Sometimes you are the windshield, sometimes you are the bug.
Background: About an year ago, I met a girl on POF banged her and she wanted to split cause I "gave her the impression that I want BF,GF thing", as she got up to leave my apartment, in a blaze of glorious alphaness I picked her up, got her to my bed and banged her brains out.
We kept fucking regularly for a few months till she went to a trip.
Some months have come to pass and in the end of August she contacted my about two days after she came back and asked to meetup, we banged within no time after face to face.
I was still on the lookout for other lizards, banged other girl semi-regularly ,and could not give a flying shit about who she fucks.
She started giving me the relationship vibe, but I had faith
in a solid plan.
But in the moment of truth, on a blight of weakness and it became undone.
It was the birthday of the main girl, she spent the night in my apartment.
She went to the washroom, and come out and shoots at my
"are you sleeping with other girls?"
(It turns out that the secondary girl left a pad in the washroom bin, and I didn't empty the bin, fucking karma slapping me in the face for being a lazy fuck).
I was dead honest and told her yes.
Long story short, I have agreed to go monogamous with her.
Why? I guess because I didn't had the heart to dump a girl on her birthday, yeah beta, I know.
Point and laugh.
The plan right now is to see how it unfolds, no end date in which I have to dump her.
So as one share good and success, one must share his fails.
Maybe something is to be learned here, empty trash bin after fucking a girl on her period.