I've given this comfort building vs attraction idea some more thought after it's sunk in better. I believe attraction CAN be built, a LOT, where little existed from the start. http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-47561.html

I was able to analyze what I do best, and how to start tweaking it..

My standard game in the past year that's been working pretty damn well involves creating plenty of comfort up front, but not in a crowding way. I just slowly grow on a woman to where there is very little inhibition for them to approach me or vice versa. This is for long game on women at places I frequent like the gym. Not high volume approaching, just making acquaintances slowly into potential fucks.

I've even been literally interrupting women when I normally wouldn't lately, with good results. Interrupting girls who just set their song in their phone, put their headphones on, and 3 reps into a set, or 2 minutes into running on the treadmill, I just get in their face. None of them have been saying;"I've gotta get back to workin out," at any point. Just total stoppage and frame controlled convo on my part. I also conditioned them that I don't carry on ridiculously, so they know I won't be a time drain. Social faux pas in the gym? Yes normally, but not when you lead it with impervious frame, strong confident eye contact, and clear speech.

I slyly interject sexual innuendos to keep the interaction sexualized, but not always. I keep shit so random it keeps them confused. Occasionally ignoring them like they don't exist. In that confusion a hook of tension grows and then I can control the tension during future interactions. Like a reminder to us both;"Hey I'm a sociable guy you like to talk to, but you know I'll slam you silly, let's not forget that now..." kinda vibe, and I provide reminders of my intent... which seems to keep them comin back.

Lately I've flat out been just gut-punching a direct sexual remark when it falls into place without thinking twice. Most of the time, they set it up like a Freudian slip they made. So it's mostly indirect game that builds comfort, commonalities, etc. Sprinkled with sexualizations that create a sort of dual conversation (I've spoke about this once before, can't find thread).

One being talking about whatever bullshit we're "informatively" speaking about, the other is body language, eye contact, metaphorically speaking a sexual language. It allows me to pretty much cleverly control the tension, turn it up, down, on, or off, and be very direct where I never used to be, at will. Even when the girl's doing most of the talking, I have control of the conversation.

Tonight there's a brunette 8-8.5 who works out at my gym regularly. She's got a BF but I'm enlightening her to the idea I'm quality by dropping small, large bait when she leads into it easily. Got to know her a while back, some overlapping distant social circle connections, etc. I start talking to her a about her routine a month ago.

We literally have in depth conversations now about her ass, how to develop it, methods I'd use to shape her ass, diet for ass expansion, my Lord.. the shit I've said. So she's given me approval since this, and started implying she's got friends she's thinking about hooking me up with. Most of her friends are 7.5s-9s. Smoking little crew of mid 20s tail.

At first, She's always acted "weird" around me, I thought maybe she had me pinned as a creep. Once I got to know her that weirdness turned out to be (or into) the underlying tension. Last night, I'm telling her about insulin spiking to gain mass after heavy "ass" workouts (), carb cycling post mass gains, intermittent fasting, etc. I release her from the convo. Leg press and squat. Then go to use the smith machine for heavy weighted stationary lunges, and there she is doing shoulder presses on it.

Me:"Christ you can't be serious." < referring to her being the machine I needed.
Her:"Do you want to get on this?" < lookin up at me with whimpering deer eyes, accidentally emphasizing the word ON.. I think? not sure but I rolled with it.
Me:"Yea, I'm wanna get on this." < Smirk, glance down at her pussy.. she caught that one like a bowling ball
Her:"Sick" slightly squinting her eyes and glaring with frustrated bitch angst, slowly shaking shaking her head slightly while staring at me for a long time, also very close to my face when she said that..up in my personal space.
~ then she nervously starts taking the 5s and 10s off one end of the bar and I say..

Me:"There's no reason to remove all the tension, is there?" < she got the point loud and clear. haha.
Her;"What to do with you..." << she turned beat red and walked off after I owned her.

Of course me talking to her gets noticed by another cutie whose seeing this roid head on/off there. I'm towards the end of my leg workout and she walks out all sexy in camo-heels. I give her shit for shackin up with Marines, she says;"Oh we're really just friends, blah blah".. This girl's 4'10" and proportionate, not even slightly chubby lookin, I'm 6'4". She won't leave my damn side so I continue lifting while she's talking to me. I tell her she looks sexy, she breaks her phone out, starts showing me her bikini modeling photos she just got back, then slips in this little bit about..
Her:"Hey you know I work over there right?"
Me:"You mean.. where .. wait."
Her: "Yea, you know.. "
Me: "Oh the strip club?"
Her:"Yea, just no one in here knows except now you and a few other people who keep it on the DL for me.. been there since September."
Me:"So you want me to come stuff dollar bills in your twat, is that what you're telling me?"
Her:"No.. laughs"
Me:"That's cool, my buddies used to be strip club DJs, I know plenty of strippers. I drink at strip clubs, that's about it... well, and fuck qualified strippers sometimes."
Her:"Oh shit" < laughs so hard enough to bend at the waist
We banter back n forth about strip clubs and people we know. etc.

Me:"If shit simmers down.., well, you know.. " < referring to guy she's been seeing at the gym on/off who has beta fits on her. It's been implied strongly between us already that I might take her for a spin if they split, but don't want to be the reason for it.
Her:" ok, ok..I will..see you soon.." walks off on look out for her dude..

The other thing is this method just fits my personality. I'm kind of obnoxious, and truly Dgaf, and will remove all filters to stress test a girl for resistance I'll run into IF we hook up down the road. If I can say harsh, direct shit sexually towards her and still get IOIs, lots of barriers are already gone when/if we hang out, and I turn up the kino.

Sure, it gets me categorized in their minds as non-relationship material, but I don't want a relationship with them so it works out.

(05-19-2015 02:54 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  I've given this comfort building vs attraction idea some more thought after it's sunk in better. I believe attraction CAN be built, a LOT, where little existed from the start. http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-47561.html

I was able to analyze what I do best, and how to start tweaking it..

My standard game in the past year that's been working pretty damn well involves creating plenty of comfort up front, but not in a crowding way. I just slowly grow on a woman to where there is very little inhibition for them to approach me or vice versa. This is for long game on women at places I frequent like the gym. Not high volume approaching, just making acquaintances slowly into potential fucks.

I've even been literally interrupting women when I normally wouldn't lately, with good results. Interrupting girls who just set their song in their phone, put their headphones on, and 3 reps into a set, or 2 minutes into running on the treadmill, I just get in their face. None of them have been saying;"I've gotta get back to workin out," at any point. Just total stoppage and frame controlled convo on my part. I also conditioned them that I don't carry on ridiculously, so they know I won't be a time drain. Social faux pas in the gym? Yes normally, but not when you lead it with impervious frame, strong confident eye contact, and clear speech.

I slyly interject sexual innuendos to keep the interaction sexualized, but not always. I keep shit so random it keeps them confused. Occasionally ignoring them like they don't exist. In that confusion a hook of tension grows and then I can control the tension during future interactions. Like a reminder to us both;"Hey I'm a sociable guy you like to talk to, but you know I'll slam you silly, let's not forget that now..." kinda vibe, and I provide reminders of my intent... which seems to keep them comin back.

Lately I've flat out been just gut-punching a direct sexual remark when it falls into place without thinking twice. Most of the time, they set it up like a Freudian slip they made. So it's mostly indirect game that builds comfort, commonalities, etc. Sprinkled with sexualizations that create a sort of dual conversation (I've spoke about this once before, can't find thread).

One being talking about whatever bullshit we're "informatively" speaking about, the other is body language, eye contact, metaphorically speaking a sexual language. It allows me to pretty much cleverly control the tension, turn it up, down, on, or off, and be very direct where I never used to be, at will. Even when the girl's doing most of the talking, I have control of the conversation.

Tonight there's a brunette 8-8.5 who works out at my gym regularly. She's got a BF but I'm enlightening her to the idea I'm quality by dropping small, large bait when she leads into it easily. Got to know her a while back, some overlapping distant social circle connections, etc. I start talking to her a about her routine a month ago.

We literally have in depth conversations now about her ass, how to develop it, methods I'd use to shape her ass, diet for ass expansion, my Lord.. the shit I've said. So she's given me approval since this, and started implying she's got friends she's thinking about hooking me up with. Most of her friends are 7.5s-9s. Smoking little crew of mid 20s tail.

At first, She's always acted "weird" around me, I thought maybe she had me pinned as a creep. Once I got to know her that weirdness turned out to be (or into) the underlying tension. Last night, I'm telling her about insulin spiking to gain mass after heavy "ass" workouts (), carb cycling post mass gains, intermittent fasting, etc. I release her from the convo. Leg press and squat. Then go to use the smith machine for heavy weighted stationary lunges, and there she is doing shoulder presses on it.

Me:"Christ you can't be serious." < referring to her being the machine I needed.
Her:"Do you want to get on this?" < lookin up at me with whimpering deer eyes, accidentally emphasizing the word ON.. I think? not sure but I rolled with it.
Me:"Yea, I'm wanna get on this." < Smirk, glance down at her pussy.. she caught that one like a bowling ball
Her:"Sick" slightly squinting her eyes and glaring with frustrated bitch angst, slowly shaking shaking her head slightly while staring at me for a long time, also very close to my face when she said that..up in my personal space.
~ then she nervously starts taking the 5s and 10s off one end of the bar and I say..

Me:"There's no reason to remove all the tension, is there?" < she got the point loud and clear. haha.
Her;"What to do with you..." << she turned beat red and walked off after I owned her.

Of course me talking to her gets noticed by another cutie whose seeing this roid head on/off there. I'm towards the end of my leg workout and she walks out all sexy in camo-heels. I give her shit for shackin up with Marines, she says;"Oh we're really just friends, blah blah".. This girl's 4'10" and proportionate, not even slightly chubby lookin, I'm 6'4". She won't leave my damn side so I continue lifting while she's talking to me. I tell her she looks sexy, she breaks her phone out, starts showing me her bikini modeling photos she just got back, then slips in this little bit about..
Her:"Hey you know I work over there right?"
Me:"You mean.. where .. wait."
Her: "Yea, you know.. "
Me: "Oh the strip club?"
Her:"Yea, just no one in here knows except now you and a few other people who keep it on the DL for me.. been there since September."
Me:"So you want me to come stuff dollar bills in your twat, is that what you're telling me?"
Her:"No.. laughs"
Me:"That's cool, my buddies used to be strip club DJs, I know plenty of strippers. I drink at strip clubs, that's about it... well, and fuck qualified strippers sometimes."
Her:"Oh shit" < laughs so hard enough to bend at the waist
We banter back n forth about strip clubs and people we know. etc.

Me:"If shit simmers down.., well, you know.. " < referring to guy she's been seeing at the gym on/off who has beta fits on her. It's been implied strongly between us already that I might take her for a spin if they split, but don't want to be the reason for it.
Her:" ok, ok..I will..see you soon.." walks off on look out for her dude..

The other thing is this method just fits my personality. I'm kind of obnoxious, and truly Dgaf, and will remove all filters to stress test a girl for resistance I'll run into IF we hook up down the road. If I can say harsh, direct shit sexually towards her and still get IOIs, lots of barriers are already gone when/if we hang out, and I turn up the kino.

Sure, it gets me categorized in their minds as non-relationship material, but I don't want a relationship with them so it works out.

I think you've got this backwards dude

For the fact that these girls have boyfriends and your still trying to kick game to them, it seems to me that you look more like a chump to in there eyes.

I understand that these girls are hot and that you would love a crack at them, but they have made themselves unavailable by having bf's

all of the IOI's/ sexual undertones to conversations all of that doesn't mean shit if she isn't open to acting on any of it.

I get it, talking to 8s is a awesome feeling for practice, but if a 8 tells me she has a bf, im not going to waste my time trying to game her further, ima go find another 8 who is sexually available.

so my advice, stop being a entertainment monkey for these hoes who arn't going to do anything with you and start investing your time into girls who are actually sexually available

(05-12-2015 03:56 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  University Campus:

I see a sexy latina in a skirt with thigh high white leggings, very pretty..

She is walking towards me at a crosswalk. I pause and look at my phone, pretending to be texting.. I anticipate that she will walk straight ahead, so, I begin walking straight ahead about 5 steps in front of her, I let her walk behind me for a few steps and then pretend to notice her for the first time..

me: hey i like your leggings, very chic
her: oh thanks
me: thats a good look, are you a fashion designer?
her: oh well not here at school, do i look like a fashion designer?
me: yes you do
her: haha
me: whats your major?
her: kinosieology
me: oh i used to study that, you do look like an athlete
her: i used to run track
me: thats cool what event?
her: the 800
me: woah thats a tough one
her: ya
me: whats your name?
her: ginger
me: like in "casino"
her: huh?
me: sharon stone in casino
her: oh i dont know
me: thats ok, im gio

We get to the campus center, she could walk in a million directions..

me: ginger
her: ya
me: lets have coffee sometime
her: umm well
me: or go out for a drink
her: i think im going to have to pass

Next!

--

I see a tall, pretty white girl with a slim, toned athletic body, looked like a volleyball player..

She walked right passed me in a crowd. I turned around and walked in her direction. I walked passed her a few steps and patiently waited for the right moment to turn and pretend to notice her..

me: you look like a volleyball player
her: i dont play sports but i always get that
me: what do u do?
her: photography
me: oh thats cool what kind of stuff do u shoot
her: all kinds of things, im experimenting
me: sounds fun, are u cold?
her: ya a little bit haha
me: the weather changes so quickly out here
her: i know
me: are you from the bay area?
her: no im from san diego.

We walked and talked on the way back to her dorm room.

me: hey do u wanna get coffee together sometime?
her: um possibly
me: ill send u a text, whats your number?
her: umm actually no thanks but nice meeting you

Next!

--

I see a sexy light skinned black girl showing off her nice body in a skirt and shoulder exposing sweater..

She was sitting at a table, I walked up to her..

me: hello
her: hello
me: you look great
her: i do?
me: yes you didn't know
her: ya i knew just kidding haha
me: haha you knew but i was just confirming it for you
her: yes
me: whats your name
her: michelle
me: hey michelle im gio
her: hey
me: what are you doing out here?
her: oh just some homework

We had a nice little sexy chat.

me: why dont i call you later
her: im sorry gio im with someone
me: are you happy ?
her: yes

Next!

--

I walk passed a cute black girl, she kind of smiles at me, I turn and she has a great body..

I go back and catch up to her.. I walk along side of her and get her attention..

me: hi
her: hi
me: how are you?
her: pretty good
me: we sort of made eye contact back there and i wanted to come and say hello, your very pretty
her: oh my gosh thank you
me: my name is gio
her: im yinka
me: yinka?
her: yes its a nigerian name
me: its sounds cool
her: thanks

We walked and talked for a minute, she had class..

me: can i call you sometime
her: sorry i have a boyfriend

Next!

--

I see a sexy latina, with long hair and a nice ass..

She used to go to a summer sports camp that I worked at..

She comes up and gives me a hug.

her: hey what are you doing here?
me: oh im just talking to some of the athletes
her: really im going crazy with school
me: only 3 more weeks dont quit now
her: 3 weeks wow
me: u have class right now?
her: ya
me: lets walk in that direction
her: ok

We walk and talk

me: have fun in class
her: ill try
me: hey jessica
her: ya
me: wanna get coffee together sometime
her: um ya sure

She is 19.

I just texted her.

We'll see what happens.

--

I see a hot little filapina wearing yoga pants, pretty face, clean cinnamon skin, nice body..

She is cold..

me: its freezing out here, wheres your jacket?
her: omg i forgot it
me: it looks like a nice day but its so windy today
her: i know
me: you look like a fashion student
her: oh no i just take general ed stuff
me: oh good one semester at a time, my name is gio
her: hey im jessica
me: are you from around here?
her: ya just over the hill
me: are you from brazil or something?
her: no im filapina
me: oh there are a lot of brazilians who are half japanese, they look like you
her: what really?
me: ya look it up
her: wow
me: where can i get good good filapino food around here?
her: um well i like fernandez
me: ya that place is good
her: try to goat stew
me: hey wanna exchange numbers and go eat sometime?
her: oh i have a boyfriend

Next!

--

I see a pretty, mixed looking black girl with a hot little body..

She is sitting at a table. I walk by..

me: hey cool sweater a
her: thanks
me: are you native american?
her: no
me: you look half navajo maybe
her: no im creole
me: oh creole, i love the food in that culture
her: yes its delicious

We chat for a few minutes.

me: are you single? lets talk again sometime
her: sorry gio, im with someone

Next!

--

I see a gorgeous hawaiian looking girl in yoga pants, bright, clean skin, long hair, nice ass..

She is walking ahead of me.. I catch and as I'm passing her, I comment on her scarf..

me: did you go to st.sebastians
her: huh?
me: your scarf, did you go to st. sebastians?
her: oh no its my friends
me: where did you go?
her: oh i went to our lady of mercy
me: oh my cousin went there, she said its too strict
her: haha ya sometimes
me: they dont let you girls have any fun, you have to be slick about it
her: haha

She stopped and went into an office. I kept walking..

me: have a nice day
her: thanks you too

I wanted to continue talking to her but the situation wouldn't allow it.

The next moment, I saw her turn and exit the building. I exited out of another door and found her in front..

me: excuse me
her: ya
me: i wanted ask you, um, whats your name?
her: collette
me: im gio, you look nice today
her: oh hehe thanks
me: i'd like to take you out for coffee or something sometime
her: oh well, um, sure why not
me: can i take your number and text u later
her: ya

I will text her tonight!

--

I see a cute little asian in yoga pants, thin but toned, pretty face, feminine demeanor..

She is walking right next to me..

me: hey i love your yoga pants with the pink stripes
her: thanks thats why i got them cause of the pink
me: ya everybody has the all black, you are so unique
her: haha
me: do u have yoga class today?
her: ya right now, actually its spinning
me: oh spinning is cool

We chatted for a minute.

me: hey, um, do u wanna exchange numbers and talk again sometime?
her: oh thanks but i cant

Next!

*****

I'm very happy with my progress. My game is getting better with each approach.

Soon, I will find my next little 19 year old girlfriend!

Holy shit G you are a machine. Your game is very direct. Can you take a look at mine I few posts back and tell me what you think? I was going to make a thread/ day game journal but I asked some of the senior posters and Lizard of Oz told me to post here so I could get your input. Thanks!

PP

(05-19-2015 11:21 AM)Sketness Wrote:  

(05-19-2015 02:54 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

I think you've got this backwards dude

For the fact that these girls have boyfriends and your still trying to kick game to them, it seems to me that you look more like a chump to in there eyes.

I understand that these girls are hot and that you would love a crack at them, but they have made themselves unavailable by having bf's

all of the IOI's/ sexual undertones to conversations all of that doesn't mean shit if she isn't open to acting on any of it.

I get it, talking to 8s is a awesome feeling for practice, but if a 8 tells me she has a bf, im not going to waste my time trying to game her further, ima go find another 8 who is sexually available.

so my advice, stop being a entertainment monkey for these hoes who arn't going to do anything with you and start investing your time into girls who are actually sexually available

95% of 7-9s have boyfriends. The point is getting to know them on the level, at a place I'm not going out of my way to walk into (a gym that's part of my weekly routiine), in a manner which 1) broadens exposure to their hot friends, and 2) sets me up for chance at them should they break up with their BF. I don't target taken girls, but let's be fucking serious here.. what hot girl usually doesn't have a boyfriend? Very few. this gym doesn't have an abundance of 7-9s walking around, in fact very few gyms in my city do, so it's learning to work with what I have available, with limited time.

I've pulled twice from this gym in similar ways. The point is day gaming at a gym is hard enough since everyone's focused on their workout and daily schedule. Having good report with the hotties eventually opens doors, and legs.

Mind you, if these girls have BFs, why do they walk up to me 30-50% of the time to start chatting if I'm maintaining a sexual undertone?.. Probably because they've placed me in the datable or fuckable category, but the timing isn't right. I don't orbit women. Maybe "approach" technically isn't what my description was, rather "social maintenance" with sexy women in the gym.

First post in this thread..

Brazil, Florianópolis. Bus game from the past 10 days.


Girl 1- Bus stop: probably 16/17, slim body, nice face, yoga pants, worst looking shoes ever

Me: Hi do you know when the bus comes?
Her: It leaves the station at 8:05
Me: So, 5 minutes from now?
Her: yes, less.
Me: Are you coming from the gym?
Her: Yes
Me: What was your workout like today?
Her: I did zumba.
Me: And now you're taking the bus? You know walking or running is also a good workout
Her: Yes, but i live far
...bus comes.. i sit across the row from her
Me: You know they built that new running area near here
Her: Yes
Me: Since i dont think you know how to run, i can teach you sometime
Her: *laughs. Maybe but i really dont like running
...next stop an old lady gets on with a rolling bag, I help her get on. come back to my seat and the girl has her headphones in. i read kindle

Girl 2- debarking bus it is raining, I leave the station. From behind I see a cute blonde girl getting her umbrella ready. I walk up next to her and pretend to gather myself as if rain is the worst thing ever.

Me: Every day this happens. Its beautiful all day, while Im at work. I look outside and wish I was enjoying. Then I come home and its pouring rain. (in portugues)
Her: Where are you from? (english transition here)
Me: Haha.. can you tell Im a foreigner? My accent is horrible sometimes!
Her: Yes. Its not bad.
Me: And you? Wait.... You must be from... England (obvious)
Her: Yes I am
Me: I always meet expats on the bus.

......We start talking and she knows a lot of my friends. Decide its best to keep it platonic.

Another open that I realized was platonic: Seriously hot chick. 8 face, body was left to the unknown because it was raining, definitely slender though.

me: Hi. I've been in an office all day. By myself. I really need to speak to someone! Do you know what i mean?
her: Haha. Yes its good to talk sometimes
me: Especially when Im trying to learnt he language, but I get stuck working with other foreigners and we just speak English!
her: You don't remember me?
me: No, we know each other?
her: Yea you know my friend X.
me: Oh yea, X. What is she up to nowadays?
her: this and that. blah and blah.
me: sorry i forgot you. I normally remember very pretty faces.
her: *blush- nothing but smile
me: Are you sure we met. I cant seem to remember. (worthless inquiry here)
her: yes we met at X beach, with Carol and my boyfriend


Girl 3: very upper-class (yet still on bus). Beautiful feet and sandals, jeans, tight jacket, victoria secret bag. I pretend not to see her. Pick up my phone and pretend a call for about 30 secs.. Laugh and fake hang up. I sit down next to her.

me: Where did you get that VS bag?
Her: Argentina
me: I knew it! Brasilians never buy VS in brasil.
Her: Yes, I buy lots of goods outside of brasil.
me: You know that is very true. When I went to San Francisco over Christmas, some friends gave me a list of things to buy them.. but i didn't because I'm selfish
Her: *blank stare
me: Do you travel outside of the country only to buy things?
Her: No my family takes lots of vacations in Buenos Aires
... bus comes.
me: Are you going to my neighborhood?
Her: Yes I live in that neighborhood
.. we get on and are standing insufferably close..
me: I like a lot of things about Brasil but the worst is that THINGS are so much money
Her: Yes its a big problem here.. long rant about designer goods
me: I've been here for 10 months and havent bought one single piece of clothing. Can you believe it?
Her: Wow.
me: Do you dance? You look like a dancer, your hair is very.. *wanted to say flowy but lack vocabulary.. so i played with her hair to illustrate what i meant
Her: Yes I like to dance to electronic
me: *Dumb stare.... Really? Thats not dancing. I mean Brazilian latin dance
Her: Oh no. Why do you ask?
me: Im looking for a new dance partner to practice with. Guess its not you. SO what music do you like besides electonica?
Her: long ramble about MPB (popular brasilian music)

....showed lack of desire to continue conversating. Luckily a guy i know from dance entered. Started talking to him until we got to the end of the line. All get off. Me and him continue talking. Girl exits and says goodbye and waves.

Me to HIM mid convo: Hey man I gotta go. Lates
me: So you do live here. I thought you were kidding. (she stops outside the station and doesnt move)
me: Lets walk together, why are you standing there?
Her: Im waiting for my daddy
me: I love when brasilian women say daddy. Its my favorite.
me: Why dont you walk? Are you a princess?
Her: It's cold, my dad always picks me up here
me: I still dont know if I like princesses, maybe I can consider
Her: Yes. Hey I have a Spanish friend who speaks english.
me: Hablas espanol tambien?
her: *Blank stare
Me: Why are you trying to set me up with your friend? You dont think im handsome?
her: haha. hey my dad will be here soon. do you want to take my fb?
me: No i dont. Id prefer whatsapp (close)
Me: What are you doing this weekend?


Girl 4: Im standing on a crowded bus. Pale chick, nose ring, red hair.

Open notepad on my phone and type: Note that I did not say one word during this interaction- all text.

ME:Hi whats your name? emoticon- Speak no evil, smiley -*hands phone to her
Her: *Looks confused.. *Looks at message and laughs. *hand back
Me: What? You cant write? Its hard sometimes, i know.. *hand back
Her: I have a bf *hand back
Me: He doesnt let you speak to other people? That must be horrible.
Her: Smile and *hand back
Me: Is he big? *hand back, *go for entertainment at this point*
Her: Smile and *hand back

Look around and 3 men are looking at me in pleasant astonishment


Girl 5: Notice her as I walk past, sit directly behind. Im reading some high-level English on my kindle but open up a brazilian mag i have for this occassion in my bag. Find a difficult word I dont know... From over the shoulder, tap tap.

me: Hi. Excuse me. My portugues is bad and Im curious.. What is this word? *show magazine
Her: It means youngest born child.
me: Oh thanks.. I this doesnt have a specific word in my language. Thats interesting
Her: Where are you from?
me: North America
Her: Oh, I would have thought Argentina.
me: Ya theres no many here. I dont like them (brasilians in my city really dislike them)
Her: Ya i dont either
me: I never had a problem with them.. But in my neighborhood they all smell bad, have dreadlocks and dont stop trying to sell me worthless crafts.
me: Hey thanks for the help. *return to reading


Girl 6: Older, 40, not that attractive face, but great style and some seriously sexy heels.

me: Hey excuse me. Can i ask you a question?
her: sure
me: we have similar material of glasses, do you know where I can get them refitted? *pulls out Warby Parkers from backpack
her: In centro there are many glasses places
me: Thanks. I will check it out. Do you spend lots of time there shopping? You have nice style
her: I do live there so i shop, but not so much
me: Is that where you got those shoes? They are very attractive on you
her: *crosses her legs the other way, straightens her skirt. No i got these on vacation.

....I got lucky here. I was astonished that I had said this to her, as it was very sexually charged. So in my own amazement, lost track of the flow of thing- would have said something stupid if my bus had not come.

me: Im on this one. You?

*get up and leave. I saw her in Centro two days later wearing the same thing

Girl 7: Terminals here have all the old and used textbooks from schools or libraries for people to take. There is a tall slender woman with long hair.

Me: Anything good?
her: *She hands me a chemistry book
me: Don't really like science. This one is best for me. *grabs a 2nd grade grammar book
her: Yea i like grammar
me: You think im joking. This is above my level.
me: They never have any good books. *shows her a book on theology
her: still browsing, hasn't showed serious interest.
me: Good luck! see you later


This next one was definitely the highlight of my bus game:

I'm coming back from a dance party in downtown, a brasilian country party. I was on some serious dopamine, dancing with my dance school, spittin mad game, headed home at 2am to get some shit done early in the morning. I get to the terminal just after my bus left... Not so bummed because there is a girl who had also JUST missed it:

me: Are you going to neighborhood?
her: No, just past it. Same bus.
me: Ok, you can keep my company then. Also I dont really know how the busses work here so you can figure it out for me too
her: Ok thats fine. You can protect me.
me: (i had gone hiking and got an allergic reaction on my arm to a bug bite- amazon shit) Hey my arm is swollen after i got bit today.. I see you have long nails, can you gently rub my arm? *smirk
her: *hesitantly sits down RIGHT next to me.
me: Here. If i give you a hand massage, you will feel better about it. Give me your hand

...... 10 minutes later, after her complimenting my massage, she is rubbing my arm and Im just watching her.. feeling great. I have full wood. I put her arms on her lap and keep looking at mine. She notices my wood... Its 2:30am and im in a terminal with a single mom of 26 years.Great tits, low-class.

I go for the fences. We make out and continue playing with each others hands for the next twenty minutes..

*get on bus at 3am

me: *take deep breath
me: Do you have to go home tonight?
her: Yes
me: You cant come home with me?
her: No. Are you crazy?
me: Sometimes.
her: Take my number. I have to be up at 6am.
me: *my stop has arrived. -- This is your last chance to be crazy with me..
Her: Ciao


The text one is definitely fun. Im going try with ONLY emoticons next time. Random will be best.

University Daygame featuring swuglyfe Part II

Approach #1
Turkish brunette 7.5
I arrive at the mall to me Swuglyfe. I see a section near the back entrance for those waiting on cabs, uber, or whatever vehicle to pick them up. I see a woman with her legs crossed, smoking a cigarette and texting with a lovely smile on her face. I relax on a couch closer to hers until she finishes her text. At one point I catch her looking at me. After she goes back to her phone, I open her about the mall.

“Hi, are you familiar with the mall at all?”

“No, I’m visiting.”

She has this crazy eye color, like bluish grey with a mix of green. She’s also very feminine.

“Oh okay, I was supposed be meeting my friend here. I’d leave no but I don’t feel like looking for him.”

she laughs.

“Are you French?”

“No, Turkish."

“Sorry, can you repeat that?”

“Turkish”

I tell her that I liked her accent and we discuss american culture, european culture, what she does, and the sad fact that she’s leaving the same day we’ve just met. She had been staying at the five star hotel not far from the mall. She has a great boss. We get up to head inside and I kiss her on both cheeks. We exchange names inside but I can’t remember it.

Its one I’ve never heard before…and those are the ones I usually forget. She’s sweet, we say our goodbyes and part ways. She’s married and mentioned having a husband. She doesn’t cook but he does…and they dine out often haha.


Approach #2

I’m off to find Swuglyfe when I run into a blonde MILF. We meet at one of the maps on the 3rd level of the mall where I open her.

“Hey, would you know how to get to xx store?”

“Haha, no. Not at all.”

We laugh. She tells me that she looking for some women’s store that I didn’t care to remember. She points us into the right direction and we walk to our destinations.

No number close, but I’m getting warmed up.


Approach #3

I meet swuglyfe at one of computer shops and we chop it up (shoot the shit) while they make repairs. When everything is ready, we head over to get something for his phone. I see a couple of women that could of been approached, but I decided against it, as he was trying to get things together. My third approach would come at the apple store.

I was approached by an employee HB 6, maybe mixed race. I told her I didn’t really need help with anything but our conversation came out of thin air. We started to talk about poetry, yoga, and writing. This is one of the girls that would make a pretty chill FB. She didn’t appear to be the type to wear makeup or really put a lot of maintenance into looking pretty. Which maybe would have taken her up a point.

Through out the interaction her co-workers would interrupt and we’d continue where we left off. After Swuglyfe number closed, I got an email and some info from the one I spoke with. I may hit her up later next week.

Approach #4(2 set)
6.5 FOB Asian chicks

Brief indirect opener in a clothing store.

“Are we aloud to wear our bags here?” (I was carrying a backpack)

“We don’t work here”

They say this and move to another part of the store. My wing and I navigate to another section of the store where we see an effeminate man wearing capri shorts talking to a group of girls. Swuglyfe observed our surroundings and also noticed how a lot of the clothing options couldn’t be told apart by sex. This was also relevant with another shop that we had entered before the approach. We leave.

Approach #5
Mixed 7/5-8.0 Indian/Middle Eastern 6.5 Dominican/Puerto Rican 6.5


We make it to the university campus after random approaches on the street (nothing worth mentioning). After finding the student center , my wing and I spot a group of girls in one of the club rooms. Swuglyfe opens them and I emerge not long after. He opens indirect and the girls are very receptive. The way he speaks draws them in. I pretty much watch him do all of the heavy lifting.

I chime in occasionally until he gets us to a point where we can sit down to chat with the group. We all casually banter for about 45 minutes (seemed longer) about random topics, sexual innuendos, culture. I’d gladly to bang any of the women from this set, but Swuglyfe and I both saw the chances of making a clean number close pretty difficult.

There being three to two with no solid way of isolating them. We could see that they all enjoyed our company and even extended an invitation to join them again.

After leaving, my wing and I walked the city looking for potential but ironically couldn’t find much to work with. Perhaps girls are sleeping in to party tonight. Next week is going to be a busy one. Graduation, The conclusion of three months no fap (just wanted to take on the challenge), and getting taking care of a few financial issues.

I’m in the game and its amazing seeing how far I’ve come. A year or two ago, I’d be online looking for chicks to Skype, or playing video games. I would have never found how deep all of this went (game, women, the matrix) and how to deal with issues that I wouldn’t have understood not so long ago.

When I really get my shit together, I’d love to kick it with other players and just live this life that we’ve all chosen for ourselves. I’ve seen my growth, and I know I've still quite a ways to go to reach my full potential.

-Playboy Exchange Student

~wrIghter~

wrIghter's writeup here is pretty solid. Again, I'll add where I feel necessary.

Number 3 for me was a 7.5 mixed chick who was half Spanish half Native American. Damn.

There were several approaches on Asian sets in the mall that all turned out to be FOB and completely shut us out while turning to giggle hysterically with their friends. Approach 4 was just one of them. That effeminate man was a dude with crazy aesthetics and build. Such a shame... if he weren't gay he would be a natural and slay incomprehensible quantities of pussy...

Approach 5 was a great learning experience because I got in great teasing, negging, and flirting. Early on I move to try and pull my refined closer of 'I'm here for a week or so, would love to find some interesting and fun people to hang out with and show me around, let me get your number and let's grab drinks.' The mixed chick, easily above an 8 in my opinion, mentions that she's a good girl and doesn't party a whole lot. Find out she's from Texas. I mention my plans to go to Austin later in the summer.

She then recalls a story when she used a fake to get into bars on 6th St. Bingo.

I call her out on this and tease her playfully on it, won't let it go but toeing that fine line of being too much or taking it too far. I circle back to it occasionally on other things to playfully question her trustworthiness. I question her motives and blow it out of proportion jokingly (she hinted extremely vaguely she did it so that it wouldn't ruin the vibe with her friends, I say suuuuuure...) Then proceed to joke about American slang that I've 'learned' while here. This shit cracks them up so bad, will definitely reuse elsewhere.

wr1ghter is on the fast track of player development. As we walked looking for targets, he talked about how his childhood friends are now by and large either drug dealers or locked up in jail. Yet here he is, standing tall, about to graduate from college, aggressively seeking to lock down a solid job, dressing very smoothly, reading game material, and most importantly, applying it regularly in the real world. I mentioned to him that he should definitely consider wise rasta game sometime. He's got the hair and the laidback attitude for it. Young and impressionable SWPL girls who are looking to 'find themselves' or whatever would eat it up. I hope to run game at least one last time with him before I return to DC.

I’ve done a few approaches over the last couple of days, after a couple of months off. I’m trying to shake of the rust. I’ve been doing direct day game mostly. There’s a lot of rust to shake off. Here we go:

#1:
Cute brunette walking down the street.
Me: “Hey, excuse me. I just couldn’t let you go without saying hello. You have an Italian look that I like—am I right that you’re Italian?”
Her: Oh thanks, no I’m actually Belgian and German.
Me: Oh. And you didn’t get the blonde hair?
Her: Nope.
Me: Been to Belgium?
She actually had, and so have I, so we went on about that. The thread dies down a bit.
Me: So, big plans tonight?
Her: I’m just going to go to the gym, and use my new apple watch.
Another thread about how the apple watch works.
So it’s been a bit more than 5 minutes so I decide to go for the number.
Me: Alright, we’ll I gotta get going, but let’s continue the conversation.
Her: Umm..I don’t think so. I just don’t want to give out my number.
Yikes….So here we had a nice conversation, but I wonder if it was too nice and a bit of sexual tension might have helped, I don’t know.

#2
Blonde, ponytail, glasses, in a nurses outfit(not the sexy kind)
Me: Hey, couldn’t let you go without saying hello. You look like a nurse.
Her: Brightens up a little, “oh thanks, yep, I’m a nurse.”
Me: Are you one of those nurses who tells people to suck it up and stop complaining or are you the more “oh, there there” type?
Her: I can’t remember actually what she said….she said something like, “I just say here’s your medicine…”
Me: I used to teach children, and my idea was that I’d have them all hooked up to Ritalin on an IV, and if any of them would act up, I’d have this central board where I’d just give them a shot until they faded away. But I don’t think that would have been legal.
Her: No, I don’t think that would have been legal
Thread: We talk about what it’s like to work the night shift, common complaints about doctors, and the like.
Her: I need to get going or I’m going to be late for work.
Me: What’s your name? (exchange names. Her name is Lizzy, which I like) Alright, well let’s continue the conversation another time.
Lizzy: Standard boyfriend objection.
Me:That may or may not be true.
Lizzy: No, it is I swear. But you are a nice guy [the last thing I want to hear]
Me: Aren’t I though?
Lizzy: That’s a good way to answer haha.
Me: Alright…take care.
Comment: It’s the whole comfort vs. attraction thing. On these approaches, I think I build too much comfort and not enough attraction. I did think we had good eye contact, though. I try to make solid eye fucking contact. In spite of that, the conversation wasn’t totally fluid and took work on my end.


#3 cutesy brunette, we half smiled at each other as we walked past, so I go for it.
Me: I couldn’t let you go without saying hi.
Her: Hi, I’m Erin (hand shake).
Me: Octavian. So this is it, the end of the week. You’re just going to go home, turn on the Netflix, and fade into the night?
Erin: (half smile) You make it sound so sad.
Me: I didn’t mean it that way, as long as it makes you happy. I do that myself sometimes.
We then talk a bit about weekend plans, it being Memorial Day weekend, and we all have BBQ’s.
Erin: I should probably get going.
Me: Yea, but this conversation is much too short.

I can’t remember how it ends, but I didn’t get the number. A few comments. It’s hard sometimes because I’ve had regular conversations like this in day approaches that have led to numbers and bangs. However, I think I need to spice these conversations up a bit with some attraction spikes. I like the Netflix line I hit on. I think I’ll try and modify it this way: You’re just going to go home, turn on the Netflix, maybe do a little Tindering that goes nowhere and fade into the night? Do you guys think that line could work, if delivered in a fun, breezy way?

Beautiful day out. On my way to the gym, saw a cute, thin white girl in a black shirt wearing a skirt. She was finishing up a salad.

I parked my car half a block ahead on a side street and walked back in her direction.

I was direct. Said I thought she was cute and I wanted to meet her. My delivery wasn't the best it's been, but it went fine. She wasn't warm to it, but she wasn't cold, either.

Was on her way to work, a waitress. Quick chat about that. She instantly spits out she can't give me her number, because she doesn't currently have a phone. She said she's still got to replace her last broken phone.

I didn't even suggest a number exchange. Beauty of the direct approach, cards out on the table.

She told me I could visit her at her bar. I said no and teased her about not having a phone. Displayed my disappointment of not being able to engage her with my text messaging skills. Neither of us were smiling or giggling, even with some teasing in between us, but the vibe was definitely warm.

Told me to add her on FB. I said no, but that she could take my number instead if she wanted to, and to text when she got a phone. She pulled out a notepad. I teased her and asked what's on the menu.

Interesting approach. Far from perfect, but I tell myself it's just about saying hello. Game is helpful, but the most important thing is to actually approach and meet those girls out there.

Fun warm up for tonight..

University Campus:

I see a hot little white girl, blond hair, tight body..

me: look at those crazy boots
her: oh haha
me: those are hot
her: thanks
me: you must be a fashion designer
her: wow, close, im in merchandising
me: are you from new york city
her: lol no im from out here
me: really? you seem a little different in a good way
her: oh
me: how are finals going?
her: good just one more

We chat for a minute.

me: hey are you single, lets hang out sometime.
her: sorry im with someone

Next!

--

I see a beautiful half asian/half white girl, slim, great skin..

me: cool boots, two toned
her: oh thanks
me: very unique
her: yup i thought so too
me: how are finals going?
her: im surviving
me: ya surviving is the right word, get a lot of sleep
her: ya thats important
me: are you native american?
her: no im japanese and german, are you native american
me: a little bit, but mostly spanish and french
her: oh thats cool

We chat for a minute.

me: maybe we should go out for coffee sometime
her: im engaged

Next!

--

I see a beautiful white girl, clean milky skin, blue eyes, blond hair...

me: you have great eyes
her: oh thank you
me: are those contacts?
her: oh no
me: just kidding, i know they are real
her: ha
me: how are finals going?
her: pretty good

We chat for a minute. We reach an intersection.

me: hey can i call you later and flirt with you some more
her: sorry my boyfreind is calling

Next!

--

I see a cute white girl, thin and sexy..

me: what are those japanese characters
her: oh huh?
me: is that japanese writing
her: oh yes, its a japanese band
me: you listen to japanese music
her: no i just like the shirt
me: it is a cool shirt
her: thanks
me: i used to speak a little japanese when i was a karate champion
her: oh really?

We spoke a little Japanese to each other.

me: wanna hang out sometime
her: oh no thanks

Next!

--

I see a cute latina, with clear cinnamon skin and a cute little body..

me: look at that hair, very cool
her: oh thank you
me: brown on top and blond on the side
her: hehe
me: i just bought a shirt just like that
her: oh ya
me: yup its good look
her: right
me: how are finals going?

We talked for a minute.

me: hey can i call you sometime
her: um, how old are you
me: guess
her: um 30's
me: yup 31
her: im only 18
me: oh its like taylor swift and john mayer
her: oh haha
me: i mean, only if you want to
her: um sure

I texted her later that night

She was pretty chatty over text! Good sign!

--

I see a hot white girl with a great ass..

me: where is slam volleyball
her: im sorry
me: where is your volleyball club
her: oh its based out of san jose
me: do you still play?
her: no not anymore, this was high school
me: what year are you now
her: im a freshman
me: how were finals

She was leaving to go back to Southern California

Next!

--

I see a cute latina in yoga pants, great ass..

me: cool backback, dakine in my favorite surf company
her: oh thanks
me: do you surf?
her: nah I just like the bag
me: ya its nice, how are finals going?
her: i just finished!
me: congratulations! time to celebrate
her: hehe yup
me: im gio, whats your name?
her: karen

We talked for a minute.

me: hey can call you later and flirt with you some more
her: oh sorry

--

I see a cute, little black girl, hot body, clean chocolate skin..

me: look at those boots!
her: haha
me: i haven't seen those with the high heels like that, very chic
her: oh thank you
me: didnt we meet on the track before
her: no i dont think so
me: you dont run track?
her: no
me: hmmm, oh, well how are finals going?
her: pretty good, just one more
me: good finish strong
her: im trying to

We chat for a minute.

me: you know who you remind me of
her: who?
me: a young gabrielle union
her: really?
me: yup

She looked at me for a few seconds

me: wanna exchange numbers, i'll take you out sometime
her: well, how old are you?
me: take a guess
her: um, 30
me: good guess, how old are you?
her: 19
me: oh my gosh its like taylor swift and john meyer
her: haha
me: or the new one is robin thick and whats her name
her: ya that 20yo model
me: well, its doesnt bother me if it doesnt bother you
her: um, okay

I texted her a few hours later.

We made plans to hang out tonight!

***

School just got it! These college girls want to party and fuck!

***

After warming up with 30 or 40 approaches, I have settled into a good vibe and demeanor. I am very comfortable. I have no approach anxiety. I'm having a lot of fun.

***

Some keys are:

- My wardrobe matches my appearance and personality. In the past, this was a weakness of mine.

- I have gotten much better at appearing non-needy and non-aggressive. I am more aggressive but I appear less aggressive.

- I am just way more comfortable and at ease.

- I am more efficient.

- My instincts are sharper than ever.

- I have gotten better at transitioning from the opener to casual conversation.

Nothing like seeing a full dressed, freshly sparkling, Memorial Day weekend Gio approach post. Makes my day!

Me: Your cute, where do I get one of those coffees
Her: Right down the street, see there
Me: Cool, where you headed? Lets get a drink?
Her: Sorry, I cant, I am headed to work, I am a dancer at Sues
Me: Sues?
yada yada chit chat
Me: Let me get your number
Her: 407-blablah-blablablah
Me: 407, where the hell is that
Her: Florida


Girl carrying like 10 major label shopping bags
Me: excuse me, since you are delivery person, can you tell me what the best dry cleaner is in the neighborhood
Her: Muah?? I am visiting here from Paris
Me: Cool, chit chat, go for instapdate - get number
-TEXT-
Me: Hey Marie Antoinette
Her: Why are you calling me that??
FRENCH HAMSTER GOES WILD

Me: Lets meet up
Her: I cant now, but later
Me: Cool, time/place, etc

I actually had to go home, but this was a win for me. Went through a long phase recently of not approaching. Many months. I gained almost 20lbs. Worked like mad. Went back to a crazy ex LTR. Got a gut. In a month I have gotten back on the horse. About 50 approaches. Lost 10lbs and back in the gym. A few insta dates. Lots of numbers. Two bangs in the same week with girls 11-15 years younger. Last summer and the year before when I was pulling insta-dates and same day lays and having the time of my life. I want to get back there.

Whats holding me back? I am 5% higher in body fat where I usually am, when I am around 12% BF I look and feel good. I could dress edgier if I wanted to. I dont swarm on girls in bars. Its probably because I suck at it and am easily bored, and it shows. But on the street, going through my day, I talk to anyone. Its just so easy. And a lot of fun.

I'm incredibly rusty; I felt nervous doing a simple done deal approach. I'm in a clothing store and spot a Chinese accent. This girl looks cute and I'm curious (genuinely) to find out where she's from. I make my way over...

Me: where are you from?

Her: China, I'm here studying

Me: oh, me too

Her: haha no you're not!

Me; you caught me.

Yada yada

Me: give me your number, let's hangout sometime.

Her: (eagerly) yes, I'd like that

Bang!

(details are here)

12 hours after that bang, I was back on a university campus:

I see a pretty latina in yoga pants with a nice round ass...

She steps one way, then turns and goes the other way..

me: are you lost?
her: oh sort of, im looking for the library
me: oh its this way

We walk and talk.

me: how are finals going?
her: i dont go to school here
me: where do u go?
her: ucla
me: what are you doing here?
her: oh im just visiting my cousin here
me: oh cool

We talked for a minute.

me: wanna hang out sometime?
her: no thanks

Next!

--

I see a beautiful white girl in yoga pants, blond, great ass..

me: I love your pants, do you run track?
her: oh no these are yoga pants
me: oh, how was yoga class?
her: i didn't have yoga today
me: you are in great shape, whats your secret?
her: well, i dont eat meat too often and i eat lots of veggies
me: thats great, you ever go to the farmers market over here
her: ya sometimes, i love it

We talked for a minute.

me: can i call you later?
her: um no thanks

Next!

--

I see a sexy latina with a great body..

me: i love your boots
her: thanks
me: are you from new york
her: haha no im from san diego
me: oh i have lots of family there in pacific beach
her: oh i love pacific beach

We walk and talk.

me: hey wanna give me your number, lets hang out sometime
her: ok

I texted her about 45 minutes later.

She didn't respond!

Next!

--

I see a smoking hot hawaiian/asian/white girl, beautiful face, great skin, tonned body..

me: i love your boots
her: thank you
me: how are finals going?
her: i just finished!
me: congratulations, you did it
her: thanks
me: when do you go back home?
her: saturday
me: back to hawaii?
her: what? haha no i live in oakland
me: oh i thought you were from honolulu
her: i wish
me: im gio, whats your name?
her: samantha

We walk and talk. She is very friendly and sweet.

me: wanna go out for sushi sometime?
her: oh thanks but i have a boyfriend

Next!

--

4 steps later, I see a beautiful little white girl, yoga pants, great ass, vibrant skin and hair..

me: cool pants
her: thanks
me: whats the brand?
her: evo
me: oh evo
her: ya
me: reminds me of olivia newton john
her: oh haha
me: do you know who that is?
her: yes
me: she was the one who popularized that look
her: ya exactly
me: you are in great shape, whats your secret?
her: oh i dont know, i just have a fast metabolism
me: ya that helps

We talk for a minute.

A bunch of her friends show up and she starts walking away.

Next!

--

10 steps later, I see another stunning white girl in yoga pants, flawless face and hard little body...

me: what are you listening to?
her: huh?
me: what are you listening to?
her: oh its edm
me: oh cool, what dj?
her: im not sure its a mix
me: how were finals?
her: pretty good, im done
me: congratulations, its party time!
her: heck ya hehe
me: where are you from?
her: the south valley
me: no way im from the south valley!
her: really?
me: ya i went to south valley high
her: no way i went to valley
me: oh shit we are sworn enemies
her: haha

We walk and talk. She is beautiful.

me: hey can i call you sometime?
her: ya sure.

She never responded!

Next!

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I see a pretty light skinned black girl, tonned body, nice skin..

me: cool sweater
her: thank you
me: are you a fashion major?
her: oh no haha
me: what do u study?
her: nursing
me: oh good for you, nursing a a great career
her: ya my moms a nurse
me: ok you know all about it
her: yup
me: whats your name?
her: stacy
me: hi im gio

We talked for a minute.

me: lets hang out sometime
her: umm thats ok

Next!

--

I see a pretty latina in a skirt and heels..

me: oh nice heels
her: thanks
me: i love the sound of heels, very sexy
her: hehe
me: whats your name?
her: alejandra
me: hey im gio
me: whats a pretty girl like you doing out here all by herself
her: oh i just have to turn in an essay
me: last one of the semester?
her: yup thank god
me: time to celebrate, what are you doing later?
her: im not sure, just hanging with friends

We chat for a minute.

me: can i flirt with you again sometime?
her: haha thanks but im with someone

Next!

***

My confidence is very high!

I'm going hard for another college girl!

Holiday weekends are a shit show for getting laid off the cuff. I went out Saturday night anyways. The first bar was crap, but I hooked with up with a social circle and headed for downtown. The place looked like a ghost town, and the decision was made to roll to a country bar. I love country music but hate these places, but for me they're goldmines so I need to quit sleeping on them.

The second I walk in, celebrity game kicks in and the whole bar is staring. This makes it difficult. I stayed with the group, ordered drinks, and social proofed by becoming the center of attention by telling crazy drunk Ali stories. When the group went for a smoke, I broke off to stand by the waitress section of the bar. This little Messican ninja had snuck up and sat on a stool next to me. She was so short I didn't even notice. They were staring and giggling about who I looked like.

Her friend: You know you look like X, right?
Me: *making eye contact with friend*: Ever wondered what it was like to date X?
Her: Um, no.
Me: Liar! Well, he's on tour anyways. I'll take you out and you won't know the difference.

I pull the number and slide out to the patio to join the group. They'd sat with another bunch, and I jumped right in the middle. There was a gaggle of cute girls with boyfriends, so I slowed down and ran social circle game. By the end two had taken my diglets to invite me to the lake. They want to introduce me to some single friends.

Last call was around the corner, so I swaggered in to order a round and a taxi. A chick was eye fucking me, so I motioned her over.

Her: You look so much like X!
Me: Would you kiss X?
Her: God yes!

I grabbed her by the belt and kissed her right on the mouth. Fuck it. That was all it took, but she was 3 sheets in the wind, so I pulled her # instead and bounced.

She texted me yesterday whining about being hungover, so I told her I was a hangover shaman, and had mystical healing powers. She came over, and I dosed her up on coconut h2o, bone broth, and a beer. Magic. I used a massage as an excuse to get her on the bed and half nekkid. Bang.

University Campus -- (Last day of school)


I see a cute little latina in yoga pants, beautiful, round, bubble butt, nice cinnamon skin.

I walk along side of her..

me: do u play soccer?
her: no, i used to run cross country
me: here at school?
her: yeah
me: why did you stop?
her: it was just too much with all the school work and everything
me: ya its like a full time job
her: seriously
me: how are your finals going?
her: im done!
me: congratulations, its summer time
her: ya finally!

We walk and talk.

me: hey wanna talk again sometime?
her: sorry

Next!

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5 steps later, I see a pretty white girl, blond, slim, sexy.

I walk along side of her..

me: hey i love those pants
her: oh thank you
me: where did you find those?
her: downtown at the cat exchange
me: very cool, are you a fashion major
her: hehe no psychology
me: oh you have a final right now?
her: i just finished
me: oh congrats, its summer break
her: yes! thank god
me: got any plans?
her: ya me and my friends are going on a road trip to colorado
me: oh thats cool

We talked for a minute about the national parks in Utah.

me: hey you wanna get coffee or something sometime?
her: ya sure

I text her about 2 hours later

She didn't respond!

Next!

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I see a cute latina, slim, tonned body, long brown hair, sexy.

me: you walk fast
her: yes i do
me: i thought i walked fast but you are like a spanish cheetah
her: hehe
me: all done with finals?
her: yes
me: congratulations
her: thanks you
me: im gio, whats your name?
her: erica
me: nice to meet you

We walk and talk.

me: hey can i call you later and invite you out for a drink or something?
her: oh no thanks

Next!

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I see a stunning latina, flawless caramel skin, long vibrant hair, beautiful face, full lips, great ass, great tits, a 9.

I walk along side of her..

me: hi
her: hi
me: how are you today?
her: pretty good
me: all done with finals?
her: yes
me: congratulations
her: thanks you
me: did i detect an accent
her: sorry?
me: you have a little accent, where are you from?
her: im from mexico
me: oh my gosh, do u cook mexican food?
her: yes
me: want to get married, you wont have to work
her: hehe

We walk and talk.

me: why dont i call you later and we can finish this conversation
her: sorry, i cant

Next!

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I see a cute little white girl in tight jeans, dirty blond, tight little body.

She walks north, then turns and walks south..

me: are you lost?
her: no im ok
me: you are just going crazy because of finals
her: i have one right now
me: you'll be fine
her: i hope so
me: whats your name?
her: kelly
me: hey im gio

We talk for a minute.

me: hey kelly
her: ya
me: i know this is little random but do you wanna talk again sometime?
her: um how old are you?
me: guess
her: like 30
me: good guess how bout you?
her: 18
me: oh its like taylor swift and john mayer
her: ha
me: well, what do you think?
her: i dont think so

Next!

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5 steps later, I see a hot little asian in a summer dress, tanned skin, long black hair, great legs, feminine, sexy.

me: hey i love your dress
her: thank you
me: are you done with finals
her: yes just finished
me: congratulations
her: thank you
me: what do you study?
her: pysics
me: i love physics, im reading an einstein biography right now
her: oh really?

We walk and talk.

me: we should talk again sometime, ill teach you about einstein
her: ya sure

I texted her about an hour later.

She responded. I will try to set a date in the next few days.

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I see a hot white girl in a sexy skirt, nice body, great skin and hair.

She walks passed me and smiles..

I turn and walk in her direction.. I catch up to her..

me: hi
her: hi
me: i saw you back there and we made eye contact, i wanted to come back and say hi, my name is gio
her: oh hey
me: are you from around here?
her: no im from michigan
me: i knew you were a little different, but in a good way
her: haha
me: i have family in ann arbor
her: really?
me: yup
her: im from lansing
me: oh your a spartan
her: yup
me: all done with finals?
her: yes, thank god
me: i know, time to relax

We chat for a minute.

me: well when can i flirt with you again
her: sorry i have a boyfriend

Next!

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I see a beautiful, sexy little latina showing off her tight waistline with a stomach exposing shirt and tight jeans, long brown hair, oozing sex appeal.

She is wearing earbuds..

me: hey what are you listening to?
her: huh?
me: what are you listening to?
her: oh its just a house mix
me: oh cool, are you done with finals?
her: yup
me: congratulations
her: thank you
me; where are you from?
her: los angeles
me: are you mexicana
her: yup
me: the mexican food suck up here
her: ya it does
me: i bet you miss the food from home
her: i do

We walk and talk.

me: im a mexican chef
her: no way, really?
me: well, amateur, but i love to cook, i make tortillas, mole, everything
her: wow
me: whats your name
her: sophia
me: im gio
her: nice to meet you

We continue walking and talking.

me: hey do you wanna go out for mexican food sometime
her: ya sure

I texted her 25 minutes later.

She Responds.

We Insta-date!

The Text Exchange

me: hey sophia, its gio, what are you doing right now? wanna go to the best mexican place in town?

her: right now?

me: yes

her: i would love to but i should have told you, i have a boyfriend.

me: oh fuck! are you happy?

her: yes im happy

me: well, i dont want to steal you from your boyfriend, maybe we can just be taco buddies

her: haha sounds good

me: so u wanna go eat or not

her: sure

The Insta-Date

I pick her up, we go eat, we go back to my place, we smoke weed.

I start to rub on her body. 18 year old tits are amazing!

I go for the kiss, she pulls away. She says she has a boyfriend.

I rub on her body. 18 year old bodies are spectacular!

She asks me to stop.

I don't force the issue. She mentions that she has broken up with her boyfriend a few times. Next time that happens, I wouldn't be surprised if she called me!

18 year old tits are amazing!

Gio, you are the fcuking man like homo sapiens. I like your good honest approach to game. It's an art!

(05-25-2015 03:00 PM)Moma Wrote:  Gio, you are the fcuking man like homo sapiens. I like your good honest approach to game. It's an art!

Agreed. Father Roosh would be proud.

I just went back and read my last post:

The last approach -- the Insta-date -- is inaccurate!

I did a poor job of summarizing the actual conversation!

(I accidentally deleted the original draft and this was a quickly done, poorly done, over simplified version of what really happened)

This is a bad representation of my game!

(05-25-2015 02:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I see a beautiful, sexy little latina showing off her tight waistline with a stomach exposing shirt and tight jeans, long brown hair, oozing sex appeal.

She is wearing earbuds..

me: hey what are you listening to?
her: huh?
me: what are you listening to?
her: oh its just a house mix
me: oh cool, are you done with finals?
her: yup
me: congratulations
her: thank you
me: where are you from?
her: los angeles
me: are you mexicana
her: yup
me: the mexican food suck up here
her: ya it does
me: i bet you miss the food from home
her: i do

We walk and talk.

The real conversation was more like this:

me: hey what are you listening to?
her: huh?
me: what are you listening to?
her: oh its just a house mix
me: oh cool, you look like u can dance
her: hehe
me: are u done with finals?
her: yup
me: congratulations! time to celebrate!
her: yes
me: where are you from?
her: LA
me: oh were u cold up here?
her: yes i was freezing
me: ya sf is colder then la
her: i know i hate that
me: you have to learn to wear sweaters and light jackets and stuff
her: exactly

We walked and talked.

Then, we got on the topic of Mexican food. That was our big connection.

That is more accurate.

I just wanted to clear that up and give a better description of what happened.

*****

(05-20-2015 07:13 AM)PainPositive Wrote:  Holy shit Gio you are a machine. Your game is very direct.

Can you take a look at mine I few posts back and tell me what you think?

I think you are doing great!

Just keep doing what you are doing and the results will come!

Let me know of you have any specific questions.

Gio, looking back at a lot of your approaches it seems like you have an easier time pulling black or Latina girls vs. white girls. Why do you think that is - do you feel like your SMV is higher with other races? Or are white girls just more bitchy when cold approached?

I'm white and usually find white girls most attractive, but Latina girls are generally so much easier for me to game.

(05-28-2015 03:05 AM)alpha_i Wrote:  Gio, looking back at a lot of your approaches it seems like you have an easier time pulling black or Latina girls vs. white girls.

Why do you think that is?

A few factors, but, mostly, I think its just a statistical anomaly.

If I lived in an all white area and approached only white girls, my numbers would be very similar.

(05-28-2015 03:05 AM)alpha_i Wrote:  do you feel like your SMV is higher with other races?

Yes, this is a factor also.

(05-28-2015 03:05 AM)alpha_i Wrote:  are white girls just more bitchy when cold approached?

No, white girls are very sweet.

Game Is Art: The Tenacious Novice

Rolling solo is nothing I really get excited about. I grew up with only a few friends, a lot of those friends have gotten into the wrong crowd and not doing so well in life. I was going to roll with a wing but he couldn’t make it (hangover I think). I decided that I was going to go out on my own and explore the city a bit.

I dress to the 8s (green polo, dark grey jeans, light grey beanie, sprerries). I listen to Coach C’s Rolling Solo podcast on the bus ride over to my nearest train station. I feel as if I’m preparing for my first game in the league. I survey my surroundings for decent talent, but find nothing much to my liking. After a train ride downtown I make my first approach.

Approach #1
Black HB 4

I arrive at my destination station and approach a 4 after taking a few random photos of the buildings across from the station. I open her asking for the quickest way to the park. “Hey, are you familiar with XX_Park?” she’s walking her dog and turns to face me. She doesn’t pass the boner text, nor do I want to go for a number close. “Yea, if you walk just a few blocks ahead, you’ll be there soon.” I thank her and walk on.

I enjoy the scene and the heat thats adding a nice sheen to my copper skin. I take snap shots of the local shops and buildings as I make my way down.

Approach #2
Asian/Spanish HB 6.5

I see a nice older looking woman (pinay/spanish maybe?) I open her asking if I was going in the right direction. We had slightly passed each other but she had assured me I was and continued walking. I’m getting warmed up and feel great, though I could use a nice cool bottle of water to ease the dryness of my mouth.

Three blocks later I make it to the park and immediately began to snap photos. The park seems larger to what I was familiar with from a summer ago. Couples were everywhere, laying out sun bathing, playing friendly games of frisbee, enjoying the summer heat.

Approach #3
Asian HB 7

I accost a couple an asian HB 7 with her boyfriend a white male 6 (no homo). I run camera game, telling them about my camera and how I haven’t been to the park in quite a while. This girl has a camera of her own, a nice Canon. She’s been shooting for two years and does it as a hobby. I proposition to be apart of my portfolio and they kindly accept. I snap a few shots and we share goodbyes.

I wander through the park, almost lost. I love it. The day is beautiful and I feel like an artist looking to paint the perfect picture.
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Approach #4
Blonde HB 6.5 | Blonde HB 5.6

I come to a running/bike path near a lake and garden swings. Two blondes ask if I’m using the seating, but I let them know that its fine. I engage them in a bit of banter about the park and ask where they were from. One is from DC HB. 5.6, visiting her friend HB 6.5 for a weekend. She tells me that she’s leaving soon and that she’s enjoyed her time in the city. I snap a few photos of the lake and take my leave.

Approach #5
Persian HB 8

I had been indicators of interest from a girl before talking to the blonde set. I make my way over to her, and crouch down. She speaks first. “Hi,” She looks at me with curiosity. “Hey, I’m just walking around doing a bit of photography…art. I’d like for you to be one of my centerpieces. (I really said that). She downplays her attractiveness and I compliment lightly.

“You’re cute, you’ll be fine.” She smiles, tucks a sting of hair behind her ear. “What am I supposed to do?” I direct her to be natural and continue what she had been doing before. When I approached she had been writing in her journal and reading the bible. I snap a few photos, show them to her and make myself at home, sitting beside her in the grass.

We banter about school, coming to the park alone, and hobbies. This girl is cute, but it doesn’t overwhelm me at all. She gets a text every now and then but doesn’t pay too much attention to them. I notice she has a dimple on her left cheek and tease her about it. Girls with dimples are always a plus for me. I think we spoke for somewhere close to 45 minutes or so.

We spoke about possibly having wine and muffins the next time we meet. Previously discussing cooking, I remembered the Franzia wine that Goldmund had mentioned before. She would be leaving soon so I got her number and said that I’d text her later. Sweet girl, very feminine and young. She just graduated high school a year ago and will be starting college in the fall.

Approach #6
Middle Eastern HB 7.5

I go off to take more photos. EVERYTHING MUST BE SHOT! I’m loving it. After seeking new interesting things to photograph, and grabbing a coffee from a tall blonde guy, I pass by a black guy with two white girls. One a brunette HB 5 and her friend a blonde 7 with freckles and blue eyes. I recall reading Coach Christian’s blog post about the “I Know” look and today I got the look plain as day with the blonde.

She was with her boyfriend(maybe it was maybe it wasn’t), but look directly at me with -Fuck Me- eyes. I returned the same look. “You’re so damn mysterious I’d love for you to fuck me” , “I know…darling I know”. The stories eyes tell. I continue my walk and think that its about time to call it a day. As I make another lap around the park I see an interesting woman girl wearing shades, a nice black tank top, and jeans.

She’s curvy in all of the right places. I see her smile at me and after we’ve passed each other, I think “Dude, don’t you fucking puss-out on this one. You have one number and that girl is obviously interested.” I pull a PUA/RSD style approach, light jogging to her side and signaling for her to remove her ear bud.

She complies and I run my game about taking photos and wanting her to be my centerpiece. She doesn’t like to take pictures (low-self esteem?). I hold frame, working to convince her that I won’t publish them to the gossip rags. We joke about different scenarios and it turns into an INSTA-DATE! I’m excited, but cool, calm, and collected.

She’s from Ohio but is in the middle of making the move to the south. (ATL HO!) She ha a different accent that hints at either being shy or a little introverted. I ask her about her ethnicity and we banter about what people have guessed before. I speak a bit of Spanish to her and she’s feeling it (High Five SD). I show her different spots in the park and go to establish a bit of kino.

Were walking really close together, almost shoulder to shoulder (we pretty much lightly bumping each other.) I go for a little hand hold, but she doesn’t grip but she’s good with my company and offers to hang around more (She had to go grab her mom from the airport). I try talking her into taking a photo, but she’s definitely not down for it.

There comes a point where I catch her checking Tinder (online dating apps cock blocking now?!). I don’t mention it, but just enjoy the walk and my surroundings with this attractive foreigner. We discuss alcohols and after remembering a video I had watched the previous night (DTF Test: Most DTF girls own iPhones and like the taste of beer) I ask her if she was more into wines or hard alcohol.

She says that she prefers the taste of beer and that it DOES it for her. After a while of walking and more threads, we come to say our goodbyes. but when I go in for a side hug, it gets awkward. Not sure if she was aware of what I was doing, but she hugs me almost reluctantly. I tell her that I’ll text her later. I had offered to show her around the city when she officially moves to town.

My thoughts say that someone from Tinder gets it before I do, yet I’m still hopeful. There is a lot of detail that I skipped over but I think this gives everyone a pretty good idea of my day running camera game.

Major props to Goldmund for setting the standard for this form of game. Getting out there and doing this was from a bit of inspiration from him and other guys out there running game alike.

Was with a 19 yr old that had one. Only the left one was peirced. Turns out other girls in the sorority have the same peircing. Must be a ritual for them

Approach tip of the Day

This is not really an approach but more of a realization concerning the approach process in reverse roles.

I was elderly opened today by a old man in the gym.

The reason why im writing about this is because we've heard about Roosh's elderly opener and how it works but it is amazing how it feels when it is done to you, by someone else.


to day I was at the gym early in the morning around 545am ish.

Im getting ready to hope on the incline bench press when an old man walks past me on the other side of the bench press looks at me and says;

Old man; you sure came a long way to work out

I was wearing a out of state college shirt

Me; I know right haha

Old man; did you go there?

Me; no i had a friend who went there, i went to visit and bought a bunch of shirts

Old man; where did you go to school

Me; I went to x state

we continued talking about the college town where he though i went to then we eventually parted ways

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As i thought back on what happened I had a " ahh ha" monument.

-The old man approached me so naturally like he'd done it before

-He came up with something original to say that had to do with our surroundings ( my college shirt)

- He asked questions and showed interest in what I was saying.

- The way he opened me was so natural, that after a couple of exchanges i was giving up information about myself.

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The elderly opener can be a strong opener if you use it right. Hopefully this interaction will help some of you guys in approaching.