Lazy Sunday vibes got me.

Got to day 22. This shit is harder than I thought.

We've been all through this:
   

Here's the full video of the previous song, it's about twice as long:




For some reason I really wanted to fap today, but I controled these strong urges for the past two days. For a while I thought I was going to fall, but I thought "you're almost to a month, hold it!".

Are any of y'alls subconscious betraying y'all? For a moment I noticed my hand was hovering around my dick area for a minute, not grabbing it but rather touching my pants.The devil is alive.

Fucking yes. Hand just naturally rests on my dick. Done this since before puberty though. Mom would tell at me for it.

I overcame some pretty strong urges yesterday.
Day 5, still going. Pushing target out to 14 days.

(06-04-2017 08:52 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Got to day 22. This shit is harder than I thought.

We've been all through this:


Here's the full video of the previous song, it's about twice as long:




For some reason I really wanted to fap today, but I controled these strong urges for the past two days. For a while I thought I was going to fall, but I thought "you're almost to a month, hold it!".

Are any of y'alls subconscious betraying y'all? For a moment I noticed my hand was hovering around my dick area for a minute, not grabbing it but rather touching my pants.The devil is alive.

d-dayum breh. Should have never clicked on that video, that girl is fucking delicious.

Anyways, I'm finally past the two week mark which has proved to be a huge hurdle for me, feels good.

Just finished 90 Days.

I feel good, find myself looking at hotties a lot more frequent.

Only time I came was twice from a ONS stand deal and 3 times from nocturnal emission.

I was experiencing flatline hardcore for the first two months.

Stay with it guys, the first two weeks are the hardest.

I've gotta get out of the house. temptation is way too strong here

(03-13-2017 08:42 AM)Ringo Wrote:  I'm 7 days in (as of March/6/2017).

I've never been much of a porn/fap guy, maybe 1-3 times/week. But damn, this thing is powerful.

This weekend I banged three girls and my refractory period was noticeably shorter and my dick could cut a diamond.

I feel like an animal. I like it.

Made it to the 90 day goal (93 days as of yet, actually).

There have been some tough, tough times but the last 10 days were chilled even though I wasn't banging as much as other periods during the streak.

As I said I wasn't much of a masturbation or porn guy to begin with, but even so I can point out some huge benefits from abstaining:
- Laser sharp focus to bang girls
- Increase in aggresiveness and boldness when approaching (something I always struggled with)
- Improvement in discipline and confidence from curbing the desire to fap
- Absolute increase in pleasure during orgasms, and I think girls enjoyed it more too (90%+ of the time it was animal like)
- Shorter refractory period
- Steel hard erections
- Huge sense of accomplishment when banging girls
- Cool (although at times frustrating) sex dreams

Cons:
- Anxiety, aggressiveness, snappy behavior when going through particularly tough periods
- Stress from knowing if I didn't bang that night I'd have to wait days until I could ejaculate again; if I didn't have a girl lined up, it would be days until I could try again due to my schedule
- Quick ejaculation during sex
- Minor incidents when I couldn't enjoy the moment when going out with friends because I was so focused on approaching (friends noticed too)

Good or bad? Don't know:
- Criteria for sex changed. If I see a girl that passes the boner test, I'm in
- For some reason, I seem to be more attracted to girls with good bodies than good faces (I'd always been more of a face guy)
- Body wise, I've been more attracted to voluptous girls than skinnier girls (again, always been more attracted to skinnier girls)

All in all a very positive experience.

I plan on giving it a break to see how going back to fapping will affect me, but to all nofappers out there make no mistake - you are absolutely going the right way.

I am definetely in. It is going to be a huge challenge, since there are no prospects, I live in a sausage fest, I'm still a newbie, have horrible logistics, but it is a challenge I'm willing to face.Will try one month to see what the results are going to be.

I'm on day 61 right now. Last night so many new leads came my way it was unreal. Almost like the universe was rewarding me for the two month milestone.

Today I had one of them squirting all over my bed, so that was my second +1 since starting nofap.

I can't wait to see what it's like to reach day 90.

Quote:I plan on giving it a break to see how going back to fapping will affect me, but to all nofappers out there make no mistake - you are absolutely going the right way.

After my ~90 days I went back and masturbated to porn and simply regretted it. But maybe you gotta go through that.

The main loss was an intense spiritual connection I had developed. I'm just now starting to get glimpses of it again after ~3 weeks after my "relapse," if you will.

Sounds weird but as soon as I "fapped" again, the strong spiritual connection disappeared. And I can't help but think of it as punishment for my unfaithfulness../lack of discipline and giving in rather than taking the harder road.

(06-07-2017 02:47 AM)Lights Wrote:  

Quote:I plan on giving it a break to see how going back to fapping will affect me, but to all nofappers out there make no mistake - you are absolutely going the right way.

After my ~90 days I went back and masturbated to porn and simply regretted it. But maybe you gotta go through that.

The main loss was an intense spiritual connection I had developed. I'm just now starting to get glimpses of it again after ~3 weeks after my "relapse," if you will.

Sounds weird but as soon as I "fapped" again, the strong spiritual connection disappeared. And I can't help but think of it as punishment for my unfaithfulness../lack of discipline and giving in rather than taking the harder road.

I know how you feel. Take whatever view helps you succeed next time brother.

(06-04-2017 09:16 PM)Mig Picante Wrote:  I overcame some pretty strong urges yesterday.
Day 5, still going. Pushing target out to 14 days.

Caved (once) on Day 7, count back to 0.

Now women are starting NOFAP.

It is obviously easier for them, but the girls claim that it works for them too by boosting positive energy.





That guy also good:

Im back on nofap, it was day 2 yesterday hard mode and I had some powerful dreams which I cannot remember. I am concious in my head but I get up and fall face first onto the floor making my mouth bleed. I get up and go back to bed. Anyone ever had sleepwalking from nofap? I dont know why I woke up and fell on a flat surface but I remember being in deep sleep state and gaining conciousness when I hit the ground.

Day 27.

So far so good. Been too busy to bone bitches so the next hoe that gets a load is going to get a load, literally.

WB

Day 4 of no fap. I almost cracked last night. That girl with a bf I was posting about a few months ago (got the bang on our second time out, btw) texted me out of the blue. Told me she's engaged now but that I still give her a lot of bad(good) thoughts. Did an extra set of pull ups instead of thinking too hard about that. She's out of the country for a while anyway so I couldn't just fuck her again any time soon either.

Felt a lot more energy today though. I've been working out a lot and feel good but today I just had the irresistible urge to run around like an overexcited dog so I took a bit of a journey on my lunch break to get some food I normally wouldn't have time for.

(06-08-2017 04:07 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  Now women are starting NOFAP.

It is obviously easier for them, but the girls claim that it works for them too by boosting positive energy.





That guy also good:

Funny you should mention this. I was discussing this with my current girl, and she says she feels better if she abstains. She'd been celibate for over a year before getting with me so has practised this in 'hard mode' too.

(06-10-2017 03:40 AM)Mr. Nobody From Nowhere Wrote:  Day 4 of no fap. I almost cracked last night. That girl with a bf I was posting about a few months ago (got the bang on our second time out, btw) texted me out of the blue. Told me she's engaged now but that I still give her a lot of bad(good) thoughts. Did an extra set of pull ups instead of thinking too hard about that. She's out of the country for a while anyway so I couldn't just fuck her again any time soon either.

Felt a lot more energy today though. I've been working out a lot and feel good but today I just had the irresistible urge to run around like an overexcited dog so I took a bit of a journey on my lunch break to get some food I normally wouldn't have time for.

You should change your account name to Mr. No Fap

I decided to give this another go since last Saturday and I feel great. I had a game of golf with co-workers for a tournaement for work and I feel relaxed. I'd like to go to day 10. As I mentioned, I was able to not do it for 45 days 2 years ago.

Almost broke, decided to lift instead.

After undergoing a few cycles of nofap - fap -nofap, reaching a max of 90 days, I can say there is noticeable differences.

The main thing for me is that I feel more grounded and calmer. Voice gets slower and deeper and its easier to make eye contact with people. After a few days of porn and fap, im going back on nofap and aiming for another 90 days.

Since Jordan Peterson is popular on these forums:

(06-12-2017 08:51 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  Almost broke, decided to lift instead.

Good lad.

The fact is unless you're injecting steroids in your bloodstream, the average folk is on a testosterone budget. One can use that top-upped fuel tank to blow his load, but it's much better to use that fuel doing something productive, which is why lifting is probably the best way to stave off PMO cravings.