Last night was the night I got the most makeouts on a night out.

I'm not really sure how many. It was somewhere between 4-6. Oddly enough I was sober too.

I had a pull attempt at the end of the night. I definitely thought at the time I was pushing hard enough, but thinking back on it I could have pushed harder. Logistics were difficult and she was making excuses but I could have done better.

That's enough for me. I now have to enforce the thought that I will never see this girl again, and that it's either I go all in at that moment or nothing at all. No such thing as getting a number and hoping to continue it some other time.

(10-04-2013 03:55 PM)Menace Wrote:  I accidentally stumbled on a good restart text, or text to get a girl's attention. It's pretty simple, here it is:

GIRLSNAME... (yes, include the ellipses).

I like this because you can take it in a playful direction based on her reply.

It also reminds me of something younger girls do when they are being flirty via text, where they type the last letter of your name a bunch of times, i.e. "Blureddddd"

(10-04-2013 02:48 PM)DVY Wrote:  Building, neighborhood is WAY different than room-mate. I have enough women that I would at least TRY not to bang her. My 2c.

Its a huge headache to have "living problems" like a bitchy live-in semi GF.

You are assuming that she will become "bitchy". You are assuming that she will be a "headache". You are assuming that she will cause "living problems".

I don't make these negative assumptions.

After I bang a girl, I assume that she will -- bring me other girls, offer a threesome, become more loyal to me, be less bitchy, etc.

But, who knows what will actually happen?

My assumptions are positive, your assumptions are negative.

Thats all we know..

(10-04-2013 03:31 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  Roommate, especially when I'm sub-letting to her

Financially I have a big incentive to keep it drama free

Well, if you are subletting a room to her, I can understand your decision to not bang her.

I agree with you.

I just wanted to make the point that "Don't shit where you eat" is not always true.

I have banged girls from work, girls in my apartment building, friends of friends, etc. and I rarely have a problem.

In fact, sometimes, banging girls at work has helped me to get a promotion. And, banging friends of friends has given me more power within my social scene.

After I bang girls, I assume that they will respect me, not disrespect me.

Too many guys get scared away because of "Don't shit where you eat". I think is mostly paranoia. All you are doing is fucking a girl who you will see again. I don't think its a big deal.

That said, if I was renting a room to a girl, I probably wouldn't bang her.

But, I would lower the rent for sexual favors! Just kidding!

There is nothing wrong with playing it safe.

I just refuse to live in fear. Sex between 2 consenting adults is nothing to be afraid of.

When we can not have sex because we fear the consequences, the feminists have won.

Met this chick off the internet. Not a fatty but obviously pics were more flattering. It was going real shitty at first and her male friend turned up and i went to get another beer.

From the corner of my eye I saw this beta chump try to kiss her or something but she gave him the cheek.

Beta chump tried to tell a story how he had broken someones nose and got taken to drunk tank. Told them i had been to drunk tank as well, on a road trip. Then went on to DHV frenzy and dropped stories on my travels, contact sport that i play, job at a nicer part of town and finally some sensitive art shit(chick told me she was an "artist"). The chick was probably getting wet at this point.

Then i thought i saw a friend of my gf, shit! Called my friends, luckily they were in a nearby bar so i bailed quickly.

Later sent her a text and she baited an invitation for another meet up but i haven't answered. I don't have any time for extra girls now and she can go on the backburner.

A co-worker chick texted me if she could come over. Cute 7 brunette green eyes. Strong LMR when she first came last Sunday. This time I thought she really wanted the D. She did, but after starting banging her for like one minute, she backed off and said "This isn't supposed to happen", "we've just met", "it's too early" and went cold.

First strong LMR after the bang initiated. What do you guys do? She was moaning and enjoying my dick I can tell.

(10-04-2013 01:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If 2 adults cannot respect each other after having sex then they are just immature, childish people.

Sounds like you are describing women, i purposely avoid to shit where i eat, i would probably have 50 more notches than i do if i did, but then again i would have to move out of my country and never come back if i did.

(10-04-2013 03:55 PM)Menace Wrote:  I accidentally stumbled on a good restart text, or text to get a girl's attention. It's pretty simple, here it is:

GIRLSNAME... (yes, include the ellipses).

I can confirm i have doing this for a while, also i just text them.. señora...

Virgin game guys?

This is a new scenario for me. I knew I was heading into this when she apologized for not being a good kisser in date 2, and her overall demeanor.

I had her in the backseat top off, and when I started rubbing her pussy I felt a pad and she told me she was on her period. Shortly after she mentioned she was a virgin and apologized, saying she was hoping it was not a turn off.

I don't know how to proceed. I did run some of Roosh's virgin game, saying I was probably not the right guy that sex would be painful, and teased her a bit. I talked about how sex isn't a big deal as people make it seem. I told her I'm still in good terms with the girls I've been with and still hangout with some of them.

She agreed and said sex is a natural thing and understands there is a difference between raw fucking and making love. She said she wants to get to know someone well beforehand.

Having said that, she mentioned this was as far as she's ever been with someone. I'm the first guy to play with her tits.

I left it open ended at us hanging out again over the weekend, and maybe I can get the bang then after her period passes. I don't want anything serious, but at the same time I don't want to pump and dump her.

If I do get a bang, is the best course of action to just see her a few times afterwards with time in between and then let it fizzle out?

Ideas how to proceed?

I'm standing at the bar, three days out of back surgery, talking with my music nerd friends about intellectual music shit and a girl comes up to me and tells me that her friend thinks I'm hot.

Well, thanks. http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11951-...#pid553507

Easiest bang I've had in a while. A severe case of don't fuck it up game. Don't get me wrong, this girl had a pretty face, and nice tits but when I undressed her, she could have given up some weight and been really hot. I find myself typing that all too often.

I don't think I should even be having sex at this time. I probably shouldn't have been out at the bar at all.

I had to figure out a new way to do it. Slither sex. I knew these uncomfortable low-quality satin sheets would come in handy at some point; they made it possible for me to slide my whole body into this girl without exerting too much energy, or stretching my back out.

I'm going to try it and when I am fully healed.

At oktoberfest on the opening weekend. We have a reservation at the hofbrauhaus tent. After eating, and drinking about 3 maßes my buddies and i get up from the table to make some moves.

I i decide to try out a new approach technique. Its pretty simple. Just stand by the high traffic aisle and shout " hey!", point at them aggressively and call them over. Then, I would comment on their dirndl...whether it was real bavarian or what.

i see a short crystal blue eyed bavarian, i try out my new technique. It works beautifully. We talk for awhile. Maybe about 20 mins. I couldnt say what it was about. I was pretty drunk by then. All i remember is that i got her number, tried to kiss but she dodged. (Side note on that night: got three makeouts with randoms)

We text back and forth for a couple weeks. Finally Tonight we met up for some drinks. Goes well. Bounced to a couple places. Makeout in bar. Was looking promising but I had to leave early to catch my train.

At the goodbye, we kissed some more. I was getting puppy dog eyes. She didnt want me to go. Probably Could have gotten the notch with better logistics. But she seems ready for next time.

Whats your guys' opinion on saying extremely crude shit to girls. I usually do it with girls I have good rapport with and they eat it up.

An old FB was passing thru town so we hung out. I pulled out my money clip that had ~$400 in it, she stopped,grinned and said I was a big baller (basically). I said (in a serious tone) "bitch, don't look at me like im your fuckin meal ticket" the cashier just stared in horror while the old FB looked at me lovingly with doe eyes.

I'll do it when they bring up feminist type thinking, or show vulnerability asking if they mean anything to me etc. I don't have a ton of examples because its pretty rare.

I've only ever had good responses save for times when I've attacked some core belief they have about themselves.

Epic weekend.

I'm more concerned about the fact the last 3-4 times I've had sex I have gotten a bad headache after cumming. It just happened with a regular a couple hours ago.

I never get headaches. Now I get them everytime I cum. If it keeps up for another week I'm going to the docs.

Starting to get to the point where these are girls are giving me the vibe that they want to be my girlfriend.

Am I leading them on if we have made any agreement?

Logically, no. Emotionally, I think they'd be pissed if they found out about the other girls.

What to do? .. I don't believe I'm lying to them.

Don't stress soup. You haven't explicitly told them you're going to be monogamous.

Let them know either indirectly or directly that you enjoy their company, but don't do the whole monogamy thing.

How is your current relationship with them? Has she been introduced into your social circle, you to hers? Do you guys share any inside jokes or a really good rapport?

In my experience as soon as a girl starts trying to get you out meeting her friends or talking a lot about the future she's seeing you as her boyfriend (or hopeful boyfriend). If you do the same then you're leading her on.

How would you guys handle this?


   

It's too bad I was asleep when she first messaged me.

(10-13-2013 11:07 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Don't stress soup. You haven't explicitly told them you're going to be monogamous.

Let them know either indirectly or directly that you enjoy their company, but don't do the whole monogamy thing.

How is your current relationship with them? Has she been introduced into your social circle, you to hers? Do you guys share any inside jokes or a really good rapport?

In my experience as soon as a girl starts trying to get you out meeting her friends or talking a lot about the future she's seeing you as her boyfriend (or hopeful boyfriend). If you do the same then you're leading her on.

No talking about future stuff yet, but I've introduced both of these girls to different parts of my of social.

Whatever, if we get to the point where we have to talk about it, I'm going to just tell exactly what I can, nothing more and nothing less- that I enjoy hanging out with them.

(10-13-2013 10:55 PM)soup Wrote:  these are girls are giving me the vibe that they want to be my girlfriend.

That means that your game is strong

(10-13-2013 10:55 PM)soup Wrote:  What to do? .. I don't believe I'm lying to them.

Tell them that you just got out of an ltr and you don't want to get back into another one too quickly.

Tell them you don't have time for an relationship but you really like them and want to hang with them.

Something like that.

Also, experiment with more honesty. Tell them that you want to be friends.

First drive through pull. I work at a Starbucks; great opportunities, hot girls often cruise through the drive through instead of coming inside. Mine's not the best overall, but it's decent enough. Get a lot of high school girls trampin' through. Pulled a yoga girl; talked to her a couple times before and built the vibe - told her on the second after we exchanged names that I'll do my best to remember it. She told me "We might have a problem with each other then." Told her we just may and let her go for the moment. Saw her yesterday, said hey, let's go out, handed her a clipboard. She said I should come join her for yoga. I'll maybe take that up later; start with something more logistically favorable first though. Adorable girl with a slight hippy vibe.

Gettin' paid to get girls. Most of the time I pull in the lobby and on breaks, decided to push boundaries this time.

Meltdown with a long time girlfriend going on atm. Went drinking with my boys on sat, she wanted to come home with me that night but i wasn't too happy about it cause i had just spent 2 days with her(we don't live together), caved in later in the night but she was in a foul mood already and went home. She didn't talk to me on sunday and today she hinted that she wasn't happy about our relationship, called her bluff and said "fine, we'll break up if you want". She doesn't understand that sometimes i just wanna be alone. Made me realize how trapped i feel in this relationship. Let's see how this goes down.

(10-14-2013 01:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(10-13-2013 10:55 PM)soup Wrote:  these are girls are giving me the vibe that they want to be my girlfriend.

That means that your game is strong

(10-13-2013 10:55 PM)soup Wrote:  What to do? .. I don't believe I'm lying to them.

Tell them that you just got out of an ltr and you don't want to get back into another one too quickly.

Tell them you don't have time for an relationship but you really like them and want to hang with them.

Something like that.

Also, experiment with more honesty. Tell them that you want to be friends.

It is cool going out with one of them- she's got this great slender body and guys are always looking at her longingly ha.

Soup, I'm in a similar position with a girl and I tend to ignore the vibe and play the dumb.
Unless she directly asks, I keep the correct state of affairs and on the market to get new girls (currently I have a small roster of two, still working on it).
When the time comes and she directly declares what she is looking for, plan is being honest and say that I enjoy being with her but I'm not committing, because that's my nature.
If she choose to split, that would be sad but such is the way of things.

Hope it helps...

(10-14-2013 10:34 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  How would you guys handle this?




It's too bad I was asleep when she first messaged me.

She opened you with that message?

She's flirting and likes your look/profile, so flirt back and number close quick...

Her: yes pleasee =]]
You: long blonde hair and blue eyes? marry me.
Her: hahah blah blah lolz
You: text me so we can plan our honeymoon: 123-456-7890

Based on her inability to spell, age, and over-tanned skin, this girl is good to go. Invite her over and go for the bang.

(10-14-2013 02:06 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(10-14-2013 10:34 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  How would you guys handle this?




It's too bad I was asleep when she first messaged me.

She opened you with that message?

She's flirting and likes your look/profile, so flirt back and number close quick...

Her: yes pleasee =]]
You: long blonde hair and blue eyes? marry me.
Her: hahah blah blah lolz
You: text me so we can plan our honeymoon: 123-456-7890

Based on her inability to spell and her over-tanned skin, this girl is good to go. Invite her over and go for the bang.

I can pretty much guarantee that she was drunk at 12am fucking around on OKC and you missed that boat.

Try getting back to her, but I'd bet she's not going to respond and is probably ashamed of drunk messaging like a slut.

Soup took the words out of my mouth.

Pulled the number from the bartender from the bar that is literally right downstairs from my apartment. I hate the numbers from the working girls, you can never tell if they are authentic or if they are just looking for more tips.

I was there for a couple hours rolling dolo and droppped a biz card as I bounced. Left to walk upstairs and bang out a regular (logistics, love that shit). Went back down afterwards and she came up to me saying she was interested in my biz card and wanted to know more. Bit of small talk over a couple hours and the number was in my hands.

Ill see what I can do with it.

I went out with my Belizean ting yesterday. It is a holiday down there. We met at the festival. My sister was there also. Cooled out for weh le bit den decided to get ready to hit d club lata. Finally got there at 1130ish. Nice l spot. Her brother was in town for the holiday so he was drinking with us. There was five of us total. I bought a round of shots and the other guy bought the beer.

I was chillin. I do like to punta but I wanted to get a nice little buzz. The brother kept telling me his sister wants to dance. I guess he heard about us kickin it the night earlier. We danced/punta for more than an hour. Three fights broke out later that night so we bounced around three. We crossed the street and hit ge pier for a bit. Ended up getting into our underwear and got in the water for an hour. My girl wrapped her legs around me and I was kissing on her neck. She actually kissed me twice. She was enjoying it but didnt want to seem too fast.

Shes a good girl. Has a five year old but is a grant writer for the town. She showed me a great time and took care of me. She is helping me sell my car and did some other research for me. PG is a tiny town so if I jut stick with her then I cant fuck around. I dont mind. I actually like her.

I had met two girls in Corozal which is on the Belize Mexican border. But were feelin me. Both can get it. I like the thicker one. She doesnt drink but still is fun and actually pretty funny. I just need to keep my Facebook clean so I dont piss my PG girl off.

Overall Belize is good and can be pretty easy. They love my American accent and the fact that I work. Belize men really dont work. If I can have one in each town and keep my shit clean then I would be happy to make that monthly run. We will see.

Finished the goddamned application to Harvard.
Lay down on the floor sweating and gasping for breath.
Hell of a ride, but can't say that I enjoyed it much.
A hard 9.
Blue blood givin me blue balls.
Might be the beginnings of a oneitis.