post: #618

Look at the her:him text ratio. If she's typing more than he is, then she's obviously getting a rise out of the conversation. Good replies from the man as well, strong but inoffensive.

Post: #619

Chick and me had plans to meet up at her pad.

She ends up telling me she's gonna be in my town for her sis's graduation and "maybe when your off and maybe after dinner I can go to you."

I call her out and say "why didn't you tell me this before"

girl "cuz it's not a big deal?" "you beeter not bail! cuz i even got called into work and said i was sick so I didn't have to hear you say "retard""

12:45 I call her out and say " you just said maybe after dinner I can go to you. Sounds like you're the on whose going to bail" (she's bailed once before)

-no response-

7:22pm i hit her up and say "what's the deal tonight" -no response-
9:13 she hits me up and asks I'm in town
9:15: yeah i am i say
she then says
"you're mad at me"

i haven't responded , i almost want to reframe and ask her, "why would I be mad ?"

any thoughts or suggestions ?

Post: #620

^You're getting into text debates. Bad idea.

When she said she'd like to come see you tonight a proper response would be:

"cool" or "k" or possibly "sounds good"

Casual, calm, slightly aloof.

Post: #621

(06-11-2014 11:47 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^You're getting into text debates. Bad idea.

When she said she'd like to come see you tonight a proper response would be:

"cool" or "k" or possibly "sounds good"

Casual, calm, slightly aloof.

alright but now I'm stuck at her saying "You're mad at me"

I have no idea what to say to that....just play it cool and say "why would I be mad ?"

Post: #622

(06-11-2014 11:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-11-2014 11:47 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^You're getting into text debates. Bad idea.

When she said she'd like to come see you tonight a proper response would be:

"cool" or "k" or possibly "sounds good"

Casual, calm, slightly aloof.

alright but now I'm stuck at her saying "You're mad at me"

I have no idea what to say to that....just play it cool and say "why would I be mad ?"

"yawn"

Then tell me what she texts back

Post: #623

(06-11-2014 11:50 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(06-11-2014 11:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-11-2014 11:47 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^You're getting into text debates. Bad idea.

When she said she'd like to come see you tonight a proper response would be:

"cool" or "k" or possibly "sounds good"

Casual, calm, slightly aloof.

alright but now I'm stuck at her saying "You're mad at me"

I have no idea what to say to that....just play it cool and say "why would I be mad ?"

"yawn"

Then tell me what she texts back

She texted right back, just a stupid:

EDIT: "My family is here for my sisters grad party & i tried leaving and then the fireball came out....and now I'm here"

Post: #624

Ignore.

She sounds like she's just trying to get attention.

Let those fireballs set in. Once she's drunk she'll probably say she wants to see you. If she does, text her your address and nothing else. If she shows up cool, if she doesn't eject.

Post: #625

(06-12-2014 12:03 AM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  Ignore.

She sounds like she's just trying to get attention.

Let those fireballs set in. Once she's drunk she'll probably say she wants to see you. If she does, text her your address and nothing else. If she shows up cool, if she doesn't eject.

Thanks man, I appreciate the fast response play by play.

I swear your text game has to be tighter than ever to get these bitches to comply.