(07-16-2014 01:09 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^A buddy of mine in a decent band used to tell girls he was going on tour, even if he wasn't so they wouldn't get attached or try to chill w/him past the ONS.

Maybe that would work with you.

That's a good one. I have a slew of seeds that I plant when I first meet the girl.. things that I can refer back to when I need them.

Examples:

I get random calls from my friends sometimes to help them DJ or do music stuff (this is good for when you want to kick them out after a early evening bang).

Another is I'm starting a new recording project that I have to prep for.


These are actually based on things in my life.. things that have actually come up.

The point is to set it all up in that first conversation. Everything. I drop hints about booze at my place, all the different baits.

There's almost no part of my initial talk with girls that doesn't serve any function.

Truth is that a man should only speak when he has a good reason to anyway.


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Just finished my date with an 8 Russian girl. Skinny with Jet black hair and beautiful eyes. From online. Had a natural beauty to her and wore a shirt with side-boob view.. even though she didn't have big ones, I've got a thing for side boob shirts because they make her seem available. Teeth were meh, but she's still a fine piece.

We didn't have much time, but it could turn into something when she gets back from vacation in August. Seem like a lot of people are leaving town this week.

Russian girls can be a tough nut to crack sometimes. They don't have the same kind of slut-to-prove-a-point mentality that American girls do. This girl doesn't drink.

Left it on a good note, and even though we went back to my house, I didn't try any "funny business". Kept it casual.. didn't want to seem to desperate and push for a lot of physical escalation because of time constraints and
my experience with Russian girls being more traditional.

I did try top demonstrate as much value as possible.. played music for her, talked about travel..

I've got this new thing that I do with roleplaying.

After the girl has told me several things about her, and I've told her some stuff about me, we reach a time where some humor comes in.

It can be called the joke moment. It's like an ice breaker moment to take some pressure off of the fact that we are two strangers on a date.

What I'll do is combine what she's told me with what I've told her roleplay a travel journey or what our marriage would be like.

For example.. this girl told me she doesn't eat chocolate or drink, likes to cook vegetables, is taking a vacation in Costa Rica and works as an economist. I told her that I play music, I do drink, and I had a cookie when we met.

So I said something like: "Here's what we'll do- we'll buy a shack in Costa Rica.. I'll play music and eat cookies while you can cook us veggie dinner and make sure we don't run out of money "

Got a good laugh out of it.. built some comfort.

it pisses me off when a girl reaches out to you to touch base after a few years, then finally mentions she has a bf when you're about to hangout

i need to do deep research before

(07-16-2014 03:35 PM)kaotic Wrote:  it pisses me off when a girl reaches out to you to touch base after a few years, then finally mentions she has a bf when you're about to hangout

i need to do deep research before

Hey- she wants to hang out for a reason..

I've had girls drop the boyf shit test.

Go get drinks, and maybe something will "just happen" (girls hamstering for slutting it up).

Who knows.. she might be on bad terms with him.

Went out with a 25 y.o. milf last week who i thought was definitely dtf. Half an hour into the date she told me she had to leave in 20 minutes because her babysitter was leavting. Lost all motivation and just talked for the rest of the time, zero escalation. Walked her home and hugged goodbye and didnt receive any text from her. in my experience this generally means i won't see the girl again.

just set up another meetup with her for Friday night and probably gonna just go hail mary

have another lunch date Friday with this girl whom i've been texting for months and flaked several times. Not sure how far I can escalate since it's during the day...

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texted my regulars today and two of them told me they will be out of town. i swear it's like there's a broad version of RooshV with thread titled "if your fuck buddy wants to hang this week tell them you'll be out of town! cuz it's time to find a new one!" shit going on.

the third chick just stopped replying when i went for logistic.

i sense the collapse of my team

(07-16-2014 04:20 PM)wandenreich Wrote:  i sense the collapse of my team

Sorry to hear that bro, it's a rough moment when your harem as a whole collapses.

Remember, you rebuild it and grow stronger.

Something weird is going on today.. I just got hit up by another 8 girl I've been playing phone tag/flake with. It's weird because I'm almost always the one who was doing the hitting up with girls from online- I always felt like I had to initiate.

Anyone else notice weird shot going on with their game today? I wonder if it's because I stopped sending out consistent mass texts.

(07-16-2014 04:09 PM)soup Wrote:  

(07-16-2014 03:35 PM)kaotic Wrote:  it pisses me off when a girl reaches out to you to touch base after a few years, then finally mentions she has a bf when you're about to hangout

i need to do deep research before

Hey- she wants to hang out for a reason..

I've had girls drop the boyf shit test.

Go get drinks, and maybe something will "just happen" (girls hamstering for slutting it up).

Who knows.. she might be on bad terms with him.

not the stupid broad wants to bring one of her friends

i told her, "what is this, 3rd wheeling, how do you know (broad you want to bring)"

"third wheel ? wait you didn't think this was a date right !? Lol I have a bf."

are you fucking kidding me, bitch must be thirsty for attention, and she's bringing a girl who is kind of a cockblock, the perfect play on her part, I'll give her credit.

completely ejecting from this one

I would've told her to send me a pic of her friend first and if she's cute I'd tell her to bring her along and game her instead.

Yeah- eject but next time figure out a way to find out what's up without showing your hand.

(07-15-2014 08:18 AM)casio Wrote:  I normally don't do daytime approaches, but because of reading the forum & the fact that she was a very beautiful (8.5-9) 18 year old that stood out in the crowd at a local festival this weekend, I did anyway and got the number. She seems to live closeby to my place.

Text exchange this morning
(11.41) Me: Anything to do tomorrow night?
(11.46) She: Euh, I have to work during the day, but I'm free in the evening
(13.01) Me: Cool, I'm home tomorrow evening, so if you'd like to come by.. You know where I live now right. 20h?
(13.11) She: Ok :-p And would you find it ok if I would bring someone or rather not?
(13.45) Me: Your bodyguard? No worries, I don't bite (unintentionally)
(13.53) She: No, it's not that I don't trust you, but because there's a girl driving with me from work
(14.16) Me: Sounds weird, no. If the timing isn't ok, no problem, we'll do it later, just let me know
(14.20) She: Ok, no problem - I will But thanks for inviting me
(14.21) Me: k
(14.26) She: Hey but Casio, if I would come a bit later, and drop her of at home first, would it be ok for you if I come afterwards?
(14.27) Me: Yeah, no problem - I'm home anyway tomorrow
(14.29) She: Ok super Cya tomorrow!

I checked her fb, she has multiple pictures with +100 and +200 likes and orbiters saying how great she looks. She's quite young and obviously not used to being rejected.

Had an ok night with her, but when i tried to kiss her she was withholding, saying she doesn't want to be "easy". Didn't want to force it because she was within my social circle, but she did send me 2 more msg afterwards.

I'll see her again on sunday at a festival but logistics don't match so I doubt much will happen.

Had my first massage ever, happened to be a couples massage with a main HB 8.

I can mark off having sex in a massage room haha

Gave my number to cute Israeli girl. She got back to me a couple days later. We arrange a date for that night. Later she flakes apologetically, and suggests another time but doesn't state when. I say 'k' and leave it. Silence for four days and then I send her a moderately explicit sexually toned message. She responds with all kinds of self righteous bullshit about it being inappropriate and the like. Haha it was fun. Not giving a fuck right now. Next

Also I was given a fake number today, I wasn't surprised but I had a good laugh with the hairy bastard whose number it was.

(07-16-2014 06:16 PM)casio Wrote:  

(07-15-2014 08:18 AM)casio Wrote:  I normally don't do daytime approaches, but because of reading the forum & the fact that she was a very beautiful (8.5-9) 18 year old that stood out in the crowd at a local festival this weekend, I did anyway and got the number. She seems to live closeby to my place.

Text exchange this morning
(11.41) Me: Anything to do tomorrow night?
(11.46) She: Euh, I have to work during the day, but I'm free in the evening
(13.01) Me: Cool, I'm home tomorrow evening, so if you'd like to come by.. You know where I live now right. 20h?
(13.11) She: Ok :-p And would you find it ok if I would bring someone or rather not?
(13.45) Me: Your bodyguard? No worries, I don't bite (unintentionally)
(13.53) She: No, it's not that I don't trust you, but because there's a girl driving with me from work
(14.16) Me: Sounds weird, no. If the timing isn't ok, no problem, we'll do it later, just let me know
(14.20) She: Ok, no problem - I will But thanks for inviting me
(14.21) Me: k
(14.26) She: Hey but Casio, if I would come a bit later, and drop her of at home first, would it be ok for you if I come afterwards?
(14.27) Me: Yeah, no problem - I'm home anyway tomorrow
(14.29) She: Ok super Cya tomorrow!

I checked her fb, she has multiple pictures with +100 and +200 likes and orbiters saying how great she looks. She's quite young and obviously not used to being rejected.

Had an ok night with her, but when i tried to kiss her she was withholding, saying she doesn't want to be "easy". Didn't want to force it because she was within my social circle, but she did send me 2 more msg afterwards.

I'll see her again on sunday at a festival but logistics don't match so I doubt much will happen.

When chicks tell me they dont want to be easy, I just think "bitch, you already made up your mind that you want to fuck......so I know you're a whore either way!"

Just got back from a college bar, made out with 2 girls, got called "asshole" 4 and rejected 11. That was rough :/

Still made out with 2 more girls than i did tonight. Keep plowin man !

(07-17-2014 01:01 AM)kaotic Wrote:  Still made out with 2 more girls than i did tonight. Keep plowin man !

Man, I noticed that my asshole game is just on point. It got the best responses, period. I'm calibrating it for best results, these girls got a cruel streak that is just crazy.

After 3 weeks of working like crazy in a corporate internship I finally went out dancing salsa again. Was horrified how low my game has plunged. I suddenly find myself fumbling in front of girls. The usual irrational confidence was all gone.

Venue changed a girl who went with me to have a drink. Have fun, tease her but didnt escalate out of fear????? I also need to learn to calibrate. Mostly on this forum we deal with bitchy US girls so asshole game is top choice. Here I have a docile French blonde in front of me and I still neg her too much. Thankfully I always do it with a laugh.

Im starting to really consider getting out of my LTR. I have an awesome, submissive and feminine Korean girlfriend that I got with game, but Im spending way too much time with her that my game got rusty. If it keeps going, the day we break up (which will always arrive) I will find myself lost with no game to back up my desire.

(07-17-2014 03:14 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  Im starting to really consider getting out of my LTR. I have an awesome, submissive and feminine Korean girlfriend that I got with game, but Im spending way too much time with her that my game got rusty. If it keeps going, the day we break up (which will always arrive) I will find myself lost with no game to back up my desire.

You're not the only one, it's like watching a slow train wreck. You know it's going to happen, just a matter of when. Then you begin to think "why am I watching this train wreck happen?".

Better start finding back up options bro!

This has probably been covered multiple times, but what's your guys' go to when a girl won't stop pestering you about how many girls you've fucked?

(07-17-2014 05:00 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  This has probably been covered multiple times, but what's your guys' go to when a girl won't stop pestering you about how many girls you've fucked?

Tell her with a straight face but exaggerated gestures: "Ive never held a girl's hand in my life, I swear"

(07-17-2014 05:10 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:00 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  This has probably been covered multiple times, but what's your guys' go to when a girl won't stop pestering you about how many girls you've fucked?

Tell her with a straight face but exaggerated gestures: "Ive never held a girl's hand in my life, I swear"

I've already banged this girl tho. I'm flying home next week and she wants to hang out when I get back, but she keeps pestering me about how many girls I fucked during my summer abroad

(07-17-2014 05:13 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:10 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:00 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  This has probably been covered multiple times, but what's your guys' go to when a girl won't stop pestering you about how many girls you've fucked?

Tell her with a straight face but exaggerated gestures: "Ive never held a girl's hand in my life, I swear"

I've already banged this girl tho. I'm flying home next week and she wants to hang out when I get back, but she keeps pestering me about how many girls I fucked during my summer abroad

Lol then its exactly like my gf. She would not shut up about how old I am. I keep telling her "im as old as you want me to be" etc. I feel like dragging out the joke and playfully frustrate the shit out of her is really fun and in the end up your game significantly.

So u could say "as many girls as you can imagine" etc. Jez I dunno bro, theres so many way. Bottom like is dont give her a straight answer. You want to keep that pussy for rebang.

(07-17-2014 06:21 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:13 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:10 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(07-17-2014 05:00 AM)Hans Dix Wrote:  This has probably been covered multiple times, but what's your guys' go to when a girl won't stop pestering you about how many girls you've fucked?

Tell her with a straight face but exaggerated gestures: "Ive never held a girl's hand in my life, I swear"

I've already banged this girl tho. I'm flying home next week and she wants to hang out when I get back, but she keeps pestering me about how many girls I fucked during my summer abroad

Lol then its exactly like my gf. She would not shut up about how old I am. I keep telling her "im as old as you want me to be" etc. I feel like dragging out the joke and playfully frustrate the shit out of her is really fun and in the end up your game significantly.

So u could say "as many girls as you can imagine" etc. Jez I dunno bro, theres so many way. Bottom like is dont give her a straight answer. You want to keep that pussy for rebang.

This is a tricky one.

If it's a girl you hadn't banged, I'd say agree and amplify to play with her and build attraction.

If it's a girl you've already been banging regularly, and she's still bugging you about, it might be time to take a more serious tone.

You can tell her that you aren't a numbers person, and that you don't keep track of that kind of thing.. you just go on vibe and connection.. there were periods in your life when you were single and there where times when you had a steady girlfriend. What matters to you is connection and being content either way.


Then, you can lay in with some dread that will imply that if she keeps bringing it up, she's going to push you away. It's ok to do this because the reason she's asking you about how many girls you've hooked up with is that she likes you a lot.

That's the game... she's losing it because she's making her hand clear.

Whatever happens, I think it's best to play it cool, because this is some kind of shit test.

As far as the dread instilling story/conversation goes, I wouldn't bring it up right then and there or it might be too obvious that you are making trying to make a point. I'd change the subject at the moment, and bring up the story at another time.. it could about your friend who had a girlfriend that was nagging him all the time and he couldn't take it so he broke up with her..

"yeah it was crazy... she wouldn't stop."


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Score one for the redpill- my hippy girl showed up to hang with me on our last night before she leaves town with shaved armpits and completely shaved pussy. She did have a little diamon nose piercing that she got.. guess you can't win 'em all. It wasn't that noticeable.

Id say it's none of her business just like who she fucks is none of mine

Or flip the script and put the pressure on her and how many she fucked

Soups breakdown is money !