@Mentavious what's your profile like? I've rarely gotten number that easy. I'm a selective swiper, so all of my matches are atleast 7-9/10. It just never goes anywhere after the opening message.

OAN: I've only been out with one tinder girl...and she had a boyfriend, haha.

(08-12-2015 09:05 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  @Mentavious what's your profile like? I've rarely gotten number that easy. I'm a selective swiper, so all of my matches are atleast 7-9/10. It just never goes anywhere after the opening message.

OAN: I've only been out with one tinder girl...and she had a boyfriend, haha.

I'll be honest and say that my tinder dates range from 6-8. Def closer to 6 and 7 if we were to be exact so I'm not very selective. So for guys who are very selective then I can see why it's hard work for you. I just want a good bang so swiping yes to 60% of the selections but I am aiming for girls under the age of 25 only.

I don't always get numbers that easily (again she was a 6 so it's whatever) but for the most part I get numbers within 20-30 min of first message. Although, I've gotten a few girls message me months later after I dropped a moment.

My profile basically has pics of me traveling, one in a suit, and one with me playing in an adult football league. As far as my written profile I have my height, career(for all those sugar babies), that I'm an international playboy(again I'm selling the dream) and that I like having fun.

^ Sounds good, I'm not really pitching much with my profile. Just that I'm kind of a creative dude with a sense of humor. Being 5'11 doesn't do much but disqualify me from the chicks looking for taller cats, haha. I figure I can definitely do better with the pics though.

(08-11-2015 01:13 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  
How'd that turn out for you?

I matched with her using my Tinder account and shes down for whatever, and wants to meet up. But I don't find her attractive so I will flake.

Then another forum member matched with her (Those screenshots are his) and he just trolled her for shits and giggles.

http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/0...-of-dating

Somewhat interesting read, lots of BS about sex inequality in the middle, but some real game truth from the individuals quoted. Nothing new to most guys here, but it's funny no one questions the kinds of women who use these apps and their innate hypergamy.

Just got the number from an Ethiopian 19yr old 7 in about 8 messages (8 on my side). I probably could have done this sooner but I wanted to feel her out a bit. She had no bio, so I got the pic confirmation and have plans to do flix for Day 1. Anyone have experience with Ethiopian chicks? I'm really not sure where to go with this one.

Logistically, I'd be going to her. I just don't know if she's staying with family or whatever. Trying to avoid those awkward moments.

(08-13-2015 04:41 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  Logistically, I'd be going to her. I just don't know if she's staying with family or whatever. Trying to avoid those awkward moments.

Hey Wrighter, what's your living situation like? I know you bust your ass gaming women, you have a great attitude but until you get your logistics down it's going to be a long, hard, uphill battle for you. I don't remember if you live with family or not but if you can somehow get a broom closet studio apartment...just something you can call your own, your results will literally skyrocket.

(08-13-2015 05:25 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(08-13-2015 04:41 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  Logistically, I'd be going to her. I just don't know if she's staying with family or whatever. Trying to avoid those awkward moments.

Hey Wrighter, what's your living situation like? I know you bust your ass gaming women, you have a great attitude but until you get your logistics down it's going to be a long, hard, uphill battle for you. I don't remember if you live with family or not but if you can somehow get a broom closet studio apartment...just something you can call your own, your results will literally skyrocket.

At the moment, I'm living with family while saving for a place. I think logistics is a pretty part of what's holding me back in-game (cold approach wise and pulling). I can't exactly invite girls over for drinks, haha. In situations like the one above, I could easily have her over and go from there.

If I were in your position I would put every penny and ounce of energy I have into getting your own place. Right now you're trying to swim with cement blocks tied to your legs.

Just a random thought drop, I've had girls re-initiate conversation with me after I follow them on instagram.

So basically this probably only works for people who have a shit hot instagram, e.g. I take photos of all the cool shit I do (good quality ones) and I have a lot of followers and only follow like 100-200 people. I literally can't fit all the multi talented shit I can do into 6 pictures, impossible. So when Tinder allowed IG integration that was perfect for me, except I don't think girls actually even bother to look through your IG, not even skim it.

I've had conversations be completely dead in the water only to come back to life when I follow them, one even out right said something like "omg I just went through your IG blah blah blah suddenly I like you".

Girls are instagram whores, that's not news here, but if you have a good IG page don't think just cause you matched that they've actually seen it, if the convo dies try follow them or like a photo to ping them to your page.

(08-13-2015 07:07 PM)NewMeta Wrote:  Just a random thought drop, I've had girls re-initiate conversation with me after I follow them on instagram.

So basically this probably only works for people who have a shit hot instagram, e.g. I take photos of all the cool shit I do (good quality ones) and I have a lot of followers and only follow like 100-200 people. I literally can't fit all the multi talented shit I can do into 6 pictures, impossible. So when Tinder allowed IG integration that was perfect for me, except I don't think girls actually even bother to look through your IG, not even skim it.

I've had conversations be completely dead in the water only to come back to life when I follow them, one even out right said something like "omg I just went through your IG blah blah blah suddenly I like you".

Girls are instagram whores, that's not news here, but if you have a good IG page don't think just cause you matched that they've actually seen it, if the convo dies try follow them or like a photo to ping them to your page.

You can put a cool photo as your moment with the comment 'see video on my Instagram'. Something like a cliff dive, water slide, music festival etc. Bait them to find out more...

Out of curiosity whats the highest match number you guys have seen on someones account? Guy or girl.

My friend (who was on dating naked) got 100 matches in one day. This is in a non major city in the US by the way.

(07-23-2015 05:23 PM)Chunnel Wrote:  Observation: I started up on Tinder two weeks ago for the first time in about 10 months. I'm shocked (seriously shocked) by the number of girls with photos of their dogs, talking about their dogs, and treating their dogs like children.

I like dogs, but jeez, all these bitches are so delusional replacing humans with animals as primary companions in life. It would not be far off that 40% of profiles I go through there is at least 1 picture of a dog.... Am I alone on this observation?

Women that age used to have 3 kids by now. Yeah, they feel the hole.

Tinder tip for those in or spoofing a foreign country:

Don't open with "do you speak English". Instead, open with a tease in English or her language (but only if you know her language well enough to converse in it).

That accomplishes the "do you speak English" question AND builds attraction (if she understands the language).

If she doesn't speak the language, she'll just ignore you, just like she'd ignore the "do you speak English" question. If she does speak the language, at least off the bat, you won't be boring.

Girls worldwide - ruled by emotion, not logic.

I'm spoofing Manhattan and have foind the talent there to be disappointing- much inferior to Atlanta, Tampa and Phoenix.

I right swiped much less often but even so ran out of likes because there are just so many proflles queued up. I noticed a lot of them had bitch faces on even in their profile pic. Also , a surprising number over 30 said "never married, no kids." I wonder if there's a connection.

Anyone have experience with using Tinder in Russia? Good, bad, many/few matches??

(08-15-2015 05:31 AM)zanetti Wrote:  Anyone have experience with using Tinder in Russia? Good, bad, many/few matches??

I GPS-spoofed St Petersburg. The volume and quality of my matches was bitter-sweet. In other words I was impressed then saddened I wasn't really there.

Hey guys

I am looking to attend Russian langauge school in kiev and wanted to know any recommendations for schools.

Looking for only people that have actually attended the schools.

Wtf happend. I reinstalled Tinder today and used my old fake account for it AGAIN. Must have been only a few weeks it was uninstalled and my account deleted. My phone is exploding with foreign girls and I already have 14 matches in under 12 hours. I checked and updated my GPS to exclude all possible reasons.
The last few months on I had almost zero matches, even after "refreshing" my account/profile.
Could it be tourist chicks? I will try to setup some dates after I have had some sleep.

Over the last 12 months, I've used Tinder for 4 and that was when I started gaming. I had hardcore anxiety going up and talking to random strangers. Tinder helped ease me into being social. This thread was gold to me and I referenced it a lot, so here are my stats. Other than the phone numbers, these numbers are estimated since a portion of my matches deleted their profiles.

Total matches: 250
Unopened matches: 100 (hambeast, ugly, do not want)
Opener and no reply: 75
Held actual conversations: 75
Numbers: 43
Dates: 15
Bangs: 7 (all between 6 and 8)
ONS: 2
FWB: 4 (some lasted between 2 weeks to 6 months)
Freak Slave: 1 (lasted about 6 months)

What I learned from the chaos. Some of it may be repeated:

- Don't go for canned lines. Unless they're really creative they get you nowhere. Instead, focus on the girl's pictures/moments/bio to create an opener. Don't be lazy, tailor it.

- Tinder hoes love sarcasm. It's in their bio. It's in the pictures. Learn to use their sarcasm against them. Agreeing and amplifying works wonders here. Flip the script when they say something "snarky."

- She didn't reply to your opener? Keep it chill. She may post a moment in a day that you can comment on. I typically wait 5-7 days if my opener doesn't work and try again. When I first started, I never reopened. Big mistake. You may have caught her at a bad time where she didn't see your message. Always try at least twice.

- Don't like any of her attention whoring pictures. There are exceptions, but normally she'll group you in with the hoard of pansies telling her "omg ur beautiful."

- The guy side of Tinder is an apocalypse of cringe. Do everything you can to distinguish yourself in a masculine way. Follow BlurredSeven's guide on pictures and write a vague, short, and intriguing bio.

- If you get flaked on, don't fret. Start over in 5-7 days and test the waters.

- Remember that it's all online. Your job is to bring her out and expose her to you. If you don't at least get her out on a date, you've failed.

I let Tinder go because of most of what you guys have already posted. It's a wasteland of desperation, but there's potential if you are patient and can put up with mild bullshit.

Fall semester is starting next week and I'm planning on opening my profile again. The goal is to run aggressive campus day game with some Tindering on the side. I'll post my successes and general progress in here. Game on.

Getting matched with chicks that live too far, so I just make sure they're not close (i.e on holiday), then just troll them for a laugh.

(08-15-2015 11:19 PM)void Wrote:  Wtf happend. I reinstalled Tinder today and used my old fake account for it AGAIN. Must have been only a few weeks it was uninstalled and my account deleted. My phone is exploding with foreign girls and I already have 14 matches in under 12 hours. I checked and updated my GPS to exclude all possible reasons.
The last few months on I had almost zero matches, even after "refreshing" my account/profile.
Could it be tourist chicks? I will try to setup some dates after I have had some sleep.

Interesting. Looking forward to your follow-up post!

Why did you choose to use a fake account, though?

(08-15-2015 11:57 PM)Cronus Wrote:  - Tinder hoes love sarcasm. It's in their bio. It's in the pictures. Learn to use their sarcasm against them. Agreeing and amplifying works wonders here. Flip the script when they say something "snarky

Truer words my friend. It works on sarcastic shit tests a treat, one girl went as far as to say "you are seriously mind fucking me right now", got her number after an extremely long convo of shit tests but AA brought me back from the dead on that one (have yet to chase it up though).

They don't know whether to interpret AA as sarcasm because it's so built into their text game so when it's used against them I think they go through the whole "wtf is this shit, is it sarcasm? Is he serious? Does he still like me?", creates feelings, tingles, w.e by which point that's half the battle won.

(08-16-2015 03:37 AM)PBX Wrote:  

(08-15-2015 11:19 PM)void Wrote:  Wtf happend. I reinstalled Tinder today and used my old fake account for it AGAIN. Must have been only a few weeks it was uninstalled and my account deleted. My phone is exploding with foreign girls and I already have 14 matches in under 12 hours. I checked and updated my GPS to exclude all possible reasons.
The last few months on I had almost zero matches, even after "refreshing" my account/profile.
Could it be tourist chicks? I will try to setup some dates after I have had some sleep.

Interesting. Looking forward to your follow-up post!

Why did you choose to use a fake account, though?

Because you can't connect this account to my real FB account.

Tinder placed my location somewhere in SEA, my matches where ~50% asian. Seems like it is time for me to leave old europe ^^.