The hamster force is strong in some of these SA banglers:

Is there anyone real on here? No more games.

About Me
Hello, I'm looking for that special gentleman out there who can fulfill my needs as well as his own. I love to share some laughs and some wine. Let's see where the road takes us.

What I'm Looking for
I'm looking to meet once a week if not more. I'm also looking for someone who can make me feel like a queen. I have been stood up twice and trolled for pics. Please don't contact me unless your serious. I am not prepared to share my phone number right away either for privacy. I have no problem exchanging emails. That being said I hope there is a gentleman out there who is real and outgoing and can have fun together. Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you

Relationship
Married But Looking
Children
Prefer Not To Say

Was in the general log-on grid of pics/profiles... Married but Looking is not in any of my saved search criteria but
her complaining if anyone on here (SA) is real - while married but looking - seemed very pot kettle black to me.

Too bad she was bangable but too much Drama for me.

Have hit it decently hard and gotten 6 new notches in the past month from SA ranging from Latinas, black, white and Asian. All but the white girl confided in me how I was so different from the other weirdos/creeps that they've met with off the site, and shared some of the crazy sperg behavior of their dates. Thinking this was interesting, I made a dummy female profile to see what they were talking about. Crafted the profile to appeal to as many guys as possible and put up pics of an attractive Asian girl that I know casually but don't give a shit about.

In the past two weeks I've had over 300 unsolicited messages including dumb "me luv u long time" messages, long ass essays proclaiming their undying love to guys who are offering her $5k per meet once a week. Even had one of my buddies who I turned on to the site hit her up with some hilariously bad game. Wanted to troll him for a bit, but that'd be a dick move so I let him know and we just laughed it off together. I don't respond to any of the other guys, but 3 of them have messaged the profile everyday since it's been up begging for a chance.

It's pretty incredible how thirsty guys are even on a site where rich men should be the prize and girls the seekers. #justenjoythedecline

(04-11-2016 07:01 PM)booshala Wrote:  Have hit it decently hard and gotten 6 new notches in the past month from SA ranging from Latinas, black, white and Asian. All but the white girl confided in me how I was so different from the other weirdos/creeps that they've met with off the site, and shared some of the crazy sperg behavior of their dates. Thinking this was interesting, I made a dummy female profile to see what they were talking about. Crafted the profile to appeal to as many guys as possible and put up pics of an attractive Asian girl that I know casually but don't give a shit about.

In the past two weeks I've had over 300 unsolicited messages including dumb "me luv u long time" messages, long ass essays proclaiming their undying love to guys who are offering her $5k per meet once a week. Even had one of my buddies who I turned on to the site hit her up with some hilariously bad game. Wanted to troll him for a bit, but that'd be a dick move so I let him know and we just laughed it off together. I don't respond to any of the other guys, but 3 of them have messaged the profile everyday since it's been up begging for a chance.

It's pretty incredible how thirsty guys are even on a site where rich men should be the prize and girls the seekers. #justenjoythedecline

Whoa...... Holy shit.

5k per meet? There's no way rich men are that thirsty. Especially when they can simply go to a place/country any time where the girls are hotter and more plentiful. These guys never heard of traveling? I saw on the site the ratio is 4 girls to every 1 guy. It used to be 10 to 1 a couple years ago.

What city are you in?

(04-12-2016 02:40 PM)BossOfBosses Wrote:  Whoa...... Holy shit.

5k per meet? There's no way rich men are that thirsty. Especially when they can simply go to a place/country any time where the girls are hotter and more plentiful. These guys never heard of traveling? I saw on the site the ratio is 4 girls to every 1 guy. It used to be 10 to 1 a couple years ago.

What city are you in?

I'm in a weird part of SoCal but I put the profile's location in Laguna Beach (ritzier area of Orange County) and Los Angeles. I think a lot of rich guys in the US have more money on their hands than time, so they're more inclined to drop $5k on a girl that's in their backyard versus having to travel around the world to get outsized return on that money. Plus the girl in my profile is a semi-knockout without being slutty and I think I wrote pretty good copy. You can PM me if you want the link to the profile.

I'm down to the last day on my month trial and I've nailed down three reoccurring girls off the site. Perhaps unsurprisingly, all three of them identify as queer/bisexual (2 of them with gender/ethnic studies degrees) and they are 18, 21 and 22 respectively. Kind of wanted to lock down a high level girlfriend off of this site - as I work crazy hours - but not complaining at all about the quasi harem I've managed to cobble together. Wondering how viable it would be to try for a threesome out of this pool.

Hotwheels and MrXY: Took your advice to heart and used many of the tips and strategies you laid out early on in the thread. Drinks on me if you're ever in the area.

^It would be interesting to hear what is expected from the women for the 5K a week.

Just spent the last couple hours reading this thread. Lots of good stuff.

Question. What if your ride isn't congruent with the lifestyle you're portraying ?

I'm in sales, and both my vehicles are over 10 years old. They're both in decent shape. Well maintained. Not victims of upstate NY rust. One's a minivan (I've got younger kids) and the other is a domestic convertible.

The minivan screams kids, both inside and out. So I'll take the convertible.

Should the question comes up, my reason would be that I don't want to put a crapload of miles on my 'good' car (which I can make just about anything, doesn't have to be the minivan).

Any other ideas on how to address the car, or does the miles reasoning work ?

(04-26-2016 12:44 PM)George is King Wrote:  Just spent the last couple hours reading this thread. Lots of good stuff.

Question. What if your ride isn't congruent with the lifestyle you're portraying ?



Any other ideas on how to address the car, or does the miles reasoning work ?

Don't

If you have logistics down you should never even have to get in a car..at all.

If for some reason you do then just Uber "because I don't drink and drive...ever".

^^
Understood, PT. Thanks for the response.

I'm not a drinker (10+ years sober), so I have to lean heavy on the logistics. And if she's drinking, she may suggest that I drive (and leave her car there).

In the event that I'm not able to find a hotel close to the original meeting, how would you proceed ?

(04-26-2016 03:28 PM)George is King Wrote:  ^^
Understood, PT. Thanks for the response.

I'm not a drinker (10+ years sober), so I have to lean heavy on the logistics. And if she's drinking, she may suggest that I drive (and leave her car there).

In the event that I'm not able to find a hotel close to the original meeting, how would you proceed ?

In my book rule #1 of "logistics" is sort of a variation:

"Keep the distance between Point A (the meeting) and Point B (the bang) as short as possible"

For me personally 1st date I always meet at a bar that's within walking distance of my place.

2nd date it's my pad...my bed is 30 ft from my kitchen...even better

If you cant find a hotel near the original meeting place then change the meeting place to one near a hotel. Better yet meet at the hotel bar and drink soda and limes while she gets her buzz on a nice wine

(04-11-2016 07:01 PM)booshala Wrote:  Have hit it decently hard and gotten 6 new notches in the past month from SA ranging from Latinas, black, white and Asian. All but the white girl confided in me how I was so different from the other weirdos/creeps that they've met with off the site, and shared some of the crazy sperg behavior of their dates. Thinking this was interesting, I made a dummy female profile to see what they were talking about. Crafted the profile to appeal to as many guys as possible and put up pics of an attractive Asian girl that I know casually but don't give a shit about.

In the past two weeks I've had over 300 unsolicited messages including dumb "me luv u long time" messages, long ass essays proclaiming their undying love to guys who are offering her $5k per meet once a week. Even had one of my buddies who I turned on to the site hit her up with some hilariously bad game. Wanted to troll him for a bit, but that'd be a dick move so I let him know and we just laughed it off together. I don't respond to any of the other guys, but 3 of them have messaged the profile everyday since it's been up begging for a chance.

It's pretty incredible how thirsty guys are even on a site where rich men should be the prize and girls the seekers. #justenjoythedecline

Very interesting research here. Backs up everything the scandalous hoes will tell you about the site being full of creeps and weak men. They'll still bang em for a buck though.

Not hard for us to stand out. I'm tapping this gold mine until it runs dry. What a fucking glorious racket this has been.

Fucked a girl off here Thursday. She tried to entice me into a 2nd meet up at her place with some marijuana edibles and good sex. Then she hits me with "we're not fucking again until I see some of that money"

Silly girl. This is a buyer's market and it's overcrowded with what you're selling. As a "buyer", it's just too easy to move you along and fuck the next one who doesn't demand shit.

(04-26-2016 03:40 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(04-26-2016 03:28 PM)George is King Wrote:  ^^
Understood, PT. Thanks for the response.

I'm not a drinker (10+ years sober), so I have to lean heavy on the logistics. And if she's drinking, she may suggest that I drive (and leave her car there).

In the event that I'm not able to find a hotel close to the original meeting, how would you proceed ?

In my book rule #1 of "logistics" is sort of a variation:

"Keep the distance between Point A (the meeting) and Point B (the bang) as short as possible"

For me personally 1st date I always meet at a bar that's within walking distance of my place.

2nd date it's my pad...my bed is 30 ft from my kitchen...even better

If you cant find a hotel near the original meeting place then change the meeting place to one near a hotel. Better yet meet at the hotel bar and drink soda and limes while she gets her buzz on a nice wine

So you are bringing chicks that you are lying to about you resources back to your place? Don't you not worry about the bad things that can accompany that? Also, how nice is your place, and what are you representing as your income?

Could use the board's perspective here..

Stumbled across an SB on CL two days ago. Solid 8, 29 yo. Swapped a couple emails, moved to text. Complimented her face pics, she followed with an unsolicited topless shot. Confirmed she was real when she obliged when I told her to send me a topless one while flipping me the bird.
A few more texts, and I asked what she was looking for as far as an arrangement.

"Whatever you want and we agree on. I'm pretty open sexually."
Followed with: "Really we need to meet first and see if any connection."

Cool, told her I wasn't sure when I'd be in her area again. So I'll look her up when I'm in her town.

Texted her a few minutes ago that I'll be in her area in a little while.

Her: "Actally, I'm headed to a movie at 5:45"
Me: "Awesome. Have a good time."
Her: "Not sure when you'll be around"
Me: "About 8:00"
Her: "Are you just coming through ? It might work"
Me: "A good chance I'll be staying overnight"
Her: "If you stay, I can meet if it's not too late. But I need to get home kind of early. I have a cold"

I haven't texted back yet. I figure the phone is off in the movie. And she's liable to text me when the movie's over.

The sick/cold thing sounds like a shit test, if you've got a cold why are you going to the movies. And it's not a sneak preview movie, either.

I can stop in her town for a while.. Or I can drive straight through, be in my own neighborhood in an additional hour, and game in my own town.

Thoughts on where you guys would go from here ?

(04-27-2016 04:12 PM)Harvey Specter Wrote:  

(04-26-2016 03:40 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(04-26-2016 03:28 PM)George is King Wrote:  ^^
Understood, PT. Thanks for the response.

I'm not a drinker (10+ years sober), so I have to lean heavy on the logistics. And if she's drinking, she may suggest that I drive (and leave her car there).

In the event that I'm not able to find a hotel close to the original meeting, how would you proceed ?

In my book rule #1 of "logistics" is sort of a variation:

"Keep the distance between Point A (the meeting) and Point B (the bang) as short as possible"

For me personally 1st date I always meet at a bar that's within walking distance of my place.

2nd date it's my pad...my bed is 30 ft from my kitchen...even better

If you cant find a hotel near the original meeting place then change the meeting place to one near a hotel. Better yet meet at the hotel bar and drink soda and limes while she gets her buzz on a nice wine

So you are bringing chicks that you are lying to about you resources back to your place? Don't you not worry about the bad things that can accompany that? Also, how nice is your place, and what are you representing as your income?

I've never once said on this forum that I was lying to chicks. I don't need to. I have a very nice place in an upscale beach community

Not sure exactly what you're alluding to with "bad things"(?) but I'll assume you're talking about potential psycho / stalker chicks knowing where I live. Personally I believe that risk is very low compared to a potential false sexual assault charge...so about a year and a half ago I had a surveillance system installed (I've written several posts about this) and video every encounter. (This topic including legalities has been covered in other threads as well)

I realize this won't work for everyone but I still maintain the principle is intact...(whether it's an SA chick or any other)meeting venue should be as close as possible to banging venue

(04-27-2016 05:06 PM)George is King Wrote:  Could use the board's perspective here..

Stumbled across an SB on CL two days ago. Solid 8, 29 yo. Swapped a couple emails, moved to text. Complimented her face pics, she followed with an unsolicited topless shot. Confirmed she was real when she obliged when I told her to send me a topless one while flipping me the bird.
A few more texts, and I asked what she was looking for as far as an arrangement.

"Whatever you want and we agree on. I'm pretty open sexually."
Followed with: "Really we need to meet first and see if any connection."

Cool, told her I wasn't sure when I'd be in her area again. So I'll look her up when I'm in her town.

Texted her a few minutes ago that I'll be in her area in a little while.

Her: "Actally, I'm headed to a movie at 5:45"
Me: "Awesome. Have a good time."
Her: "Not sure when you'll be around"
Me: "About 8:00"
Her: "Are you just coming through ? It might work"
Me: "A good chance I'll be staying overnight"
Her: "If you stay, I can meet if it's not too late. But I need to get home kind of early. I have a cold"

I haven't texted back yet. I figure the phone is off in the movie. And she's liable to text me when the movie's over.

The sick/cold thing sounds like a shit test, if you've got a cold why are you going to the movies. And it's not a sneak preview movie, either.

I can stop in her town for a while.. Or I can drive straight through, be in my own neighborhood in an additional hour, and game in my own town.

Thoughts on where you guys would go from here ?

See post about hotel bar above.

Meet in bar and if she's DTF THEN book a room. If not, continue on, nothing really lost

Edit. "Bird in hand"...This chick is at least a real lead versus some "unknown" potential chick in your town...That's my 2 cents

Her: "The movie just let out"
Me: "Nice. I've got about an hour before I hit your town.."
Her: "Ok I'm going home sorry I feel icky"
Me: "Ok hope you feel better"
(Too bad you're sick, but that ain't gonna ruin my night)

I figure since I'm going through anyway, I'll stop at the hotel with the bar, get the lay of the land, and have a couple drinks. Best case scenario she texts back in an hour and suddenly feels better (game on). At a minimum I can shake a couple hands and maybe make a connection at the hotel for the future.

(04-27-2016 05:06 PM)George is King Wrote:  Could use the board's perspective here..

Stumbled across an SB on CL two days ago. Solid 8, 29 yo. Swapped a couple emails, moved to text. Complimented her face pics, she followed with an unsolicited topless shot. Confirmed she was real when she obliged when I told her to send me a topless one while flipping me the bird.
A few more texts, and I asked what she was looking for as far as an arrangement.

"Whatever you want and we agree on. I'm pretty open sexually."
Followed with: "Really we need to meet first and see if any connection."

Cool, told her I wasn't sure when I'd be in her area again. So I'll look her up when I'm in her town.

Texted her a few minutes ago that I'll be in her area in a little while.

Her: "Actally, I'm headed to a movie at 5:45"
Me: "Awesome. Have a good time."
Her: "Not sure when you'll be around"
Me: "About 8:00"
Her: "Are you just coming through ? It might work"
Me: "A good chance I'll be staying overnight"
Her: "If you stay, I can meet if it's not too late. But I need to get home kind of early. I have a cold"

I haven't texted back yet. I figure the phone is off in the movie. And she's liable to text me when the movie's over.

The sick/cold thing sounds like a shit test, if you've got a cold why are you going to the movies. And it's not a sneak preview movie, either.

I can stop in her town for a while.. Or I can drive straight through, be in my own neighborhood in an additional hour, and game in my own town.

Thoughts on where you guys would go from here ?

These kinds of questions really belong in the 'what should I text next? thread' regardless of where you met her.

Most the questions were answered in the last couple of pages.

Venue 1 ---> Venue 2 nearby ---> Bang Location (AirBNB, Hotel, etc).

Or

Venue 1 ---> Bang Location (choose a location within walking distance)

(04-27-2016 05:41 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  I've never once said on this forum that I was lying to chicks. I don't need to. I have a very nice place in an upscale beach community

Not sure exactly what you're alluding to with "bad things"(?) but I'll assume you're talking about potential psycho / stalker chicks knowing where I live. Personally I believe that risk is very low compared to a potential false sexual assault charge...so about a year and a half ago I had a surveillance system installed (I've written several posts about this) and video every encounter. (This topic including legalities has been covered in other threads as well)

I realize this won't work for everyone but I still maintain the principle is intact...(whether it's an SA chick or any other)meeting venue should be as close as possible to banging venue

Yeah, my bad, I wasn't trying to say that you were a liar, I just thought it was generally advised to not have these SA chicks know where you live.

(04-27-2016 06:34 PM)George is King Wrote:  Her: "The movie just let out"
Me: "Nice. I've got about an hour before I hit your town.."
Her: "Ok I'm going home sorry I feel icky"
Me: "Ok hope you feel better"
(Too bad you're sick, but that ain't gonna ruin my night)

I figure since I'm going through anyway, I'll stop at the hotel with the bar, get the lay of the land, and have a couple drinks. Best case scenario she texts back in an hour and suddenly feels better (game on). At a minimum I can shake a couple hands and maybe make a connection at the hotel for the future.

"Nice. I've got about an hour before I hit your town.."

IMO sounds too much like "I'll be passing through to drag a dick through you shortly"

As robreke stated this belongs in a "what to text" thread but keep in mind...chicks are chicks...just becasue they're on SA doesn't mean the rules go out the window. You still need to get the tingles going and afford them the plausible deniability needed to meet a complete stranger

I'd have gone with something like "Hey let's meet at the XYZ bar in an hour. I'd love to chat with you and see if we click" or some variation of that.

(04-28-2016 08:25 AM)Harvey Specter Wrote:  Yeah, my bad, I wasn't trying to say that you were a liar, I just thought it was generally advised to not have these SA chicks know where you live.

Unless they're a hooker, which should be screened out as has been explained exhaustively in this thread, then SA chicks are ultimately just chicks...game accordingly

Generally speaking I would agree that it would be better not to have ANY chick know where you live but.... This is just my personal position...I'm more leery of a chick falsely accusing me than I am her showing up uninvited (at that point she's breaking the law and I'd call the cops on her...if needed)

Again...just because they're on SA really doesn't change the rules. Like in casino blackjack: the rules are statistically in your favor...but if you don't know how to play the game you will leave empty handed (or in the case of SA with only your hand on your dick)

I was on the bubble regarding whether to post it in the SA or texting thread. I erred on the side of caution, and figured that it should go here, as the exchange stemmed from SA game.

But I see your point now, in the big picture it's still text game.

PT,

Agreed, I probably could have worded that differently. I like your response a lot better. Looking back after the fact, mine sort of reads like she has to figure out the logistics. Yours is more, "Here's where I'll be", and all she has to do is get pretty and show up.

I'll try her again next time I'm in the area. I'll assume she was telling the truth about feeling sick, so I won't next her just yet.

All said, it ended up being a good night for future gaming in that area. Found a hotel with a bar, chatted up a couple of the locals and the bartender (Saturday's his last night, though, damn), and got a better idea of the logistics in the surrounding neighborhood.

To top it off, on the late drive home I got a text from a chick I hadn't heard from in a few months. Back then she'd gotten more serious with her boyfriend, but they broke it off Tuesday night. Hey, she needed consoling..

I have had 4 M&Gs so far and will be probably close with most of them. I've offered them a pay per meet of 2-300 allowance (some of them will actually host) with no regular schedule of meets. I've read most of the forum before.

So if they haven't asked for the money before the bang, and you get the bang, and they haven't mentioned the money, don't say anything right? Also if they mention the allowance after the bang, what would be the best excuse? Like I will pay pal you or you will just get the whole amount next date?

Any tips for good excuses would really help.

edit: I've done arrangements before, but have actually paid out allowance (so can't brag here), but in all cases because I've done a M&G separate from the bang date, and it is usually during the day, etc, no girl has ever asked for money up front or during. So definitely see your points posted here, and want to start employing the game.

So are you actually planning to pay them ?

In the past, they usually don't even bring it up, since I seem so legit. And since I've been getting so many hits (and after reading this forum), I feel like I should just not bring it up or just say I'll get you next date or paypal or something.

And then like the original article, maybe stay in contact, but slowly ghost.

I would never pay upfront, since these aren't pros, they may not follow through if they get the money first.

FFS

This thread really, really needs to be moved to a non-public area of this forum. There are some techniques used by the regulars in this thread for different situations in SA game that they're not sharing because this thread is being monitored by many of the regulars over at the SA blog.