The Approach Thread
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Libertas · 2015-05-10 16:46:00 · #2126
Taking a pleasant detour on doing obligatory Mother's Day bullshit. It's warm and not humid so of course I'm gonna take advantage. As I'm walking by the East River I see her and was like
Not in quite some time have I seen a girl with a figure like this - one that in just every way oozes feminine sexuality and you can spot it from a block away. Perfect ass, perfect tits. She's just walking slowly, fiddling with her phone.
Betas all around ogling her desperately.
She's constantly tapping on her phone.
Usually I don't bother with girls doing that shit, especially in a dynamic setting, but fuck that. This is the type of girl that you would get extremely pissed off at yourself if you didn't make the attempt. I was not going to let that happen. I would die of shame if I took a single step backwards!
This was definitely a "STAND UP GUARDS AND AT E'M!" moment.
When I see the opportunity, I move in decisively. She immediately lights up. I walk with her a while, then lead her to a bench and we talked for over an hour. She's actually quite like me in many respects, and we talked fitness a lot (no surprise with a body like that). But both of us can eat whatever the fuck we want and not gain a pound, which was a source of humor. I'm more sexual. I tell her to take her glasses off so I can see her eyes. She did. I joke about her biceps and asked if she had a license for them (credits to Chris at Good Looking Loser).
I talk about more emotional topics, like her background and weather or not her parents pressured her into modeling, etc, and how it was possible that a model transitions into what she's studying now (law, red flag, but it worked here because I'm in a related field and thought of doing law/am still toying with the idea). It was engaging and deep.
Of course she gives me her number at the end of the exchange and eagerly wants to see me again but mentions:
"I live with my boyfriend."
I brushed if off and didn't make a big deal about it. It almost felt like a bullshit utterance girls make so they can excuse shit, but of course "I live" says something else. She even leaned in so I could kiss her goodbye at the end (on the cheek, so it was not a terribly huge thing, but it was day game). None of this is important to me at the end of the day though.
My question is to how to play this to the best of my ability? Even if the boyfriend thing is serious, I want to keep this girl around because I know for a fact that she has other hot friends (she was a bikini model, and with a body like that I see no reason to disbelieve her). Fortunately in that regard I invited her out to something that I'm going to be doing next week, so I'm adding value, not taking it. Will probably ping text her tomorrow.
I think because of the quality of the interaction and our similarities this one should be sufficiently hooked in whatever regard I want. Just looking for some tips.
I'm mostly just happy with myself because once again I proved that the hottest girls are often the easiest to talk to, and quite submissive if your leadership is good. A year ago, I could never have done this.
Not in quite some time have I seen a girl with a figure like this - one that in just every way oozes feminine sexuality and you can spot it from a block away. Perfect ass, perfect tits. She's just walking slowly, fiddling with her phone.
Betas all around ogling her desperately.
She's constantly tapping on her phone.
Usually I don't bother with girls doing that shit, especially in a dynamic setting, but fuck that. This is the type of girl that you would get extremely pissed off at yourself if you didn't make the attempt. I was not going to let that happen. I would die of shame if I took a single step backwards!This was definitely a "STAND UP GUARDS AND AT E'M!" moment.
When I see the opportunity, I move in decisively. She immediately lights up. I walk with her a while, then lead her to a bench and we talked for over an hour. She's actually quite like me in many respects, and we talked fitness a lot (no surprise with a body like that). But both of us can eat whatever the fuck we want and not gain a pound, which was a source of humor. I'm more sexual. I tell her to take her glasses off so I can see her eyes. She did. I joke about her biceps and asked if she had a license for them (credits to Chris at Good Looking Loser).
I talk about more emotional topics, like her background and weather or not her parents pressured her into modeling, etc, and how it was possible that a model transitions into what she's studying now (law, red flag, but it worked here because I'm in a related field and thought of doing law/am still toying with the idea). It was engaging and deep.
Of course she gives me her number at the end of the exchange and eagerly wants to see me again but mentions:
"I live with my boyfriend."
I brushed if off and didn't make a big deal about it. It almost felt like a bullshit utterance girls make so they can excuse shit, but of course "I live" says something else. She even leaned in so I could kiss her goodbye at the end (on the cheek, so it was not a terribly huge thing, but it was day game). None of this is important to me at the end of the day though.
My question is to how to play this to the best of my ability? Even if the boyfriend thing is serious, I want to keep this girl around because I know for a fact that she has other hot friends (she was a bikini model, and with a body like that I see no reason to disbelieve her). Fortunately in that regard I invited her out to something that I'm going to be doing next week, so I'm adding value, not taking it. Will probably ping text her tomorrow.
I think because of the quality of the interaction and our similarities this one should be sufficiently hooked in whatever regard I want. Just looking for some tips.
I'm mostly just happy with myself because once again I proved that the hottest girls are often the easiest to talk to, and quite submissive if your leadership is good. A year ago, I could never have done this.
Sketness · 2015-05-10 22:07:00 · #2127
(05-10-2015 04:46 PM)Libertas Wrote: Taking a pleasant detour on doing obligatory Mother's Day bullshit. It's warm and not humid so of course I'm gonna take advantage. As I'm walking by the East River I see her and was like
Not in quite some time have I seen a girl with a figure like this - one that in just every way oozes feminine sexuality and you can spot it from a block away. Perfect ass, perfect tits. She's just walking slowly, fiddling with her phone.
Betas all around ogling her desperately.
She's constantly tapping on her phone.
This was definitely a "STAND UP GUARDS AND AT E'M!" moment.
When I see the opportunity, I move in decisively. She immediately lights up. I walk with her a while, then lead her to a bench and we talked for over an hour. She's actually quite like me in many respects, and we talked fitness a lot (no surprise with a body like that). But both of us can eat whatever the fuck we want and not gain a pound, which was a source of humor. I'm more sexual. I tell her to take her glasses off so I can see her eyes. She did. I joke about her biceps and asked if she had a license for them (credits to Chris at Good Looking Loser).
I talk about more emotional topics, like her background and weather or not her parents pressured her into modeling, etc, and how it was possible that a model transitions into what she's studying now (law, red flag, but it worked here because I'm in a related field and thought of doing law/am still toying with the idea). It was engaging and deep.
Of course she gives me her number at the end of the exchange and eagerly wants to see me again but mentions:
"I live with my boyfriend."
I brushed if off and didn't make a big deal about it. It almost felt like a bullshit utterance girls make so they can excuse shit, but of course "I live" says something else. She even leaned in so I could kiss her goodbye at the end (on the cheek, so it was not a terribly huge thing, but it was day game). None of this is important to me at the end of the day though.
My question is to how to play this to the best of my ability? Even if the boyfriend thing is serious, I want to keep this girl around because I know for a fact that she has other hot friends (she was a bikini model, and with a body like that I see no reason to disbelieve her). Fortunately in that regard I invited her out to something that I'm going to be doing next week, so I'm adding value, not taking it. Will probably ping text her tomorrow.
I think because of the quality of the interaction and our similarities this one should be sufficiently hooked in whatever regard I want. Just looking for some tips.
I'm mostly just happy with myself because once again I proved that the hottest girls are often the easiest to talk to, and quite submissive if your leadership is good. A year ago, I could never have done this.
what i would do is in addition to inviting her out to this thing you have planned (pending it goes well). There I'd ask her about her "roommate" aka her bf, don't mention that he is her boyfriend just refer to him as the roommate. See how close they are but don't spend to much time on it.
If it seems like she's still in to her roommate, no sweat, then set up a fun vibe and push for a meet-up with her and some of here girlfriends
I would invite them out to like a brewery like environment and encourage her to bring some of her girl friends.
*Tell her to bring some of her single friends out. If she ask why or teases you about trying to hook up with one of them just say with a smirk ; we all are going to be hanging out having fun, I wouldn't want anyone to get in trouble with their "roommates"
If she is NOT that into her roommate (you'll know, she'll seem distant when talking about him) then game her as normal.
LAX · 2015-05-10 22:17:00 · #2128
(05-10-2015 04:46 PM)Libertas Wrote: Taking a pleasant detour on doing obligatory Mother's Day bullshit. It's warm and not humid so of course I'm gonna take advantage. As I'm walking by the East River I see her and was like
Not in quite some time have I seen a girl with a figure like this - one that in just every way oozes feminine sexuality and you can spot it from a block away. Perfect ass, perfect tits. She's just walking slowly, fiddling with her phone.
Betas all around ogling her desperately.
She's constantly tapping on her phone.
This was definitely a "STAND UP GUARDS AND AT E'M!" moment.
When I see the opportunity, I move in decisively. She immediately lights up. I walk with her a while, then lead her to a bench and we talked for over an hour. She's actually quite like me in many respects, and we talked fitness a lot (no surprise with a body like that). But both of us can eat whatever the fuck we want and not gain a pound, which was a source of humor. I'm more sexual. I tell her to take her glasses off so I can see her eyes. She did. I joke about her biceps and asked if she had a license for them (credits to Chris at Good Looking Loser).
I talk about more emotional topics, like her background and weather or not her parents pressured her into modeling, etc, and how it was possible that a model transitions into what she's studying now (law, red flag, but it worked here because I'm in a related field and thought of doing law/am still toying with the idea). It was engaging and deep.
Of course she gives me her number at the end of the exchange and eagerly wants to see me again but mentions:
"I live with my boyfriend."
I brushed if off and didn't make a big deal about it. It almost felt like a bullshit utterance girls make so they can excuse shit, but of course "I live" says something else. She even leaned in so I could kiss her goodbye at the end (on the cheek, so it was not a terribly huge thing, but it was day game). None of this is important to me at the end of the day though.
My question is to how to play this to the best of my ability? Even if the boyfriend thing is serious, I want to keep this girl around because I know for a fact that she has other hot friends (she was a bikini model, and with a body like that I see no reason to disbelieve her). Fortunately in that regard I invited her out to something that I'm going to be doing next week, so I'm adding value, not taking it. Will probably ping text her tomorrow.
I think because of the quality of the interaction and our similarities this one should be sufficiently hooked in whatever regard I want. Just looking for some tips.
I'm mostly just happy with myself because once again I proved that the hottest girls are often the easiest to talk to, and quite submissive if your leadership is good. A year ago, I could never have done this.
Props on approaching. Was she european or American? Look, if a chick who lives with her b/f sits with you for an hour, unless you dropped some heavy friendo vibe, she is looking to upgrade or has designs.
Assuming you don't want to wingwoman her:
- As you said, you were sexual, so she knows what the deal is. I would definitely invite her out, better for some 'event' then dinner or something datelike to give her plausible deniability. I'd keep it chill, get the background on her hot friends, keep qualifying her hard and not be shy about how you feel about women. Maybe add some (day)drinks in the mix.
If you want to wingwoman her and get at her friends, you'll have to stay dominant, cool and be frank about how you deal and like women and take if from there. She'll invite you to social gatherings, events etc.
If if was me, given how you talk about this girl, I'd go for the bang since she doesn't care about live-in bfs then establish the 'friendship'. Stay with you live-in b/f, introduce me to your friends and we can bang occasionally.
Sounds like a dope girl though - I'd be surprised if she is American, keep us updated.
Libertas · 2015-05-11 07:22:00 · #2129
(05-10-2015 10:07 PM)Sketness Wrote: what i would do is in addition to inviting her out to this thing you have planned (pending it goes well). There I'd ask her about her "roommate" aka her bf, don't mention that he is her boyfriend just refer to him as the roommate. See how close they are but don't spend to much time on it.
Heh, that's good.
(05-10-2015 10:17 PM)LAX Wrote: Props on approaching. Was she european or American?
She actually is American, and a fellow native New Yorker (which we joked about not encountering that often anymore). She's of mixed background (Iranian and Russian) though and her father is an immigrant. That might explain a few things.
Quote:Look, if a chick who lives with her b/f sits with you for an hour, unless you dropped some heavy friendo vibe, she is looking to upgrade or has designs.
- I joked with her about old dudes trying to get tail in modeling. She mentioned something about how the industry's become more "full service" which I immediately turned around into "oh, so you guys were expected to be 'full service?'"
- Did the biceps thing as mentioned before.
- Held her hand to joke about her manicure/hand modeling.
- Mentioned how she had a very feminine figure in comparison to models in other places that are basically just clothes hangers.
With all of this I think I'm covered on being a sexual man and not just being friendly. Sometimes I think I have to consciously work on it, since I'm not entirely sure simply going direct will suffice for the entire interaction.
Either way is fine with me at this point, truthfully. I'll go for the bang but if it doesn't work out and I just have her in my social circle I'm cool with that too. Just walking into a place with this chick would automatically make you a VIP.
Mr Mandingo · 2015-05-11 08:35:00 · #2130
Just popped out for my lunch break to get a sandwich and have a little walk. This is my favourite and most successful time for day gaming and if like me you work in London within the square mile surely you would be able to testify the quality of talent on a nice sunny day wandering about to get some food too. All that said I go 1 approach a day just to maintain my level of game if nothing else.
So I go into the local boots and there’s a solid 7, blonde, tallish girl looking up pain killers so I walk to the adjacent aisle pretending to look up stuff as well until we make brief eye contact, I then walk away to a different part of the shop looking up aftershaves, in my mind I know she will have to walk past me because I’m pretty much by the shop exit, perfect!
She pays up for her stuff and is about going past me and I stop her (this chat took about 10 mins max)
Me: Hey one sec, did I just see you looking up pain killers? What’s with that (with a smile)
Her: Im dying, been away in Amsterdam for the weekend for a hen party, was there for almost a week
Me: I feel your pain, just got back from a stag party as well!
Her : Oh really, where did you go?
Me: We did 3 days in Edinburgh and I don’t just feel pain all over I also feel stiff! (we both laugh)
I hold the door open and she goes out first and says thanks (while I asses hey bum from close range)
Me: So which way you going?
Her: Just over there and she and she points at my office block!
Me: No way, that’s where I work too, how come I’ve never seen you about, what floor are you on?
Her: Only been here 6 weeks I’m on the Ground floor. You?
Me: 2nd floor. So what do you guys do?
Her: blah blah (cant remember a thing she said there), how about you?
Me: blah blah (we do this, that and the other etc)
We chat about her previous role, current role, which job is better etc, where she lives, what station she goes through, age etc
Me: So what’s your name?
Her: Sam, you?
Me: I say my name ( not mr mandindgo lol) So when is the wedding then?
Her: I don’t know, the girl is still sleeping with her boss so anything can still happen! (laughs)
Me: Wtf I love this, couldn’t pay to be a first hand witness to drama like that! (laughs) How did you find that out?
Her: she told us!
Me: I didn’t realise girls did the kiss and tell thing especially when there was nothing to benefit from telling. what do I know about you girls eh..ah well shit happens..The weather is so nice today wish I was in a bar having a beer or something
Her: yea it is!
Me: Lets do a drink outdoors if the weather is this good at some point in the week, yea?
Her: Yea
Me: Cool, what’s your number
Her: spells it out (I call her from my phone straight away and we save numbers)
Me: I can keep you out here all day chatting but we better get back in (laughs) You going back in through the back door?
Her: Yea
Me: Cool, I’m going in through he front, catch you soon!
So I go into the local boots and there’s a solid 7, blonde, tallish girl looking up pain killers so I walk to the adjacent aisle pretending to look up stuff as well until we make brief eye contact, I then walk away to a different part of the shop looking up aftershaves, in my mind I know she will have to walk past me because I’m pretty much by the shop exit, perfect!
She pays up for her stuff and is about going past me and I stop her (this chat took about 10 mins max)
Me: Hey one sec, did I just see you looking up pain killers? What’s with that (with a smile)
Her: Im dying, been away in Amsterdam for the weekend for a hen party, was there for almost a week
Me: I feel your pain, just got back from a stag party as well!
Her : Oh really, where did you go?
Me: We did 3 days in Edinburgh and I don’t just feel pain all over I also feel stiff! (we both laugh)
I hold the door open and she goes out first and says thanks (while I asses hey bum from close range)
Me: So which way you going?
Her: Just over there and she and she points at my office block!
Me: No way, that’s where I work too, how come I’ve never seen you about, what floor are you on?
Her: Only been here 6 weeks I’m on the Ground floor. You?
Me: 2nd floor. So what do you guys do?
Her: blah blah (cant remember a thing she said there), how about you?
Me: blah blah (we do this, that and the other etc)
We chat about her previous role, current role, which job is better etc, where she lives, what station she goes through, age etc
Me: So what’s your name?
Her: Sam, you?
Me: I say my name ( not mr mandindgo lol) So when is the wedding then?
Her: I don’t know, the girl is still sleeping with her boss so anything can still happen! (laughs)
Me: Wtf I love this, couldn’t pay to be a first hand witness to drama like that! (laughs) How did you find that out?
Her: she told us!
Me: I didn’t realise girls did the kiss and tell thing especially when there was nothing to benefit from telling. what do I know about you girls eh..ah well shit happens..The weather is so nice today wish I was in a bar having a beer or something
Her: yea it is!
Me: Lets do a drink outdoors if the weather is this good at some point in the week, yea?
Her: Yea
Me: Cool, what’s your number
Her: spells it out (I call her from my phone straight away and we save numbers)
Me: I can keep you out here all day chatting but we better get back in (laughs) You going back in through the back door?
Her: Yea
Me: Cool, I’m going in through he front, catch you soon!
swuglyfe · 2015-05-12 12:46:00 · #2131
Went daygaming in Piedmont Park in Atlanta with two other forum members, cubicZ and 262.
I got six approaches for myself, the others got about the same each. If it were just one of us 15 approaches in three hours would be pretty solid. I was completely outcome independent, which probably helped me be a bit more forward than usual, because my logistics are nonexistent. Not only do I live an hour outside of the city proper, I am back home with my parents for a bit. So pulling a girl to my place is impossible. It has to be her place or somewhere else. I did the approaches more or less purely to gain experience.
#1: 7.5 slim, probably white, but tanned
GSU senior, nose ring but I wanted to get the day started on a positive note so I called it and went for it. I rolled Australian accent game the whole day. Opener was asking her where this particular place was in the park. Segue'd into telling a bit of my situation ("visiting the city") asking her about her plans after graduation, she planned to go to New Zealand so I poked fun of Americans thinking it's part of Australia.
Number close, but she's going to Miami for a week, will see what happens when I reengage later.
#2 6.5 really skinny, white, walking a really small dog
After we went through the rotation of each of us taking turns, it was my turn again. Called a girl who was wearing a tight pink tank and walking her dog and went for it. My opener was that I thought her dog was really cute and interesting, since we don't have those types of dogs in Australia, just big collies for herding cattle or hounds to keep the myriad things that kill you in the Outback at bay. She wasn't really feeling it, body language pointed away, tried to prolong the conversation but she really didn't bite. Said she was tired and needed to get to work (on a Sunday? BS). Next!
#3 Double set with 262, probably a 7 and 6.5 Latinas, having a picnic on a blanket on the grass
They were sitting under a tree, so 262 and I decided to go for it. Our frame was completely off, the approach and opener way off the mark. We both realized this and discussed it extensively afterwards. My takeaway is to have rock solid 'logistics' for the two set. When will the wing come in? Will you approach at the same time? Who will say what? How will both of you work to isolate each of the girls? How will you communicate which one you want as your mark based on what suits your interests better? We discussed none of this.
We went in, pretending to be friends who needed directions to the gardens. First huge mistake: we crouched there on the edge of the blanket the whole time. This signaled that we were only there until they gave us the directions and we would leave. Bad opener too, that was my bad. We spent the rest of the engagement trying to walk it back but we established that that was what we were looking for, although we tried to pry more out from teasing them about the fact that they said we should go if we were visiting but didn't like it themselves, to asking for recommendations from them, we set ourselves up badly. Kindly said thank you and left. Good learning experience though.
#4 As 262 and I walk down the hill from this set, cubicZ has engaged a girl under a tree while we were away, good on him. 262 sees another cute walker and does his run around and RSD stop. I'm left on the path, and I see two dog walkers 7.5 and 7 coming around. I do the exact same thing, as approach number two, and while they are slightly more receptive and curious about Australia, I can't keep both of their attention, and they politely want to move on. That was a great situation for bringing in an interesting wing.
#5 Insanely banging 8.5 slim white, wearing only a bikini top and daisy dukes sunbathing and reading a book. Opener: 'Excuse me, I saw you reading your book so intently, and I just had to know what kind of literature could have you so enraptured." Some old classic, I joked and asked whether it was Victorian 50 Shades of Gray, moved on to her telling me she moved her and had only been here for three weeks for her job. Grew up in South Carolina by the beach (no kidding). Said that I was also new to the area, looking for fun and interesting people to hang out with. She said that was very ballsy of me, dropped something on how OZ guys generally are better at that due to the competition. She got a good laugh out of that. One solid thing I did was moving from crouching at first to then sitting on the blanket with her, without asking her. Just assumed the sale and did it. Helped me seem congruent with the confident exterior. Number closed, will see what happens.
#6 16/17 yo 7.5, really cute, 262 actually engaged her earlier, figured I would later on just cause.
She's wearing a straw hat and jean overalls, which I use as the opener to say that she's cute and reminds me of the ranch hands in the Northern Territory. Talk about her life, then what I like most about America. Because there's not really much of a chance of anything happening, I decide to just troll gently and drop the fact that I don't really like too much about America. Lot of unfit people, huge social problems, no one her age knows what they want to do, etc.
As I go for a possible number close just for the hell of it, five guys from 11 to 20 roll up to our right. Two are her brothers, the other three are their friends. Now obviously, these guys are probably pretty protective but I can't exactly be beaten up in the middle of a wide open public park in the afternoon. Something that really gave away the fact that she was more likely attracted to me than not was that she lightly defended me, or didn't project "get this guy the hell away from me" vibe to them. Said I was from Australia, telling her about what it's like there. I used this to be as laid back and chill as possible, joking about them being strapping young lads (they were all actually really toned, even the younger guys; good on them) who would also probably have the balls to approach any good looking girl they saw. Jovially invited them to come down to Australia and have a few pints on me, which the older dudes sighed wistfully about (LOL at the US drinking age). I just wanted to project myself as cool and nonthreatening guy they could hang with. Unfortunately the reason they'd come over was because their parents were looking for them and they had to go. Pity.
Will be daygaming several of the major Atlanta university campuses in the next few weeks with other forum members. Can't wait.
I got six approaches for myself, the others got about the same each. If it were just one of us 15 approaches in three hours would be pretty solid. I was completely outcome independent, which probably helped me be a bit more forward than usual, because my logistics are nonexistent. Not only do I live an hour outside of the city proper, I am back home with my parents for a bit. So pulling a girl to my place is impossible. It has to be her place or somewhere else. I did the approaches more or less purely to gain experience.
#1: 7.5 slim, probably white, but tanned
GSU senior, nose ring but I wanted to get the day started on a positive note so I called it and went for it. I rolled Australian accent game the whole day. Opener was asking her where this particular place was in the park. Segue'd into telling a bit of my situation ("visiting the city") asking her about her plans after graduation, she planned to go to New Zealand so I poked fun of Americans thinking it's part of Australia.
Number close, but she's going to Miami for a week, will see what happens when I reengage later.
#2 6.5 really skinny, white, walking a really small dog
After we went through the rotation of each of us taking turns, it was my turn again. Called a girl who was wearing a tight pink tank and walking her dog and went for it. My opener was that I thought her dog was really cute and interesting, since we don't have those types of dogs in Australia, just big collies for herding cattle or hounds to keep the myriad things that kill you in the Outback at bay. She wasn't really feeling it, body language pointed away, tried to prolong the conversation but she really didn't bite. Said she was tired and needed to get to work (on a Sunday? BS). Next!
#3 Double set with 262, probably a 7 and 6.5 Latinas, having a picnic on a blanket on the grass
They were sitting under a tree, so 262 and I decided to go for it. Our frame was completely off, the approach and opener way off the mark. We both realized this and discussed it extensively afterwards. My takeaway is to have rock solid 'logistics' for the two set. When will the wing come in? Will you approach at the same time? Who will say what? How will both of you work to isolate each of the girls? How will you communicate which one you want as your mark based on what suits your interests better? We discussed none of this.
We went in, pretending to be friends who needed directions to the gardens. First huge mistake: we crouched there on the edge of the blanket the whole time. This signaled that we were only there until they gave us the directions and we would leave. Bad opener too, that was my bad. We spent the rest of the engagement trying to walk it back but we established that that was what we were looking for, although we tried to pry more out from teasing them about the fact that they said we should go if we were visiting but didn't like it themselves, to asking for recommendations from them, we set ourselves up badly. Kindly said thank you and left. Good learning experience though.
#4 As 262 and I walk down the hill from this set, cubicZ has engaged a girl under a tree while we were away, good on him. 262 sees another cute walker and does his run around and RSD stop. I'm left on the path, and I see two dog walkers 7.5 and 7 coming around. I do the exact same thing, as approach number two, and while they are slightly more receptive and curious about Australia, I can't keep both of their attention, and they politely want to move on. That was a great situation for bringing in an interesting wing.
#5 Insanely banging 8.5 slim white, wearing only a bikini top and daisy dukes sunbathing and reading a book. Opener: 'Excuse me, I saw you reading your book so intently, and I just had to know what kind of literature could have you so enraptured." Some old classic, I joked and asked whether it was Victorian 50 Shades of Gray, moved on to her telling me she moved her and had only been here for three weeks for her job. Grew up in South Carolina by the beach (no kidding). Said that I was also new to the area, looking for fun and interesting people to hang out with. She said that was very ballsy of me, dropped something on how OZ guys generally are better at that due to the competition. She got a good laugh out of that. One solid thing I did was moving from crouching at first to then sitting on the blanket with her, without asking her. Just assumed the sale and did it. Helped me seem congruent with the confident exterior. Number closed, will see what happens.
#6 16/17 yo 7.5, really cute, 262 actually engaged her earlier, figured I would later on just cause.
She's wearing a straw hat and jean overalls, which I use as the opener to say that she's cute and reminds me of the ranch hands in the Northern Territory. Talk about her life, then what I like most about America. Because there's not really much of a chance of anything happening, I decide to just troll gently and drop the fact that I don't really like too much about America. Lot of unfit people, huge social problems, no one her age knows what they want to do, etc.
As I go for a possible number close just for the hell of it, five guys from 11 to 20 roll up to our right. Two are her brothers, the other three are their friends. Now obviously, these guys are probably pretty protective but I can't exactly be beaten up in the middle of a wide open public park in the afternoon. Something that really gave away the fact that she was more likely attracted to me than not was that she lightly defended me, or didn't project "get this guy the hell away from me" vibe to them. Said I was from Australia, telling her about what it's like there. I used this to be as laid back and chill as possible, joking about them being strapping young lads (they were all actually really toned, even the younger guys; good on them) who would also probably have the balls to approach any good looking girl they saw. Jovially invited them to come down to Australia and have a few pints on me, which the older dudes sighed wistfully about (LOL at the US drinking age). I just wanted to project myself as cool and nonthreatening guy they could hang with. Unfortunately the reason they'd come over was because their parents were looking for them and they had to go. Pity.
Will be daygaming several of the major Atlanta university campuses in the next few weeks with other forum members. Can't wait.
~wrIghter~ · 2015-05-12 13:06:00 · #2132
Nice write-up Swug, looking forward to the university day game 
. Should make for an interesting story.
. Should make for an interesting story.Giovonny · 2015-05-12 15:56:00 · #2133
University Campus:
I see a sexy latina in a skirt with thigh high white leggings, very pretty..
She is walking towards me at a crosswalk. I pause and look at my phone, pretending to be texting.. I anticipate that she will walk straight ahead, so, I begin walking straight ahead about 5 steps in front of her, I let her walk behind me for a few steps and then pretend to notice her for the first time..
me: hey i like your leggings, very chic
her: oh thanks
me: thats a good look, are you a fashion designer?
her: oh well not here at school, do i look like a fashion designer?
me: yes you do
her: haha
me: whats your major?
her: kinosieology
me: oh i used to study that, you do look like an athlete
her: i used to run track
me: thats cool what event?
her: the 800
me: woah thats a tough one
her: ya
me: whats your name?
her: ginger
me: like in "casino"
her: huh?
me: sharon stone in casino
her: oh i dont know
me: thats ok, im gio
We get to the campus center, she could walk in a million directions..
me: ginger
her: ya
me: lets have coffee sometime
her: umm well
me: or go out for a drink
her: i think im going to have to pass
Next!
--
I see a tall, pretty white girl with a slim, toned athletic body, looked like a volleyball player..
She walked right passed me in a crowd. I turned around and walked in her direction. I walked passed her a few steps and patiently waited for the right moment to turn and pretend to notice her..
me: you look like a volleyball player
her: i dont play sports but i always get that
me: what do u do?
her: photography
me: oh thats cool what kind of stuff do u shoot
her: all kinds of things, im experimenting
me: sounds fun, are u cold?
her: ya a little bit haha
me: the weather changes so quickly out here
her: i know
me: are you from the bay area?
her: no im from san diego.
We walked and talked on the way back to her dorm room.
me: hey do u wanna get coffee together sometime?
her: um possibly
me: ill send u a text, whats your number?
her: umm actually no thanks but nice meeting you
Next!
--
I see a sexy light skinned black girl showing off her nice body in a skirt and shoulder exposing sweater..
She was sitting at a table, I walked up to her..
me: hello
her: hello
me: you look great
her: i do?
me: yes you didn't know
her: ya i knew just kidding haha
me: haha you knew but i was just confirming it for you
her: yes
me: whats your name
her: michelle
me: hey michelle im gio
her: hey
me: what are you doing out here?
her: oh just some homework
We had a nice little sexy chat.
me: why dont i call you later
her: im sorry gio im with someone
me: are you happy ?
her: yes
Next!
--
I walk passed a cute black girl, she kind of smiles at me, I turn and she has a great body..
I go back and catch up to her.. I walk along side of her and get her attention..
me: hi
her: hi
me: how are you?
her: pretty good
me: we sort of made eye contact back there and i wanted to come and say hello, your very pretty
her: oh my gosh thank you
me: my name is gio
her: im yinka
me: yinka?
her: yes its a nigerian name
me: its sounds cool
her: thanks
We walked and talked for a minute, she had class..
me: can i call you sometime
her: sorry i have a boyfriend
Next!
--
I see a sexy latina, with long hair and a nice ass..
She used to go to a summer sports camp that I worked at..
She comes up and gives me a hug.
her: hey what are you doing here?
me: oh im just talking to some of the athletes
her: really im going crazy with school
me: only 3 more weeks dont quit now
her: 3 weeks wow
me: u have class right now?
her: ya
me: lets walk in that direction
her: ok
We walk and talk
me: have fun in class
her: ill try
me: hey jessica
her: ya
me: wanna get coffee together sometime
her: um ya sure
She is 19.
I just texted her.
We'll see what happens.
--
I see a hot little filapina wearing yoga pants, pretty face, clean cinnamon skin, nice body..
She is cold..
me: its freezing out here, wheres your jacket?
her: omg i forgot it
me: it looks like a nice day but its so windy today
her: i know
me: you look like a fashion student
her: oh no i just take general ed stuff
me: oh good one semester at a time, my name is gio
her: hey im jessica
me: are you from around here?
her: ya just over the hill
me: are you from brazil or something?
her: no im filapina
me: oh there are a lot of brazilians who are half japanese, they look like you
her: what really?
me: ya look it up
her: wow
me: where can i get good good filapino food around here?
her: um well i like fernandez
me: ya that place is good
her: try to goat stew
me: hey wanna exchange numbers and go eat sometime?
her: oh i have a boyfriend
Next!
--
I see a pretty, mixed looking black girl with a hot little body..
She is sitting at a table. I walk by..
me: hey cool sweater a
her: thanks
me: are you native american?
her: no
me: you look half navajo maybe
her: no im creole
me: oh creole, i love the food in that culture
her: yes its delicious
We chat for a few minutes.
me: are you single? lets talk again sometime
her: sorry gio, im with someone
Next!
--
I see a gorgeous hawaiian looking girl in yoga pants, bright, clean skin, long hair, nice ass..
She is walking ahead of me.. I catch and as I'm passing her, I comment on her scarf..
me: did you go to st.sebastians
her: huh?
me: your scarf, did you go to st. sebastians?
her: oh no its my friends
me: where did you go?
her: oh i went to our lady of mercy
me: oh my cousin went there, she said its too strict
her: haha ya sometimes
me: they dont let you girls have any fun, you have to be slick about it
her: haha
She stopped and went into an office. I kept walking..
me: have a nice day
her: thanks you too
I wanted to continue talking to her but the situation wouldn't allow it.
The next moment, I saw her turn and exit the building. I exited out of another door and found her in front..
me: excuse me
her: ya
me: i wanted ask you, um, whats your name?
her: collette
me: im gio, you look nice today
her: oh hehe thanks
me: i'd like to take you out for coffee or something sometime
her: oh well, um, sure why not
me: can i take your number and text u later
her: ya
I will text her tonight!
--
I see a cute little asian in yoga pants, thin but toned, pretty face, feminine demeanor..
She is walking right next to me..
me: hey i love your yoga pants with the pink stripes
her: thanks thats why i got them cause of the pink
me: ya everybody has the all black, you are so unique
her: haha
me: do u have yoga class today?
her: ya right now, actually its spinning
me: oh spinning is cool
We chatted for a minute.
me: hey, um, do u wanna exchange numbers and talk again sometime?
her: oh thanks but i cant
Next!
*****
I'm very happy with my progress. My game is getting better with each approach.
Soon, I will find my next little 19 year old girlfriend!
I see a sexy latina in a skirt with thigh high white leggings, very pretty..
She is walking towards me at a crosswalk. I pause and look at my phone, pretending to be texting.. I anticipate that she will walk straight ahead, so, I begin walking straight ahead about 5 steps in front of her, I let her walk behind me for a few steps and then pretend to notice her for the first time..
me: hey i like your leggings, very chic
her: oh thanks
me: thats a good look, are you a fashion designer?
her: oh well not here at school, do i look like a fashion designer?
me: yes you do
her: haha
me: whats your major?
her: kinosieology
me: oh i used to study that, you do look like an athlete
her: i used to run track
me: thats cool what event?
her: the 800
me: woah thats a tough one
her: ya
me: whats your name?
her: ginger
me: like in "casino"
her: huh?
me: sharon stone in casino
her: oh i dont know
me: thats ok, im gio
We get to the campus center, she could walk in a million directions..
me: ginger
her: ya
me: lets have coffee sometime
her: umm well
me: or go out for a drink
her: i think im going to have to pass
Next!
--
I see a tall, pretty white girl with a slim, toned athletic body, looked like a volleyball player..
She walked right passed me in a crowd. I turned around and walked in her direction. I walked passed her a few steps and patiently waited for the right moment to turn and pretend to notice her..
me: you look like a volleyball player
her: i dont play sports but i always get that
me: what do u do?
her: photography
me: oh thats cool what kind of stuff do u shoot
her: all kinds of things, im experimenting
me: sounds fun, are u cold?
her: ya a little bit haha
me: the weather changes so quickly out here
her: i know
me: are you from the bay area?
her: no im from san diego.
We walked and talked on the way back to her dorm room.
me: hey do u wanna get coffee together sometime?
her: um possibly
me: ill send u a text, whats your number?
her: umm actually no thanks but nice meeting you
Next!
--
I see a sexy light skinned black girl showing off her nice body in a skirt and shoulder exposing sweater..
She was sitting at a table, I walked up to her..
me: hello
her: hello
me: you look great
her: i do?
me: yes you didn't know
her: ya i knew just kidding haha
me: haha you knew but i was just confirming it for you
her: yes
me: whats your name
her: michelle
me: hey michelle im gio
her: hey
me: what are you doing out here?
her: oh just some homework
We had a nice little sexy chat.
me: why dont i call you later
her: im sorry gio im with someone
me: are you happy ?
her: yes
Next!
--
I walk passed a cute black girl, she kind of smiles at me, I turn and she has a great body..
I go back and catch up to her.. I walk along side of her and get her attention..
me: hi
her: hi
me: how are you?
her: pretty good
me: we sort of made eye contact back there and i wanted to come and say hello, your very pretty
her: oh my gosh thank you
me: my name is gio
her: im yinka
me: yinka?
her: yes its a nigerian name
me: its sounds cool
her: thanks
We walked and talked for a minute, she had class..
me: can i call you sometime
her: sorry i have a boyfriend
Next!
--
I see a sexy latina, with long hair and a nice ass..
She used to go to a summer sports camp that I worked at..
She comes up and gives me a hug.
her: hey what are you doing here?
me: oh im just talking to some of the athletes
her: really im going crazy with school
me: only 3 more weeks dont quit now
her: 3 weeks wow
me: u have class right now?
her: ya
me: lets walk in that direction
her: ok
We walk and talk
me: have fun in class
her: ill try
me: hey jessica
her: ya
me: wanna get coffee together sometime
her: um ya sure
She is 19.
I just texted her.
We'll see what happens.
--
I see a hot little filapina wearing yoga pants, pretty face, clean cinnamon skin, nice body..
She is cold..
me: its freezing out here, wheres your jacket?
her: omg i forgot it
me: it looks like a nice day but its so windy today
her: i know
me: you look like a fashion student
her: oh no i just take general ed stuff
me: oh good one semester at a time, my name is gio
her: hey im jessica
me: are you from around here?
her: ya just over the hill
me: are you from brazil or something?
her: no im filapina
me: oh there are a lot of brazilians who are half japanese, they look like you
her: what really?
me: ya look it up
her: wow
me: where can i get good good filapino food around here?
her: um well i like fernandez
me: ya that place is good
her: try to goat stew
me: hey wanna exchange numbers and go eat sometime?
her: oh i have a boyfriend
Next!
--
I see a pretty, mixed looking black girl with a hot little body..
She is sitting at a table. I walk by..
me: hey cool sweater a
her: thanks
me: are you native american?
her: no
me: you look half navajo maybe
her: no im creole
me: oh creole, i love the food in that culture
her: yes its delicious
We chat for a few minutes.
me: are you single? lets talk again sometime
her: sorry gio, im with someone
Next!
--
I see a gorgeous hawaiian looking girl in yoga pants, bright, clean skin, long hair, nice ass..
She is walking ahead of me.. I catch and as I'm passing her, I comment on her scarf..
me: did you go to st.sebastians
her: huh?
me: your scarf, did you go to st. sebastians?
her: oh no its my friends
me: where did you go?
her: oh i went to our lady of mercy
me: oh my cousin went there, she said its too strict
her: haha ya sometimes
me: they dont let you girls have any fun, you have to be slick about it
her: haha
She stopped and went into an office. I kept walking..
me: have a nice day
her: thanks you too
I wanted to continue talking to her but the situation wouldn't allow it.
The next moment, I saw her turn and exit the building. I exited out of another door and found her in front..
me: excuse me
her: ya
me: i wanted ask you, um, whats your name?
her: collette
me: im gio, you look nice today
her: oh hehe thanks
me: i'd like to take you out for coffee or something sometime
her: oh well, um, sure why not
me: can i take your number and text u later
her: ya
I will text her tonight!
--
I see a cute little asian in yoga pants, thin but toned, pretty face, feminine demeanor..
She is walking right next to me..
me: hey i love your yoga pants with the pink stripes
her: thanks thats why i got them cause of the pink
me: ya everybody has the all black, you are so unique
her: haha
me: do u have yoga class today?
her: ya right now, actually its spinning
me: oh spinning is cool
We chatted for a minute.
me: hey, um, do u wanna exchange numbers and talk again sometime?
her: oh thanks but i cant
Next!
*****
I'm very happy with my progress. My game is getting better with each approach.
Soon, I will find my next little 19 year old girlfriend!
Sketness · 2015-05-13 02:18:00 · #2134
Today i went to my local JUCO (community college)
Im walking towards the campus when i see this cute punk rock brunette (6) smoking a cigarette walking towards me, she is wearing some dock martian books... i open
Me; hey those boots are cool what type are they
Her ; they are dock martins
Me; those are supper dope, im looking to get a pare how do you like those
Her; they are really nice i wore them while hiking the other day and they hardly got scratched at all i love them
Me; oh were do you go hiking at
Her : oh i go up in x palace its pretty good
Me; yea those look like sturdy boots, im thinking of getting a pare for the summer and wearing them with some short pants
Her; that would look really good
Me; how was class today
Her; oh im in high school, I go to x high ( last resort high school in the area where all of the bad/ dropout kids go)
Me; oh really how do you like it
Her; its cool there are small class rooms so its ok
Me; oh nice well ill see you around
her; ok bye
I think i could have pulled her number but i feel really weird getting a highschoolers number.
-------------------------
As im walking towards the JUCO i spot this cute blond (6) in a hat with tight jeans walking on the other side of the street.
I time it so i catch her right as she is crossing onto myside
Me; I like that hat where did you get it from
Her; i got it from Disney world
Me; really was that your first time going there
Her; Ive been there twice
we chat about her time there, at first she is giving me short anwsers but then i ask her how her classes were going and she opened up a lot
Me; how'd class go today
Her; pretty good though im excited i dont have class on thursday
Me; nice did the teacher send out a email
Her; no she just told us in class
Me; what class is it
Her; its human sexuality
Me; I had a friend that took a class like that at another school called Nursing 101 and he told me that they had a bondage mistress come in and talk to the class
Her; what, i can see my teacher doing somthing like that, we had a transvestite come in and talk to us, like one was a woman to a man, she was balding, had a beard and everything, the others were men to women and it was a lot obvious.
Me; thats pretty crazy
We get near the JUCO stadium and she goes
Her; well i have to go give my brother lunch (she was holding a bag)
Me; sweet see you later
NEXT
-----------------
Im walking through campus when i see a bunch of people outside of the art building. I spot this dirty blond (7) with dock martins and cut off jeans sitting on the steps of the art building
Me; im digging those boots, what type are they
Her; thanks, they are dock martins
Me; nice how do you like them
Her; they are nice but i wish i would have gotten the suede kind.
Me; really why
Her; they dont get as dirty as the leather and they break in a little better
Me; yea im looking to get a par, i want to rock some dock martins with shorts this summer
Her; they are good shoes
Me; what class are you on break for
Her; art class ( her noes crinkles as she sayes it)
Me; you don't like that class
Her; its ok
Me; every person i talk to who is taking a art class says that the teacher always wants them to do somthing that they don't want to do artistically
Her; its a little of that
Me; ( i crack a joke about her wanting to just draw dicks all day,)
Her; hahah
Me; are you more into free hand drawing
Her; I usually like to draw a person or a land scape
We talk about art for a little bit then, the class starts to go in from break and she tells me she has to go
Next
---------------------
I enter the library and walk around looking for a good place to read. Im walking when I spot this tall brunette sitting at a table. I continue to walk but then realize that the library is crowed so i swoop the table behind her.
Im not really paying attention to her, so i sit down and start reading.
15min into my book I get up and ask her to watch my things as i go to the bathroom, when she looks up she is a legitimate 8. Tall, skinny, a nice face with big tits.
Im frozen in my tracks as my heart starts to race, I go to the bathroom and think about how to play this.
As I come back I thank her for watching my things then open
Me; what part of russia are you from
Her; haha im not from russia im from around here
Me; you just look like your from there
Her; no hah where are you from
Me; originally seattle
Her; what are you doing way down here
Me; I have family in the area
Her; i hear it rains a lot there
Me; yea it does its so nice to see sun shine
Her; haha yea
Me; how was class today
Her; pretty good i had two classes today math and psychology
Me; what math are you in
Her; 110
Me; ive been there the 1A ( class above) is so much easier than 110
Her; really yea i hate it
We talk about school for a min, she then picks up her phone to text when i ask her
Me; what high school did you go to
Her; x high
Me; my cousin went there
The conversation dies as i go back to my book, 10 mins later i start packing up my stuff to leave when i engage her again
Me; did you play sports here
her; i played volleyball and softball in highschool , what did you play
Me; i swam and played basketball
Her; you look like you lift weights
Me; ( motioning with my fingers a bit) a little
Her; haha
Me; well i have to go put you number in my phone lets hangout some time
Her; ohhh i can't i have a boyfriend
Me; fasho, well good luck on your work
NEXT
--------------
I latter out side the library approached a latina chick but she quickly shut me down with in a few words
no worries
NEXT
------------
overall it wasen't a bad day
Im really proud of myself for approaching in the library by far the cuteist girl ive seen in my town in a while.
I feel that i have to man up and start asking for numbers if Im going to get anywhere.
Im sticking with my motto of : no fat chick for 2015
Im going to bang a fly chick this summer if its the last thing i do
Im walking towards the campus when i see this cute punk rock brunette (6) smoking a cigarette walking towards me, she is wearing some dock martian books... i open
Me; hey those boots are cool what type are they
Her ; they are dock martins
Me; those are supper dope, im looking to get a pare how do you like those
Her; they are really nice i wore them while hiking the other day and they hardly got scratched at all i love them
Me; oh were do you go hiking at
Her : oh i go up in x palace its pretty good
Me; yea those look like sturdy boots, im thinking of getting a pare for the summer and wearing them with some short pants
Her; that would look really good
Me; how was class today
Her; oh im in high school, I go to x high ( last resort high school in the area where all of the bad/ dropout kids go)
Me; oh really how do you like it
Her; its cool there are small class rooms so its ok
Me; oh nice well ill see you around
her; ok bye
I think i could have pulled her number but i feel really weird getting a highschoolers number.
-------------------------
As im walking towards the JUCO i spot this cute blond (6) in a hat with tight jeans walking on the other side of the street.
I time it so i catch her right as she is crossing onto myside
Me; I like that hat where did you get it from
Her; i got it from Disney world
Me; really was that your first time going there
Her; Ive been there twice
we chat about her time there, at first she is giving me short anwsers but then i ask her how her classes were going and she opened up a lot
Me; how'd class go today
Her; pretty good though im excited i dont have class on thursday
Me; nice did the teacher send out a email
Her; no she just told us in class
Me; what class is it
Her; its human sexuality
Me; I had a friend that took a class like that at another school called Nursing 101 and he told me that they had a bondage mistress come in and talk to the class
Her; what, i can see my teacher doing somthing like that, we had a transvestite come in and talk to us, like one was a woman to a man, she was balding, had a beard and everything, the others were men to women and it was a lot obvious.
Me; thats pretty crazy
We get near the JUCO stadium and she goes
Her; well i have to go give my brother lunch (she was holding a bag)
Me; sweet see you later
NEXT
-----------------
Im walking through campus when i see a bunch of people outside of the art building. I spot this dirty blond (7) with dock martins and cut off jeans sitting on the steps of the art building
Me; im digging those boots, what type are they
Her; thanks, they are dock martins
Me; nice how do you like them
Her; they are nice but i wish i would have gotten the suede kind.
Me; really why
Her; they dont get as dirty as the leather and they break in a little better
Me; yea im looking to get a par, i want to rock some dock martins with shorts this summer
Her; they are good shoes
Me; what class are you on break for
Her; art class ( her noes crinkles as she sayes it)
Me; you don't like that class
Her; its ok
Me; every person i talk to who is taking a art class says that the teacher always wants them to do somthing that they don't want to do artistically
Her; its a little of that
Me; ( i crack a joke about her wanting to just draw dicks all day,)
Her; hahah
Me; are you more into free hand drawing
Her; I usually like to draw a person or a land scape
We talk about art for a little bit then, the class starts to go in from break and she tells me she has to go
Next
---------------------
I enter the library and walk around looking for a good place to read. Im walking when I spot this tall brunette sitting at a table. I continue to walk but then realize that the library is crowed so i swoop the table behind her.
Im not really paying attention to her, so i sit down and start reading.
15min into my book I get up and ask her to watch my things as i go to the bathroom, when she looks up she is a legitimate 8. Tall, skinny, a nice face with big tits.
Im frozen in my tracks as my heart starts to race, I go to the bathroom and think about how to play this.
As I come back I thank her for watching my things then open
Me; what part of russia are you from
Her; haha im not from russia im from around here
Me; you just look like your from there
Her; no hah where are you from
Me; originally seattle
Her; what are you doing way down here
Me; I have family in the area
Her; i hear it rains a lot there
Me; yea it does its so nice to see sun shine
Her; haha yea
Me; how was class today
Her; pretty good i had two classes today math and psychology
Me; what math are you in
Her; 110
Me; ive been there the 1A ( class above) is so much easier than 110
Her; really yea i hate it
We talk about school for a min, she then picks up her phone to text when i ask her
Me; what high school did you go to
Her; x high
Me; my cousin went there
The conversation dies as i go back to my book, 10 mins later i start packing up my stuff to leave when i engage her again
Me; did you play sports here
her; i played volleyball and softball in highschool , what did you play
Me; i swam and played basketball
Her; you look like you lift weights
Me; ( motioning with my fingers a bit) a little
Her; haha
Me; well i have to go put you number in my phone lets hangout some time
Her; ohhh i can't i have a boyfriend
Me; fasho, well good luck on your work
NEXT
--------------
I latter out side the library approached a latina chick but she quickly shut me down with in a few words
no worries
NEXT
------------
overall it wasen't a bad day
Im really proud of myself for approaching in the library by far the cuteist girl ive seen in my town in a while.
I feel that i have to man up and start asking for numbers if Im going to get anywhere.
Im sticking with my motto of : no fat chick for 2015
Im going to bang a fly chick this summer if its the last thing i do
HenrySprinkler · 2015-05-13 12:43:00 · #2135
(05-13-2015 02:18 AM)Sketness Wrote: Me; did you play sports here
her; i played volleyball and softball in highschool , what did you play
Me; i swam and played basketball
Her; you look like you lift weights
Me; ( motioning with my fingers a bit) a little
Her; haha
Me; well i have to go put you number in my phone lets hangout some time
Her; ohhh i can't i have a boyfriend
Me; fasho, well good luck on your work
NEXT
You should have persisted here. Not only was she asking you questions she even gave you a pseudo sexualized compliment. Push it past when you think its awkward.
OregonToSoCal · 2015-05-13 17:08:00 · #2136
(05-12-2015 03:56 PM)Giovonny Wrote: I'm very happy with my progress. My game is getting better with each approach.
Soon, I will find my next little 19 year old girlfriend!
Gio, I admire the shit out of your unwavering positive attitude in going one approach after another and persevering until you find one that hooks. I need to keep reading this thread and really internalize your mindset to approaching. I have the false beliefs that A. Approaches need to be some grand gesture of wit and creativity and B. I'm somehow failing if it takes me more then x number of approaches to be successful.
It might sound funny but it's more valuable to me to see how often you get rejected than it is to see your successes. It shows just how common so called rejection is and how in the grand scheme it's no big deal.
Sketness · 2015-05-14 02:12:00 · #2137
I went back to the JUCO today
first approach went terrible on some goth chick
second approach not much better on this brunette(6)
the third approach of the day went like this;
I spot this cute brunette(6.5) laying across a bench with a yoga mat sticking out of her bag. I approach her and open
Me; how do you like that yoga class
Her; its great the class im taking is the hot yoga there are other types to, and my teacher is really cool
Me; for sure what other types of yoga are there?
This chick takes off talking, Ive never seen a girl talk as much as this chick. I would just bring up a topic and she would run with it. We talked for a solid 20mins. Untill her fat lesbian friend came over to talk to her
She ( the fat friend) starts complaining how this "creepy" guy in her class was hitting on her.
Just hearing that made me so sad that there are guys that would hit on that wale of a woman.
Anyway we all keep talking the fat friend is surprisingly cool to me.
As their class starts to gather outside ( the fat chick and the brunette are in the same yoga class that is meeting out side for there final) the girls decide to go. I then go to the brunette
Me; hey lets grab some food some time put you number in ( as i hand her the phone)
her; oh my boyfriend would get mad at me if i did
Me; no worries have fun at yoga ( as i give her hi-five her )
------------------------------
I've started to learn slowly but surly that you have to pull the trigger in situations where you are talking to a girl.
I've gotten a lot of "NO's" lately but I know that for every no I hear Im getting closer to a yes and that is comforting.
first approach went terrible on some goth chick
second approach not much better on this brunette(6)
the third approach of the day went like this;
I spot this cute brunette(6.5) laying across a bench with a yoga mat sticking out of her bag. I approach her and open
Me; how do you like that yoga class
Her; its great the class im taking is the hot yoga there are other types to, and my teacher is really cool
Me; for sure what other types of yoga are there?
This chick takes off talking, Ive never seen a girl talk as much as this chick. I would just bring up a topic and she would run with it. We talked for a solid 20mins. Untill her fat lesbian friend came over to talk to her
She ( the fat friend) starts complaining how this "creepy" guy in her class was hitting on her.
Just hearing that made me so sad that there are guys that would hit on that wale of a woman.
Anyway we all keep talking the fat friend is surprisingly cool to me.
As their class starts to gather outside ( the fat chick and the brunette are in the same yoga class that is meeting out side for there final) the girls decide to go. I then go to the brunette
Me; hey lets grab some food some time put you number in ( as i hand her the phone)
her; oh my boyfriend would get mad at me if i did
Me; no worries have fun at yoga ( as i give her hi-five her )
------------------------------
I've started to learn slowly but surly that you have to pull the trigger in situations where you are talking to a girl.
I've gotten a lot of "NO's" lately but I know that for every no I hear Im getting closer to a yes and that is comforting.
PainPositive · 2015-05-15 03:33:00 · #2138
I Decided to post this thread here instead of making its own at the advice of some senior members. I am going to approach 50 lizards using strictly the Day Bang model.[b]
For the last year I've been very interested in daygame. After a long run in the nightclub scene many men start to shift their focus to a more productive lifestyle. Working out, starting a business, learning new skills, improving oneself, and giving value to others are respected paths but accomplishing those goals while going out four nights a week can cause conflict. Day game may be an answer for some of us who want to be more creative, focused, healthy, and so-on.
The problem for some is after years of working to build skill in night game and reaching optimum levels it can be hard to justify learning a whole new skillset. Questions like, "What are the success rates compared to NG?", "Is the quality the same, better, or worse?", "Is it worth the grind?" are all questions that pop up.
Like most things in life, the the answer lies in the "doing".
Of course we have a way to accelerate our learning processes through writing and other Game resources. I chose "Day Bang" by Roosh to be my main resource for a few reasons:
1. I like indirect.
I may try direct in the future and its merits are well documented here throughout the community but for now I will follow only the methods I learned in Day Bang.
2. It's not far from methods I use now.
Whether I'm at a social gathering with friends, a couchsurfing meetup, a nightclub in Central America, Colombia, Eastern Europe, America, Western Europe, I use a similar model to approach, attract, and eventually sleep with young fertile women. Almost exactly the style depicted in Bang but with a few variations.
3. I want to know what works through detailed documentation.
I wish I would have kept more detailed notes when I started game. The trials and tribulations, the struggle, the savory success of a sweet 19 year-old body, the learning and growing were all things worth remembering but unfortunately there is little to remember save a notch list, some flags and illegible scrawl in an old notebook. Nothing that can be really learned from. This is an opportunity to document and pass on how well Day Bang and daygame works in general.
What is Day Game? (indirect)
Day game is simply approaching girls during the day, conversing with them for varying amounts of time, dropping bait through rambling, and getting their contact information. For me, after the number I use my normal game methods to build attraction and comfort leading up to the bang.
Where will this experiment be conducted?
A tier one city in EE. Women are tall and hot but can be open and friendly especially to foreigners like in most EE countries. I have been living here for almost a year and have had great success in night game so I am not coming into the country fresh.
Thread Goals.
This thread should be a good resource and possibly motivation for those who want to give night game a go. I hope to get feedback from members, contribute to the forum in a valuable way, and help others to see how fast you can (or cannot) get bangs from daygame after being night game guy.
Stats/Style:
25 years old
Night game vet.
Nearing triple digit count. (90% night game others from social circles and random meetings, hostels, college almost none I can remember from day)
White, American, tall, lean build (not big), slightly above average looks.
I don't do gay shit. I don't spam, get cheezy, use stupid scripted or outdated tricks. I display value, have fun laugh (clown), qualify, comfort, and bang usually after 2 to 3 dates or not at all. I sometimes slow cook a girl if she's very attractive.
I will post my results each day starting with the first two days then the third later today.
Disclaimer: I am basically a clean slate with any structured day game.
For the last year I've been very interested in daygame. After a long run in the nightclub scene many men start to shift their focus to a more productive lifestyle. Working out, starting a business, learning new skills, improving oneself, and giving value to others are respected paths but accomplishing those goals while going out four nights a week can cause conflict. Day game may be an answer for some of us who want to be more creative, focused, healthy, and so-on.
The problem for some is after years of working to build skill in night game and reaching optimum levels it can be hard to justify learning a whole new skillset. Questions like, "What are the success rates compared to NG?", "Is the quality the same, better, or worse?", "Is it worth the grind?" are all questions that pop up.
Like most things in life, the the answer lies in the "doing".
Of course we have a way to accelerate our learning processes through writing and other Game resources. I chose "Day Bang" by Roosh to be my main resource for a few reasons:
1. I like indirect.
I may try direct in the future and its merits are well documented here throughout the community but for now I will follow only the methods I learned in Day Bang.
2. It's not far from methods I use now.
Whether I'm at a social gathering with friends, a couchsurfing meetup, a nightclub in Central America, Colombia, Eastern Europe, America, Western Europe, I use a similar model to approach, attract, and eventually sleep with young fertile women. Almost exactly the style depicted in Bang but with a few variations.
3. I want to know what works through detailed documentation.
I wish I would have kept more detailed notes when I started game. The trials and tribulations, the struggle, the savory success of a sweet 19 year-old body, the learning and growing were all things worth remembering but unfortunately there is little to remember save a notch list, some flags and illegible scrawl in an old notebook. Nothing that can be really learned from. This is an opportunity to document and pass on how well Day Bang and daygame works in general.
What is Day Game? (indirect)
Day game is simply approaching girls during the day, conversing with them for varying amounts of time, dropping bait through rambling, and getting their contact information. For me, after the number I use my normal game methods to build attraction and comfort leading up to the bang.
Where will this experiment be conducted?
A tier one city in EE. Women are tall and hot but can be open and friendly especially to foreigners like in most EE countries. I have been living here for almost a year and have had great success in night game so I am not coming into the country fresh.
Thread Goals.
This thread should be a good resource and possibly motivation for those who want to give night game a go. I hope to get feedback from members, contribute to the forum in a valuable way, and help others to see how fast you can (or cannot) get bangs from daygame after being night game guy.
Stats/Style:
25 years old
Night game vet.
Nearing triple digit count. (90% night game others from social circles and random meetings, hostels, college almost none I can remember from day)
White, American, tall, lean build (not big), slightly above average looks.
I don't do gay shit. I don't spam, get cheezy, use stupid scripted or outdated tricks. I display value, have fun laugh (clown), qualify, comfort, and bang usually after 2 to 3 dates or not at all. I sometimes slow cook a girl if she's very attractive.
I will post my results each day starting with the first two days then the third later today.
Disclaimer: I am basically a clean slate with any structured day game.
PainPositive · 2015-05-15 03:36:00 · #2139
Day 1
The first thing I notice is what a bitch I'm being. Not approaching as much as I should. Ego and alcohol are definitely two big factors. I am using the "rejection mindset" to help me overcome this but it is an uphill battle. I also realize "state dependant learning" may be a factor as well since I learned most of my social skills while under the influence of alcohol. This is truly a humbling experience coming from a guy who walks into the most pretentious nightclubs feeling like it's his playground. Granted I am on the street, probably the hardest location to DG.
Approach 1 (supermarket hot blonde high 7)
She is looking at shelves full of tuna. I open by asking her a question about kinds of tuna an and elaborate to as whether the salted or unsalted is better. I go on to say that tuna without oil is supposed to be better for you while mentioning I am trying to eat healthier. I mention an "article" I read about kinds of tuna and drop some "where I'm from" bait.
She doesn't bite. I expect english levels are low.
I pause and then continue with telling her that my favorite tuna was in colombia and that it came in a little foil package but was very tasty. She asks where I'm from (1 min in) I tell her I'm from New York and as usual in this country she expresses interest and "Ohhhh I love NY".
I ramble more dropping bait about how I'm learning to cook but the only meals I know are chicken and canned tuna. She laughs and asks and says "How long are you staying in (EE)?" She is really asking how long I've been here. I say 10 months. She is holding eye contact. I start to tell her that my language teacher is always trying to get me to read more but the language is very hard.
I mention cases in the language and go into a routine where I tell a story about asking my mother why she didn't teach me the language to which my mother answers "I didn't want you to know so I could speak in front of you and your father without you knowing what I was saying" I say "Those sneaky (country) women huh?" She laughs.
I laugh a little and instinctively touch her hip like in a nightclub because we were standing so close reading tuna labels. (cringe I know it was on instinct) (LOUD BUZZER!) Fucked the pooch and scared the cat. The words in Day Bang rang in my head something like "Expect the interaction to end within 30 seconds" It did. She politely said "okay caio" 15 seconds later smiling but killed it. That was it.
I was excited and disappointed at the same time. I fucked up but learned a tremendous amount from that.
Lessons Learned:
1. Not to laugh at my own jokes
2. Don't touch the hips of hot blondes in grocery store.
3. Learn to bait better and to speak without having 2 beers and a shot in you.
4. Girls are easy to talk to in stores.
5. Have better eye contact.
6. Reread optimizing mindset and belief quotes.
7. Don't be pressured because you aren't magically great at DG just because you are good at night.
8. Tell yourself that this rejection taught you far more than an a number would.
Approach #2 (Young dark hair 7.5)
While crossing in the crosswalk I asked where the cobble stone street was. She came close to me to look at the map on my phone and said "Oh I know" and said "this way" as we walked together. I was tempted to "where are you from" her but resisted the urge and practiced the ramble & bait, it was weak but she still showed interest and asked where I was from. I told her NY and she expressed good interest but not excitement like some girls do. She pointed to where I was going and my ramble fell flat. My brain turned off. She paused a moment to see if I wanted to say more. I said thanks and walked away extremely hard on myself but made the choice to stop get the right mindset and truck the fuck on.
This is brutal, not because I can't do it or won't be able to get good but because it's like starting over. Exciting because a whole new fresh challenge that I am determined to smash, brutal because I suck so bad at it.
Lessons learned:
1. Learn to ramble.
2. Don't ask easy questions. Ask "pet shop" or some other opener that she may not know the answer to so you can elaborate.
Approach #3 (WNB)
This girl turned out to be ugly and I couldn't stay in even for practice sake more than 30 seconds. I asked for directions and pulled the ripcord.
Lessons Learned:
1. Don't approach ugly girls if you aren't willing to stay for the sake of improving.
The first thing I notice is what a bitch I'm being. Not approaching as much as I should. Ego and alcohol are definitely two big factors. I am using the "rejection mindset" to help me overcome this but it is an uphill battle. I also realize "state dependant learning" may be a factor as well since I learned most of my social skills while under the influence of alcohol. This is truly a humbling experience coming from a guy who walks into the most pretentious nightclubs feeling like it's his playground. Granted I am on the street, probably the hardest location to DG.
Approach 1 (supermarket hot blonde high 7)
She is looking at shelves full of tuna. I open by asking her a question about kinds of tuna an and elaborate to as whether the salted or unsalted is better. I go on to say that tuna without oil is supposed to be better for you while mentioning I am trying to eat healthier. I mention an "article" I read about kinds of tuna and drop some "where I'm from" bait.
She doesn't bite. I expect english levels are low.
I pause and then continue with telling her that my favorite tuna was in colombia and that it came in a little foil package but was very tasty. She asks where I'm from (1 min in) I tell her I'm from New York and as usual in this country she expresses interest and "Ohhhh I love NY".
I ramble more dropping bait about how I'm learning to cook but the only meals I know are chicken and canned tuna. She laughs and asks and says "How long are you staying in (EE)?" She is really asking how long I've been here. I say 10 months. She is holding eye contact. I start to tell her that my language teacher is always trying to get me to read more but the language is very hard.
I mention cases in the language and go into a routine where I tell a story about asking my mother why she didn't teach me the language to which my mother answers "I didn't want you to know so I could speak in front of you and your father without you knowing what I was saying" I say "Those sneaky (country) women huh?" She laughs.
I laugh a little and instinctively touch her hip like in a nightclub because we were standing so close reading tuna labels. (cringe I know it was on instinct) (LOUD BUZZER!) Fucked the pooch and scared the cat. The words in Day Bang rang in my head something like "Expect the interaction to end within 30 seconds" It did. She politely said "okay caio" 15 seconds later smiling but killed it. That was it.
I was excited and disappointed at the same time. I fucked up but learned a tremendous amount from that.
Lessons Learned:
1. Not to laugh at my own jokes
2. Don't touch the hips of hot blondes in grocery store.
3. Learn to bait better and to speak without having 2 beers and a shot in you.
4. Girls are easy to talk to in stores.
5. Have better eye contact.
6. Reread optimizing mindset and belief quotes.
7. Don't be pressured because you aren't magically great at DG just because you are good at night.
8. Tell yourself that this rejection taught you far more than an a number would.
Approach #2 (Young dark hair 7.5)
While crossing in the crosswalk I asked where the cobble stone street was. She came close to me to look at the map on my phone and said "Oh I know" and said "this way" as we walked together. I was tempted to "where are you from" her but resisted the urge and practiced the ramble & bait, it was weak but she still showed interest and asked where I was from. I told her NY and she expressed good interest but not excitement like some girls do. She pointed to where I was going and my ramble fell flat. My brain turned off. She paused a moment to see if I wanted to say more. I said thanks and walked away extremely hard on myself but made the choice to stop get the right mindset and truck the fuck on.
This is brutal, not because I can't do it or won't be able to get good but because it's like starting over. Exciting because a whole new fresh challenge that I am determined to smash, brutal because I suck so bad at it.
Lessons learned:
1. Learn to ramble.
2. Don't ask easy questions. Ask "pet shop" or some other opener that she may not know the answer to so you can elaborate.
Approach #3 (WNB)
This girl turned out to be ugly and I couldn't stay in even for practice sake more than 30 seconds. I asked for directions and pulled the ripcord.
Lessons Learned:
1. Don't approach ugly girls if you aren't willing to stay for the sake of improving.
PainPositive · 2015-05-15 03:42:00 · #2140
Day 2
Approach #4 (Late 20's woman with glasses) Street
I don't know if you can count this but I asked this woman for directions. I planted my feet and said "excuse me" she almost didn't stop but then lifted her glasses and made good eye contact. I noticed her face was not great but used the opportunity to get warm. I was looking for a bus to the shopping center and asked her about it, I started to elaborate on bus cards and which form of payment needed to be used, got her talking, I kept rambling but failed to keep it past the 1 minute mark and she turned to leave.
Lessons learned:
1. Saying "excuse me about 6ft before she reaches you is optimal. It slowed her and stopped her in her tracks as I continued the rest of the opener.
2. Some girls are just not open no matter what you say but you can still get better at baiting.
3. Resisting the urge to clown is hard. My inner clown is trying to break free.
Approach #5 (Girl in yellow brown hair near 7.5 early 20's) Grocery store
This girl was looking at the soup flavoring packets and I asked her about a fish flavored one to use for seasoning. (Does Not exist) We looked together at different packages while I did my ramble. I threw out some cooking bait and finally remembered to "where I'm from" and she didn't bite. I again forgot how to ramble which is fucking frustrating because I live a very active interesting life, am passionate about work and have a million things to talk about at night but daytime I get blocked. I swear it's the alcohol. She started to lose her spot in line and said "sorry". I laughed this one off and was feeling much better.
Approach #6 (over the shoulder stop early 20's very fit blonde near 8) Street
I asked her over my shoulder with my cellphone out "Hey I hope you speak English, do you know where this place is? She immediately came close and put her hand under mine to bring the phone closer. She was now standing basically under me because I am tall.
I pointed to some random silly street semi near and said "Yea it's a health food store called green something" she said I don't know but looked around and then it started... I started to talk with fluidity like I do at night. I rambled about cooking, where I'm from, how people here don't get fat for some reason, and more in one quick ramble.
She asked where I was from told me she lived in LA and then asked me how long I've been here. We spoke a little more and after the 2 minute mark I said "You look like you eat healthy do you know any health food stores" she rambled a bit dropping a small bait about stores always closing down and her not finding anything she needs for work. I asked where she works she asked me what I'm doing here so I told her my mother grew up here and then a little humorous routine about how my Mother didn't teach me the language so she could be sneaky. She laughed hard and grabbed my arm.
She invited me to walk with her and she showed me a store. I took her FaceBook and she said "If I find out you're a local pretending to be American I am going to be really mad" I told her that if I wanted to talk to her I'd just walk up to her and say hi. (haha) She said "I like that" and more small talk and parted.
Lessons Learned:
1. Some girls just blow wide open and want to talk.
2. Baiting is easy when you have an open girl.
3. Day game is/can be fucking easy once you just do it.
4. I like blondes more when it's sunny.
Approach #7 (Young hot girl with braces, possibly 18) Bus
I got on the bus and there was only one person on. I was legitimately wondering if I was on the right bus so I asked her If I was on the correct one. This girl was young and it was super easy she asked me questions and we were laughing. It was a very normal conversation. I got off with her near my house and almost asked her if she wanted coffee but she said her bus was leaving in 7 minutes so I walked with her to the stop. She mentioned the drunk guys always bothering her there because the near-by bar. I went for the number this time and she suggested facebook, I refused and said "Nah the number works fine" and she gave it to me. We parted with a typical EE kiss cheek and she thanked me. Don't expect to see her again. It was fun but seems like a flake to me.
Lessons Learned:
1. There are nothing like 18 year old girls in EE
Approach #4 (Late 20's woman with glasses) Street
I don't know if you can count this but I asked this woman for directions. I planted my feet and said "excuse me" she almost didn't stop but then lifted her glasses and made good eye contact. I noticed her face was not great but used the opportunity to get warm. I was looking for a bus to the shopping center and asked her about it, I started to elaborate on bus cards and which form of payment needed to be used, got her talking, I kept rambling but failed to keep it past the 1 minute mark and she turned to leave.
Lessons learned:
1. Saying "excuse me about 6ft before she reaches you is optimal. It slowed her and stopped her in her tracks as I continued the rest of the opener.
2. Some girls are just not open no matter what you say but you can still get better at baiting.
3. Resisting the urge to clown is hard. My inner clown is trying to break free.
Approach #5 (Girl in yellow brown hair near 7.5 early 20's) Grocery store
This girl was looking at the soup flavoring packets and I asked her about a fish flavored one to use for seasoning. (Does Not exist) We looked together at different packages while I did my ramble. I threw out some cooking bait and finally remembered to "where I'm from" and she didn't bite. I again forgot how to ramble which is fucking frustrating because I live a very active interesting life, am passionate about work and have a million things to talk about at night but daytime I get blocked. I swear it's the alcohol. She started to lose her spot in line and said "sorry". I laughed this one off and was feeling much better.
Approach #6 (over the shoulder stop early 20's very fit blonde near 8) Street
I asked her over my shoulder with my cellphone out "Hey I hope you speak English, do you know where this place is? She immediately came close and put her hand under mine to bring the phone closer. She was now standing basically under me because I am tall.
I pointed to some random silly street semi near and said "Yea it's a health food store called green something" she said I don't know but looked around and then it started... I started to talk with fluidity like I do at night. I rambled about cooking, where I'm from, how people here don't get fat for some reason, and more in one quick ramble.
She asked where I was from told me she lived in LA and then asked me how long I've been here. We spoke a little more and after the 2 minute mark I said "You look like you eat healthy do you know any health food stores" she rambled a bit dropping a small bait about stores always closing down and her not finding anything she needs for work. I asked where she works she asked me what I'm doing here so I told her my mother grew up here and then a little humorous routine about how my Mother didn't teach me the language so she could be sneaky. She laughed hard and grabbed my arm.
She invited me to walk with her and she showed me a store. I took her FaceBook and she said "If I find out you're a local pretending to be American I am going to be really mad" I told her that if I wanted to talk to her I'd just walk up to her and say hi. (haha) She said "I like that" and more small talk and parted.
Lessons Learned:
1. Some girls just blow wide open and want to talk.
2. Baiting is easy when you have an open girl.
3. Day game is/can be fucking easy once you just do it.
4. I like blondes more when it's sunny.
Approach #7 (Young hot girl with braces, possibly 18) Bus
I got on the bus and there was only one person on. I was legitimately wondering if I was on the right bus so I asked her If I was on the correct one. This girl was young and it was super easy she asked me questions and we were laughing. It was a very normal conversation. I got off with her near my house and almost asked her if she wanted coffee but she said her bus was leaving in 7 minutes so I walked with her to the stop. She mentioned the drunk guys always bothering her there because the near-by bar. I went for the number this time and she suggested facebook, I refused and said "Nah the number works fine" and she gave it to me. We parted with a typical EE kiss cheek and she thanked me. Don't expect to see her again. It was fun but seems like a flake to me.
Lessons Learned:
1. There are nothing like 18 year old girls in EE
Giovonny · 2015-05-15 16:07:00 · #2141
(05-13-2015 05:08 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote: Gio, I admire the shit out of your unwavering positive attitude in going one approach after another and persevering until you find one that hooks. I need to keep reading this thread and really internalize your mindset to approaching
My mindset is simple..
I will approach hot, young, girls until I find one one likes me.
It's just that simple!
Rejection is just part of my game.
(05-13-2015 05:08 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote: I have the false beliefs that A. Approaches need to be some grand gesture of wit and creativity
Well, grand gestures of wit and creativity would be great. But, often times, we can get girls with less than grand gestures of wit and creativity. Sometimes, a simple conversation is enough.
(05-13-2015 05:08 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote: I'm somehow failing if it takes me more then x number of approaches to be successful.
You "fail" when you quit.
*****
University Campus
As I was driving onto campus, I saw a beautiful half asian/half white girl wearing yoga pants, great body..
I immediately pulled over parked my car and ran down the street to find her..
I walked past her a few steps and waited for the right moment to open her..
me: nice backpack cow girl
her: oh what
me: are you a cowgirl?
her: nope
me: that backpack looks like its from texas or something
her: nah its from ross
me: oh haha my sister in nevada rides horses, i thought you might be an equestrian
her: oh no
me: whats your name?
her: ashly
me: hey im gio
her: hi
We talked for a minute.
me: your cute, can i call you sometime and take you out for a drink
her: no thanks
Next!
--
3 minutes later, I see a cute little white in little soccer shorts, hot little athletic body, pretty face, long blond hair..
I walk passed her a few steps and wait for the right moment to turn over my shoulder and open her..
me: you look like a soccer player
her: oh i used to play in high school but not anymore
me: do you miss it?
her: um ya a little i guess but not that much
me: do u ever play just for fun?
her: not really, not too many girls play arouond here
me: have you heard of the intrmural co-ed league
her: no
me: its a lot of fun and very casual, sort of a party atmosphere
her: hmm, that sounds perfect
We walk and talk. We make a connection about soccer.
me: hey do u wanna talk again sometime
her: um ya maybe
me: whats your number
her: actually, im leaving to go home next week but maybe ill see you next year
Next!
--
5 minutes later, I see a hot black girl in yoga pants, great body..
I walk passed her and as I'm passing, I say:
me: cool pants
her: thank you
me: im a capicorn so I like that space age design
her: oh i don't know much about that sign
me: me neither but i google it sometimes, what are you?
her: im a libra
We stop and talk for a few minutes.
me: maybe we should hang out sometime
her: sorry
Next!
--
3 minutes later, I see a beautiful, little filapina in yoga pants, hot body, long hair..
me: i love those shoes
her: thank you, i love them
me: did u design those on nike.com
her: oh no haha
me: those are hot
her: ya they are real conversation starters
me: yes they are
We had a nice little chat.
me: well, im glad i talked to you, you are cute, wanna exchange numbers or something
her: ya sure
I will text her today!
--
2 minutes later, I see a cute light skinned black girl with a hot body..
me: you look like a new york city girl
her: i do why?
me: i don't know, you just have that swag and pop
her: haha im from oakland
me: oh well that explains your gangster walk
her: ha your funny
me: whats your name?
her: kim
me: hey im gio
We talked for a minute.
me: can i ask you a personal question?
her: a personal question?
me: do u date white guys
her: oh i mean, i might why?
me: lets hang out sometime
her: oh i cant sorry
Next!
--
4 minutesd later, I see a beautiful, young, thin, sexy, golden skinned latina..
She is holding a bag of fruit..
me: is that from the farmers market?
her: yes it is
me: i love your taste in fruit
her: hehe
me: peaches and plums are amazing
her: yes and in season now
me: you are so healthy
her: well, i try
me: whats your major?
her: food science
me: wow thats cool im a healthy chef
her: oh really
We connected over food.
me: we should hang out sometime
her: i don't think my boyfriend would like that
me: we don't have to tell him
her: haha sorry
Next!
--
5 minutes later, I see a hot white girl who looked like a model..
me: cool jeans
her: thanks
me: those are unique, most people roll up the bottoms but i like the way you cut them
her: ya thanks
me: are you a fashion major
her: no i study psychology
me: oh cool, thats why you think outside the box
We walk and talk about fashion.
me: wanna talk again sometime, get coffee or something?
her: i dont think so
Next!
I am having a lot of fun searching for my next 18 year old girlfriend!
kaotic · 2015-05-15 16:23:00 · #2142
Approach beast man, have you posted any new approach recordings ?
How much of a pain is it to censor things post record ?
How much of a pain is it to censor things post record ?
~wrIghter~ · 2015-05-15 23:28:00 · #2143
University Daygame featuring swuglyfe (rvf)
I woke up earlier than usual and started to prepare for my long trip to Kennesaw. Today I decided that I should go in a different direction with my usual style of dress and for something more “player casual”. Nautica polo, khakis, green and blue polkadots(peaking, it blended well), and a pair of nice boat shoes. (think sperries). I headed out around 11 and met up with Swug around 12:45 12:50ish.
If you were watching from the outside you would of thought we were old friends that have finally reunited to tear shit up. His style was very professional, business casual, and sleek. We bantered a bit about the forums and our dating and logistics situations. Were in the same boat with a lot of things but he has a lot going for him and I can see him living the playboy lifestyle to the fullest in the future.
We roll out in his Mercedes and cruise through the city, accosting the target university. I felt relaxed and at peace. This all felt natural to meet, as if it were something I’ve done before. This would be my first real day gaming experience. I understand others who only do it when they are out (as do I and so did we), but sometimes getting in the field and getting experience can help one improve leaps and bounds more than those who are only studying game and reading blogs.
When we reached campus it was as if Coach Christian had said “Okay wrIghter, get your ass out there and score some damn points.” This was my moment of getting off the bench and getting into the game. Swuglyfe was like a kid in a candy store. His face lit up, all smiles and ambitious mindset. We set off onto a campus where no one has Friday classes during the summer (D’OH!).
Approach #1 (2 Set)
It was as if we were on the scene of The Walking dead, except less grimy, no zombies, and no guns. Our first set came when we came near the admissions building. Two brunettes, one 4 one 5 (This was a warm up). “Hey, excuse me. My friend here from Australia’s an exchange student, were trying to find the gym.” I open the set indirectly. He banters with the other girl in the set.
We make small talk about what’s open on campus and if they just so happen to be students. “We’ve actually got a function we’ve got to go to get to for work, so…”yea (chimes her friend/co-worker)”. After the polite ejection, we debrief and move ahead roaming the campus.
We eventually make it to a food court with a few people scattered around, but not enough women to approach. Swag spots chick from the balcony and I tell him to go forward while I find out if my chic fil-A gift card works at the one a floor below. We make our way down, and he goes to join his target at a booth near the bookstore. I make small talk with a cashier and to my disappointment, you can’t use gift cards there. I find a place to scope the action from a safe distance while my wing runs game.
I eventually find a bench and pretend to focus on my cell phone. I see a hot blonde, who just so happens to be with her family. I greet them briefly and they move on. Swuglyfe and his girl change venues and I checkout the bookstore.
Approach #2
I climb the stairs and see two black chicks. One 5 (motherhen esc) and one 6. The motherhood would look better if she dropped a few. I open them with “Happy Friday” the respond in kind and ask if there is anything they could help me with. “No, I’m just looking around.” The 6 is taking a call and I don’t feel motivated to persist. I browse around the bookstore, have another employee ask if I need help finding what I’m looking for.
I make may way around to exit and they tell me to have a nice day. Not disappointed with this one, just wasn’t in my favor. Game on!
Making my way back downstairs, my wing and his girl make their way back to the booth. I had strategically sat a booth behind them to capture some infield footage. He runs good conversation game and has this chick eating out of the palm of his hand. His accent is on point and she’s taken a liking to him. He number closes after her shift comes about at the bookstore. He’s got a date with her tonight.
Approach #3
We exit the student center and see a group of students with dogs. Swug and I make our way over and pick our targets. He goes over to a blonde in a three set (two girls, one guy) and I’ve approached a thick light skin black girl 5.6 (her face wasn’t all that), with a cute puppy. (The pup grew to like me as I ran game and pet her at random). We banter about the dog, fitness, my wingman being Australian, and her job.
I mention that we were taking a tour of the campus and asked about the dorms. My goal was to get her to lead me there (she lives on Campus). She suggeusted finding someone if we feel lost. I kind of got the idea that isolating her from the group wouldn’t be possible with her working at the moment (dog sitting). I got her number and moved forward.
Approach #4
My wing and I go in the direction of the dorms when we come across a 2set of indian/hispanic looking women. I approach the hispanic looking 6 (slight mustache peach fuzz took her down a point). We go indirect, mentioning that were seeking a popular national park and not being able to get there soon enough. I suggest that we sit while making conversation with the two. My girl had been adamant in finding us directions to the park while my wing’s girl had entertained the conversation.
I attempt a number close, saying “In case we get lost i’m going to need your number”. It didn’t work. She gave us the number to the park saying that calling her wouldn’t help. We also proposed meeting again sometime before my wing is due to leave the state. “Were almost done here, we probably won’t be around.” We take the hint and go on our way.
Approach #5
After the last set we debrief and went over the mood of the conversation and a few pitfalls. Randomly a cute Korean 6.5 (I’d hit it), student from Athens opens us in search of the Admissions office. She’s very receptive and open. Were all “lost” and talking to strangers trying to find the places were looking for. We randomly come into contact with some staff and they give us a good idea of how to reach our individual destinations.
We both walk the Korean girl back to her car, her and I hug and my wing number closes after I suggest we get together sometime before my wing is due to leave. She agrees.
After a random campus tour, we left campus to run game at a local mall.
Approach #6
We make it to the mall which at first seems to be eerily deserted. We later come to find out that everyone is having lunch haha. I suggest we approach a 2set near the ice cream bar. We both approach and inquire about their tastes in ice cream. We lightly neg my target (middle easter/hispanic? 6.5) about not trying any other flavors than chocolate. I recall Soup and Goldmund’s mention of acting or actors and I embrace my character. “The player that negs.”
While they wait on their cold treats we engage them with random topics and we sort of talk to them individually (not totally isolated). I tease my target about possibly being an online dater (called her Tinderella) to which she denied. This girl gave me really good eye contact which caused me to shy away just a little bit. It was like she was open for my game. The only thing that kept her from being a complete seven is the skin colored peach fuzz that she wore on her cheeks. I’d still banged this chick with the force of an ex monk.
I found myself staying on the same topic and dragging it on for too long. I could feel she would of been down if I had gamed her good enough. I felt my chances of getting the number slipping. My wing and I tried to pull them for an instal-date but to no avail. They had shopping to do for her friend’s high school graduation. (18 & 19 y/o). We part and head up a level towards the food court.
Approach #7
We get invited to try some good herbal tea at a pretty sweet tea shop on the upper level. My wing finds the girl he wants to approach and goes for it. After sampling a cup and conversing with one of the employees (cool gay guy that winged Swug), I walk into the store and get approach by a whale that’s trying to sale me tea. I sample of something she suggests and go to purchase a three dollar cup (in which I got for free from the gay dude. Props).
A customer interrupt’s Swug’s approach so we leave and go back out into the main food court area. I suggest that he takes the girl sitting alone by the window but he has me go for it, since he had just finished an approach. I go in and open beta-ish. “Mind if I sit here.” I say as she looks at me almost shocked. “Why do you want to sit here?” *FIRST SHIT TEST!* I lose a train of thought because it all catches me off guard.
I tried to gather my thoughts right in front of her. Not nervous, not shaky, but at a lost for words. I spit out some lame incongruent reason, take my seat. “She shoes me that she was texting”. (Why would I give a fuck, get off your phone and be social in real life…b itch) she really gave me attitude. I failed her shit test. She proceeds to gather her things to leave. “Wait, you didn’t have to leave.”
“No, its okay.” In my head, I’m saying fuck you too then, but I’m not hurt just taken aback by my first real shit test and blow out.
My wing watched it all go down. We regroup, debrief and approach another 2set. One brunette 6, one blonde 7. Both were under 21, claimed to use fake ids to get alcohol, and also said that they were Christians that were going on missions in two different countries. My wing open the set with a direct approach, I came into the set, got us seated and watched him work. I wasn’t interested either of
the two, but they could both get the D on separate of same occasions.
After about 15-20 minutes the girls had to leave and we wished them well. We suggested a meetup but that was when they told us that they would be leaving for their missions. Not sure If to believe that or not, but I really didn’t care about the outcome.
Conclusion
After the last set we ran into a red pill guy that wanted us to take a survey for a few quick bucks. I opted in, and we spoke about some serious subjects and the three of us shared similar views.
This day of approaches brought me into a new realm of social dynamic. I feel that I’d rather approach more women that I’m attracted to in the real world than fully depend on women online that hold all of the cards. For me this is only the beginning.
SwugLyfe will add his POV soon.
I woke up earlier than usual and started to prepare for my long trip to Kennesaw. Today I decided that I should go in a different direction with my usual style of dress and for something more “player casual”. Nautica polo, khakis, green and blue polkadots(peaking, it blended well), and a pair of nice boat shoes. (think sperries). I headed out around 11 and met up with Swug around 12:45 12:50ish.
If you were watching from the outside you would of thought we were old friends that have finally reunited to tear shit up. His style was very professional, business casual, and sleek. We bantered a bit about the forums and our dating and logistics situations. Were in the same boat with a lot of things but he has a lot going for him and I can see him living the playboy lifestyle to the fullest in the future.
We roll out in his Mercedes and cruise through the city, accosting the target university. I felt relaxed and at peace. This all felt natural to meet, as if it were something I’ve done before. This would be my first real day gaming experience. I understand others who only do it when they are out (as do I and so did we), but sometimes getting in the field and getting experience can help one improve leaps and bounds more than those who are only studying game and reading blogs.
When we reached campus it was as if Coach Christian had said “Okay wrIghter, get your ass out there and score some damn points.” This was my moment of getting off the bench and getting into the game. Swuglyfe was like a kid in a candy store. His face lit up, all smiles and ambitious mindset. We set off onto a campus where no one has Friday classes during the summer (D’OH!).
Approach #1 (2 Set)
It was as if we were on the scene of The Walking dead, except less grimy, no zombies, and no guns. Our first set came when we came near the admissions building. Two brunettes, one 4 one 5 (This was a warm up). “Hey, excuse me. My friend here from Australia’s an exchange student, were trying to find the gym.” I open the set indirectly. He banters with the other girl in the set.
We make small talk about what’s open on campus and if they just so happen to be students. “We’ve actually got a function we’ve got to go to get to for work, so…”yea (chimes her friend/co-worker)”. After the polite ejection, we debrief and move ahead roaming the campus.
We eventually make it to a food court with a few people scattered around, but not enough women to approach. Swag spots chick from the balcony and I tell him to go forward while I find out if my chic fil-A gift card works at the one a floor below. We make our way down, and he goes to join his target at a booth near the bookstore. I make small talk with a cashier and to my disappointment, you can’t use gift cards there. I find a place to scope the action from a safe distance while my wing runs game.
I eventually find a bench and pretend to focus on my cell phone. I see a hot blonde, who just so happens to be with her family. I greet them briefly and they move on. Swuglyfe and his girl change venues and I checkout the bookstore.
Approach #2
I climb the stairs and see two black chicks. One 5 (motherhen esc) and one 6. The motherhood would look better if she dropped a few. I open them with “Happy Friday” the respond in kind and ask if there is anything they could help me with. “No, I’m just looking around.” The 6 is taking a call and I don’t feel motivated to persist. I browse around the bookstore, have another employee ask if I need help finding what I’m looking for.
I make may way around to exit and they tell me to have a nice day. Not disappointed with this one, just wasn’t in my favor. Game on!
Making my way back downstairs, my wing and his girl make their way back to the booth. I had strategically sat a booth behind them to capture some infield footage. He runs good conversation game and has this chick eating out of the palm of his hand. His accent is on point and she’s taken a liking to him. He number closes after her shift comes about at the bookstore. He’s got a date with her tonight.
Approach #3
We exit the student center and see a group of students with dogs. Swug and I make our way over and pick our targets. He goes over to a blonde in a three set (two girls, one guy) and I’ve approached a thick light skin black girl 5.6 (her face wasn’t all that), with a cute puppy. (The pup grew to like me as I ran game and pet her at random). We banter about the dog, fitness, my wingman being Australian, and her job.
I mention that we were taking a tour of the campus and asked about the dorms. My goal was to get her to lead me there (she lives on Campus). She suggeusted finding someone if we feel lost. I kind of got the idea that isolating her from the group wouldn’t be possible with her working at the moment (dog sitting). I got her number and moved forward.
Approach #4
My wing and I go in the direction of the dorms when we come across a 2set of indian/hispanic looking women. I approach the hispanic looking 6 (slight mustache peach fuzz took her down a point). We go indirect, mentioning that were seeking a popular national park and not being able to get there soon enough. I suggest that we sit while making conversation with the two. My girl had been adamant in finding us directions to the park while my wing’s girl had entertained the conversation.
I attempt a number close, saying “In case we get lost i’m going to need your number”. It didn’t work. She gave us the number to the park saying that calling her wouldn’t help. We also proposed meeting again sometime before my wing is due to leave the state. “Were almost done here, we probably won’t be around.” We take the hint and go on our way.
Approach #5
After the last set we debrief and went over the mood of the conversation and a few pitfalls. Randomly a cute Korean
6.5 (I’d hit it), student from Athens opens us in search of the Admissions office. She’s very receptive and open. Were all “lost” and talking to strangers trying to find the places were looking for. We randomly come into contact with some staff and they give us a good idea of how to reach our individual destinations.We both walk the Korean girl back to her car, her and I hug and my wing number closes after I suggest we get together sometime before my wing is due to leave. She agrees.
After a random campus tour, we left campus to run game at a local mall.
Approach #6
We make it to the mall which at first seems to be eerily deserted. We later come to find out that everyone is having lunch haha. I suggest we approach a 2set near the ice cream bar. We both approach and inquire about their tastes in ice cream. We lightly neg my target (middle easter/hispanic? 6.5) about not trying any other flavors than chocolate
. I recall Soup and Goldmund’s mention of acting or actors and I embrace my character. “The player that negs.”While they wait on their cold treats we engage them with random topics and we sort of talk to them individually (not totally isolated). I tease my target about possibly being an online dater (called her Tinderella) to which she denied. This girl gave me really good eye contact which caused me to shy away just a little bit. It was like she was open for my game. The only thing that kept her from being a complete seven is the skin colored peach fuzz that she wore on her cheeks. I’d still banged this chick with the force of an ex monk.
I found myself staying on the same topic and dragging it on for too long. I could feel she would of been down if I had gamed her good enough. I felt my chances of getting the number slipping. My wing and I tried to pull them for an instal-date but to no avail. They had shopping to do for her friend’s high school graduation. (18 & 19 y/o). We part and head up a level towards the food court.
Approach #7
We get invited to try some good herbal tea at a pretty sweet tea shop on the upper level. My wing finds the girl he wants to approach and goes for it. After sampling a cup and conversing with one of the employees (cool gay guy that winged Swug), I walk into the store and get approach by a whale that’s trying to sale me tea. I sample of something she suggests and go to purchase a three dollar cup (in which I got for free from the gay dude. Props).
A customer interrupt’s Swug’s approach so we leave and go back out into the main food court area. I suggest that he takes the girl sitting alone by the window but he has me go for it, since he had just finished an approach. I go in and open beta-ish. “Mind if I sit here.” I say as she looks at me almost shocked. “Why do you want to sit here?” *FIRST SHIT TEST!* I lose a train of thought because it all catches me off guard.
I tried to gather my thoughts right in front of her. Not nervous, not shaky, but at a lost for words. I spit out some lame incongruent reason, take my seat. “She shoes me that she was texting”. (Why would I give a fuck, get off your phone and be social in real life…b itch) she really gave me attitude. I failed her shit test. She proceeds to gather her things to leave. “Wait, you didn’t have to leave.”
“No, its okay.” In my head, I’m saying fuck you too then, but I’m not hurt just taken aback by my first real shit test and blow out.
My wing watched it all go down. We regroup, debrief and approach another 2set. One brunette 6, one blonde 7. Both were under 21, claimed to use fake ids to get alcohol, and also said that they were Christians that were going on missions in two different countries. My wing open the set with a direct approach, I came into the set, got us seated and watched him work. I wasn’t interested either of
the two, but they could both get the D on separate of same occasions.
After about 15-20 minutes the girls had to leave and we wished them well. We suggested a meetup but that was when they told us that they would be leaving for their missions. Not sure If to believe that or not, but I really didn’t care about the outcome.
Conclusion
After the last set we ran into a red pill guy that wanted us to take a survey for a few quick bucks. I opted in, and we spoke about some serious subjects and the three of us shared similar views.
This day of approaches brought me into a new realm of social dynamic. I feel that I’d rather approach more women that I’m attracted to in the real world than fully depend on women online that hold all of the cards. For me this is only the beginning.
SwugLyfe will add his POV soon.
swuglyfe · 2015-05-15 23:43:00 · #2144
wr1ghter covered most of what needed to be said. I'm going to keep things brief and only add things in where I feel like additional detail is needed or when we split and he couldn't report. Firstly, it was great to be able to daygame again so soon after my last excursion. I really feel like I am opening the taps fully on taking my game to the next level. I'm wearing a gray button down with sleeves rolled up, untucked, white denim, and AE walnut strands, rolling OZ accent game.
This is the girl I ZDB SNL'd. Details on that approach from my perspective and the full night are in the notch thread here.
In approach 3, I took a hot blonde who was about 7.5-8, serious points from her height and figure. Engage her about trying to find the national park. This was important because we didn't want to choose something on campus. It was intentionally distant so that they couldn't point it out to us or lead us there. It could allow us to transition into other things once we gave up on having them explain where it was. Didn't make too much headway with her, because her BF was the dude standing right behind me... didn't know that until I made some covert suggestions which they confirmed. Soft ejected and went over to wr1ghter's set. Here, I intervened only to say that he was terrible with directions, in order to help him secure the number close, because she seemed to be wavering on whether he really would be calling her just if he was lost. Whatever the case, there was enough plausible deniability for her.
With regards to approach 5, I just want to add that Korean people seem really impressed when you know stuff about their culture. I think being sandwiched right in between China and Japan gives them a bit of an inferiority complex. They LOVE it when foreigners know their footballers, their car companies, or in this case, their construction equipment manufacturing companies.
This helped build a lot of comfort with her, and I threw out what I knew in Korean and I guessed where she was from in Korea, providing more locations than just Seoul.
wr1ghter didn't really point this out about the campus tour, but I took the opportunity to use it and gain valuable intel. There was a cute brunette, a hot blonde, and an attractive Latina in the group. They were being followed by their parents, but in between the snippets of quiet when our gay tour guide wasn't talking, I was asking them about their interests and what they would study. I learned that this school is big for its nursing program, and filed that away. That would come in handy later on.
Approach 7 really should be broken down into three separate approaches. One was the tea shop (which I will describe fully later), one of the blowout, which I admit the harshness of her reply threw his frame from which he didn't recover sufficiently, and the other was the following:
When we walked in the food court I noticed the hot brunette sitting down. As we walked away debriefing from the blowout I see an even hotter blond sit down across from her. From my perspective, I could easily add .5 to the values wr1ighter assigned. We can't pass this up. I am so nervous about this, however. I can't think of any possible situational opener. FUCK IT. I'm going direct. I don't care, I have to make this happen.
Walk up, say 'excuse me, I hate to interrupt, but I just had to come over and say that you guys are extremely cute.' They stutter for a second as the directness catches them off guard. wr1ghter thankfully maintains frame and sits down next to them without asking or anything, motioning for me to do the same, which I do. Helped that we didn't ask and just did it. We found out they were students at the university we were at earlier. As such, I use the intel learned on nursing when moving into more personal part of GALNUC to ask whether they're doing nursing, partly with a joking tone. This shows I've done the work and know something about the place. It shows I get them, to a certain extent. One isn't, but the other was, and both got it.
I felt great about this approach. I saw AA rising, I knew I had no opener, but I went in direct and balls first. Came out alive with some girls I generated some amount of interest in. I'll never know whether their mission trips were actually genuine, but I emerged so much better for it.
Finally, I returned to the tea shop after helping a fellow brother learn about RVF and the manosphere (doing my duty). I earlier entered and with the intention of talking to a cute girl who looked mixed Asian white. She was busy with a customer, however, so I started by talking to a friendly and helpful gay black guy. Smell some various varieties of tea to kill some time, banter about them. Finally she's free. I engage her because I got a cup of iced tea from the gay black dude, but I ask her what her favorite is. I get a cup of that. She's also a student at the nearby university, majoring in, you guessed it, PREMED NURSING. Before I could number close her, though, two menopausal landwhales engage her and it's not like she can back out. When I come back, she's with two other menopausal landwhales, and I wait and chat with the gay black dude who actually points me in her direction. I engage him for the sake of being polite, saying I'd like some new and interesting people to hang out with in the limited time I'm here. He suggests I ask her if she's interested (thanks dude). I do when she's free, but she drops the IHAB line. I'm not about to run my IHAB destroyer and suggest she cheat or something in front of her four coworkers, however, cause that would not have gone over well for either party. I graciously nod, understand, and bow out.
Fin.
Quote:Approach #1 (2 Set)
It was as if we were on the scene of The Walking dead, except less grimy, no zombies, and no guns. Our first set came when we came near the admissions building. Two brunettes, one 4 one 5 (This was a warm up). “Hey, excuse me. My friend here from Australia’s an exchange student, were trying to find the gym.” I open the set indirectly. He banters with the other girl in the set.
We make small talk about what’s open on campus and if they just so happen to be students. “We’ve actually got a function we’ve got to go to get to for work, so…”yea (chimes her friend/co-worker)”. After the polite ejection, we debrief and move ahead roaming the campus.
We eventually make it to a food court with a few people scattered around, but not enough women to approach. Swag spots chick from the balcony and I tell him to go forward while I find out if my chic fil-A gift card works at the one a floor below. We make our way down, and he goes to join his target at a booth near the bookstore. I make small talk with a cashier and to my disappointment, you can’t use gift cards there. I find a place to scope the action from a safe distance while my wing runs game.
I eventually find a bench and pretend to focus on my cell phone. I see a hot blonde, who just so happens to be with her family. I greet them briefly and they move on. Swuglyfe and his girl change venues and I checkout the bookstore.
This is the girl I ZDB SNL'd. Details on that approach from my perspective and the full night are in the notch thread here.
In approach 3, I took a hot blonde who was about 7.5-8, serious points from her height and figure. Engage her about trying to find the national park. This was important because we didn't want to choose something on campus. It was intentionally distant so that they couldn't point it out to us or lead us there. It could allow us to transition into other things once we gave up on having them explain where it was. Didn't make too much headway with her, because her BF was the dude standing right behind me... didn't know that until I made some covert suggestions which they confirmed. Soft ejected and went over to wr1ghter's set. Here, I intervened only to say that he was terrible with directions, in order to help him secure the number close, because she seemed to be wavering on whether he really would be calling her just if he was lost. Whatever the case, there was enough plausible deniability for her.
With regards to approach 5, I just want to add that Korean people seem really impressed when you know stuff about their culture. I think being sandwiched right in between China and Japan gives them a bit of an inferiority complex. They LOVE it when foreigners know their footballers, their car companies, or in this case, their construction equipment manufacturing companies.
This helped build a lot of comfort with her, and I threw out what I knew in Korean and I guessed where she was from in Korea, providing more locations than just Seoul. wr1ghter didn't really point this out about the campus tour, but I took the opportunity to use it and gain valuable intel. There was a cute brunette, a hot blonde, and an attractive Latina in the group. They were being followed by their parents, but in between the snippets of quiet when our gay tour guide wasn't talking, I was asking them about their interests and what they would study. I learned that this school is big for its nursing program, and filed that away. That would come in handy later on.
Approach 7 really should be broken down into three separate approaches. One was the tea shop (which I will describe fully later), one of the blowout, which I admit the harshness of her reply threw his frame from which he didn't recover sufficiently, and the other was the following:
When we walked in the food court I noticed the hot brunette sitting down. As we walked away debriefing from the blowout I see an even hotter blond sit down across from her. From my perspective, I could easily add .5 to the values wr1ighter assigned. We can't pass this up. I am so nervous about this, however. I can't think of any possible situational opener. FUCK IT. I'm going direct. I don't care, I have to make this happen.
Walk up, say 'excuse me, I hate to interrupt, but I just had to come over and say that you guys are extremely cute.' They stutter for a second as the directness catches them off guard. wr1ghter thankfully maintains frame and sits down next to them without asking or anything, motioning for me to do the same, which I do. Helped that we didn't ask and just did it. We found out they were students at the university we were at earlier. As such, I use the intel learned on nursing when moving into more personal part of GALNUC to ask whether they're doing nursing, partly with a joking tone. This shows I've done the work and know something about the place. It shows I get them, to a certain extent. One isn't, but the other was, and both got it.
I felt great about this approach. I saw AA rising, I knew I had no opener, but I went in direct and balls first. Came out alive with some girls I generated some amount of interest in. I'll never know whether their mission trips were actually genuine, but I emerged so much better for it.
Finally, I returned to the tea shop after helping a fellow brother learn about RVF and the manosphere (doing my duty). I earlier entered and with the intention of talking to a cute girl who looked mixed Asian white. She was busy with a customer, however, so I started by talking to a friendly and helpful gay black guy. Smell some various varieties of tea to kill some time, banter about them. Finally she's free. I engage her because I got a cup of iced tea from the gay black dude, but I ask her what her favorite is. I get a cup of that. She's also a student at the nearby university, majoring in, you guessed it, PREMED NURSING. Before I could number close her, though, two menopausal landwhales engage her and it's not like she can back out. When I come back, she's with two other menopausal landwhales, and I wait and chat with the gay black dude who actually points me in her direction. I engage him for the sake of being polite, saying I'd like some new and interesting people to hang out with in the limited time I'm here. He suggests I ask her if she's interested (thanks dude). I do when she's free, but she drops the IHAB line. I'm not about to run my IHAB destroyer and suggest she cheat or something in front of her four coworkers, however, cause that would not have gone over well for either party. I graciously nod, understand, and bow out.
Fin.
Sketness · 2015-05-16 01:48:00 · #2145
@~wrIghter~ and @swuglyfe
good shit going out,
A couple of tips that have helped me when rolling out to colleges:
Wear a backpack when approaching on college campuses- This makes approaching a lot easier since girls will assume that you are already a student at the school.
Plus ive found that when it comes to daygame on college campuses blending in can really help you
Hit the library- especially around finals week, it will usually be packed with girls nobody has seen all semester.
If you can grab a seat next to a cute girl, "study" aka (read at the book you brought in your backpack, i add a pad and pen for studying esthetics) for 15min, then ask her to watch your stuff while you go to the bathroom, comeback, thank her for watching your stuff then ask her what her final is in. Game on
good shit going out,
A couple of tips that have helped me when rolling out to colleges:
Wear a backpack when approaching on college campuses- This makes approaching a lot easier since girls will assume that you are already a student at the school.
Plus ive found that when it comes to daygame on college campuses blending in can really help you
Hit the library- especially around finals week, it will usually be packed with girls nobody has seen all semester.
If you can grab a seat next to a cute girl, "study" aka (read at the book you brought in your backpack, i add a pad and pen for studying esthetics) for 15min, then ask her to watch your stuff while you go to the bathroom, comeback, thank her for watching your stuff then ask her what her final is in. Game on
Was sipping on a beer for happy hour. Cougar comes in, sits at adjacent table. My party invited her over.
Her: Hey! I met him last night.
Me: Yep.
Her: Do you remember my name?
Me: Nope.
*30 pause*
Her: Do even remember meeting me last night?
Me: Nope.
*insert 20 minutes of boring conversation*
Me: (turning suddenly) Let's get a room and fuck next week.
Her: God I would love that so much.
The balls in her court. I can take it or leave it.
Her: Hey! I met him last night.
Me: Yep.
Her: Do you remember my name?
Me: Nope.
*30 pause*
Her: Do even remember meeting me last night?
Me: Nope.
*insert 20 minutes of boring conversation*
Me: (turning suddenly) Let's get a room and fuck next week.
Her: God I would love that so much.
The balls in her court. I can take it or leave it.
Agreddor · 2015-05-16 23:56:00 · #2147
Was having lunch and sat next to this family of 6, their teenage daughter was giving me eye contact I smile.
This goes on for awhile. I write my number of a napkin, kick her and look at the napkin she mouths to me "I'm underaged"
Next
This goes on for awhile. I write my number of a napkin, kick her and look at the napkin she mouths to me "I'm underaged"
Next
h3ltrsk3ltr · 2015-05-17 00:46:00 · #2148
Went to a bar i frequent. Two girls were sitting outside talking about the death penalty and using big words n shit. I sat down and infiltrated the conversation slowly.
I gave some input but eventually steered the topics toward lighter subjects. After a while I asked if anyone was single with a smirk. Two were fucking gay and the one 'single' one gave me the following bs objections:
Seeing someine
Moving soon
Not looking to start something
I did my best to overcome the objection.
AAR:
I think I came off as beta-intellectual. I should have been more rough and masculine instead of trying to be smart. They had advanced degrees and weren't impressed with my job. I should have deflected more and been more playful. Girls hate direct answers and don't respond well to them. I did a horrible job of building sexual tension. Yeah, I made eye contact and was assertive, but not nearly enough. My energy was too low. Next time I'll be more powerful and get to the point faster And see how that goes.
Input appreciated.
I gave some input but eventually steered the topics toward lighter subjects. After a while I asked if anyone was single with a smirk. Two were fucking gay and the one 'single' one gave me the following bs objections:
Seeing someine
Moving soon
Not looking to start something
I did my best to overcome the objection.
AAR:
I think I came off as beta-intellectual. I should have been more rough and masculine instead of trying to be smart. They had advanced degrees and weren't impressed with my job. I should have deflected more and been more playful. Girls hate direct answers and don't respond well to them. I did a horrible job of building sexual tension. Yeah, I made eye contact and was assertive, but not nearly enough. My energy was too low. Next time I'll be more powerful and get to the point faster And see how that goes.
Input appreciated.
Sketness · 2015-05-17 04:07:00 · #2149
went out to the bars with my cousin and his friends. We all are all spread out over the club when i spot this cute brunette sitting by herself on the couch
I roll over, open her and spit some solid game.It turns out she is dd for her group. She is eating it up, asking me questions and engaging me
It turns out she goes to my alma mater university. and is staying in the area for the summer.
She shit test me telling me that she dosent know me when i suggest we hang out, i pass like its nothing.
I hand her my phone and she puts her number in, i tell her to call me to which she does. Then she has me put my number in her phone.
At this point her gay friend comes over and whispers in her ear, then he takes out his phone and types somthing and hands me the phone it reads; she thinks your cute
Im like cool then high five them both.
I then tell her we should go get coffee sometime.
she goes " i have to say im kinda seeing someone right now"
I stupidly say "well we can be friends" (fucking dumb ass)
anyway she then goes on to tell me how much she "Loves coffee"
i then go talk to my cousin, i then start to leave when i catch her eye and we wave to each other bye.
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This easily was the weirdest encounter ive had in a while. Its cool to see and recognize shit test and pass them.
I still am having problems when girls say that they are "seeing someone"
I think i could have handled that a little better. Its hard to know if they are serious or just bullshiting
Ima hit her up tomorrow and see if i cant get her out, if i get a girl out....its pretty much a wrap.
I roll over, open her and spit some solid game.It turns out she is dd for her group. She is eating it up, asking me questions and engaging me
It turns out she goes to my alma mater university. and is staying in the area for the summer.
She shit test me telling me that she dosent know me when i suggest we hang out, i pass like its nothing.
I hand her my phone and she puts her number in, i tell her to call me to which she does. Then she has me put my number in her phone.
At this point her gay friend comes over and whispers in her ear, then he takes out his phone and types somthing and hands me the phone it reads; she thinks your cute
Im like cool then high five them both.
I then tell her we should go get coffee sometime.
she goes " i have to say im kinda seeing someone right now"
I stupidly say "well we can be friends" (fucking dumb ass)
anyway she then goes on to tell me how much she "Loves coffee"
i then go talk to my cousin, i then start to leave when i catch her eye and we wave to each other bye.
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This easily was the weirdest encounter ive had in a while. Its cool to see and recognize shit test and pass them.
I still am having problems when girls say that they are "seeing someone"
I think i could have handled that a little better. Its hard to know if they are serious or just bullshiting
Ima hit her up tomorrow and see if i cant get her out, if i get a girl out....its pretty much a wrap.
~wrIghter~ · 2015-05-17 09:37:00 · #2150
"Kinda seeing someone" doesn't necessarily mean its serious. If you got her number she's at least considering being more than "friends". Pre-game I'd say that, but that you putting yourself in that box where no one wants to be. When you meet for coffee,
take back frame and establish comfort.
take back frame and establish comfort.