Been talking on the phone and texting back and forth with this girl about bringing her out for a drink or whatever. But then later on, she took a whole day to respond a text and then when I called her on Sunday night she didn't answer the phone.

Now it's Thursday and I thought I shoot her a text today, I'm pretty sure she's just trying to play some sort of a game. Any ideas what to text next? I thought I would just tell her upfront that either she comes out for a drink or I'll just delete her number now. What do you think?

Went out on a date last night. We had a couple of drinks at a bar, I touched her, she was fine with it... then we bounced to my place. The vibe was good, but when I tried to escalate, laid next to her and kissed her, she got scared and left.
This morning, she texted me. Our conversation so far:

-all was good, why did you have to do that?
-?
-u threw yourself on me even after I said no 3 times

What do I reply?

^^^Got lost in the moment...

I don't want to explain myself or give excuses, just looking for a clever and funny response.

It is. This is what an aloof asshole would send, unless she really is pissed then you A) fucked up bad or B) She's a fucking prude or has a bad experience with sex in general (rape)

I thought I'd share a story about what to text next:

TL;DR background, banged this coworker chick a few times when she was 18, then she traveled the south pacific, got back recently, and is about to turn 21. Was interested in hanging out again, wanted to do some blow and drink (my she's grown up).

1:51am
Girl: Hey asshole.
Kaotic: Your ass is lucky I'm coming home from a show and not sleeping.(value?)
Girl: I am lucky? I think it's the other way around.
Kaotic: Whatever makes you feels better, what you up too? (counter her)
Girl: Haha do you still have snap?
Kaotic: Call me I'm to lazy to text (compliancy)
Girl: I am a lil to buzzed/drunk to talk. Haha (at least we know who you're texting late night)
Girl: Go to sleep old man.
Kaotic: Stfu and call me thanks (reiterate compliancy)
Girl: You going to bed?
Kaotic: Nah I'm at the after party for the show. What you doing
Girl: Drinking with some friends
Kaotic: Sounds boring, lets hang and drink this weekend.
Girl: Actually havin a good time.
Girl: yeah maybe
Girl: Let's like actually do somethin...not just hangout at your house. (back to back texts, brings up our history of hanging out aka sex)
Kaotic: Are you asking me to take you out on a date ?
Girl: No I am saying freinds lets hangout outside your house. I refuse to go to x bar!!!!
Kaotic: Nah, I have plenty of friends, don't need girlfriends. I'm down to take you out on a date, nothing less. (strong show of force, let's put it all on the table)
2:28am
Girl: But a date leads to more and that's not what I am saying....I want me and you to go out as friends be able to hang out and talk shit with no intentions. (lolz because we haven't had sex already right ? no thanks)
Kaotic: K. (I'm lmao because I can't wait for the response)
Girl:Don't do that
-IMMEDIATELY CALLS ME- (Of course I ignore it)
Girl: Really ?
2:46am
Girl: Alright whatever Kaotic !
-female hamster spinning in full effect-

Of course I'm going to pretend the last thing I got was "Don't do that"

and text her later today saying, "Huh, don't do what?" have her rephrase what she wants.

By all means texting her was a way to sharpen my text game. I could give 2 fucks if I bang her again.

(06-19-2014 09:35 AM)Brodiaga Wrote:  Went out on a date last night. We had a couple of drinks at a bar, I touched her, she was fine with it... then we bounced to my place. The vibe was good, but when I tried to escalate, laid next to her and kissed her, she got scared and left.
This morning, she texted me. Our conversation so far:

-all was good, why did you have to do that?
-?
-u threw yourself on me even after I said no 3 times

What do I reply?

I didn't really throw myself on her, just kissed her before she left. I didn't want to admit over text to something that never actually happened, so I replied after a few hours:

-Did I?

(radio silence from her)

Not sure how to proceed from here, maybe I should give it some time and then re-initiate the conversation later?

She has hand in the interaction by the looks of it. Don't initiate anything, that would be chasing let her stew and hit up other girls. She sounds like a fucking drama queen if what u said is true. Weird as fuck that she would blow up a kiss for "rape". Dumb cunt.

OK, so I used one of the quality openers mentioned here:
"you look like trouble"

and I got back:
"believe me I am"

What's a good response to that?

(06-19-2014 09:44 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  OK, so I used one of the quality openers mentioned here:
"you look like trouble"

and I got back:
"believe me I am"

What's a good response to that?

"excellent"

"we mite just get along"

Set up logistics for date.

"good. im the worst kind"

"my instincts never fail me"

setting up a date. I'm only in town for a week or so.

girl said: "Use and abuse me then you leave lol"

^^^K. I'll stop by later^^^

Seems better to screen her if she's DTF now then spending a day or two on a attention whore and her not put out. IMO, anyway.

dang that's good. I went with "i'm worth it just ask your mom." I like this line but it feels too much like I'm qualifying myself.

Yep. When i hear the word mom in any joke/txt i think of Kelso for some reason. Shame you already sent the txt...

it had been too long. I didn't even think of this thread until an hour after she texted.

Remember to ask here next time, maybe I'll be around and give you a shout.

met a girl at a bar last week, made
out with her there, tried taking her home but dealt with the "I don't normally do this" spiel. I ended up grabbing drinks with her later on during the week and we vibed pretty well. There was a good amount of touching but I failed to get her back to my place (waited too late) and didn't kiss her. I should have done better.

She mentioned loving to cook and being a huge fan of mac and cheese so i sent her this today:

me: come over monday ill cook a mac n cheese dinner. maybe u can teach me something
her: that sounds nice but i actually have a work thing monday night

I just want to get confirmation from you guys that this is a next before I delete this number.

NEWBIE:

Suggestions needed.

Ok, not sure what I should do next.

Just got this chick's number. Totally my type, brunette, nice face, nice tits. Went out with random people I've never seen before, new friend opens chick, I engage and #-closed, after talking about getting a drink "soon". She says she's travelling, but will be back next week. At the time, she's waiting for some friends. We kiss goodbye (just cheeks) and part ways.

Later on, I bump into her at the bar we were going to (she said she was gonna be there too eventually), and she's looking for her friends. I was heading home, so hug goodbye (or something, can't remember for sure) and go home.

Should I text "nice to meet u" or something in the next 24-36 hours or so? Or do it mid week? Or wait till next week, when she's back in town? She's one of the hottest chicks I've gotten a number from, so I wanna see her again!

(06-21-2014 07:52 PM)redonion Wrote:  met a girl at a bar last week, made
out with her there, tried taking her home but dealt with the "I don't normally do this" spiel. I ended up grabbing drinks with her later on during the week and we vibed pretty well. There was a good amount of touching but I failed to get her back to my place (waited too late) and didn't kiss her. I should have done better.

She mentioned loving to cook and being a huge fan of mac and cheese so i sent her this today:

me: come over monday ill cook a mac n cheese dinner. maybe u can teach me something
her: that sounds nice but i actually have a work thing monday night

I just want to get confirmation from you guys that this is a next before I delete this number.

Txt back: "Work thing?"

You invested too much in the interaction. Mac & Cheese? Nah man, drinks or drugs a are better choice. I see her flaking but let her "explain" herself to you and end it by being on top not the other way around. Other than her offering another time to meet, next her but don't delete the #. With the above, she'll dig your aloofness and maybe chase you in the future.

(06-21-2014 08:07 PM)Frank Wrote:  NEWBIE:

Suggestions needed.

Ok, not sure what I should do next.

Just got this chick's number. Totally my type, brunette, nice face, nice tits. Went out with random people I've never seen before, new friend opens chick, I engage and #-closed, after talking about getting a drink "soon". She says she's travelling, but will be back next week. At the time, she's waiting for some friends. We kiss goodbye (just cheeks) and part ways.

Later on, I bump into her at the bar we were going to (she said she was gonna be there too eventually), and she's looking for her friends. I was heading home, so hug goodbye (or something, can't remember for sure) and go home.

Should I text "nice to meet u" or something in the next 24-36 hours or so? Or do it mid week? Or wait till next week, when she's back in town? She's one of the hottest chicks I've gotten a number from, so I wanna see her again!

U sound thirsty brother. Hugs/cheek kisses are beta, unless your grabbing her ass or saying goodbye the "French way". Txt her midweek with
"Its ___ from xxxx. drinks at xxx on xxx day?

Then after confirming txt her this (30-40 mins later): "Koo. skrt n heels... (got it from McQueen)

(06-21-2014 08:29 PM)J.B Wrote:  U sound thirsty brother. Hugs/cheek kisses are beta, unless your grabbing her ass or saying goodbye the "French way". Txt her midweek with
"Its ___ from xxxx. drinks at xxx on xxx day?

Then after confirming txt her this (30-40 mins later): "Koo. skrt n heels... (got it from McQueen)

Yeah, I am.

Yes, I had a hand down by her ass. Don't think I squeezed it or anything.

Right on. Thanks.

I had a little post-negotiation party at a bar with some coworkers and another firm last night. Our company was paying, so drinks were flowing and the feast was on. Got pretty handsy with one if their girls, but couldn't close due to logistics. She seemed way down, so I settled for a number. Then today I got a text that seems a little bit too much like beta bait...

"Hi Skotch
The drinking party was great! I really enjoyed it last night. Thank you
for a good time and great food "

If she was slightly less attractive, I wouldn't be so suspicious, but she's close to a 9, and that kind if enthusiasm is rare for Japanese people. I was in charge of the reservations and the company card, so it's not really weird that she's thanking me, but it just seems strange. Kind of like she's fishing. Am I reading too much into this, or am I right in assuming it's a test? Any ideas for responses?

^Skotch
Text: 'Friday we're at (some other place)'

Send no other message. Don't speak about it in person.
If she follows up, she's interested. Just pull half a dozen people together and make it happen.
If she doesn't follow up, I'd say forget it.

A girl that I'm suppose to hang out with (we met online) tomorrow suddenly told me that she's going to Germany. Now that's a pretty unique flake! Anyone got a good response?

(06-22-2014 07:41 PM)Borealis Wrote:  A girl that I'm suppose to hang out with (we met online) tomorrow suddenly told me that she's going to Germany. Now that's a pretty unique flake! Anyone got a good response?

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