Post: #7201

(02-25-2016 05:24 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  ^Chicks hate when their words come back to bite them

Yeah, I was listening b*tch

Oh she knew exactly what was up.

She responded later with a smiley face and saying she'd call me, she never did, she knew I'd light her up.

She ended up saying she just wanted to know what my intentions with her are, she cancelled her threesome, and made a decision lately, that "she needs to be more serious" with a guy and check her behavior if she wants anything to work out.

I gave her some "i'm easy going and don't over analyze" generic bs back.

Post: #7202

I don't have the stomach to watch too many regular pickup infield videos.
Wondering if anyone could watch this and give me the play by play.

Post: #7203

I like girls...

I like girls in Lingerie...

I like taking pictures of girls in Lingerie...

I have invited about 6 different girls over tomorrow evening for what I've titled a "Lingerie Photo Shoot Party". These are various girls I've met on SA, Craigslist ad, Tinder, etc" I've met the majority of them. A couple of them will be brand new. I've framed it that I love photography and am doing photo shoots tomorrow night. Telling them to bring their sexy lingerie, heels, and I'll provide the liquor. Most of the girls have said they are down for shooting with other females.

I see a couple of different ways this may play out

1. Everyone flakes for one reason or the other

2. This blows up in my face, drama unfolds, etc

3. It's an epic night

I'll report back

Post: #7204

The most powerful aspect of game is not giving a shit.

Tonight I told a girl to give me her number, she started to, then stopped and said she's not doing giving out her number right now, something about an ex. I just shrugged and went back to shooting the shit with the bartender. Five minutes later she goes, "Sorry, I was intimidated, here's my number, I'd love to go out with you".

Post: #7205

I day gamed approach a college girl today went direct. It didn't go well at the beginning. Side profile and from behind she looked good. Upfront as soon as my routine started she saw me as "stranger", also when I met eye contact I saw she was a little bitchy and even though 21ish looked like she could be 25 and would hit the wall fast in life. Was not nearly as attracted as 5 seconds earlier.

My pitch was all over the place and weak. I knew it was DOA. I stopped my entire approach and started laughing to myself in front of her. I said "you know I would ask you to hang out, this isn't happening though, see ya round" as I made a hand gesture waving between us and I walked off with a big smile. I could tell at that moment it started to really break her shield down her whole expression changed.

Just that I was out of the "act" and was over it knowing her bitchiness level, looks, etc... I think she had a little shock that I just gave up so quickly trying to qualify myself by carrying the dead conversation at all and walked off.

I think out of many hundreds of day game college girl approaches that is the first time I ever did that.

Just took the L with laughter infront of the girl.

The same frame as I had laughing to myself infront of her at the absurdity of it all was the one I need to have at all times.

Breaking the "act" - there is no character you need to stick to and calling out reality as it is, just an intense game of make believe where we all follow our own made up character paths. We can step out of that "act" and say and act however we want at anytime.

The script of what people think they should act like is the most anti-game thing there is.

Trump versus Rubio.

Post: #7206

Debate/Post-Debate party was amazing. The quality was top notch during the debate and early parts of the party considering all the fat, liberal Bernie squad was out in full force protesting Trump like the idiots they are.

Had this one out of city girl who was a bit tipsy with a "Hot Chicks Vote Republicans badge" on touching up on me for a few reasons due to who I was rolling with.

She went to check up on her friends and asked me to wait on her. As I was still sober I made the rational decision to shift areas and just talking to everyone who would lend a ear as odds are she wouldn't be back.

Few uneventful approaches later meet this Asian duo. I flirt and get along with both and they were digging me as they were straight FOBs but had spent quite a bit of time in Europe so they knew the drill.

Hotter one excuses herself to go to the bathroom a lot. I vibe it off with the shorter slightly less attractive one and get her to dance then banter again when number two comes back with no homeboys in sight to help.

Leave the table to have my fun with other groups. Later on she finds me again and she's just sort of shuffling next to me bumping against me, laughing, and flirting. Of course right before the kiss a cockblock appears. She doesn't want to leave with either of us. Completely my fault for not working fast enough. Get a number and just think whatever.

A few drinking games and shots later due to a bit of frustration at the cockblock by this random with no style, a drunk SIF 5/10 starts talking to me(beer goggles in full effect I cannot differentiate). I ended up making out with her just as the Asian chick walks back into where I'm at. Probably pissed her off.

Well that was the more interesting parts of last night. I didn't include boring approaches though dancing and including everyone in a group(even mixed male/female groups) in conversation is a great way to meet new people and break into groups.

I feel like I'll keep doing that in the future as its working out quite well right now.

Cheers,

H

Post: #7207

(02-26-2016 01:26 AM)Travesty Wrote:  I day gamed approach a college girl today went direct. It didn't go well at the beginning. Side profile and from behind she looked good. Upfront as soon as my routine started she saw me as "stranger", also when I met eye contact I saw she was a little bitchy and even though 21ish looked like she could be 25 and would hit the wall fast in life. Was not nearly as attracted as 5 seconds earlier.

My pitch was all over the place and weak. I knew it was DOA. I stopped my entire approach and started laughing to myself in front of her. I said "you know I would ask you to hang out, this isn't happening though, see ya round" as I made a hand gesture waving between us and I walked off with a big smile. I could tell at that moment it started to really break her shield down her whole expression changed.

Just that I was out of the "act" and was over it knowing her bitchiness level, looks, etc... I think she had a little shock that I just gave up so quickly trying to qualify myself by carrying the dead conversation at all and walked off.

I think out of many hundreds of day game college girl approaches that is the first time I ever did that.

Just took the L with laughter infront of the girl.

The same frame as I had laughing to myself infront of her at the absurdity of it all was the one I need to have at all times.

Breaking the "act" - there is no character you need to stick to and calling out reality as it is, just an intense game of make believe where we all follow our own made up character paths. We can step out of that "act" and say and act however we want at anytime.

The script of what people think they should act like is the most anti-game thing there is.

Trump versus Rubio.

This reminds me of a similar situation; You approach a girl, it goes okay, then when you go for the number, she gives it to you but reluctantly:

Examples:

* "well, I'll give you my number but I'm not in town very much"
* "okay, but I usually don't have much free time"
* She just pauses as if it's the biggest decision in the world and she's not sure, then slowly reluctantly gives it to you.
* Other similar reluctant scenarios.

In the past, I've either pushed by doing a Janka "tell you what, give me your number and I'll text in next week, if you want to grab a drink that's fine. If not, that's fine too"

I've also called called out the situation in real time "Hey, I'd like to hangout one day, but if you don't want to, I don't need to get it (the number )" - usually that one doesn't fly over so well as it's too "overt" for most women's frail sensibilities.

Feedback welcome on what some of you do (or would do ) when you run into this reluctance/bitchiness when she IS giving you the number, just in a non enthusiastic way.

Post: #7208

Some of the best leads I have gotten are girls that wait to make up their mind to give you the number.

Most times it is a very good if they are completely silent and look like they are thinking about a complex problem. Inexperienced women tend to do this more. This is because they are nervous and attracted to you as a stranger. They are actually already imagining going on a date and hooking up so they get a little shy because this can be a big decision to them because they aren't the flaky type so to them it is almost a commitment to say yes right there and then versus experienced girls who see still way outside the city walls.

Some of the worst numbers I have gotten is where the girl has given it completely free. No different than an online match that just wants validation.

There is a happen medium I have found.

I have relied sometimes too heavily on direct game lately which actually I think is starting to work against me as I age and hit on younger girls. I really need to focus more on an indirect statement or question then bust into a ramble or stream of consciousness to get them comfortable with a playful laid back personality. That said I think direct approaches are good for confidence and testosterone levels. It is never bad to let some fly especially if you feel on top of the world. Just need to be sure after going to direct to still break into statements and rambles so she gets to know you, that is the hard part for me. After a successful direct open I many times am too happy that my job is done when it isn't even close.

Roosh's Day Bang really is a work of art in that regard - the only part I don't remember reading in it is things like WIA have mentioned which is going completely off script and projecting your day dreams and conscious thoughts on them to take them for a quick ride in your mind. You do see this in Heartiste's works such as "take her through a winding maze laughing and skipping, lightly dragging and your fingers along the walls" and so on. Also Mystery's stacks and cold reads of course.

Some of that is directly from sappy romantic comedies chicks see as crack, they need to figure you out. You can't be a instructional manual to them.

WIA does a strong job of keeping these pillars of game around. It is like we have gone backwards from Mystery and Heartiste high level of consciousness mind molding game to the more practical basics. The high flying mind game is still paramount once you have your base and this is what separates you from every other guy that is in shape, groomed, and styled. Also selling the experience you will take her on is another higher level of game that is forgotten at the "base" level. She does need to comply enough first though to get the reward of being pitched a great experience which is another thing I need to work on. Pitching a girl a great experience that isn't already biting is a weak move I have found. Patience.

I have a lot of work on fronts to do. Lately I have been focusing still on body posture. I have a big hotel like long mirror in the front room in my place. I often times will still catch myself with some weak posture etc. Though I have concentrated on it to the point my family during the holidays said "there is something different about you, are you taller?" etc. which means that my concentration has improved, because my family loves to shit talk and not give compliments that is the closest I would ever get! I also notice people when I walk down a path or hallway giving me way more space as my gait is wider and longer. Along with working out it has made a difference.

None of that base work above though really translates directly into bangs. You need that gift of gab, the above only gets you to A or B, not even close to Z.

A lot of people hate on Russell Brand or Dane Cook. I can see why. From any celebrity as far as personality and gabbing they are pretty solid. They will keep a room's attention and change the entire energy.

Guys like Sean Connery as Bond are cool and all with smart little quips, let's face it though the amount of pre-great looks, and being a super spy with money isn't going to happen in most guys' lifetimes. Even with all that James Bond could still do much better with the gift of gab.

Everyone wants to be around the fun, especially for women, maybe even more than children.

Post: #7209

Sometimes you take an L

I talked to this 21 year old for awhile, matched off some dating app I don't remember.

She flaked, deleted her number.

She hits me back up a few months later using one of my own lines.

I said fuck it, and hit her back up.

We barely text for a week, finally meet up with her this evening.

Shows up to my regular bar, she's 21, about a 6.5, thick, cute face, nerdy glasses.

She immediately orders a shot and a mix drink, I think game on. We chat a bit about music at the first bar. I pay, we get in my car.

Bounce to venue two, chat more, drink a few more. Drop the standard bait. She paid.

Get in my car and we drive back to my pad, shit gets sour as soon as we get to inside the garage door.

She wont take off her shoes and go into my house. She tells me she'd rather go back to her jeep, I call her on her BS.

She's embarrassed because of her fucking socks - which I know is BS, that's heavy LMR.

She finally concedes, heads to upstairs, I show her my floor, she literally won't even put bot feet into my room.

I know she's not feeling it, she tells me she's ready to go back.

I don't even hesitate, get in the car, and immediately call her on what she pulled.

She was startled, we talk about it on the way to her car.

I basically read her, she didn't think I was serious about her showing her the bait in my room, that she didn't think we were going to my pad.

She also said being a girl she was worried, I laughed and called that BS, she could've left at any time.

I don't even bother trying to counter, I just laugh and say whatever. Tell her I had 0 expectations and didn't give a shit.

I call her on being burned before, that either way it wouldn't of mattered if we banged or not, at this point I want her out.

I just tell her to shut up, kiss me, and leave.

She does, texts me when she got home.

I literally have no interest anymore, I haven't experienced this kind of LMR in awhile, but for what she is, it's not really worth it.

I have a feeling she wants an LTR, which of course I don't want.

Win some, lose some.

That Romanian girl messaged me out of the blue, I deleted her number but I know how she talks.

Apologized for flaking on me at the comedy show a few months back, she told me that I'm way out of her league.

She apologize for not talking to me.

I honestly want to go nuclear on her, but it's not worth it.

I might just drop a who is it or just not even bother replying.

That was a cunty move.

Post: #7210

Contemplating exacting a little revenge on this girl who flaked on me. Long story short:

Met this pretty cute Indian girl off of daygame, brought her to my room, she was actually a lot hotter than I thought she was, ended up banging her for a year and a half (on and off). We weren't exclusive, but she'd been around for so long that while I didn't really have feelings for her, I did see her as a friend and didn't mind her company.

Over the summer, she kept texting me and telling me she missed me, sending me nudes, asking for dick pics. She wanted to meet up with me when I landed in her city for an event. I booked a hotel room, and was fairly excited to see her; I thought she was a cool gal, wanted to hang out with her again, and also hadn't had sex in two months.

The evenings before I'm set to meet her, she keeps texting me. She sends nudes. She keeps expressing how much she misses me.

Then the day I'm set to fly out, she flakes. Fuck that!

Cut her off completely, some drama ensued, but I stopped talking to her and returned to banging other girls once the school year started.

Now, she has a boyfriend...and just asked me if I'm DTF for next weekend. What should I do?

Should I send a picture of her text to her boyfriend? (Have the guy on instagram)

Should I let her down easy, just tell her that I'm not really into her anymore?

Should I bang her? I don't really want to see her again, but fuck it, she was pretty hot.

How should I handle this situation? Never had something like this come up before.

Post: #7211

Nah, you don't know what dude will pull if you sent that shit to him.

Don't let her down easy.

Don't bang her. You already had her, you won.

Go cold on her like she did you, don't even bother responding to her.

Like in my above post, this bitch went cold on me the day we were supposed to hang out for a comedy show.

Never heard from her again, deleted her number.

I might hate fuck her, then drop her ass, because I haven't even smashed her.

But it's really not worth the headache.

Post: #7212

(02-27-2016 03:49 AM)kaotic Wrote:  That Romanian girl messaged me out of the blue, I deleted her number but I know how she talks.

Apologized for flaking on me at the comedy show a few months back, she told me that I'm way out of her league.

She apologize for not talking to me.

I honestly want to go nuclear on her, but it's not worth it.

I might just drop a who is it or just not even bother replying.

That was a cunty move.

I went nuclear on her, she took it surprisingly well, we even met up last afternoon, talked a bit, she was acting childish at first.

I was calm, but went nuclear on her in a funny asshole kind of way.

Told me I'm aggressive like her dad and I called her out on a few other things.

Apparently she's VERY insecure of herself around me, I intimidate her since I have my shit together.

Kiss her and leave, I get some shit done today and line up some plans for this coming week. Got 2 20 year old numbers online. One's a 7 or 8 in my book, the other is a questionable 6 or 7. There's also a few others, we'll see.

I actually just got done banging that 45 year old Filipino cougar - which I won't be fucking again.

She even make me a half ass massage also.

Yeah, she bled on me. Like a hot dog with ketchup, so I just cummed fast and got it over with.

I get the allure of the older mom/cougar thing, but its novelty wore off extremely quick, not to mention this chick is OVERLY sarcastic.

However, she did bring up points/social proof/red pill things that exude from me which was nice.

Points made:

-She's talked to all these guys, yet all of them were boring.
-She's NEVER into Indian guys, but somehow saw me as attractive
-She agreed that if I wasn't arrogant, cocky, and funny, she wouldn't be around.
-She's been on dates where the guy is nice and boring, yet I was kind of an asshole and I fucked her in the backseat of my car.
-She admitted she feels like she's with an older man since I'm more mature OR (Because she's extremely sarcastic and immature for her age)
-She saw my main picture, which stands out on its own among the standard man's selfie
-She told me I have a player/womanizer to my face
-Following on the above fact, she agreed that she'd rather be with a man that gets girls than a guy who can't

I mean the list goes on and on WHY men need to learn game, accept facts in life about women, and if they want to be better men and be better with woman, they need to change.

It's great that I can completely be open and honest on how I operate around her, it shows how much has changed since just a few years ago.

Shame I gotta toss her back, actually not I'm not ashamed, she just doesn't do it for me.

I got the mystical horoscope girl coming out tomorrow afternoon - she told me she'll stretch my legs out (sore from leg day).

She told me, she missed my hands around her neck choking her. Glad I left an impression

Armenian girl just texted me good night handsome, I won't be seeing her for over a week since I'll be gone next weekend.

Here's to the weekend gents.

Post: #7213

Moved out to my friend's house.
It's a fortress of sex.
A lion's den.
5minutes drive from the local campus.

I shall leave my imprint as I have over our college days.

Yes gentlemen, logistics on point.
My game goals 2016 thread post is coming alive.

Good to be back.

Post: #7214

(02-28-2016 04:15 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-27-2016 03:49 AM)kaotic Wrote:  That Romanian girl messaged me out of the blue, I deleted her number but I know how she talks.

Apologized for flaking on me at the comedy show a few months back, she told me that I'm way out of her league.

She apologize for not talking to me.

I honestly want to go nuclear on her, but it's not worth it.

I might just drop a who is it or just not even bother replying.

That was a cunty move.

I went nuclear on her, she took it surprisingly well, we even met up last afternoon, talked a bit, she was acting childish at first.

I was calm, but went nuclear on her in a funny asshole kind of way.

Told me I'm aggressive like her dad and I called her out on a few other things.

Apparently she's VERY insecure of herself around me, I intimidate her since I have my shit together.

Kiss her and leave, I get some shit done today and line up some plans for this coming week. Got 2 20 year old numbers online. One's a 7 or 8 in my book, the other is a questionable 6 or 7. There's also a few others, we'll see.

I actually just got done banging that 45 year old Filipino cougar - which I won't be fucking again.

She even make me a half ass massage also.

Yeah, she bled on me. Like a hot dog with ketchup, so I just cummed fast and got it over with.

I get the allure of the older mom/cougar thing, but its novelty wore off extremely quick, not to mention this chick is OVERLY sarcastic.

However, she did bring up points/social proof/red pill things that exude from me which was nice.

Points made:

-She's talked to all these guys, yet all of them were boring.
-She's NEVER into Indian guys, but somehow saw me as attractive
-She agreed that if I wasn't arrogant, cocky, and funny, she wouldn't be around.
-She's been on dates where the guy is nice and boring, yet I was kind of an asshole and I fucked her in the backseat of my car.
-She admitted she feels like she's with an older man since I'm more mature OR (Because she's extremely sarcastic and immature for her age)
-She saw my main picture, which stands out on its own among the standard man's selfie
-She told me I have a player/womanizer to my face
-Following on the above fact, she agreed that she'd rather be with a man that gets girls than a guy who can't

I mean the list goes on and on WHY men need to learn game, accept facts in life about women, and if they want to be better men and be better with woman, they need to change.

It's great that I can completely be open and honest on how I operate around her, it shows how much has changed since just a few years ago.

Shame I gotta toss her back, actually not I'm not ashamed, she just doesn't do it for me.

I got the mystical horoscope girl coming out tomorrow afternoon - she told me she'll stretch my legs out (sore from leg day).

She told me, she missed my hands around her neck choking her. Glad I left an impression

Armenian girl just texted me good night handsome, I won't be seeing her for over a week since I'll be gone next weekend.

Here's to the weekend gents.

I do that red pill confirmation with lots of the girls I end up fucking. All it does is convince me more and more of the necessity of game and being a better man. I don't tell girls I'm going into med school, but when they find out they freak. Having game is really like having a ace up your sleeve, that when women see, gives them some sort of dick gobble disease.

I remember Roosh saying something along the lines of 'don't discuss the principles of game with women that much' or something like that. Risk coming across too red pill, but post bang its a lovely affirmation to receive.

Post: #7215

(02-28-2016 02:12 PM)spygoat Wrote:  I do that red pill confirmation with lots of the girls I end up fucking. All it does is convince me more and more of the necessity of game and being a better man. I don't tell girls I'm going into med school, but when they find out they freak. Having game is really like having a ace up your sleeve, that when women see, gives them some sort of dick gobble disease.

I remember Roosh saying something along the lines of 'don't discuss the principles of game with women that much' or something like that. Risk coming across too red pill, but post bang its a lovely affirmation to receive.

Things girls say, especially talking about other dates always have me laughing, since I'm balls deep in them later that night.

I don't discuss specific games and strategies but over all conversations, that bleed into my personality and views on life.

Ex: Men acting like women, women acting like men. Men can't even change a fucking tire or get an oil change, femaes acting all ratchet.

The way I relay is in a story or a the funny/sarcastic tone - which I always have.

Post: #7216

The catch-22 of being a player is that women have to be interested in you to pull effectively. The more momentum you gain the stronger you pull. Had a girl I casually talk too be super into me laughing her ass off after I got a bit of action from the slump buster this weekend.

Women can smell other women on you, and always tell me after the fact that I smell like sex, cigarettes, and cinnamon. I guess that's the magic of the game. I'll probably bang her out by this weekend.

It's good being back in it.

Cheers H

Side note why is it that people hold Tony Montana up as their idol mentality wise. I bet you having a mentality like Sosa is infinitely better. He probably got more play rather than get locked down by a 9/10 coke whore.

I'll be chilling like:

Post: #7217

(02-24-2016 05:27 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(02-22-2016 04:26 PM)robreke Wrote:  A Girl I had a one night stand with last year texted me last week: "Hey!" It was out of the blue and unexpected

I told her last week that I'd contact her today, on Monday to set the date. Before I could text her today, she texetd me this morning asking how my weekend was, so she's the one initiating these texts now.

I've arranged a date with her tomorrow night.

she's the most beautiful ( or one of the two) most beautiful girls I've ever been with. We had an amazing date last spring, great fun and the sex was so good, it was almost scary. She concurred with this. I dropped her off at her car that night afterwards, sure there was no way I wouldn't see her again.

After that, she was hard to peg down. A few times she committed to a date, then canceled the day of. I was disappointed because, like I said, this is a quality girl ( 8.5 - 9). I suspect there may have been an ex in the mix trying to peg her down.

I kept in touch with text over the past 9 months, I'd hit her up every now and then. She would always immediately text back but say things like she's in a serious relationship. The last time I texted her in January this year, she repeated this and I just texted "good luck krystal, i wish you the best. if things don't work out, it'd be great to catch up over coffee'

So, last week, which is a bit over a month since our last text exchange, she texts out of the blue like I mentioned above. Her third or fourth text says "before I meet you, I'm not looking for anything, just two ppl having coffee catching up"

I agree with her, just playing comfort game: " Sure, that sounds good to me."

Today I was setting final details and she requests: " Can we do 6? I have a project I'm working on and want to get home kinda early."

So, she's definitely setting me up in her texts that she really just does want to be meet for coffee unless she's taking plausible deniability to another level. She did mention working on her project last week too.

My plan is just to go in, play don't fuck it up game, and see if I can suggest a venue bounce or to my place but I'm not sure how to play this. I sense she just broke up with that 'serious boyfriend' and is wanting to feel me out again and literally take things slow. Also, we'll really be drinking coffee as we're not drinking at a bar.

Usually under circumstances like this, I'd be full bore try to get her home and bang her again, especially considering our first date, but this girl is setting a different (cautious, let's just meet for coffee/ I have to be home early ) frame.

Update - she flaked 45 minutes before the meet up : "So sorry, something came up can we reschedule?, I may be free Sunday"

Breaking all game convention, I called her 40 minutes later. She was acting all sweet, telling me everything she'd been doing. I played nice on the phone talking for 7 or 8 minutes. I know this is the kind of girl who usually walks all over men and has daddy issues so I gave it to her a bit like a dad would. I've already banged her and at this point didn't have anything to lose.

I tried to come across in a laid back way, kind of mocking her: "you tell me you're not the type to plan at the last minute but you cancelled on me at the last minute. I don't have time for it. I'm a very busy person and you saying you 'may' be free Sunday doesn't work, I'll already have something planned by then. If you want to see me, give me a definite time and day and stick to it. Otherwise, there's other things I could be doing."

Silence on her end for about 5 seconds and she said. Okay, I'll look at my calendar and let you know. I told her it was good to talk to her again and bye, ending on a non-dick note.

She texts this morning "Let's do coffee saturday?" I text her the time and place. She texts back "Sounds good. You can keep texting me if you like!"

Haha, she may be trying to make a beta orbiter out of me or she's fishing for comfort or something. I texted "I like hearing from you. I've got some meetings so let's chat later."

In the meantime, I've got at least 2 dates set before Saturday morning.

Met her for coffee. We hug and she basically just fills me in on everything happening in her life in the 10 months since I saw her. She talks alot about her boyfriend. On and on and at one point, I almost said, can we talk about something else? Though I was doing a good job of veering the conversation to different areas now and then.

Eventually she got to how her relationship was on the rocks and at this point it is an 'open relationship' where they're dating others or considering it. Hence, I assume, why she called me to set up the coffee date.

I ended it early, hugged goodbye and told her we should get drinks one night. She said okay. I was going to wait until Tuesday or so to text her again, but she texts me today "my car got stolen last night"

So, I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do with that. I just sent a quick reply I was sorry to hear it and made a quick inquiry. Well, at this point, she's using me to 'confide' in.

I'll hit her up in a day or two for drinks.

Post: #7218

February is the first month where a game goal I set for myself at the beginning of the month did not materialize.

I don’t set goals every month, but a lot of times I do, and in almost every case, the goals I set at the beginning of the month are things I achieve.

I know at the beginning of December 2015, my goals were to:
- sleep with TWO women
- re-introduce meat into my diet
- develop a prototype for a business idea

(The meat thing was an experiment to see if it might boost energy levels, but it didn’t have an appreciable effect, so I returned to being a vegetarian).

I did all of those things .

I wrote in Jagnum's 2015 Year in Review that I had achieved every major goal I set out during 2015. This much is true, see the thread. What I didn't write is that that I achieved the monthly goals I set, often when I least expected it.

At the beginning of February of this year, I set a goal for myself to sleep with two new women this month. I’m still at a level of game where sleeping with two women a month is a big achievement.

I thought this was entirely possible. I had slept with two new women in December. I had slept with two new women in January. And at the beginning of February, I had a few girls who I’d already been on first dates with that looked promising for second dates and beyond. And of course, there was also going to be the inevitable girls I meet during the month of February with whom I'd go on dates.

But game is Feast or Famine. So while December through mid-January was a Feast, February turned out to be a famine.

At the beginning of the last week of February, I lined up three dates with three girls where bangs were a distinct possibility. One for Thursday night, one for Friday night and one for Saturday night. Each girl had been on my bed before, and the fact that they were agreeing to meet up again meant that I expected one, maybe two would end in bangs.

On Thursday night Feb 25, I met a girl for a second date. I had first met her on a bus two months ago. She was extremely forward when we first met, in fact she asked me for my number. On our first date, she told me she was very openly polyamarous, she initiated kino a few times, I brought her back to my bedroom, but she wouldn’t bang, Anyway, I met up with her again on Thursday. It’d been a month since our first date. She was adamant we meet in her neighborhood. I told her that’s fine. Anyway we chatted, then I walked her back to her place and asked if I could use her bathroom. Once we got to her apartment, there was a guy in there. I knew she had a boyfriend. But I didn’t realize until we got to her place that she LIVES with her boyfriend in a one bedroom apartment. FAIL. I told her I’m heading home, she walked me to the door and we kissed a bit.

On Friday night Feb 26, I went out with a girl I’d seen a bunch of times in the past, but we’d been through a few fits and starts—I wasn’t sure about her and she wasn’t sure about me. Finally on this date, we ate dinner out, and she came back to my room to share wine. I’d escalate a bit, only for her to tell me she has to leave (“My roommate is probably wondering where I am.”). I’d say “We’re having fun stay for ten more minutes” and she would. This continued for some time. After nearly an hour of slowly escalating on my bed, I finally had her panties off and I went to put on a condom. I told her to sit up cowgirl style, and I got my dick in position against her pussy. But this time she said, “it’s time for me to go”, she rolled off me and put her clothes on. And she left.

On Saturday night Feb 27, a girl comes over for a third date. We watch a movie on my couch, move to my bedroom with no problem. I figure I’m setting myself up for third date sex, right? We start kissing. But then, she would not remove her shirt, after a few tries. Sex wasn’t happening. I realize in retrospect I build a ton of comfort with her on this date, but I didn’t do enough to amp up the sexual energy while we were watching a movie as well as on my bed before I started kissing her. I'd like to see her again.

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Overall, on these dates, I didn’t bring enough sexual energy. I need to bring more sexual energy and flirtation to the second half of the date, and while we’re on my bed but BEFORE I begin kissing her.

Will March be different? I’m not sure. I haven’t come up with goals yet for March. I’m going to soon.

ONE THING: My monthly goals are not exclusive to game. I usually put in one, maybe two game goals, but then try to set one or two monthly goals around lifestyle, like trying to implement new healthy habits, or work goals like finding a new client that will pay me for my work, or devoting X number of hours a week my early-stage business ideas. A goal could even be applied to my social life, one might be, “Re-connect with at least ten people you consider friends who you haven’t spoken to in a while. Have a 15 minute text/voice conversation where you can catch up.”

There’s something about writing things down that reduces the mental pressure. And for some reason, when I write down a goal, it often seems to come true. Well except February. But I’m not going to let failure in one month dictate my future.

Post: #7219

(02-25-2016 11:57 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I don't have the stomach to watch too many regular pickup infield videos.
Wondering if anyone could watch this and give me the play by play.

Nothing to see here.

-Introduction to video
-Chit-chat in different languages while on the date
-Set up a plan to go to the beach
-Cut scene back to her apartment, subtitles say "we didn't go to the beach, it was time for netflix & chill"
-Finish with a PG-13 lesbian sex scene

There was no approach, instruction, or "game" at all, just talking and "sex."

Post: #7220

(02-27-2016 03:51 AM)Agastya Wrote:  Contemplating exacting a little revenge on this girl who flaked on me. Long story short:

Met this pretty cute Indian girl off of daygame, brought her to my room, she was actually a lot hotter than I thought she was, ended up banging her for a year and a half (on and off). We weren't exclusive, but she'd been around for so long that while I didn't really have feelings for her, I did see her as a friend and didn't mind her company.

Over the summer, she kept texting me and telling me she missed me, sending me nudes, asking for dick pics. She wanted to meet up with me when I landed in her city for an event. I booked a hotel room, and was fairly excited to see her; I thought she was a cool gal, wanted to hang out with her again, and also hadn't had sex in two months.

The evenings before I'm set to meet her, she keeps texting me. She sends nudes. She keeps expressing how much she misses me.

Then the day I'm set to fly out, she flakes. Fuck that!

Cut her off completely, some drama ensued, but I stopped talking to her and returned to banging other girls once the school year started.

Now, she has a boyfriend...and just asked me if I'm DTF for next weekend. What should I do?

Should I send a picture of her text to her boyfriend? (Have the guy on instagram)

Should I let her down easy, just tell her that I'm not really into her anymore?

Should I bang her? I don't really want to see her again, but fuck it, she was pretty hot.

How should I handle this situation? Never had something like this come up before.

Hilariously enough, I just found out that her boyfriend actually ASKED her to hit me up. The guy gets turned on by being cuckolded. He wants her to get an iphone video of us smashing.

I'm pretty tempted to actually do it. I'm not super keen on seeing her again, but this is one of those once-in-a-lifetime bucket list kind of things.

Post: #7221

(02-26-2016 01:07 AM)Turnus Wrote:  I like girls...

I like girls in Lingerie...

I like taking pictures of girls in Lingerie...

I have invited about 6 different girls over tomorrow evening for what I've titled a "Lingerie Photo Shoot Party". These are various girls I've met on SA, Craigslist ad, Tinder, etc" I've met the majority of them. A couple of them will be brand new. I've framed it that I love photography and am doing photo shoots tomorrow night. Telling them to bring their sexy lingerie, heels, and I'll provide the liquor. Most of the girls have said they are down for shooting with other females.

I see a couple of different ways this may play out

1. Everyone flakes for one reason or the other

2. This blows up in my face, drama unfolds, etc

3. It's an epic night

I'll report back

You never reported back.

Post: #7222

(03-01-2016 04:12 AM)Agastya Wrote:  Hilariously enough, I just found out that her boyfriend actually ASKED her to hit me up. The guy gets turned on by being cuckolded. He wants her to get an iphone video of us smashing.

I'm pretty tempted to actually do it. I'm not super keen on seeing her again, but this is one of those once-in-a-lifetime bucket list kind of things.

I suspect a girl I see every now and then has this fetish. She mentioned once having "her dude" (her words) watch, so either the husband or her gets turned on by that. She never mentioned it again and that definitely something I am not bringing up. I never minded a female friend pretending to sleep on the next bed and Ive fucked girls at parties with people watching but this would be a whole different animal. Not my thing.

Though it must be her. Ive met the dude and you know how the most fucked up are the ones you would least suspect to? Well, this guy fits perfectly the definition of a herby cuck. Fat, frumpy, unshaved neck hairs, the sort of mediocre but well payed IT job that the unsocialized only childs of single moms flock to. He definitely is the kind of husband a secret dom/submission/humilliation fetishist would pick.

Post: #7223

Man I don't know if I could ever fuck a girl with her man in the room, without worried about being killed or him going into a rage.

Now I've tag teamed a girl with 2 friends of mine, but that's different compared to a cuckold.

Post: #7224

^No, the boyfriend won't be there. She wants to an iPhone video. It'll be a crappy video, but again, this is something of a bucket list item.

Post: #7225

You guys ever offer to pickup/give rides to a first date?

I'm setting up one with a foreign exchange student who's going to college here for a semester. She has no car and told me she rides her bike everywhere. I'm sure she doesn't have alot of money, but would think she could afford an uber.

The location I'm thinking of is, close to me, but probably not close to where she lives.