Damn I changed my birthday on my FB page so this girl from Jamba Juice wouldn't know how old I was. I changed it to 100 years old but then I've been logging on tinder the past few days and couldn't figure out why I was only getting matched up with mostly 40 plus year olds.

A lot of girls must cap the age limit on tinder so I'm only getting matched up with the girls who haven't

Just realized it today and now FB wont let me change my age anymore. I guess I have to fuck some oldies.

(08-12-2014 10:51 AM)kaotic Wrote:  ALSO: Did you end up banging this chick or eject quickly as you could ?

Haha nah, I talked with her for a bit and then got out of there. Thankfully I have a car, taking public transport would've been a nightmare.

I just got flaked on by this chick as well, which was unexpected because she accepted the date right away and sounded peachy keen over text. Oh well, I've got another one lined up in the next couple of days.

(08-12-2014 08:05 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  Damn I changed my birthday on my FB page so this girl from Jamba Juice wouldn't know how old I was. I changed it to 100 years old but then I've been logging on tinder the past few days and couldn't figure out why I was only getting matched up with mostly 40 plus year olds.

A lot of girls must cap the age limit on tinder so I'm only getting matched up with the girls who haven't

Just realized it today and now FB wont let me change my age anymore. I guess I have to fuck some oldies.

Oldies are cool. They think it's their last time so they fuck like crazy.

Ice cream dates are vastly underrated. You start there after dinner, you can go with them to a bar, to your crib, bounce, whatever you want.

Hey Guys,

Any advice for how to save this one? It's been about 12 hours.

           

"my princess"? That was pretty cringeworthy, dude. Haha. I think you need to change your text game up a bit. Look back at the past 20-25 pages or so and get a feel for how some of the guys here spit game on Tinder. But to answer your question, it's only been 12 hours. If she doesn't reply within the next 24 hours, shoot a restart text.

(08-13-2014 10:36 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  "my princess"? That was pretty cringeworthy, dude. Haha. I think you need to change your text game up a bit. Look back at the past 20-25 pages or so and get a feel for how some of the guys here spit game on Tinder. But to answer your question, it's only been 12 hours. If she doesn't reply within the next 24 hours, shoot a restart text.

Gee thanks man.

(08-13-2014 10:47 AM)nickcheng825 Wrote:  

(08-13-2014 10:36 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  "my princess"? That was pretty cringeworthy, dude. Haha. I think you need to change your text game up a bit. Look back at the past 20-25 pages or so and get a feel for how some of the guys here spit game on Tinder. But to answer your question, it's only been 12 hours. If she doesn't reply within the next 24 hours, shoot a restart text.

Gee thanks man.

It's constructive criticism we're all here to better our game in our own way.

You're texting here way too much, keep it simple. Get rid of the faces.

You should be qualifying her aka challenging her and see if she's worthy of YOU.

"Princess" "urinating on your feet" was definitely not the way to go.

The first thing you should do is try to connect with her profile (if possible) your opener was decent, but you carried it out for too long. Look back a few pages in this thread you'll see openers we use and how to respond.

You let this girl take control of the frame and she started qualifying you ex. "have to meet certain requirements. like would you peed on foot if i got a jellyfish sting there" this a double whammy - she turned the frame on you AND brought up a shit test.

(08-13-2014 11:06 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-13-2014 10:47 AM)nickcheng825 Wrote:  

(08-13-2014 10:36 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  "my princess"? That was pretty cringeworthy, dude. Haha. I think you need to change your text game up a bit. Look back at the past 20-25 pages or so and get a feel for how some of the guys here spit game on Tinder. But to answer your question, it's only been 12 hours. If she doesn't reply within the next 24 hours, shoot a restart text.

Gee thanks man.

It's constructive criticism we're all here to better our game in our own way.

You're texting here way too much, keep it simple. Get rid of the faces.

You should be qualifying her aka challenging her and see if she's worthy of YOU.

"Princess" "urinating on your feet" was definitely not the way to go.

The first thing you should do is try to connect with her profile (if possible) your opener was decent, but you carried it out for too long. Look back a few pages in this thread you'll see openers we use and how to respond.

You let this girl take control of the frame and she started qualifying you ex. "have to meet certain requirements. like would you peed on foot if i got a jellyfish sting there" this a double whammy - she turned the frame on you AND brought up a shit test.

Thanks, good advice.

Any advice for how to take control of situation again?

(08-13-2014 12:32 PM)nickcheng825 Wrote:  Any advice for how to take control of situation again?

Use restart texts (use the forum search function for this).

You could use some like this:

Did you die (without the question mark)

I see someone died from jellyfish stings

Did you already head to the island without me

Apparently someone died by jellyfish stings stranded on an island.


These are a few off the top of my head without even thinking much.


If she doesn't respond, who cares ! Plenty of other girls and matches on Tinder !

(08-13-2014 12:32 PM)nickcheng825 Wrote:  Any advice for how to take control of situation again?

I think it's dead. But try saying:

"Anyway. Let's get a drink."

In the future, ask her out faster. After she said "... maybe you," I'd have said "Fuck yeah. Anyway, how about a drink later."

I'm experimenting with this new approach on Tinder. My neighborhood is not the coolest one, but it's up and coming with some pretty cool bars near my place. What I do on Tinder is tell chicks how cool it is and how much better it's become recently, that they should come over to check it out and I'll show them around. I also mention a couple of cool bars that I know and invite them to meet up for drinks.

Got one phone number and tentative plans for next week from a girl who lives 2 bridges over from me. Will try it with more girls. Most will say no, but thanks to tinder liker I have over 100 matches, so can just play numbers game.

Yesterday there was article in the biggest newspaper here about tinder, what it is and how easy it is to hook up with it. Today there are 10x more girls on tinder then yesterday. It really works well here.

(08-13-2014 11:16 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  I'm experimenting with this new approach on Tinder. My neighborhood is not the coolest one, but it's up and coming with some pretty cool bars near my place. What I do on Tinder is tell chicks how cool it is and how much better it's become recently, that they should come over to check it out and I'll show them around. I also mention a couple of cool bars that I know and invite them to meet up for drinks.

Got one phone number and tentative plans for next week from a girl who lives 2 bridges over from me. Will try it with more girls. Most will say no, but thanks to tinder liker I have over 100 matches, so can just play numbers game.

Don't have a negative approach to "most will say no"

We have 2 pretty cool shopping centers near us that you can walk around.

I've brought countless girls to bars there, I have a bar on lock for dates and know the girl bartenders (SMV).

Keep pushing to meet near your place and have logistics on lock aka bars, venues, your pad. Good luck man !

Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

(08-14-2014 01:51 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

It seems you kind of got her interest... so silence may NOT play out too well unless you think she will keep pursuing this (which I am NOT sure).. Probably only you can weigh the probabilities that she would continue to pursue with your previous success or lack thereof in that arena...

You could respond: "We could skip the drinks, then."

that kind of response would seem to reframe the conversation in your direction and keeps you off of the defensive..

Well i'm back after my 7 day suspension for "text speak". Which doesnt make sense as i always post from my phone so it's hard not to but whatever.

Anyways the last girl i posted about did indeed flop which was whack. That girl was heavily into me then apologized next morning and wanted to make plans again then disappeared so i deleted the number.

I got this one really hot match whos ONE MILE AWAY. My cock is seriously pulsating.



Then this girl who told me to come see her but is 30 mins away

(3rd one from the right)

The girls that seem into me the most are always like 25+ mins away. Probably has something to do with my area being mostly black/brown and most of the hot white girls are in the suburbs beside me.

(08-13-2014 12:32 PM)nickcheng825 Wrote:  Any advice for how to take control of situation again?

You blew it brah. You tried to get sexual/flirty and she ignored.

(08-14-2014 02:06 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 01:51 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

It seems you kind of got her interest... so silence may NOT play out too well unless you think she will keep pursuing this (which I am NOT sure).. Probably only you can weigh the probabilities that she would continue to pursue with your previous success or lack thereof in that arena...

You could respond: "We could skip the drinks, then."

that kind of response would seem to reframe the conversation in your direction and keeps you off of the defensive..

"I'm a busy man who doesn't wast time and knows what he wants, unless you like indecisive little boys" - I've used this line to great effect, just have to frame it right.

(08-14-2014 02:43 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:06 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 01:51 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

It seems you kind of got her interest... so silence may NOT play out too well unless you think she will keep pursuing this (which I am NOT sure).. Probably only you can weigh the probabilities that she would continue to pursue with your previous success or lack thereof in that arena...

You could respond: "We could skip the drinks, then."

that kind of response would seem to reframe the conversation in your direction and keeps you off of the defensive..

"I'm a busy man who doesn't wast time and knows what he wants, unless you like indecisive little boys" - I've used this line to great effect, just have to frame it right.

Thanks for the advice guys. Just thought you'd be interested in knowing how the interaction continued from that point:

ME: We could skip the drinks, then
HER: What's after drinks
HER: ?
ME: Thats like asking how a movie will end before you watch it
HER: Is that so? So what do u have in mind if I agree to Saturday?
ME: Lets plan to meet at a cafe in Adams Morgan. I'll think of a place. Whats your number?
HER: Anywhere but DC
ME: I'm not familiar with the suburbs
HER: Time to take an adventure and explore
ME: You seem like you know this place well. Which areas of nova have good bars?
HER: Arlington, clarendon, reston, tysons, Fairfax
HER: I've lived here for over 22 years


She sent the last message at around 8 last night. I haven't responded because the logistics for me to get out of the city is shitty (takes an hour to get into the suburbs from D.C.), and frankly I think it gives her too much power if I have to agree to travel an hour to meet. That time could be better spent just trolling bars by myself, if only for more experience on doing cold approaches.

Anything fun I could say here, or just unmatch and move on?

Looks like Bullocks got banned for "text speak".....he seemed like he came over from the BodyBuildling.com Tinder Thread....they all talk like that there.

Also, I wasn't sure if he was trolling us with all those girls hitting him up first on tinder or if he really does have good looking guy game.

(08-15-2014 12:36 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:43 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:06 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 01:51 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

It seems you kind of got her interest... so silence may NOT play out too well unless you think she will keep pursuing this (which I am NOT sure).. Probably only you can weigh the probabilities that she would continue to pursue with your previous success or lack thereof in that arena...

You could respond: "We could skip the drinks, then."

that kind of response would seem to reframe the conversation in your direction and keeps you off of the defensive..

"I'm a busy man who doesn't wast time and knows what he wants, unless you like indecisive little boys" - I've used this line to great effect, just have to frame it right.

Thanks for the advice guys. Just thought you'd be interested in knowing how the interaction continued from that point:

ME: We could skip the drinks, then
HER: What's after drinks
HER: ?
ME: Thats like asking how a movie will end before you watch it
HER: Is that so? So what do u have in mind if I agree to Saturday?
ME: Lets plan to meet at a cafe in Adams Morgan. I'll think of a place. Whats your number?
HER: Anywhere but DC
ME: I'm not familiar with the suburbs
HER: Time to take an adventure and explore
ME: You seem like you know this place well. Which areas of nova have good bars?
HER: Arlington, clarendon, reston, tysons, Fairfax
HER: I've lived here for over 22 years


She sent the last message at around 8 last night. I haven't responded because the logistics for me to get out of the city is shitty (takes an hour to get into the suburbs from D.C.), and frankly I think it gives her too much power if I have to agree to travel an hour to meet. That time could be better spent just trolling bars by myself, if only for more experience on doing cold approaches.

Anything fun I could say here, or just unmatch and move on?

I'm assuming Cafe Morgan is in DC ?

She isn't down to come out to see you, but she is countering with some offers of places to go, seems like she's interested.

Depends on how hot this girl is, if she's a 6 or 7....then you're right, your time is better spent on investing in other girls.

If she's a solid HB 8+ that's on you to decide.

Explain your logistics ? Why does it take you that long to get out there ? Public transportation ?

Your guy seems to be telling you that you can do better and improve game instead of falling into a girls frame an hour away.

(08-15-2014 01:12 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-15-2014 12:36 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:43 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:06 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 01:51 PM)muchdaylight Wrote:  Hey guys, looking for some input on the following exchange:

ME: Hey how're you doing
HER: Good morning I'm doing well how are you?
ME: Waiting for the weekend and pretending to be busy at work. Where do you usually hang out?
HER: Pretending to be busy I'm there with ya. Hmmm XXXX XXX XXXX just around the XXXX area
ME: Cool, we should meet up for a drink sometime. Hows Saturday at 7?
HER: Sorry got called into a meeting.
HER: No time is wasted huh?


I feel at this point I should just say nothing. Is there anything you guys see that could tighten my game?

It seems you kind of got her interest... so silence may NOT play out too well unless you think she will keep pursuing this (which I am NOT sure).. Probably only you can weigh the probabilities that she would continue to pursue with your previous success or lack thereof in that arena...

You could respond: "We could skip the drinks, then."

that kind of response would seem to reframe the conversation in your direction and keeps you off of the defensive..

"I'm a busy man who doesn't wast time and knows what he wants, unless you like indecisive little boys" - I've used this line to great effect, just have to frame it right.

Thanks for the advice guys. Just thought you'd be interested in knowing how the interaction continued from that point:

ME: We could skip the drinks, then
HER: What's after drinks
HER: ?
ME: Thats like asking how a movie will end before you watch it
HER: Is that so? So what do u have in mind if I agree to Saturday?
ME: Lets plan to meet at a cafe in Adams Morgan. I'll think of a place. Whats your number?
HER: Anywhere but DC
ME: I'm not familiar with the suburbs
HER: Time to take an adventure and explore
ME: You seem like you know this place well. Which areas of nova have good bars?
HER: Arlington, clarendon, reston, tysons, Fairfax
HER: I've lived here for over 22 years


She sent the last message at around 8 last night. I haven't responded because the logistics for me to get out of the city is shitty (takes an hour to get into the suburbs from D.C.), and frankly I think it gives her too much power if I have to agree to travel an hour to meet. That time could be better spent just trolling bars by myself, if only for more experience on doing cold approaches.

Anything fun I could say here, or just unmatch and move on?

I'm assuming Cafe Morgan is in DC ?

She isn't down to come out to see you, but she is countering with some offers of places to go, seems like she's interested.

Depends on how hot this girl is, if she's a 6 or 7....then you're right, your time is better spent on investing in other girls.

If she's a solid HB 8+ that's on you to decide.

Explain your logistics ? Why does it take you that long to get out there ? Public transportation ?

Your guy seems to be telling you that you can do better and improve game instead of falling into a girls frame an hour away.

I agree with Kaotic on most of what he says..... and I would add that there seems to be quite a bit of interesting things going on in your text...

1st, she says "anywhere but DC"...... to me that "anywhere but" says that she may even be o.k. with DC... she just has a little hang up with some aspect of DC.. maybe traffic or something.. or maybe crowds or maybe she's just fucking with you... Because is she driving a car or are each of these places that she is suggesting near a subway station? the subway is pretty easy and widespread in DC... except it stops running kind of early.. midnight-ish...

second: One of the problems that you have is that you are teetering on letting her frame and choose the location and she probably needs better guidance from you and seems to be willing to take it (at least for now, but that may be deteriorating if you let her go on too much). If you have some specific suggestions, then she may go along with your suggestions... Like say, lets meet at the ______ near the claredon station or whatever..... or if she responds again, "anything but" when you come up with a solution to the logistics, then you may conclude she is being too difficult and she may NOT really be down for anything except for wishy-washy girl stuff.. though sometimes girls can be a little wishy-washy in the beginning because they are still getting comfortable, but they may settle down once there is kind of a plan in place.. like let's meet at x and go see y movie and then go for slurpies at z .. (although that may be too many items... )

(08-15-2014 01:09 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Looks like Bullocks got banned for "text speak".....he seemed like he came over from the BodyBuildling.com Tinder Thread....they all talk like that there.

Also, I wasn't sure if he was trolling us with all those girls hitting him up first on tinder or if he really does have good looking guy game.

I'm pretty sure he was trolling. Is it not ironic that besides being this crazily good looking guy who was constantly getting matched with 8's+, he was always complaining about being flaked on? When some guys here asked to see some pics of him - I wouldn't have shared my pics either but I would've at least addressed WHY I wasn't going to do so - he made a point to deliberately avoid the questions and/or go inactive for a few days, then come back with a convo of some 9 he seduced.

But who knows, if he is indeed Captain Pretty Boy ® then more power to him.