(07-01-2014 03:29 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Alright this is an interesting I haven't done before:

Backstory:

28, POF girl, got her number quick. I can automatically tell this girl is thirsty as hell and even a possible SIF with big ass tits. Immediately asks to KIK (text app), or FB, or IG. Obviously this girl is gathering thirsty dudes to follow her. I say no to all them, pass her shit test, she gives me her digits.

We text a bit, I test her by calling her, we have a good convo. She said her POF dates were thirsty, clingy, indecisive. She can tell I'm the opposite and says it's refreshing.

Situation:

Text her this SUNDAY to plan meeting monday, she confirmed.
MONDAY at noon, I text her letting her know I got offered to work a show and that we should reschedule (Devo was in town doing a RARE show and I'd help work it also.) (I also was rolling a main HB 8 girl and 2 other attractive girls who were my friends ladies)

She offers tues or weds, i told her i'd text her and let her know.

So at 11am (tuesday) today we agree to meet at 8:30 today:

girls: 8:30 ?
kaotic: yes
girl: ya just call me later
kaotic: k
girl: imma have to cancel for tonight, work just called and i have to go in at 6 tmrw morn. Need my sleep! Sry hun

Response options:

-no response- go radio silent
-text her back and reschedule later this week- (could show desperation)
"gay"
"lame"
"k"
"lolz"
"i'm way more fun than I have to get up early guy" (i like this one)

TL;DR - POF girl, I showed strong frame and alpha characteristics over the phone, flaked on her, now she's flaking back. NEED GOOD RESPONSE

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/07/01/pfft-game/ this was published right on time, don't you think?

(07-01-2014 03:37 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  [quote='kaotic' pid='769441' dateline='1404246557']

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/07/01/pfft-game/ this was published right on time, don't you think?

Dammit Ethic, you're on it ! Seriously that post was meant for me ! I sent "pfft" haven't had a response back. Honestly I need to step back, I've been a little sloppy at my game. Haven't had a new date in probably a month, which I think is due to flakiness and me being a bit lazy on text game.

So, I hit up the same girl I posted about before yesterday with "yo (name) whats up"

and she doesn't respond for a full day, and hits me back with "heeeey whats up naan ? Not much here same thing different day... any plans for 4th of july?"

It's sorta funny that she gave me the full 24 hours before responding. Obviously, I shouldn't respond for at least a day or two. I'm thinking I'll just hit her up next week or something. I don't want to hit her up tonight, cuz I have plans, or tmrw, because it's right before the weekend and she probably already has plans set in place. I'm thinking next monday would be best?

(07-02-2014 09:23 AM)Fortis Wrote:  So, I hit up the same girl I posted about before yesterday with "yo (name) whats up"

and she doesn't respond for a full day, and hits me back with "heeeey whats up naan ? Not much here same thing different day... any plans for 4th of july?"

It's sorta funny that she gave me the full 24 hours before responding. Obviously, I shouldn't respond for at least a day or two. I'm thinking I'll just hit her up next week or something. I don't want to hit her up tonight, cuz I have plans, or tmrw, because it's right before the weekend and she probably already has plans set in place. I'm thinking next monday would be best?

Maybe hit her up sunday evening, everyone's settling in and unwinding in bed (usually) and scrolling through their phone.

(07-02-2014 11:10 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(07-02-2014 09:23 AM)Fortis Wrote:  So, I hit up the same girl I posted about before yesterday with "yo (name) whats up"

and she doesn't respond for a full day, and hits me back with "heeeey whats up naan ? Not much here same thing different day... any plans for 4th of july?"

It's sorta funny that she gave me the full 24 hours before responding. Obviously, I shouldn't respond for at least a day or two. I'm thinking I'll just hit her up next week or something. I don't want to hit her up tonight, cuz I have plans, or tmrw, because it's right before the weekend and she probably already has plans set in place. I'm thinking next monday would be best?

Maybe hit her up sunday evening, everyone's settling in and unwinding in bed (usually) and scrolling through their phone.

Good idea. Will do.

girl wants to fuck but shit tests me
i tell her i have a Gf

her: i always wanted to be a homwrecker low key

me: she still wouldn't leave me but u could be my lil secret
get urself cute for tmr

her: well now my fantasy is ruined and im no longer interested

(07-03-2014 01:16 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  girl wants to fuck but shit tests me
i tell her i have a Gf

her: i always wanted to be a homwrecker low key

me: she still wouldn't leave me but u could be my lil secret
get urself cute for tmr

her: well now my fantasy is ruined and im no longer interested

How much have you invested in this girl? I'd next her. You'll probably thank yourself later for not getting involved with someone that appears to be nuts.

^1st don't tell girls you have a gf.

2nd Let her think she has a chance to get you. That's a part of game people don't want to talk about, but 'leading them on' is sometimes a part of getting the lay.

^1st don't tell girls you have a gf.

2nd Let her think she has a chance to get you. That's a part of game people don't want to talk about, but 'leading them on' is sometimes a part of getting the lay.

I don't it's an inside joke we're roleplaying


What should i txt back cmq?

ps: to hallsan she def wants the d

So, the "im no longer interested" is part of the roleplaying? How are you so sure that she does? Have you already been fooling around with her?

With the amount of info you have shared, there isn't enough to effectively suggest something to text.

It sounds like you really want this girl and so I hope you get it, but I wouldn't bet on it.

So... I try to set something up with my hottest regular the other day, and this happens:

Me: lets do osaka next wk
Her (after 3 day radio silence): I'm getting married!

I knew she had a boyfriend because she always talks about how lame he is, but I figured I owned her pussy. Any ideas? I can let her go, but she's bomb as shit...

delete

Yep, ignore the first text and respond to the second but wait a couple of hours.

Her first text is a shit test to see if you'll turn into a beta bitch boy and apologize. Don't.

(07-03-2014 01:16 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  girl wants to fuck but shit tests me
i tell her i have a Gf

her: i always wanted to be a homwrecker low key

me: she still wouldn't leave me but u could be my lil secret
get urself cute for tmr

her: well now my fantasy is ruined and im no longer interested

Did you think she was serious? She's just playing around man. You should have hit her back with something like "Good, finally got you off my hands."

Number closed a chick last night, followed up this morning so she knew who the number was.

She seemed pretty interested. It's my bday weekend also.

Should i do a quick drink with her tonight and use my bday as a reason to meet(or is to early and sounds needy?) - i feel like it might be

Or should i set plans for early this week for drinks ? - im leaning towards this

edit. sorry.

(07-06-2014 01:32 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Number closed a chick last night, followed up this morning so she knew who the number was.

She seemed pretty interested. It's my bday weekend also.

Should i do a quick drink with her tonight and use my bday as a reason to meet(or is to early and sounds needy?) - i feel like it might be

Or should i set plans for early this week for drinks ? - im leaning towards this

I would say the latter, but no harm in mentioning your birthday at some point soon.

I should mention i texted this already as well:

Kaotic:Guess you aren't a badass like me! Oh PS you owe me a birthday drink!

Girl:Haha definitely. I hardly drink, so I was wasted.

I met a cute girl Saturday night, I know for a fact that on Thursday she leaves the country for 6 weeks, I will no longer be here when she comes back. I went through her facebook pics and she is by far the cutest of her friends, so there is no one worth introducing me to. I haven't gotten to my stage of game where I can bang her before that. I met her through a group of common friends so I won't be too much of a dick. I've already made contact how do I tell her to get lost?

Tinder girl digs my vibe and sexuality (seems very submissive + sexual) but is bad at making plans.

Me: Free tomorrow night?
Her: I'm not, sorry :/
Me: What nights are good for the next couple of weeks?
Her: Rly not sure I'm sorry
*Wait 20 minutes* Me: Yawn
Her: I'm sowwy

Should I:
Ignore?
Respond (with what?)
or Eject?

(07-06-2014 10:57 PM)Renberg Wrote:  Tinder girl digs my vibe and sexuality (seems very submissive + sexual) but is bad at making plans.

Me: Free tomorrow night?
Her: I'm not, sorry :/
Me: What nights are good for the next couple of weeks?
Her: Rly not sure I'm sorry
*Wait 20 minutes* Me: Yawn
Her: I'm sowwy

Should I:
Ignore?
Respond (with what?)
or Eject?

Rule of Thumb: If a chick doesn't offer another night, then eject.

What this chick is doing, is literally offering NOTHING in return, but soaking up the validation she's getting from you.

Ignore.

(07-06-2014 11:02 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(07-06-2014 10:57 PM)Renberg Wrote:  Tinder girl digs my vibe and sexuality (seems very submissive + sexual) but is bad at making plans.

Me: Free tomorrow night?
Her: I'm not, sorry :/
Me: What nights are good for the next couple of weeks?
Her: Rly not sure I'm sorry
*Wait 20 minutes* Me: Yawn
Her: I'm sowwy

Should I:
Ignore?
Respond (with what?)
or Eject?

Rule of Thumb: If a chick doesn't offer another night, then eject.

What this chick is doing, is literally offering NOTHING in return, but soaking up the validation she's getting from you.

Ignore.

Thanks, McQueen. She was telling me the other night she wants to fuck me -- so I'll ignore. If she gets back to me, we'll schedule something. If not, fuck her.

(07-06-2014 11:04 PM)Renberg Wrote:  

(07-06-2014 11:02 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(07-06-2014 10:57 PM)Renberg Wrote:  Tinder girl digs my vibe and sexuality (seems very submissive + sexual) but is bad at making plans.

Me: Free tomorrow night?
Her: I'm not, sorry :/
Me: What nights are good for the next couple of weeks?
Her: Rly not sure I'm sorry
*Wait 20 minutes* Me: Yawn
Her: I'm sowwy

Should I:
Ignore?
Respond (with what?)
or Eject?

Rule of Thumb: If a chick doesn't offer another night, then eject.

What this chick is doing, is literally offering NOTHING in return, but soaking up the validation she's getting from you.

Ignore.

Thanks, McQueen. She was telling me the other night she wants to fuck me -- so I'll ignore. If she gets back to me, we'll schedule something. If not, fuck her.

There's some girls who enjoy being cockteases and there's no better way to get multiple guys giving you attention, then to tell them you want to fuck them.

Believe what a girl DOES, not what she SAYS. If she really wants to fuck you, a tornado couldn't keep her from seeing you.

Yesterday I was on my way back from a camping trip, so I shot out this text to a girl. This Polish Au Pair I know.

me: prepare your liver i'm almost back in nj

her (5 hours later): was that text meant for me? ; P
Today

I didn't get home til 1am. Huge 4 hour traffic delay, so i decided to just make her wait for a reply and shot her this text at around noon.

Me: nope but now it is. ha. lets hang out today

her: Id like that but it won't work this week. they're renovating my house and i'm not sleeping there. had to stay at somebody else house.

What does her house getting renovated have to do with anything? Seems like she might be in next territory, or should I just try again next week.