(08-30-2014 11:55 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  So when you get all your matches between 8pm and 2am on Friday and Saturday nights do you ever message them that night while they are actively messaging guys or do you wait until the next day?

I usually don't message after 8pm. Just as you said to many dudes are messaging. You will get lost in the sheer numbers. I'm also out with a girl or with friends. But I'm sure there are guys here who have gotten last minute come overs. I've never gotten one though

(08-31-2014 12:00 AM)Mentavious Wrote:  

(08-30-2014 11:55 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  So when you get all your matches between 8pm and 2am on Friday and Saturday nights do you ever message them that night while they are actively messaging guys or do you wait until the next day?

I usually don't message after 8pm. Just as you said to many dudes are messaging. You will get lost in the sheer numbers. I'm also out with a girl or with friends. But I'm sure there are guys here who have gotten last minute come overs. I've never gotten one though

Usually if I message a girl at 3am on friday or sat it is a waste of match. But it depends on the girl, If her profile says she is town for the weekend then definitely message her.

(08-24-2014 06:43 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Supposed to meet up with a soft 8 Asian chick in the next hour, we will see if she flakes or not. Seems keen on meeting up, I'll keep ya posted.

(08-24-2014 09:11 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Flake but she rescheduled for tomorrow which is a good sign. Told her I would let her know if that works.

Finally met this chick tonight.. had another girl in the works but she flaked so I sent out a couple messages to try and salvage my night. Ended up taking the asian to my main spot, grabbed some food and talked for a bit. Lots of kino and push and pull. Kept personal questions to a minimum(something I've been working hard on staying away from)... struggled through the first couple minutes til I built up some rapport with her but the rest of the time was great. Bounced her back to my place, watched a movie for a good 2 minutes then carried her off to bed and smashed. Holy fuck was this chick ever wet, I could have wrung pussy juice out of her yoga pants before I even got them off her. Loudest chick I've ever fucked too..

First tinder lay and first asian chick too. Onto the next one!

I've been procrastinating on trying out Tinder here in Bucharest for a while now. Reason being that i don't have too many(if any) good pictures right now. Say you were on a budget and had 0 pictures that you liked of yourself, and you wanted to get started on Tinder, what would you do.

I've realized there's a lot more people now on tinder and okcupid than ever before. About 5 months ago only the sluts were on it playful asshole game was the thing but these last days i met a lot of girls who didn't really date before (20 years old) or were coming of long relationship. Have to realize and adapt to these girl, confident nice guy is the way too go...

The line you look like trouble or the french version has a 95% reply rate

this has been my best match sequence or "like" sequence on okcupjd and tinder since i started both. however i dont have my apartment anymore..

I haven't had a girl come straight back to my place from Tinder in awhile. I think the tides are turning and not so many dtf sluts and more girls looking for dating.

Or maybe so many better looking dudes are on there that I'm losing out on the sluts.

(08-31-2014 05:21 AM)rdvirus Wrote:  

(08-24-2014 06:43 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Supposed to meet up with a soft 8 Asian chick in the next hour, we will see if she flakes or not. Seems keen on meeting up, I'll keep ya posted.

(08-24-2014 09:11 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Flake but she rescheduled for tomorrow which is a good sign. Told her I would let her know if that works.

Finally met this chick tonight.. had another girl in the works but she flaked so I sent out a couple messages to try and salvage my night. Ended up taking the asian to my main spot, grabbed some food and talked for a bit. Lots of kino and push and pull. Kept personal questions to a minimum(something I've been working hard on staying away from)... struggled through the first couple minutes til I built up some rapport with her but the rest of the time was great. Bounced her back to my place, watched a movie for a good 2 minutes then carried her off to bed and smashed. Holy fuck was this chick ever wet, I could have wrung pussy juice out of her yoga pants before I even got them off her. Loudest chick I've ever fucked too..

First tinder lay and first asian chick too. Onto the next one!

haha very nice bro

^ Don just have a friend snap a pic with a phone if none of your friends are photogrpahers or hobbyists.

Making a pic black and white can always help
hide a crappy pic a little bit.

Best advice hire a photographer to shoot your out in the city or at a nice venue in a suit.

2nd shot doing something active or a hobby girls like.

You need to focus on getting a couple random shots with a mixed group with cute girls. You with a pet or animal is good.

(08-31-2014 05:27 AM)Don Wrote:  I've been procrastinating on trying out Tinder here in Bucharest for a while now. Reason being that i don't have too many(if any) good pictures right now. Say you were on a budget and had 0 pictures that you liked of yourself, and you wanted to get started on Tinder, what would you do.

Depends how tight your budget is - if real tight have a friend take a bunch of selfies on their smart phone and email them to you - be in the clothes you would wear out at night and perhaps some athletic shots if that works for you then go to Fiverr and for $5 USD a local photoshop guru will photoshop four or five shots for you for five$ USD... tell them they are for good head and body shots for the tinder app and you need to look slim and young!

(08-31-2014 05:32 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  I haven't had a girl come straight back to my place from Tinder in awhile. I think the tides are turning and not so many dtf sluts and more girls looking for dating.

Or maybe so many better looking dudes are on there that I'm losing out on the sluts.

School is starting so those 18-23 year olds aren't coming off campus to get some dick when it's right there.

Hmmmm

My suited default isn't doing well.

Then again I've got a bottle of beer to my face, sunglasses, probably hard to see my face if you're to lazy to browse my other pics.

Also I find my bio funny, actually lifted it off a few other bios, doesn't seem to attract many matches thought:

"Astronaut. Asshole. Adventurist. Adrenaline Addict."

"Swipe left if you don't like sarcasms and laughs"

"Part time stripper. Part time businessman"

"I never use this sober"

"I do what I want"

What kind of openers work best for you on Tinder? I've been going with funny/quirky but it isn't working. For example:

Quote:Hi Sue. My Mom's name is Sue. You aren't my Mom, are you? I hate to ask, but she's been know to use fake profile pics.

Crickets.

Does an "ordinary" opener work for you or do I need to be funny/quirky/different? e.g. Ordinary opener:

Quote:Hi X. How was your weekend?

What works for you? Please post examples!

Follow up question: how long do you wait after a match to send the first message?


Sorry if this is a repeat question but this thread has over 100 pages. Thanks in advance...

you look like trouble is the best opener so far..literally everyone answered

Anyone been using this in London (UK) recently?

I've had it for around 3 weeks and have 37 matches; I went on two dates and banged one of them.

BUT my friend (who I am better looking than and dress better than) back in Toronto just got Tinder and is at 70 matches.

Is it me or is it just the UK?

UK is hit n miss but the big cities are good. However I have noticed a lot of attention whores. Especially in the young range (18-24).

I have put a bit of finesse into my Tinder work. Any girl with instagram and snapchat on her profile is an instant fucking left. Hate that shit with a passion and I have never really matched with them. Why the hell do these basic bitches think men out to slay them want their IG and add to their ego?

Oh yeah, because a lot of men do add them to IG....

With snapchat I just started trolling them. Take pictures of turds and send them with dumb captions. Fucking hilarious results.

For me Tinder is useful as I am not doing online dating and I can't get into the cities for night game.

(09-03-2014 02:54 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:  What kind of openers work best for you on Tinder? I've been going with funny/quirky but it isn't working. For example:

Quote:Hi Sue. My Mom's name is Sue. You aren't my Mom, are you? I hate to ask, but she's been know to use fake profile pics.

Crickets.

Does an "ordinary" opener work for you or do I need to be funny/quirky/different? e.g. Ordinary opener:

Quote:Hi X. How was your weekend?

What works for you? Please post examples!

Follow up question: how long do you wait after a match to send the first message?


Sorry if this is a repeat question but this thread has over 100 pages. Thanks in advance...

Barry there are some GREAT lines in this thread (click back a few pages:

A few off the top of my head:

You look like trouble (above)
That smile doesn't fool me ! You looks like X (mischief,trouble, bad girl, etc)
You have that cute girl next door who likes a good hard fuck look (use at your own discretion)
Something tells me you like X (relate it to something in their pictures).
Always read the bios and create a line from that.


I mean there are literally a ton of openers and 1 liners to use, just click back !

For openers.. I just type in their name and send it, that usually gets a response. Keep it simple if you've got nothing to go off from their pictures/shared interests.

A good portion of my matches have a shared interest of Lsmmtuafimc - laughing so much my turban unravels and falls in my curry. Fun fact of the day.

(09-03-2014 05:00 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  you look like trouble is the best opener so far..literally everyone answered

(09-03-2014 06:08 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Barry there are some GREAT lines in this thread (click back a few pages:

A few off the top of my head:

You look like trouble (above)
That smile doesn't fool me ! You looks like X (mischief,trouble, bad girl, etc)
You have that cute girl next door who likes a good hard fuck look (use at your own discretion)
Something tells me you like X (relate it to something in their pictures).
Always read the bios and create a line from that.


I mean there are literally a ton of openers and 1 liners to use, just click back !

I just tried "You look like trouble" for the first time... it worked!

Thanks, guys.

Hell yeah

Most of my openers are customized to the girl based off of their pics. One canned opener I do have if I'm feeling lazy is:

"Look I don't like going through the whole interrogation process most people have here. I'd rather go grab a drink and see if we hit it off!"

It works about 70% of the time (obviously on girls over 21) on starting the conversation.

Labour day, I picked up a snl. I was out drinking with some friends I met through work one is an older guy in his fourties (beta) he wanted me to consider seriously dating this slut, because "we seem so good together". Maybe one of you can offer insight, because now that I consciously think of it, beta males tell me that same thing all the time when I'm at bars with a girl I barely know. The other guy (coming back to the red pill life after a 2-yr ltr.

Anyways, I hit this chick with said opener. She's down to have a drink. Comes to the bar, build value, venue change and 3 hrs later we drive a mile up the street to her place (logistics) she had two rules: no spending the night, and no fucking in her bed. I fucked her, stayed the night, fucked in her bed first thing in the morning after she gladly gave me morning dome. ?

P.s. That ? Was suppose to be a happy smilie face... How do we post those???

Any of you tried posting a dick pic on tinder yet

Do not post dick pics CT. If every basic bitch has her instagram poses and "MY BABIES R MY WURLD!!1" then there are plenty of dorks with their dicks out. Trust me on this.

If you want to show yourself off, show your arse in skin tight boxers. I have an ass pic with two suited pictures. Nothing try hard.

I can sexualise without the need to put dick pics up. I just send them over whatsapp instead

It seems the only girls I'm matching with now a days are all looking for a "serious relationship" or "e-friends" anyone else getting this?

(09-04-2014 02:49 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Any of you tried posting a dick pic on tinder yet

This is the worst possible thing you can do on Tinder. It's the nuclear bomb of thirstiness.

(09-04-2014 07:52 AM)Thesoloist Wrote:  It seems the only girls I'm matching with now a days are all looking for a "serious relationship" or "e-friends" anyone else getting this?

What the hell is e-friend? How old are these girls, sounds like they're fucking old.